Hussain Kamani – Stories of the Companions #16 Umm Salamah

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The mother of Mocha Mocha who was killed by a force during the time of the Islamist movement faced struggles and struggles with her parents' tribe. She experienced extreme pain and loss in her family's tribe and eventually lost her wedding. The segment discusses the use of "naught" in Arabic language and the importance of praying for her parents and children. The segment also discusses the loss of human lives and the need for forgiveness and showering children.

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			Bismillah
		
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			Hamdu lillahi Wa Kafa wa salam ala Stouffer Susannah Allah say delusory Mohammed MB while the hilus
Kia was hub healer to clear a mother.
		
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			Today we turn to the light to the life of almost Salem out of the Allahu Taala Anna, the dear and
beloved wife of Rasulullah sallallahu Ani, he was
		
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			one of the great worshipers and jurists of her time.
		
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			on Santa Monica the Allahu Allah has story
		
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			starts with her being the daughter of one of the great leaders of Quraysh.
		
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			She is married off to a noble man by the name of Abu selama.
		
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			She is referred to as one of the most beautiful women of her time and of the most noble lineage
		
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			from the wives of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam she is the last one to depart this dunya
		
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			she lived to hear
		
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			of the martyrdom of Hussein or the allawah
		
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			and she cried profusely
		
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			until the point that she fell, unconfident unconscious,
		
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			and it wasn't too after that she departed from this role.
		
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			She lived a very beautiful long life.
		
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			The first part of her life was in Mocha mocha Rama while she was married to Abu selama are the
Allahu Taala and
		
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			I will set him up was one of the early people to accept Islam. Abdullah bin Abdullah Asad.
		
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			They say that he was from the first 10 people to accept Islam
		
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			from the earliest days and soon after he accepted Islam the moment after his wife whom salam ala,
the Allahu Ana otherwise whose name is Al Hynd. She also accepts Islam.
		
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			Not much time had passed.
		
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			There, Islam became known to the kurush and they began to treat them very harshly.
		
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			Likewise, the punishment the other Sahaba had to go through simply because they were Muslim, also
intensified until it became unbearable.
		
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			So the law said allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam granted them permission to migrate to Abyssinia. A
safe haven
		
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			on the Santa Marta the Allahu anha with her husband, Abu selama. They made this Hijra to Habesha
		
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			it was difficult for them. She is now in a foreign land with no home.
		
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			And she comes from royalty in Makkah, mahkamah a beautiful home beautiful family everyone that sees
her knows her, but the sacrifice that she made living outside of her comfort zone, taking on the
challenges that she faced on the day to day now and Habesha was because she was a strong and
confident Muslim. She believed in Allah and his little surana he stood out to Sudan and knew very
well, that the challenge that the challenges that followed La Ilaha illa Allah, we're very natural.
And I'm gonna cabal he says in one line, that every time I say La ilaha IL Allah I began to tremble.
		
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			Every time I say La Ilaha illa Allah, I began to tremble. Good. Donna Masekela de la la hora because
I know very well of the difficulties that lie on the path of la ilaha illa Allah.
		
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			Once you say La Ilaha illa Allah, the cockroaches will come out from the woodwork and they will make
their life goal to make your life miserable. I'm sad about it. Allahu anha was unfazed by this. She
sought her reward and Allah subhanaw taala the news began to spread that the situation in Mocha
mocha Rama was now much better. And a large number of the Quraysh have accepted Islam and Hamza the
Allah one has become Muslim and Omar Abdullah Hassan has become Muslim.
		
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			So she says to her husband that why are we in Abyssinia when we could be in Mecca karma with the
most beautiful view of the face of Rasulullah sallallahu ala he was sitting on
		
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			the beach returned back when they arrived, it becomes clear very quickly that everything they heard
was a form of exaggeration. Yes, all
		
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			One of the Allahu Akbar did accept Islam and Hamza the Allah one also accepted Islam. But the
Quraysh had not softened up. They had become more intense. The fact that I'm one of the Allah who
won and hums out of the Allah one accepted Islam added a force from the side of the Muslims and the
Quraysh were willing to match that force. So things actually became very difficult during that
window. But the two of them decided to remain in Macomb, Oklahoma and not go back to Episode Nia
while the companion some of them made the second migration to Edison yet.
		
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			Some years later, when matters became very difficult on the Muslims,
		
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			the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam granted permission to the Sahaba to migrate to Madina
Munawwara
		
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			on the sentiment of the Allahu anha with her husband made the intention that it was time for them to
migrate, they had a they had a small child selama that let's take our family to a safe place so we
can worship Allah subhanaw taala freely.
		
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			There were from the first people that left macam Okayama with this Nia of migration. From their
perspective, this would have been an easy journey. Just leave MCCA arrived in Medina and everything
is good and you know safe.
		
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			Little did she know that her life was about to get very, very, very difficult.
		
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			They start the hitch, I will send them a certain amount of the Allahu Ana and their child's cinema.
		
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			They had just read that reached the outskirts of mcomber Karma.
		
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			Her family people, her tribesmen saw her,
		
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			they quickly rushed in, they blocked off, I will set him up. And they said that if you're gonna go
to Medina, we're not going to stop you. But this girl from our tribe, she will not be allowed to
leave, we will not let her go.
		
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			As they were pulling him send him out of the Allahu anha away from her husband. You can imagine the
tears and the pain, she sees her family being torn apart. I will set them as family cuts in, they
saw her his tribe now enters into the conversation. And they say to I will sedima that we're not
going to stop you. But this child of yours. This child Selma will not join the mother in that tribe,
it will return back to our tribe
		
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			and the mother as she's being taken by her people. Her husband's tribe come and they take the baby
away from her hand.
		
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			And so in that moment of extreme pain, this family is being torn apart. I will sell them I had made
the knee of Hijra to Madina Munawwara
		
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			the wife will sell them out of the Allahu Allah is being taken in one direction and the child cinema
is taken somewhere else.
		
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			Some amount of the Allahu Allah in her own words, she describes that as one of the most difficult
moments in her life, she cried and cried and cried.
		
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			Every day, she would leave her home and head back to that place where their family was torn apart.
		
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			And she would sit there in tears crying in front of Allah subhanaw taala for her family to come
together.
		
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			A whole year passed by and everyday she did this she would sit there and cry out loud for her child
and for her husband.
		
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			Someone saw her
		
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			his heart softened.
		
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			And he went to her family and pleaded on her behalf that released this woman What have you done to
her? Is this what we've become as a people that you see a lady from your tribe going crazy and
you're enabling this you're making this happen?
		
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			So finally, her tribe released her go do whatever you want.
		
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			That person then went to Abu Salah mass tribe, and said that what have you done separated a mother
from her child? Is this what humanity is? Is this the type of people we've become? We turned the
child back.
		
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			So after some time, their hearts soften and they also released the child
		
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			on send them out of the alarm on her knew there was one step left for this. She needed to arrive in
Madina Munawwara as soon as possible and be with her husband.
		
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			So she took her baby and began the journey to Madina Munawwara
		
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			she had reached the outskirts of the Hudson boundary. And they're
		
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			a soon to be his hobby. He wasn't Muslim at the time. He saw her and he said to her that I don't
know what the deal here is where you're going but I know you and I know this baby. What's going on
here she said I'm heading to Medina.
		
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			He says to her that it is inappropriate. That is such a noble lady like you take this journey on
alone. I will be your escort and guide
		
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			Are you all the way to Madina? Munawwara myself.
		
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			She describes the moments
		
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			of the journey from Mecca to Medina. It was a dangerous path. Anyone can come and attack you she was
alone with her child. But this man, he guarded her, protected her and honored her that he wouldn't
look back at her while walking the way holding on to her animal. And when it came time to settle, he
would settle her horse by tying at her animal by tying it to a tree, allowing her to rest and then
he would go far away, and he would settle there where he could see her and hear her, but he was not
close to her, until finally the entire family united in Madina Munawwara and she describes that day
as being one of the most important days in her life, that this year of extreme pain, or her family
		
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			was torn apart, had finally come to an end.
		
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			Her husband Abu sedima, was a dear and beloved companion of Rasulullah sallallahu ala he was he
participated in the Battle of butter. He participated in the Battle of odd. While he was fighting an
ohana. However, he was injured in
		
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			the womb, was quite deep, and caused him a lot of pain. He was bedridden for some time, the Battle
of what had happened and in third year after he hit it off.
		
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			They continued to medicate him and take care of him. At one point,
		
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			it seemed as if he was on the path to healing because outwardly, the heal the wound was healing, but
from within it wasn't really healing properly. Until one day the skin tore up and he began to bleed
and his health immediately deteriorated.
		
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			I'm sorry, I'm out of the Allahu anha.
		
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			She describes her interaction with her husband
		
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			on Ziad ABI Maria Bartiromo, salamat Ali Abby Selma, Selma, the Allahu anhu, has said to her husband
		
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			that I heard from Rasulullah sallallahu ala he was sent him
		
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			I heard the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam saying
		
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			that there is not a lady whose husband dies and he is from the people of Jana.
		
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			And she does not marry again. But they will be together in Jannah.
		
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			So get so come so both of us can make a commitment that neither of us will marry after one another.
So we can be companions together and Jenna
		
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			doll wa hit
		
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			the Zawada body while at Azzawajal Badak.
		
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			So the husband who was ill, and in a lot of pain, he said to himself, what are the Allahu anha? Up
to two to three in any?
		
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			Will you listen to me? Will you obey me?
		
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			At Nam, she said of course.
		
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			For color in dammit to deserve
		
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			that when I pass away, get married again. Don't stay alone. Find a companion and be happy.
		
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			In another narration on sentiment of the Allahu anha says that I heard the Prophet of Allah saying
either Hava tamale mijita or will Merida for Kulu Hydra for in America you Amina Allah motto that
when you are when you are near a person that is approaching death or is Ill
		
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			say good things
		
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			for the melodica say Amin to your words.
		
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			Then in another rewire home cinema the Allahu anha
		
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			she says that my husband became very sick. So I continue to sit by his side and say good words to
him and encourage him
		
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			I heard my husband saying to me Allahumma Allahumma, uma salah, Mata ba de Raja and Hydra mini
		
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			O Allah.
		
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			Grant my wife a companion better than me.
		
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			When he approached his final moments, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came to visit Abu
selama
		
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			the Prophet of Allah sat and gave his Diaz and he hadn't even exited the door. He was just leaving.
		
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			And Abu selama or the Allah one passed away
		
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			for her mother who maybe sort of long wanna he was sent him came back and he closed his eyes with
his own hands. For McDonough in a row ha EDA will be the derby I will bustle
		
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			prophet of Allah said that when a person passes away in their soul
		
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			gives their body the eyes follow the soul as it leaves. The eyes follow the soul.
		
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			For Vaggelis the moon the Companions begin to cry.
		
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			The people that were there they begin to lodge is a very intense cry.
		
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			So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam then said lots of Rwanda and footsy come Illa behind and
do not say evil and bad things. For Indian melodica you Aminullah Mata Kowloon, for the melodica say
I mean to your words,
		
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			for makalah and then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Allah Houma, fairly heavy Salam,
O Allah forgive Abu salamat WaterFire adore Raja who filma the Yin and elevate his station in the
guided ones was Luffy RTB he filled the hobbit in while fildena wonder who you are but I mean
Allahumma Safiyah company he will know with Allah Who fee and in another rewire the Prophet
sallallahu sallam said to send them out of the Allahu Ana Cooley say Allah Houma. Feliway Allah Who,
oh Allah forgive me and him while I've given the minimum aka baton Hashanah and follow me with him a
good return meaning give me something good. Now that my husband has left this could be patient
		
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			sticks could be Jana itself the dunya and the aka Oh Allah give me good after my husband has left me
		
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			on some amount of the Allahu anha she kept reflecting over that statement of Abu selama before he
passed away he made dua for her that may Allah replace you with better than me for call two men
hydro min Abby selama. I began to wonder this is the wife of Mossad now. I began to wonder who can
be better than Abu selama.
		
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			Sometime past her EYDAP period the waiting period passed by
		
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			Abu Bakr Siddiq, or the Allah one approached her with the intention of marriage. She was a righteous
woman who husband whose husband had passed away so they wanted to take care of her Abu Bakr silica
the Allah Juan took the lead with the proposal. She
		
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			what she turned him away and said Now's not the time for me to get married. And then one after the
other. Finally, a proposal came to her Pharmaceut alasa Bhawani
		
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			and meanwhile she's making this dua Lahoma journey female see with T were fluffly Hi Ramona, Oh
Allah, grant me relief of my calamity and replace me with better than it.
		
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			A proposal comes from Rasulullah sallallahu ala he was sent him and she says for Karla money ouabain
Anna hijab there was a barrier between myself and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and he
spoke to me for Hatha bunny, and he made his proposal to me.
		
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			So she says I said to him or messenger of Allah,
		
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			this would be an honor to be in your marriage. However, in the middle of the bar, I'm in Sydney. I'm
old in age. I'm no young girl.
		
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			What in more a term. I have young children as well from my previous marriage. Well, Anna Shahidullah
Zerah. And I'm also someone that has a lot of self pride if I see you married to another woman,
which the Prophet of Allah was, this is not going to be easy for me.
		
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			Well, I'm not sure either Leila
		
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			sort of sort of lost that Allah Juana. He was set up set to her, um, mela era. For you He will Allah
as for your self pride and your protectiveness, Allah subhanho wa Taala will give you balance in it.
		
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			A Muhsin for an Acapulco Minky. As for age, I am older than you in age, so don't worry about the
age. Well, I'm a Tamaki. As for your children, fod Allah He won Aracely leave them to Allah and as
messenger, we will take care of your children.
		
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			So almost sentiment of the Allahu anha was blessed with the amazing honor of entering into the
relationship and into the marriage of Rasulullah sallallahu ala he was
		
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			she becomes his great scholar, this great leader, this unique figure who was intelligent, who was
senior
		
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			who was close to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said about her the Allahu anha she was a
voice in Madina Munawwara she was a voice for the men and for the women. People from far and beyond
came to sit with him settlement of the hola Juana. She was someone that Rasulullah sallallahu ala
		
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			He was telling himself took advice from in the difficult moments. For example, during the Treaty of
Arabia, when it became clear that the Muslims would not be granted permission to perform Allah that
year and they had to return back to Madina. Munawwara the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
instructed the companions to exit the state of the Haram and prepare themselves to head back. No
Sahabi moved from their place, everyone remained in their seats. And this was something that was out
of the norm because when Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ever told the companions to do
something, they were rushed to do it. What's happening here? Why is no one moving? Apparently, from
		
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			the outside, someone can conclude maybe the companions were in disobedience to Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wasallam. So the Prophet of Allah entered into his tent, and it was a tentative settlement of
the Alana.
		
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			And he says to her that I told them to exit the state of haram and no one moved.
		
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			So I'm sad I'm out of the Allah Han has wisdom and her intelligence can be seen through the
following statement. Or messenger of Allah. They froze because they were hoping you would reconsider
your position. It isn't out of disobedience. If you exit the state of the Haram in front of them,
they will know this is the end of the matter and they will follow you because they love you that
much.
		
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			Lead them so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam exited that tent and in front of the companions,
he cut his hair.
		
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			Showing that Haram is now done, we are not going to look this is over. And the Sahaba broke out into
tears. And they then follow the example of Rasulullah sallallahu. It was, this is the wisdom and
hikma of salamander, the Allahu Ana
		
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			of the Rahman Ibn Shaybah narrates
		
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			that one day I was with him salam ala the Allahu Allah and she said she recalled the conversation
she had with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
		
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			Samira masala Mata call it cool to ya rasool Allah. I said O Messenger of Allah. Malouda la nuit
Garfield Qurani comma youth Cairo region. Why is it that women are not mentioned in the Quran like
men are mentioned?
		
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			The Quran is always using the male pronouns ka year. Why is it that Mallanna Allah Knuth, Garfield
Qurani comma youth Cairo region
		
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			and then she says, One day, toilet one day I was at home and there was a lady who was serving me and
she was combing my hair.
		
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			And while she was combing my hair, I heard Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam saying yeah, you
are a nurse.
		
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			Oh people. So she got up and rushed fall off after shoddy some mud and oh two minute Bob I wrapped
up my hair quickly and got close to the door. Fragile to submarine Delta really forced me to who
you're cool. I put my ear close to the tree that was right between my house and the message of
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to listen to what the Prophet of Allah was saying. And Allah
subhanho wa Taala revealed a verse to respond to my concern
		
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			similar to who you're cool in Allah Tala pool in non Muslim in our Muslim it well meaning Mina tea
well carnitine I will call it that it was Saudi 18 I was Saudi thought it was SABE DE and I was slob
Irati well harshly Rena well harsh, while matassa deity in our most of the thought that in this
verse, Allah subhanho wa Taala for every trait, mentioned both genders very clearly set them out of
the Allahu Anhu I would say that this idea of the Quran was a response to my request to Rasulullah
sallallahu it was
		
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			this is an example of healthy and this is a you know, tricky situation. But it's it's an example of
a healthy sense of identity and wanting to be recognized. It's not unhealthy. It's not hateful, it's
not full of vengeance. It's not poisonous. She understood Arabic better than anyone. And it was very
clear that in the Arabic language doesn't leave when you use one gender. So in every sentence rather
than saying you and you Anta aunty, for every time you were to, if you were to mention both genders
the book would just become it will lose its eloquence. The Arabs didn't speak like that it would be
foreign. This is not the way you compose sentences in the Arabic language you've you just use one
		
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			gender while making reference to both but she still wanted
		
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			got recognition on behalf of herself and all of the women, that How amazing would it be that if we
were if Allah subhanaw taala were to reveal a verse where women specifically are acknowledge. So
then she says that Allah subhanahu methodic revealed this I have a
		
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			one time I'm gonna send him out of the Aloha says, I,
		
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			that I noticed one of the most common laws of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was him saying
Allahumma Mckinleyville pollute a bit I'll be Allah Denecke O Allah, the Turner's of the heart, make
my heart firm on your religion. I heard it not once, not twice, but I heard him making this dua
again and again and again.
		
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			She says, I asked a messenger of Allah, Allah Engel kuruva Tata Kala, are you saying the hearts
change? For her? I mean, look at her story. She loved her husband now she loves a prophet of Allah
very committed very mature in her approach to things. Are you saying that the hearts can just flip
that you're here and tomorrow you're there.
		
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			On and I'm the Prophet of Allah alayhi salatu salam said Yes, ma'am. In Kulfi law him in many other
memberships in Aqaba, Hubei in supplying him in a soybean, soybean Allah, for insha Allah Who Akarma
who were in sha Azova that every heart lies between the fingers of Allah subhanahu wa taala if you
will, as you will turn it one way and that heart is guided, and if it's turned another way, that
heart will be misguided
		
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			finesse and Allah Habana Allah us Eva KHUDOBIN bothered her Donna. So we ask Allah subhana wa Tada
to not turn our hearts away after blessing us with guidance.
		
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			Call it she said. Ya rasool Allah, Allah to Allah Mooney Dawa and Adobe had NFC, teach me a dua that
I can make for myself.
		
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			Allah Bella, of course, I'll teach you one holy say Allah Houma Robin be Muhammad in Philly them b
word hippophae. The Calbee a genie medulla till fifth and Ema
		
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			Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam gives her this beautiful gift as a dua
		
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			on the southern border, the Allahu Taala and when you look at her narrations, she has so many
interesting Rewi out from a suit Allah salAllahu Salam, some relating to the matters of women. So
for example, she says that I asked a messenger of Allah, I have beautiful long hair and I like to
tie them into into braids. So what do I do and I need to take a shower to I have to open my braids
every time. very inconvenient. If you said Allah Juana he was sent him said, pour water, pour water
over your head three times and that shall suffice. Such a beautiful convenience offer to the women
of this ummah, tracing back to this practical and very real question of salamander, the Allahu Ana.
		
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			Someone wants to ask her, which action was most beloved to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
she said, That which was done with consistency, even if it was small. She describes a sort of loss
of Allahu alayhi wa salam and says, in the Nebia sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Can I used to be pro
Judo been through my assume Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would wake up in the morning in
the state of major ritual impurity, and wouldn't be fasting. He would fast in that state. And then
later on in the day, he would wash himself before the fighter salaam, obviously you need to do
holster for the salah. But you don't need to be in a state of purity. To start your fast. This is
		
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			something we also learn from the narration of cinema or the Allahu Ana.
		
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			She teaches us that I was someone who would have a long garment on, they come to a jewelry lady,
they refers to the back part of the females cloak their garment. So when I would walk, I would have
this long garment that would drag behind me. Now you're walking in the streets, and the streets
aren't always clean, things get a little messy, and they're litter dirty out there. For a Motorola
Bill mechanical
		
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			Well, mechanic, I would walk in sometimes I would pass through a small narrow path that had dirt on
the ground and then I would continue walking and now there's a clean road and then I'm walking and
then there's a dirty road and then I'm walking and then there's a clean road and my garment from
behind is dragging all through it.
		
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			What's the ruling here she asked for sort of lesson Allamani wisdom
		
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			Prophet says she says I heard the Prophet of Allah saying you thought he to whom Abbado that yes the
garment makes contact with
		
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			impure ground but when it starts making contact with the pure ground, the pure soil wipes away the
impurity you are in a good place you're good to go don't worry about it sort of lost that allow it
was sort of teaches her this and she and then and then she goes on to teach it to other companions.
		
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			She describes another moment.
		
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			Xena bint A, B, selama and olmesartan almost telenovela when his daughter narrates this.
		
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			She says one day I was with my mom and Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam entered into the home
		
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			and when he entered into the home, inside the house, there was a hermaphrodite. Mukunda
		
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			and her brother Abdullah and omega. Omega was also in the house almost said about the Allah Juana.
His brother was there and there was a hermaphrodite, serving and working and doing some things
inside the house.
		
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			The Mohandas this hermaphrodite he said to Abdullah, oh Abdullah, if Allah subhanahu wa taala gives
you victory tomorrow over five, then keep an eye out for the daughters of Leila and four, when they
walk forward, they walk with four and when they return, they return with eight. This is a very
physical description of the curvature in their bodies. Right? I'm not going to expand this any
further. Not for this guy. But anyway.
		
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			So he's making a comment on this whole idea of total b2b Otterbein to the b2b thumbin. And so you
understand this idea of walking forward with four and returning back with eight. He was making a
very specific comment on the curvature and the form of the female body. Do you guys understand this?
		
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			And he said a lot is sort of heard this.
		
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			So it'd be sort of low on iOS and then turn to a cinema the Allahu anha and said Nightfallen the
hedonic a person like this should not be not be in this house. Someone who makes comments like this
about women. Yes, he is. I'm Afrodite neither male or female legally speaking in Islam, there's a
whole different ruling of how to deal with the hermaphrodites. But
		
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			there was a concession made for him because he wasn't fully male, that maybe he can be in the house
and work and take care of some things. But if he has inclinations like this and observations like
this of the opposite gender, then it is no longer appropriate for him to be inside the house of
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, liat hada Alec
		
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			sentiment of the Allahu Ana. There are so many narrations of hers and I'm just narrating some that I
really love and they're from different chapters and different. Just hold different topics. One topic
here one topic there, but it shows us the depth of her knowledge. That's what I'm trying to
demonstrate through these narrations. She says the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said this
hadith all the young people know mashallah, either hover, Allah Asia will have a lot of Surah Fub
that will be the ASHA
		
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			that if Dinner is ready in a coma has been called start with dinner.
		
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			Right? In Arabic, they say Hola, Asha goblin. Aisha that the dinner is before food. The idea here is
that someone's really hungry and food is being served if they go for prayer, what are they going to
be thinking about while they're in prayer?
		
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			Carla eat Can I can I can I that's what they're gonna be thinking about.
		
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			Now on the other hand, if the guy is eating can I had home? Some nice good, tasty showery could I
eating that can I at home and Salah is going on or he remembers I didn't pray Salah what you
thinking now while he's eating? Salah Sala Sala Salah that's what I'm I'm honey from tonight. I said
I prefer that my food be about salah. Then my salah be about my fruit. Right? There's a scene from
the city via a salamander the Allahu dadada.
		
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			She narrates another Hadith from the prophets of Allah Hadi of Saddam.
		
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			Maybe said Allah and Islam said that you the people present your disputes to me in the Contacta
Simona Elena. Well, I love our comb and yeah, hakuna al Hannah beho Jetty him in Bath. When you
present your disputes to me it's possible one of you may be better with words and can convince me in
his favor.
		
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			Way nama Annaba I homicide Allahu alayhi wa sallam am a human being aka Lila who are not we met a
smart woman who I will pass a verdict based off of the proof that is presented for medical aid to
the woman happy sad shaken. If I pass verdict in your favor, while taking away from the right of
your brother feign nama who are now don't find out who that is fired and not taken.
		
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			Right? Salama, the Allahu ANA has this beautiful insight to how Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam passes verdicts and how he manages
		
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			Judicial Affairs, that just because you convince the judge with a lie and the judge passes the
verdict in your favor, that doesn't save you from from Jahannam that doesn't save you from the
punishment of Allah subhanaw taala. This happens with divorces in our community all the time.
		
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			People swindled their way through the courts. They take children unrightfully against the laws of
Islam. They take money unrightfully against the laws of Islam, they abuse one another, they lie,
they cheat. I didn't do this. I didn't do that. And they know what Allah subhanahu Matana they did
all of those things in nama who are not lie, a code, that money that you're taking that child that
you're taking that abuse, you're denying, if you did it, whatever the case is, you will have to
answer to Allah subhana wa Tada
		
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			salam ala the Allahu anha. She says one night, I was sleeping with Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
salam and he woke up and he said, La ilaha illa Malfatti halaya lemon hazhar in La Ilaha illa Allah.
Martin Zilla later terminal fitna Manu pillow Sawa hibel *. Yeah, Aruba, Cassia in fifth dunya
aria in Philadelphia, the prophets of Allah and while he was sort of woke up in the middle of the
night and he remembered Allah subhanahu wa Tada and discuss the great possibilities that that night
had to offer. There was height or there was also fitna there isn't a lot of sort of saw that it
descended into the world. And then he said, Who will go and wake up my wife's because it's possible
		
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			that a person will be clothed in the world but they will be uncovered in the hereafter
		
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			uncovered of good deeds. You slept through the night. You didn't build your army. You didn't spend
that time worshiping ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada. This isn't to say that you shouldn't sleep at night
sleep, get some rest you need that for the day. But spend a few moments for Allah subhanaw Without
as well. If you're going to wake up for Fajr Salaah anyway, what you should wake up a little
earlier. Do a little tahajjud Salah if the hundreds too hard for you set an alarm for 3am Wake up do
a little thicker Lila 10 times do Salawat a few times it's too far a few times, turn and go back to
sleep. But every night do a little bit of law get into the baby steps. Build a small habit any habit
		
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			of remembering Allah subhanho wa Tada
		
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			una semana the Allahu Allah. After the Prophet said a lot is said and passed away she held on to his
possessions very dearly
		
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			for baraka and for memory. With moto Abdullah says the halal Allah AMI salah, Mata Rajat Elaina man
shot in the face of Allah Allah He was that one day we came to visit him settlement of the Allahu
anha.
		
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			And she went inside the house and came back with a hair of her sort of loss of the bodies
		
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			that I've held on to this hair of the prophets that Allahu Allah He was. So they had a chance to see
these young men for either who are Magoo when honorable Hannah you will catch that she's they say
that we saw it. It was died with Hannah and also with a dark color as well.
		
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			As I mentioned at the beginning, she was the last wife of Rasulullah sallallahu ala he was set up to
depart from this world.
		
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			She passed away in the year 59 After Hijra.
		
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			Some say it was 62 after Hijra
		
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			in the month of little cada
		
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			there is one narration that say the blues aid was the one who led her Janaza prayer from the ashram
overshadows everything.
		
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			But the more correct position is that it wasn't him.
		
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			She had actually requested that he be the one that lead her janazah at one point when she wasn't
well, but she recovered. And after that, he passed away. When her time of passing approached. She
was far beyond the death of Satan as either the Allah one so her Janaza in another position, and
another opinion was led by a boy hooded over the lawn. As they lowered her body into the grave, her
children, Alma
		
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			selama, Abdullah bin Abdullah and Abby Omiya. The love and what have been some were the ones these
are all family members, nephews and children. They are the ones that lowered her into the grave, and
she is buried in bucket.
		
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			May Allah subhanahu portada elevate her MACOM
		
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			May Allah azza wa jal allow us to benefit from the knowledge of our dear beloved mother, home
settlement of the Allah Juana who went through tremendous sacrifice during her life. And at the end
of it all, being separated from her child and her husband, and seeing the passing of her husband was
gifted with one of the greatest honors in the dunya marriage to a sort of law
		
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			cinema one name
		
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			and the visa Allahu Allah He was Saddam not only blessed her with his companionship but also with a
tremendous amount of element on cinema the Allahu Allah Anna was a treasure box she was a vault of
		
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			I can't tell you how many narrations of hers you will find in the books of Hadith.
		
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			Every third, every third, every fourth page, you will find that you live on sentiment of the law on
a certain amount of the law and on only settlement of the law on the the gifts that she left behind
for the Ummah, her children us are more than we can ever imagine. Now Allah subhanahu, Matata reward
her in full for every Hadith that we benefit from and we act upon May Allah subhanho wa Taala allow
her knowledge to be a source of * in her grave. May he Resurrector with her beloved, or something
along with that, I said, I'm Hamid sin I'm on Yquem Rahmatullahi WA.
		
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			Today, as we close our session, just wanted to take this moment to remind everyone, you are all
fully aware of the situation in Philistine and in the plaza.
		
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			You are fully aware of the lives that have been lost and those that stand to be lost. And the
difficulties that lay ahead,
		
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			friends and family, friends and family of those friends that we know work currently in the USA. They
are messaging and saying that we didn't know if we're going to lift the next day.
		
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			Literally their friends were sending me screenshots of their family members that we didn't know if
we're going to live tomorrow, sending voice notes of without to their family members in America and
apologizing for their mistakes and kind of doing their farewell. One of them was saying that people
in our family have already prepared our gun.
		
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			That's the state that we're in.
		
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			So this is no small matter.
		
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			The least that we can do
		
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			is to make a heartfelt dua for them.
		
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			Go reach deep into your heart and make dua for them as you would make dua for your own child.
Imagine your child called you and said Mama, I just put my coffin together. I don't know if I'm
going to make it to dinner.
		
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			I'm in a landlocked
		
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			situation where no food no electricity, no water is being allowed here. And 300,000 from the
reserves have been
		
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			called. And everywhere we look there are people standing with weapons of destruction and we will
probably be decimated very soon.
		
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			How would that mother feel?
		
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			So make dua for them make a lot of law make a lot of law.
		
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			For those of you that have the ability, we should be praying
		
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			and making dua day and night.
		
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			No moment should pass by but you're remembering them. There shouldn't be a heavy feeling in your
chest. All day there should be a heavy feeling.
		
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			When you wake up in the morning, the first thing you should check is their heart.
		
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			Before you go to sleep, the last thing you check is their heart. How are they? Are they okay? How
are they? Are they okay? Go sit with your family members and talk to them about this. Have a
conversation talk about this get comfortable. We are OMA if we don't take control of our narrative,
and if we don't tell our family members and talk to our parents and our children, then who will talk
to them. You want them to turn to CNN. You want them to turn to Fox News. These people are such big
liars. And they've become so accustomed to just spewing out whatever narrative they want for their
voter base and for their
		
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			agenda that there is no longer any truth in it.
		
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			What do you trust? Who do you believe?
		
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			have these conversations with your own family?
		
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			I literally went home and I turned on YouTube and watched every video up Philistine in its history
with my children. I said, I want you guys to watch all these YouTube videos, we're going to watch
them together, we are going to do a marathon it's going to be two hours buckle yourself in. I want
you to see how this map shrinks. I want you to see the End of the World War I want you to see the
world the British had to play I want to I want you to see these videos of our Philistines brothers
welcoming the Jews from Europe into their land. And I want you to see while they're welcoming them
welcoming them here, how in Europe, the Zionist lobby is picking up and they're planning to take
		
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			advantage of the generosity of Muslims. I want you to see how they're entering into this land and
how they're taking over and now within a few months, millions of them have poured in and
		
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			They are now out ranking the Muslims in their, in their numbers and population that will
overpowering them. Look at this. This was the land that they were in originally. And I look here Now
look here Now look here, all of it's been documented.
		
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			And their answers about why is this happening? How was this happening?
		
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			What's going on here?
		
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			What's what's what's, what is this?
		
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			We need to talk about these things with our family members with our children. And if you adults
don't know this stuff, then that's another shame.
		
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			What's the state of the OMA Jai Hill National Road? No, don't feel anything. No knowledge of what's
going on? No to no emotion, no feeling.
		
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			And lastly, these are moments of stefarr and Toba.
		
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			These are moments of stiff far and Toba.
		
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			On that a Saba Kumasi, but in Febi Maka Saba ad Camilla one Kathy, let it not be that Allah is
holding the Ummah accountable because of our shortcomings. We turn to Allah and we ask him, to
forgive us and to shower his Rama on the ummah of Rasulullah sallallahu ani he was in May Allah
subhanho wa Taala relieve our brothers and sisters and make these matters.
		
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			Easy for them bless them with Aafia me He gives strength to every mother that is embracing her child
not sure if they will live the next day. May Allah subhana wa Tada shower hits on the mothers and
fathers and siblings that buried their beloved ones and have been burying them for the last 50
years. May Allah subhanahu adatom
		
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			elevate their MACOM
		
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			sub Rania Al Asad for Inamori.
		
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			Well said Allahu Allah, Allah Allah says I'm Hamid Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.