Husain Sattar – A Sense of Entitlement

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The concept of Hajj is a natural development that causes entitlement to happen and is a result of individual's attitude towards Jannah. The importance of Jannah is recognized as a chance to renew oneself and pay a profit. The importance of researching and asking agents about their experiences in the past is emphasized, as it is often the consequence of a lack of service and the judge's response is not a response to one's weaknesses. The importance of learning from mistakes and lessons learned during the journey of creation is emphasized, and individuals are advised to make a payment to start the day of judgment.

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			So last week I mentioned,
		
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			one aspect of the Hajj.
		
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			And Hajj is such an event that it
		
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			really,
		
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			it overcomes you,
		
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			if you have the opportunity
		
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			to do it, or even if you have
		
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			the opportunity to prepare for it.
		
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			So this week, actually, I wanted to continue
		
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			on that theme.
		
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			I realized that obviously
		
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			this group is not necessarily preparing to go
		
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			for Hajj, but inshallah, each of us will
		
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			get the opportunity to go
		
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			at least once in our lifetime and hopefully
		
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			more frequently than that.
		
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			So
		
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			what I'm gonna say actually may not necessarily
		
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			be pertinent to,
		
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			let's say your everyday living right now, but
		
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			it'll help you when you're making your preparations
		
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			to go for the next Hajj. So basically
		
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			some advice that you can take that you
		
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			can keep in mind.
		
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			Now when you when an individual goes for
		
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			the Hajj, obviously,
		
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			they make many changes in their life, they
		
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			begin to prepare for the Hajj, they begin
		
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			to learn the fiqh of the Hajj, they
		
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			begin to tie up some of the loose
		
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			ends that exist in their life so that
		
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			they can come back from the Hajj revived.
		
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			And, obviously, Hajj is a revival. So
		
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			it's an incredible opportunity for us. But at
		
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			the same time, Shepon
		
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			recognizes
		
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			the power of the event.
		
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			And so given that he recognizes the power
		
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			of the event, he's also going to try
		
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			to make his effort
		
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			to derail people from maximizing on that.
		
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			Pretty much, Hajj is straightforward.
		
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			You just have to do a few things,
		
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			and there's not very much required of an
		
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			individual. And in fact, some people would say
		
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			that Hudge is easy.
		
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			And
		
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			I talked about this actually
		
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			with the group that had, just gone on
		
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			the Hajj, that one of the brothers, he
		
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			came up and he said, you know, Hajj
		
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			seems really easy.
		
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			We just have to go from here, and
		
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			then we go to Mina, and then we
		
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			go to auto we go to,
		
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			Arafat, then we go to Musdelifa, then we
		
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			go to Mina, then we go to throw
		
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			stones at the shaitan.
		
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			All this seems so straightforward.
		
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			So
		
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			I feel bad. That was actually what he
		
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			said to me.
		
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			But
		
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			what he wasn't thinking about perhaps and what
		
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			many individuals don't recognize is that although the
		
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			events,
		
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			the monastic themselves, which is what we call
		
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			the individual steps of the Hajj, the monastic,
		
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			although the monastic may be straightforward,
		
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			the actual difficulty in the Hajj lies in
		
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			the attitude of the individual.
		
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			And, primarily,
		
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			it lies in an issue of
		
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			people feeling that they're entitled to something
		
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			or that there's some degree of entitlement
		
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			within an individual. This is something that creeps
		
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			up on an individual.
		
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			Now, what I mean by that is that
		
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			human beings,
		
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			as they move through this Earth,
		
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			they begin to feel that they deserve certain
		
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			things.
		
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			And it exists in all aspects of our
		
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			lives.
		
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			Sometimes, it exists in our marriage.
		
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			We, as husbands,
		
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			feel that our wives should treat us a
		
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			certain way,
		
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			or wives feel that husbands should treat them
		
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			a certain way.
		
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			Right? Sometimes it exists as being sons or
		
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			daughters.
		
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			Often people will come up and say, well,
		
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			why should I treat my parents well? They
		
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			don't treat me well. Right? As if we're
		
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			entitled
		
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			to some sort of proper treatment or some
		
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			special treatment.
		
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			And it exists in many, many different aspects
		
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			of our life. We expect it from our
		
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			job. We expect to be treated a certain
		
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			way, and anytime we interact with someone.
		
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			Now, unfortunately, what happens is we carry this
		
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			feeling
		
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			with us
		
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			to the Hajj.
		
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			And, actually, it's one of the big tests
		
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			that exist in the Hajj.
		
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			This this concept that this feeling that actually
		
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			sneaks in into our
		
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			hearts. Now in general, what you should recognize
		
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			that this feeling is actually very dangerous,
		
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			and it's addressed in the ayah that I
		
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			just mentioned at the supreme level, you know,
		
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			at the highest level.
		
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			Allah
		
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			commands
		
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			the prophet
		
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			to say to the Bani Israel in this
		
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			particular ayah
		
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			Say to the Bani Israel that are surrounding
		
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			you at that period of time
		
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			that if you
		
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			believe
		
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			that
		
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			Darul Aqirah, the hereafter
		
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			is exclusively for you,
		
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			then wish for death if you truly and
		
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			honestly believe in this concept.
		
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			Now the feeling that had actually arisen within
		
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			the Bani Israel at that time or the
		
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			notion that had arisen within their minds was
		
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			that somehow they deserved Jannah.
		
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			That we are a chosen people,
		
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			and based on the fact that we are
		
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			a chosen people,
		
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			automatically
		
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			we're entitled to Jannah,
		
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			right? So, this was some degree of entitlement
		
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			that existed within their minds.
		
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			And here, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			is laying forth the law
		
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			and making it very clear
		
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			that these people are not entitled to Jannah,
		
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			that there is no such
		
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			thing as entitlement to Jannah.
		
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			In fact, this even arises
		
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			in the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam is dealing
		
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			with his companions because, you know, from hadith
		
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			that the prophet sallallahu, they were some of
		
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			them stated to the companions that none of
		
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			you will enter Jannah based on your deeds.
		
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			So they were shocked when they heard that.
		
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			The how can it be that none of
		
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			us will enter Jannah based on our deeds?
		
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			Here we made the Hijra, and then we
		
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			made all these sacrifices. We gave up our
		
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			homes. We gave up our families. We fought
		
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			when we were called to fight upon. We
		
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			we fought when we were called to fight
		
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			for the cause of Islam, etcetera. And now
		
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			we're being told that our deeds will not
		
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			enter us into Jannah.
		
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			And then the prophet then the prophet
		
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			explained that
		
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			it is only through the mercy of Allah
		
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			that someone will enter Jannah.
		
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			Meaning, even your deeds, right, on some sort
		
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			of scale or balance do not entitle an
		
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			individual to go into Jannah. And then the
		
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			Sahaba actually put the question back to the
		
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			prophet and said,
		
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			even you. Is it true that even your
		
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			own deeds will not entitle you to go
		
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			into Jannah? And then the prophet replied in
		
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			the affirmative that, yes, it's only the mercy
		
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			of Allah
		
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			that will even place me into Jannah.
		
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			So
		
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			here is just another example
		
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			of this whole concept of of a saliq,
		
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			somebody who's sincere in their pursuit of Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala recognizing
		
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			that at no moment did they deserve anything.
		
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			So we read it, we don't deserve anything.
		
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			Everything is Allah's mercy.
		
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			The whole earth was created through Allah's mercy,
		
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			and everything we do is through the mercy
		
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			of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. So there is
		
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			no expectation. There's nothing we deserve. We simply
		
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			are beggars.
		
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			We're absolutely
		
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			poor and Allah
		
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			is absolutely
		
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			wealthy.
		
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			And you can't
		
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			stand in front of Allah
		
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			and claim to have anything
		
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			that would allow you or allow you to
		
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			deserve
		
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			to enter Jannah.
		
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			So this is a concept that has to
		
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			exist within a human being. And when this
		
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			concept exists within a human being, 2 things
		
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			happen. Number 1, they become very humble because
		
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			they don't expect, for example, that somebody should
		
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			not somebody should hold the door for them
		
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			when they enter into the home or somebody
		
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			should make sure that their food is warm
		
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			before it's placed on the table or somebody
		
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			should make sure that this particular item is
		
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			cooked for them on this particular day,
		
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			Right? So it makes an individual very humble
		
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			and it makes them very much at peace
		
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			with their surroundings and themselves. So that's the
		
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			first benefit of recognizing that you don't deserve
		
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			anything or we don't deserve anything.
		
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			So that and the second
		
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			the second benefit
		
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			of of recognizing this
		
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			is that then you become very dependent on
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala because you recognize that
		
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			every single moment is a new opportunity.
		
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			If an individual looks back and says, well,
		
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			wait a minute, I pray that the Hajjid
		
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			prayer, so Allah should enter me into Jannah,
		
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			it's going to be very hard for them
		
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			to continue to excel.
		
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			But if they look back and say, No,
		
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			wait a minute, everything I do Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala can take away at any moment
		
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			and everything I've done is only because Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala permitted it, then they're going
		
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			to strive at the next moment in order
		
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			to achieve
		
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			the most they can for that particular moment.
		
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			So, this is very important. And I'll tell
		
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			you, it totally comes to a head at
		
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			the Hajj.
		
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			Because what happens at the Hajj
		
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			and when you're making this when you're making
		
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			this trip, you need to keep this in
		
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			mind, is that people pay a set amount
		
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			of money.
		
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			And that's just gonna happen. That's invariable. That's
		
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			part of the Hajj in this day and
		
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			age. It's not like it used to be
		
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			where you simply just packed up your camel
		
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			and you just went. Right? The way the
		
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			Hajj is set up now is that you
		
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			have to pay some amount of money to
		
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			some agent.
		
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			Alright? And then you get to go to
		
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			the Hajj. And in return, you're supposed to
		
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			receive a, b, and c. But the problem
		
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			is is that people pay that money and
		
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			they get so caught up in getting
		
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			exactly what they expected that they deserve to
		
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			do to that money.
		
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			Now in any normal circumstance, that's that's fine.
		
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			For example, you go to buy a car,
		
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			they tell you that the car has this
		
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			feature, this feature, this feature. They tell you
		
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			you gotta pay $30,000 and you're gonna get
		
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			this kind of car. It's totally fine. And
		
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			it totally you have all the right in
		
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			the world to say, I paid you this
		
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			much. I deserve this much. In any other
		
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			normal transaction,
		
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			that would be okay. But in the Hajj,
		
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			it becomes very problematic.
		
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			Because what happens is, invariably,
		
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			nobody will be able to give you what
		
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			they try. Everybody makes a everybody makes their
		
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			best assessment of what they can give. And
		
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			you can ask anybody who goes on the
		
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			hudges. They'll all tell you the same thing.
		
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			Well, we didn't get this and we didn't
		
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			get this or we didn't get that or
		
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			we didn't get this. It's just not possible.
		
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			That's the way the hudges by design. It's
		
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			not possible to receive every single thing that
		
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			you
		
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			are
		
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			paying
		
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			for. So, really what an individual has to
		
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			say is I'm paying my, let's say, $5,000
		
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			and I'm just paying this for the opportunity
		
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			to go for the Hajj. If Allah opens
		
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			the door for anything else for me, that's
		
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			fine, But this $5,000 was cheap because the
		
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			opportunity to renew myself was worth 1,000,000 or
		
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			1,000,000,000 or 1,000,000,000,000 or 1,000,000,000,000 depending on how
		
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			you recognize it.
		
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			So when that attitude comes into a person,
		
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			then and only then will they be able
		
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			to see succeed in the Hajj.
		
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			And I'll tell you that someone asked Sheikh
		
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			Zulfikar,
		
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			one of the people actually
		
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			I asked I met someone who met Sheikh
		
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			Zulfikar.
		
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			So I said that, you know, the Hajj
		
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			is just coming up in a couple of
		
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			days. So did he give you any advice?
		
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			What did he tell you? Did he say
		
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			anything special about the Hajj? He said, yes.
		
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			Actually, he told me one thing about the
		
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			Hajj. So I said, okay. What was that?
		
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			He said that
		
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			if you wanna succeed in the Hajj,
		
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			right, if you wanna succeed in the Hajj,
		
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			there's one thing you have to remember.
		
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			And that is is that you are the
		
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			least deserving person to be there.
		
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			If you remember that you're the least deserving
		
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			person to be there and you can get
		
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			that concept in your mind, then your Hajj
		
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			will be okay.
		
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			Now, then you apply it and you start
		
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			thinking it. I don't know if how many
		
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			of you have gone for Hajj, but you'll
		
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			see it. For example, when you go from
		
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			for Hajj,
		
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			everybody is bumping into everybody. Okay? For example,
		
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			you're trying to make your tawaf.
		
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			Right, and everybody is knocking the person next
		
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			to them, everybody is crushing them, everybody is
		
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			trying to protect themselves, everybody is sort of
		
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			out for themselves trying to get around the
		
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			Galva 7 times and it's very crowded.
		
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			Now, what ends up happening is that people
		
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			start bumping you, people start you get jabbed
		
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			with an elbow, you get stepped on, your
		
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			your feet get stepped on, and then you
		
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			start thinking, well, why did he do that?
		
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			Or why did he bump me like that?
		
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			Or what kind of Muslim is that? He
		
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			stepped on me. Doesn't he have any manners?
		
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			Or look at these Turkish Muslims, they just
		
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			talk they they're so loud in there. They
		
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			go during the during the that nobody else
		
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			can concentrate. Don't they have any don't they
		
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			have any concern for their brothers? So these
		
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			attitudes start this attitude and these notions begin
		
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			to pop up in a person's mind, and
		
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			what should be going through our minds is,
		
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			wow,
		
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			people are stepping on me and they're elbowing
		
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			me, but actually they should have just picked
		
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			me up and thrown me out of the
		
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			masjid because I don't even deserve to be
		
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			here. If they knew the number of sins
		
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			that I performed,
		
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			they wouldn't even smile at me, let alone
		
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			raise their eyes towards me.
		
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			That's the attitude that should be going through
		
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			our minds that, subhanallah,
		
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			such a despicable human being
		
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			could be brought into that place by Allah
		
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			to be purified. It's a miracle that these
		
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			individuals don't just smell the stench of my
		
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			bad deeds and throw me out of the
		
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			masjid.
		
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			That is the attitude that you have to
		
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			have that I am the least deserving to
		
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			be there and only and only then will
		
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			you begin to succeed. Because otherwise, every problem
		
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			will become a difficulty.
		
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			Right?
		
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			When it becomes difficult in for example, you're
		
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			going on some kind of 24 hour bus
		
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			ride, which happens in the Hajj. Right? You
		
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			get into a bus, you expect the ride
		
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			to take 4 hours, it ends up taking
		
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			24 hours. Either you can sit there and
		
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			start saying, well, this took 24 hours and
		
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			now begin complaining about how the driver was
		
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			bad or how the cops in Saudi Arabia
		
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			are bad because they create all these weird
		
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			checkpoints
		
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			or how all these people are bad because
		
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			they don't, they, you know, they weren't careful
		
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			about the way they were driving or we
		
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			can begin to create a 1,000 excuses why
		
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			it took 24 hours
		
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			or instead you can sit back and say,
		
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			SubhanAllah,
		
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			it took 24 hours for me to get
		
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			from this point to this point, but I
		
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			if I would have traveled my whole lifetime
		
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			to try to get here, I wouldn't have
		
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			got here, but Allah allowed me to do
		
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			it in only 24 hours. So, subhanallah, and
		
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			be thankful to Allah
		
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			because we were the least deserving people to
		
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			be there. And that is such a difficult
		
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			attitude such a difficult attitude to get into
		
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			one's heart that
		
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			it it that actually where the challenge of
		
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			the Hajj lies.
		
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			Now, you I saw so many times and
		
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			on so many different occasions,
		
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			not people, just myself,
		
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			you know, you begin to see this thing
		
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			within yourself as well that, okay, wait a
		
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			minute, we were supposed to get this, how
		
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			come we didn't get this, right? And then
		
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			in particular, people would be carrying the list
		
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			of things that we're supposed to get with
		
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			them and checking in each stage that they
		
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			they did they receive this and did they
		
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			receive that? And then that creates a very,
		
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			very difficult scenario to benefit. What ends up
		
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			happening is that then individuals begin to talk
		
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			bad between themselves about their trip, and then
		
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			they basically are complaining about the trip. And
		
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			then what ends up happening is the next
		
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			step is that all the barakah of the
		
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			trip gets cut off.
		
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			So we have to be very particularly careful.
		
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			1, on the trip of Hajj. But 2,
		
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			just on the trip of life.
		
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			Look, if you are walking, let's say you're
		
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			walking, right?
		
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			And you eat a piece of gum,
		
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			and then you drop the wrap wrapper on
		
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			the floor,
		
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			we have to think twice when the wrapper
		
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			falls on the floor. Sometimes, we don't even
		
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			drop it. Sometimes, it's just something falls out
		
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			of our pocket by accident and we know
		
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			it fell out of our pocket, but we
		
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			just keep on walking. But actually we should
		
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			be thinking twice, who's my servant that's gonna
		
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			go and pick this up? And how on
		
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			the day of judgment am I gonna answer
		
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			that this person had to pick up my
		
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			garbage? Was he my servant? Right? Because what
		
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			do we expect? That somebody else is gonna
		
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			go and pick up our garbage?
		
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			It happens all it happens often. When an
		
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			individual gets this attitude that they need to
		
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			serve and not be served, then these challenges
		
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			begin to arise regularly and you'll see them
		
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			arising regularly. Whether it be dropping a wrapper
		
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			on the floor by accident as you pull
		
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			something out of your pocket, whether it be
		
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			parking in the parking lot when we know
		
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			that the parking lot is gonna be full
		
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			anyway. So, why not park someplace else? Well,
		
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			we can why came first so I deserve
		
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			to park here. Right? So we have all
		
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			these different ways by which we justify what
		
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			we're entitled to, but the reality is is
		
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			that we're entitled to nothing.
		
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			It's Allah's mercy if we can end up
		
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			in the Masjid.
		
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			Right? And we should be thankful every single
		
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			time that we end up in the Masjid.
		
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			It's Allah's mercy if we can end up
		
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			at the Hajj. It's Allah's mercy that we
		
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			even practice the deen. I'll tell you, it's
		
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			not uncommon, and you'll meet these people, and
		
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			I know them, and I've seen it with
		
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			my own eyes that someone will be flying
		
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			along, bam, they'll hit some kind of,
		
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			stop, and those just go flat on the
		
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			floor, and they'll lose what they were practicing
		
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			because you never know. You never know when
		
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			Allah
		
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			will turn one's fate.
		
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			It's clear from Hadith where the prophet mentioned
		
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			that there will be a person who does
		
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			all the deeds of Jannah.
		
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			And then right before his death, he's a
		
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			hair span according to the Hadith. He's a
		
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			hair span away from his death, and then
		
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			he does one deed that puts him into
		
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			Jannah.
		
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			So where is the entitlement there? That's the
		
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			attitude of the believer. That's the fear that
		
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			exists in the believer that I am not
		
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			entitled to anything.
		
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			I'm just totally dependent on Allah's mercy. At
		
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			any moment, he can do anything he wants
		
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			with me and it makes no difference to
		
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			him. That's the other thing. It's not like
		
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			my mom where if some if I get
		
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			hurt, she's gonna care. Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			doesn't have the need to care for us.
		
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			He cares for us out of his mercy.
		
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			It doesn't hurt him. See, if I get
		
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			hurt, my mom, she feels bad. Inside, she's
		
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			gonna feel bad for me. If my child
		
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			gets sick, I feel bad for my son
		
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			or I feel bad for my daughter. It
		
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			hurts me as well and perhaps that's why
		
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			I even care because I don't sit and
		
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			worry about my generations
		
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			500 years down the line. I worry about
		
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			the generation before me
		
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			probably because I see it directly within before
		
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			my own eyes, and that's what hurts
		
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			me. But
		
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			Allah
		
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			is not dependent on our praise.
		
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			Allah
		
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			is not dependent on us in any way.
		
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			It doesn't make any difference to him if
		
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			all of creation goes to the hellfire or
		
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			if all of creation goes to Jannah. It's
		
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			only his mercy that actually
		
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			creates that concern within him because he's so
		
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			above us and so beyond us. It's like
		
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			one time a scholar gave an example
		
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			that when you if there's ants in your
		
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			home and you spray raid, you don't sit
		
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			and feel bad that these many ants died.
		
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			You actually are happy. The more that die,
		
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			the more that get killed, the cleaner the
		
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			kitchen's gonna be. Right? And that's because the
		
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			ant compared to you, there's such a huge
		
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			difference.
		
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			Right? You don't see the ant as you
		
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			see yourself or as you see another human
		
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			being.
		
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			Now, if there's that much difference between us
		
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			and ants and we're both living, we're both
		
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			created, we both eat, we both reproduce, then
		
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			what do you think the difference is between
		
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			us and Allah when there is no similarity
		
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			between us?
		
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			Allah
		
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			has absolutely zero similarity with human being.
		
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			No no way can you create any similarity
		
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			between any aspect of creation.
		
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			That's how high Allah
		
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			is.
		
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			So, how can we sit there and sit
		
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			and think, well, I'm automatically
		
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			entitled to Jannah.
		
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			No one is automatically entitled to Jannah, and
		
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			that's the attitude that you have to carry
		
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			towards the Hajj. And it's the attitude that
		
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			actually have to carry throughout life, but it
		
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			really
		
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			bring comes out in the Hajj. It really
		
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			begins to come out because that's actually where
		
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			the vast majority of the American *'s conflict
		
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			is. Now you see that there's the Pakistani
		
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			*, there's the Indian *, there's the African
		
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			*, they spent their whole life saving.
		
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			They spent their whole life saving to get
		
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			to that place. You put them there, they're
		
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			smiling. You can do anything you want to
		
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			them after that. Makes no difference. They will
		
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			sleep in the street. Doesn't matter, bus we
		
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			came to Hajj, alhamdulillah.
		
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			Allah brought us to His house Alhamdulillah.
		
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			So with those kind of people, their challenge
		
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			is different and they have to face their
		
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			own challenges and they speak of their own
		
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			challenges, but they spent their whole life getting
		
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			there that they feel no entitlement. They're just
		
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			thankful that Allah gave them the opportunity to
		
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			just see the Kaaba with their eyes. They've
		
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			never seen it. They heard that there was
		
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			this beautiful
		
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			structure called the Kaaba and that people they
		
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			circle around it and that this is where
		
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			Islam was established and where the prophet
		
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			originally lived, etcetera. They hear all these stories,
		
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			but they had never seen it themselves.
		
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			So for them, they just go there and
		
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			they just see it and they're just so
		
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			happy, so happy that it didn't matter that
		
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			they spent their whole life saving
		
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			and that they paid whatever amount that they
		
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			paid. They throw everything out the window and
		
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			they say, Alhamdulillah,
		
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			we're here.
		
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			The all the time, all the effort, all
		
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			the money, etcetera, and we're here. Okay. The
		
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			American *, they take 1 paycheck,
		
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			2 paychecks maybe, 2, 3 months worth of
		
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			effort and all of a sudden
		
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			they're asking at that they're they're in front
		
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			of the GABA. And in front of the
		
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			GABA, they're asking which hotel am I gonna
		
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			have? Which side is my room gonna face?
		
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			Which kind of bed am I gonna have?
		
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			And all these issues begin arising within the
		
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			mind of the person because,
		
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			again, there's this entitlement like we deserved to
		
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			come.
		
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			We earned the money. We saved the money.
		
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			We paid for the trip. We deserve to
		
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			come.
		
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			So, the big advice,
		
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			this is the biggest advice is that when
		
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			an individual
		
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			goes for the Hajj,
		
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			they should recognize that they're entitled to nothing.
		
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			Now, I'm not saying that, okay, well, you
		
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			should just, you know, give whatever you want
		
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			to whatever agent and it doesn't matter what
		
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			they do and then that's it and then
		
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			you go for the Hajj. But I'll tell
		
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			you where the scrutiny comes, it comes before
		
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			you make the trip.
		
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			So what you do is you go do
		
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			your research,
		
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			you ask the different agents what they offer,
		
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			you ask the agents how they've done in
		
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			the past, you talk to other people
		
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			about
		
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			what is going to what has occurred in
		
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			the past with that group.
		
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			Alright? And then once you've done all your
		
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			homework,
		
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			you commit to the group, and then after
		
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			that, you just assume that the only thing
		
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			I'm paying for is to get to the
		
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			Kaaba. If the person gets me to the
		
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			Kaaba and puts me in Arafa on 9th,
		
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			done. Khalas. I'm happy. That's it. Anything more?
		
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			Alhamdulillah.
		
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			Do you have to reduce yourself to that
		
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			level? Once you reduce yourself to that level,
		
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			then everything above will be a means of
		
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			thinking Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			And I'll tell you that even if you
		
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			do all the research,
		
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			it still won't necessarily
		
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			give you everything that you're expecting, so that's
		
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			why you have to have that attitude. I
		
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			mean, it happened in our group as well.
		
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			I spent 6 years researching our group. I
		
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			checked, I checked, I talked to so many
		
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			people, I was regularly checking, and I expected
		
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			certain things certain challenges to not arise, certain
		
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			challenges to arise, but when we got there,
		
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			we had our own set of challenges,
		
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			it was going to happen. And actually what
		
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			people didn't recognize
		
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			was that everybody brought their own challenge with
		
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			them.
		
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			That's the funny thing, is that when 40
		
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			people go on such a journey,
		
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			everyone brings their own weaknesses with them. Everybody
		
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			brings their own test with them. So when
		
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			they come together, if there's one person that's
		
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			impatient, when the test comes on that one
		
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			person, because it's a group, all 40 have
		
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			to go through it.
		
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			Alright? If there's another person that gets angry
		
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			very easily, when the test comes on that
		
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			one person, then all 40 have to handle
		
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			it together.
		
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			Everybody brought with them their own test.
		
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			SubhanAllah. It was just so strange.
		
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			We missed we were in Germany for 1
		
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			night because we missed our connecting flight. Okay?
		
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			The next day, everybody was panicking about how
		
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			they're gonna get on that on that flight
		
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			because there was no space.
		
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			They told us very clearly there's no way
		
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			there's gonna be any space. They told us
		
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			that this is a standby flight. It's very
		
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			unlikely. It's overbooked,
		
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			and everybody began to panic. How are they
		
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			going to get on their flight? So now
		
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			everybody began seeking out their own ways. Right?
		
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			This is how it is. On the day
		
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			of judgment, it's the same way.
		
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			Etcetera.
		
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			Right? So everybody began to just get into
		
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			their own panic. Now, everybody was worried about,
		
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			am I gonna get on the plane? And
		
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			everybody was worried about, how am I gonna
		
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			guarantee myself that I get on the plane?
		
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			Right? Now, what was Ajib is that everybody
		
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			went through all of that test, everybody got
		
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			tried in their own way, everybody reacted in
		
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			their own way, and in the end, every
		
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			single person got on the plane. In fact,
		
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			when the lady was handing out the standby
		
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			passes, before she even handed out the passes,
		
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			she just stood and said, all of you
		
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			are on the plane.
		
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			Before she even handed out the passes.
		
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			Now from that actually we learned 2 things.
		
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			Number 1, you begin to see what's gonna
		
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			happen if that was the state for getting
		
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			on one simple plane to get home when
		
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			everyone was gonna get home anyway. And when
		
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			everybody got home then they recognized that it
		
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			wasn't such a big deal that they got
		
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			home because they would have gotten there anyway.
		
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			If that was the state to get on
		
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			the plane then what's going to happen on
		
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			a day of judgment when hellfire is raised
		
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			before people, right, and Jannah is raised before
		
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			people and then everybody is freaking out about
		
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			which way they're gonna go. So that was
		
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			the first thing that started running through my
		
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			mind is that if these feelings are starting
		
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			to come in me now and I'm starting
		
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			to feel this way that how am I
		
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			gonna get on this plane? And what's gonna
		
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			happen to me on that day?
		
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			Right? So the only way to be saved
		
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			on that day is the mercy of Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. We know very clearly in
		
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			Hadith that the vast majority of people will
		
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			be running around in a panic.
		
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			Such a panic such a panic that they
		
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			will begin to say to themselves.
		
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			We don't even care whether we're going to
		
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			Jannah or Jahannam. We just want the day
		
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			of judgment to get started because we can't
		
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			stand the waiting.
		
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			And it comes in hadith that people will
		
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			say this to themselves, that it's just too
		
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			much. We can't take this anymore. Just start
		
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			the day of judgment, put us put us
		
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			in hellfire, it doesn't matter, but just start.
		
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			So, they'll go from prophet to prophet to
		
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			prophet with that request. Not that we go
		
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			to Jannah, but can you beg Allah to
		
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			just start the day of judgment because we're
		
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			just so panicked about it? So every prophet
		
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			will be asked, none of them will be
		
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			able to produce,
		
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			that at that particular moment, and then the
		
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			prophet will be asked at the end, he'll
		
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			go into sajdah, and he'll read a certain
		
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			hamdah that no one had ever recited before
		
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			about Allah
		
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			based on that hammed, the day of judgment
		
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			will start.
		
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			Now that's the issue of getting just the
		
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			day of judgment started. Then imagine what's gonna
		
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			happen when it starts, you start seeing this
		
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			guy gets put into Jahannam and everyone begins
		
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			to see that actually there really will be
		
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			people placed in Jahannam. And this guy gets
		
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			put into jannah and you begin to see
		
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			that people really are being placed in jannah
		
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			and you begin to see that this person
		
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			based on these deeds is being placed here
		
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			and pay this person based on these deeds
		
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			is playing he's placed here and then you
		
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			start running like crazy through your mind your
		
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			whole life starting to panic and wonder which
		
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			deed is gonna outweigh which deed and where
		
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			am I gonna end up. And on that
		
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			day, there's not gonna be any backup system.
		
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			There won't be any I knew this person
		
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			so I got on the plane or I
		
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			knew that person so I got on the
		
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			plane. That day will be just you and
		
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			Allah
		
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			But at the same time,
		
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			we also know from hadith that there will
		
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			be certain groups of people that will be
		
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			very peaceful on that day,
		
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			very peaceful on that day. In fact, they
		
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			will be sitting in the shade of Allah
		
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			throne just relaxing,
		
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			Saying, oh, we just have to relax here
		
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			for a few moments. When Allah decides to
		
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			put us into our next phase, he'll put
		
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			us into our next phase. And you can
		
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			go through hadith and you can read about
		
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			those people, but that's the one thing that
		
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			started going through my mind during that phase
		
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			of the journey.
		
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			Then the second thing that actually went through
		
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			my mind at that phase of the journey
		
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			when everybody was panicking to get on the
		
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			plane
		
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			was the statement of the prophet where he
		
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			said that I will not enter Jannah until
		
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			all of my Ummah enters Jannah.
		
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			Then and only then will I enter into
		
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			Jannah.
		
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			Then the power of that statement actually comes
		
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			into play where you start thinking, SubhanAllah,
		
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			if you know if this is how the
		
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			Prophet would have been you know, okay after
		
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			everybody gets on the plane then not only
		
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			then will I get on the plane. Now
		
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			that's a plane, it's just a simplistic thing.
		
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			But you think about Jannah and you think
		
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			about Jahannam, and our scholars were
		
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			so deep in this notion
		
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			that when they used to sin, they used
		
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			to cry.
		
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			And you know what you they used to
		
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			say?
		
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			They used to say that because of my
		
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			sin, I feel bad. I myself deserve to
		
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			go to * fire.
		
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			But I feel bad now because it's going
		
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			to take longer for judgment to occur. So,
		
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			I'm now delaying the prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam
		
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			from going into Jannah.
		
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			That was the sadness that used to exist.
		
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			They used to think about their sins in
		
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			that way. That was the attachment
		
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			that they had with the prophet Sallallahu Alaihi
		
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			Wasallam.
		
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			You can only begin to imagine, I mean,
		
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			what kind of concern
		
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			the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam has for each
		
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			of his community
		
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			that on that day when every when all
		
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			of the purpose of all of creation comes
		
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			to a head, right? I mean, the whole
		
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			reason why we're existing and that day, if
		
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			if it said that we go to Jannah,
		
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			you're not gonna look back.
		
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			You know, when it said that, okay,
		
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			you know,
		
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			brother Zayd,
		
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			Jannah.
		
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			Brother Zayd is not gonna look back and
		
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			wonder where his wife and where his family,
		
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			where he's going to run straight into Jannah.
		
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			On that day he's going to run straight
		
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			into Jannah, but you know who's gonna be
		
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			looking back is the prophet shalallahu alaihi wasallam.
		
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			He's going to sit back and look back
		
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			after your son, your daughter, your wife, your
		
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			child, you'll be running straight to Jannah.
		
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			And 1 by 1, when the names are
		
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			called and people are running to Jannah or
		
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			people are running to Jahannam, the prophet will
		
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			stand there and he will wait and in
		
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			any occasion possible, he will make intercession.
		
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			That, wait a minute, wait a minute, this
		
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			person at least took my name, this person
		
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			at least resembled me, this person at least
		
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			followed my sunnah, this person at least attended
		
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			a certain gathering. He will wait
		
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			and make every intercession possible
		
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			so much so that even the people in
		
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			Jahannam eventually will hopefully be taken out of
		
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			Jahannam and placed into Jannah.
		
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			Then the prophet will enter into Jannah.
		
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			Now, you have to just imagine the concern,
		
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			the love that such an individual has for
		
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			his community.
		
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			So, these are the types of things you
		
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			have to recognize. These are the types of
		
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			things that come up and had see every
		
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			moment in house was actually a learning experience.
		
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			People saw this, saw this as a big
		
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			headache, our travel agent messed up everything, you
		
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			know, he should have gotten these flights like
		
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			this and he should have gotten these flights
		
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			like this, and everybody starts putting in their
		
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			2ยข about how the travel agent messed up
		
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			everything. But
		
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			actually, these were all lessons that we had
		
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			to learn. That group of 40 people or
		
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			30 people or 10 people, whoever went on
		
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			the Hajj, they had to learn these lessons.
		
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			So what was gonna happen? Allah was going
		
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			to test them in the way that Allah
		
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			wanted to test them in order for them
		
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			to learn these lessons. It didn't matter who
		
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			the travel agent is, it could have been
		
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			the most responsible human being on earth
		
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			because we had to learn those lessons. That
		
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			was it. That was the way it was
		
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			created. That was the way the Hajj was
		
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			designed.
		
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			So,
		
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			everybody has to go through these trials. In
		
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			fact, it even comes back into my mind
		
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			that Sheikh Zulfikar told me that when his
		
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			teacher used to go for the Hajj that
		
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			on one occasion now they used to go
		
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			for the Hajj in boat by boat, right?
		
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			So those boats would take sometimes 3 weeks,
		
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			4 weeks to land in Jeddah.
		
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			Now, when the boat docks in Jeddah,
		
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			his, teacher, his Sheikh used to say that
		
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			on one occasion
		
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			when our boat docked into Jeddah, they said
		
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			they came on the boat and everybody, you
		
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			know, like when you get on the plane
		
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			and the plane lands even before that fastened
		
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			seat belt light comes off, everybody starts getting
		
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			out and taking their bags and rushing towards
		
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			the door because they just went off that
		
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			plane and they've been on there for what,
		
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			8 hours? So he said that we when
		
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			the person came to greet us from the
		
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			land onto the boat,
		
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			we all got up ready to leave and
		
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			then he made the announcement
		
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			that for 3 days and 3 nights no
		
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			one can get off this boat.
		
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			Why? Because people are bringing disease like the
		
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			plague and other types of diseases into Saudi
		
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			Arabia. So we need to see if any
		
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			diseases on on this boat.
		
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			Meaning, you are all just one big petri
		
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			dish. Right? If the disease is there, it'll
		
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			just kill you all off. And we won't
		
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			have to worry about you. And if it's
		
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			not there, then you can get off the
		
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			boat.
		
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			So it was after 3 days, they said
		
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			for 3 days, we were looking from the
		
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			boat that Jeddah is right there.
		
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			And we can't get off the boat because
		
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			we're waiting because of the fact that they
		
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			need to check us for disease.
		
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			Now imagine the difficulties that used to exist
		
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			for the Hajj, they will always exist. They
		
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			will always exist. That's the way it's designed,
		
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			and you have to recognize that that is
		
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			part of the journey.
		
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			So my big advice to you big, big
		
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			advice to you is that, okay, fine. When
		
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			you're planning your journey but I'll tell the
		
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			number one thing is you will need to
		
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			look for your company. It everything is based
		
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			on who you're with. So when you're planning
		
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			your journey, you have to go and start
		
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			analyzing all these things. Like, okay, what is
		
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			how much do I have to pay? And
		
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			what am I supposed to get? And how
		
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			are you gonna organize the package? And then
		
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			you talk to everybody and you say, okay,
		
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			this brother took you last year, what was
		
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			your opinion? You ask somebody else, what was
		
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			your opinion? In the end, you're gonna be
		
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			able to select out the best. Right? Because
		
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			nobody's perfect. Only Allah is perfect, and to
		
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			expect anything more is just ridiculous.
		
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			So you select out the best. After you
		
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			selected out the best, you make your payment
		
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			and you say, Alhamdulillah.
		
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			That's it. If this individual gets me to
		
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			Arafa on 9th and takes me and allows
		
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			me to make my tawaf around the Kaaba,
		
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			he's done his responsibility and I'm happy. Anything
		
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			else is from Allah, anything else is extra.
		
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			And then, sit back and try to learn
		
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			from each of the events because things will
		
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			go wrong. They will definitely go wrong. At
		
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			every step, they will go wrong, and they
		
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			will go wrong in ways that no one
		
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			anticipated.
		
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			But every time that happens, it's meant to
		
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			teach some lesson
		
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			to some reason. Allah willed it. Allah doesn't
		
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			will harsh,
		
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			severity on his servants for no reason.
		
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			Everything occurs for a reason. Everything occurs to
		
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			teach us a lesson. So may Allah
		
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			give us a Tawfiq
		
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			to be regular in the journey to his
		
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			home, and may he give us a Tawfiq
		
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			to recognize that all of what we have
		
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			is based on the mercy of Allah, and
		
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			that none of it is based on any
		
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			disease, any any deed that we've ever presented
		
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			to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. May he give
		
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			us a tawfiq to be among those who
		
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			are able to see not only ourselves go
		
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			into Jannah, but our family members and our
		
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			community members, and may he make us among
		
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			those who often be get an opportunity to
		
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			visit his home.