Hosai Mojaddidi – The Temperance of Trials and Tribulations Rabi’ alAwwal 2021

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			So
		
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			Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim Al
hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam o
		
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			Allah should have an MBA will
mursaleen say that our Mowlana
		
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			Where have you been at Muhammad
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, while
		
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			earlier was Sofia Salam, the
Sleeman kathira.
		
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			According to him and others early
human beings possess three
		
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			faculties. The rational faculty
Cordyline the irascible faculty go
		
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			with the lava dub, and the
appetite of faculty for the
		
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			shower. When these faculties are
imbalanced they inculcate four
		
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			principal virtues of character,
which are wisdom, hikma, courage,
		
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			shujaa, temperance, BIFA and
justice either.
		
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			So how do we inculcate these
virtues? Well, the obvious answer
		
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			is through serious discipline,
commitment, and self mastery. But
		
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			more specifically, hikma wisdom is
acquired when our rational faculty
		
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			or intellect is sound, and we're
able to discriminate between truth
		
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			and falsehood. shujaa Courage is
acquired when our irascible
		
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			faculty or our temper is under the
command of our intellect, and
		
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			we're able to restrain our anger.
If Temperance is acquired when our
		
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			appetite of faculty or
concupiscence, or hunger when it's
		
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			balanced, and we can self regulate
and maintain equilibrium. And
		
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			either justice is acquired when
all of these qualities are present
		
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			and harmonious within us. And our
reason regulates both our
		
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			irascibility and our appetites.
		
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			What's even more amazing about
these Four Virtues is that they
		
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			then act as a matrix for
subsequent virtues. So for
		
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			instance, sound deliberation to
money comes from the virtue of
		
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			prudence, patience. Sobota comes
from temperance, generosity from
		
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			courage and equity from justice.
		
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			In Plato's Republic, Socrates uses
the human being as a model for the
		
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			state. He explains that we are
trying creatures who possess a
		
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			rational appetite of and spirited
soul. So part of our essential
		
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			nature is to be rational. We are
Homo sapiens. And the word sapien
		
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			means wise in Latin, the rational
soul is also what we refer to in
		
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			Arabic as the archon, which Allah
subhanaw taala has given human
		
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			beings. Allah subhanaw taala says
in Surah Nisa, what Enza Allah Wa
		
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			alaykum Kitab Well, heck matter
what I lemak a mellem, to contact
		
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			them. And God has revealed to you
the book and wisdom and has taught
		
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			you that which you did not know.
		
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			The reason Allah subhanaw taala
revealed the book and taught us
		
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			wisdom is because without it the
wisdom, we could not access the
		
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			book, the book must be
operational. And that can only
		
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			happen with wisdom.
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala also says in
Surah, Al Baqarah, util Hekmat
		
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			amania Share, he gives wisdom to
whom he wills and whoever has been
		
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			given wisdom has certainly been
given much good. Note that this
		
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			isn't the passive form, right, the
one who's given wisdom. It doesn't
		
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			say the one who is wise, because
it's a passive act. This is what
		
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			we call a passive intellect or an
apple musta fed. So again, the
		
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			idea here is that Divine Wisdom is
infused in those who are blessed.
		
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			And from that they have
enlightened understanding,
		
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			followed by prudent behavior.
fucka Dina Razi said that the
		
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			verse Northern Ireland nor refers
to Revelation upon intellect, in
		
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			other words, Revelation upon
wisdom, because wisdom can only
		
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			take us so far. While we need
wisdom to understand when and how
		
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			to apply revelation. We need
revelation to guide us as
		
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			Revelation illuminates the
intellect. So they're both
		
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			necessary. Another example is the
US Constitution, which is a matrix
		
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			for legislation. It's not
legislation itself. In order to
		
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			adjudicate or effectively judge
and implement the constitution. We
		
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			need wisdom. The Constitution
gives us the principles from which
		
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			we can derive legislation. And in
the same way, Revelation gives us
		
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			the principles in which we can
derive our actions and through
		
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			through our obedience we can
attain Madiba of ALLAH SubhanA wa
		
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			Tada.
		
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			So from this we understand that
when a human being is void of
		
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			intellect and virtue, his
character is defected, and
		
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			eventually his soul becomes
corrupted.
		
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			Much like contagion when moral
decline in individuals is left
		
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			unmitigated over time, it can
spread quickly among the people
		
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			and collapse an entire society.
This is the unfortunate reality of
		
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			today's world, where due to
extreme liberal ideologies that
		
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			deny the very existence of
objective truth and attempt to
		
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			redefine morality. Countless
social ills have erupted,
		
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			including more violence and
lawlessness, increased vulgarity
		
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			and depravity, and widespread
hedonism and immorality. This has
		
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			resulted in an epidemic of hookup
culture and venereal diseases. We
		
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			also have economic theories that
ensure that the rich get richer,
		
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			and the poor get poor. We have a
big pharma cult that promotes a
		
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			medical system that manages
disease through long term drug
		
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			therapies, ensuring continued
profits. And we have an
		
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			agricultural industry that profits
heavily from processed foods with
		
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			extended shelf life, which results
in obesity and sickness and people
		
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			who are then sent back to the
disease management industry. And
		
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			the cycle continues.
		
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			And this is why people of faith
and decency who wished to uphold
		
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			social order and proper civil and
moral conduct must work even
		
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			harder to restore in Theory and
Practice, these universally agreed
		
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			upon virtues of human character.
The third principle moral virtue
		
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			of human character Which Imam Al
Ghazali mentioned is temperance,
		
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			if it is the ability to remain
balanced and adapt to difficult
		
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			circumstances, to self regulate
and exercise moderation.
		
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			Temperance enables us to keep our
passions and emotions under the
		
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			control of our intellect. Dr.
Joseph Piper, who's a notable
		
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			Catholic philosopher, who wrote
extensively on the four cardinal
		
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			virtues, calls temperance,
selfless self denial. In other
		
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			words, Temperance is more than
tempering things or saying no to
		
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			ourselves. It's only a virtue if
the purpose for which we control
		
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			ourselves is also good. So a
person with Temperance is always
		
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			seeking something greater beyond
the self.
		
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			Temperance is also the virtue of
the appetite of soul. It's the
		
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			ability to control the two
appetites, which are fundamental
		
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			urges that Allah subhanaw taala
has put in the human being. The
		
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			urge of self preservation is
through the appetite of the
		
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			stomach, and the urge of species
preservation is through the
		
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			appetite of the *. They're
both instinctual urges, but they
		
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			have to be controlled. Thus, the
virtue of Temperance is
		
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			essentially self preservation,
whereas in Temperance is self
		
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			degradation and self destruction.
About these extremes, Imam Al
		
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			Ghazali also says, should the
appetite of soul move to the point
		
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			of excess, it is called cupidity,
while if it should decline to
		
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			defect, it is known as
indifference.
		
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			Now, the virtues that are aligned
with temperance include
		
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			abstinence, sobriety, chastity,
purity, continence, humility,
		
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			gentleness, clemency, modesty and
lack of greed. On the contrary,
		
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			the vices that are opposed to
temperance include gluttony,
		
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			drunkenness, unjust study,
impurity, incontinence, pride,
		
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			wrath and greed.
		
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			So to understand how if is
beautifully reflected in a human
		
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			being, we need look no further
than the paragon of human
		
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			perfection. Our Beloved Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who
		
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			had a sound Hadith reported by
Eman Malik or the Allah and in his
		
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			Mata said, both to the team member
hustle o'clock, I was sent only to
		
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			perfect the noble qualities of
character. And he did exactly
		
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			that. Throughout his life from his
early childhood all the way
		
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			through his final days. The
Prophet sallallahu wasallam was
		
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			tested with incredibly difficult
life challenges and circumstances.
		
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			He and
		
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			Word every type of suffering
imaginable. He never knew his
		
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			father and lost his mother,
leaving him orphaned at a very
		
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			young age. He subsequently lost
his grandfather and other close
		
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			family members. When he reached
the age of prophecy, he suffered
		
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			immense betrayal from his
tribesmen. He was ostracized from
		
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			his community, persecuted
relentlessly and endured
		
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			starvation and other unfathomable
physical hardships. He lost his
		
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			greatest ally and beloved wife
Khadija, or the line as well as
		
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			his uncle Abu Talib, who was his
staunchest defender. He watched
		
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			the fall of countless companions
in battle, and by the end of his
		
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			life had buried all but one of his
children.
		
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			The complete scope of his
suffering is known only to God.
		
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			But despite everything he endured,
he never once displayed any
		
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			weakness in his faith. Nor did he
ever complain about his hardships.
		
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			He was able to endure so many
trials and tribulations with such
		
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			grace and humility, because of his
unwavering conviction and trust in
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala as well as
due to his beautiful and perfect
		
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			character, which afforded him the
ability to respond to every
		
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			challenge with Sublime temperance
with EFA. He was always in a state
		
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			of perfect equilibrium, and
complete command over his
		
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			emotions.
		
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			The Meccan period, which lasted
about 13 years, emphasized
		
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			developing the qualities of
wisdom, temperance and reliance on
		
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			God. This period symbolizes what
is often referred to as the
		
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			feminine element of the
revelation, as it heavily involved
		
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			the prohibition of fighting
patience, endurance, self
		
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			constraint, and the two moral
virtues which are more developed
		
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			in women naturally, wisdom and
temperance. Mecca is also known as
		
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			OMO Cora and the foundational
story of the city itself involves
		
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			a single mother with her child,
Padgett. Abandoned by divine
		
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			command. The word Kaaba is
feminine. Qibla is feminine, Mecca
		
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			and Becca are also feminine words.
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam was raised by women, his
mother Amina and had a messiah
		
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			idea his wet nurse. So Mecca is
the feminine period which reflects
		
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			the feminine virtues of Rama and
patients. Even though it's
		
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			outwardly Gianelli inwardly it's
Gemini. In addition to wisdom and
		
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			temperance, other virtues such as
chastity and modesty, are more
		
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			naturally developed in women, and
must be cultivated by men, usually
		
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			through the nurturing of their
mothers. Because the mother is the
		
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			first month rasa, women are
intuitive, and sound intuition is
		
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			an expression of wisdom. Wisdom is
not the same as knowledge. Because
		
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			knowledge is more naturally the
domain of men. Wisdom is more
		
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			naturally the domain of women.
		
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			The Medina and period is the
masculine period where the
		
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			masculine virtues of courage and
justice were developed. Medina is
		
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			essentially about justice. It is
outwardly jimani, but inwardly
		
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			Jalali, the opposite of Mecca, and
Mecca, the Muslims were not
		
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			allowed to fight and defend
themselves. They had to practice
		
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			great restraint. It was a time of
immense difficulty because it was
		
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			for building resilience and trust
in God. The believers endured
		
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			patiently through years of
persecution and tribulation, and
		
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			underwent a type of spiritual
alchemy until they emerged,
		
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			fortified in their faith. And it's
during the Meccan period in which
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala reminds them
first in what Allah has. Right so
		
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			be patient. Surely God's promise
is true. And let not the
		
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			disbelievers shake your firmness.
		
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			In the seventh year of the Prophet
salallahu sedums mission, the
		
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			state of the Muslims became
incredibly difficult. The Meccans
		
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			enacted sanctions against the
believers, prohibiting any and all
		
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			business dealings with them,
including the sale and purchase of
		
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			food and other goods for three
entire years and wholesome space
		
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			brutal conditions, including
famine and relentless physical
		
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			abuse at the hands of their
oppressors. With virtually little
		
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			to no source of food. They were
often forced to eat leaves and
		
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			other shrubs or go days without
food. They also tied rocks to
		
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			their stomach to suppress their
hunger. The cries of starving
		
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			children were heard throughout
this
		
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			City, but the relentless siege
continued. Shortly after the
		
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			boycott ended, began the year of
sorrow or Amazon. This is when the
		
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			Prophet sallallahu wasallam
experienced two devastating
		
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			personal losses. First his beloved
wife Khadija, the Allah and her
		
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			passes and then his uncle of
alternative, who had offered him
		
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			and the earlier community of
Muslims protection against attack
		
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			from other hostile tribes in
Mecca.
		
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			Following these two major losses,
the Prophet sallallahu Sallam
		
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			sought out other support in
thiophene, which is a neighboring
		
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			city, not too far from Mecca.
		
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			Upon his arrival and five,
however, the tribal chiefs were
		
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			unwelcoming and shunned to the
Prophet satellite and set him for
		
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			fear of reprisal from the stronger
American tribes. They then
		
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			instructed the urchins of the city
to attack him and his companions
		
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			aid him and Hatha with stones
causing them great harm.
		
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			The prophesy said I'm bled
profusely from his blessed head to
		
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			his feet. His sandals were
drenched with blood, due to the
		
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			sheer volume of blood he lost in
this attack.
		
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			Despite his physical pain and
emotional anguish, the proposal
		
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			allottee of Saddam did not respond
with anger, or a desire to
		
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			retaliate.
		
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			Rather, he raised his hands in
prayer, taking himself to account
		
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			first and asking God for
protection and strength. And when
		
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			the angel Jibreel Elisa Lam and
another angel descended and
		
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			offered to crush the entire city
between two mountains,
		
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			obliterating everyone the province
on the wily have said I'm
		
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			displayed great magnanimity and
declined the offer, saying that he
		
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			was hopeful that even though they
rejected the message, that their
		
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			progeny would eventually accept
Islam.
		
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			This is one of many countless
examples from the early part of
		
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			the Sierra, where the Prophet
sallallahu wasallam displays
		
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			extraordinary temperance aifa
despite himself, suffering,
		
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			innumerable hardships.
		
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			And because He is our example, we
must not only marvel at his
		
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			virtues, but we must strive to
emulate them. Sadly, most of us
		
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			have difficulty showing humility
and restraint in the most minor
		
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			circumstances. We allow our
emotions to control us and we
		
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			react with little thought or
consideration of consequence, to
		
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			be able to keep a level head in
dire circumstances and to restrain
		
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			our anger after suffering even the
smallest slight from another
		
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			person is near impossible for many
of us.
		
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			But for the Prophet sallallahu
wasallam it wasn't difficult at
		
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			all. Because he did not operate
from the place of ego or knifes
		
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			rather his intellect his knowledge
of God and His love for God
		
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			compelled him to always act in
line with what pleased Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala for he knew that
there was no greater reward than
		
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			that
		
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			any man or no is famous collection
of Hadith three other Salah Hain
		
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			is a Hadith reported by Anas ibn
Malik, who said that the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam passed
by a woman who was weeping next to
		
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			a grave. The Prophet sallallahu
wasallam said to her, be mindful
		
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			of Allah, and be patient. She
responded rudely go away from me,
		
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			you have not been afflicted by a
calamity like mine.
		
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			And she did not recognize him.
Later, she was told that that was
		
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			the Prophet sallallahu wasallam.
So she went to his house. And she
		
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			said to him, I didn't recognize
you.
		
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			The Prophet sallallahu sallam said
to her, verily patience is at the
		
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			first strike.
		
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			This is yet another example where
the Prophet salallahu Salam is not
		
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			only displaying temperance, I find
himself in his own behavior. But
		
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			he's also defining it clearly for
us. When this woman who was in the
		
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			throes of grief, reacted in such a
distasteful way to his gentle
		
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			counsel. He simply left her alone.
He didn't react to her. And it was
		
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			only after her emotion subsided,
and she came into her senses when
		
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			she was able to see the error of
her ways. This is another proof of
		
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			why we must heed the eye and obey
God and His messenger and do not
		
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			dispute and lose courage. For then
your strength would depart and be
		
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			patient and indeed God is with the
patient. The point here is to obey
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala and His
Prophet sallallahu wasallam and
		
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			tend to leave argumentation.
Because when we lose comportment
		
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			and argue we become weak. Strength
is not in disputation and anger.
		
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			It is impatience, because Allah
subhanaw taala is with the
		
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			patient. So we must learn to self
regulate and temper our emotions.
		
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			The question we must all ask
ourselves is, am I patient? Think
		
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			about how you would have reacted
in a similar situation? Would you
		
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			have had the emotional
intelligence to know that a person
		
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			in such a state is not thinking
rationally? Would you have been
		
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			able to restrain your tongue from
lashing out and rushing to rebuke
		
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			them? Likely not if you're being
honest, and that's because most of
		
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			us would feel justified in our
anger and our reactions, we would
		
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			focus on our own feelings,
completely losing sight of the
		
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			reality of the situation, and most
importantly, of what would most
		
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			please Allah. In the case of the
Prophet salallahu Salam, we can
		
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			see that because he was fully
present, fully aware of the
		
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			situation, and focused solely on
Allah subhanaw taala. He was not
		
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			triggered by her scornful reply,
his state was unaffected by her,
		
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			and he left in the same calm and
peaceful disposition as when he
		
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			found her. This is the beautiful,
consistent character, and if of
		
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			our Prophet sallallahu Adi USA.
		
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			an undeniable problem with the
modern Zeitgeist is the gratuitous
		
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			consumption and materialism,
coupled with an ordinate
		
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			preoccupation with justice and
fairness. This has created a
		
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			pervasive culture of entitlement
and rampant victimhood, such that
		
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			even those who are unjust to
others, including known criminals,
		
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			complain of wealth and class
disparities as an inherent right.
		
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			According to a hadith narrated by
ibn Muhammad, the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,
Soon others will be preferred to
		
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			you, and there will be things you
will not like. The Companions
		
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			asked a messenger of Allah, what
do you order us to do in that
		
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			case? And he responded, to give
the rights that are upon you, and
		
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			to ask for your rights from God.
		
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			This is yet another example, where
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam is teaching us an important
lesson on temperance by bearing
		
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			patiently the decree of Allah
subhanaw taala with matters that
		
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			displease us, he further
emphasizes the importance of
		
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			fulfilling other people's rights,
even when it may feel unpleasant
		
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			to do so. And then to turn to
Allah subhanaw taala. Whenever
		
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			one's own rights have been denied,
and for whatever sense of
		
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			injustice one may feel. Again,
this beautiful and balanced
		
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			approach to life helps inculcate
many virtues, but especially those
		
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			of patience and restraint, both of
which are born from temperance.
		
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			For this reason, we are repeatedly
reminded in the Quran, that this
		
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			life is a test. But those who can
see beyond the immediate or the
		
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			present to the permanent and
sublime will have far greater
		
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			success passing those tests. Allah
subhana wa Tada says in Surah Al
		
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			Baqarah, whether level one can be
che in mineral healthy while Jul
		
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			1x in mineral myt, while unfussy
with some rights were brushed
		
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			aside but in and we will surely
test you with something of fear
		
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			and hunger, and a loss of wealth
and lives and fruits, but give
		
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			good tidings to the patient. This
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