Ikram Sanaullah – Do this and you won’t be angry

Ikram Sanaullah
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The speaker discusses various solutions for angry people, including entering a place, drinking water, practicing patience, and writing on a paper. He also warns that individuals may be held accountable for their anger and that it should be warned before getting angry. The speaker emphasizes the power of anger and the need for everyone to have it on the same page.

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			Many a times, I meet people who tell
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			me that, Sheikh, I have anger issues.
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			I do not know what I'm doing when
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			I get angry.
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			And then they ask for the solution. Well,
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			I have 6 solutions for you. Solution number
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			1, whenever you enter into a place, enter
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			by making salaam. Say, assalamu alaikum
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			and read the dua of entering into that
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			place. Because
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			in that way, you will be under the
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			guidance of Allah
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			Solution number 2, whenever you are angry, read.
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			Ask for the protection of Almighty Allah from
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			the tool of shaitan,
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			which is anger. Solution number 3,
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			when you are angry, drink water or make
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			wudu. It will calm down your anger. Solution
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			number 4,
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			leave the place where you are angry. If
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			you have an argument with your wife or
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			with your children,
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			leave the house, go to the Masjid.
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			If the argument is between the women folk,
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			let's say between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law,
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			then they should separate themselves and go into
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			another room. Because when you are angry, you
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			might end up saying things which will make
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			this scenario
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			worse. Solution number 5,
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			Whenever you are angry,
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			have patience.
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			Practice patience. Because Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
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			has promised rewards for a person who has
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			to practice patience.
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			And solution number 6,
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			have it written on a paper and stick
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			it on the wall. Maybe in your house,
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			maybe at your workplace.
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			That
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			the power that you have
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			over the people that you are about to
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			get angry on, Allah
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			has a greater power on you. Allah
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			has a greater grip on you. It shouldn't
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			happen
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			that
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			the the crime is small,
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			and the punishment
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			is bigger,
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			for that a person will be held accountable
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			on the day of payama. So it should
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			scare us before
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			getting angry.
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			Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said that a
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			person who has to control his anger
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			tomorrow on the day of the yama, Allah
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			is
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			going to hide his faults in front of
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			everyone.