Hussain Yee – Dont Be Sad 122
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The segment discusses the importance of protecting oneself and not giving up on one's own advice in Islam. It emphasizes the importance of trust and trust in conservative Muslim community, as it is crucial to protect and guide members of the community. The segment also highlights upcoming events, including a gathering with old members and new members, as well as a gathering with non-Muslims. The segment also provides guidance on sharing one's history and experiences in public.
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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious,
the Most Merciful.
I seek refuge with Allah
from
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seek refuge with Allah from the accursed Satan,
the accursed Satan, the accursed Satan, the accursed
Satan, the accursed Satan, the accursed Satan, the
accursed Satan, the accursed Satan, the accursed Satan,
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accursed Satan, the accursed Satan, the accursed Satan,
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accursed Satan, the accursed Satan, the accursed Satan,
the accursed Satan, the accursed Satan, the accursed
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accursed Satan, the accursed Satan, the accursed Satan,
the accursed Satan, the accursed Satan, the accursed
Satan, the accursed Satan, the accursed Satan, the
accursed Satan, the accursed Satan, the accursed Satan,
the accursed Satan, the accursed Satan, the accursed
Satan, the accursed Satan, when all of
us are aware that seeking knowledge there is
no end.
Seek knowledge from cradle to grave because our
time in this world is very limited.
The knowledge of Allah cover the day when
Allah create the heaven and the earth until
the day of judgment.
So for those who have been attending our
classes and they are consistent then we don't
have to feel sad.
Don't be sad about that.
We feel sad when we were learning at
one time.
We were very consistent then we stopped.
That you must feel sad.
While the day that you stopped learning then
you'll be exposed to a lot of things
that you are not aware of and you
won't be able to handle a lot of
issues.
We know that Allah who loves us keep
on reminding us فَاسْقُرُونِي أَسْقُرُكُمْ Remember Me.
How to remember Allah without seeking the knowledge
of Allah?
Even to remember Allah you must know how
to remember Him.
Not what you like to remember.
We always remember Allah when we need help
but when we are okay we always forget
Him.
There is the weaknesses being human and Allah
don't like it.
Allah keep on giving us from the day
we were born He have provided for us
and He keep on forgiving us.
Even we have been very ungrateful, disobedient to
Him.
Give you one simple example.
If we have been taught from young to
read the Quran, memorize the Quran.
We should keep on reading and try to
memorize.
You can't memorize a long long chapter.
You start from the short short chapter.
No problem as long as you do and
do consistently.
But all of us are aware when we
are young when we start to go for
the Quran in class.
Alhamdulillah then after that we don't read the
Quran like how we read when we are
young.
Or because we feel sad.
Last time we read the Quran without understanding.
It's normal.
Beginning you learn how to read.
Then later on people is trying to share
with you the understanding of the Quran.
So you go you upgrade a bit and
then we stop.
We don't feel sad.
It's normal for us but Islamically you should
feel sad.
How do you feel at one time you've
been praying five times a day.
Suddenly you stop.
Do you feel it's okay?
No.
You cannot feel it's okay.
Don't worry.
You should worry.
That's why Allah Rabbul Alamin always remind us
don't forget His blessing.
We started our class just now making this
dua.
Oh Allah bless my morning because not everybody
can have morning.
What is morning to us if you can't
see.
You do not know day and night.
You don't even know whether it's a day
or a night.
We have no idea because you are blind.
But we are all not blind.
It's a blessing.
So we ask Allah bless my morning till
the evening.
Bless my evening till the next morning.
Bless my life.
I don't want to live just for the
sake of living like other creation of Allah.
They live.
Animals live.
We are no animal.
We are the best creation of Allah.
We want to live with the guidance of
Allah.
We want to have a meaningful life not
just alive.
We want to make sure that life that
we have benefit us benefit others.
We do not want to burden ourselves and
we do not want to be a burden
to others.
That's what life is.
But if we are all focused the reality
of life guided by Allah's book the holy
Quran and the teaching of Prophet Muhammad then
we will be very very happy.
Why?
If you have the knowledge and you are
consistent like how you're consistent in attending classes
every Wednesday or Saturday and Sunday.
What will happen?
Allah is telling us Allah
almighty he remind all of us.
Those who say that I am a believer.
We are all believers.
So is there a difference between a believer
and non-believer?
Of course.
The believer have a very guided lifestyle.
A believer is guided by Allah.
Even you want to believe you don't believe
in nonsense.
Today a lot of people believe in all
the nonsense.
They believe that the dead can come and
help you.
So we have problem go to the grave
and it's happening.
We know the grave those who die they
need our prayer.
They are gone.
Everything stop.
Even all the sins if they have committed
stop there.
They cannot commit extra sin anymore.
Finish.
End.
But the good deeds that they left behind
the good deeds inshallah they will gain rewards.
Because the good deed is being shared with
their family with their loved one and people
is still following the good deed like our
prophet companions of the prophet the righteous people
the four great imam whatever they are sharing
of the knowledge that Allah has granted them
is benefiting the benefiting the ummah wherever they
are.
Alhamdulillah.
Nothing to fear.
That's why those who learn and stay istiqamah
pray and be consistent.
Do righteous deeds.
Be consistent.
Read the Quran.
Be consistent.
You have nothing to worry nothing to feel
sad.
Why?
Allah is saying that because I am not
going to leave you alone anymore.
Allah said I will send angels.
You are no more alone brother and sister.
If you always remember Allah you never feel
alone.
You never feel scared of darkness.
Nothing.
The prophet have been living in darkness before.
In a cave there's no light.
No fear.
Why we fear this?
We fear that because our love towards dunya
is too much and this dunya was created
by Allah to serve us brother and sister.
Dunya is meant to serve us.
For us to make use of it.
But we are not made for dunya.
We was created by Allah.
To know who is the creator.
To love him.
To serve him and prepare for your akhira.
That is our destination.
We are here not to stay here forever.
We know.
We are here to prepare for our hereafter.
That's the difference.
That is the life of a believer.
When the non-believer they have different value.
They are here for here.
Even they are here for here they're still
very worried.
They're still very worried.
If you ask a lot of my people
what have you prepared for your departure?
Oh I have made booking already.
What kind of booking?
I booked my graveyard.
Why you worry about your graveyard?
You don't know where you're going to die?
Suddenly you travel abroad then you pass away.
What gonna happen?
They say that one I don't know.
What I know I have made a booking.
And there are two type of graveyard for
them today.
My people.
One the normal one.
The traditional one.
They have to go outside from the town.
Because people don't want to stay close to
graveyard today.
Even there are some graveyard so happened that
it was there earlier and then they built.
Developer they don't care.
If they can build condo on the grave
they will build.
They don't care.
Even people say even Islam forbid us when
it's declared a graveyard.
Don't do any building.
But for them money come first.
That is the normal one.
And now the second graveyard.
The modern one.
They do not want to be buried far
away.
They don't know whether their loved one, their
children know where is their graveyard in the
future.
Too far.
So they do another kind of arrangement.
They buy block.
Now they got blocks.
All the new new temple around.
I will say that.
The surrounding.
The wall.
It's not normal wall anymore.
The young people when you want to use
computer.
Your laptop.
You play with what?
You have windows.
And there is the windows.
Every part of the wall is full of
windows.
You see they know that people want to
make life easier for them.
So they put around the wall.
They got.
They also have classes.
For those who want to be exposed near
to the idols where people come and pray.
That one maybe will cost you 10,000
per window.
You have cheap one.
The one behind.
When hardly people go and visit.
The one who come and pray just come
from the front.
They go around.
They put window, window, window, window.
So everybody is making a booking.
And that one you cannot bring the body.
You have to burn the body.
Kill ashes.
Put in a small jug.
And you send them over there.
Then book.
You must pay first.
My family members.
Some of them also is doing this too.
And they also have their association.
Collectively you pay every month.
Amount of money.
So anything happen this organization will pay for
your that graveyard.
The other thing up to you.
So they have to burn you until ashes.
Then they put in a jug.
They send it over there.
So they don't worry anymore whether the true
owner will pray for them, will visit them.
Because there are always somebody who go to
the temple.
And there's always somebody who is doing some
prayer.
And a lot of people who go to
the temple.
My people is asking what?
Asking for good luck.
Asking for good number.
That is their life.
Their life is full of gamble.
That's why when my people pass away.
The only time they open tables.
And they will learn how to swim on
a dry land.
Swimming.
What do you mean by swimming?
They play mahjong.
They play mahjong.
If three days, three nights mahjong is there.
Why do they do that?
They want to assist the family of the
deceased.
They are worried that if nobody stay awake,
something can happen to the dead.
We are not aware of a lot of
things that's happening around us.
If my people pass away, day in the
morning, after they have done what they have
to do, they will never put the deceased
body into the coffin until nightfall.
Until, Chinese used to eat very early.
So example, dinner time seven.
That is the time they put the dead
body in the coffin.
You never see them go and bury their
people, their loved one morning or hours after
Asar.
No.
If they want to bury, they bury lunchtime.
They have their own calculation.
Because dinner time, they also believe in some
spirit.
They say the angel also will come.
But when you put the dead body into
the coffin, that time the angel is busy
having dinner.
So they will not interfere and will not
ask any question to the dead.
When you bury lunchtime, they are having lunch.
So after that, everything bypass, bypass, bypass.
They have their own value.
We, anytime you die, you can be buried
morning, after Zohar, after Asar, after Maghrib, after
Isha.
We have no issue because we believe the
way Allah wants us to believe.
The angel of death will come to you
before you die.
After you are dead, the next time you
will find the other angel is when you
are buried, the Munkar and Nakir will come.
Not when you're in the coffin, no.
But it will come after you've been buried.
And the question, very simple.
That's why I said if we fail to
answer, then we know where we are heading.
Because in the exam, if question is being
given to you before the exam, answer also
was given to you.
Can you fail?
Can you fail?
Yeah, the question is being given.
Answer also been given.
Do you think you can fail for the
exam?
If you still fail, then nobody can help
you.
The Prophet always remind us to make this
dua every morning, every evening.
Every morning, every evening, don't forget to say
when we die, this will happen.
After we've been buried, all the family have
said bye-bye.
Your loved one, what you promised under the
star, under the moon, we live and die
together.
Now you die, you go alone.
I'm not going to come.
I don't even want to wait for you
until night.
I have to go home.
That is the reality.
Even you have promised, I love you with
my heart, with my soul, you know, we
will live and die together.
Who say that?
When you're in love, you say everything.
That is not true at all.
But you have said that, but when thing
happen, then the reality will come.
No, you have to go by yourself.
Then the minute we leave, Munkar and Nakir
will carry out his, carry out his responder.
He ask you, who is your Lord?
We have been saying, my Lord is Allah.
You pass the first question.
Second, what is your religion?
We know because we have said, my religion
is Islam.
It's not mine, but I believe and follow
Islam.
Who is this man?
Who is your prophet?
We know because we have been following the
teaching of Prophet Muhammad.
Muhammad is my Nabi.
Finish.
That's why I say question is being given.
Answer also being given.
You still fail to respond.
Then Munkar and Nakir show no mercy.
Then everything is happening.
Immediately, the earth is moving now.
Now the earth is going to go and
squeeze your body.
You don't realize.
People who are above cannot feel that.
That the one who is below, he is
going to feel.
And those who pray five times a day
consistently, those who fast, those who pay zakat,
those who just follow the five pillars of
Islam, these five pillars will protect you from
the torment of the grave.
But you must be consistent.
Brothers and sisters, today if you go back
to the book, don't be sad.
According to what is written in my book,
pause to reflect.
Is that good?
Today we are focusing on the title of
pause to reflect.
You have to stop and then reflect.
You have to stop thinking of that thing
and then recall, recall, recall.
Asma binti Umay, related that the Messenger of
Allah, Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to her,
shall I not teach you words that you
say when in distress?
Now the Prophet is coaching his Ummah and
now he's talking to the ladies.
In relative, brothers and sisters, who have more
experience, more anxiety and distress?
Male or female?
Normally, yeah.
Male and female, who normally would take things
more seriously?
More committed in anything they do, male or
female?
Female.
Yeah, we have to admit.
We should acknowledge.
Why?
Because Allah created them in that form.
They are very particular.
Because they are the mother.
They've gone through a lot of experience that
men never have experienced.
They have a lot of pain and suffering
they have gone through.
They're the ones who always cook for us.
Yeah, normally, once in a while you'll find
men who is a good chef.
But they always cook in the restaurant, hotel.
At home, they leave it to the wife.
Different.
And anything the woman touch is very different
than the man.
Anything they do, if they wash, you can
make sure that inshallah, it's clean.
Men also wash, but they are not that
committed in general.
But our men here are, alhamdulillah, very committed.
Don't worry.
So, the Prophet is sharing with the woman.
Shall I not teach you what that you
should say when you are in distress?
Oh God, we have problem.
Don't entertain that.
By thinking of the problem will not help
you.
You just have to, the Prophet said, you
have to remember Allah.
By saying, Allahu, Allahu Rabbi la ushrika bihi
shay'ah.
Allahu, Allahu Rabbi la ushrika bihi shay'ah.
Is in Hadith Abu Daud wa Ibn Majah.
The meaning, oh Allah, Allah, my Lord, Allahu,
Allahu Rabbi la ushrika bihi shay'ah.
Oh Allah, Allah, my Lord, I do not
commit shirk or associate any partner with Him.
Is that easy, very short?
Allahu, Allahu Rabbi la ushrika bihi shay'ah.
Yeah, I repeat.
Allahu, Allahu Rabbi la ushrika bihi shay'ah.
That's all.
Can you all continue and follow me?
Allahu, Allahu Rabbi la ushrika bihi
shay'ah.
Yeah, oh Allah, Allah, my Lord, Rabbi, I
will not associate a partner with You.
No shirk.
In another Hadith, the Prophet informed us that
when one is afflicted with sickness or hardship,
he or she will find relief if he
or she says, Allahu, Allahu la ushrika bihi
shay'ah.
Yeah, without mention Rabbi.
Yeah, the first one with the word Rabbi.
We all must remember at times one becomes
afflicted with a severe trial.
Our life is full of trial challenges.
Sometimes it's light weight, sometimes medium weight, sometimes
heavy weight.
If your iman is strong, everything becomes light.
When iman is getting weaker, then it's going
to develop from light weight to medium weight
to heavy weight.
Now, how do you prepare yourself?
If you focus on the development of the
iman, you will never fail yourself.
The Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, engaged in
many battles.
We never even experienced one battle yet.
I mean the real battle facing your enemy.
Yeah, engaged in war.
We don't have it.
Alhamdulillah, we live in peace, harmony.
But there is an ongoing battle within ourselves.
Two years ago, we organized this youth camp
and we call it the battle within.
That is our theme.
Yeah, the battle within ourselves, inside.
You have to be strong to control your
desire, your feeling.
Anything to do with what Allah wants you
to do, the Creator, the All-Knowing, just
try your best to follow.
You will never fail yourself.
But if you try to entertain your feeling
here, say, there, say, even you know this
is what Allah said, then that is the
beginning of your problem.
That battle is going to destroy you.
You have no more peace.
Because from one problem, you will be exposed
to another problem.
Because the one who solves all problems is
Allah and you don't go back to him.
Come back to him and this what he
wants you to do, just do.
Problem solved.
No, no, you entertain.
From a small matter, it becomes big.
And you got sleepless night.
And so many things happen.
Allah tested every one of us.
Anybody remember how Allah tested Aisha?
That she experienced sleepless night.
She kept on crying for two days and
two nights.
What is the trial that she faced?
Anybody recall?
Aisha.
Sahaba.
Something just happened.
Nobody planned for that.
Suddenly the caravan just moved and she was
left behind.
She woke up alone.
She don't know what to do.
First time.
You know the Prophet when they travel.
Know how do they travel with the Prophet
and the companion.
It's like if you see the Chinese old
movie.
You know when all the princes who want
to travel.
They don't travel openly that everybody can see
their face.
No.
They have a kind of like a mobile
hut.
And then they have covered and then they
sit inside.
People will carry.
All the animal, camel will carry.
So that they got their own privacy.
It so happened that Aisha respond to the
call of nature one night.
And she was not in that carrier.
Then suddenly they moved.
They thought that she was in there.
And one of the companion name of Safuan
was late.
He is a sweeper.
He always come late to make sure nobody
left behind.
That's why in our training we always make
sure that we have a sweeper.
Anybody will go to Umrah and Hajj with
me as an example.
I will appoint a sweeper.
Because we are aware about so many things
that can happen.
Especially Hajj you have millions of people.
Everybody dress alike.
If you are not alert suddenly you are
lost.
I have this experience from the 70s.
I inform my people.
Don't forget.
Be stand close.
Move together.
Move together.
Move together.
All the men outside, ladies, their wives, their
children inside.
It's like we make sure the men outside,
the sisters inside.
But we Malaysian are very soft people.
We are very very Alhamdulillah, very patient.
That's why in the Arab when they know
that we are Malaysian.
Good.
Good.
Because anybody can just come and break ourself.
We have no problem.
We give way.
We give you.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
Then you're lost.
You must remember there's not thousands of millions
of people is moving.
And so happen.
I keep on reminding.
They said okay.
Okay.
Okay.
In 10 minutes gone.
But I have trained myself and alert.
Anything happen everybody just move.
Complete the ritual.
We meet at this point.
Look at that gate.
They got a color.
They got number.
Some people cannot read.
In Arabic I say okay.
Look at the color.
Color white.
Color green.
Color blue.
Just the color.
Just look at this and stay there.
I have to get things organized in that
manner.
Because I've experienced we lost a jemaah.
We only found her after midnight from the
morning.
Alhamdulillah we found her.
Very dangerous.
So the same happened to Aisha.
Safwan came as a sweeper.
Then he found the mother of the believers.
The wife of the prophet.
So he immediately tried to cover her and
make sure that nothing happened to her.
And put her on camel and he was
walking behind.
Now when the thing happened people is talking
now.
People are gossiping now.
Aisha will have no idea in the beginning.
Later on people are somebody came and informed
Aisha what really happened.
We know that you are not at fault
but you know what is happening outside now.
Two days, two nights Aisha was crying.
Cannot sleep.
This is how Allah test everybody in a
different manner.
So at time when one becomes afflicted with
a severe trial.
If he turns to his Lord and surrender
his or her will to him without associating
any partner with him.
His or her hardship will go away.
That is what we have to do.
But normally when we have problem we were
thinking of our problem more than thinking of
Allah.
And suddenly we are going to use our
finger pointing, pointing, pointing.
We forget about ourselves.
And then we start to create why, why,
why, why.
What did the prophet say?
Something that you are not in control.
If happen to you what is the first
thing we should respond?
Come on brother and sister.
Have you encountered problem before?
Yeah.
How do you overcome that problem?
Firstly what do you say?
Anything good?
Alhamdulillah.
You don't want to ask the wrong thing.
Therefore I will give you more.
The first thing is death.
Something missing.
You say all came from Allah will go
back to him.
But something out of your control.
Immediately the prophet said What
do we say?
First you overcome all this sadness, issue, problem
by saying Allah the almighty do what he
please.
Is his Qadar.
Takdir.
Happen when it happen.
When thing do not happen yet you don't
say that.
Then by thinking of that problem is better
you say You move
on.
Don't keep on thinking of the problem.
Every problem there is a wisdom behind that
you don't know.
The best thing you ask.
It's just like when you are sick what
do you do?
You should know what kind of medicine for
this sickness.
Stomach ache this one.
Headache this one.
Toothache this one.
You have some eye problem you have eye
drop.
Yeah just example.
You have sore throat.
You have sore throat kind of medication.
You have cough.
You have cough mixture.
Example.
Whatever you experience now you exposed to the
cure and that's why you buy and you
keep.
Next time when somebody also have the same
problem you know how to remind them.
Oh there is a cough mixture.
Oh this is the medicine.
Please take it.
It work for me.
Inshallah it work for you.
Why do we go for the cure?
Because the prophet we are guided.
Allah said you don't know anything.
Ask those who know.
And when the people is sharing with you
just follow.
That's all you have to do.
And the prophet also say When Allah send
down a disease Allah prepare a cure.
Go for the cure.
Look for the medication.
Don't say Don't always say Allah, Allah, Rabbi.
But you don't take ikhtiar.
Do what you have to do.
No.
This is very important for all of us
who have iman.
Iman will guide you.
So when you have the right iman and
you always be guided by your iman then
Allah said So fear none
and don't be sad.
Do you know how to look at people
who are sad?
Do you know when somebody is sad brothers
and sisters?
Yeah we don't know yeah.
That is good when you don't know.
But it's good to know sadness reflect through
your body language.
Suddenly you feel so lonely and then your
face cannot smile anymore.
Normally you are very jovial you know very
talkative and then you always like to smile.
Suddenly no more smile.
The sweet sweet face gone.
Then you know there is some problem.
This is the body language.
Normally you like to talk.
Suddenly no more talking.
You talk to no response.
That means there is some problem.
There is one thing but in general brothers
and sisters everybody will be troubled.
Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam after the battle
of Uhud.
You know the battle of Uhud?
He was injured.
And who was leading the battle from the
enemy side?
Khalid ibn Walid.
He is a fighter.
A very good strategy warrior before Islam.
After that he became a Muslim and whenever
Khalid is there in the battle facing the
enemy all the soldiers have very good confidence.
We will win.
Khalid is there.
We will be there.
They feel secure.
But Khalid was praying that he would die
in the battlefield.
He never died in any of the battlefield.
He died at home.
He want to die shaheed.
But of course he got shaheed.
But he want to die in the maqraqah.
When you are facing your enemy you will
kill.
That means shaheed.
Khalas.
But when he passed away when people were
washing his body people got a shock.
That none of his body parts that have
no scar.
Everywhere there is a scar here and there.
Because of the war, the battle that he
has engaged.
Fighting with the enemy of truth.
The enemy of Allah.
Now step to take if you are fearful
of a jealous person.
Now in life brother and sister you are
good.
You thought that since you are good people
will always love you.
Talk good about you.
Not necessary.
The prophet is so good, so perfect people
still bad bite him.
Call him crazy man.
You are troublemaker.
People still gossip bad bite about him.
That is the best of human.
Who are we to compare the prophet?
You are good.
Alhamdulillah.
But sometimes people are jealous to see you
so good.
Sometimes they have experience when you look at
the family.
You look at their lifestyle.
They are so happy.
Their children.
Children are happy.
You are a bit jealous.
Wow such a beautiful family.
Do you have that experience before?
You are jealous.
You don't have that.
You see that family.
They move together.
They do things together.
They smile.
They enjoy life.
So loving.
So caring.
You hope that you will have that kind
of family.
You pray for that.
But you don't have that.
Suddenly the people that you admire, they end
with a divorce.
No more talking.
Many cases we have gone through.
We were shocked when this thing happened.
But it can happen.
So what should you do to protect yourself?
That's why Allah and the prophet Allah revealed
these two surahs that majority of us have
memorized.
To the end and to the end.
That's why the prophet always remind us to
recite after each prayer.
Don't over confident.
I think I'm okay.
Okay.
You do not know.
The evil eye is everywhere.
We don't want to get into an area
that caused a lot of sadness to us
and to our children.
Our children want happiness.
We also want happiness.
But what is going to happen, no one
knows.
We just prepare for the worst to come.
And that's why Allah himself revealed these two
surahs for our prophet.
So that I will apply it and remind
his ummah to recite.
Before you go to bed also, don't forget
to recite this.
Even how busy you are online, offline, anything.
Please, after you're off that, don't forget to
recite.
Bismillahumma amutu wa ahya.
And then you recite ayatul kursi.
You recite the three qul.
There's a minimum you should recite.
Ayatul kursi, alhamdulillah, majority of us have memorized.
Good.
The three qul, I think all of us
memorized.
Correct.
And this one also you must share with
the children.
Children will be exposed to more fitna.
Please remind them.
It's good in the beginning, we, before we
go to bed, let us sit down, let
us recite all this together, then everybody go
to their room.
Just as an exercise to remind everybody.
Children need to be guided.
They need coaching.
Look at what is written in this book.
Hide or keep secret your affairs from the
jealous people.
And this is a very important reminder.
If you know somebody who is very jealous,
like to gossip, like to talk about this
and that, this person, that person, don't share
your secret with them, please.
How they can talk about other people to
you, they can talk about your issue to
other people.
You must know who you can share your
problem with, especially your secret.
That's why when you want to get married,
those who are not married yet, and if
the man is going to tell you something,
I want to be very transparent to you.
I want you to know me.
You don't know me yet.
I want you to know me before you
get involved with me.
When I was young, I am this, this,
this, this.
Don't go and do this.
I want to be transparent.
No need.
Sometimes they just start and see whether you
are transparent or not.
And you also try to be transparent since
he was transparent.
Okay, I don't keep anything.
I tell you about myself when I was
12 years old, 15 years old, 20 years
old, how many boyfriends I have.
You don't go and talk about this because
while you do that, okay, you just wait
for the thing to happen.
Just one small thing triggered, you know what
is going to come out.
All the bullets is going to come back
to you.
You remember, you remember.
You remember what kind of person you are.
No.
Anybody said, if you're on the top, we
just forget about the past.
Let us be your future.
From now, let us move forward.
Is that easier?
Is that easier?
Do you think it's that easier?
Yeah, better.
You just come to know me now.
So we talk about now.
Why I talk about before?
Before you were a stranger.
I'm a stranger.
We don't have any relationship at all.
Now we are friends.
So I'll tell you the first time that
we become friends, am I a good person?
You value me from there.
You don't value me about my past.
So always hide, keep your secret.
Your affairs form a jealous person.
You know what happened to Yusuf, he got
how many siblings?
He got 10 siblings ahead of him.
Yeah.
And 10 of them is from different mother.
Yacob, yeah, have the first wife and the
second.
And Yusuf and Benjamin is from the second
wife.
And when Yusuf was born, so happened Allah
make Yusuf the most handsome.
We know how when the woman was talking
about Zuleikha, that was the minister of finance
of Egypt at that time, beautiful lady.
Then Yusuf, to cut the story short, because
of the jealousy of the other sibling and
because he have a dream, he shared this
dream to his father.
The father warned him, don't share this dream
with your sibling.
Out of jealousy, they will cause a lot
of fitnah to you.
It's so true.
Of course, when the father knew who is
Yusuf, he's very careful.
He always pay more attention to Yusuf.
This cause more jealousy from the other children.
So we know what happened.
They want to kill him, but Allah have
a better plan.
When Benjamin said, why you do this to
him?
If you don't like him, we just put
him in the well, let the passerby take
him away from us.
And the story of Yusuf.
Because of the jealousy they have.
So we are remind ourselves, don't forget the
verse, Surah from the beginning to the end,
after every prayer, and we hope Allah protect
us.
Then what happened?
Yacoub, peace be upon him, remind his children
after the famine, you remember?
How many years of famine?
Famine for seven years, no rain, no rain,
even one drop in the Middle East.
Even the animals realize when there's no water,
there's no life.
They start to migrate.
Animals are moving already.
But humans, they don't know what to do.
But with the help of Allah, the Qadar
of Allah, Yusuf was in the prison.
We know what happened.
He choose to be in the prison, at
least he is protected from the fitna of
what?
The fitna of the ladies.
The ladies who was cursing and belittling Zulaikha.
How can Zulaikha know?
Fall in love with the like a slave
boy and so on.
So Zulaikha was upset.
People were gossiping about her.
She have a kanduri, and prepare meat and
a knife and smoke so that they will
use it.
Purposely she command Yusuf to to do what?
Yusuf to do what?
Just to walk one round in front of
these ladies and they were cutting and suddenly
they saw Yusuf, they cut their fingers and
they don't even feel the pain at that
time because of their motion, everything.
Yusuf is either a human or an angel.
They see Yusuf, they thought they saw an
angel, so handsome.
Now Zulaikha laughed at them.
You only see him once.
I saw him every day but I never
cut my finger.
Only once you saw him.
See what happened to all of you?
But then after that Yusuf chose to go
to prison.
You see a prison only women don't disturb
me.
And then Allah because he have the good
dream, then he prepared the people of Egypt
for the seven years of famine.
And when the children of Yaqub is going
to enter Egypt, this is what happened in
Surah Yusuf verse 67.
That the father Yaqub said to the children
do not enter by one gate but enter
by different gates.
There are many ways to enter Egypt.
If you can spread out so that people
don't have suspicions yet towards all of you
while one group of people coming in maybe
you have agenda and but Allah knows best.
And Yusuf recognized the sibling.
So just to share with us, be generous
to a person who attempts to harm you
if you can for perhaps he will then
deceased or he can be a helper one
day you don't know.
Don't try to create more enemy wherever you
go brother and sister we have enough enemies.
Anybody that you can be generous can be
helpful do.
Do for the sake of Allah.
Don't just want to please the person just
do for them and you don't think of
them.
Then normally when you want to do something
good and person have hurt you before it's
very difficult correct.
But if you can do they said like
what we always said God keep on giving
and he keep on forgiving.
We cannot forget but we have to move
on.
Don't let that person always appear in your
memory your heart and make you feel sad.
No just move on.
There's so many people around you.
One bitten twice shy correct.
Just you don't want to create enemy with
them but lesson learned.
Don't trust them anymore.
Just be normal nothing to share.
Simple as that.
Life move on.
Because Allah the creator have informed us in
suratul mu'minun verses 96 meaning
repel evil with that which is better.
Anything that is bad come to you lesson
learned but your response you don't want to
be like him no.
You want to be better.
I remember in surah khut Allah said if
you are very positive and good always Allah
will help you to erase anything that is
negative that is bad.
That inshallah you will not be the second
victim anymore.
And that also lesson learned.
Oh if these people that you trust even
among sibling family members like Yusuf and his
sibling can happen.
It can happen to all of us.
When you know this thing happen you cannot
trust as a sibling.
I cannot trust you.
You have betrayed me.
Is that fair?
Is that easy?
That's how you move on brother and sister.
You don't let that person keep on haunting
you.
Make you worry.
You think why must you think?
If he's there nothing to talk.
Don't waste your time.
But you don't have to get upset.
That's how you move on.
So may Allah guide all of us brothers
and sisters and if we want to be
guided it's very simple.
Just follow what Allah said in his book
and what the prophet taught us.
You will not be turned astray.
What happened today to all of us people
very confused.
Yeah about among us Muslim.
Every day we heard lately about G.I
.B.S. Correct?
Are we confused?
Sometimes yes.
But what is right is right.
What is wrong is wrong.
And the worst thing that we feel is
that how can the ummah betray the ummah.
You should help and honor everybody's right.
You want to help them good but give
them the right.
If they work give them the pay.
Allah is here to free us from the
servant of things.
The servant of human to be the servant
of Allah.
Don't treat the Muslim as a slave.
They are no slave.
It's our duty to protect them, guide them
properly not to exploit but still happen.
And the Muslim get confused.
Oh you should not talk bad about them.
They have done a lot of good things.
What is good is good.
We never talk about that they don't do
anything good.
Maybe they have done something good but what
is bad is still bad.
You must not say oh because they are
so good then everything good.
No.
That is why all the wrong thing is
happening until today.
You cannot try to hide something and you
promote only the good when the bad one
is still there.
You must also highlight the bad so that
people will learn.
Be alert.
You cannot keep on lying.
The worst thing that we are worried now
is the next generation to come.
Now their children is suffering.
They don't know who is their father because
there is no record that they are married.
So the woman is being manipulated.
They can get married among themselves without any
kind of registration.
Then when you want to go and register
the children, they ask you your marriage certificate.
No.
Gone.
Can you imagine the effect that they have
done?
They just think of themselves.
We have no problem when people want to
compete in dunia business.
The prophet never compete with anybody about their
dunia.
No.
He's here to tell you what is right.
Follow the truth.
That's all.
Your business is your business.
The prophet never sabotage anybody's business, even the
Jew, even the Mushrikin.
Whatever business, halal, halal, halal.
But right is right.
Wrong is wrong.
Aqidah is not something that is considered minor.
It's a very big issue.
To the extent that the wife has no
right now.
They don't know what is their right.
The woman's right was given, protected by Islam.
Now, gone.
The children's right, gone.
And who are the ones who enslaved the
Muslims?
It's the Muslims.
Astaghfirullah.
How can we allow this thing to happen?
And we thought that it's a small matter.
And this is not only one year.
From the 80s, they have that kind of
belief and understanding.
But then, they were being banned.
Then they make another.
They depart from that name to a new
name.
And then they move again.
It's just like changing of clothes.
And we still say it's okay.
Is that how we value the truth?
No.
The most important thing for the Ummah, number
one, is Aqidah.
When the Aqidah is gone, then you are
gone.
Don't create shirk.
Don't do shirk.
For them, anything goes.
So, may Allah protect this Ummah.
May the truth prevail.
The truth don't follow us.
We follow the truth.
Inshallah, brother and sister, we will continue about
the good manners in the coming classes, inshallah.
We hope that all of us are consistent
and share the knowledge that we have learned
to those family members, our good friends and
neighbours who are not with us.
And remind them.
It's good to remind them.
Everybody needs to remind one another so that
we are not confused when there's so many
things happening around us and we know how
to move forward.
What is our role?
What should we say?
What we should not say?
We know.
And the Prophet has made it very clear.
If you see something that is wrong, those
who have authority, you see authority.
If not, you have betrayed the Ummah.
You have failed.
Amanah was given to you and you do
nothing.
And when there's no amanah, there's no iman.
The Prophet said, and if you can't, you
have no authority.
You, me, we don't have authority.
What should we do?
Speak up.
You don't keep quiet.
It's not my problem.
You want it to happen to your children,
only become your problem.
No.
Everything happened to the Ummah is the Ummah
problem.
At least we speak up.
A lot of bad things happen and continue
to happen is because the good people say
nothing.
Oh, I want to save myself.
Oh, how do you save yourself if you
don't save others?
By saving others, that will also save yourself.
Last two years, we have the camp for
the youth to talk about the battle within.
Last year, we talked about the battle begin.
And this year, we are talking the battle
continue.
That is our theme.
To prepare our younger generation to be ready
because it's coming.
The AI is coming.
Maybe the AIXO is coming.
So we all must be ready.
And this year, inshallah, for those who have
never sent their children, please.
The program has been shared.
So everybody go to our website, Instagram, and
look at that.
Recommend some of your nephews, your nieces to
follow that.
We will try our best when Allah gives
us the energy, gives us the knowledge.
And normally, six months before any event, our
committee has been having meetings every week to
brainstorm, to check our program, check the place.
Everything has been moving six months ahead.
That's how we prepare ourselves because the battle
continues.
So brothers and sisters, lastly, inshallah, don't forget
this Saturday is New Muslim Community Open Day.
Everybody is welcome.
We start by 11, so everybody can come.
We may have some discussion, but more on
getting to know each other.
We do prepare some food to share with
all our old members, new members, the reverts,
non-Muslims, whoever are with us, who have
been supporting us, we will invite them to
let them know what is happening.
So that everybody is in the jama'at,
in the knowing.
So that we want everybody to participate in
all the activities that we engage in, in
spreading Islam, so that all of us will
be rewarded by Allah, Rabbul Alamin.
And lastly, I'd like to share that last
Sunday, we had a very good memory.
We had gathered with all the oldies, our
students from the 80s.
You know, we had a gathering with them,
and I was so happy to see the
majority of them is still alive.
Some wheelchairs, some walking sticks, but still alive.
So I addressed all of them, Datuk, Datuk,
Datin, Datin.
Why?
Because they are all grandfathers and grandmothers, you
know.
So beautiful, I recall, and they also recall
how we started our class from the 80s.
Only majority of them is not here, you
know.
So we have been gathered in Ampang on
the hotel.
So this is the thing that we do
always, once in a while, we gather all
our old members, new ones, the reverts, the
reverts family who are not yet Muslim, we
invite.
We hope Allah will give hidayah to those
who are not yet Muslim.
We hope Allah strengthen the spirit of jama
'at between the oldies and the new ones.
And we hope that, I said to the
oldies, you will fail your children, you will
fail your grandchildren if you don't connect them
with the good scholars that is still alive.
So that they know if they have problem,
who to refer to, who to seek guidance
and advice.
That is how we always remind each other.
If you don't connect them with good people,
they may connect themselves with the wrong people,
and then that will be their downfall.
Then there'll be more problem that our children
is going to face, and we are not
there for that.
So that's how we remind each other.
So the same thing I remind all of
us who are here, please don't forget, whatever
you have learned, share it with your loved
one, your family, share with your grandchildren if
they are there, and get them involved.
For those who have been bringing their children,
may Allah bless you, bless your children, and
bless the whole family.
If there's any question, we open for Q
&A.
Any question online?
No question.
Any question from brothers first today?
Brothers, no question.
Sisters, any question from the sisters?
No question from the sisters.
Back to the check again.
I remember there was something which you said
in your previous classes about what you can
do to address certain issues and all that.
If you don't have the authority, you speak
up.
You speak up, and then I can't remember
the other two.
First one, if you have the authority, then
you must use your authority.
When you don't have the authority, you have
the knowledge, you can speak up, you must
speak up.
You must make it clear that we don't
support what is wrong.
Right is right, wrong is wrong.
You must speak up.
The third one, if you can do, at
least your heart hit what is wrong.
The Prophet said, you cannot feel, ah, it's
not my problem.
Cannot.
It's part of, I feel bad because I
want to say, I don't know what to
say.
Nobody listen to me.
No reporter comment into what do you think,
sir, about this case.
People don't come to you, don't come to
me, go to some other people, but your
heart cannot say it's okay, no.
That is the weakest of iman, the Prophet
said.
If you don't even feel in your heart
wrong is wrong, then don't talk about iman,
no more iman.
The weakest of the iman of everyone is
their heart reject what is wrong.
That is the weakest.
Then we pray, of course.
Oh Allah, protect the ummah, give guidance to
this ummah so that the ummah will not
be mislead by those people who have their
own hidden agenda.
They're not here for Allah.
They're here for their own interests.
Religion is being used to manipulate people.
And that's why sometimes in the West, if
you have this kind of group, they call
cult.
They have their own kingdom.
They have their own law.
They follow their law.
They don't follow any other laws.
We Muslim, wherever you go, we follow the
divine law.
We don't come up with our own law.
If you got married, there's nothing in the
paper.
What right do you have as a wife?
There's no document to claim that you are
the wife.
What right do you have?
You are just being used.
There's been, they manipulate you now.
You don't even have your own right when
Islam is here to protect your right.
Anything happen, die, what do you have?
Nothing.
Zero.
Because nobody want to claim that I'm your
husband.
There's no document.
You can sue in the court.
Where's your document?
Where's your evidence?
Zero.
No case.
Because you have right.
If your husband pass away, if he has
some money, you have the right for the
inheritance.
And the children also have right to the
inheritance.
What right do the children have?
Nothing.
Can you imagine what is going on at
this time?
What century are we in now?
21st century.
And we still have this kind of system
going on.
And we still allow this system.
If the authorities say, okay, then what can
we do?
Even the authority said no.
If the man-made law said no, divine
law said no.
How can you allow this thing to happen?
Of course, what you are doing is sharing
with us about authority, hand, your tongue, your
heart.
Any last one?
Any question on that?
Nothing.
Today are quiet, alhamdulillah.
I think we are still in the holiday
mood.
Malaysian, we are rich with holidays.
May Allah bless us, brothers and sisters.
So we hope whatever we have learned, please
share and please be alert about what is
happening.
And don't be silent if you can say
something.
And we hope all the young generation also
be very alert because you will also have
another challenges.
But remember your parents are still around.
Get some advice from them.
We are around.
Just come and ask.
You have all the right to us to
get yourself prepared so that you can help
your friend and help others, inshallah.
You can be beneficial to others too when
you have the right knowledge.
May Allah protect us and protect the Ummah
wherever they are.
And may Allah give us peace, harmony, and
may all of us have a good ending.