Ibrahim Nuhu – Riyad Us Saliheen – Hadith 754

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The importance of moderation and following guidance in life is emphasized, as it is essential for healthy relationships and avoiding conflict. The title of Islam is used to portray companions and the importance of water and control of one's actions is emphasized. Severe breathing and avoiding drinking water are also recommended, and practicing the holy bus for prayer is advised. The importance of avoiding conflict between people and avoiding negative thoughts is emphasized, and the need for more clean water and control of one's actions is emphasized.

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			Increasing the amount of hands on food.
		
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			Meaning,
		
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			rather than eating alone, invite others to eat
		
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			with you.
		
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			Yeah, rather than eating alone invite others to
		
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			eat with you.
		
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			That's why
		
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			it is my personal advice to the family.
		
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			You know to have this attitude and behavior
		
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			and the culture of eating
		
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			together.
		
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			Because barakah is being placed in that food
		
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			which people gather and families should sit down
		
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			and eat in one one plate if possible
		
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			rather than everyone getting his own plate.
		
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			Yeah, when you have everyone getting his own
		
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			plate,
		
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			most likely they are going to eat more
		
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			than the norm.
		
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			Yeah, most likely they are going to be
		
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			eating more than the norm.
		
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			So it is the sunnah of the prophet
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wa sallam to eat together
		
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			and also to have more people eating rather
		
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			than individual
		
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			eating their food.
		
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			2 people is enough
		
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			for
		
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			3.
		
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			You have something which is originally meant for
		
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			2 people,
		
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			3 people can can eat and it can
		
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			suffice them easily has your children.
		
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			And, what a'amu filatha kafir arba and the
		
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			food which is prepared for
		
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			you know 3 people
		
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			it is enough insha'Allah
		
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			for
		
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			for 4 people.
		
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			That's burqa from Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and
		
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			subhanAllah.
		
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			This is you know,
		
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			tested.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			What you eat alone, if you invite another
		
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			person, even lai al zurjan, both of you
		
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			can can eat. And it can suffice you
		
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			if we are going to eat according to
		
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			what Islam advises to
		
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			eat in that way.
		
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			Get it? And
		
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			so it helps you also to be moderate.
		
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			Yeah, because usually when we take food we
		
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			take more than what we can we can
		
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			eat or more than what we should be
		
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			eating.
		
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			So the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi wa Sallam said,
		
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			what you prepare for 1 person, you can
		
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			invite another person. What you made for 2
		
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			people, you can invite a third one.
		
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			What you made for 3 people you can
		
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			invite the 4th one.
		
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			Said I heard the prophet, sir, allahu alaihi
		
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			wasallam saying
		
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			that the food which is prepared for
		
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			1 person is enough for 2 people.
		
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			And that which is prepared for 2 people
		
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			is enough for 4 people.
		
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			And that which is prepared for 4 people
		
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			is enough for 8 people.
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			So if you have this and you invite
		
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			other people also to come and join you,
		
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			you save your health
		
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			and at the same time, you get barakah
		
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			being placed in the food, and also you
		
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			get reward by
		
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			extending the the risk to others.
		
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			So, this is the sunnah of the Prophet
		
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			Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, whenever we,
		
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			we eat,
		
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			we should invite others who are in need
		
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			of that food. And as I said,
		
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			a family should be
		
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			applying this at home
		
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			because of the benefit that I had just
		
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			mentioned.
		
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			Imam al Nawi,
		
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			mentioned in the second or the next chapter.
		
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			The topic that discussed
		
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			the Adam
		
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			of drinking water.
		
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			What are the the ethics and the Adam
		
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			of drinking water?
		
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			And also, it is must have that when
		
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			a person drinks water,
		
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			when he decided to breathe, he should breathe
		
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			out of the
		
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			the cup.
		
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			So you put your mouth, when you want
		
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			to breathe, you shouldn't breathe inside,
		
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			breathe outside.
		
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			And it's also disliked for a person to
		
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			breathe inside the water.
		
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			Okay? You have a big
		
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			container, you know, or cup,
		
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			filled with water or milk or whatever. So
		
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			you drink from it. So you're going to
		
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			pass it to the one who is next
		
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			to you.
		
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			And we're sitting like this, for instance.
		
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			Yeah? So, Abdraman start. He's supposed to give,
		
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			Hazid, not to give, because Hazid is sitting
		
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			on his
		
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			on his right side. So this is the
		
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			meaning of was the hibabu at 10 of
		
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			us.
		
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			I'm sorry. Go
		
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			with the right. The right
		
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			side of the one who started. That's why
		
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			he said, ba'al will move today. The one
		
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			who started. Yeah, so he started drinking, he
		
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			finished, he's satisfied,
		
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			pass it to the one on the right.
		
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			Yeah, Rasool Allah loves
		
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			to start things with the right.
		
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			She said the prophet Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam
		
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			he loves to start with, with the right
		
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			side.
		
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			With the right.
		
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			She said, when he the prophet sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wasalam, he's here, he start with the right
		
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			side. When he's performing ghusl also on the
		
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			right side.
		
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			When he's wearing the shoes also on the
		
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			right side.
		
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			She said in every affair of the prophet,
		
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			he
		
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			loves to begin them with the right side.
		
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			You get it? So that's the sunnah of
		
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			the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam. He loves to
		
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			begin things and
		
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			since this is what he has chosen,
		
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			it means it is most humble for a
		
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			person to do it and this is the
		
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			best way to live your life.
		
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			Right, right, right.
		
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			Yeah. Especially when dealing with matters that are
		
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			good, you should begin with the right.
		
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			God, this is what the prophet sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wasallam used to used to do.
		
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			Anasim ul Malik said the prophetess of Allahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam used to breathe.
		
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			Fish sharabi in drinking water. It doesn't mean
		
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			inside the water.
		
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			That's why, you know, he says, kharija
		
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			al sharab.
		
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			Out of the container.
		
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			But in drinking water, he used to drink,
		
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			he used to breathe 3 times.
		
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			Meaning, when he put the cup,
		
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			whatever he is using,
		
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			he drink, and then stop and rest, you
		
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			know, and then take again, and then rest
		
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			and then take again and that's it. Yeah.
		
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			So as Salazar doesn't drink whatever he wants
		
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			to drink at once.
		
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			He cut it into 3 pieces.
		
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			Yeah. Drink,
		
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			and then stop,
		
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			and breathe. And then drink, and then stop,
		
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			and breathe.
		
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			The life of the prophet
		
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			is all about moderation.
		
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			That's why whoever claims
		
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			moderation other than the moderation of the prophet
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wasallam is going beyond the boundaries
		
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			against the moderation actually.
		
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			The path of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa
		
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			sallam is the easiest path, the easiest way,
		
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			the simplest way.
		
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			If you want, if you look for something
		
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			else, you're gonna get into trouble
		
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			and you will get bored.
		
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			Yeah. So that's why going
		
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			about or below
		
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			is against
		
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			The real wasa here in moderation is to
		
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			do it in the way rasulullah sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wasallam did it because it's simple,
		
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			very easy.
		
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			In all the exaggeration of some of the
		
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			companions of Prophet Sallallahu alaihi salam,
		
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			cool down, cool down.
		
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			Give them the easiest way, they can be
		
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			maintaining it until they meet Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala.
		
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			What they can maintain until they meet? Allah
		
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			subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala.
		
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			So that's why make your life like this
		
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			inshallah.
		
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			Your life will be an act of worship
		
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			and full of barakah from Allah's Muhammadu ta'ala.
		
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			You will Allah. Follow in the manhaj of
		
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			the prophet salallahu alaihi salam
		
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			has
		
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			barakah all the time.
		
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			And they will never regret, insha'Allah.
		
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			And you assure a 100% that what you're
		
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			doing is correct,
		
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			you know.
		
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			And what makes it so interesting is that
		
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			this is how Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala wants
		
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			the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam to live.
		
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			And this is what Allah chose the prophet
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. I mean chose for
		
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			the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam.
		
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			That's why nowadays you have this one say
		
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			this this one say that. The best way
		
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			is to avoid all of these conflicts and
		
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			differences.
		
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			Just ask what was it done by us
		
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			Allah sallallahu alaihi wasallam?
		
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			Companions of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam the
		
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			companions of the prophet sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wasallam during the Hajjatulwada You know when they
		
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			came to Madinah to Rasool Allah sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wasallam
		
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			Each one of them is saying I just
		
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			want to see how how is the prophet
		
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			sallallahu alaihis salam going to perform his hajj?
		
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			In your Allah as a best
		
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			method and behavior and attitude
		
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			laid down for us
		
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			to follow by the companions of the prophet
		
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			sallallahu alaihi salaam. That's why they succeeded.
		
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			They were there in the dunya.
		
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			They heard the saying of Allah Subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala.
		
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			You know about them.
		
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			Allah. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says he is
		
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			pleased with them and they're pleased with him.
		
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			The first one is more interesting.
		
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			Right? Allah is pleased with them.
		
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			Yeah. Because everyone can claim that he's pleased
		
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			with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, but these are
		
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			all claims.
		
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			But the main issue is is Allah pleased
		
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			with you alone?
		
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			Does Allah love you alone?
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala loves
		
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			That's why a power says,
		
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			worthy. That's trustworthiness.
		
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			That's why according to the science of hadith,
		
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			when we reach a companion, when we get
		
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			the senate of the hadith,
		
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			Get it? When we reach the companion of
		
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			the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam, case
		
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			close. We close the page.
		
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			No more talking.
		
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			Allah, the scholar said because Allah says he's
		
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			okay with them.
		
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			It's for
		
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			somebody among us to come and talk about
		
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			the companions.
		
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			And that's why those who are cursing the
		
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			companions,
		
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			if you're looking for kalili al adab in
		
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			this dunya, those ones.
		
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			You Allah.
		
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			Even animals,
		
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			if you plea if you do something good
		
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			for them, they support you, you and they
		
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			show kindness to you against everyone, not you.
		
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			As well, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says,
		
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			And that's the beginning of the deviation
		
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			to touch the companions of the prophets of
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is a red light.
		
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			Walaisafilummatika
		
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			sahabah
		
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			filfadani
		
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			wal insafi
		
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			wal isaaba.
		
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			Mr. Fariemi says there is nobody like the
		
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			companions of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.
		
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			If you'll follow in terms of virtue, wallahi,
		
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			there's a joke if somebody thinks that he
		
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			can reach them.
		
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			It's a joke, you know, is, you know,
		
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			Omar Ibn Abdul Aziz, right? You know, Omar
		
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			Ibn Abdul Aziz. Even some some scholars believe
		
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			that he is the 5th Khalifa.
		
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			Although this is in incorrect. This is incorrect.
		
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			The 5th Khalifa should be?
		
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			Who's the 5th Khalifa?
		
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			No.
		
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			Al Hasan bin Ali. You know? Yeah. Because
		
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			the prophet, salawahu alayhi wa sama, talked about
		
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			talked about the khilafat al naboo. He said,
		
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			30 years of khilafat al naboo. The one
		
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			who completed this 30 years was Al Hasan
		
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			ibn
		
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			Nali. He should be the 5th khalifa
		
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			and number 6 is Ma'awiyah radiAllahu.
		
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			Then you can go to Umar ibn Abdul
		
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			Aziz.
		
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			Yeah, if you want to put it in
		
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			this way But why people are looking at
		
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			him in the in this way because they
		
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			see the righteousness. The man is really really
		
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			somebody who's hamduh
		
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			Managed to bring people back to their consciousness
		
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			within 2 years. He lived with their ummah
		
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			for 2 years only in leadership,
		
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			but he managed to bring them back to
		
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			their consciousness.
		
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			They remember those days, you know, in his
		
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			time.
		
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			And he was in there with a few.
		
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			But the good intention, kuliklas,
		
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			high determination.
		
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			Allah's motto supported him with all of those.
		
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			So some people think that he's better than
		
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			Muawiyah.
		
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			Subhanallah, one of the righteous caller said,
		
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			I never saw somebody
		
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			got beaten by
		
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			Omar Ibn Abdulaziz. Omar Ibn Abdulaziz beat him
		
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			up. He said except the person who told
		
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			him you are better than Muawiyah.
		
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			Said that was the first person I saw
		
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			Omar Ibn Abdulaziz beat him. One of the
		
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			righteous prejudices said
		
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			It's a one piece of dust
		
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			that went into the nose of Muawiyah when
		
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			he was fighting with the prophet salallahu alayhi
		
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			wa sama against the enemies of Allah is
		
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			far greater than the deeds of Umar ibn
		
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			Abdulaziz salam.
		
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			One piece of dust, he says, that went
		
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			into his nose is greater than the amal
		
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			of Omar Ibn Abul Aziz.
		
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			Remember rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said?
		
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			Do not curse my companions.
		
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			He says because if one of you is
		
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			to spend
		
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			something that is similar than the amount of
		
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			Uhud, of gold.
		
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			We're talking about gold, not rice,
		
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			not animal, gold like the mount of Uhud.
		
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			You know, so what does that mean, right?
		
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			Mount of God, you know how big it
		
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			is. Right?
		
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			So big, so big, so big. Even some
		
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			are saying it's around 5 kilometers.
		
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			I don't
		
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			think it reached that amount, but it's big
		
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			mountain. You know, from Rasool Badinah, you can
		
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			see that.
		
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			Rasoolah sallallahu alaihi sama said, if you have
		
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			a gold
		
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			like this
		
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			and you spend it for the sake of
		
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			Allah with good intention,
		
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			it will never be equal to one
		
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			full hand of rice
		
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			or wheat that is spent by 1 companion.
		
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			His is more valuable than yours.
		
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			Whereas caller said, Umar ibn Abdulaziz spent
		
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			a lot a lot a lot.
		
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			Agnan Nas, he made people rich.
		
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			By the will of Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala,
		
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			but he's spending from whose money?
		
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			From Baytul Mal not his money
		
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			even if he is spending from his money,
		
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			he can never reach one mood of the
		
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			companion.
		
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			You will love. These are the
		
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			Allah. Nobody's like the companions. So he says
		
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			laysafil umatikasahaba
		
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			fil fadli in terms of virtues
		
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			Wal insafi
		
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			and justice.
		
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			Be you Allah, you will never see somebody
		
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			who is more just than the companions of
		
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			the prophet salallahu alaihi wasalam.
		
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			Hatred and enmity doesn't drag them to
		
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			be unfair to somebody.
		
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			That generation knows nothing except justice.
		
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			You're Muslim, you're a kafir,
		
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			you're whatever you are, they see you within
		
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			the eyes of justice.
		
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			And that's
		
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			Peace and companions. Well, isaba.
		
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			Well, isaba means being so accurate in terms
		
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			of doing the right thing.
		
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			In terms of knowledge, their knowledge is more
		
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			accurate than ours
		
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			In terms of knowledge their knowledge is more
		
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			than ours more accurate than ours. They are
		
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			more knowledgeable than us
		
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			And they're more correct than us.
		
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			No doubt about this.
		
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			Yeah. Although we have some losers, we'll tell
		
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			you they are a jal and we're also
		
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			a jal. What are you talking about?
		
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			Which rajal? Which rajal?
		
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			May Allah grant
		
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			us good and combine us with them on
		
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			the day of judgment. So how did they
		
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			get this?
		
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			Virtue.
		
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			Because they have one thing in front of
		
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			their face, which is,
		
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			what does Allah wants from me and what
		
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			does rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam tells me
		
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			to do? That's it.
		
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			That's why if you go around them the
		
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			amount of controversy about the companions,
		
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			is it a lot? Very little. It's how
		
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			it's just about understanding what the prophet
		
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			salallahu alaihi wasalam is talking about. It's only
		
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			in our time you have all of these
		
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			differences and fightings and battles and hatred and
		
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			all of these things.
		
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			They collect and gather themselves around the sunnah,
		
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			Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam.
		
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			So try and make your life like this
		
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			if you want to succeed and enjoy life.
		
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			So the prophet salallahu alaihi wasalam,
		
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			whenever he drinks, the prophet salallahu alaihi wasalam
		
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			used to used to breathe
		
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			3
		
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			times. Meaning drink, stop first and breathe, and
		
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			then drink again, stop again and then drink.
		
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			That's the most moderate way of drinking.
		
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			You
		
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			don't, you know, punish yourself.
		
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			Because sometimes if you take longer, you know,
		
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			by the time you remove it, you can
		
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			see the way you're breathing.
		
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			Yeah. Logically, you should understand that this is
		
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			not good for you because Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala wants you to act in a normal
		
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			way. Breathe in the way Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala created you to to be breathing.
		
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			But sometimes we drink drink drink and then
		
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			we stop after long periods of time then
		
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			we face difficulty in terms of catching up
		
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			our breath
		
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			breathing.
		
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			The prophet
		
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			said, don't drink whatever you're drinking at once,
		
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			finish it at once.
		
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			He said, don't do that.
		
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			He said, make it mathna,
		
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			twice,
		
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			worthulata,
		
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			or thrice. You know, 2 times or 3
		
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			times, meaning drink and then stop for breathing.
		
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			And then drink again and stop for breathing.
		
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			If you wanna add, add more and then
		
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			stop.
		
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			That's how the prophetess Allah used to do
		
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			and this is his advice to all of
		
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			us, you know.
		
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			Wasamu'ida
		
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			sharifj
		
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			and say Bismillah when you drink.
		
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			Say Bismillah
		
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			when you drink.
		
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			And say alhamdulillah
		
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			when you
		
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			when you stop drinking when you're finished,
		
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			you know.
		
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			That's the least you can do, you allah,
		
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			to appreciate that which Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			has given you. Otherwise,
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says we enter to
		
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			namat Allahi latu suha
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says
		
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			Are we the one who are bringing the
		
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			water
		
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			down from the clouds, heavy clouds?
		
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			No. That's Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			If Allah refused to make it happen,
		
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			We are gone.
		
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			Nobody can live because we cannot survive without
		
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			water.
		
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			How many days you can live without water?
		
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			I think they said maximum 3 days, right?
		
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			Yeah, mostly 3 days.
		
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			Without drinking water completely.
		
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			Food you can take a bit longer than
		
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			that, maybe as long as you have water.
		
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			You have one of our scholars who stayed
		
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			away from drinking,
		
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			from eating for 40 days. He has some
		
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			illness, some sickness,
		
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			and the doctor advised him to stay away
		
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			from food for 40 days,
		
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			and he did.
		
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			It was very tough, but he did. And
		
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			he said alhamdulillah,
		
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			after those 40 days, the the problem was
		
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			gone completely.
		
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			You know, So you can stay away from
		
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			food, but water you can't.
		
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			And you can see the name of Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			Allah may one of the cheapest thing in
		
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			every country you
		
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			go, is water.
		
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			One of the cheapest thing is is water.
		
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			Yeah. If you don't want that clean one,
		
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			yeah, just go to the to the well
		
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			and the river and drink, you know, it'd
		
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			be like the villagers,
		
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			free of charge.
		
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			And even if you want that clean water,
		
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			you see,
		
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			with 50¢, one drink it, you can get
		
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			water.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			So that's mercy from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,
		
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			which most of us are not thinking about
		
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			this.
		
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			Yeah. As Kala said, that is something which
		
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			is more necessary to us
		
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			and to our life than water. What is
		
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			that?
		
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			The air.
		
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			That's why this one,
		
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			we can have control over it.
		
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			The fresh one, right? The good one. Yeah.
		
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			If you don't pay the bill, the water
		
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			will be cut.
		
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			But did you ever see a country where
		
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			if you don't pay the bill of the
		
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			air, you're breathing?
		
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			They stop you from breathing?
		
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			No matter how much they hate you, they
		
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			cannot tell you don't breathe. They cannot stop
		
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			the ever reaching you.
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			Wallahi, this is a big lesson from Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			And
		
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			because the air, the oxygen
		
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			is also created by Allah. It will finish.
		
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			You get it. You are taking away, you
		
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			can That's why if you go to some
		
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			places,
		
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			there is no way for an oxygen to
		
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			come in the airplane. Sometimes the oxygen will
		
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			be very low. Yeah? They tell you how
		
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			to get how to get more. That's made
		
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			good finished.
		
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			Yeah. This is very obvious with us because
		
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			it is created by Allah.
		
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			And you can see how Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala help us and aid us by providing
		
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			us with other creation around us who are
		
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			looking for that which we are taking out.
		
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			The carbon
		
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			dioxide. So they take it
		
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			and they give us back the fresh one.
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			That's how we live.
		
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			So all of these my dear brothers and
		
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			sisters are for us to see how much
		
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			Allah's going to love us and then relate
		
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			this love, intensive amount of love,
		
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			which cannot be comprehended
		
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			by any one of us. Except to just
		
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			say alhamdulillahi,
		
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			we have Allah
		
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			who stands for everyone, ew Allah. The least
		
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			you can do is to say alhamdulillahi.
		
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			Yeah, the least you can do is say
		
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			alhamdulillahi when you
		
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			benefit from this. You remember that scholar that
		
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			will always mention his story
		
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			that told
		
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			a leader, one of the the leaders who
		
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			asked him to advise him. He said, please
		
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			give me an advice.
		
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			He said, he looked at
		
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			the place where
		
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			that that leader was sitting on the table.
		
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			There was a glass of water.
		
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			So he asked him, he said, sir,
		
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			if you couldn't find
		
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			half of this cup of water,
		
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			what would you pay to get it? He
		
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			said, I will pay half of my kingdom.
		
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			I will give half of my kingdom to
		
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			to get half of a glass of water.
		
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			You say, okay, that's fine.
		
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			What if
		
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			the water gets inside you
		
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			and
		
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			it refused to come out. How much would
		
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			you pay to get it out?
		
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			You know, the food we eat, the water
		
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			we drink, not all of them. It has
		
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			to go out.
		
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			Yeah, I was told that in some places
		
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			in the past, long ago,
		
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			they will take a person and put him
		
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			in jail.
		
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			Okay? Those bad people, they'll put him in
		
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			jail. Let him get hungry,
		
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			you know, and thirsty,
		
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			you know, for days.
		
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			So when he's in need of water, they
		
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			will come and feed him with a lot
		
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			of water and
		
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			they will do everything possible to make sure
		
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			that he doesn't pass urine.
		
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			And then later on the urine will turn
		
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			into poison and poison and kill him.
		
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			He will die because of this.
		
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			He will lie is a blessing from Allah's
		
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			mother that the food which we eat which
		
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			is not good for our health, Allah provide
		
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			us with a system that take it out.
		
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			You know, that's why rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa
		
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			sallam, he goes out of the bathroom. He
		
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			says, oh Faranak.
		
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			Some scholars said, allahu alaihi wa sallam, Allah
		
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			knows why the prophet sallahu alaihi wa sallam
		
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			is making his tikfar right after coming out
		
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			of the bath.
		
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			Some of them said maybe, rasulhassalam
		
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			is remembering the blessings of Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala and we're still not doing enough.
		
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			You know because the food you eat, you
		
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			need to take out the one that is
		
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			not good and Allah forbid that provide us
		
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			with a very easy system for us to
		
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			get it to get rid of. So he
		
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			told the king, he said if you couldn't
		
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			find this glass of water, how much should
		
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			you pay for half of it? He said
		
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			half of my kingdom.
		
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			He said, what if you got the water,
		
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			you drank it, but then it doesn't want
		
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			to go out?
		
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			What would you do to to get it
		
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			out? He said, I will pay the other
		
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			half of the kingdom.
		
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			This is hikmatullu alamah. He got what he
		
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			is looking for. So he told
		
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			the the leader,
		
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			the king, he told him, he said, sir,
		
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			Muslim.
		
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			He says, sir, a kingdom that is not
		
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			even equivalent to one glass of water in
		
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			terms of value
		
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			definitely something that you should be staying away
		
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			from it. You shouldn't fight for it.
		
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			You are locked. It's a very true and
		
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			excellent
		
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			naseeham. May Allah grant
		
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			us good. So please do remember this, you
		
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			know, when you eat, whatever you eat and
		
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			say Bismillah. That's the least we can do.
		
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			And whenever you finish eating or drinking say
		
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			Alhamdulillah.
		
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			That's the least we can we can do
		
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			to appreciate that which Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			is doing for you.
		
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			Abu Qata'ala said the prophet
		
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			told the believers not to breathe inside
		
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			the the cup or whatever container they're using
		
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			to drink water. Not to breathe inside. You
		
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			have to take your mouth and take your
		
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			nose outside first, breathe, and then come back
		
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			to come back to it.
		
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			He said I was there when the prophet
		
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			Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam was brought, you know, they
		
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			brought, him.
		
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			Lebanon.
		
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			So they gave him a drink. Lebanon or
		
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			whatever they brought him. The prophet salawahu alaihi
		
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			wa saba drank from it.
		
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			And then after he drank from it,
		
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			at the right side of the prophet salawahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam,
		
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			there was
		
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			there was a Bedouin, somebody from the village.
		
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			And those on the line and the left
		
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			side, they were Abu Bakr and the rest.
		
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			You can see shaitan of Abubakar and the
		
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			rest.
		
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			The distance is the gap between the heavens
		
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			and earth.
		
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			A bad winner and Abu Bakr Abdullah.
		
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			Even the whole ummah, even all of us
		
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			are not equal to Abu Bakr. How do
		
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			you think of bad?
		
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			But the prophet said allahu alaihi wasalam because
		
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			in Islam, the right
		
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			is preference first. So he gave it to
		
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			the Arabi first, drunk it, and then pass
		
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			it to to others. Because he was on
		
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			the on the on the right side.
		
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			Then the prophet
		
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			said, we start with the right and then
		
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			the one on the right, the one on
		
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			the right of that person as well.
		
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			So when he got this,
		
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			leaven, you know, not
		
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			any sharabi, it was leavened, the milk.
		
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			But sheba vima, it was mixed with the
		
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			with the water.
		
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			He passed it to the Bedouin first before
		
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			anybody else.
		
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			Prophets of Allah on one occasion
		
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			Was given a drink they gave him a
		
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			drink and the prophets of Allahu alaihi wa
		
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			sallam drank from it
		
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			and on his right side there was a
		
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			young boy that was Abdullah ibn Abbas.
		
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			So the prophet salallahu alaihi wasalam after he
		
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			finished, he he saw all the the people
		
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			on the on the right there, Abu Bakr,
		
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			Omar and the rest of the big companions.
		
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			So he told,
		
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			that boy, Abdulai ibn Abbas, he said, You
		
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			hula. He said,
		
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			boy, Abdullah ibn Abbas.
		
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			He says,
		
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			would you allow me to pass it to
		
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			them first before you?
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			And this is Abdullah ibn Abbas, right? Young
		
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			in terms of size, but brave mental wise
		
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			is not.
		
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			So he says, You Rasool Allah, not for
		
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			this.
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			He said, not for you left over. Something
		
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			that comes from you, the balance, and I
		
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			give it to somebody else. He said, not
		
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			for this, Yara Surah. He said, I want
		
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			my right. The prophetess of Allah will pass
		
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			it to him first, and then he gave
		
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			it to to the rest. So that shows
		
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			that it is recommended that whenever you drink
		
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			something, if you want to pass it to
		
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			to others, even if on your right side
		
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			is a young person, you pass it to
		
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			him first. Or you do like what the
		
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			prophetess of Allah did, ask his permission first.
		
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			If you refuse, then give it to him
		
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			then,
		
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			the the those on his right side until
		
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			you reach those people who you want to
		
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			give.
		
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			So it's good for the big people to
		
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			sit on the right side then
		
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			to avoid this conflict. May Allah
		
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			grant us good and toffee, can be with
		
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			us, and may Allah grant us ability to
		
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			stick to the sunnah of the prophet sallallahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam in all of
		
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			our affairs.
		
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			The holy siftah is a sunnah to be
		
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			practicing the prayer.
		
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			It doesn't affect the validity of the of
		
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			the prayer.
		
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			It will reduce the the value of the
		
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			prayer because a person will lose rewards,
		
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			And the prophet
		
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			does do our siftah whenever he prays.
		
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			But it doesn't affect the validity of of
		
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			the prayer. So
		
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			a person should try his best not to
		
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			forget it,
		
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			to perfect his reward in the prayer,
		
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			Insha'Allah. But it doesn't necessitate
		
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			when somebody forget it.
		
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			That's the best opinion of the scholars, inshallahahu
		
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			wa za'u sha.
		
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			The other question is about, a brother who
		
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			is advising his sister to wear hijab and
		
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			she doesn't.
		
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			Hijab
		
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			is an honor
		
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			and command from Allah
		
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			for the sisters. Allah
		
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			says,
		
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			Allah commanded them to
		
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			dress properly in the way the hijab
		
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			bring it from head to toe and last
		
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			Muhammadu Wa Ta'ala says to cover themselves
		
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			as the prophet said
		
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			So she should
		
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			cover herself whenever she goes out. This is
		
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			the Sharia of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and
		
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			Allah says, dalika aduna you are Afanafalayudayin.
		
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			This is the best
		
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			and the only way for them to be
		
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			pro I I mean recognized
		
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			and protected.
		
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			In allah, is a big protection.
		
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			After religion, one of the biggest protection the
		
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			sister has
		
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			is, is a hijab.
		
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			You know, that's why not wearing hijab is,
		
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			going to put a sister under a threat
		
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			from any any criminal.
		
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			Yeah. That's why the one who has hijab,
		
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			this hybrid expertise is there.
		
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			Even the bad ones, you know, it's not
		
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			easy for them to approach her with any
		
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			bad,
		
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			and thought or evil intention.
		
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			That's why rarely
		
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			hear those people in hijab and they preserve
		
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			their honor and dignity and they act decently.
		
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			You rarely hear them getting into trouble in
		
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			this in this dunya.
		
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			So that brother should be patient. Keep advising
		
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			her. She doesn't know the value of what
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala asked her to do.
		
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			You shouldn't get bored. Keep advising. Today she
		
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			doesn't accept inshallah, tomorrow she will. If she
		
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			doesn't accept tomorrow, he should keep doing.
		
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			Then don't stop
		
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			it until the time she changed. And he
		
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			should understand that he's her brother.
		
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			And most likely she might accept things from
		
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			others
		
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			without respecting what he says because of that
		
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			relationship between them. That's why he has to
		
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			use wisdom and leniency.
		
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			Be very gentle and very soft and do
		
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			it friendly.
		
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			Do it as a friend, not as a
		
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			commander. Even though if he is a big
		
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			and
		
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			older brother, man, he should be,
		
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			approaching her in a very friendly friendly way.
		
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			Inshallah.
		
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			And he asked that if she refused to
		
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			wear the hijab,
		
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			can he stay away from going out with
		
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			her if they happen to go out? Yes.
		
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			It's not good for him to be found
		
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			because the community also might have negative thoughts
		
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			about him. And it's not good also for
		
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			somebody who's committing sin at a time when
		
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			they are committing the sin, a person should
		
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			cooperate with them. Yeah. And last Muhammad says,
		
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			so we shouldn't. So it should be part
		
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			of his, advice
		
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			to tell her that I can't.
		
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			Yeah? I know you don't understand what I'm
		
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			saying, but, please
		
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			I apologize. I can't go out to you,
		
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			Shubhoy, you know. The last word that I
		
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			grant is put in
		
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			Because he's part of the family, right? Yes,
		
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			of course. Whatever they did, it will come
		
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			back
		
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			to him. And trust me when he goes
		
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			out with them and that the community is
		
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			going to look at him as somebody who
		
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			tolerate what has been done.
		
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			Those who can have the courage to ask
		
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			him, they might call him and ask him
		
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			why this is happening.
		
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			So it's good for him to intensify that
		
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			advice and be patient and also lean in,
		
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			soft, gentle, use wisdom whenever you approach them.
		
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			Because, trust me, they don't understand the value
		
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			of what they
		
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			they're invited to. That's why they are doing
		
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			what they're doing. Inshallah. And also, he should
		
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			always remember that this is his family member.
		
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			This is his his his sister.
		
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			He shouldn't be happy to see her getting
		
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			into trouble with Allah on the day of
		
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			judgment.
		
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			May Allah grant us good.