Hosai Mojaddidi – The Temperance of Trials and Tribulations Rabi’ alAwwal 2021

Hosai Mojaddidi
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So

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Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam o

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Allah should have an MBA will mursaleen say that our Mowlana

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Where have you been at Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, while

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earlier was Sofia Salam, the Sleeman kathira.

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According to him and others early human beings possess three

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faculties. The rational faculty Cordyline the irascible faculty go

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with the lava dub, and the appetite of faculty for the

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shower. When these faculties are imbalanced they inculcate four

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principal virtues of character, which are wisdom, hikma, courage,

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shujaa, temperance, BIFA and justice either.

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So how do we inculcate these virtues? Well, the obvious answer

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is through serious discipline, commitment, and self mastery. But

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more specifically, hikma wisdom is acquired when our rational faculty

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or intellect is sound, and we're able to discriminate between truth

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and falsehood. shujaa Courage is acquired when our irascible

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faculty or our temper is under the command of our intellect, and

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we're able to restrain our anger. If Temperance is acquired when our

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appetite of faculty or concupiscence, or hunger when it's

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balanced, and we can self regulate and maintain equilibrium. And

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either justice is acquired when all of these qualities are present

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and harmonious within us. And our reason regulates both our

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irascibility and our appetites.

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What's even more amazing about these Four Virtues is that they

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then act as a matrix for subsequent virtues. So for

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instance, sound deliberation to money comes from the virtue of

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prudence, patience. Sobota comes from temperance, generosity from

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courage and equity from justice.

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In Plato's Republic, Socrates uses the human being as a model for the

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state. He explains that we are trying creatures who possess a

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rational appetite of and spirited soul. So part of our essential

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nature is to be rational. We are Homo sapiens. And the word sapien

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means wise in Latin, the rational soul is also what we refer to in

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Arabic as the archon, which Allah subhanaw taala has given human

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beings. Allah subhanaw taala says in Surah Nisa, what Enza Allah Wa

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alaykum Kitab Well, heck matter what I lemak a mellem, to contact

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them. And God has revealed to you the book and wisdom and has taught

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you that which you did not know.

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The reason Allah subhanaw taala revealed the book and taught us

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wisdom is because without it the wisdom, we could not access the

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book, the book must be operational. And that can only

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happen with wisdom.

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Allah subhanaw taala also says in Surah, Al Baqarah, util Hekmat

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amania Share, he gives wisdom to whom he wills and whoever has been

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given wisdom has certainly been given much good. Note that this

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isn't the passive form, right, the one who's given wisdom. It doesn't

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say the one who is wise, because it's a passive act. This is what

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we call a passive intellect or an apple musta fed. So again, the

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idea here is that Divine Wisdom is infused in those who are blessed.

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And from that they have enlightened understanding,

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followed by prudent behavior. fucka Dina Razi said that the

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verse Northern Ireland nor refers to Revelation upon intellect, in

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other words, Revelation upon wisdom, because wisdom can only

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take us so far. While we need wisdom to understand when and how

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to apply revelation. We need revelation to guide us as

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Revelation illuminates the intellect. So they're both

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necessary. Another example is the US Constitution, which is a matrix

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for legislation. It's not legislation itself. In order to

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adjudicate or effectively judge and implement the constitution. We

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need wisdom. The Constitution gives us the principles from which

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we can derive legislation. And in the same way, Revelation gives us

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the principles in which we can derive our actions and through

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through our obedience we can attain Madiba of ALLAH SubhanA wa

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Tada.

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So from this we understand that when a human being is void of

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intellect and virtue, his character is defected, and

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eventually his soul becomes corrupted.

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Much like contagion when moral decline in individuals is left

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unmitigated over time, it can spread quickly among the people

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and collapse an entire society. This is the unfortunate reality of

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today's world, where due to extreme liberal ideologies that

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deny the very existence of objective truth and attempt to

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redefine morality. Countless social ills have erupted,

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including more violence and lawlessness, increased vulgarity

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and depravity, and widespread hedonism and immorality. This has

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resulted in an epidemic of hookup culture and venereal diseases. We

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also have economic theories that ensure that the rich get richer,

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and the poor get poor. We have a big pharma cult that promotes a

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medical system that manages disease through long term drug

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therapies, ensuring continued profits. And we have an

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agricultural industry that profits heavily from processed foods with

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extended shelf life, which results in obesity and sickness and people

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who are then sent back to the disease management industry. And

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the cycle continues.

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And this is why people of faith and decency who wished to uphold

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social order and proper civil and moral conduct must work even

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harder to restore in Theory and Practice, these universally agreed

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upon virtues of human character. The third principle moral virtue

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of human character Which Imam Al Ghazali mentioned is temperance,

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if it is the ability to remain balanced and adapt to difficult

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circumstances, to self regulate and exercise moderation.

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Temperance enables us to keep our passions and emotions under the

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control of our intellect. Dr. Joseph Piper, who's a notable

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Catholic philosopher, who wrote extensively on the four cardinal

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virtues, calls temperance, selfless self denial. In other

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words, Temperance is more than tempering things or saying no to

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ourselves. It's only a virtue if the purpose for which we control

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ourselves is also good. So a person with Temperance is always

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seeking something greater beyond the self.

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Temperance is also the virtue of the appetite of soul. It's the

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ability to control the two appetites, which are fundamental

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urges that Allah subhanaw taala has put in the human being. The

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urge of self preservation is through the appetite of the

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stomach, and the urge of species preservation is through the

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appetite of the *. They're both instinctual urges, but they

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have to be controlled. Thus, the virtue of Temperance is

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essentially self preservation, whereas in Temperance is self

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degradation and self destruction. About these extremes, Imam Al

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Ghazali also says, should the appetite of soul move to the point

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of excess, it is called cupidity, while if it should decline to

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defect, it is known as indifference.

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Now, the virtues that are aligned with temperance include

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abstinence, sobriety, chastity, purity, continence, humility,

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gentleness, clemency, modesty and lack of greed. On the contrary,

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the vices that are opposed to temperance include gluttony,

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drunkenness, unjust study, impurity, incontinence, pride,

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wrath and greed.

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So to understand how if is beautifully reflected in a human

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being, we need look no further than the paragon of human

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perfection. Our Beloved Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who

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had a sound Hadith reported by Eman Malik or the Allah and in his

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Mata said, both to the team member hustle o'clock, I was sent only to

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perfect the noble qualities of character. And he did exactly

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that. Throughout his life from his early childhood all the way

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through his final days. The Prophet sallallahu wasallam was

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tested with incredibly difficult life challenges and circumstances.

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He and

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Word every type of suffering imaginable. He never knew his

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father and lost his mother, leaving him orphaned at a very

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young age. He subsequently lost his grandfather and other close

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family members. When he reached the age of prophecy, he suffered

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immense betrayal from his tribesmen. He was ostracized from

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his community, persecuted relentlessly and endured

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starvation and other unfathomable physical hardships. He lost his

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greatest ally and beloved wife Khadija, or the line as well as

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his uncle Abu Talib, who was his staunchest defender. He watched

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the fall of countless companions in battle, and by the end of his

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life had buried all but one of his children.

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The complete scope of his suffering is known only to God.

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But despite everything he endured, he never once displayed any

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weakness in his faith. Nor did he ever complain about his hardships.

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He was able to endure so many trials and tribulations with such

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grace and humility, because of his unwavering conviction and trust in

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Allah subhanaw taala as well as due to his beautiful and perfect

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character, which afforded him the ability to respond to every

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challenge with Sublime temperance with EFA. He was always in a state

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of perfect equilibrium, and complete command over his

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emotions.

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The Meccan period, which lasted about 13 years, emphasized

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developing the qualities of wisdom, temperance and reliance on

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God. This period symbolizes what is often referred to as the

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feminine element of the revelation, as it heavily involved

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the prohibition of fighting patience, endurance, self

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constraint, and the two moral virtues which are more developed

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in women naturally, wisdom and temperance. Mecca is also known as

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OMO Cora and the foundational story of the city itself involves

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a single mother with her child, Padgett. Abandoned by divine

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command. The word Kaaba is feminine. Qibla is feminine, Mecca

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and Becca are also feminine words. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam was raised by women, his mother Amina and had a messiah

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idea his wet nurse. So Mecca is the feminine period which reflects

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the feminine virtues of Rama and patients. Even though it's

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outwardly Gianelli inwardly it's Gemini. In addition to wisdom and

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temperance, other virtues such as chastity and modesty, are more

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naturally developed in women, and must be cultivated by men, usually

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through the nurturing of their mothers. Because the mother is the

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first month rasa, women are intuitive, and sound intuition is

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an expression of wisdom. Wisdom is not the same as knowledge. Because

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knowledge is more naturally the domain of men. Wisdom is more

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naturally the domain of women.

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The Medina and period is the masculine period where the

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masculine virtues of courage and justice were developed. Medina is

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essentially about justice. It is outwardly jimani, but inwardly

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Jalali, the opposite of Mecca, and Mecca, the Muslims were not

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allowed to fight and defend themselves. They had to practice

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great restraint. It was a time of immense difficulty because it was

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for building resilience and trust in God. The believers endured

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patiently through years of persecution and tribulation, and

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underwent a type of spiritual alchemy until they emerged,

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fortified in their faith. And it's during the Meccan period in which

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Allah subhanaw taala reminds them first in what Allah has. Right so

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be patient. Surely God's promise is true. And let not the

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disbelievers shake your firmness.

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In the seventh year of the Prophet salallahu sedums mission, the

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state of the Muslims became incredibly difficult. The Meccans

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enacted sanctions against the believers, prohibiting any and all

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business dealings with them, including the sale and purchase of

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food and other goods for three entire years and wholesome space

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brutal conditions, including famine and relentless physical

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abuse at the hands of their oppressors. With virtually little

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to no source of food. They were often forced to eat leaves and

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other shrubs or go days without food. They also tied rocks to

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their stomach to suppress their hunger. The cries of starving

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children were heard throughout this

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City, but the relentless siege continued. Shortly after the

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boycott ended, began the year of sorrow or Amazon. This is when the

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Prophet sallallahu wasallam experienced two devastating

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personal losses. First his beloved wife Khadija, the Allah and her

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passes and then his uncle of alternative, who had offered him

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and the earlier community of Muslims protection against attack

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from other hostile tribes in Mecca.

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Following these two major losses, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam

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sought out other support in thiophene, which is a neighboring

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city, not too far from Mecca.

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Upon his arrival and five, however, the tribal chiefs were

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unwelcoming and shunned to the Prophet satellite and set him for

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fear of reprisal from the stronger American tribes. They then

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instructed the urchins of the city to attack him and his companions

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aid him and Hatha with stones causing them great harm.

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The prophesy said I'm bled profusely from his blessed head to

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his feet. His sandals were drenched with blood, due to the

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sheer volume of blood he lost in this attack.

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Despite his physical pain and emotional anguish, the proposal

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allottee of Saddam did not respond with anger, or a desire to

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retaliate.

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Rather, he raised his hands in prayer, taking himself to account

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first and asking God for protection and strength. And when

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the angel Jibreel Elisa Lam and another angel descended and

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offered to crush the entire city between two mountains,

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obliterating everyone the province on the wily have said I'm

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displayed great magnanimity and declined the offer, saying that he

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was hopeful that even though they rejected the message, that their

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progeny would eventually accept Islam.

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This is one of many countless examples from the early part of

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the Sierra, where the Prophet sallallahu wasallam displays

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extraordinary temperance aifa despite himself, suffering,

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innumerable hardships.

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And because He is our example, we must not only marvel at his

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virtues, but we must strive to emulate them. Sadly, most of us

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have difficulty showing humility and restraint in the most minor

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circumstances. We allow our emotions to control us and we

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react with little thought or consideration of consequence, to

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be able to keep a level head in dire circumstances and to restrain

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our anger after suffering even the smallest slight from another

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person is near impossible for many of us.

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But for the Prophet sallallahu wasallam it wasn't difficult at

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all. Because he did not operate from the place of ego or knifes

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rather his intellect his knowledge of God and His love for God

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compelled him to always act in line with what pleased Allah

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subhanaw taala for he knew that there was no greater reward than

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that

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any man or no is famous collection of Hadith three other Salah Hain

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is a Hadith reported by Anas ibn Malik, who said that the Prophet

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam passed by a woman who was weeping next to

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a grave. The Prophet sallallahu wasallam said to her, be mindful

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of Allah, and be patient. She responded rudely go away from me,

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you have not been afflicted by a calamity like mine.

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And she did not recognize him. Later, she was told that that was

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the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. So she went to his house. And she

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said to him, I didn't recognize you.

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The Prophet sallallahu sallam said to her, verily patience is at the

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first strike.

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This is yet another example where the Prophet salallahu Salam is not

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only displaying temperance, I find himself in his own behavior. But

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he's also defining it clearly for us. When this woman who was in the

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throes of grief, reacted in such a distasteful way to his gentle

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counsel. He simply left her alone. He didn't react to her. And it was

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only after her emotion subsided, and she came into her senses when

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she was able to see the error of her ways. This is another proof of

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why we must heed the eye and obey God and His messenger and do not

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dispute and lose courage. For then your strength would depart and be

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patient and indeed God is with the patient. The point here is to obey

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Allah subhanaw taala and His Prophet sallallahu wasallam and

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tend to leave argumentation. Because when we lose comportment

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and argue we become weak. Strength is not in disputation and anger.

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It is impatience, because Allah subhanaw taala is with the

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patient. So we must learn to self regulate and temper our emotions.

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The question we must all ask ourselves is, am I patient? Think

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about how you would have reacted in a similar situation? Would you

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have had the emotional intelligence to know that a person

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in such a state is not thinking rationally? Would you have been

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able to restrain your tongue from lashing out and rushing to rebuke

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them? Likely not if you're being honest, and that's because most of

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us would feel justified in our anger and our reactions, we would

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focus on our own feelings, completely losing sight of the

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reality of the situation, and most importantly, of what would most

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please Allah. In the case of the Prophet salallahu Salam, we can

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see that because he was fully present, fully aware of the

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situation, and focused solely on Allah subhanaw taala. He was not

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triggered by her scornful reply, his state was unaffected by her,

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and he left in the same calm and peaceful disposition as when he

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found her. This is the beautiful, consistent character, and if of

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our Prophet sallallahu Adi USA.

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an undeniable problem with the modern Zeitgeist is the gratuitous

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consumption and materialism, coupled with an ordinate

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preoccupation with justice and fairness. This has created a

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pervasive culture of entitlement and rampant victimhood, such that

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even those who are unjust to others, including known criminals,

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complain of wealth and class disparities as an inherent right.

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According to a hadith narrated by ibn Muhammad, the Prophet

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Soon others will be preferred to

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you, and there will be things you will not like. The Companions

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asked a messenger of Allah, what do you order us to do in that

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case? And he responded, to give the rights that are upon you, and

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to ask for your rights from God.

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This is yet another example, where the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam is teaching us an important lesson on temperance by bearing

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patiently the decree of Allah subhanaw taala with matters that

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displease us, he further emphasizes the importance of

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fulfilling other people's rights, even when it may feel unpleasant

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to do so. And then to turn to Allah subhanaw taala. Whenever

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one's own rights have been denied, and for whatever sense of

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injustice one may feel. Again, this beautiful and balanced

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approach to life helps inculcate many virtues, but especially those

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of patience and restraint, both of which are born from temperance.

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For this reason, we are repeatedly reminded in the Quran, that this

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life is a test. But those who can see beyond the immediate or the

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present to the permanent and sublime will have far greater

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success passing those tests. Allah subhana wa Tada says in Surah Al

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Baqarah, whether level one can be che in mineral healthy while Jul

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1x in mineral myt, while unfussy with some rights were brushed

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aside but in and we will surely test you with something of fear

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and hunger, and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give

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good tidings to the patient. This is Oh Simon Jetty for zaytuna

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College's first spring program on temperance. I hope you liked the

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program and would consider joining the 12,000 strong initiative to

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