Hosai Mojaddidi – Does Islamic Law Oppress Women

Hosai Mojaddidi
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The speaker discusses a story about a woman who faced a difficult decision when it comes to marriage and divorce. She describes her experience of being advised to not allow a man to be forced into a marriage, and how she decided to express her desire to bring her out of the marriage. The speaker also mentions that many women face similar struggles in their relationships.
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How many of you have or have been led to believe that Muslim women

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do not have choice when it comes to marriage and divorce? Right?

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So again, this is something that in Dallas, I struggle with reading

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more and more, but there's a story that I can share with. One of the

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companions of the Prophet Muhammad has been was it been skipping son,

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so the son of having the best, he relates that once a young girl,

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she came to me,

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and she had just been married off forcibly by her father, and she

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was very upset. So she came to complain to him. Now, in that

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moment, the problem in the marriage ceremony had already

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happened. So he paused. And he, again, this is important to

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reflect on what how he engaged her, he asked her now that this is

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where you have a choice, do you wish to stay in this marriage? Or

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do you wish to leave the marriage? Her response? was, what do you

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think, brought some Yes. She said, I want to bring me out of this.

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She complained right? Now many people make sure to say

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she, she actually said, I do wish to say, the reason I spoke up is

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so that I let other women know that no man has the right to be

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forced into a marriage. So this story to me was really profound,

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because not only is she exercising her

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choice, right in the matter, but she's also clearly showing that

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she is looking out for other women. And so she made a really

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responsible decision to speak out but she could have just, you know,

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kept quiet and gotten to the stage without anybody ever knowing that

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she's had a call with it. So she wanted to make a clear point. And

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in fact that that was related

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to many that dispel this myth that some women cannot marry or divorce

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and that's why like I said,

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