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Muslims Who Do Islam are The Most Modest People In The World – The Deen Show

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The "monster" culture in China is discussed, which has negative consequences and is "orthopedic modesty". The "immediate value" of shyness is emphasized, and shyness is used to protect women. The "untually cover" concept is also discussed, and shyness is used to protect women in a way that is not acceptable in Islam. The importance of shyness in protecting women is emphasized, and shyness is used to protect men in a way that is not acceptable in Islam. The speakers also stress the need for men to be more shy of Islam, and encourage listeners to submit their suggestions to the MSA for free access to deeds and deeds combs.

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			Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salam alaikum Peace be with you. Thank you for tuning in to another
episode of the deen show. We're here every week trying to help you understand the most Miss
understood way of life in the world today, Islam, yet is the fastest growing way of life in the
world. This is a fact.
		
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			And we cover serious topics. This is a serious show. And thank you for tuning into the show. So when
I come back, we're going to talk about modesty. China's many of us have gone away from this nature
to be shy. You go to the supermarket, the billboards, half naked women all over there. You look at
Beyonce, Britney Spears, just full naked. And then the young ones are emulating the older ones. And
next thing you know, you're buying your six year old seven year old daughter
		
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			clothes that match them. And you're forgetting about shyness and modesty. And that is what we're
going to be discussing today. With my next guest that's right he's back here in a diesel shake. Come
out. Mackey We'll be right back into the show.
		
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			This is the
		
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			this is the
		
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			go to law. Peace be with you. Exactly. Hello. Excellent. Now look, check this out. Check this out.
Look, we cater to a lot of not yet Muslims. Now they see this on your head. And they wonder is he
one of those guys? Is he one of the people that are trying to bring harm to us? Is he one of those
from Al Qaeda? Is he one of these people 911 and they're getting freaked out so we want the truth to
be able to penetrate but one alleviate assuage any fears is going on.
		
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			You know what? It's just, it's more cultural and traditional. It's not really religious. You're not
in the gang or not? No, not really, if I were, I would be the gang leader, though. But you know,
I'll tell you something. A lot of times, even with Muslims in the West, they think like what I'm
wearing now is like the Islamic garment. It's not, it's just a cultural garment. And that's why a
lot of times I wear a suit and tie like you're doing or wear jeans and a shirt and people be like,
Oh, you're not dressed islamically Well, that isn't Islamic anyways, but people associate it with
being Islamic and and sometimes when you give a lecture you put it on because people expect that of
		
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			you but not because it's really an Islamic attire or anything like that. Some people you go to
certain places, and if you don't look like them, you don't dress like them. You don't sound like
them. We don't want them moslems over here, so they see you. And it sounds like the same people who
are telling certain people to get to the back of the bus, the same kind of racism. Do you feel that?
This is kind of the same thing we're talking about? Well, it certainly sounds the same different
style, but it's the same thing happening. Yeah. And you know, it's interesting that for our history
in the United States, there's always a group that's that's oppressed, you know, and you know, first
		
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			it was the Native Americans then it became the during the World Wars you know, the Japanese Japanese
and it became the and maybe it still is the African Americans one actually one African American
civil rights leader he said that you know, the Muslim is the new *. The Muslim is Yeah, so
you're actually *.
		
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			So we they went from now you hating on the Japanese, you hating on the Native American hating on the
the African American, but now you're hating on all of them, because a Muslim is one who acquires
peace by submitting to the owner of peace, and Muslims are white, black, yellow, love all the above?
Yeah, but this hatred, you got to stop doesn't it needs to stop. And this isn't this isn't the way
and this isn't why a lot of the immigrants that came to America, they came under the pretense, you
know, thinking that that wouldn't exist in America. So it's unAmerican if I can, if I could say
that, you know, and even those before we get to our main topic, even those who have this, this
		
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			hatred, this racism, I have trust, that they can change because if some of the harshest enemies of
Islam back then and simply Islam means to acquire peace by submitting to the one God, right, this is
what it means. So even those opponents of Islam way back then they accepted Islam when they just got
to open the heart and mind and we're exposed to it right. I mean, I don't want to repeat jokes on
your show, but I think I said this before, tell it again, when it was Halloween and when it was
Friday, and I was going to Friday Prayer which is around noon, so I was dressed like this and this
old lady's walking her dog
		
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			And she saw me and she said, Oh, you're starting early. So she thought this was my Halloween
costume, you know? I'm sure now they're laughing. And you know what someone, even the the biggest
haters got a smile on his face. So we kind of, you know, melt in his heart. But if I might say,
Mashallah, you look very nice. You can't see it, but I see it. There's newer, coming light coming on
family trying to keep up with you. That's a lot. So let's start now, let's do it. You go into the
supermarket, and bam, it's in your face. Right? Bam, it's over here, you turn over here stuck for
the law, you got to turn, man, you can't look nowhere. It seems like more and more people are going
		
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			away from shyness from modesty, it's not the cool thing. You got to show more rather than less What
is going on? Excellent. You know, let's first the define it right. So modesty in Arabic is higher,
right. And the word higher in Arabic is actually a little bit more than modesty. It's it has
bashfulness in it, it has modesty in it. And it also has in it self respect. If you respect
yourself, and you don't want to humiliate yourself in front of a lot in front of other people and in
front of yourself, then you'll have this type of higher self respect humility. Yes, absolutely. So
it's a mixture of all these things put together. And you know, very, very useful, all of them have
		
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			valuable meanings. So the the thing is that, yes, everyone's supposed to have modesty. But I'll tell
you even now, amongst Muslims, they see that if you're modest, that you're not one of the words they
use that you're not, you know,
		
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			you know, like in your face. Yes, you're not, you're not you don't take control of things. You're
not you don't take the initiative because of this guy has modesty. Yeah. So people confuse it with
having weak personality, and they confuse it with a lot of things. And I hope inshallah, in this
episode, we can clear some of that fog and show now how do we get people to realize that, you know,
showing less is better than showing more. And it starts at an early age and elementary schools out
of the public schools. You know, what, if you're not, it seems like it's not cool. If you're showing
more you got, you know, this out here and that out there, then you know what, now you're getting the
		
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			boys attention. And now like the one who's not showing she's modest, she said, she's not getting the
attention. So now, you know, we fall into the trap. But what is Islam? What is the way of God? What
is this, this is what God wants for for you to just be just selling out and showing everything out
there for just $1 for the money? Absolutely not. And you know, this is one of the problems right?
First of all, when this is one of the things that psychologists say about it, even non Muslims,
they're saying that when a woman is taught that her value is related to her sexuality, then she does
everything to promote her sexuality, to dress seductively to act seductively to be promiscuous,
		
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			because he learned that that's her value in society. And this is what women learn. Now, you know,
they dress skimpily, so that men can appreciate them and, you know, whistle at them and harass them
in that way. And you know, in magazines, they want to sell a movie, you put a scene in it with a
woman, you want to sell a magazine, you put a woman on the cover, even things are totally unrelated,
you put a woman in the commercials to sell it. So then the woman has come down to a level of being a
commodity pushing device or object more so than, you know how a human being with value. One of the
interesting things and you'll see, and your viewers will see how this is so true. We know if a woman
		
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			enters a room, if it's a board meeting, whatever it is that she has to do presentation and she
enters in with you know, scantily clad and she's showing her body parts, the men in the room will
never appreciate her intelligence. First, she will walk in as an object, she's not gonna walk in,
they're gonna say, Oh, she looks intelligent. They're gonna look at her as a sexual object. And then
maybe if she's smart, she can impress them. And they will think oh, she's also smart. But first they
only see her as an object. And this is one of the problems you'll find that in the West, a lot of
times, men can, like the society cannot take a woman who is effeminate. As a leader, they cannot
		
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			accept her as a leader. And if you look at it, most of the times the leaders, the female leaders in
the West are very androgynous is the word they they use, because it means that they have male
characteristics like they were either these suits you know, the the female suit, I don't know what
they call it. Yes, they have short hairstyles, and the list I mean, Margaret Thatcher in the UK,
short hair, stoic as they described her, not me. Yes, Hillary Clinton short hair again. They
describe her as in a cold and stoic Condoleezza Rice against short hairs a pattern here, Janet Reno,
if you recall is Saturday Night Live these to constantly make fun of her as a man generally knows a
		
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			man constantly while they're doing Yeah, because they can only they can accept an F and a feminine
woman in a leadership position because to them bit has been trained with movies and magazines, she's
just a sexual sexual object. But when a woman, you know, looks more masculine, not my words again,
then they can accept her because the feminine woman is just an object, so the woman has become
nothing but an object now, and that's why the subject of hair is so much more important now.
		
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			We know that Islam, which causes a person to acquire peace, and I keep saying this, because a lot of
times, many of the viewers have heard it, but there's a good chance. And I know that there's 1000s
of new not yet Muslims that tune on, and they hear this Arabic word. What's this all about some new
religion. Now this is the same way of life that was lived by all and taught by all the messengers of
God, submit to the One God your will, to His will. So along with that call, then the development of
your character being the best human being that you can be. And now this we're talking about today,
that shine is that modesty that is escaping us. Right? How do we get it back? Well, that's that's
		
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			the question of the day, right? How do you get it back? And of course, the good thing is, you can
get it back. Because if you couldn't get it back, Allah wouldn't command it of you. Yeah. So have
higher, you know, a number of things. And so many excellent examples. You know, they describe the
process of settling because now even Muslim men think higher is only for the woman. Yeah, I don't
have to have higher. I don't have to be modest and shy and bashful and humble. And you know, so what
the described the process said that he was the most modest amongst us. And he was more shy, more
bashful than a virgin girl, on the first night of her wedding. I mean, you can imagine how this
		
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			description how she would be so bashful, the president more bashful than her and this is a man and a
leader and the general and the courageous man, it's still he had this quality. And then the rest of
the narration says that, and if he disliked something, we can see it immediately in his face. So
it's not just for women, men also are supposed to have higher meaning. They're supposed to be shy or
have modesty, be bashful as well, you know, and have the self respect. So it's not just for the
woman, something that's equality of a believer. So we're gonna take a break and we'll be back with
more. We'll share Kamala McKee here on a D show. I am not afraid to say
		
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			I am not afraid.
		
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			I'm not afraid to say
		
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			I am not afraid.
		
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			I'm not afraid.
		
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			I'm not afraid.
		
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			I'm not afraid of
		
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			answers. Don't kill women. Don't kill children. Don't kill the old people don't attack the
civilians. This is what the prophet Mohammed told us
		
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			that the prophets are solid. Never ever start a war against anything that's from hunger.
		
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			So if you find yourself Your mind is going down, check yourself.
		
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			There is none waiting to be worship except Allah alone. You got some CDs and music in the car,
bobbing your head to 50 cents or?
		
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			No, it's common sense. Don't do things that can hurt people.
		
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			Lady Gaga googoo and all that other nonsense.
		
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			backbiting, slandering. And sets up that smoking
		
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			today to 18 inch biceps. We'll see what happens to me on the deen show.
		
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			And we hold it down on the show early. Make sure you're tuning back here on the dean show, which
should come out and mechi Thank you for finding the time. It's always always a pleasure to have you
on the dean show. Well, you know, it's my pleasure. And I'm I'm always here for one thing and one
thing only right. And that's the hold it down on the dean show. Early. Our
		
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			that was one of our guests. Absolutely, brother, that brother also like many of them, we've had
Napoleon from the outlaws to parks crew, former crew Loon. And then from Jay Z's out, these people
are coming to Islam, they're coming to the realization that you know what, all this money and
glamour and glitz is not where it's at. Islam is where it's at. It's cool to be a Muslim. Doing all
the good that the creator's called us to do. It's the new block.
		
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			So tell us now tell us now tell us now look at his Look at his, okay, we're going to start and give
some practical examples of the shyness, let's say for the man, you know, you go into from a young
age and try to throw all the men together in a shower naked, you know, or you just shirt off and you
flex in here and every you know, everything is showing. So now you grew up in a culture that's doing
that. All right, where what is Islam calling you to do? And now the person that's listening is going
to be like, you know what, that makes more sense. Right? And, and just what would kind of we touched
on earlier that when you have higher when you have modesty and shyness and bashfulness it's not that
		
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			you now have a weak personality, or that you're scared of people or that you're not courageous
enough and or you're not confrontational. It's actually because people miss they confuse it with I
don't think your weaknesses
		
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			Last time we talked about 500 on the bench oh that's
		
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			nothing
		
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			so so the idea is this that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam told us in a hadith he said and higher Ne
t
		
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			basically means that nothing except good comes out of modesty yes to no bad comes out of it
whatsoever only good comes out of it. So if you think that, you know, higher means you'll you'll get
your rights trampled upon people will push you around your miscut you're confusing what higher is,
that's not what highest is to have modesty to have bashfulness. And that's why we always tell
sisters, you know, you're supposed to have higher, right? And then they tell you things like Why
should I be afraid of the man, you know, you know, he looks at? He looks at me in the eye and I
supposed to lower my gaze, I'll stare him down. You know, if he wants to fight with me, I'll fight
		
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			back. He wants to exchange bad words. That's not what we're saying. We're not saying let your rights
be trampled upon. We're saying don't lose your hire in the process of regaining your rights. Yes,
which is how it's supposed to be. One of the fantastic examples is that a via shuttle de la and how
the wife of the prophet SAW Sedna. So the problem when he passed away, he was buried in what they
called her apartment or her room.
		
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			Then the first his successor, the first halifa k lifto. Booker passed away and he was buried in her
room as well. So she narrates she said I used to be in a relaxed about what I wear, because I would
say it's my husband and my father who were buried in there so I wouldn't have to wear the hijab
things like that as I entered in the room she said then when Omar are the law I know who the
successor of the successor when he was buried companions now so they know that this was the second
key life in Islamic history can you compare to like president yeah exactly like the leader leader so
then when when he passed away and he was buried in her room she said I could not come in uncovered
		
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			she had she said I would cover up properly out of higher from almost shyness Can you imagine not out
of shyness from a dead person who is buried underground, but yet this is the kind of hire that she
had. This is the mother of the believers I showed the role model for the Muslim woman. Now of course
people who don't have height will see this as well. That doesn't make any sense. But for those who
have higher it makes perfect sense. Now look, look if you're in a situation a Muslim man, and we'll
go to the woman the Muslim man, now you know, sometimes you know, awkward situation and say you're
at the gym. And you know, you turn around and it just normal the person just be bam, just
		
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			everything's out there. A Muslim he hides his privates, hides his his private areas to explain this,
how should it like you go and running, for instance, as part of shyness, what should you be
covering? You know, do you show your thighs and your endo? No speedos and, you know, run in and talk
to us. Excellent. Well, for the man, it's for him to cover from his navel all the way up to his
knees. No one needs to see the private examine your wife. Exactly. Absolutely. And you know, one of
the things is that people argue things, they say things like, well, it's natural for you to be
uncovered because you were born uncovered. You were born naked. So what's the problem? What we say
		
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			to that is that there's actually a very strong link between your Eman which is your your belief in
Allah azza wa jal, and your your highest, your modesty and your bashfulness. And if you if someone
were not that I recommend this, but if someone were to interview people at let's say, a nudist camp,
you will find that most of them probably don't have much in mind anyways. Or they'll have belief in
Allah or they're probably atheists or something of that sort. Yeah. So the true relationship is that
what is natural is for the human being to cover the private part not to uncover because if we go
back to the story of Adam and Eve, the first thing they did when they discovered that they were
		
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			anatomy, the first man at first woman, yes, great example, when they sinned, then they realized that
they were naked. Yeah, the first thing the first action that they did after discovering they were
naked was to try to cover they try to cover the nakedness right? Great exact is so that means the
natural thing is to cover your private parts not to uncover them. Yeah. As they want are your kids
were born naked? What do you want them to be born in suits and ties and stuff?
		
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			came out of the Versace lawsuit, he'll cry, he'll spell out the way he cries. Why does it work? It
doesn't work like that. So the thing is that the more natural thing is to cover it very interesting,
just to throw this in the word our, which is the word for private part in Arabic, it actually means
something that's shameful. So it's natural to cover it up, you know, even little children, if
sometimes, you know, they're four or five years old, you uncover them, they say no, no, you know,
people will see me because it's natural to want to cover the private part not uncover, which is
basically when you know, kind of the calls that we've started hearing after the sexual revolution in
		
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			the late 60s and early 70s. After that, people started to call to that and, and equate that with
liberation. So if you're covered, you're oppressed, dislike how they assume Muslim woman, because
they're covered. They're oppressed by men, and that's why they're covered. But if you're uncovered,
you're liberated. And you ended up some problems, very clear problems with that argument, right?
Because that means if you're wearing any amount of clothing, even if it's very skimpy, you're still
not fully liberated. Yeah, so the argue argument would be one
		
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			You fully liberate yourself. You know, there was actually one time a speaker who was giving a
lecture. And then a non Muslim woman came in and she started pointing it though and the Muslim woman
that were covered, and she was yelling at the speaker, why are they covered like that? assuming
you're oppressing them, that's why they're covered. Yeah. So he said, Well, you were born naked. Why
are you clothed right now? Wow. And she said, modesty, and she just chose the right word. Yes, she
said modesty. He said, Well, modesty, more modest modesty, modesty. That's the argument. And that
just goes with Mm hmm. I mean, if you're covered because of modesty, if that means if they're
		
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			covered more, it's more modesty. Yes. And uncovering doesn't mean liberation. No, it just means lack
of modesty. That's all it means. I really think you know, because we have the chief deceiver. And
people forget, I mean, that you have this devil, and the satanic forces. And he's pimping people
that he's working day and night, to pimp the man to pimp the woman. And by going away from the
guidance of the Creator, he's pimping. You take it off, take it all off. Absolutely. Yes. And now
you just become a commodity. You're just a toy for the man. Exactly. Isn't that so? True? It's very
true. It's for and it is getting worse and worse every time. You know, in the 1920s. In America, if
		
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			a woman were wore pants, that was there was an uproar. It was they weren't even allowed to actually.
So but then, you know, the standards become worse and worse and worse and worse, the more you go
back, isn't it, they wouldn't show a lot of things that are unsure on the TV, you know, right, just
secuity all the just horrific things that you see you go back, you know, a woman what they have to
cover their arms into law skirt, this is in America. But I'll tell you something interesting, like,
like, early in, in the 50s. And 60s, even before that the argument the liberals were making is that,
you know, people will will fornicated commit Zina and do wicked deeds, so long as you forbid them
		
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			from it. So they're using the forbidden fruit argument. As long as you forbid, people, they're going
to do that. But if you allow it, people are going to take it easy, and they're just going to leave
it. And so the conservatives today they argue, they said, Look, now things have gotten worse. You
said, if we allow people to do what they want to do, it's going to get people are going to take it
easy and just forget about it, it's not going to become in the forefront of their mind. But the
opposite has happened now, because people allowed a little bit of promiscuity, they allowed someone
to show this much of this their hand and then that much of their like, it got worse today, the
		
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			standards have become a lot worse. So it's the opposite of the forbidden fruit argument, which they
also use, for example, they tell you in in Sweden, the teenage pregnancy rate is much lower than in
the United States. Right. And they say because at an early age, they teach the kids in school about
contraceptives, and this and that, and so on. And that's why we should do the same thing in America.
Because you know, there's some stigma and they don't discuss it openly. And so therefore people do
it, and then they have teenage pregnancies. That kind of solution is not acceptable in Islam,
because in the end, you still have youth committing Zina. Yeah, sin is not acceptable. It's not
		
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			about whether or not they use, you know, protection or concert contraceptives, it's about the act of
Xena fornication, fornication, so it's not acceptable. So this is some of the problems. You know,
people try to make arguments like that, but they don't work. Let's, we're gonna take a break.
They're signaling we got to go for a break. We'll be right back with more on the deen show. One God,
wish him alone, do what he wants you to do. Put your desires this thing inside you that just wants
this and wants that and you just can't get enough. You know what, you never get enough into the dirt
in your mouth. Don't let it come to that be sincere and honest as the one who created you to guide
		
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			you as the first step put off chasing all the women and the good times and the parties and this and
that there is no one will be avoided. Except a lot. Don't wait. You never know that would come today
for you.
		
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			Back here on the deen show. And again, we are really stressing that this way of life. Islam calls to
everything good. And a sincere person who's not wanting to follow their lusts and desires. I don't
think anyone the father that's looking at his daughter, he don't want no googly eyed man all over
his daughter, and trying to molest her with his eyes and you want to protect was so precious to you.
You don't like people touching your car. But now that girl goes out? And what's the first thing on
the mind of the man? Right? That's how it is. But now what's Islam saying? Protect the most valuable
things are women. Can you elaborate again, I mean, just this is the ration out and talk about please
		
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			how we worry about our money and our cars and all these things. But how Islam, right? It really puts
the woman to such a high level of this
		
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			way that would really like protect it from all this evil. And I think you said it best, anything
that's valuable. You protect it and you cover it. Yes, you typically cover the valuable thing,
right? So you know, even women their most valuable jewelry item, it's covered. They don't put it out
in the dining table. You know or
		
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			You know, the dashboard of the car, it's covered, it's protected, and anything that's due to cover
and you protect it. And so, you know, the chastity, the modesty, the all these things, the beauty of
the woman, it's supposed to be protected. Therefore, it's supposed to be covered, when it's not
covered. many bad things happen in society, the way men look at women, and this is something that
has happened now in North America. And I don't know how many, if we were to reverse it, it would
take decades to transfer this image of how women have become in the minds of men, they've just
become like targets, you know, yeah. And they talk about them also like items like objects, not as
		
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			human beings. And that's why, you know, to show the importance of higher end the prophets of Salaam,
he described that he man belief and and and Allah has 70 odd branches, many branches, the highest of
which is to say that it is a law that no God is worthy of worship, except Allah alone. The lowest
level is to remove an obstacle or an obstruction from the road. So then, but notice, he said, there
are 70 odd branches of him, and then he gives only one yeah, have faith translated faith or faith or
belief, right? Then he gives only one example. And he said, Well, higher, better, amen. Amen. And
modesty is one of the branches of Emma. So very quickly, the scholars say, Why did he only give that
		
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			one example, they say, because if you have this one characteristic modesty, you will get everything
else. So our sisters in humanity, our sisters in Islam, this goes back again, to shyness, coming
back to shyness, and then naturally, you're going to want to observe the hijab, and you're going to
want to implement all the good that the creator's told us to do the complete shyness. Absolutely.
And is this, you know, for the sisters Also, we're having a hard time with the hijab, what advice do
you give to them? You know, the reminder is that and I know we're running out of time, but one of
the scholars have categorized modesty or shyness into six different types, but one of the most
		
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			important ones is having shyness with Allah subhanaw taala. You know, people will use bad words in
but they're ashamed to use it in front of an elderly person, but they're not ashamed to use it in
front of Allah, those smoke, they don't hide it from the Imam, or from the religious leader in the
local community, but they don't hide it from Allah, you know, a woman will uncover in front of her
father, maybe she has another outfit to make them think she's dressed well, but in front of Allah,
she's not dressed well, it's for the bleeding man and woman to constantly remember the fact that
Allah Subhana, Allah is watching. And you should be more shy of Allah than you are of other
		
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			individuals that you held in high regard, you know, and that's why the scholars say that sometimes
the sin you're committing, or the fact that you don't care that Allah sees you committing a sin can
be worse than the sin itself that you're committing. That's deep. That's deep last minute last
minute so just some some some examples now shyness in the way you speak, not using curse words,
saying good things what I was dressing properly, talking properly, acting properly, what is it in
dealings with who in everything in business dealings is cheating? Yeah. Because some people tell
you, you know, you know, you've heard the saying Business is business, meaning businesses business,
		
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			I can be cutthroat, I could be rude to you. But then after that, we can go get dinner together, what
hasn't worked? It doesn't work like that. Because you're good manners is a constant. It's something
that's constant, not something that you do whenever you're in a good mood or you can turn off your
good manners because we're in a business meeting. No, so it's constant so higher and everything in
speech in dealings in dressing and behavior and walking and everything with your parents everything
gun shy, being modest is what Islam is calling us to. Thank you very much my pleasure it Allah
reward you. Go ahead, thank you very much. And thank you again, again, you you've got to learn
		
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			something new. We've always stressed the call to worship just the creator not as creation, character
development, and then shine is you got to learn about shyness is something again, that just goes
with your with your nature and everything. If you investigate Islam, you'll see that everything you
learn, it just makes sense. It's not something that's weird. You're not doing something that's way
out there bizarre, some mystical and only, you know, esoteric, we're just a few people understand
this. Islam is something that's from the Creator. So it's got to make sense. And I'm sure if you
have an open heart and open mind, you know, this makes sense. So if you'd like to learn more, call
		
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			the number on the screen one 800 662 Islam, visit us here every week, on the deen show. We also have
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			one of the beautiful things about our religion of Islam is the emphasis on direct ritual and prayer
to God directly. There is no intermediary the lights will go on after the party and the party will
end. It's very simple and very clear. There are no superstitious rituals, no strange incantations
Time's running out. We might not make it till tomorrow. And this is something that we need to think
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			No speech is better than to do that call people to Allah and to do the work no speech is better No,
nothing is better than that. Is it true that if one person on the Hello giving you the ability to
guide someone, the last permission the creator's permission that is better than everything in this
world, but in the whole world and everything that's in it in another nation, it's better than the
best of wealth but if we really felt that he would we would not be getting out getting out and this
is something that we encourage all the MSA all the dour organizations the machines to get this we
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			deeds comb insulae everybody sleepy when I arrived he's an Escalade lot of thinking may own law you
see, oh, law you know, all the sins I do. I turn to you to forgive my sins.
		
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			runs away. Ola guide me