Sheikh Hussain Yee speaks about the regulations and exhortations when it comes to funerals – Episode 10
Presented on Mar 15, 2017
Hussain Yee – Funerals – Regulations And Exhortation 10
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all praise due to a monomial Allah mean me, the blessing, the mercy the forgiveness of Allah subhanho wa Taala be upon all of us. May Allah make all of us have a good ending in sha Allah. May Allah give us a lot of sabar patient.
To all the sisters and a brother we know that
live is full of throttle and Allah subhanho wa Taala even asked us
allows hit a husky bananas on your Roku, Roku Amana homelife tahnoon
are not the answers to human being that we will not test them. Especially for those who say that I am a believer. all believers will be tested by Allah, Allah Allah mean. But how do you overcome the trauma the challenges the test mama? You must have sabar
The only thing you have to do is to have sabar. Now sambar is easy to say it
is easy to learn about sabar, even a marble and I mean when it comes Salama
remind us was that in a bit Sabri was Sala seek help from Allah to sabar.
Meaning when you want to ask me when you want anything from online, the first thing you must have is patient.
And then you must stay connected with him was solid a sub was solid
Now, let us go back to the book first, and then we will explain further Mr. Saba,
according to what is written here, we should be and pasted the one in
page two, the one and we should be discussing about the ideas from Jabir.
But before we continue with that, let us go back to the last had this in the last Hadees
where the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam who is so loving caring to this Omar, even we do not live in his time. He have seen an idea we have seen him before. But his feeling his prayer is with us until the day of judgment.
He will not just leave us here, he'll be waiting for us until the day of judgment to give his shafa
then the profits and losses I'm also remind his Omar the meaning whoever of my oma burden himself with a debt we are talking about that loan, Wu Tang, Wu Tang and try hard to pay it off but dies before fulfilling that I am then his sponsor. Look at Yeah, I don't think anybody here would like to be our sponsor. Yeah, to pay our debt.
We try our way to test ourselves but the prophet who do not know any one of us, but he is telling us if you have the intention to pay, when you borrow a loan, you do have the intention. Because you must remember the profits in Albania. intention plays a very important role. From the beginning. I did share with all of you that the Prophet even reminds me of Dana fillet and we have called the alpha sadhak. In other Hadees not here, whoever have the intention from the beginning not to pay. But he just said I'll pay you back or pay but deep in his heart or her she had no intention to pay them from the day he took the loan. He is stealing, consider his stealing. Or he is robbing another
person stripe. Because we know we've Muslim. We have rights.
And how can Muslim Allah Muslim Nakula Muslim Allah Muslim, Harmon Damo Who am Allah who will who will learn about the Hadees that every Muslim to and then Muslim is sacred, they are alive in this their blood, you cannot just take the live with the reason. And you cannot also take their money without their permission. And you must not embarrass them. Or dis honor their dignity. Even how poor they are.
How ugly they how ignorant they are, you have no right to this on their dignity. You have to respect them as a Muslim. But how about people who are not yet Muslim? They had this thought about Muslim, but how much was not yet Muslim? Can you borrow money from them? Yes, you can. Anybody also can take a loan from here and there. But must you pay? If you land? You borrow money from somebody who are not yet Muslim? Should we pay? Yes.
Here is the man over there. And hamdulillah but here you must be
Yeah. Because over there, they don't have that right anymore. I'm lucky if they're right over here.
They're over there. They don't have their right.
So that's why people who are not yet Muslim sometime want to know about this ruling to make sure that they know who they can learn it but because their life is more here so they will get there right over here.
My dears Hades is talking about those who take a loan between fellow Muslim and then the Prophet said I will be his sponsor.
Do the Prophet would pay back
money with money gold with gold? No. He will trade this is barter trade. In a day of judgment. You don't have gold and silver anymore. They have no value. But what happened is there is a barter trade between the Prophet salon and the one who lent us the money. Then, meaning the prophecy where you just make it halaal for that so and so now in return, I give you my shafa
There's how the Prophet come in. His sponsor is, he will release us from that by offering his stuff to those who and who have helped us in this life, who lent us some money and so on.
But brothers and sisters again, if you look at this at this, if you want extra shafa, then you can lend people more
and then you want them to pay you back here.
But you don't do that because you want to educate the Muslim to be responsible. They when you say something, you don't lie. And you don't break the promise because if you
show them another way out, then you are not helping them Muslim.
In a time of the Prophet Muslim do not borrow for comfort. They only borrow for necessity for that aura for survival. Today, a lot of borrowing is for comfort. So that is something that we have to look into it you know wisely inshallah.
Now, let's continue with the Hadees. Jabir reported that Prophet Mohammed Salah Sam used to say in his code
that mean normally when the Prophet is giving a hot bath Friday called by especially, he liked to remind his ummah, mantra, c'mon, follow or Asada then the Prophet said whoever leave Earth well that mean he has property is for his inheritors for the worries, whatever property that you leave behind normally the rights of the inheritors, the water is is being secured. And you don't have to say anything because they are right is being protected by Allah, how much for the male the female husband or the wife, father, mother, everything is been fixed by Allah. This is the only area that nobody can change.
No one
except if all the inheritors agreed upon that let us give this to someone to just one person to handle to be the trustee to the mother example. We pass it to the mother let mother do what she thinks is good. Then Yes, they can. But they are right is been protected. so happened that one of the siblings said No, I do not want I want my right. So his right or her right must be given.
You cannot fight anymore. Don't fight. While you don't love mother. You don't trust us? Oh no, there's nothing to do with love or trust. Is my right? Don't talk about love and trust yet. Yeah, they have their right so you don't fight for it. If they are not agreeable with the kind of agreement among all the sibling to pass to somebody to the mother or the father or to the elder sisters. Then give whomever one their right to be given give it to them.
The rest who agree then we will agree upon is it's not difficult. It's not difficult.
But don't try to no doubt them that you don't live in a no no no because that is their right right is right.
So whoever live aware it is for his or her inheritors, and whoever lived children all that they are my obligation and responsibility. You look at how the prophets Allah is telling us about his commitment to us. How can we don't love our Prophet
when he was there always for us? We are not with him when he was alive, but he is with us until the day of judgment.
Nobody said this to us in our lifetime. Nobody would tell us that your depth is mine. No, no, no, you're dead you settle.
your property is mine.
Wu Tang you settle by yourself normally.
And I have more right to each believer than his own self. The prophet SAW Some even say that I wanna Allah be Colima min min nuptse I have more right upon them.
And that is why the Prophet put one condition let me know hadoken Hata haba la Meanwhile, De De De De one Nancy. None of us can be a true believers. And t you love the Prophet more than anyone else.
More than your own parents. And even more than
yourself
is that easy to understand?
Who are the companion who proved to the Prophet that he loved the Prophet more than anyone?
The first companions, the first friend of the Prophet went to Islam and he said to the Prophet that I just believe and love what you want me to do.
Omarosa, he said, I love the Prophet more than my parent more my sibling more than my family I'm more than all my friend but I think I still love myself more a bit. Then the Prophet said, you don't have the sound in mind yet. Then he asked then how you must love me even more than okay. I love you more than my cell. Then the Prophet Kang Daniel Eamon is okay. is easy to say them but is today You see, we know the sooner but we are prepared to abandon the sooner just to please another person.
Please our neighbor, please our parent, please our friend just because of our friend, we prepared to sacrifice the Sunnah of the Prophet.
We don't know what kind of love is that new.
There is emotional.
But the left that a lot of black men have given to the companion Mashallah is from their heart.
And because of that, they are ready to sacrifice everything, anything every day, when you see the Prophet, you know how the companion discussed with the Prophet, how do they communicate with the Prophet, they come, they never burden the Prophet at all. What they will do each morning when they meet up with the Prophet, they will ask the prophet
who see come, please remind us of something that is good for us. Number one, or is it a hitman? What can we do for you?
They are always there to serve the prophets and not for the sake of a lot of blood. I mean, and that's why they are so blessed.
This is something that
Allah has put into the heart of the companions of the Prophet.
That's why Allah said to them, radi Allahu
Allah is so pleased with them. And that's why because they are very,
I mean, they are always ready to please a lot of trouble and I mean,
we can slowly develop that kind of a commitment in our life in
anybody who is here to promote the teaching of Islam based on the Quran and Sunnah who are committed, who we are engaged in, we should always try our best to ask them what that we can do for them, and so that they move faster.
In another narration, another Hadith from ebenen. Oman just now is from Jabir Prophet Mohammed Salah, some say, there are two types of death, there are two types of die.
Then as for a person who dies while intending to pay off am his sponsor, very clear again.
But as for a person who died, one not intending the paid off
this is one whose good deeds will be taken away on the day of judgment when there is no dinar or their hand to give
men there's no denying their home to give any more. So what will happen to us because you don't have the intention to pay back.
So in return Allah How will it take away from your good deeds to pass it to the one who
you know who helps you who lend you some money here?
If you tend to have a lot of good deeds and hamdulillah
but if you know that your deeds also we do not know, we are just trying to collect you know, we collect a lot of bonus bonus Ling, you have all this add the bonus there are so many bonus now we are collecting, but we do not know
what is going to happen to us over there. So what is important now, if you look at the second hand, this brother and sister, come back to our intention. Everything will come back to our intention.
And that's why we always remind our people please, you may
In the right intention, if not, you can just be honest to yourself, you don't have the intention to pay back you don't have the means to pay back, then you tell them, no. Can you help me?
And when you ask for help brother and sister, you don't demand
up to them what they want, what they can Alhamdulillah but if they ask you, how much do you need
you don't lie.
If you don't say 1000
that means you are not being honest to yourself and to others.
It's not that people can help you if they have or they will help you but you don't lie to them. But if you are trying to take them for a ride, that means you come in zoom
is zoom
you cannot do that.
So you can just ask what you really need
then it's up to them if they can get Alhamdulillah if they can Alhamdulillah Don't get upset, don't get upset.
Sometime a lot give opportunity to somebody to do good deeds Alhamdulillah and some time
there is a reason also people are not responding. So you just have to have patience again.
And but we are worried today that trend going through the internet
on the online please help me out mean and this is going out for millions of people
a one person just respond 10 ringing he can be a millionaire
all these are very important for us to be very alert. don't respond. If you ask me Should I respond to this meal to respond to this?
Online messages I said now
you know what happened? Even they can use people's name.
They can use different photograph. I normally people say oh, from who's from belong Phillip from home. How can my friend My cousin I got stuck here. No and my lost my passport. I lost my ticket and my money is gone. By now. hamdulillah I have the number.
First thing I will do. I will call them so I'm gonna go Where are you now? I am here. The message I said I got you in another place? No none. I'm here class.
So if you are so naive when you receive this message you make the audience my friend my close friend. He just need 1000 ringgit, what is that? 1000 ringgit for a friend? Normally when we send,
yeah, we immediately send if you don't have your even contact or friend, please, please help my friend.
You're not helping your friend.
Yeah, helping an unseen
person using names.
I have that problem ones know, when I was trying, they are very smart. They know where you're traveling. Sometimes people today are not like before all it they are they are moving. They're monitoring and then that's why you received any of the method added off. don't entertain. Because if the friend really need your help,
and they know they know you so they are close to you, they will call you
that's how you must be very wise today and the world have changed Francis I know. We all have good intention.
But you must be wise we don't like people to take us for a ride. And and we are not helping ourselves you know helping others know that mean? We are hoping the liar to keep on lying the cheater to keep on cheating and is very very bad.
Now if you go to page 32 this is just some remind them something that normally happened to us when a person died.
Or a person who is going to die.
Number one is the recitation of surah Yaseen, a dying person. This is very common for nusantara number one, and later on with some neighborhood. But for people have knowledge, they don't do that. It's not that it's not good to recite the Quran Quran is good for us to recite, but the intention is to recite for the day, or a dying person. They can help them anymore. The dying person The Prophet said, If you visit a dying person, what do you say?
In a easy light
you won't complain
Use them.
And we pray that they respond.
While they respond, don't keep on repeating, you will make them very upset. You want me to resign, and you still force me to keep on saying, we believe that one day recite insha Allah, they will also follow up by themselves. So don't keep on pushing them. You know, they get very angry, upset, they may stop and then you're taught that Oh, they did not recite. At the end of their life, they are reciting by themselves, you just prompt them for war. When they respond Alhamdulillah pray, may Allah strengthen their heart and their faith, turning him to face the paper is not necessary at that point of time you
putting a copy of our near his head, neither he can benefit anything. Even people who's alive now you put one crown beside him, cannot benefit him How are people is going to die in
believing that the devil come to him in the form of his parents only and invite him to disbelieve.
The devil may come in any form not only in the form of a Baron, normally, the shaitan will come in the form of something that he loves most
to distract his
pocket so that he will think of that thing and forget Allah, because this is the last battle between the Satan with us after this he cannot tempt us anymore. When we die, the shaitan cannot get involved with us anymore, is cut off is like the dunya cut off from us. shaitan also is cut off from this. So he would try his best to make us forget a lot.
And that's why the prophets are Muslim remind his oma that we must love a law
and the Prophet more than anything else, you free himself from this dunya for one, so that when the time comes when you go back, you know how to cut off the stream.
Then you are ready
for a good ending.
But they may come in many forms.
If you love a cat, it will come in the form of a cat. If you love flower, it will come in the form of flour. So that you think flour, flour, flour, you die with flour, not La Ilaha Illa
but not just parents.
Now let us go back to chapter three grieving and mourning over the dead. We know that when death strikes, it is very common and natural for the family, especially the relatives and friends of the dead person to grieve for his departure is very, very common.
If you feel that you should not then it is against the Sunnah of the Prophet even grief for his son even know Allah. Yeah, appoint him as a prophet, being human, you must have that kind of feeling.
This great result of the emotional ties that they held towards each other feeling of dependability and knit towards each other feeling of kindness and concern about what will happen to him and so on. Islam does not prohibit grieving, but probably wrong beliefs and practices that people often associate with it. Therefore the check this chapter explained the obligatory permissible, permissible and prohibited practices associated with grieving mourning and offering condolence. Now we know condolence mean, Zia Yeah.
Prophet Mohammed sama mala Sanam, always won his oma to respond is somebody that you know, pass away, you come to know about them, quickly respond and say, we will pray for you Don't worry if you need any help, in fact is known. For those who are still far for those who are close. Immediately you respond and tell them don't worry about food, everything we as your neighbor will prepare food and your family can come and have lunch with us. dinner with us don't burden them that is not just lip service. Show them that you care. You are there for them. Don't let them think of they had to cook now. They got to buy food to feed the family members were around. No, no, no quickly you said
no problem. Anything about food bring come to our place our neighbor. That's what
The Prophet command his oma when jack fires in
pastoral ways it prepare food for the family of Jaffa. That's how we come in now. Tatiana, oh Be patient, but how can you be they have to survive they have to eat.
You know, you cannot say Oh, sabar, you don't have to eat Okay, you know, you're faster and go for fasting. This is not the way we sit asiya we must show them that we also feel for them. And also remind them, remind them that now Allah live demo. Allah love your father, Allah love your mom.
You cannot just
don't show them that feeling you. But can we make that easier for people who are not yet Muslim?
We have family friends who are not yet Muslim, they also go through all this masiva they will also go through all this suffering. Can we make that easier? What do we think?
Yeah, we should meet.
The Prophet never forbid.
If you look at the image, Shafi Imam, Abu hanifa, all of them say there's nothing wrong, because there's no prohibition from the prophet in.
You remember when somebody passed away, Yahoo, or Yahoo is normally the enemy of the Prophet, when the grave when the body was passing, the prophet stand up.
And the Prophet just tends to show some respect. Now, the way we are doing because we only don't do any prayer, because that is forbidden not only for you, for me, even the Prophet what to pray for his own Baron, Allah say, No, even Prophet Abraham on the pray for his father, Allah said know
that we can, but the show that we feel for them for who for the leaving is good.
If you can respond positively,
even use that platform, the best platform to talk to them about God about
this good you can make that onto them.
Show them how we come in and help them
we are helping the living anyhow. is the same thing. Can we send food to their family members? Why not?
Show them you see we Muslim this how we respond when there is a
funeral
of god they have more and normally the Chinese will have their package already.
They have ready is well planned one Something happened, you know there's an agent is going to come in. And the agent who is going to ask them whether they want package a package B or gold or silver or diamond, they have different different categories.
The highest one you pay, they'll get
a better Imam. They also have the Imam they have the Imam to come for chanting. I know this because those who are family are not yet Muslim. You experienced that by yourself.
Independently many days you want them they also have that one day, two days, three days now.
It costs a lot. But if we can come in to do the necessity, not all this, and then naturally just food is good. Yeah, anything to do with food, and maybe their family is coming back. Nobody is there to fetch them. We offer them that service. Okay. We will go and fashion you don't have to worry about those who just arrived and we will try to arrange and make it easy for all of you. No problem.
Being that we are allowed to participate in Islam, there's nothing wrong is our Amala with them. And this is also important.
By doing that, we may open the heart of those who are not Muslim you.
Normally, if we talk to a fellow Muslim, after saying in Allah, he was in La urogen not that Muslim. We can even say in Manila. He was in La Jolla Raji on because there is this general statement when anyone passed away. They also lost creation and they have to go back
in
then
For those who are Muslim, we normally will follow up. More than that after that visit is clearly Akiko. Aloha MK Villone at least is it? Allahu Akbar, Allahu Allah homography Lucha Warhammer, at least you make a prayer, the prophecy as Allah to forgive the soul of the disease. That's all we do.
But for people who are non believer, we just cannot do that. Why?
Because it's against our belief. And also it will hurt them.
They don't like you too. They don't go and do this to my people. They known we have our own prayer.
The Christian have their own way of praying. The Buddhists have their own way of doing things, they would like you to interfere there. And that's where most of them have been taught my Allah.
Just to one ayah LA, come, Dino, come, Amalia, we have to
make it clear, there is your religion, we don't interfere so far Alhamdulillah you never see Muslim who have the right knowledge of Islam interfere in the not yet Muslim funeral. The only thing that we may have problem is when somebody convert to Islam. without the knowledge of the family, then we have some problem here. The Muslim feared that there is their responsibility. And not yet Muslim families it No, this is my children, my daughter, my son is my right to give him a good funeral.
And that is when we have to use a lot of wisdom.
And that's why Islam always want us to encourage people who want to be a Muslim, to be open
that the parent knows so that the parent will honor their rights and our right.
But if they do not know, you cannot blame them from fighting. They thought that is their right. And if they don't do this to their son or their daughter, the father or mother, that thing will happen to them. They have that belief.
Yes, I'm betting is going to happen to them. Maybe the curves of whatever they believe will come to them because they ignore
their family who pass away.
They don't have this kind of maybe they don't believe in shaitan their shaitan is the belief in ghosts.
They believe in Spirit will come that's why when a non Muslim pass away, you don't see that they will just go and
donate their gammon. They don't donate something. They are worried that they do need the Spirit to come and say this is my shirt. Who gives you the right to wait? No. They have the kind of belief Yeah, unless is a family member who they love each other. Then make the soul very happy. Oh you still remember me? You still love me. You're very my Garmin to show the how close you are to me even not with you. They have all this kind of feeling.
They don't do that.
They believe that they will come back.
But we believe now.
So what is important brothers and sisters, we know that Islam do not prohibit us, yet to help to do Tasmania with people who are not yet Muslim, but you do what is allowed.
Mission to Allah Kadar when struck by an affliction of Phaeton, a believer is required to be sabar, patient thrusts that allow will reward him for his affliction and proclaim that he belongs to Allah. And up to him he will return in alila he was in LA he Rajan. When you do tawaf, you remember,
you start from one point, you go back to that point, is a reminder.
Where you begin that we will end there. You've come from Allah to Allah, you return.
There are various aspects of one obligation for submission to a loss, other some detail of this aspect I discuss in what follows patient look at the ayah in sort of Bukhara, verses 155 when a person is struck by an affliction masiva Phaeton
The masiva also can be called fitted, fit and his fitness
allows he will end up no one nakamichi in mineral cofee will enjoy when not seminal am windy one unfussy with Tamara abashiri sabihin.
Allah is telling all of us who believe in Him, we will surely try you with danger.
There is danger here, how fear.
Of course, we all are worried because of many things. We also will test you with hunger
allows of well live and fruits, and then Allah, so give glad tidings to those who have patient wabasha sabihin.
patient should be manifest from the beginning, not married, or damaged by the magnitude of the loss.
And as reported, that allows messenger passed by a woman crying next to a grave. Now what we see now Can the woman go to the grave?
Is by the Prophet did puppet Yeah, at one point, because they just cannot control themselves. So emotional, this delay the barrier.
They don't allow people to put the dead body down.
And that's why the Prophet Fabio
then let me say, the prophet do allow another occasion woman to be around as long as they do not disturb or delay the burial. Those women who can control their motion, and then the Prophet never stopped them. But those who was disturbed the burial, the prophecy no more.
And that's why I did today some country they just put a very big sign, haram for a woman to come to the equation.
They give a general order.
But they forgot that the Prophet have allowed later on they just use the Hadith that the Prophet forbid.
And that's why you have this problem. If you learn the Sunnah of the Prophet, you just take one Hadith and abandoned another Hadith the rest of fitna comes in.
And then people who don't have understand is it what kind of religion is this? What is this teaching these extremists and now the fitna is going to grow. So before we make any comment about Islam, we must have the right understanding. And we must know all the reference properly.
And as reported, that the prophet will pass by a woman crying next to a grave, the Prophet told her it tequila must
have Taqwa of Allah and be patient. Now that woman not recognizing the man is Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sheerest one, leave me alone.
You have not been struck by an affliction like mine.
It's not your son.
It's not your business, leave me alone.
Now what do we learn from this dialogue? Number one, you see how simple the profit is. The way he dress
and the way he move around? He
is like a servant of Allah. There's no special uniform on him. Now, sometimes people will say when you are a scholar, you must have a uniform, you know, your turban must be that high. And you must have red kind of design here or yellow or they start to give you out and you must wear a special kind of Garmin. Normally they say to show that you are not like them anymore. You are scholars from Paddy different uniform. Mufti enter the Grand Mufti another uniform.
Yeah, some people used to do that. No.
But the prophet dress very, very humble. He dressed like an Arab and always his bow, his government do not go below the ankle.
Normally, people say these kind of dress, poor people dressing
and those who are rich the world right there. gammon, the prophet, use that kind of government. So when you see the men
who were anything is by anything above Enter.
Don't look down upon them by fashion. Why this guy like that? Because that is the way the Prophet choose to dress. And we like to follow.
So you encourage your husband to do them.
This is only for men is baloney for men.
If they are not doing that yet
you just pray me Allah give them the love of the sooner.
So now this woman is saying to him because he did not say I'm the Prophet, you see how humble the Prophet
even the woman respond in very negative manner? He never shouted him. He never said Do you know who you're talking to? She had the wisdom of the Prophet, he also have patient
he knows this woman is very emotion. Now he do not want to he just remind her and she respond negatively he just leave
we can be very means and then do you know who you're talking to?
You know the am the professor I say a tequila Be patient get out.
You can do that but the profit long numbers have a lot of patient.
Then later on she was told that that man is Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam extremely distressed and at that at a blunt he hates that to him and said oh last messenger I did not recognize you.
minded the Prophet was angry because he's a very simple man. The Prophet said in a Sabra in our lives
in the patient now the woman is standing okay and listening to you now You called me to be patient and
trying very hard to be patient the prophecy patient should be displayed at the beginning of that prediction.
When thing happened to you, you have the patience to control yourself that is where patient comes in not after
after now all of us have patient extra patient know
when Allah put you into the test and you know how to control your motion your anger that is where patient is that's where the Prophet said that a strong person is not a person who are a good wrestler, a muscular but a person who can control his anger
can we control our anger
they know how you control your anger
sometimes we can number one is your
tan make sure that it did not get out
but we may fail from where
we are we failed normally
we fail because our body language
immediate can see the page
ready should be
I
believe and
then those who who like to promote your I got him. I get in now.
But if you know how to control,
control and then if you understand don't control and your smile.
Day is good.
We'll learn how to smile.
Big smile, no problem.
As long as you know how to control your body language is good.
It's not that you are giving a no you know this is not the right time to respond.
If I respond now is not going to have a good kind of discussion and just control.
deep in your heart. What do you do?
You must say a stick fall a lot.
When you are weak.
When you are down You don't say as Rama you said La Ilaha in nomological it will boost up your spirit make you strong. But when you are too strong. You don't put that in a llama is very, very powerful.
In knowing the time the Prophet when they come line up, they're ready to die.
Because they want to die with life.
They're ready ready.
So when you are feeling so bad,
you're worried you may say something wrong.
You may give the wrong response.
Yes.
But you don't have to say it loud. They get very upset. What do you say stop doing what for
what you say and stuff in law.
So you just in deep in yourself.
So patient, the real patient, according to the teaching of profit is when something happened to you, you know how to control. You don't jump to conclusion you don't get out of control. You scream you say it's like all the messages that you received online today. Through your smartphone, this phone is so smart, but we are not smart. And
we have no control on the ratio, the bounce back.
Wow. If only you can bounce back to the command of Allah in that manner. Masha, Allah in mind is very, very good.
Anything in velocity, you don't even feel anything? Your worry is true or not. You will double check but any other message that come in, you're bound so fast, no, no, no control.
Don't just share everything with a lot of people. You do not know what the news whether it's true is not true. You must be very careful.
So if anybody used to send anything to me if I don't respond, don't get upset.
I have a reason not to respond.
I have the thing. I have the checklist. If I don't find anything yet, I don't respond. I would just be silent because that's what the prophet wants to do.
And then if they still
are very impatient, what should you do?
What should you do if you're not
patient enough to wait for my respond to messages?
You just have the call.
Just make a call
him I'm engaged again. No problem, send another message.
Can I call you
again ASAP just put us up there.
Then I will know that this is important. I will try.
I will try but sometimes I just do not respond to all messages because I have to do my homework first.
So please help me Don't say very hard. No, no, no, no, it's not hard.
I'm worried
and
so we hope a lot. I mean give us the taqwa and the patient inshallah.
Then, this app in addition to patient a person who is struck by a disaster or masiva should look forward to a loss reward and forgiveness for debt disaster. Even is very minor.
This is called the SAP and Allah said, ma Saba min mo see but in elaborate is Neela when my yo min Villa, De Palma la policia in alim in taco Boone vs. 11. No disaster, almost siba strike except by amongst permission. Always remember that when something happened? The first thing we as a believer except is harder.
If not, then it won't happen.
We must have that kind of belief in Qatar. It's amongst Qatar.
And whoever believes in Allah. Now Allah is telling us it was Eve you say you believe in Allah, Allah our guide his heart. Allah is a knower of all things. If you say you believe in Allah, first thing you respond and some things strike you put the law or Masha
remember that same podra law bhamashah foul palace
and hold on the patient
to get further information.
Since death is usually a great disaster,
one should anticipate more reward for it from a mom and a mouth should they reward those who display sincere
examine a person who accept the order and have patient have good thoughts before Allah. Hosni Zhan, biLlahi to Allah. In other Hadith, the prophet said, the believers is unique by themselves. Anything that happened to them that is good, they are thankful and grateful. They praise Allah. anything bad happened. They have been
and accept the data
from both they will be rewarded by Allah. Allah min and the believer always have hostnames on the light. Good does Allah know what is good for me?
You just have to have patient new
patient is not showing our weaknesses or to see they're empowered to respond No no no, you will have to respond when a time come you respond at the right time
at the right place
that is important. Abdullah bin Amma reported that the prophet SAW Nelson said in the mahalaya body movement is as a hub base of e m e Ll r sub
if one of a loss believing seven display patient and disturb when a lot take away from him a beloved one along with a proof for him normally what less than
seeing one comma one so do just little be more patient Andrea in return on our agenda
what a good reward from a lot of blood, I mean
everything belonged to him, everything had to go back to him.
So we learn how to be patient inshallah.
Brother and sister because I also have something to attend to to have the tea.
We have guests from the Middle East when to visit our home. I will be meeting them over so we have about 20 minutes for q&a pod. Is there any question? We open for q&a.
Now
okay.
In this had this is the continue of the earlier days.
Now, it is the same kind of meaning. But it came in a different form. Meaning normally when somebody die, and if he has property go back to the children inherited. But if they don't have property, and then they have debt.
And they have the intention to pay, but the children can pay.
The children can pay
because they don't have property. But when the property is there, it belongs to the children.
But if there's no property, and then who is going to children can bear it, but profit will take the responsibility that he will if they had the intention to pay it the same kind of ideas, but they collect from different different Sahaba
Yeah,
normally, the children should pay
right on that the children must pay the depth of the parent. But seeing the children don't have anything if they have a belong to them.
But again, the IR the other IR there's an IR talk about that, that fara it only can be distributed
after
death and after they pay their debts and after they fulfilled there was yet
but if this do not happen, then there's where the puzzle will take care of the debt. With the condition the person who take the loan must have the intention to pay.
No, it depends you have the intention and that's why the Prophet always inform his oma those who have the means to lend people anything to make it easy for them and allow make easy for you.
But normally if a person has a good intention, they always find means
and they are not running away and we don't like that and we are so close we see from past Romani come now from you disappeared. And now you have to go the long, long way. You know, just because you took some money from me it's not good. Yeah. Nam next question from the sisters. Yes pose. Yeah, for that.
When somebody passed away
I don't I don't know what you're just saying. Oh
yep
yeah we already find these two
we make people look financially and because they are what this is a poser is trying to share you know our tradition the normal way of us responding when we hear somebody pass away even Stan So, anybody before he start the class let us recite Al Fatiha for the disease in them. So LBD recite as Muslim. So, now, this not yet Muslim now, he was exposed to this kind of values culture. So, suddenly he is having a meeting if he's a boss in the company he knows that a lot of his staff are Muslim and the family or the Muslims have passed away he also now remind everybody you know, we are so sad no we give tassia to so and so's baton pass away Let us say alpha now when he say alpha the
Muslim can look at who are you to say alpha alpha belong to us
not yours but neither he said Alhamdulillah let me just say alpha no regret would you say alpha alpha alpha so he also alpha but now he's been one but you are not mostly you cannot
you cannot blame me he thought that this is part of the tashia
one he say alpha if you want use that platform to tell him that well what is party ha there is no reward by saying alpha they have finished
me a lot of you may also do that. Is the alpha Okay, have you seen the alpha finish?
No, but anyhow
we are oversensitive yeah
i think is good it's like a not yet Muslim offer a Salam
can we respond
when he said the Muslims Ramallah Kamala Khan he also loved this greeting so many Come on.
Then we get our
next segment don't get me
if I respond, are you in trouble?
How can I'm trouble when you always respond with each other? Because I'm going to respond differently.
I had this problem before in in the gym.
They have a lot of Muslim fan and the counter are Muslim and then and then you have this Muslim who always come in, see us give Salam Alikum walaikum salam
so now this guy also came in and give salam to the Muslim reception reception so many come you know that girl was so angry
it was I was Desi
next time don't give me this don't say salam to me if I respond, Allah will curse you Wow.
There we were taught like that when you're not yet Muslim offering
me the curse of Allah upon you.
There is not right.
Who would who do that?
who say that?
who say that?
They do something they play with this Assam Malaika
is a deaf to you owe Mohammed
but the Prophet never respond in that manner. I shall respond.
The woman the woman or not just a woman
the woman very fast very shall walakum some and plus La la la la Alec.
You play with one woman give her a double dose.
Then that you just leave. Yeah. And then then the Prophet call Ayesha. Why do you say they curse you?
I have to curse them back.
And take a note at the end. But the Prophet said I have said even not yet Muslim offer you any
Greeting even the intention is bad we don't know.
Or they misquote the saying because Salaam Alaikum Salaam and some some like that or poison
you die with poison
is it we just said why LA or LA come
we don't curse people use the cursing what you just saying to you if your intention is good The good thing go back to you. If your intention is bad I don't know the bad thing go back to you.
I don't want to dirty my mouth.
is like people say you bought
a PC. You boom, bada bada bada
Yeah, you stupid you say you stupid, more stupid. He say you're stupid because he's stupid. No. So you keep quiet and say Meanwhile, guys.
Make it easy.
Now this is important. Yeah, I know this thing happened. So it's good for us to remind the not yet Muslim to be careful. Because they are very confused in
Nam. And Neil, last question from the sisters. None brothers?
No. Good. I'll give you some reminder. There are two things. Number one, you know about our program that the
AMA or the EA
cause for reciting the Quran. I inform all of you a week ago, I think. So those who want to know more because you have to register at the counter.
Not fully yet, man just remind the good sister This is only for sisters. Yeah, go to the office, and one they have the number then they will start here to look for the date to start this costume.
So it's a good cause for the sisters. And they have their own technique to teach all of you to learn how to reset the parameters
in a very short period in Sharla number two
just a reminder insha Allah. We are leaving for Japan tomorrow for our datawalk activities.
Next when this day class is off in Macau, we are on the way back on Venice day. So we wouldn't be having class next Wednesday.
For those who have the intention to join us for the peace conference in
Oslo in Norway.
We have some information for all of you.
We may be traveling with Emirates Airline there is more easier for us the ticket that we have finalized from the info we collect from our knees is that
it costs 4680
for the tickets, they mean from here to Dubai Dubai straight to Oslo and
then there is also for those who are they will
organize my hotel
for those who want them to organize the room in the same hotel a may cost you 2678 for six days no no 79479 is a
2670 ringgit, this is if you want the normal size, the lock is you want a smaller size than the price may differ. That way you can check at the office that I need the attacking with our team back in Oslo. So just to remind those who had the intention to make sure that we arrange it as soon as possible before not the price everything will change again.
We are leaving probably insha Allah
if I forgot Yeah, I think
we are leaving on the six
on the sixth or the fifth of April
6. We are leaving in the six for the information you can collect it from the office from sister and niece inshallah. So May Allah make it easy for all of us brothers and sisters. And for those who have learned something today please remember and share it with your close family members. So everybody aware of what to do.
About the Xia inshallah so until we see you
not next week after that ensure next month May Allah make it easy for all of us are billetto fakie will occur that wanna 100 Balala min. So Hannah Coloma behind the Chateau La ilaha illa Anta stop felucca to berlitz nama como la la barakato