Ibrahim Hindy – The Story of A Verse #21 – She Complained to Allah

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The speaker discusses a practice where a man would compare his wife to his mother and would say something like the statement of his mother. The practice would be considered eternally binding and would result in a marriage relationship. The speaker also talks about a woman who felt embarrassed by her father's actions and talks about a woman who complain to Allah's
the way he spoke to her and is complaining about her father's actions.

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			In the previous demmick period of Jamelia, there was a practice in which when a man would swear an
oath that he would never be with his wife again, even if it happened in just a moment, they would
consider it to be eternally binding that they can never remarry. They can never come back together.
One particular form in which this would take place, a man would sometimes compare his wife to his
mother. So he would maybe in a moment of anger and arguments, he would say something like you are
like, the sight of my mother meaning just like it's held on to for a man to be with his mother. Now
it's hard for me to be with my wife. And if you were to utter something like this, and Jay Hillier,
		
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			they would consider it to be eternally binding, he can never go back to her, he can never have a
marriage relationship with her ever again. One day, someone knocked at the door of the house of the
Prophet sallallahu to send them a woman Her name was holub. In 2000, she knocked on the door and the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam answered, she told the Prophet sallallahu, you sent him that her
husband had said this to her, but now her marriage had been ended eternally because her husband said
the statement to her and so she said to the Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam or messenger of
Allah, He consumed my youth, I was with him when I was younger. Now I'm older, he consumed my youth,
		
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			I sacrificed my womb for him, I had all of his children. And now that I cannot bear children, he has
pronounced the harder over me, he is pronounced this, you know, oath that he declared that I am like
his mother. She said, O Messenger of Allah, I'm not complaining to you. Rather, I am complaining to
a loss of Hannah Medina. I shall not the Allah who was in the house of the Prophet when this was
happening. And the house of the Prophet was small. She was sitting in the corner of the house, but
she said both of them were whispering I couldn't hear anything except maybe one word here or one
word there. She said. Subhana Allah sapan All glory belongs to the one how perfect is the one who
		
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			could hear them even though I was in the room and couldn't hear them. And he responded with these
verses.
		
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			bothers me are long gone allottee to giardino cafes or Wuji high water Stacie you know long one long
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			law has sat me or Bosley
		
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			Lawson down this verse and other rulings in verses to come after, which would show that this
practice of the heart was wrong, and that husbands should not do it and to instruct husbands to have
better treatment to their wives and to provide an avenue for husbands like honus husband, to be able
to repent and to reconcile and to reunite with her. This woman felt oppressed. And Allah subhanho
data sent down verses to defend her and to protect her rights because this religion does not approve
and does not allow for injustice. What is beautiful as well is that this woman, when she was faced
with hardships and difficulties, as she's telling the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam about her
		
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			situation. She says to the Prophet, I'm not complaining to you, I'm complaining to a loss of I don't
want to either. And when Allah responded in the Quran, he says, but semi Allah God has heard what
Odin any tujuh do kaffee zoji ha, what's ash tequila Allah, she's complaining to Allah The one who
is complaining to Allah subhanaw taala and we look at the beautiful story of yaku but I didn't send
him when his son was taken away from him. What did he say? in that school? bethey was needed a lot.
I complain of my grief and my sorrow to Allah subhana wa Tada. How often do we complain to Allah,
Allah responded to this woman protected her son down versus speaking about her when she complained
		
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			to a lot. We often complain to everyone, but we don't complain to Allah subhanaw taala either. When
was the last time you took some time out, you sat in a corner of your house, some time alone and you
complain to a law, you spoke to a law, we're in whatever language you want to and you complain to
Allah subhana wa tada about your state. He is the one who hears our complaints. Just like he heard
that woman while she's whispering to the Prophet sallallahu after you send them and he's the one who
can respond to our complaints subhanho wa Taala well, other people are incapable of helping us in in
the way that we truly need help. And so take this time in your life in this month of Ramadan, to
		
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			turn to Allah to speak to a lot and to complain to Allah subhana wa Tada.