Ibraheem Menk – The good word and the bad word

Ibraheem Menk
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The speaker discusses the impact of words on health and behavior, emphasizing the importance of being calm and relaxed. They also address the use of words in negative situations, such as inciting coworkers to do things, and the potential loss of one's own character. The speaker emphasizes the importance of using words in a positive way to create a positive environment.

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			Bismillah
		
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			Ar Rahman
		
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			AR Medi many more, he saw me as your marine.
		
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			We spent a lot of lives that you will develop for having given us here today once again and we ask
Allah subhana wa tada to surround us
		
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			and to cause his mercy and His Sakina to descend upon us, and to lose
		
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			sight and those whom he has mentioned with them, I mean,
		
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			when it comes to words,
		
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			you know, the words that we attack
		
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			these are extremely powerful tools at our disposal, we need to understand that what we say, affects
the hearts and feelings of the people that we are addressing. So, if I were to stand here today and
insult all of you, you would feel bad, that what is this man doing and you will walk out of the
message
		
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			in outrage at what I was doing to you. So those of
		
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			our words actually affect the manner in which we deliver health is absolutely important many people
and understand the language of the notification language, do you know the Arabic language they know
the auto language, but they don't know how to deliver the message. And when we say deliver the
message, they don't mean specifically from the Pope, but when you are speaking to others, so, there
is a manner in which to speak there are times when which in which you must use a standard This is
times in which you must be calm and relaxed. And the only time you must really express your anger at
something you see also
		
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			is all the above one one that tells us about these mechanisms. And she says that woman can
		
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			solve a lot more I don't know sell them any shamefully but in
		
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			order for you to do that. I was
		
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			never ever took revenge for something except that if the power of Allah subhanho wa Taala was about
to be broken
		
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			meaning then we got angry that is when he stood up consider hate right and wrong is wrong. Let's
draw a clear line in tonight's verses I'm also kind of want to address his elemental john canes Oh
my god. Can you imagine
		
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			kashia Joe
		
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			Do you not see the example of the IT world is like that of a good tree whose roots are deeply rooted
into the ground such that it is
		
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			his
		
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			duty.
		
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			We have been wildly
		
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			Ceylon
		
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			Hello, this basically season three has gone just explain why. And it is beautiful, amazing, tasty
fruit that people will benefit from that thought that people benefit from is nothing. But
		
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			to
		
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			all the three within the division. What is
		
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			your words, your words, bad foods, when you encourage someone to give them a good word you explain
to them in a good manner. They make these words actually painful. And from a possible loss
ourselves. We know that a B word is a form of you don't have $1 or a pound to give the data. What do
you say a good word. And that is enough.
		
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			brightens his day you get to the traffic light is here begging me to tell you hey, get out. You
know, tell him brother, how are you? Well, good to see you. You know today. I don't have anything to
eat. Maybe perhaps another day. That leaves in the good news. Or maybe laugh I joke with him. Tell
him Hey, what happened to you? Okay, what do you do? Make a joke out of anything, leave him with a
heart full of joy. And that is a sudden.
		
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			On the other hand, unless we're kind of worked out that tells us well, I'm not getting it for me. He
		
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			told me he said to me, do you
		
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			have
		
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			an example of an evil
		
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			inquiry is like that of one which has been uprooted. It's been uprooted from its roots. And you can
see it on the ground.
		
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			It has absolutely no stability is lying, they have never seen a tree that's been uprooted. It looks
dead to you. So when you speak to someone, when you say the word when you discourage them, when you
make them feel bad about themselves, what does that do? That actually destroys any goodness, it's
useless.
		
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			no food, no benefit, no release of oxygen is resulting from that. The only thing that you can get
perhaps, is to chop it up and use it for firewood once you use that resource. So this is really no
benefit from that. So the lesson to myself and yourself today is that let us use good words
beautiful words, we see yasumasa
		
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			he had a servant, and this is all the above. And this Sahabi served him for 10 years, 10 years. And
he says well, not
		
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			good.
		
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			Even once in 10 years,
		
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			and he never even said
		
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			and he never says
		
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			that Why did you do this? Why did you not do that? Imagine? He says I was working for you? 10 years.
		
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			But once you pay me Why didn't you do that? Why don't you look at the character
		
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			of law schools what
		
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			we can do to perfect our character. And we ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to grant us those mean or
samancor send them a lot of data and being uncomfortable while also having as many
		
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			articles around