Ibrahim Nuhu – Riyadh Us Saliheen – 3-1-2023
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The segment discusses the importance of protecting one's privacy and reputation in marriage, and the benefits of marriage for everyone. It emphasizes the need to be mindful of one's actions and not give up on mistakes, as well as the importance of setting boundaries and not giving up on mistake. The segment also touches on the "we" and "angels" of Islam, as well as the importance of learning and practicing them.
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hadith of Abu forever about those seven people that Allah subhanaw taala will take to will put in the shade of his ash to Mala Villa villa.
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five is a person who was invited by somebody who is in the authority. And last, we mentioned that this is a very, very, very critical situation that column and yes, I mean, you rarely find somebody who gets into this test and go out of it. That's why the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam advise everyone to keep the barrier, that Allah subhanaw taala put between the opposite Genesis, the Messiah, for the many Adam is to leave this barrier together with the respect whatever, you know, he had an opinion or thought we generate in the future isn't going to lead us to anything except destruction of the community. The first pitch fitna that happens to the human kinds, if you go back
to the history happened to deal with this, this matter is where the promise a lot of cinema said, We'll fix that money so that you know kind of three in the first trial or the test that Alaska heard other testimonies. From this mention a promise Allahu selama said matter of two body fitness. And here are the other two gentlemen. And I have never left any fitness that is worse than the fitna of the nisa, the woman that comes in that affects the man though Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So as I said, the only solution we have is to observe the sin of Allah subhanaw taala call him woman in a domain of sorrow. Wherefore the Frodo there because Kalam that's
more technical, give them more Teskey of the heart is purification of the heart. Those of you who are attending our class have a day where you see how this call is mentioned, you know, range of four, that a person will be given by Allah subhanaw taala when he lower his is case, and Allah azza wa jal also commanded both not just the brothers, the sisters, also Allah subhanaw taala says we're pulling more we need to go outside again, where we're from the fro June, Allah subhanaw taala, advise both of them and commanded both of them to lower their gaze, and to make sure that they put it in in the right place. And this is going to give them Insha Allah, the light from Allah subhanaw
taala, which they will be using, in sha Allah to see the path of Allah subhanaw taala properly, and to have enough tranquility in this life, be the light as the origin in a way insha Allah be happy in their life, you know, whatever decision they're going to be
making Allah subhanaw taala will guide it. Yeah, this is really necessary for Allah smarter to gather your
affairs, and also to put Baraka in all of your decision. One of the causes for this is to lower your gaze so that you can have the focus in your life to think properly. Because if you don't do that, then you will be affected by the error of the shaper. And then you will be scattered, your mind will be scattered Allah subhanaw taala might withdraw from helping that person and this is masiva Khadija for dunya. Well, so that's the solution, you know, to lower your gaze, and also to make sure that you keep that barrier that Allah subhanaw taala wants you to, to maintain, don't be in an isolated phase where there is nobody accepts you and none.
Don't be in a place where there is nobody except you understand.
And this is
this is what we call the
what is known as halwa is rejected Islamically from A to Z, it is impermissible, regardless of whatever justification a person has, a person has to stay away from it lead to victory lane and the rule cannot be permissible except when that is the rule of talking about life threatening situation. Apart from that, whether you are a teacher, or you are a doctor, or you are whoever you are, that issue of halwa is prohibited Islamically We have heard a lot of these Subhan Allah is behavior from those people who you never expect them to, to have this bad attitude. And that's natural, actually, that's natural, because once you open that door, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
shaytan is going to be the third. The third one is stay with somebody who is not Yamaha shaytan who is going to be the third one. So somebody who is looking for good for himself shouldn't go for it. We let you know think about your life and your relationship with Allah subhanaw taala. Think about your future. Think about what kind of contribution you're given to the community, the Muslim community, because if you corrupt somebody, because if your attitude and your behavior, the community is going to be be affected, you also have individual level, it will come back to you. You Allah, if you destroy that the family of somebody will come back to you Mom Sharlee has a very nice
poetry when he says in a Xena. They
say now Cocteau, kinda Alpha Obeah Holika.
He says My years and if he waits in the Alpha, there have been few beta he used, the rainy day did.
It says Xena is alone.
If somebody takes that loan, the payment of that loan is going to be done in his house and hope.
That's that's the design. That's how Allah subhanaw taala keep the system stay away from if you don't, Allah will leave you with the reality.
It says the person who goes and pay money, you know, to commit Zina to corrupt you know, the daughter or the wife or the sister of somebody
he made to he used inhabitated didn't he pays 2000. To do that.
If he's not careful, somebody is going to do the Zina in his house, free of charge.
Which one is more humiliated? The second one?
So what is the solution? Just keep the law of Allah subhanaw taala intact and the way it is, and enjoy a lot of privileges you Allah whatever assistance and preserve the Sharia of Allah smart Allah Allah to preserve you as the prophets, Allah Allah. So my set for the La Jolla
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take care of the Sharia of Alaska hotel and protect the religion of Allah. How do you do that? By letting the manifestation of Islam taking place in you?
The Muslim, can I say the Muslim? You might say, Yeah, we are Muslims. I do agree with that. But I'm talking about try to let the manifestation of the word Islam take place in you. What is the mean of Islam? Define it correctly. And then with this, you know, compare this with to life and see whether they're compatible or incompatible.
Islam means the total submission to the will of Allah subhanaw taala which means your life is governed by what Allah subhanaw taala wants, business relationship with others whatever you're doing your life is governed by the Sharia of Allah's muhurta it just like in machine who functions according to what the last mortal plan for him is. We do have a will. But you have to take it like this. Yeah, Allah wants this way. We're going to make it like that. Allah doesn't want this but we're gonna avoid it. For sewline Salah sama told us that this is what Allah smart Allah wants, we're going to do it
curvier desire. And in sha Allah, you will enjoy a lot of privileges. As I said, the last one our data block this means and he opens the doors of Hello. What is that? Hello, marriage. Allah subhanaw taala advise you to marry.
And unfortunately tumors destruction nowadays, and too much entertainment and too much demand.
Yeah, too much demand. We demand too much in marriages. That's why the younger people cannot do it. And somebody is there or just laughing at our community and we think this is something good enough for us to make it so expensive to our brothers and sisters to protection themselves. And then tomorrow we'll bring in the newspaper that these people are committed
Send that, you know, why can't you look at the root cause and cut it off? What do you want, you want protection, protection for your daughter, you want somebody who respects her.
So if this is the case, then you should be reasonable when choosing the person who you think can help you to achieve this goal in your in your daughter, Money shouldn't be the main objective of you're giving your daughter to somebody. Unfortunately, nowadays, it is in many in many places. So what Allah has wanted our brains as a solution, we make it so tough, so difficult, in a way a person needs to really, really do HD.
And that's HD have the prophets Allah, Allah told you the second alternative if you cannot marry, but that he said, he said fast. So Allah facile many places also doesn't work. Why? Because you are surrounded by things which will remove that barrier by force. You have to be realistic in whatever you're doing, right? We're just like that person who the proverb says, alcohol phillium You have to follow Allah Who a year a year can deny. Yeah, that's just a reality. You know, when you make Toba, when you try to stay away from something, you know,
you catch the root cause first, you can just take
the medicine, you know, for poison, you know, and you keep taking the poison after that, you
know, you want to be healthy, you stop it first. And then he checked the medicine, so that he can help the body to remove that which is already inside you. But unfortunately, we're not like that, you know, you use the medicine and you bring the disease also by yourself medicine and the disease by itself. That's why the fast in most instances seems not to be working because if there is no support from our side, Allah wants to see you make an effort, Allah subhanaw taala can catch up the desert completely. And he wants to keep you in the way you are according to your nature. This is where the tester lies. So my dear brothers sisters, rather than doing the wrong thing, rather than
doing the wrong thing, Allah smart Allah has given you a very excellent and nice and beautiful system, which is marriage, go and marry. Protect yourself from the evil of the Sheltie and the wrongdoers and also contribute in protecting the community from from any, any evil. And don't tell me so expensive, Alhamdulillah steady, you can have people who can be left as help and support you to reach your goal in this in this regard. Yes, it is a very nice, very nice act of worship, the intention is good, you know, whatever I always say, you know, scholar, almost everything in marriage is good. As long as you follow the Sharia, almost everything is a
continuous act of worship, you know, you look at your wife, you'll be rewarded, talk to her, the rewarded, shake her hand you'll be rewarded, you know, what else, you have relationship with her, you will be rewarded. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Well, if he bought the rdquo sadaqa in that water that you cast into the womb of your wife, the province Allah Azza wa said Allah will write a charity for you. They said, Yeah, we're so lucky to have you know, shahada who were cool who
are salah, do you mean one of us? If he attained his desire, you know, he enjoyed himself relieves himself, you know, is he going to be rewarded for that? Promise Allah sama said, What do you think if he does that in the Haram way?
Don't you think he would get sin? He said yes, instead of economic aid our other half.
This is just a little bit about the benefits of marriage if it is done correctly, Allah subhanaw taala grant is good. So this person who has this opportunity in a wrong way, but Subhanallah he feels Allah subhanaw taala and say to this woman, in the house of Allah, I fear Allah subhanho wa Taala Allah will reward him on the day of judgment, but putting him under the shade of the ASHA Orajel into Santa coffee syrup acting Fafa Hetalia Charla, my Amin, who mentioned people Shima Do
you have another one was giving charity rich person or whoever he is, but his day then, you know, his man has given charity is to make it
secret. And this is very good. My dear brothers sisters. You don't know how much that person who needs your help feels?
Yeah, you have to understand this. That's why as I always advise, if you know that your brother is in need for lying, you want to make it the best. Do not let him come to you.
Go to his place.
And don't let him talk. Just give it to him and think
that's the best way to do it. Thank you.
No, I should, I should say thank you. You should tell him thank you. I'm really really sure thank you, you know, because if you give him this one ring it
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Allah who they hope you may share last night and multiply, for whomsoever He wishes, that ring that You give the promise a lot, Somerset, Allah is going to grow it for you.
Until the day of judgment. Imagine how much you're going to be receiving from Allah subhanaw taala because that person accepted the gifts for you.
If you if you refuse to take it,
you lost the reward of the charity, but you have the reward of intention.
But that is not equal to the reward of the charity itself.
That's why I said, the sense of respect, let him feel respected. Give it to him. Don't let him be in a situation whereby whenever he sees you, he feels shy. No, don't do that. That's why make it a secret. And don't let his kids see don't let his family know about that. Give him in secret. And tell him please This is between me and you. Nobody should know this. Your wife or anyone of your family. Keep it this union secret. That's good to Gera between you and Allah subhanho wa taala. But how many of us are doing this?
Yeah, I have to bring him back to that kind of miskeen and also any inform everyone that yes, I settle his his problem.
The individual level, this is very, very low. And it is against the man hedge of the surface Allah. Allah Azza wa Jalla says into the southern party
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is an excellent job in the eyes of Allah to give charity even if you expose it as long as you're doing it for Allah, and you don't have intention of humiliating that person. Yeah, because if you have intention of humility in that person, you will lose everything.
Allah subhanaw taala says led to this other country crumble money, whatever. Yeah, we do that as to how Allah sometimes we do the men to who?
So how are you doing man to a stranger is already bad. Or sometimes we do the men to our children.
I bought for him, I did this and I come to my child just because I asked him to do something and he's not willing to do it. And I'll have to care about the one who grow and become mature. And as a father, I bring him Don't forget, last time I paid for his school fees. I did this for you. I did this for you. What is that? Is this your child? The next time also he's going to do this to his his children generation after generation.
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and this telling people that I did this I did that you know, promise a lot of Silla motto one of his wife he says la de la Torre. Wala to key for you Killa Harada. Let's see for your Scylla Holic
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last time I gave you this, you remember that I gave you 100 And the second time also you come and give me another 100 and to see how much I'm giving you know you started counting you know isn't it enough for you?
And you know that this person is elite he did not come to accept that he is really really good. It's not that the person is not like a person who plays
solo solo solo solo at all. Is wife. Don't do that. Because if you do it Allah smart Allah do the same thing. Imagine if Allah spot is doing this with us. I give you a steady food and today I will not give
How do you survive you Allah He imagined Allah never did that if Allah is to do this, nobody will live among us you
lie to Keilah to keep means you have a bag you know that you put your money and you tie the clothes it properly.
The same goes to lead to a you put it in a place and you close it so that nobody can get it from you.
The progress allows someone said Allah might do the same. And you know what does that mean? If Allah subhanaw taala is going to treat you in the same way.
So it doesn't mean you open your hand as the last one that says, well that's a sofa curl buster. Well actually, Jadeja can make Lulu 20 Oh no pick. That's the best expression you know, to tell you. But stingy stingy people
folded the hand
And tighten his neck. You know, there is no way for him. If all it is first, you know, and then he tightens on his neck. Yeah, you have to untied first and then to come and open for you to get something.
Yeah, they're awesome. No matter how much you try,
you will never get anything from read the books of books, just to get a cover, not the author himself, but just to get that word.
Islam doesn't want these type of people. So Allah subhanaw taala wants you to spend for his sake but moderately, right? He says, Well, Tabitha Columbus in the way you didn't fold. And also at the same time, do not open your hand, you know completely and ask everyone to come and pick up everything that occurred the moment
you lose everything and nobody to be blamed, except you. Allah wants moderation even in in terms of impact. So my dear brothers, sisters, this very nice attitude. When I started to develop this concept, even with the little you have, you know, share, whatever you can share, share, and try to do it personally. without sending somebody to do it on your, on your behalf. You can do it personally, you have somebody who's in need next to you, is really good. It's beautiful, actually to see that happiness being cast in his on his face, he will love it Do you will enjoy a lot. Giving a person relief if you're doing it for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala it's equal to giving yourself
relief is fairly nice moment when you see a person receiving something from you. And he's so happy. And sometimes Subhanallah Allah knows how much they suffer. And sometimes they never thought they will get a solution. And then Allah smart Allah brought to you that minutes. That's why some of them say hello, I see them cry.
You know, they are not pretending No, they can control their emotional feelings.
Because many of them, they already reached the state of Yes, to have a support from anyone. And then just like that Allah subhanaw taala bring you to honor you by removing him from that difficulty. And you know what? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, If you give a person relief from his difficulties and worries in this life, Allah promise you to give you relief in the difficulty of the Day of Judgment, make them more current and see which one is more noble, to be given relief, you know, by Allah subhanaw taala on the Day of Judgment, or the money, that I don't want to call it losing your money you're not losing, because Allah is going to replace it also, on top of that, it
will easier first in this dunya and also in the Hereafter, last matter will make you happy evening. So whenever you do it, given a secret Allah subhanaw taala says, he went to Full House to Alpha Kappa Alpha, I will look but if you are to hide it, and to give it to the poor and the needy, or who are highly liquid, Allah says this is better for you.
In what sense? In every senses, first of all, it helps you to maintain your plus it you knew and Allah subhanaw taala. Second of all, also, if you do it in secret, how many people see
one only that if you do it in public,
how many will come and visit your house.
And then you need some EMA, you know, in a strong EMA for you to be able to share the risks, you know, with all of
so you might not be ready for this test, you know, because they will come along if they know you're giving. But if you make it in secret class muhurta that says okay, we'll look we'll look
at the class, and also highly recommend you to live near Molly, so that you can still have some in a way you look and search for those people who are really, really neat. So whenever you give it make it a secret, this is the meaning of Fahad teletype machine manual monitoring people you may know he was hiding it in the way even the left hand does not know what the right hand is. Is is giving you good idea. Please take this attitude. Put your shoe put your put your feet in the shoes of that person who is in me. Always think about it in that way. Put your feet in the shoes of that person who is in need.
What do you like it and would you be happy if somebody is to expose your secret in that nature? There are some who Allah subhanaw taala says Yes, everyone will jarhead agonia in a town of Charlie for whom this email. Let's do the NASA will have
our time so over.
There are some who Allah subhanaw taala described them he said yes. And yet minutes.
When somebody sees them you think they are Alinea.
Why because when he comes out it tried to wash his clothes to iron them properly. If you see him mashallah very smart, you think that this person is
gonna, in original V Dylan, you know.
And he's doing that intentionally so that he will not show complain to anyone. Because if people see him in that fear, they might come and give him church. There's one that say dress, well do this, this and that, so that nobody will approach
someone will have any amulet alpha, telephone dessima homeless and unnecessarily.
So looking for these people and supporting them and helping them is really a great act of worship in eyes of Allah subhanho wa taala. So you want to be
place, you know, among these people on the Day of Judgment, Allah Sparta to reward you by putting you under the shade of the Irish give charity in the way nobody will know about this charity except Allah subhanho wa Taala do it at night, do it in secret, you know, it doesn't mean that whenever they do the charity, they put the one hand in the pocket. So they will not see the the right No, they don't do that. But they do it in secret. They do it a secret, as they mentioned about Ali zonula, when they said he used to give charity, and he used to hide the charities
doesn't want anyone to see. And the people only realized that he was the source of the charity. After he died, when the charity stopped, then they understand that yeah, that was the source of the charity. as well. Here's the carry food on his back to even see the sign of the, the what he called a sack on his on his back because he always carry food and go to the houses of the poor people at night before I
even put it in front of his door. When you come in front of you. You come out of your house and you see a bunch of money in your shoes. And you wish that we will give you to see that somebody for God's putting them in your shoes. What does that mean? There is coming Allah is
this Camila Jojo. I remember in Saudi we did not reach that, but our seniors. In Medina, they said, those people who have a wife and they're living in their houses, from time to time, just come out of your house, and you see have a sheep, somebody put it on your door,
you know, who is that person bring some
food, the rice and all the things you need, they come and put it in front of you though.
Yeah, so these are the type of the people that you want Allah subhanaw To wish Allah smarter will increase the likeness of them, those people who understand the feeling of the poor and the needy, and therefore they look for them as Subhanallah we're living in a time whereby even the right of the poor and the needy, they have to look for it. Which one is the right does occur, this is their money, they have to fight but they have to struggle, they have to do everything possible for them to take a bit because somebody is in control. And they have to please that person for them to get it.
in their life when they Roger so this money is the money of the poor and accountability on this monies is going to be really, really that's where some of the self assala says the wealth of the car is never been mixed with any other wealth, except that that wealth is going to be destroyed.
That's means it is not meant for it to be kept. It is meant for it to be collected and distributed to those people who need it immediately. You mix it with your money, you should expect some tragedy to happen in the money which will mix there's a there's a calibrated last person the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said,
What do you do in the Kerala Kirlian photography diner? And the last person is a person who remembers the last one who Attalla in secret for farmer China. And he cries because of this.
And this is, I think, within the reach of each and every one of us. Yeah, he should always remember this. And how do I make myself like this person?
You have only one way, which is to study about the names and attributes of Allah to know who is Allah first. Because how do you get affected you know, and you cry because of you just remembering somebody that you don't even know
why they're angels, they fear loss martela More than us, because of the facts and the knowledge they have which is greater than us in terms of reality.
You know, they see things which we don't see, the way the prophets Allah is someone. He was told by the angel by the companions that the Iman of angels is the most amazing one. He said, No. They said how about the prophets?
You know, and they said that these are the second category, right? Yeah because they're receiving angels from time to time not from Allah subhanaw taala so that's therefore they are keen is stronger than us. Then knowledge reached the level of yaki. When the prophets Allah Azza Solji really in the in the heavens
heaven number seven, is it right to be in a later post baby? Can Hensel Valley mean fascicular isn't I saw him just like at his little heads is a curb, you know that old banger they used to have a made from the skin nowadays to put food and water in it. It seemed like a very old one.
Which if you touch the old path because it was so old, I saw him sitting down bending his head out of the fear of Allah.
The very very humiliated and humble situation. Why? Regardless of his size, he's like that because he knows who is he did with me guy at a salon as well as alcoholism. I never saw him laughing. So he asked him one day, he said, Yeah, Jabri why how come I never saw mica laughing? Is it because he is told that Allah subhanaw taala not enough because the angels they do when the last one to tell them to do? But mommy Nayla who mahkamah Now who
surgically told him? No. He used to laugh. But from the time Allah subhanaw taala created the help, and he asked him to go and have a look at it. When he came back, he told the angels who are there with him. It said the time to laugh is over. God said up to date. We never saw him laughing.
So that's why it is necessary for Lahemaa Deborah says it is necessary necessary necessary. Take it more necessary than the food you are eating and the water you're drinking to study about Allah subhanaw taala How do you study about Allah through His names and his attributes? It helps you to increase your Eman and at the end of the day you will be able to sit down and reflect upon your attitude and your behaviors and see you know these attitudes and behaviors and reflect upon the one that you are dealing with. Trust me my diverse sisters, you will cry because of this. So insha Allah in the next class we shed light a bit on this and move to the next Hadith BarakAllahu comes to
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There is a question about selling those frames with the ayat and Hadith right.
The problem with this is
when it comes to the way a person is taking care of them
it comes to the place
Sometimes you see the frame being thrown
and people are
stepping on it or putting
things which are not appropriate and sometimes you find them in the garbage bin also.
So, the one who is doing this should understand this fact and that should be
motivation for him to look for another another job no So, there is an opinion by some scholars actually using those things to cover the world is disliked Islamically if not prohibited
So, being on the safe side
the person look for something else is is better for for him I would never advise a person to go for this for this job. Elegant is good
can you recommend any books about the names and
the English I think that is acquired by Ignacio Amin
and there is a book also written by shake up the result
but I don't know whether they interpreted in English they translated or not. In Arabic I know lots, lots of lots of them, but in English, only that one. Somebody told me it is translated is a very good also sauce. Kawaii Muslim maybe call it can guide you to
towards the book in sha Allah. But in Arabic we have covered the cover of the plot of approaches by many scholars concerning the names and attributes of Allah smart Allah and the lessons we can get from every name and how to put it into into practice and actually sharp
alternatively, just learn Arabic
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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.