Hosai Mojaddidi – Does Islamic Law Oppress Women

Hosai Mojaddidi
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The speaker discusses a story about a woman who faced a difficult decision when it comes to marriage and divorce. She describes her experience of being advised to not allow a man to be forced into a marriage, and how she decided to express her desire to bring her out of the marriage. The speaker also mentions that many women face similar struggles in their relationships.

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			How many of you have or have been
led to believe that Muslim women
		
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			do not have choice when it comes
to marriage and divorce? Right?
		
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			So again, this is something that
in Dallas, I struggle with reading
		
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			more and more, but there's a story
that I can share with. One of the
		
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			companions of the Prophet Muhammad
has been was it been skipping son,
		
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			so the son of having the best, he
relates that once a young girl,
		
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			she came to me,
		
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			and she had just been married off
forcibly by her father, and she
		
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			was very upset. So she came to
complain to him. Now, in that
		
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			moment, the problem in the
marriage ceremony had already
		
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			happened. So he paused. And he,
again, this is important to
		
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			reflect on what how he engaged
her, he asked her now that this is
		
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			where you have a choice, do you
wish to stay in this marriage? Or
		
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			do you wish to leave the marriage?
Her response? was, what do you
		
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			think, brought some Yes. She said,
I want to bring me out of this.
		
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			She complained right? Now many
people make sure to say
		
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			she, she actually said, I do wish
to say, the reason I spoke up is
		
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			so that I let other women know
that no man has the right to be
		
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			forced into a marriage. So this
story to me was really profound,
		
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			because not only is she exercising
her
		
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			choice, right in the matter, but
she's also clearly showing that
		
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			she is looking out for other
women. And so she made a really
		
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			responsible decision to speak out
but she could have just, you know,
		
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			kept quiet and gotten to the stage
without anybody ever knowing that
		
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			she's had a call with it. So she
wanted to make a clear point. And
		
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			in fact that that was related
		
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			to many that dispel this myth that
some women cannot marry or divorce
		
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			and that's why like I said,