Ibrahim Nuhu – Riyad Us Saliheen – Hadith 735 P1

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The speaker discusses the benefits of eating healthy and respecting healthy foods, especially when dealing with a wife who suffers from addiction. They suggest leaving certain foods on the table and not criticizing them. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of educating others about healthy eating.

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			So inshallah we continue from where we stopped
		
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			last, thus
		
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			and
		
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			If I'm correct last time we got the
		
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			hadith of Abu Hurairah
		
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			that rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wasallam is part of
		
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			his manhaj
		
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			that he never criticized food.
		
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			If he likes it, he eats
		
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			it. If he doesn't like it, he leave
		
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			it.
		
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			But, rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa sama never criticized
		
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			food.
		
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			And I guess I talk about the benefit
		
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			of this ex especially
		
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			when dealing with your wife,
		
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			who suffers
		
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			to please you and to cook for you
		
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			and to support the family
		
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			and to help you you know by Saving
		
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			your time rather than going out and sometimes
		
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			disrespect it. And also, you don't know what
		
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			kind of food is being presented to you.
		
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			I
		
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			told one of the
		
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			the storekeepers,
		
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			I bought juice from him and it was
		
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			written 100%.
		
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			Juice. So I asked him, are you sure
		
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			this is a 100%.
		
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			He says, brother,
		
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			the only 100% juice is that which was
		
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			made by your wife.
		
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			So that's really true.
		
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			Yeah. He said, only 100%,
		
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			juice is the one that your wife is
		
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			making.
		
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			So
		
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			as an appreciation,
		
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			even if you don't like it, just leave
		
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			it without comment.
		
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			Yeah. Taste it and leave it and tell
		
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			her that I'm you are satisfied.
		
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			In sha Allah next time you hold detail.
		
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			Get it and then find a way to
		
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			advise her if you think that this is
		
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			not one of your preference.
		
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			Yeah, but you shouldn't, you know, embarrass your
		
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			wife when she suffered to support you.
		
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			And this is applicable on any any person
		
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			who is
		
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			loving a food you cannot you shouldn't criticize
		
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			that food. Yeah, because you might cause
		
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			that person to dislike the food after that.
		
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			You know sometimes when you see somebody enjoying
		
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			something you might enjoy it because of the
		
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			way you see him enjoy. And as if
		
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			Malik said, I don't like
		
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			aduba,
		
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			kara.
		
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			I think this is a pumpkin. Right? He
		
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			said, I really don't I don't like it
		
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			that much. But when I see the prophets
		
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			are allahu alaihi wasalam at atabahu,
		
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			you know searching for it on the on
		
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			the plate, you know, then he said I
		
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			I love it so much because of the
		
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			way I see the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasalam
		
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			looking for it.
		
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			So,
		
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			you should just eat what you like and
		
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			stay away from what you what you don't
		
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			like.
		
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			Leave it. You know, don't criticize. Don't say
		
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			something bad. He says,
		
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			He says
		
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			You shouldn't
		
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			criticize a food and always imitate rasulullah Sallallahu
		
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			Alaihi Wasallam and he's referring to this hadith.
		
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			Ma'aban Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam atamal kattu
		
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			in ishtahaw
		
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			So this is part of the the ishara
		
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			as zawjia that the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallamah
		
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			have with his with his family.
		
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			You know, you never see somebody like Muhammad
		
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			salallahu alaihi or salam. That's why
		
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			I always mention
		
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			to you guys that
		
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			student of knowledge should be the best in
		
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			this regard.
		
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			Your wife should have a good life.
		
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			They should see the best example.
		
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			Example we have currently is not enough.
		
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			You, Allah, is not enough.
		
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			Yeah, students should really represent Rasool Allah SWAN
		
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			in their homes,
		
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			you know. The wife is marrying you usually,
		
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			you know, most likely because of who she
		
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			thinks you are.
		
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			Coming to the majalis. Okay? This person insha'Allah
		
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			is gonna be the one. But then,
		
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			that's the furlough.
		
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			Not a restriction. You know the person of
		
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			the dunya doesn't care. You know his wife
		
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			can do everything she wants. No problem. You
		
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			know halal haram.
		
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			No problem.
		
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			So she has this unrestricted
		
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			kind