Ibrahim Nuhu – Bulugul Maram #11 2022-12-31

Ibrahim Nuhu
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The importance of protecting coworkers and personal development is emphasized, along with the need for assistance for first nutrition and changing one's strategy. The conversation also touches on the difficulties of winning in face-to-face games and the importance of changing one's strategy. The conversation shifts to a situation where a woman talks about her mother being killed by a group and how she is trying to avoid violence. The speaker emphasizes the need for people to be helpful and avoid negative consequences, as well as the importance of finding one's ability to judge and avoid mistakes and negative consequences.

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			Selling
		
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			washing
		
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			machine will also
		
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			last
		
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			so today we will
		
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			continue from where we stopped
		
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			if I'm not speaking
		
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			from that
		
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			hadith of I shall
		
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			call
		
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			it Alfie
		
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			I shall
		
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			I
		
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			to have Sal so Allah
		
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			is there any
		
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			sisters? Caller
		
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			yes
		
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			she was asking the customer generally
		
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			the brothers and the sisters she's asking Do they also have to participate
		
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			so, I said yes
		
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			if you haven't learned they are also supposed to participate
		
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			no fighting this
		
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			business
		
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			for
		
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			this act abortion is looked at
		
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			perform
		
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			becomes a lot
		
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			patient also they also have this obligation on their shoulder which is
		
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			discounted
		
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			addition
		
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			I shall
		
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			we are we are just about our machines. So, these are all additions that are supporting the first one
what actually I
		
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			should do with the proxy
		
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			a proxy
		
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			in
		
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			another place it is mentioned that the wives of the proxy
		
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			and the proxy services
		
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			you also have to consider that it is
		
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			mentioned
		
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			which is collected by
		
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			the prompts
		
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			and a woman and also somebody who's a weak person
		
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			this we learned that it is not logical to perform to go forward and also from here we learned that
the reward which the brothers and
		
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			sisters
		
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			of course person
		
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			will benefit a lot
		
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			and it is easy
		
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			to get
		
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			similar to
		
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			other types of
		
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			was the
		
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			last part
		
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			to cover themselves
		
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			to be able as much as they can to make sure that they don't mix with
		
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			a totally opposite
		
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			fight
		
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			or flight
		
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			As far as all of these
		
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			raising
		
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			two sisters in the past is that whatever they speak
		
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			abroad is
		
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			so strange to my older child
		
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			drugs
		
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			so
		
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			you have a shouting screaming person
		
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			and also a lot of face to face
		
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			the other one comes
		
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			and they also collide with
		
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			less wrestling in
		
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			all of these things
		
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			so that's totally against them
		
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			it is
		
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			a school is talking about obligations right
		
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			it's not
		
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			the brothers it's impermissible for them to go
		
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			doesn't show that it is not possible
		
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			to learn infinite
		
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			not saving counting they were asking you to watch
		
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			that list
		
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			have different
		
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			origins because
		
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			after talking about this
		
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			he had another topic that says
		
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			chocolate that we'll discuss sisters going out for Jihad
		
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			fighting and also
		
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			fighting successful writing
		
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			concerning
		
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			Muslim mean heavy emphasis on mastering the
		
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			machine
		
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			was today
		
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			Allison
		
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			Allison
		
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			she said
		
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			the son
		
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			in his mother she she bought
		
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			a small knife
		
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			put on there
		
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			so she she bought this or call it lemon is a lot so I might have to hook it I have a little machine
		
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			sales and profits saw that increase and this was a matter of
		
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			you know
		
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			during the campaign after the pumps a lot of summer left
		
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			during the federal market after that we move straight toward to try to meet How was
		
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			the last part Alice's Well my name is
		
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			Raja Kampala Antonia
		
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			about metallic will outdo them
		
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			with because the believers started saying Lenovo Lenovo for the first time the target of the
believers which 12,000. So, they started feeling that
		
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			nobody can can can know when
		
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			and this is really wrong.
		
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			Showed them from day one that
		
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			victory is not based on how many
		
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			people you have.
		
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			But they will tell you against
		
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			1003 times they watch
		
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			the 700
		
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			or 1000 views to 700 because of
		
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			who won the battle they won the battle against 3010 1000 against the beliefs around 1005 If they
reach that
		
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			and they want them that was fine, except in cases that would go in every battle to see. However also
the same thing. In practice we see that the co founder many many many muscles have very little and
they will be so this should remain
		
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			in the heart last part
		
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			classes are by John
		
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			Bush Ah
		
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			Why would he say that because he wants the believers to understand that the betrayed is not because
the angels is not because of the angels participating
		
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			in okay with
		
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			us
		
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			that's for each of the week I
		
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			hear all of those angels
		
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			one angels is enough for the whole dude.
		
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			But Allah doesn't want them to have deficiencies that are in the top that allows Martin as a source
of the victory. So he told them imagine
		
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			waking up
		
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			this message he wants you to be happy
		
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			to have good news.
		
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			But it says woman
		
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			the picture is calling from Los
		
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			Angeles to remember.
		
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			So that's
		
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			how much you think somebody can do something must understand that a lot is on who is making it
happen
		
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			some of what you saw
		
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			last month and
		
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			the good result that is taking place because of the salon.
		
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			Cada for jolla was an Italian character who made a lot of art in in Denmark, this is this shows that
it's okay for them to go and fight. Although if you look at the text properly, you will understand
that it shows the fight in the sense of defense
		
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			not the initial fight
		
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			because it's too risky.
		
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			The sisters means a lot
		
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			it means a lot.
		
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			So it's too risky to risk this part of the human to go further. That's why
		
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			he's not taking
		
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			his wives he take one or two whatever comes
		
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			comes out and prompts us for a moment
		
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			which will
		
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			also teach us what to do
		
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			because most of these journeys are
		
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			going
		
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			so, we have to learn this system and also it has the protection from Allah subhanaw taala which is
extended even
		
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			believers
		
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			does sometimes
		
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			but usually they try their best to restrict in one place and not to let your controls guide tell
them do this.
		
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			So So that's also
		
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			to take that assistance and go with them to
		
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			the peace of mind
		
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			one wants to go because you need man power if
		
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			people who are in good
		
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			health and aided by the
		
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			rich
		
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			then they will have less people placing them so that's why they need assistance for first nutrition
		
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			really available.
		
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			So almost
		
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			as one of those sisters so she said so I think
		
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			in case a may come closer to me, I guess
		
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			so so he said we learned from this that she is a habit not to attack, but to to defend right as
		
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			well as a fee and
		
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			so on the one of the Jews from the better.
		
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			Props the last one put the sisters in one place protection.
		
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			Hassan
		
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			a bit scared of the NRA. So one of the Jews came become closer to the temple.
		
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			She realized that this person is is coming to check whether there was protection.
		
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			So she didn't behave rock and hit him on his head on
		
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			the soil, whatever.
		
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			So she's running down a garden
		
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			Instead of throwing to the juice, when they see that it's definitely a strong protection
		
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			but she told her, please do something
		
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			where it was guitar learning can be made
		
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			learn from it as she is facing the enemies. In a way she is inviting them to come to this.
		
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			You come bring one from you, one from us, let's let them fight the battles in the past.
		
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			And then there's more
		
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			people who plays games
		
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			in history, were told that the warm up themselves practice
		
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			throughout introducing
		
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			is also a capsule system.
		
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			Because the kuffar this deficiency is that fear is the alternative because they are based on
		
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			their face.
		
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			So that's why I see them readily if it is face to face one on one. Usually, cases is,
		
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			you know, so they have to keep on coming. A lot of
		
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			us so many.
		
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			It's not easy for a person to win and games. So that's the reason why we realize this is
		
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			the best is to change your strategy. And he came back to you
		
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			and your 200 to
		
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			200,000. And he's only 3000.
		
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			So
		
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			those Tada, underlining Allah
		
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			they could have thought of the three were killed. And the Donald somebody gave them the bracket to
cut calluses.
		
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			Appropriate for you guys. This is this is not the time to break it
		
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			took this actually unreachable. And
		
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			is not the time to do just
		
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			as long as
		
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			they really could
		
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			be changed the strategy by Mesa Mesa, front, back here, because we shouldn't be here. And who is the
host? I think, what is the nature
		
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			keep some Muslims behind. Let me stay behind.
		
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			After like 30 minutes, you should come and see me keep on pressing up the voice over our
		
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			idea is to let that everything is getting better to more people.
		
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			And if they cannot win
		
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			against 3200. Now
		
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			what does that they couldn't be like,
		
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			shame on them.
		
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			The not many others.
		
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			And that was perfect. There was nobody who's joining this can just be more strategic
		
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			with what he said.
		
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			That's why the article says
		
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			how many how many people
		
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			is that last night.
		
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			So there's not like, it was a
		
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			nice
		
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			day.
		
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			So that's how he escaped for privacy. Because of all those people and here this is different faces
and they want to say but it is.
		
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			So they think that this is different. These are different people. We're not fighting the aesthetic.
So they have this thought and this and then suddenly we hear it as we go so coming from from behind
you other these people can
		
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			understand that our assumptions.
		
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			So that's why we call it push managed to push them
		
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			because at that time we already put the fear of the Muslim army in the heart. It knows they will
never
		
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			dare to follow them. That's why we managed to
		
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			we
		
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			were very little and there's so many images go back in a very systematic way because if we let them
fool us
		
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			so he's kind of first in the way he goes to
		
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			run away
		
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			Kumar if I need to become so huge in auditing
		
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			what else they will never do. So it says this is against the job woman these are these things
		
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			people carry by the guard
		
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			sucking in money
		
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			or whatever
		
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			it says in how do we learn that you can have sisters who went to the prom instead of a is based on
one
		
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			providing water for the for the
		
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			woman and those who are injured
		
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			to give them
		
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			one hour to one hour to see how somebody is fighting and his
		
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			sword or the hour we'll get down to print or she's sitting next to one of the papers
		
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			issued at
		
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			the same time because he has to look at the check and see
		
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			that as somebody who's doing the job
		
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			in a moment sincerity is that little amount of
		
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			established history
		
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			and the whole purpose of this concept and topic is
		
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			to to remove it from that that's why I
		
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			managed to achieve these goals
		
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			what underlying
		
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			Cardona
		
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			the person came to the proxy server asking him permission to sit in the lab so the process
		
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			behind you or
		
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			your parents or the
		
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			caller he said yes
		
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			he said go and participate and perform Jihad taking care of conflict
		
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			that is a blessing of Allah
		
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			says
		
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			for somebody who's looking for these
		
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			life is nearby from Alaska to Atlanta to have to have a parent
		
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			so the purpose of lotsa asked it says
		
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			this is
		
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			Carla some
		
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			massage in the way what
		
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			a massage
		
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			the binary him up
		
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			jihad is invaluable sharp
		
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			environment chakra
		
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			which is obviously yet until
		
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			we were
		
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			in a bar
		
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			it was to military
		
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			okay basically is mentioned how the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam up you know this crowd you
know exhausting once supporting and helping
		
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			his spirit of the law some of
		
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			us really
		
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			see yourself doing something
		
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			and as always tension
		
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			really bring east to the life
		
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			easy
		
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			to handle those phrases
		
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			and Allah subhanaw taala step in and make life easy for you. Well, you have to have a watch
		
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			so
		
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			so he asked the Prophet
		
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			so you see there
		
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			for the parents, you had the
		
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			Color Fill.
		
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			Yes, Potapov did you hide away
		
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			from Hardee's we learned that the
		
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			obligation of hunch will be
		
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			going if
		
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			this
		
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			were the exception of faces
		
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			what are these situations
		
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			there are many situations where
		
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			the parents even if they told the person not to vote he has to
		
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			but other than that it is not worth it they're still alive until they give permission
		
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			What about
		
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			those situations
		
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			number one when they have a lot when the enemy attack that in
		
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			this case no budget for anyone everyone has to defend the country
		
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			we're talking about circumstances where no permission from the parent is needed is
		
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			when the elegant attack
		
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			that can country everyone wants to contribute and participate in
		
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			it
		
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			number two
		
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			is when the Imam selected a person and say
		
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			you have to go there in this case parent cannot stop so when the name of a person comes into the
list of the
		
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			mindset this person is so that that's what is parent cannot tell him he has to
		
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			because the interest of Islam and Muslims is greater than the
		
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			number
		
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			when you are in a place and you find that Muslims are enemies they already is certified and you'll
pass
		
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			is a sale can anyone asked my talents course that's called a circle is how
		
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			to have two
		
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			persons reached that person can whichever way the first place you went to the place and when he go
and sees the enemy
		
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			they're so scared in the race times
		
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			in history class
		
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			to themselves is like the inside of the box.
		
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			And on top of them also they have some they put the same thing also on
		
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			how we resolve them there's nothing in the way they describe them except that
		
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			that's what a lot of them said
		
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			used to
		
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			say that he bought his course so that it can kill
		
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			you want to kill you.
		
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			So, he came to one of the branches and was saying was
		
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			I believe
		
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			that covers nothing nothing no no place you can touch it
		
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			just open
		
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			your eyes
		
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			on the process, so that this state let us
		
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			go and deal with it
		
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			said
		
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			he said
		
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			he said he told them he said he's looking for a safe place because they know these people
		
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			need somebody young me to go and deal with them.
		
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			So they told them so I say he said no The man wants and
		
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			so instead
		
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			so, he said
		
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			a lot of someone told them please give me
		
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			a hug
		
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			most likely after that he said he should
		
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			spear the spear in the way that they shake something like
		
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			the air that comes by or
		
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			that the air is flying with us
		
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			is targeted
		
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			that small
		
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			as well some some somebody
		
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			dies
		
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			and that that person chapter jumped in screaming it or he kept her down and Katella
		
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			They said no accident actually led to anybody said no
		
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			let's see how much he had the
		
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			history of those people in the scene interesting
		
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			was chasing somebody
		
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			is
		
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			this Catholic
		
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			really punishing people
		
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			I was
		
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			one of those men it was like I wish was this person
		
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			suddenly this was him that he was pushing
		
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			and then image started
		
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			so what happened that coffee was
		
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			luckily hits
		
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			because she saw his sphere or so whatever you're exposing because
		
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			it's incredible
		
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			so now he doesn't have it.
		
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			But what is how to deal with it is covered completely with metal heavy metal
		
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			solid industries
		
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			that are most important following him until he hits
		
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			magic
		
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			they have the metal on the neck and
		
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			that enemy elbow and they found his neck was broken
		
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			you know the bent neck was broken
		
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			was that there was
		
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			there was that they started saying
		
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			what is this
		
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			God angry says Keep quiet what kind of sold wedding T Lenka sold one hit here if you say what kind
of hit is this
		
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			like they did so many so much to make sure that Islam succeeded
		
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			and that's
		
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			that's why you can see how much evil is the Shia those people who have nothing to do except the
curse those
		
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			cut off and so he says we learn from this stuff it's not a good person to vote for the haptic the
parents are alive as long as they permit integral he has
		
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			taken care of them it's also
		
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			currently
		
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			awaiting
		
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			him about Jehovah Jackman that is
		
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			a caller
		
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			caller now
		
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			callers
		
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			over here, some kind of plan for buying coffee. I also want to avoid
		
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			so this person
		
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			is probably going to
		
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			do a lot I want to participate and contribute in fighting. But I'm here to ask for advice
		
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			because they already have
		
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			been taken aback by
		
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			he already has.
		
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			People want to volunteer.
		
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			So that's why I want to ask if that's anything which has priority tell them
		
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			otherwise, when the need comes, I was looking for people to come
		
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			up and support.
		
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			So he told him, Your mother is she alive?
		
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			Colin Carlson go on Steve
		
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			stay with Take care.
		
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			So we learn from this that whether the dad is alive or faculty fire and whether the account are
going to be current if he goes out or not. So lesson also mentioned in that general general form,
which means it is not logical for him unless
		
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			they have been removed. So this is the right
		
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			is it mark? Is it intended?
		
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			JIM Oh
		
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			yeah.
		
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			Whatever you
		
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			Number One.
		
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			And
		
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			in fact,
		
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			the majority of this policy is harmful personally for quite,
		
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			as long as his parent told him not to go independent.
		
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			Because when he went
		
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			in the embassy, and they told him not to go and you cannot
		
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			because of ain't prepared is what
		
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			it means an individual has to
		
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			a mother has 10 children.
		
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			One is really the rest of them.
		
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			And we asked him why until
		
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			tomorrow, because album is
		
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			called quantity finance. So he is doing cos she doesn't have any right upon us because one of us is
pitiful.
		
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			So, this is very long, it's kind of like each and every one of them has to contribute, she does have
right over all to be listened to her unless if she asked them to go against a law
		
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			which is oppressive, that they try to stay away from oppression,
		
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			we try to stay with oppression not tickling her child, because she's going to be in trouble. But at
the same time, the last one
		
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			should be kind of good.
		
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			So if, if the GIS is frontline, this is well if it's perfectly fine, but if it is,
		
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			then the permission of the parent is not a condition
		
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			the permission of the
		
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			condition
		
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			is
		
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			available
		
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			from going for jihad in the frontline for whoever's to eat.
		
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			So, somebody says that somebody might say to you that obeying the health is
		
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			and the jihad also when it is
		
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			it becomes so
		
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			then becomes the core right? Why do you say is taking
		
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			and if you look at it,
		
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			if you look at the Messiah, Messiah
		
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			the most part of the society and community is giving preference over the
		
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			last 40 liter piece and the community really
		
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			can they take the property of somebody? Yes, they have to learn how to compensate in a way you will
not get you can replace with something something
		
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			all
		
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			the numbers
		
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			in here
		
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			that must not have to
		
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			say because the most of the genome is greater because it's the
		
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			protection of the religion and protection of those
		
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			of us that have to armor to cut them.
		
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			So this was which is given preference over anything else.
		
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			We put them on a Mustang
		
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			the Mustang
		
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			the Mustang is based on
		
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			protection on Wi
		
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			Fi
		
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			and this shows that there is a demand a preference as well even more than
		
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			shall ever even confirm
		
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			is it also what you prefer? Allah says you have to be counted
		
00:39:14 --> 00:39:15
			big
		
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			reason why you will come to this life
		
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			was to shower you she by the master shower. I shouldn't because you
		
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			will this also learn from this session?
		
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			Yeah, he has to
		
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			give advice based on what he believes to be the best. And then if you're different
		
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			and Mr. Sharma you come and ask me which was the best. I have to tell you how
		
00:39:51 --> 00:39:53
			do I do it? I might not be doing it. But
		
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			that's the managing the sharp weather
		
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			Do you have to tell the person which one is correct
		
00:40:06 --> 00:40:07
			so let's say
		
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			I know everybody I remember getting
		
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			my news yesterday
		
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			yes yes yes
		
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			yes
		
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			they must be shooting
		
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			yes
		
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			then yes the shoe
		
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			industry share that
		
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			so
		
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			you ask a person to explain
		
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			the circumstance course if somebody asked the question
		
00:41:03 --> 00:41:09
			what are these things explained to them you will be able to know that yeah this one is the best this
was
		
00:41:12 --> 00:41:15
			the least in terms of the real world
		
00:41:17 --> 00:41:19
			that you cannot know if you don't ask for
		
00:41:20 --> 00:41:21
			we're trying
		
00:41:22 --> 00:41:24
			to follow this
		
00:41:26 --> 00:41:30
			it's like when somebody asked you I want to join you or
		
00:41:34 --> 00:41:35
			probably conditionality
		
00:41:40 --> 00:41:41
			for instance
		
00:41:44 --> 00:41:47
			which one is the best tell me what happened
		
00:41:49 --> 00:41:51
			he comes to us which was the best
		
00:41:53 --> 00:41:54
			why just
		
00:41:58 --> 00:42:13
			we're not expecting this Yeah, but as far as the shot we can do that if he's asking for advice ask
him what are the if you don't know he doesn't know let's say he's outside he wants to come he has
two options either to leave
		
00:42:16 --> 00:42:18
			and we look into
		
00:42:21 --> 00:42:21
			the causes
		
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			Neverland
		
00:42:27 --> 00:42:27
			Yes.
		
00:42:28 --> 00:42:29
			And yes
		
00:42:35 --> 00:42:36
			we like to use it
		
00:42:39 --> 00:42:49
			so if somebody asks, look at it is not like us you don't like us coming from outside for sure. Best
place for him to hummingbird international community
		
00:42:50 --> 00:42:50
			also
		
00:42:51 --> 00:42:53
			closer to all the needs swimming
		
00:42:55 --> 00:42:57
			and also government topia is something
		
00:42:59 --> 00:43:02
			compared to those other universities.
		
00:43:03 --> 00:43:11
			Anyway, so what I'm trying to say is when somebody asks you for advice, you should ask him you know,
he brings
		
00:43:12 --> 00:43:20
			several options than you should ask to have the details of each and you will be able to advise them
on
		
00:43:27 --> 00:43:28
			kind of what it
		
00:43:31 --> 00:43:31
			was
		
00:43:34 --> 00:43:35
			like well
		
00:43:38 --> 00:43:39
			in another generation
		
00:43:40 --> 00:43:44
			probably my Muhammad is most reasonable doubt the promise
		
00:43:46 --> 00:43:50
			itself to him. He says if your parents are still alive
		
00:43:51 --> 00:43:53
			go back and take the country
		
00:43:54 --> 00:43:56
			take the province you
		
00:43:59 --> 00:44:00
			will be done from it'll
		
00:44:03 --> 00:44:04
			be kind of neat
		
00:44:09 --> 00:44:14
			that he has to take the permission from from if the jihad is not
		
00:44:25 --> 00:44:28
			I guess is the best because the next one we'll be talking about
		
00:44:32 --> 00:44:39
			next one need to be connected with those that came after us we will talk about the permissibility
		
00:44:40 --> 00:44:47
			the possibility or impossibility of staining the lack of promises and also hate
		
00:44:49 --> 00:44:51
			or it is just the reckoning
		
00:44:56 --> 00:44:58
			so we start the last one to
		
00:44:59 --> 00:44:59
			wonder
		
00:45:00 --> 00:45:00
			Last week
		
00:45:27 --> 00:45:27
			I'm here
		
00:45:31 --> 00:45:32
			and also
		
00:45:34 --> 00:45:35
			in setback
		
00:45:39 --> 00:45:40
			like this you
		
00:45:45 --> 00:45:52
			know the the demeanor is not that much apparent in the phone call
		
00:45:53 --> 00:45:56
			if you call them millions of times it's not
		
00:45:57 --> 00:45:58
			within the other
		
00:46:00 --> 00:46:05
			it's on the other machine you know call many times because of the call once or twice a dozen
		
00:46:08 --> 00:46:11
			and I know that people get annoyed
		
00:46:12 --> 00:46:14
			because I will be the person who
		
00:46:18 --> 00:46:18
			doesn't understand that
		
00:46:22 --> 00:46:26
			so sometimes what happens is I will call and
		
00:46:27 --> 00:46:29
			I call I call
		
00:46:31 --> 00:46:35
			So at last few Victor just told me please I'm having a meeting
		
00:46:37 --> 00:46:38
			and what I need from him is not that
		
00:46:39 --> 00:46:46
			but I just need from you just a few seconds and then that few seconds will will give birth to one
hour
		
00:46:48 --> 00:46:53
			and the process is trying to convince that's why the next time on a call
		
00:46:58 --> 00:47:00
			so that's why a person rejected
		
00:47:02 --> 00:47:04
			sometimes especially those people who are personal the
		
00:47:05 --> 00:47:10
			other guy rejects usually the phone sometimes you call it tells you the call is declining
		
00:47:13 --> 00:47:16
			that means sufficient understand why is he declined
		
00:47:17 --> 00:47:19
			no but calling
		
00:47:21 --> 00:47:27
			having does online isn't the same device equal creative destruction
		
00:47:30 --> 00:47:31
			causing equals
		
00:47:33 --> 00:47:34
			So what to do with this
		
00:47:37 --> 00:47:39
			but in terms of meaning
		
00:47:40 --> 00:47:45
			is not equal to the house because housing you're coming to the house of course
		
00:47:46 --> 00:47:47
			the knock on the door is
		
00:47:48 --> 00:47:54
			equal into the privacy somebody is better when he tells you you know just just
		
00:47:59 --> 00:48:01
			knock on the door you can come and go
		
00:48:05 --> 00:48:06
			is just an
		
00:48:08 --> 00:48:08
			excuse for
		
00:48:09 --> 00:48:10
			the madness
		
00:48:13 --> 00:48:14
			so that's
		
00:48:19 --> 00:48:19
			it
		
00:48:26 --> 00:48:32
			as I said if you call once or twice and a person is not really
		
00:48:33 --> 00:48:34
			weightless choose
		
00:48:36 --> 00:48:36
			the question
		
00:48:39 --> 00:48:42
			unless it's really necessarily emerged
		
00:48:44 --> 00:48:48
			called millions of times like his house you know,
		
00:48:49 --> 00:48:56
			he doesn't want to clip out and tell him please this emergency please come out to.
		
00:49:13 --> 00:49:13
			Easter
		
00:49:19 --> 00:49:20
			until they die
		
00:49:22 --> 00:49:49
			and they reach stage of maturity and a parent should be smart. They should frame it children since
the younger age should depend on themselves to make them you know, go for decision making decisions
by themselves or less make this very big and crucial. Since the image is very good, because tomorrow
you will drop down and die. Your child have to figure out how to do
		
00:49:50 --> 00:49:56
			that on some talents. I know that children are so big that every single thing they have to
		
00:49:58 --> 00:49:59
			this has been a thing
		
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			Is something good and they're very obedient for as long as long until they're logically also you
know you are teaching teaching your child to always be independent and this yeah I want to learn
		
00:50:17 --> 00:50:19
			Msh or whatever age
		
00:50:20 --> 00:50:23
			it is not at all not employment
		
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			not certificate provision but in folder the employer
		
00:50:29 --> 00:50:33
			I went to buy something in the country
		
00:50:34 --> 00:50:35
			and then I called my father
		
00:50:37 --> 00:50:38
			What is this?
		
00:50:39 --> 00:50:46
			What is this? I want to go to Alabama State I want to get in a business where my friends
		
00:50:50 --> 00:50:51
			does it make sense
		
00:50:52 --> 00:50:59
			to have big decision in your life? I want to move from Malaysia to another place
		
00:51:01 --> 00:51:02
			I got to ask
		
00:51:03 --> 00:51:04
			what do you think about this
		
00:51:08 --> 00:51:10
			doesn't matter to us is
		
00:51:11 --> 00:51:13
			the sun the sun?
		
00:51:15 --> 00:51:22
			We can have this 100 year old person telling him sir, is that correct? Yes it is
		
00:51:24 --> 00:51:25
			a childhood
		
00:51:27 --> 00:51:34
			like this, it remains and it is a reality. You might ask them because this is very big decision
		
00:51:35 --> 00:51:36
			to change your nationality
		
00:51:38 --> 00:51:39
			is a big decision
		
00:51:40 --> 00:51:41
			you want to get into
		
00:51:42 --> 00:51:49
			business you want to go and play on this person or that person to talk to account
		
00:51:50 --> 00:51:57
			for life as a father I will blame my child my son or my daughter activity happened to us my
condition
		
00:51:59 --> 00:52:02
			but unfortunately in some of the families are
		
00:52:05 --> 00:52:10
			asked me to eat something now which is for everyone
		
00:52:12 --> 00:52:17
			to touch this class to go to the space almost every
		
00:52:19 --> 00:52:20
			way that kids feel
		
00:52:22 --> 00:52:23
			in G
		
00:52:29 --> 00:52:32
			good person to classify and particularize
		
00:52:35 --> 00:52:36
			decisions
		
00:52:37 --> 00:52:38
			according to
		
00:52:40 --> 00:52:44
			big matters, yes, it's appropriate in terms of adult other person to
		
00:52:48 --> 00:52:50
			manage chips and other big issues.
		
00:52:51 --> 00:52:54
			But simple simple matters every single thing you touch on
		
00:52:56 --> 00:52:59
			you have to go until the event that happens should
		
00:53:00 --> 00:53:04
			count should be with this action. Because what are you going to do
		
00:53:07 --> 00:53:08
			and be able to lead
		
00:53:09 --> 00:53:11
			tomorrow it is
		
00:53:13 --> 00:53:14
			today
		
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			and how it
		
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			is
		
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			it's okay just be
		
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			okay. But as I said simple, simple things shouldn't
		
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			because what is happening is you're opening the door for the parents also to expect you to do this
every time.
		
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			And
		
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			people complain
		
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			but you'll never prove to them that you're mature.
		
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			There are things that you will do. They can project and see it they know that a big decision right
which they know you will never do that.
		
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			But
		
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			this is this other place where the test flies should be happy to see that son and daughter are able
to decide
		
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			to execute and to make a success. So sometimes if you fail the penetrability
		
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			other you tell them oh
		
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			these are big matches next time. Share with us. Maybe we have some if we were there we will never
		
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			succeed because we also have experienced
		
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			so you understand
		
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			what to do.
		
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			Last month
		
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			she
		
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			wants to
		
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			go to the police
		
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			You
		
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			can basically without informing them and then you actually have to adhere to old requirements
		
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			Sarah
		
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			the person doesn't meet you
		
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			probably because we will always wait
		
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			doesn't let me come
		
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			all the way from the states it doesn't contain
		
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			this person did not put you in his schedule it has important parts in his life when you just come
like that when you have to stop everything just
		
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			especially on time which is absolutely
		
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			critical
		
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			that you can communicate to him and tell him
		
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			that okay are you free
		
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			to visit
		
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			to avoid any misunderstanding in the future
		
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			so it is really really important not to get a person like that especially people with
		
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			family
		
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			so don't just come and knock on his door without letting him know that
		
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			sometimes they don't have anything you come in they want to work can you probably
		
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			don't even have much
		
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			no I've ever conditions as a confirmation like it's called us if you need them
		
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			out why should
		
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			your salary salary
		
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			fulfill that condition in southern Malaysia
		
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			if your salary which is nice when you fulfill the condition next condition is
		
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			it has to that that man
		
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			must stay with you for one year
		
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			none of these is a problem
		
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			if you look at the conditions laid down by this he had
		
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			to change the
		
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			name of the car it has conditions that must be
		
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			the same
		
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			and so is like half of them by force. And if you look at them they're poor and
		
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			many of them before they are the multiple you have to want
		
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			to be supported you're taking different routes
		
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			to take from the rich to the poor now everything from the poor
		
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			to
		
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			the
		
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			rich
		
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			should have relatives shooting
		
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			as long as they're not sending things which will destroy your family destroying your life and you
tell the one that was
		
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			usually people say you shouldn't be
		
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			so always your parents
		
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			were murdered
		
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			because of mice
		
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			because of my sickle especially.
		
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			It's not that we have a fight.
		
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			I mean that normally people call your parents secrets I go once a week.
		
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			month it
		
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			depends on the circumstance or last month.
		
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			So, let's say that most of
		
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			you will feel lost
		
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			because Allah subhanaw taala sees you know, I might not be able to judge you might not be able to
judge last month he knows humility, ability to
		
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			recall free and circumstances you know, I might play that
		
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			I cannot go but I must
		
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			I might claim that I have some difficulties in going but Allah knows
		
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			so the person who is the last one
		
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			and he does what he can according to his can visit me as the best especially with the current
shipping customer as long as he can call and this call
		
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			what excuse a person has not to call them unless it is very important and he cannot buy the credit
and they're too far from him.
		
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			With that distant relatives
		
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			person can visit them once a month, once
		
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			a quarter please capability, but those close relatives started from the parents, siblings, children
you know
		
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			that connection should remain not to take long time to tie in the
		
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			connection.
		
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			So what I'm trying to say is a person should look into his ability to hit him last night and do what
is according to his temperament he can go every week
		
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			is because you say you feel tired is
		
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			it just depends on what kind of tight tightness
		
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			you're really exhausted, you know, you barely move from the ear position. Yeah, you're going
		
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			to be in this position.
		
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			So exhausted I do so many activities which movement is too risky I started walking and speaking on
the road
		
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			I know that it's too dangerous for me to drive with this
		
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			in the middle of this exhaustion
		
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			icon
		
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			I
		
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			am supposed to be with you today. And I planned for that but unfortunately since the
		
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			machine
		
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			I started sleeping, I try my best to eat I couldn't reach on peace or speaking.
		
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			So do I have permission to stay?
		
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			Let's see for sure all of our say yes, we will visit
		
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			just going to come and see
		
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			that's always a win out. So of course I should look into the circumstances I can go with myself
		
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			cannot work with common sense to talk to them.
		
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			So that's the That's right. So we feel a lot going to
		
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			help us to be kinda good parent.
		
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			Any
		
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			questions? The first one is recently we had a question when we were asking whether when a woman does
pull up, but you need to do and you mentioned that there are two types of follow up and it depends
on that can you understand how it works and what are the two types of
		
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			dementia
		
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			which is all
		
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			clean something to relieve herself from
		
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			that's
		
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			what she does that the chic
		
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			through the process of
		
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			the mentors
		
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			for three apart or in this case since we already
		
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			have for you, because in the normal
		
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			the connection is still there
		
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			until the time she finishes
		
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			this one she already freaked out that she has been. So does that mean
		
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			she has to go through the process of normal process of
		
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			so many schools
		
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			to different opinions and consent always call us
		
01:04:54 --> 01:04:58
			said no. She only needs to go for one
		
01:04:59 --> 01:05:00
			as long as
		
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			shouldn't have to point out, we know that the world is free from any, any child internet. So in this
case, you can just play
		
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			so that she didn't have to wait three, or only one, which means so he just divorce her in a purity,
which he never approached her in that purity.
		
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			After one day, she has
		
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			it's free.
		
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			For them.
		
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			That point is just to protect yourself, just to protect trying to protect me, no circumstances where
you can tell her to come back.
		
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			It's not as he accept, and he granted it granted, the case is closed completely. So that's what we
mentioned. Either we go with them.
		
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			With the first point, we say this tension has to go to process. If you say this first first means
		
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			destruction of the marriage, to separate a person with
		
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			connection. Now you just
		
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			if you go with the first minutes to destroy the marriage, to make it something that doesn't exist,
before we go with this, in this case, let's call us changes to 111.
		
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			To buy the freedom and how does this work? Payment? Yeah. It's very simple. Sure, yeah. Explain to
us how but because the attends which doesn't mention, but you understand yes, it makes sense a lot.
		
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			If not, the President wants to manage what's what is it necessary for him to
		
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			he has to pay Islamically he is supposed to prepare the house is supposed to although some health
cultures are a lot smarter guy assisted as always led into the food losses and the one that is not
fodder for one
		
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			mistake, the house is prepared to put everything
		
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			back in Islamically, the husband is supposed to prepare
		
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			to prepare the house, she just come from her home to his house. She just was happy
		
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			to get it. So he's doing all of these expenses.
		
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			Why did he make because you think she will agree to stay with you? Forever, right? That's why he's
better. She also is
		
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			tomorrow, if she is the cause of the, if he's the cause of the negotiating. He shouldn't charge
anything, he cannot ask for anything. Because he you don't
		
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			even know
		
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			if she's the one who is asking what enters my mind is spent on the inspection or to get the American
		
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			by now she told him I don't want to say
		
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			he lost all these mines. Socially, I said as far as compensation is concerned, you know, to make it
balance sheet got her freedom because she believes
		
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			she got her freedom, but return back the money
		
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			that he made. So tomorrow he can use this money to go to medical a person, she will go home, Kevin
will go to a
		
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			second industry wants to
		
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			get it she got somebody who appeared. But this person for him to get another person who will be
honest and stay with him, gave him back his MA. But your external used to give her a gift is to give
her all of these things.
		
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			But the only one that he or she has to pick if he asked for it.
		
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			And that's why it's always good to
		
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			ask for 1 million.
		
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			You should never so million in her life. And then now she wants to follow and the husband says well
		
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			yeah, maybe throughout her life and the lack of her family members.
		
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			And they said he wants his mom
		
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			that's in the house.
		
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			She's not stay with Him forever. As he says I have
		
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			so as my mom is supposed to be something reasonable. And we don't we don't be one we have to be
optimistic. I
		
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			wouldn't expect failure in marriage but in case it fails. The way out is that is in cases where we
are in business. So that's that's the justification we understand, you know, in it, which makes
sense. A lot of senses. It's not like it's not that yeah, how can we be is divorcing Harmon is okay.
But if she moves him or she
		
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			ask for any requests that you have to deal with.
		
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			This is a condition that
		
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			always allows one
		
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			last
		
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			dose
		
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			and offices