Ibrahim Nuhu – Riyad Us Saliheen – Hadith 743

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The speakers discuss the importance of respecting "has been" in the context of the book "has been," as it refers to a person who attempted to stop people from reaching the truth. They emphasize the need to stay in the path of peace and not be satisfied with the way people eat, as sickness is a sign of the beginning of a journey. The speakers also emphasize the importance of managing one's health and staying healthy to achieve personal health and happiness.

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			So be the lions, we continue from where
		
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			we stopped the last, those,
		
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			which I believe is a
		
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			new chapter. Right?
		
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			Harish al Wasi.
		
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			We did not talk about that question.
		
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			Just talk about the Wasi himself.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Okay. So last last week,
		
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			we read this hadith.
		
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			But I guess we did not make any
		
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			commentary on it because we talk about the
		
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			narrator,
		
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			Washi,
		
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			a companion of the prophet
		
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			the
		
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			one who killed Khazan and
		
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			accepted Islam later.
		
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			And
		
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			participated in
		
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			the battles,
		
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			especially
		
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			the battle of,
		
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			Yamah,
		
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			between
		
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			Muslimeen
		
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			the Muslimeen and,
		
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			Musalimuddin
		
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			Khidab, the false prophet.
		
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			And he was the one
		
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			according to the most famous, you know, information
		
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			he went to us by the history. He
		
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			was the one who killed wash.
		
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			And, so he takes this as a very
		
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			great
		
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			job. He did which he sees it as
		
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			the compensation
		
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			of what he did wrong.
		
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			So what he thinks is correct because
		
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			getting rid of a false prophet,
		
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			you know, in the Ummah
		
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			is really a big
		
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			that's the reason why the Muslims in those
		
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			days,
		
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			they do not waste time because the existence
		
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			of those entities is very dangerous
		
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			in the nation.
		
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			That's why as Sunnis Qala said, that's why
		
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			the sunnah of Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, these
		
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			kind of entities,
		
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			they don't live longer.
		
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			This is too risky
		
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			for the life and the deen of the
		
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			people to have these people around them.
		
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			In Yerush, Iran is using them to come
		
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			and block
		
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			the means people can get the truth
		
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			from completely.
		
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			So they exist at the time of the
		
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			prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.
		
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			After the prophet
		
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			also, until today also, you still have people
		
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			claiming to be
		
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			to be
		
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			prophets.
		
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			Yeah. Until today,
		
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			they they are they claim that they are
		
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			the prophets of messengers, sometimes Mahdi, sometimes Israel,
		
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			Somalia.
		
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			Somebody called me from one of the countries.
		
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			I heard about him,
		
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			but when he called and then he did
		
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			he told me he's east of the Miami.
		
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			Very pathetic, you know, subhanallah,
		
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			kind of mentality. You pity him the way
		
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			he he talks. Typical,
		
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			ignorant, and and
		
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			somebody who has mental illness, but SubhanAllah, Sha'an
		
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			is using it. And whoever is trying to
		
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			tell him the truth, he sees him as
		
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			a
		
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			dajjal.
		
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			A long stand.
		
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			So a couple of them exist and the
		
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			prophet said
		
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			that is going to be
		
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			around
		
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			30 people who are claiming to be
		
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			prophets.
		
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			Each and every one of them is claiming
		
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			to be a prophet or a messenger Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			You mentioned how many that
		
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			and if you count from the time of
		
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			the prophet, salawahu alaihi wa sama up to
		
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			our time.
		
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			How many people have been
		
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			coming and claiming to be prophets and the
		
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			messengers?
		
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			A lot. That's why this caller said most
		
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			likely, your soon as a Muslim is talking
		
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			about those who will be having influences.
		
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			Those who have influence.
		
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			Not everyone, because we have them a lot.
		
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			And so, a person
		
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			in one of the countries,
		
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			visited.
		
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			And this person, people are calling him al
		
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			Mahdi.
		
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			So I asked, what is the story behind
		
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			him? They said he just came to the
		
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			Bastille one day after Jum'ah,
		
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			and then he told people people,
		
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			do you remember that Rasoolah sallallahu
		
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			alaihi is coming? They said yes.
		
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			He said,
		
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			You have a lot of characters in this
		
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			dunya.
		
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			He's a ramblower. So then, people just remove
		
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			his name. They start calling him mad. It's
		
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			easy as majnu.
		
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			Because these are the signs of the day
		
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			of judgement
		
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			that cannot be hidden, you
		
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			know. Cannot be hidden at all. When mad
		
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			he comes,
		
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			we don't need each jihad to understand whether
		
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			this is Mahdi or not.
		
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			Because you are on a path that is
		
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			very straightforward.
		
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			Respecting Allah, respecting the prophets of Allah, respecting
		
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			the deen.
		
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			The most important
		
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			information you have
		
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			is the
		
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			Quran and the Sunnah of the prophet of
		
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			Allah.
		
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			You're very humble and obedient,
		
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			stopping in the place where Allah wants to
		
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			let
		
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			you.
		
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			Some of these people, you know, from the
		
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			beginning if you see the way that they
		
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			are things go, you can predict
		
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			most likely this person is gonna conclude like
		
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			this.
		
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			And subhanallah, you see the man on the
		
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			day, either claiming to be Mahdi or somebody
		
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			who is infallible, you know?
		
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			The beginning of the journey can tell you
		
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			most likely where is this person going to
		
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			end.
		
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			So the only protection you have
		
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			against sheikhan using you
		
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			to reach
		
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			his
		
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			goals. Is to stick to that which was
		
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			brought by the prophet Muhammad Ali
		
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			Hassan. So alhamdulillah. We thank Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala and hold hold upon this, you know,
		
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			path.
		
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			Our scholars, this is their path. That's why
		
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			their life was
		
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			runs very smoothly.
		
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			They had no issues.
		
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			We live in a time whereby,
		
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			you know,
		
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			People have
		
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			issues. A lot of issues.
		
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			Because we are not willing to submit in
		
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			the way they submitted.
		
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			We think we have the capacity also to
		
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			come up with our own version, so we
		
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			get lost at the end of the day.
		
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			Neither preserve that which is given to us
		
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			And not being able also
		
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			to enjoy what we introduce.
		
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			And we put initially
		
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			the state of
		
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			chaos. So,
		
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			was the one who killed Hamza. And also
		
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			during the battle of Yamama, he killed
		
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			So he says
		
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			Some of the companions of the prophet salallahu
		
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			alayhi wa sama said, you Rasulullah,
		
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			sometimes we eat. However,
		
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			we are not satisfied. You need to eat
		
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			more. We eat, but the need is always
		
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			there.
		
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			We're not full. We're not satisfied.
		
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			The prophet said,
		
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			perhaps,
		
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			the reason might
		
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			be that you get separated when you eat.
		
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			Rather than eating together,
		
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			you eat
		
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			separated.
		
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			Right?
		
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			You know that do you know that food,
		
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			when you are together, the Barakah
		
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			is more.
		
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			You are when you're not eating alone, you
		
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			eat with others, the barakah is
		
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			more.
		
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			That's why for those of you who have
		
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			family
		
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			and you have more children,
		
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			you know. You will see, sometimes the amount
		
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			of the food
		
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			you used to eat, you and your wife
		
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			when you're alone.
		
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			The same thing she is cooking, but it
		
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			suffices 2, 3 more children that exist in
		
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			the house.
		
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			Yeah. Why is that? Because of that, the
		
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			barakah. The prophet
		
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			The food that is meant for 1 person
		
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			will suffice
		
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			2.
		
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			And the food that is meant for 2
		
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			will suffice
		
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			3.
		
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			And there we go.
		
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			The more you have people, the more bulk
		
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			they have any food.
		
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			Although this hadith is read, but Amin is
		
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			correct. We take it from some other
		
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			narrations. Right? He says,
		
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			Perhaps the cause might be that you guys
		
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			are separating yourself.
		
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			This one is eating alone.
		
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			That which one person takes to eat alone,
		
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			Trust me, if you invite somebody, both of
		
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			them can eat it. And they're okay.
		
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			Okay. Okay.
		
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			Because as a Muslim, we're not supposed to
		
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			to eat and we we are very full.
		
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			We don't understand this.
		
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			That's why we have a lot of sickness,
		
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			you know. It's very important
		
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			to eat food when you need it.
		
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			Trust me, my dear brothers and sisters, make
		
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			your life like this.
		
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			Eat food when you need.
		
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			Now, because sometimes we program our life
		
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			in a way, I have to take breakfast.
		
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			I have to take the dinner. I have
		
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			to take the
		
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			I miss the lunch.
		
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			So sometimes,
		
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			I did take my breakfast and it was
		
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			heavy.
		
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			I'm still full during the lunchtime.
		
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			But the system tells me I have to
		
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			take lunch.
		
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			What I do, I go I eat.
		
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			I put food on top of that one,
		
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			which is not yet
		
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			digested.
		
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			And Khaldun says, is one of the major
		
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			causes of sickness that a person is is
		
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			getting, which he doesn't know what what is
		
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			the cause.
		
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			And according to his explanation,
		
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			you know, he says because
		
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			when you eat food, the system will be
		
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			busy
		
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			trying to,
		
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			you know,
		
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			filter
		
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			what is not supposed to be there.
		
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			And digest the food,
		
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			you know, eliminate the things which are wrong
		
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			and then send the food to the proper
		
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			places correctly.
		
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			When you take the new one, now the
		
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			system is going to be busy with
		
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			with the new one and neglects the old
		
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			one.
		
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			Yeah. So the old one is going to
		
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			be
		
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			sent to places without
		
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			being properly eliminated.
		
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			I mean the toxins and the bad things
		
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			they are not properly eliminated.
		
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			I'm trying to quote his explanation.
		
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			He said that's why sometimes you've got fever.
		
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			That's why sometimes you got headache. Because something
		
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			is going to the wrong place at a
		
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			long time.
		
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			I found it very interesting. And
		
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			SubhanAllah, they say, oh, even Khaldun is saying
		
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			this and that, you know.
		
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			Even if you don't want to accept even
		
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			Khaldun,
		
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			I believe he is correct
		
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			in his approach that he's wrong
		
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			for a person to eat food when he
		
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			doesn't need it.
		
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			But Rasulullah
		
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			Sallallahu Alaihi wa Sallam said,
		
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			We are
		
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			You never make a bag or sack full.
		
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			That is worse than your stomach.
		
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			The worst place that you make it full
		
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			is your stomach.
		
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			He says,
		
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			it has been rain. Please listen to this,
		
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			sir. It has been
		
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			It is enough
		
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			for a human being to take a few
		
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			spoons
		
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			that will strengthen his backbone.
		
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			You're hungry, you burnt, you cannot walk properly.
		
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			But prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said,
		
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			eat what removes the hunger.
		
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			And be suffice with that.
		
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			Move forward.
		
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			You give your body what it needs.
		
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			Properly digested.
		
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			Deal with it in a good way. And
		
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			it's not that much. It was sent properly
		
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			properly to the places and you maintain health.
		
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			However, there are some of us who will
		
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			not agree with this system.
		
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			Right? They want to eat more.
		
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			Since rasulullah
		
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			did not say it's haram, but he just
		
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			advised you now. He said,
		
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			take note here that the worst thing that
		
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			you're making full is your stomach.
		
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			It is not supposed to be
		
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			to be filled with food.
		
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			He said, if you think you have to
		
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			go for more,
		
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			then
		
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			divide your stomach into 3 parts.
		
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			1 for your food,
		
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			1 for your drinks
		
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			and one for you your breathing.
		
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			Nowadays,
		
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			honest speaking, which one we take among
		
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			both advices?
		
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			Technically, none.
		
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			Even the second one also accepts.
		
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			I might divide my stomach now
		
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			for this moment. After one hour I take
		
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			another food before this one finish, so I'm
		
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			adding on top of that.
		
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			What kind of division is that?
		
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			Playing games with my with myself. Right?
		
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			Professor
		
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			You will love very good and worthy life.
		
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			That's why I always tell you, please buy
		
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			a book called
		
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			These are the scholars. He wrote that book
		
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			on the way to Hajj al Islam.
		
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			Almost 5 and they apologized to another matter.
		
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			When
		
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			it comes to food, Imam Al Qaim says
		
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			that manhaj of Rasulullah SAWS is the best
		
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			of the manhaj.
		
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			See the way the prophet
		
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			is eating food is the best way to
		
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			eat food.
		
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			I will love. The way he sit, the
		
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			way he eats, the choice of food, the
		
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			kind of food the prophet salallahu alaihi wa
		
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			sallam. One
		
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			of the beautiful things I found, you know,
		
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			everything about his sunnah is beautiful.
		
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			One of the most enjoyable things I find
		
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			in the prophet
		
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			always focus on
		
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			the fresh things.
		
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			Yeah. Al Qaeda says he doesn't keep food,
		
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			so that in the morning his wife will
		
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			warm it up for him to eat it.
		
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			No.
		
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			What does that tell you?
		
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			It takes what he needs.
		
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			Yeah. It takes what he needs.
		
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			Do you eat in our canteens?
		
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			You go to the country. I used to
		
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			go and buy food
		
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			from time to time. Sometimes you see on
		
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			a on a table,
		
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			half of the plate has been left by
		
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			the people they already left. They couldn't eat
		
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			it.
		
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			I don't know what that but you you
		
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			see that or you don't. Right?
		
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			What do you call
		
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			that?
		
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			Tavil.
		
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			It's tavil.
		
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			And do we have excuse? We don't.
		
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			If I go and buy the food which
		
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			is already packaged
		
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			and I come by, couldn't eat it, all
		
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			I can understand
		
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			Because I wasn't the one who put it.
		
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			They already put it like that and I
		
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			don't have any choice except to buy the
		
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			way it is.
		
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			But in our place,
		
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			we choose what we want. So I take
		
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			the plate. I don't know how how is
		
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			it.
		
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			Whenever I go to that place, you know,
		
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			I see that you take a plate. You
		
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			know? You go and take what you want
		
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			and then go to the cashier and pay
		
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			the money. Right?
		
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			You never know at this stage, you never
		
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			know the the size of your stomach.
		
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			Until now, you're doing the experiment to see
		
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			whether you can eat this or not.
		
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			E will Allah, we have to think
		
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			wisely.
		
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			And then tomorrow if I'm not the one
		
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			who is sponsored in my education,
		
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			I'll be broke.
		
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			Because rather than spending
		
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			5 ringgit, you know, I went and spent
		
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			10 ringgit for something that I would keep
		
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			it to be thrown in the garbage place.
		
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			You get it? Why can't I save
		
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			that money for the future reference?
		
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			You have some other things that will come
		
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			on board. Not everything, you know, you go
		
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			back to your parents.
		
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			Yeah, you have to act as a responsible
		
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			person.
		
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			The parent should know that yes, you're responsible.
		
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			You know what you're doing.
		
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			That's why sometimes, trust me. That's why sometimes
		
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			when you go back to your parent and
		
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			you tell them, I want to marry. They
		
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			tell you what? No.
		
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			Finish your education first.
		
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			Because they still see you as an immature
		
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			person.
		
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			But you manage to work properly.
		
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			You share with them the success.
		
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			Actually, that last time you gave me 300
		
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			ringgit per month.
		
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			But to be honest with you, I did
		
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			not put myself into difficulty but this is
		
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			how I managed the the wealth because I
		
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			don't see,
		
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			you know, reasonable for me to just buy
		
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			random anyhow and I'm gonna throw it away.
		
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			Why I make myself so full in the
		
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			way I get harmed?
		
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			So I eat moderately. I don't punish myself.
		
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			I don't make life very tough. But I
		
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			have this balance of money left.
		
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			So, and I believe it's good to manage
		
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			my health properly. Trust me, your father is
		
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			going to appreciate this.
		
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			And they know that they're dealing with man.
		
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			The next day, if you're going to ask
		
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			him for something,
		
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			be it the light, Allah, he will not
		
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			hesitate to approve because he knows he's dealing
		
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			with somebody who is mature in light.
		
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			So as soon as the prophet, salallahu alayhi
		
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			salamah, is supposed to be observed in all
		
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			circumstances.
		
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			I'm saying this, because we're having this class
		
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			in our university, so we start with ourselves.
		
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			Right?
		
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			When you go to buy, buy what you
		
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			can afford eating.
		
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			Yeah. That little amount of food which you're
		
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			throwing away and sometimes huge amount.
		
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			Allah, it is better for you to buy
		
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			a fresh one and go and look for
		
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			somebody who
		
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			couldn't eat what you're eating. Invite.
		
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			I'm pretty sure in this university, we have
		
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			some people who are going through financial difficulties.
		
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			Look for them.
		
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			Brother, come and share with me.
		
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			Give him the money. Let him go and
		
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			buy.
		
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			Yeah. You get big reward. Allah's mother will
		
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			replace it for you and you make him
		
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			happy.
		
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			You increase friends.
		
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			Yeah. You don't know. You don't know.
		
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			Tomorrow, you might need them. You're not doing
		
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			it for that. But this is how life
		
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			it is.
		
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			As they say in the wisdom,
		
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			kindness
		
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			doesn't get old.
		
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			The The one who is kind to you,
		
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			whenever you see him you remember that kindness.
		
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			So we don't do it for that. We
		
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			do it for Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, but
		
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			trust me this is how life it is.
		
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			Sometimes you might be in a place.
		
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			A person will come and take you out
		
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			of that obstacle
		
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			and maybe he might tell you, you don't
		
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			know last time.
		
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			You forgot. Remind me that, yes, we met
		
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			last time. Time. And you did this this
		
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			and me. And for me, this is the
		
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			least
		
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			I can provide.
		
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			With. You will we have passed through with
		
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			this.
		
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			Yeah. I'm at the prison.
		
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			You know, subhallah. I got stuck in something
		
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			so,
		
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			I have my own way out.
		
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			But then,
		
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			subhanallah, I was trying to beg the people
		
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			just give me a chance a few minutes
		
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			ago and get it. There is somebody behind.
		
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			That person settled the pain.
		
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			I look at them.
		
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			What is the connection between me and them?
		
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			And then they told me that this the
		
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			little we can pay you with.
		
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			You are more.
		
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			That's exactly what I'm referring to. I had
		
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			to fight back for me to compensate the
		
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			Madeira. You don't want to go fight.
		
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			So just giving you as an example,
		
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			kindness.
		
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			When you do, you don't know what will
		
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			happen in in the future. We didn't do
		
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			it for that. We're doing it for Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. May Allah accept it, but
		
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			this is how Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is
		
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			letting the system function.
		
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			Do good, you will receive
		
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			good in my hands, sir.
		
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			So please be moderate.
		
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			Your eating for your own benefits. The balance
		
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			of the money,
		
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			invest for your akhirah.
		
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			Give somebody who is in need of it.
		
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			It's better for you. Save it for your
		
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			future need. It's better for you than going
		
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			against this, principle and getting yourself into into
		
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			trouble.
		
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			So back to hadith, the prophetess Allahu Soma
		
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			said, most likely when you eat, you guys
		
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			are separating yourself. Everyone is eating alone.
		
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			As I said, this is my experience.
		
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			If we eat alone at home, trust me,
		
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			every single person has his own
		
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			bunch of
		
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			food. Right? The other one also has if
		
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			you put it all together is huge.
		
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			But whenever we eat together,
		
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			trust me, the amount is very little. And
		
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			everyone eat to his satisfactory
		
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			level.
		
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			Desire doesn't finish, you know. Food is so
		
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			tasty. You eat, you keep on eating, eating
		
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			until the time you get harmed.
		
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			You don't know what to do. Sometimes you
		
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			vomit. Sometimes
		
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			you you will become in a very, you
		
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			know, in
		
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			uncomfortable life.
		
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			Uncomfortable situation
		
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			Because whenever you lie down to sleep, the
		
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			food comes here and you have to sit
		
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			down. You know, sometimes you have to walk.
		
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			Sometimes you have to go and look for
		
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			something that can
		
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			help you to have a very loose stomach
		
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			to relax.
		
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			Yeah, rojod. At the first place, why don't
		
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			you just eat little
		
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			and keep the balance for later and come
		
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			and enjoy it.
		
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			And it doesn't even make sense because if
		
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			I like it, what does that mean?
		
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			I keep it for longer. Right? This is
		
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			the best way to make it.
		
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			I keep it for longer. When I like
		
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			it, I keep it for longer. So eat
		
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			a bit.
		
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			Keep it for next day.
		
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			Bring it again, so I can have more
		
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			days
		
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			of enjoyment, you know. But now I put
		
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			it all together.
		
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			I enjoy in few minutes and then later
		
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			on I suffer a sickness.
		
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			The enjoyment is gone. And sometimes also it
		
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			creates a bit of sensitivity between me and
		
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			that food. The
		
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			sunnah of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam is
		
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			always interested if we follow it correctly. You
		
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			will love. Hismanages for your own benefit.
		
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			Don't eat a lot. Eat a bit.
		
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			What you need, and that's it.
		
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			You eat sometimes a bit more. No problem.
		
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			But make sure general behavior,
		
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			don't eat a lot. And as I said,
		
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			don't have this schedule and program that I
		
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			have to do this. I have to do
		
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			that. No. Eat when you need.
		
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			The
		
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			prophet
		
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			said don't be separated.
		
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			Come together.
		
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			Eat together in one place.
		
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			And when you are eating, say Bismillah,
		
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			Allah would put barakah in the food.
		
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			This is in each chapter that we'll talk
		
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			about, the command of the Prophet Muhammad
		
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			to the people whenever they eat, they eat
		
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			from the side of the plate.
		
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			Not the middle.
		
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			Eat from the side, not from the middle.
		
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			And the prophet said
		
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			in the hadith of Umar ibn Abi Salamah,
		
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			said in the hadith of Umar ibn Abi
		
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			Salama, he said, eat from that which is
		
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			next to next to him.
		
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			Him.
		
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			He says, al Baraka.
		
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			Baraka. We know Baraka. Right? And then Baraka
		
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			is
		
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			known to everyone of us.
		
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			Baraka
		
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			is usually
		
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			coming from Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to the
		
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			middle of the foot.
		
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			The barqa when it comes, it goes to
		
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			the middle of the foot.
		
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			That's why the prophet said,
		
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			eat from the side
		
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			and go inside.
		
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			So that until the last minute, you have
		
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			the barakah in it.
		
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			From the below, the spread. So eat from
		
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			the outside.
		
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			That's why it's important for you also to
		
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			take what you what you can finish to.
		
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			Because
		
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			the buttercup might be in the last
		
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			grain of rice that you left in the
		
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			plate.
		
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			That's why rasool Allah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam
		
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			advises
		
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			when the food fell down,
		
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			take it and clean it and eat it.
		
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			Right? Which many of us find it?
		
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			No.
		
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			It's against
		
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			and it's shameful to do that.
		
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			It brings,
		
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			you know, shame to you.
		
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			Friends will tell you what what the
		
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			what are you doing? We still have enough
		
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			food. Please go and get it.
		
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			That's why
		
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			when it comes to practicing this type of
		
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			sunnah,
		
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			just
		
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			you get the reward from Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala.
		
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			Somebody doesn't want to do this, it's up
		
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			to you. Your food fell down, just take
		
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			it and clean it and eat it.
		
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			Somebody doesn't want to practice his cleaning.
		
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			But you do it. Unless there is somebody
		
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			who is listening to the advice of Muhammad's
		
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			followers.
		
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			Falling on
		
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			the ground.
		
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			Container.
		
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			So I'm thinking the way 4 people can
		
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			carry.
		
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			As as soon as Allah submit his generosity.
		
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			In the morning, in one of the mornings,
		
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			And
		
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			they make tariq, it's a kind of food.
		
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			It's hobs the bread. They cut in small
		
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			pieces and mix it with meat. Rasool alaihis
		
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			salam loves it so much.
		
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			So they did the 3 different inside
		
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			the pot.
		
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			For Tifbu Haula, so everyone came to have
		
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			his own portion.
		
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			Falamma Kathroob, and they became so many
		
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			around
		
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			that plate.
		
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			Is to put your knees to the ground.
		
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			You see that humble sitting, you just put
		
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			your knees to the ground. The prophetess of
		
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			Allah sits like that.
		
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			Sikhin is this?
		
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			Because the king,
		
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			the prince,
		
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			all of those
		
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			people, you know.
		
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			Yeah. They sit arrogantly
		
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			in those days.
		
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			So the Arabi, the bed when he knows
		
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			the the culture, the custom there, he says,
		
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			what kind of city is this?
		
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			The prophet Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala applied him.
		
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			He says Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			has made me
		
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			Abd Abd means his slave and noble slave
		
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			of
		
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			grace. Calling himself Abd
		
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			Suggest what? Humbleness.
		
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			Humbleness. I'm sitting
		
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			like this,
		
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			you know, to be humble.
		
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			Allah's word-of-mouth do not make me
		
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			an arrogant
		
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			person,
		
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			uneasy to be approached.
		
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			Eat from the side, don't eat from the
		
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			middle.
		
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			And leave them
		
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			the middle part and allow to barakah, insha'Allah,
		
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			from that place for your food in the
		
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			hands of shirk.
		
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			This type of sitting, inshallah,
		
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			will be explained
		
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			more in the
		
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			upcoming hadith, inshallah. So I will just leave
		
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			this to the next, das. Allah
		
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			grant us good and toffee
		
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			and be with us wherever we are.
		
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			I'm not hungry, I don't need food, but
		
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			the family are eating,
		
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			what should I do? Join
		
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			or just apologize?
		
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			I will suggest to tell them that I'm
		
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			full.
		
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			Why would you eat and harm yourself
		
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			and do something that they will understand?
		
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			Or if there is water,
		
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			you also
		
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			participate
		
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			in. Yeah.
		
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			Or drink anything that will not disturb the
		
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			digestion in in your fruit,
		
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			something like that.
		
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			Yeah. But don't eat in a way you
		
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			go and harm yourself just because you want
		
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			to.
		
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			Please lead somebody. You don't do that. You
		
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			tell them they will understand me, and Allah
		
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			has a solution.
		
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			And the second question is
		
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			about somebody who has arriba money with him.
		
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			He said, can he
		
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			lend this money to somebody else? Give him
		
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			as a law.
		
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			And then later on, he disburse the money.
		
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			Get rid of it. No, he can't.
		
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			Yeah. Because this money is not his money.
		
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			Get it? This money is not his money.
		
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			He's not supposed to keep it with you.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			It's not supposed to keep it with you.
		
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			Support and help but not Lord because this
		
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			is not your money.
		
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			If you are giving the bus alone, you
		
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			are intending to own the money which is
		
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			rebal.
		
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			And you will be considered as a rebal
		
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			taker.
		
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			All the curses and the thing mentioned by
		
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			the sunnah will be on you
		
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			before you get rid of it. I don't
		
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			think you need this at all.
		
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			That money is not supposed to be kept,
		
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			you know, with the one who is passing
		
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			it to you. Or if you happen to
		
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			take it before,
		
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			then you have to get rid of it.
		
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			Meaning, it cannot stay with you. You have
		
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			to