Karim Abuzaid – Sins Of The Tongue II

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The use of the body as a spoiler for relationships and issues is the root of religion, and the importance of protecting one's eyes and not being the victim of evil is emphasized. Backbiting is a common problem in police presence, and restrictions are necessary when discussing certain topics. The importance of warning against random people coming to a room and sharing false and inaccurate stories is emphasized. The segment also discusses various false and inaccurate statements, including a proposal to allow a woman to come to a sister's house, and the use of "br brothers and sisters in Islam" as a way to avoid negative behavior.

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			In Alhamdulilah
		
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			Nakamoto who won a stallion who won a stock photo?
		
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			When we let him in surely fusina won in
		
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			May yes de la de la
		
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			sala de la
		
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			ilaha illallah wa sallahu la sharika
		
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			Mohammedan Abu rasuluh
		
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			Yo, yo holla Deena takelma haka. tokachi. Wanna come?
		
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			to Muslim moon?
		
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			Yeah, Johan de Pura vida como la de Holla
		
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			Holla caminhada in Houma, regionalen Cathy along
		
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			with De La Villa de
		
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			Luna de Haan in namaha Kannada merkiva
		
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			la Vina mano de la kulu Colin sadita. You slept?
		
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			Well.
		
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			Where are you? How are Rasulullah muhfucka was an AVI ma,
		
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			ma, for Ignace vocal Howdy.
		
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			Howdy, howdy Muhammad sallallahu alayhi, WA alayhi wasallam
		
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			wasaga
		
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			wakulla modesetting bidda
		
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			wakulla, dokkan, Walla Walla Walla Walla in finance.
		
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			Brothers and sisters in Islam. When Allah subhana wa Taala, created these faculties,
		
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			inside or in our bodies, he sent us messengers, to direct us towards the best way to use them.
		
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			For example, the sexual desire
		
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			it is knowing that there is an inclination towards the other gender.
		
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			Now, the best way to use that is to get married to fulfill that desire.
		
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			The love for wolf
		
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			that all of us like to be well off, you can go ahead and you know, try to earn unlawful earnings in
order to be rich, or try to be rich through unlawful business transactions, or trading in something
that is haram. But this is not something that Allah subhana wa Taala will be pleased with the best
way for you to fulfill that desire, that
		
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			basically, thing that you have inside your heart towards wealth is through lawful means the eyes of
Allah subhanho wa Taala, giving these eyes to us in order to reflect upon what he created. And in
order to look at the beautiful things Allah subhanho wa Taala created around us. And in order to
learn lessons from them.
		
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			You could use it in other things, you can actually use it to look into unlawful materials, things
that you're not supposed to look at. Or you can use it to spy with your eyes Yani to steal something
with your eyes, the hearing, and I can go on and on and on and on. But there is one limb in the
body, which we read in the Hadith, that every single day, the rest of the limbs of the body
		
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			would bend that limb, Please behave today.
		
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			Please behave today.
		
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			We're subject to human because of you or we're subject to salvation because of you.
		
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			That limb is the tongue
		
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			and of the lightness of the Allah one. He had a very profound statement when he said that if there
is a limb in your body that needs a life sentence, to be jailed, that you place it behind and your
whole unit is yours.
		
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			tongue and when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam warned us regarding hellfire.
		
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			And we mentioned in particular the tongue
		
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			of the Allah one.
		
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			He was amazed by the fact that the tongue would be one of the reasons for us to be thrown into *.
He said, O Messenger of Allah, do people go through * fire because of their tongue Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam confirm that, and then another Hadith, which is authentic. The Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, however, biotechs are CPUs to limbs in his body. I will secure
Jenna for him.
		
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			Man, young man, Lee, man, in effect, he won Bane, V of Mullah hooligan, if you make sure that you're
protecting what is between the two jewels, and what is between the two fies in reference to the
private port, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam guarantees for you
		
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			Sins of the tongue.
		
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			Many of them backbiting, gossiping, Nina, tail carrying
		
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			lying
		
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			there which witnessing false testimony, cheating and so forth. But you know, I really want to say a
disclaimer here. Before I go on with the football. I'm not talking about any of you. And so Pamela,
every time I give the football, every one things that I'm talking about him actually am talking
about me. Because you know what, we're all guilty one way or another of one of these types. Whether
we do it this way or this way, we are all guilty of it. We're human, we're weak. But, you know, in a
way that the religion of Islam came to govern and structure this tongue Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam told us what to use that time for. You use it for the recitation of the Quran. Use it for
		
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			the remembrance of Allah subhanho wa Taala. You use it to enjoin good and forbid evil, use it to
mend relationship. There is this is the usage, but that negative usage of the tongue is the reason
to go to *. And we're here just to warn ourselves against this.
		
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			To begin Yeah,
		
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			I tell you right now, the tongue is the spoiler of the relationship.
		
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			it spoils people's relationship with one another. Whether that extrusion Quraan wakulla eva de aku,
Letty a son in a shaitan a Enza, Rubina, whom, oh, Mohammed sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, kill my
slaves when they speak, they choose the words carefully, and they need to that the words that come
out of their mouth doesn't carry meanings different than what they were intended for. Because
shaitan will play on the recepients.
		
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			What did he mean by that? Why did he say that? What did he even though the intention of the sender
is totally pure, but the work will be done on who? And the recipient of the information or of the
saying of whatever you're saying.
		
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			it spoils the relationship. And Subhanallah we find a lot of problems in our homes, in our Sushil
circles, small or large in our communities, because he said she said, he said she said
		
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			for you what is the first and foremost sin, which arasu sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and the Quran
have actually warned us against it. alhaja
		
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			though three names here, that they are very related, but they are totally different to one another,
just remember them via which we call
		
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			backbiting.
		
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			Though then, slung during all,
		
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			rumors, rumor mongering, that you spread a rumor about somebody we call this book
		
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			and the third is called Nina
		
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			tales, Carrie.
		
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			mean those three focus on those three
		
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			Salam ala Muslim? Howdy ebihara Ravi Allah one. He one day salovaara Salim asked his companions at
aduna Mel ye.
		
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			Do you know what backbiting is? What is oibre is, of course the Sahaba
		
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			out of politeness, they said Allahu wa rasuluh Allah, Allah and His Messenger Novus, the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam answered the question by saying, backbiting the cuca haka de Maria,
		
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			that you say something about someone else in the absence? Here's the criteria, they would not like
it, they hate for you to say it.
		
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			Here's the question that is in your mind, you're a
		
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			messenger of Allah. Allah in Cana Fie. What if I am saying that what I'm saying about this person is
true.
		
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			is true.
		
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			If what you're saying about this person is true. You have that victim, still, what? A neocon fee,
and that's the second brand for cagiva. And that will book that if he doesn't have what you're
saying then you're slandering him. So those are the two
		
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			those are the two
		
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			bottom so the criteria
		
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			for backbiting that the person doesn't like it to be said about them in their absence. But yet what
comes in a question, because this subject is totally connected to another Hanif delicata Hakuna,
this is a general verdict or ruling fact way on. So you must restrict it. There are some cases where
you find yourself having to backbite
		
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			having to say certain things about people in their absence, they would not like
		
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			Jani method as usual. Hi, Eva. Here's the question, when is it permissible for you to say things
about an individual in the absence which they do not like?
		
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			There are six cases.
		
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			And like I said,
		
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			this has to do with the right for Muslim and another Muslim.
		
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			But what are the six cases? The scholars put them in a
		
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			by Ceriani a poem? They said, I'll
		
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			be rebutting fee septet in backbiting is not considered to be backbiting in six cases, number one
most powerful leaning we'll go over them one by one. What do we mean by
		
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			someone who wronged
		
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			someone you took away his money?
		
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			He's gonna go to the man. Supposedly not until him what this person is good. You're gonna back by
that person, for sure he would not like that. But here's the trick. Here's the trick.
		
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			And our culture in particular back back home, that when you want to get it's ideally when lawyers
send you that
		
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			that letter that you have to respond to in 10 days.
		
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			You know, I like brothers have told me the whole time. You know, you throw a lot of dirt in them and
the wool and you're hoping one or two will stick. You can do this as a Muslim. You can say okay, I
want to get him in trouble. So I'm gonna say the only thing that really took $10 $10 away from you,
that's the only injustice that he committed against you. That's it, no more, no less. Then you go to
the
		
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			authority and you say he kicked me he beaten my wife up he to my children up to
		
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			law. Islam says no.
		
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			Only the area where you were wrong. What is the evidence for this a verse in Surah Nisa and Hadith
		
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			the verse says, you hit
		
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			the
		
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			wall in a lawsuit
		
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			Hello at Allah would like you to speak bad about others unless you're wrong and you want to bring
that you're right. Well how do you feel?
		
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			A man came to the Prophet salallahu Salam ala rasulillah genryu the overseer of Allah, my neighbor
is inflicting harm upon me.
		
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			So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to him, take your belongings out of the house and
stand on the road, as if you're homeless.
		
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			And if when the people ask you, why are you doing this?
		
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			Tell them about your neighbor.
		
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			He did. He took his stuff out and he stood by the street and all his his dead than his Mahathir
fula. And what what is wrong with your sources? My neighbor
		
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			that people would say Lana, Houma,
		
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			mela mela, they would. That's a bad neighbor.
		
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			So Salah knew that. So the neighbor ran to the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam, ala rasulillah,
please, I'm sorry, I will not do this again. Can you please ask him to take yourself back? Again
yet? Why did this neighbor do this because of injustice that was committed against him. But now
		
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			we have to be extremely careful when we say that. Allah wa salam was a judge and a Mufti at the same
time. He was a judge and a Mufti at the same time, for sure the Prophet sallallahu wasallam verified
the allegation. You see, for me, for me as an Imam, for example, that people call you share this
brother this took this and this and this and this and this from me.
		
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			I couldn't listen.
		
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			I'm only gonna give you the fact what based on what you tell me, but I'm not a judge.
		
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			There is a difference between because a judge has to do what he has to hear both sides of the story.
		
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			If you're going to sit out there and arbitrate become an arbiter you want to do this dude, you have
to hear both sides because every story I'm telling you has what
		
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			we
		
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			call a man who sort of thought because of the subject,
		
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			the size that we read in and then sort of thought regarding our I'm sorry, the prophet de la sala,
look at in
		
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			look at look at this, look at this case. 100% true, look.
		
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			This activity so now, this is my brother, he has 99 sheep, and I have one sheep and he want to take
it away from me. He was tested brother Suleiman was tested.
		
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			Prophet Solomon did not hear the one. The other one is la kavala. b. So Elena, Jessica Ilana Hodge,
he wronged you. By making that request, you want to take away this one from you immediately realize
that he made a mistake as a judge what 411 and number 10. Now, festival fall
		
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			down in
		
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			the fetal if
		
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			you have to differentiate between done guru an Imam and giving him a fatwa. Without him hearing God
is gonna give you a fatwa not not not an arbitration, not a decision not a verdict is going to give
you an opinion. But for this Imam to enforce or move this forward, like a solemn in this particular
scenario here. You have to hear the other side of the story. So the first one, I will control a
salary but in FY 13 matava Lehman, you're being room number two
		
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			maarif you live in Colorado.
		
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			And one of the community members living here went and he proposed to a sister in New Jersey.
		
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			What about that? The Guardian calls you?
		
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			Who do you know in Colorado? I know. Brother so brother so brother, so he called your Salam Alaikum
		
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			My name is so and so.
		
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			My
		
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			daughter is up for marriage. And there is a proposal from Colorado from brother so and so. What do
you say about this rather? Now? What What is your take on this? Hmm? If this brother drinks
Shouldn't you tell that father that he drinks
		
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			then it's permissible?
		
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			It's permissible here. But be careful.
		
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			A leaf, a leaf, be careful, give only the information that turns the person away.
		
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			Just say brother, I don't advise you.
		
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			That's a better way. Oh, he drains he sells marijuana. He runs along the who, some people when it
comes to that, their intention is not that their intention is to get back at the person is makeup to
make up you know, Oh, I got this guy. Now I know I have a legal Sharia sanction situation where I
cannot eat his flesh.
		
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			You have to give
		
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			a woman came to him call at your rasulillah
		
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			O Messenger of Allah.
		
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			Jeremy with me, not Abu Jen. Another one wasabia hapa. Bernie, they propose to me.
		
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			What did the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said to her, he said to her Listen,
		
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			is *, he doesn't have money,
		
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			he's not gonna be able to support you. But look at the second one, that's you can go around this
one.
		
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			You can go around telling somebody Listen, he doesn't have money, you know, that's right, the
brother is applying for the car all the time. And, you know, you need to be aware of that, that
you're gonna, you know, be waiting for your daughter. Yeah, you should tell them that before they go
any further. But look at the second one. As for him, he doesn't take down the stick from his
shoulder, he carries a sticker on his shoulder all the time.
		
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			What that means equals a stick. Use your imagination now.
		
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			Meaning the stick is very handy. If you make him upset, that's way to interpret it if you make him
upset.
		
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			Or in the Arabian culture, when a person carries a sticking on his shoulder, meaning he has water on
one side, and food and the other side, you know, they rub the water one side and what that means is
never going to be around the house. You make you again, the point here, don't use that platform as a
premise as an excuse to go after the honor and the integrity of the person no, give only the
information needed to turn this person away from that decision. If you are certain about that.
		
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			vc matava. Lehman
		
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			has given that you warning people against an individual,
		
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			for example, you know that someone is hanging around your children.
		
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			And that person smokes, or that person is a bad person, he's a bad influence. You should go to that
parent, if you have seen that. You should go to that parent and say, Listen, I saw your son hanging
around the person. I would like you to be extra careful. You know, I saw this in a brief way. Why?
Because you want to own the person. Ideally. This is why I mean, some of you will say this safe next
around about the people who commit but as he mentions these guys, I'm warning you against it.
		
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			Innovations because that's what I believe I'm warning you against innovations. I'm warning you
against people who do not breach the truth. And we have a lot of those.
		
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			Salah mentioned that there will be scholars who will be calling Dini to *. And they're very
eloquent, they can actually convince you. So my job is to warn you if I know that there is somebody
out there who's not reaching the truth and this person is getting to you. My job is to warn you
again is the person is not backbiting No, that is the but be careful. Don't use this now because I'm
jealous because he's on the same field. You know that the P of jealousy kind of thing, because he
has more
		
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			Facebook fans or more YouTube videos then I go out bla that should not be the intention.
		
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			That should not be the intention.
		
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			The intention should be what should be just to show you
		
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			one day and that goes through with the with the wives. He spoke about Sophia in front of our issue,
you know the story right.
		
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			So out of jealousy
		
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			That what triggered was jealousy.
		
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			So she's warning him against her color. She said to him has spoken in Sofia fair enough.
		
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			This
		
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			Luca serum 102 respect to the brothers who are
		
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			quasi random in the Arabic culture, like everyone who's very short normally is very tricky. If you
beam B that's actually in the culture we have the Arabian culture that the people who are very sure
they are very tricky, tricky in a negative we headed con Lucas here in mckees. That's how we're
		
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			gonna say that has spoken on Sophia because she's what
		
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			she shows Sophia show. But look, her intention was not really the purity of the advice.
		
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			Viola, her intention is what?
		
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			Jealousy she's omona our mother I shall have a loved one and she loved her. Her husband, she loved
the messenger and this happened, this happened all the time. But Luca Rasul sallallahu wasallam
says,
		
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			he has have said, a kelemen lo lucija. Bina
		
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			Xu Fei, what are the impact of backbiting?
		
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			You have said a word if it is to be mixed with the water of the ocean, if that words, which you said
one word would have a color, the color of that word will change the color of the ocean.
		
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			Imagine this
		
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			theory. But in FY 13, we said someone who's wrong, you try and let people know about winning people
again to somebody, or you're trying to let people know about somebody's business partner, someone
who's proposing for marriage and so forth. We all know Jay fiskardo. That's case number four.
Someone who openly This is a loss of our time. Someone who knows, you know that he goes around, he's
holding his hand, he smokes marijuana, man, he gets high, you saw him with your own eyes, getting
drunk, some wave. ob is open. But again, be careful. Your warning, that's the intention. If you can
go in bribe it, and correct the person. That is a lot better. And with that particular ruling as
		
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			well, because a lot of the brothers when we bring up the subject, they almost bring up the question,
what about our Muslim?
		
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			What about a non Muslim? Can I back by Tim? Can I back by non Muslims? The scholars differ in this
field, but they say a non Muslim, whether he is a combatant, meaning is fighting, you're on a state
of war declared war. It's definitely permissible to backbite declared.
		
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			And we know that the protocol of this now you cannot back by him because of his creation. Because of
a defect in his body. You can see
		
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			he's this Yes, that's haram because I've helped a lot. You really
		
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			talking bad about what Allah has fashioned and created? So you're not talking? Because who made who
made him who made him this way? But here's the third one. If this person is not combatant, he is not
inflicting harm upon you. It's only permissible to back by him regarding his disbelief. The other
Muslim, he's not a Muslim, you can say that about him. You can say he's not almost Other than that,
no.
		
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			No, you cannot. You cannot. But you can say he's not a Muslim. He doesn't believe he doesn't, you
know, you can say that about that person. For Mojo here on fisco. Number five, one more stuff. That
you go to the show, and you asked for a photo
		
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			of him been talked about? The wife of Abby, Sophia, and she went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam. kakatiya rasulillah she said O Messenger of Allah in Allah Sophia and Rajan miseq Abu sufian
is a
		
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			you know, and the wives will be very happy the sisters inshallah they will come more often to Dr.
Hayden now because of this hadith Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam said to him, who the fee whack fee
		
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			meaning he stingy doesn't spend in us He doesn't give the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
directed or take from his wife without his knowledge, but now to buy iPhone eight
		
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			or to buy LCD
		
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			Whatever
		
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			liability
		
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			to feed your family, to feed your children, not to break him financially not to run him out of
business financially. No, that is what is meant by the the last case, when it is permissible, when
it is permissible to actually speak in the absence of a person saying certain things that they may
dislike is that you actually come like let's assume that there is a brother who decided instead of
coming to drama, he liked one of the cars
		
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			abroad brother from the congregation, so he decided to drive the car away and that's hypothetical,
okay. And another brother walk into Juma he saw him
		
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			somebody is stealing your car cup. So you're seeking help to stop what evil that is permissible. Of
course, I would not like you to say that about him. But this is permissible. So these are six cases
brothers and sisters in Islam. Why? Why? Because they are related with the rights of a Muslim upon
another Muslim.
		
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			One Hadith then we have to leave
		
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			the wording Filipina Muslim is six rights of a Muslim upon another Muslim Hakuna Muslim. Muslim hums
that's one more thing under Bukhari Muslim also sick Fifi Muslim
		
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			the last one of them what he does
		
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			when he asked you for a car you should give him a
		
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			sincere naziha You shouldn't cheat him out. If someone calls you asking your opinion about someone
who whom he is considering to go in business with as a partner and he already cheated out of your
money before and you know this person is not honest. Should you leave him go and run into the same
traps like level one that person again is that
		
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			this is backbiting brothers and sisters in Islam and it is the top of them all this is the top of
the more the second Islam during that you basically
		
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			are somebody that you spread rumors about another person that are not true. We call them rumor
mongering that you you know you you're trying to defame the person
		
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			will have a caddy
		
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			power to fit his line.
		
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			Well because especially if one out when we have all these social medias and Facebook and Instagram
and and the other thing is cool about the all these apps that we have Subhan Allah when Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi salam
		
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			al Bukhari
		
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			when he was taking in a journey with gibreel alayhis salam. So, he saw one man sitting down look at
this and another man standing and in his hand is a kallu galoob like a hook imagine this and he
would place that hook in this site and he will tell you that for until his ears
		
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			imagine this
		
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			then he will go to the other side.
		
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			Likewise, until he finishes here the other side is restored. So he goes repeat. Repeat. Repeat men
have
		
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			a
		
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			look look look look look at who had a column Nobu voila No way. Heard of Rajan yet zebul Kavita
tabula rasa.
		
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			This is someone who would utter a lie that will reach
		
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			truth who Allah by the time when the Rasulullah saw salams made that statement you would not because
before he would lie a lie you will tell you the only people who live is more of a Mohammed or for
our class.
		
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			But right now just go to Facebook.
		
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			Bought a lie, a slander on a Facebook
		
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			all over the place.
		
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			People in Malaysia and Indonesia will see it instantly. Instantly, they will see it the moment you
get comments from there. You get likes from the fact
		
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			that the other thing is
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Allah aquire I mean, imagine the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
passed by people. Imagine they have kneels made out of I always mess up this word coupler. Lola has
copper, nails made out of copper and they
		
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			Like the scratch,
		
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			man how to breed Who are those, how La La Vina who are all the nuts. Those are the people who
slander and attack the integrity of other people of other people that has a Columbia who are
extremely important. One of the most lists. Carla Salalah alayhi wasallam, the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam says,
		
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			Do you know who's the bankrupt is? The companion said, O Messenger of Allah, Allah. Allah. Allahu
Allah Mata. The bankrupt is the one who doesn't have acid.
		
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			Real sticky on your cash
		
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			at the bankrupt from my alma mater to malkia Look at this. Now, look at this mania to melchiorre He
will come in the Day of Judgment bisola visa, the song, he did it all he did the work. He did the
work he did the work, but he slander this one he backed with this one, he took away the money of
this one.
		
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			Imagine, imagine
		
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			this law he did
		
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			whatever I could it was
		
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			very happy about the law.
		
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			Look at this, he will stand in front of Allah. And Allah will give him his book of deeds filled with
Hashanah.
		
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			He will say Masha Allah will
		
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			stand here with you. And you will have a lot in front of him.
		
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			Remember you back with me that they you remember you took away my money that they gave me a hassle
give me a
		
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			bassinet. In the day of judgment that business transaction is not gold and silver
		
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			is what hard currency you know what the hard currency is in the day of judgment? What has an atom
say yet? Because that will be weighed in the scale. Imagine those people will receive your Hasina
until he runs out of fuel and out of her Senate.
		
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			Imagine the drinking the smoking will be accredited to you you take from their sins, their sins will
be accredited to you.
		
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			It's a real loss.
		
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			Just Just for you to know brothers and sisters in Islam. Through that you got that tongue. You got
it, you protect it, because sometimes we speak carelessly, recklessly without very fine Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam won't even again is that in the word ruler later. Kela mobile kelemen
min sakaki La La La Habra photography nerissa in a hurry for a person will say a word thinking that
this word is what is nothing. And it will be the reason for him to fall into * for the time of
seven years. The last thing is in the MENA.
		
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			What is in the Nina echo? Is tail carrying. Basically you see two brothers, they are having a very
good relationship with one another. And you go and insert bad talks or you don't know what he said
about you
		
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			know, you're gonna have to say nothing, but just oh, what did he say? Oh, he said that's had an
amoeba Rasul Allah wa salam ala al Bukhari. He was riding his camel one day renew and Subhana Allah.
He's about to fall down. His animal
		
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			moved in an aggressive way. The animal on which he was writing for us, we Salalah Salim immediately
looks at his companions and he said those two individuals who are those people in the house
		
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			they are being punished
		
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			pico de
		
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			Lima katabi line explaining this Howdy. They are being punished over something that they belittled.
		
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			One of them can analyze.
		
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			He he he would go to the bathroom and urinates and he knows he has to pray. And he knows that he has
globs of urine going into his underwear. And he goes and he makes oh and he prays and his Salah is
not valid. He knows it. He sees it. But he thinks that the lovers and see him can Elias
		
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			in Bali, and the other one
		
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			the point of reference, what
		
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			am she been me, man he's to go around the community.
		
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			would spit bad things about that individual in order to spoil the relationship. So
		
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			yeah.
		
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			If ice I believe if I'm not mistaken for Bukhari, he actually made it lawful for you
		
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			to use white lies, and we do have white lies in Islam.
		
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			But the, the translation is not accurate. It's called mahari, that you say something, which means
two things. What I'm saying you will grasp one meaning, but I intend the other meaning. That's what,
that's how I apply. You're not lying. But you're saying something that means both meanings, two
meanings and two. It's like when I tell you, I'm fasting.
		
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			The first thing that we're gonna think about is what I'm fasting from what, but maybe I'm fasting
from talking.
		
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			It's not obviously the case here. But that's what I mean. So that's what I mean in my heart and
that's what we call it not the white lies that you go on, and try to take away the right of a person
		
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			to mineral kvb Loudoun Acadia, there are three types of lies that I consider that they are not
considered in the Sheree allies can be virtually free. How are
		
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			you fighting with the Muslim army and the non Muslim army captured you?
		
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			Are you gonna reveal our secrets?
		
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			law you should Calgary you can tell things different. Here's the interesting piece. We're capable
virtually allies of jetty
		
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			you know, your wife cooks you nice biryani, and you go home. And you never had that variani before
in your life? Never. I mean, you had your like liberty and he basically
		
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			how's it honey? Or which wonderful, you can talk about the weather here. It's wonderful. You're not
talking about the Giuliani obviously. But that's permissible to do that, because if you say it's
bad, probably going to need a motel seven or motel five tonight.
		
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			And here is what can we will gradually usually have a Nevada lady that you go between two brothers
that they know they have that.
		
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			You don't know what he said about you. Oh,
		
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			he said all the things. Of course, he said all good things about someone else, all these things. But
this is this is the way brothers and sisters in Islam. A community should be functioning a family
should be functioning. This is what the Sahaba used to do.
		
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			This is why they were successful. Because I'm telling you, a community like us if we get engaged and
indulged into these negativity into this field of negativity. He said she said we're gonna exhaust
our resources, our time, our power. We're not going to give.
		
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			We're just going to be busy resolving, solving, resolving solving. He said, she said he said she
said, Imagine, imagine all of
		
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			our workers. So Derek, when he became Holly muslimeen when he became califa, the Muslim leader of
the Muslims, he says the judge
		
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			and Takagi, you're the arbiter now,
		
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			after one year, almost submitted his resignation. He said, I'm resigning.
		
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			I resign.
		
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			Why too much work? He's not paying enough. I didn't receive one single case. No, no, no.
		
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			Everybody knows what
		
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			we saw. They were busy with the dour, bring in Islam, horrible reader and all of this. This is the
key. And again, this is a disclaimer again, and I want to say this. For the brothers who arrive
late. Every time I give this football a lot of the people listening to me they think I'm talking
about them. No, I'm not talking about you. Because you know, all of us one way or another is guilty
of this including me. Jani,
		
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			Coca
		
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			Cola has it been that somebody has to talk about this? If there's someone else out there would have
talks about it not because I'm guilty of it, too. We're all guilty of it. So I'm not talking about
you. I'm talking about a phenomenon. That shaitan is listen, he
		
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			said, given the fact that we'll go back to the worship of idols, but he is contented and pleased
with the parish in the shaitan is your bed, but he is pleased with placing this code and
		
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			tongue is the means and the tools aku Kali had our stuff La Jolla.
		
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			Alhamdulillah Allah Al amin la humble Hassan was Santa will gentle washes shadow Allah ilaha
illallah wa de la sharika yaku haka serene.
		
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			Mohammed Abu Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam in closing brothers and
sisters in Islam. This tongue has to work.
		
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			Some people can just stop it. You can you can do like a blindness or you have to talk you have to
work.
		
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			Now, what should you get this tongue busy in?
		
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			In what you have a lot of things. Imagine so canon law
		
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			Alhamdulillah La ilaha illa Allah Allahu Akbar Allah Allah Allah who was the 11th
		
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			imagine when you say La how La La La quwata illa Billah at three tree is planted for you engine
		
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			when you say Subhanallah he'll be handy that's another word in La la la la la one wording so Panama
he will be handy another word a tree. And when we talk about when we talk about trees in general,
the trunk is made out of gold.
		
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			The shade of that tree it will take a horse that is prebate Yes See you roll Java outta me.
		
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			In
		
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			limine Dude,
		
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			that the whole debate will run beneath the shade of the tree.
		
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			Subhan Allah, Allah, Allah Allah, Allah, this is a sincere sincerity with the tongue and the heart
are connected. Imagine 563 is Indian
		
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			War letter from the Koran
		
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			10 consonant.
		
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			If you say Bismillah Ar Rahman AR Rahim 190 has just been familiar with what
		
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			the tongue so get this time busy with what
		
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			is real who will have
		
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			to enjoy him in Alberta. Likewise, when you keep yourself busy with the truth with the remembrance
of Allah
		
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			The second thing brothers and sisters in Islam don't become part of this. Don't they tell you three
things and I promise I close with this. I went two minutes over my time here. Five minutes actually.
		
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			When you see somebody backbiting in front, stop them.
		
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			Stop them
		
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			gabab nomadic when he missed on Dubuque
		
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			cavagna Malik the companion when he did not join kabu
		
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			further Cara hora Salafi to book the prophets of Salaam Kala masala kabuna Malik.
		
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			What is cobbled? nomadic?
		
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			How come he is not here? This guy never missed the battle except better and better was not mandatory
upon everybody this
		
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			one of the people from Benny selama was sitting in the circle. Kala rasulillah he said O Messenger
of Allah chavela who, when no other female
		
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			garb used to be a king Ninja, he is busy with his nice cloth. And he's a bodybuilder
		
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			that's backed by the
		
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			new jabel jasola law.
		
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			And he pointed at the man
		
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			what an awful thing to go about.
		
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			You know good things about him.
		
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			theory
		
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			that you defend the honor of your brother in their absence, don't entertain that. don't entertain
that accepting the cases that I mentioned and say, but you say to them, Okay, can we verify that can
we meet with the brother to verify that's the Bob, don't just go on the film The brother and whoever
defends the honor of his brother in his absence, Allah will defend and protect you from hellfire.
		
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			Number two,
		
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			tell the person to stop.
		
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			If you can defend him if you have no information to give, please stop. Number three, number three,
leave if you can do one or two leave, because like they say it always takes two to tango. You know,
I don't know what your Tango is.
		
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			But that's what they said. It's always take to to create a fitness and it's Allah subhanaw taala
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			Allahu
		
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			Allahu Allah.
		
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			Allah Allah me, Bellamy brothers