Hatem al-Haj – Manazil as-Sa’ireen #15 – Chapter on Grief

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The speakers discuss the concept of "Grind" and its use in various context, including the struggles of the Islamist movement during the COVID-19 pandemic, the need for people to have a clear understanding of their actions, and the potential for achieving goals through the movement. They emphasize the importance of avoiding the label of "the culture of war" and avoiding the label of hasn't been done. The speakers also touch on the struggles of the Islamist movement during the pandemic and the need for people to have a clear understanding of their actions.

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			consola Today we'll go over a bubble
		
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			of a chapter in grief and Tammam in the session.
		
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			The first
		
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			Shahada, we recommend Allah said Christmas,
		
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			you know how he divided the book, you know how in every chapter he divides this the basically every
chapter into three categories.
		
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			So whenever he talks about mahaska, for instance or self reckoning, he talks to you about Maha Sabha
for the public Bahasa for the elites, you know, this the select few and Maha Sabha for the topmost
		
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			or the most special servants of Allah Subhana, WA Tada, and how he divides everything into three
parts, every one of those categories is divided into three parts. What, certainly, things don't
happen like this and can reality. But he tries to do this, like not everything is divided into
three, you know, parts and reality. And not every one of those concepts can be divided into three
parts. But what he tries to do, basically, is to facilitate
		
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			learning,
		
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			you know, he's trying to effectively teach us. So that's why he divides things in this way. And then
he divided the entire book into 10 divisions, and every division is divided into 10 stations.
		
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			And that is also to facilitate our learning to facilitate our learning. So, what we started with is
pessimal layout or the division of the beginnings.
		
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			And now, we will be starting with this algebra, which is the division of the gates. So the 10
divisions that he has in the book mirazur serine are the Stations of the
		
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			seekers, or the wayfarers. The 10 stations that he has are the first one. We're done with the first
one by the way, we're done with 10 stations, and the 10 stations that we just finished last time
with Babel somehow or audition or hearing is a small bit is the division of it without or the
beginnings and then we will go over personnel above that the division of gates and after Bismillah
baptismal Mohammed at dealings, transactions dealings. And after Christmas Mr. mellott will have
bismil Aflac morals after personal aphylla personal or soon foundations after personal also
pessimists out there valleys and after pessimists out there, the division of valleys then we will go
		
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			over the division of Western interstates and after that, we will go over the revision of it when I
add it when I uh, when I add is plural of what a
		
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			different form we lie, you know. So when I add or the plural of what I uh, you know, what i what i
comes from, it's the state of being overly
		
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			Translated by some people as sainthood or you know, what a is translated a saint, but it is it is a
loaded term comes from a different religious background. Therefore, it is loaded with connotations
that may or may not
		
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			agree or may or may not be in harmony with our own definition and concept of what I am therefore, we
try to avoid those loaded terms. And we use your, you know, sometimes strength is translated as
friendship.
		
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			It's been like an intimate friend of God when he an intimate friend of God.
		
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			And then after Christmas, what I asked we would go over the division of a haka and realities, and
after bismil haka, we'll go over the division of any hyak the endings, so he started by Peshmerga at
the beginnings, he ended by pasman at the end things and it is
		
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			the it's an ascending order.
		
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			And then, you know, inshallah, today we'll start Bismillah wherever the division of gates
		
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			We will go over
		
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			you know without the microphone it takes a lot of effort by the way to shout
		
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			we'll go over the
		
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			the first chapter in this division, the division of lab lab or the gates which is Bob and the
chapter on grief or housing
		
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			and when we come back from our Ramadan break
		
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			we will carry on with the division of gates. Why is that why are we not doing any more? Because care
before the Ramadan break because we still have one you know Hanukkah next week inshallah, because
not next weekend on Saturday, we will have higher than the fast in fact, we will have menstrual and
postpartum bleeding and the rulings that pertain to menstrual postpartum bleeding and that will take
the two sessions and keep in mind we have been behind on fat by one session. So we will have been
ahead
		
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			on the scale and behind on by one session. So next time we will give the two sessions the fact and
then both the scan
		
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			Will
		
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			you know will be parallel to each other in terms of the number of sessions that we had.
		
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			So remember how are we rockin mahalo tada
		
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			ceflix land and how do we rock and roll lotta Allah said here the division of gates who are machismo
Astra to avoid while he was in one hole for a strap, one who saw what in combat was what what our
tobacco Raja one Drogba
		
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			and
		
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			these are the 10 divisions and husband is grief and how his fear
		
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			and his family is concerned to be emotional to be concerned. Allahu sure as humility
		
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			and these are basically very crude, rough translations because they're, you know, each one of those
concepts needs to be explained not just translated one word translation and who is humility alahabad
is capitulation or surrender
		
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			you know, declaration of defeat and surrender capitulation as though it is asceticism, renunciation
of the donia or asceticism, and what are his pious caution at the battle is dedication. Or Raja is
hope urraca is aspiration.
		
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			So, these are the 10 above or the 10 chapters 10 stations that we will be going over inshallah.
		
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			And then he starts by bubble housing or the chapter on grief. And he says, Palo Alto Del Toro lo fi
domina Demi has an
		
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			alarm. It says the turn back while their eyes overflowed with tears out of fear while their eyes
overflowed with tears out of fear. Out of grief I'm sorry.
		
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			While their eyes overflowed with tears out of grief. You know whether the last one doesn't sort of
tober what Oliveira is a toccata Mira
		
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			Mira, Kumara Ito lo what are the veena is Mira Hong Kong
		
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			miracle malita voila, toffee domina dama has an allergy to my own ficou
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala was speaking about the people who are exempted that we will not be responsible
for
		
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			not joining the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in the battle. And he said, of those who will not be
responsible, who will be exempt will be pardoned than forgiven. Those who came to you and asked you
to basically provide them with
		
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			you know, means of transportation, you know, to provide them with a beast of burden to basically
join you in the battle. And you said I don't find anything, you know, I can't I can't even afford
you any means of transportation. Then they turned back walked away and their eyes were overflowing
with tears because they could not find
		
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			what they could spend them the cause of Allah subhanaw taala they couldn't afford to spend anything
in the cause of Allah subhanaw taala. So those are people that basically gave
		
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			To the prophet SAW, so I'm hoping that they will join him in the battle.
		
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			And it was a perilous campaign.
		
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			Dangerous one. So the they wanted to sacrifice themselves and when they were told that no you cannot
come with us
		
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			they did not walk away rejoicing in the opportunity, you know, this is basically their their they
will not be subject to harm they will. This is a perilous campaign or expedition they will not be
subject to harm and they are forgiven by Allah subhanaw taala, the Prophet told me your pardon, I
can take you with me.
		
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			So anyone with any weakness of faith would be rejoicing. In this opportunity, you know, that I
lucked out, you know, I did not have to do this arise, I was for forgiven by Allah subhanaw taala, I
was forgiven by God, but those are people that have faith. And then they walked away with their eyes
overflowing with fears that they cannot join. The prophet SAW Solomon this perilous and dangerous
and risky campaign.
		
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			So they were grieving over the fact that they were unable to spend and the cause of Allah subhanaw
taala. So that's why the chef here, use this verse to tell us that grief is a station that the
believers will go through
		
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			has already defined the station and we will talk about, you know, whether this is a station that the
believers need to go through, must go through or are just destined to go through, even though it is
not necessarily
		
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			prescribed for them.
		
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			It is not basically demanded of them. They're not encouraged to go through it. And the perpetuity of
this station is certainly harmful and not
		
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			has never been praised by Allah subhanaw taala and has never been asked of us.
		
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			So he says that
		
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			adherence in oral hasn't taught German effectively out so funada Montana wha Hoo selasa Raja
		
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			Raja grief is the feeling of agony over something that was missed
		
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			out as Soufan, Allah, tala, or frustration over something that's unattainable.
		
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			What is the NASA Jet and it is three levels. So feeling of agony over something that was missed.
		
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			An opportunity that was missed an opportunity to please Allah subhanaw taala that was missed.
Certainly, we're not talking about frivolous grief. We're not talking about grief over the donia
where this station, although grief over the dunya something that we are destined to also as human
beings, because of our weakness in our nature, and because of the nature of dystonia, and the
unpredictability of this dunya.
		
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			But the grief that we are mainly talking about here is grief, over missing an opportunity to please
Allah subhanaw taala or grief over this opportunity being unattainable to you. So if you missed it,
you're motivated, you have pain, agony, you're angry that you have anguish over the fact that you've
missed that opportunity to please Allah subhanaw taala in the past, and it is unattainable like
those Sahaba that came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam asking him to take them with him to the
battle and he will we were told that they cannot come they cannot join. This is that as to follow
Montana. This is basically anguish angle. So it means frustration here, over something that's
		
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			unattainable. They were frustrated because they can't go out with a prophet sallallahu sallam.
		
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			So that is alhazmi that we are talking about here.
		
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			Keep in mind, like I am talks about this in detail in my data set a key and he talks about the fact
that we have never been asked to basically visit that station, let alone stay in it. We've never
been asked even to visit the station, let alone stay in it. But it is every believer is bound to go
through that station. Periodically, sometimes you will go through that station and you're bound to
have a taste of it almost all the time.
		
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			Because a believer is someone who has concern not only for himself but for for humanity, that isn't
a Lost Planet Allah say to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam la la cabeza, nepsac, Allah kuno meaning,
and Suraj Shara la la cabeza, nepsac Allah kuno momineen II, he perhaps you will kill yourself out
of grief that they that they
		
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			have no faith or they did not accept faith that they are not believers here you're you're about to
destroy yourself out of grief. And in sort of careful Allah tobacco knapsack. So, in the Marina, we
have dcsf. So, this was repeated, and the prophets Allah was told several times, you are about to
destroy yourself out of grief over them, you are about to destroy yourself out of grief over them.
Why because the profit was almost a human being the profit recognize that, you know, although the
salaries may not be scientifically traceable, but the meaning is as appropriate, that the profits
are seldom used to say, or should have gotten a lot better. And I, you know, testify before you that
		
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			all of this, I bet all of these
		
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			slaves of Allah subhanaw taala, are brothers.
		
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			And certainly that the concept is a valid concept. We all came out from the womb of Hawa, probably
Alanna, so grieving over the condition of humanity is something
		
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			every believer should go through. And the condition of humanity is never that.
		
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			Great, so that you can escape from that grief,
		
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			that type of grief.
		
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			You will always have a taste of that type of grief because because of the conditions of humanity,
here grieving over, you know,
		
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			the calamities that befall human beings and certainly, like someone with a heart that standard with
a heart that is sensitive, he will always have some, some or Another cause of grief, you know, the
child of their neighbor. And this is whether you're whether they're Muslim, not Muslim, you know,
the child of my neighbors was diagnosed with cancer, within that cause your grief for for some for
some considerable time. And as long as you're
		
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			you encountered things of that nature, then you are bound, you are destined to that station to visit
it,
		
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			and to have a taste of station of grief.
		
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			But it is not,
		
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			you know the grief that we were forbidden from although we will have a taste of this grief all the
time. And although we are bound to the station of grief, we were forbidden from grief and Soraka.
Marana law says well after he knew what it was, I don't want to Malala and Quantum momineen and do
not we can and do not grieve when you are superior while you're superior. If you are true believers
		
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			if you are true believers, so we were forbidden from grief.
		
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			It's not something desirable. We were forbidden from grief. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to
seek refuge in Allah from grief alone. Many are the becoming alamy one husband or ally seek refuge
in You from an anxiety and grief and anxiety and distress, alarm and grief. So could it be something
desirable and the prophet SAW Selim is seeking refuge in Allah subhanaw taala from something that is
desirable? No.
		
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			Well, any believer escaped from the station of grief. No, how could it be undesirable and a believer
will never escape from it.
		
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			It's undesirable, it is forbidden.
		
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			So we're talking about natural grief. Natural grief is where you know you're bound to the station
because of your nature, because of the nature of the donia. And because of your weaknesses, and
sometimes because of your strength, because you're tender hearted, you're kind hearted and the
calamities that before the people around you, all the people around you that calamities that befall
humanity,
		
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			impact you, in this way, cause you grief like they used to cause the Prophet sallallahu wasallam
grief.
		
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			So, that that is the difference. Grief then is is desirable in the sense of being
		
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			In a manifestation of something else,
		
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			not desirable in and of itself. Because a lot does not want to grieve for us,
		
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			not desirable in and of itself, but it is desirable as a manifestation of something else. What was
grief, a manifestation of in the case of those companions who wanted to go out with the Prophet
sallallahu sallam, it's a manifestation of their faith is a manifestation of their sacrifice. Some
manifestation of their love of the prophet SAW Selim, they did not want to stay behind and let the
prophet SAW Selim go out to that dangerous, risky expedition, without them accompanying the prophet
SAW Selim, perhaps they can defend them to perhaps they can protect it.
		
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			So that so this is a this is desirable as a manifestation not desirable in itself.
		
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			But then it becomes completely forbidden when it overtakes you and that is why Allah said Well,
		
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			no, do not weaken and do not grief, the grief that overtakes you, that grief that causes you
despair, is forbidden, and it is unbefitting God believers, believers will not be subject to this
grief. That is why when Allah subhanaw taala used to say this that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam
well attacks on Allah him walk Fujairah hockaday momineen taco fever mmm Cruella de la Vela taco
Filipe mmm Kuru, that.
		
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			Allah de PUE Surat Al anon.
		
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			Maka gerakan Mini in Surat Al hijra, he said, he used to say to him, Do not grieve over them.
		
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			Direct money and lower your window humidity, to the believers and so on.
		
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			All of these, all of these prohibitions that they are against this type of grief that causes
despair, a lot like a bath, your knapsack you're about to destroy yourself, don't destroy yourself
out of grief.
		
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			You're bound to grieve. You're bound to have concern for them. You're bound to be sad about their
conditions, because you are their brother was called, remember the brother of art? How could the
brother of art not grieve over that condition of art? How could the brother of sales of mood not
grieve over the condition of the mood? You know, remember in Surah, Yaseen Elijah calm era moon
demographer, alira
		
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			mean, this righteous man said when he was in, you know, between life and death, he was saying, he
later called me out the moon, I hope that my people had known, they may offer the Arab biryani
mineral makara mean, what, how my Lord had forgiven me and honored me. I wish they had known, you
know, now he's seeing his place in paradise. And then he is wishing that his people who would who
has people who rejected faith would get a chance to see how Allah subhanaw taala honored him so that
they may accept faith and so that they may join him in paradise. That That should be the feeling of
every believing man or woman, you want all of humanity, you want all of your brothers and sisters in
		
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			humanity
		
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			to be in Paradise, not necessarily to join us in paradise because we don't know May Allah subhanaw
taala make it our abode.
		
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			He had seen his his seat or in Paradise and he was wishing that they would join him in paradise. So
		
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			then,
		
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			then that's the difference between the grief that Allah wants for us and the grief that a lot of
love is not wonderful for us, our loved ones, the grief, that's a manifestation of something else,
some other strengths, you know, your kind heartedness, your faith, your sacrifice, you know, your
your aspiration, your raba in pleasing Allah subhanaw taala. And when you're kept back from pleasing
Allah, then you have this frustration and grief. And we will talk about, you know, this in some more
detail. But fara is what Allah wants for us. joy, happiness is what Allah subhanaw taala wants for
us. The last one without assistance already has been put before the lay of the rock motif of Israeli
		
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			confetti of Lahore. Hieronymus Mao called the fidelity of the rock Mati say, in the bounty of a lot
in his mercy fabrisonic of the Franco hyaluron made my own in that let them rejoice. It is better
than everything we accumulate, it's better than the money, the wealth the staff does everything they
can accumulate, called the public effect.
		
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			very competitive for Rahu Hieronymus Mau
		
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			fara was mentioned in the Quran several times in the negative context right? what
		
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			he told our home very,
		
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			very happy man dominant color has been the metadata him very many times. But if you really examine
every time product was with, this is the ally staring us, funny Afro, let them rejoice let them be
happy Allah wants that for us. law does not want greed for us, except when it is a manifestation of
something that is desirable, not for itself but as a manifestation. But Allah once fought off for
us. Whenever fara was was condemned, it was not a virus in the sense of happiness, then benign
happiness. This farahan the sense of malignant exaltation, malignant, you know,
		
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			boasting, arrogance, pride, you're also Farah. You're also exalting over your knowledge, your
exalting over your wealth, your exalting over your power. Every time an accordion file was
condemned, it was conducted because of this. So like in sort of pauses in the story of Cartoon for
instance, when they said to him, it's parallel como la hora en la la la la
		
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			behold when his people said to him lotta frog don't exalt for Allah does not like the exaltations
they were talking to qarun the one who said in the multi to alignment, I am the one who said I was
given this I was given all of this because of my knowledge because of my skills because of my you
know, in this position
		
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			and not recognize the favor the bounty of Allah subhanaw taala on him when Allah subhanaw taala says
For instance, about the moon FFP that's the opposite picture from the meaning that came to the
prophet SAW someone from the companions that came to the prophet SAW Salaam and asked him to go out
with him and the turning the way with their eyes overflowing with tears when they knew that they
cannot risk their lives for the pleasure of Allah subhana wa Tada. But on the you know, the opposite
picture of this is the one ar 15
		
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			whether in Serato balls or losses into sub cassata into sub Tomasi button yet
		
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			in went to SQL Server 20 Oh be our way
		
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			into
		
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			home, went to Serbia como si baton yaku Imran, I'm in Kabul otavalo home, ferryhill interceptor
Hassan Tito interceptor Hassan and so on, if Hazara befalls you if a good thing befalls you, so it
will distress them it will leave them into sepco, Ciba.
		
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			yaku. has an umbrella and they would say and if Boosie Bara calamity befalls you, they will say we
have taken our, our mother in our own into our own our own hands, we've taken our precautions before
coloca has an American public data 131 and the turn away rejoicing or the turn back rejoicing. So
those are people who you know, watch from a distance. And then if the the believers are victorious,
they are saddened by the victory because they were not part of it.
		
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			And if the believers if a calamity befalls the believers, you know, when to sip Tomasi baton
gurukula has an umbrella cover they will say we have taken precautions we have not joined them. It's
good that we've taken our matter into our own hands and we did not listen to them and we did not go
out with them. Taking our precautions were our own very own and they turn away rejoicing, rejoicing
that they lucked out rejoicing that they were not part of it.
		
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			And sometimes although we may not be just we may not be just as bad but sometimes we we have
		
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			you know some of that as well. You know, I remember Abubakar how to be a seventh century soccer
player Rahim Allah
		
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			serais sakata Rahim Allah he was a student of myrtleford Cafe maruf was one of the greatest
ascetics. One time he was asked about maruf how much maruf knows, you know, how much margin of error
about the knowledge of myrtleford cafe?
		
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			And he said we had you come up with an invalid masala la maruf
		
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			What the, you know, what the enemy B
		
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			saw?
		
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			Except for that which maruf had already attained, you know, so, you know, why are you asking me
about maruf knowledge, all this knowledge that we see is to attain the, the status of model or to
reach the station, that model had already reached. So, maroof was the teacher of Sarah sokrati has
actually reported that Sarah sakata, one day
		
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			there was like a little girl who had a part in her hand that it fell from her hand and broke. So,
she was the stress model for the cafe went and bought her another one and gave it to her.
		
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			Sorry sakata So, maruf said to him, you know, he was impressed the maruf was impressed by his kind
heartedness. And he said to him bocadillo like adonia
		
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			May Allah make the donia hated to you or May Allah make you hate the dunya
		
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			and sorry sir, used to say afterwards called Luma and a fee helium and Baraka RT model of everything
that I have today is because of the blessings of this application of models.
		
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			But at any rate, you know, going back to set a socket, a socket, he said, Come to Hamdulillah,
hemara, estructural, la minha, Monza serafina cetera, I said that hamdulillah one time and ever
since,
		
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			I have been asking a lot, forgive me for for saying and humbled Allah
		
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			for 30 years for say 100 that time for the last 30 years, have been asking a lot of Forgive me, how
could you ask a lot forgive you for saying hamdulillah
		
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			So, the story is, you know, there was a fire in the market and set a socket, they had a store in the
market. And when the fire erupted in the market, someone came to serve as a coffee and he said to
him, the whole market was ablaze,
		
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			you know, destroyed by the fire, except your store.
		
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			And then he said 100 law that his store was not burned. And then he felt so guilty, that he did not
actually care for all
		
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			of the other merchants in the market or all of his neighbors, who lost their stores. And he said 100
Allah, where the the appropriate response would have been in at 11 00, not 100 Allah
		
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			although 100 Allah we say 100 line, but in every condition,
		
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			but the appropriate response at that time is to say another layer of the road, to feel the pain of
your fellow Muslims to feel the pain of your neighbors.
		
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			And
		
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			before you
		
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			say Alhamdulillah for the survival of your property,
		
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			anyway, so, that is when in this case,
		
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			exalting
		
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			is condemned in the Quran.
		
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			And we probably should proceed now.
		
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			But anyway, go over the rest of the,
		
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			the talk about fara, you will always find, you know, furama documents or on eBay that
		
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			they rejoice and that knowledge they have, you will always find
		
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			for that knowledge. Shea had a very heavy metal to until they are inserted and I'm happy they're
finally removed until they rejoice in that which they possess
		
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			or that which they were given. It's talking about knowledge here, you know, exalting over your
knowledge, exalting over wealth and and so on.
		
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			But for the you know, rejoicing in the bounty of Allah subhanaw taala is what Allah wants from us
and for us, to show him no matter how big of how to speak of the favors and bounties of your Lord,
and that's speaking but it sounded harsh a couple of QA that speaking an action before speaking in
words,
		
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			by being shackled by being grateful, grateful for everything that you are given.
		
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			Then, when he says that it hurts or grief is three levels that Roger Ola has not
		
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			met. The first level is the grief of the public and that is the grief of
		
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			Over negligence and service. That's the first
		
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			type of grief for the public negligence in service. When you see that you have been negligent that
you have
		
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			fallen, you know, in Masia or you have been negligent in the service of your Lord. That's the first
cause. While authority has
		
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			fallen into the predicament of aloofness, aloofness, Jaffa with a law is you know, the opposite of
affinity friendliness own sybilla it is when you're distant and you're this this this
		
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			befalls you into more distance or more and more Marcy, and takes away from your energy to please
Allah subhanaw taala because you have become distant and then when you lose that energy and you fall
in the mossy what happens, you become more distant, and a lot distances up.
		
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			And a lot keeps you away from like, when you fall in mass, even your your punishment will be more
massive. And you think I mean, you'll be you'll be you'll be given
		
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			you may you know of that time.
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala may open the doors or the gates of everything that's good
		
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			to you, to keep you away to distract you and to keep you away. So, falling into the predicament of
defer or aloofness distinctness from Allah subhanaw taala is something that the believers grieve
over and the grieve over their, their, whatever steps they have may have taken that
		
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			brought them this far took them this far from Allah subhanho
		
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			wa Taala they are I am and the loss of the days basically every day and that does not just mean days
it means also hours it means minutes, it means moments. Every time you you lose meaning, you lose
the pleasure of pleasing Allah subhanaw taala that this is something that you should regret. And it
causes the believers grief.
		
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			What dhara just said he has no errata who are holding on to Hydra. And the second level is the grief
of the people of resolve an era that people have resolve
		
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			those are the select few the special
		
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			and it is over the following.
		
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			First one is Todd Lockwood worked with the third group, the loss of times in dispersion dispersion
in the in the valleys of vanity, dispersion in the valleys of vanity, dispersion in the valleys of
pursuits that are sub optimal pursuits, pursuits that take you away from a lot of pursuits that
distract you from Allah, all of this dispersion, dispersion of your thoughts, your So, your thoughts
are dispersed, your thoughts are not together and the heart will never be together except when it is
with has, you know, there may be a lot of the Germania of accountability, togetherness of the heart
will always only be with its maker, Pat's natural, you know, that is natural, you will not have your
		
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			journey except with your maker.
		
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			An example of this, but the land method and law belongs the greatest example. The example of this is
an infant with his mother, you know, he would not feel together unless he is with his mother. Even
if his father takes him out, you know, he takes out the child to like an a very pleasant for nice
place, gets him ice cream, all of the good stuff that the kid wants. But the kid without the mother
being you know, and May Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			give strength to kids who lose their their mothers and give them solace and serenity and comfort.
		
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			But if a child, you know even with his father is
		
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			having the best experience with it, he will always want to figure out where his mother is and will
always want you know, and after some time, you know starts to become a little bit agitated, a little
bit anxious and wants to see his mother or at least the like. See that he's there somewhere.
		
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			And then he can carry on with whatever he wants, but this domain yet and Caleb
		
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			You know this the get together in this
		
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			whole ism
		
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			you know of the heart will never be attained except of this heart goes back to its maker and its
creator.
		
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			So Todd Lockwood worked with the founder of the loss of times and dispersion This is something that
special people grieve over wahala Steven Neff, sanusha hood, the occupation with other events who
the beholding of the true one. You know, when when the knifes the ego has occupied with other than
beholding our last panel Todd and watching the last panel data, then that's something we grieve over
what it was. And then we also grieve over at SL Leon and herzan distraction from grief.
		
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			So they grieve over being distracted from grief. distraction from grief could be because of grief.
		
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			Because the grief that is a desirable as a manifestation of good things, manifestation of belief
manifestation of time heartedness is not the grief, the grief over, you know, losing $20 it is not
the grief over the dounia it's not the grief over you know, a promotion that you did not get. It is
a different type of grief. So that grief could distract you from the grief that he's talking about
the station of grief, that vein grief could distract you from the grief, that is an indication of
your face and indication of
		
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			your kind heartedness.
		
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			That is the sallyann it hasn't and also you could be distracted from grief by the glamours of the
dounia and many other things that could distract you from the Praiseworthy grief.
		
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			Then
		
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			says here goes back and points out what happened last time.
		
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			Explain the detail and modality set again and when he talks about the the topmost, the elite, the
most elite or the elitist?
		
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			group. He says what I said it has to mean McDermott has nothing to say.
		
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			The elites
		
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			they have nothing to do with stasia grief, they have nothing to do with the station of grief,
because they have moved from the station of grief into the station of Riba acceptance, the station
of suru joy, the station of Toba Nila serenity these are all different stations, these are all other
stations and they are desirable, not just as manifestations they are desirable in and of themselves
by Allah subhanaw taala Allah desires for us to take shelter in the station of roba acceptance in
the station of Tama, Nina serenity.
		
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			So, they are desirable in you know for themselves those stations, but this, this is problematic,
this statement is still problematic.
		
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			Because if this nature of grief is desirable for the public, no is this notion of grief desirable
for the public, no, it is not desirable, accepted as a manifestation, but as a manifestation, to
manifestation of faith manifestation of kind heartedness are the are the topmost or the, you know,
the best of the best exam from that station, not bound to visit that station. not destined for that
station, no.
		
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			Even while taking shelter, in the station of river, in the station of submission to the decrees of
Allah subhanaw taala tasleem in the station of, you know, to Nina belaz, having serenity with Allah
subhanaw taala
		
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			they are still subject to grief. Because we we have to be critical in our in our reading given the
way the scholars are human beings. So, who who's the gold standard? The prophets are solid and the
rest of the prophets after him.
		
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			So when the Prophet was grieving over things cut an Alamo in Tel Aviv. We know that and I'm fine.
I'm like, okay, I can avoid amenability late How do we know that it saddens you what they say that
what they say saddens him.
		
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			He was grieving. He was being sad because of what they're Taksim
		
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			rejection, their denial, their lack of acceptance.
		
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			And then Allah subhanaw taala was trying to comfort them at the last moment that I was studying him
		
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			for in the home life because the buena cola cannot be Atilla here today, one day it is not about
you, it is about me, the Allies telling him it is about my versus my science, they're rejecting my
science. They're not saying that you are a liar. They never said that you're a liar. They know that
you're not a liar, but they are rejecting my science. I love science and laws versus so and then law
like a backyard knapsack, Atletico Romanian phenomena Kabuki on a 30 millimeter, we have dcsf.
		
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			And the other
		
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			I add where the last panel thought I was talking about the the profit prior to comfort them. Well,
the profit wasn't the highest of the highest stations. I mean, no one could be compared to the
station of the Prophet Solomon yet he was still subject to those kinds of this, this kind of grief,
which is an indication of his concern for humanity, his kind heartedness, his love for humanity. And
keep in mind,
		
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			it is love that you would have for humanity in general. They are the children of your parents. Have
I met her well, and then the hate that you have for this belief is the hate of the lovers. The hate
of the people that are concerned for
		
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			their brothers and sisters.
		
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			Going back to the this issue here.
		
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			I Jaco didn't iacob What did the What do the last one I thought I say about yaku.
		
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			vokalia as a follow us for we have item Hosni for work, Avi.
		
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			And he said, You know what, as a father you serve
		
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			our Lord makalah as a father used to be able to tie down the fork of him.
		
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			He said, You know,
		
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			he anguished over use of over missing use of his eyes turned white, out of grief, his eyes turned
white out of this.
		
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			Professor, whether you know, the people who always like to explain the Qur'an, from the spectacles
of science, you know, cataracts.
		
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			The whiteness of the eyes, you know, cataract causes whiteness of the of the pupil of the eyes, you
know, the cataract can be caused by grief.
		
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			That could be one of the triggers of characters grief. Should we say that this is actually what
happened to you? We don't know it, we don't know. I mean, if someone wants to believe that, that's
fine.
		
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			You know, so this person was an ophthalmologist, if you're an ophthalmologist and you really would
like to believe this about the various that that is fine, it is not in conflict with the verse.
		
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			But you know, what, is it dangerous when you're trying to make this effect?
		
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			When you're try our way when your interpretation is in conflict with all of the interpretations of
the previous
		
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			scholars or the Buddhist theory and and the Sahaba that have been and you think that you were just
given that disclosure? And all of us have Masada Minitab
		
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			words the private of it, and it's just your own disclosure.
		
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			Yet, if there is no conflict, and with the previous interpretations, no conflict with linguistic
implications. Anyone want to believe something that that's fine for you? It's it is not a problem
there is no conflict and it is in harmony with meaning of the
		
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			But anyway, we'll be able to find out.
		
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			So the prophets used to grieve over things.
		
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			So if he's saying what I said the first parameter isn't the V shape and Bahasa have nothing to do
with the station of grief than it is not true if he means that type of grief that is praised as a
manifestation of something good, or the natural grief, both of them that the prophets are subject to
both pipes, the brief that's a manifestation of something good and the grief that is the natural
grief
		
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			and if he means that
		
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			That
		
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			this is not the grief that I'm talking about, then the other type of grief is not desirable for
anyone, even for the public, then that statement is somewhat problematic.
		
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			That statement is somewhat problematic.
		
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			Then he says, however, the third level of housing or grief is
		
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			at the husband LRE. But do not follow our grief because of the alternations of states not the mere
impulses, grief because of the alternation of states law a lot about alternation of states. So he is
in a * of
		
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			joy. Own civil as well, for instance, you know, this is his hand now, he feels affinity, he feels
friendliness, he feels intimacy, he feels closeness to Allah subhanaw taala. And he's so happy
		
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			and elated, because of being in that station, have owns affinity closeness, intimacy.
		
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			And then he is overtaken by another station haber reverence. And he feels saddened because of the
parting from the first station to the other.
		
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			Or he is another station of whole project. And then he gets overtaken by another station, the
station of fear, health, and all of them are valid, and all of them are praiseworthy. Because
they're there, you should have hope and you should have Raja. But if you are now in the station of
Raja,
		
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			it makes you content and it makes you comfortable to be in the station of when you're overtaken by
the station of health, then you're saddened by this departure from the station average are about do
not fall out, not just the mere impulses.
		
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			And then one more about the pursuit and the conflicting pursuits of pursuit that which you seek that
which we accept Mahara, that have pursued the conflicts between the different pursuits. And those,
you know that those more about the pursuit could be the most distressing thing for the billet for
the elites, for the special ones.
		
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			the select few, because they are keen on pleasing gala in the mood, you know, in attaining the
pleasure of Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			in all conditions, and seeking the shortest way to the pleasure of Allah subhanaw taala. And they
have conflicting pursuits, and they don't know which one is more pleasing to Allah subhanaw taala.
And they don't know. They don't know how to choose. And they don't know if some are pleasing to
Allah and some are displeasing, sometimes in the times of fit and in particular, trials and
tribulations in particular, you know, look at, you know, the post revolution in the different Muslim
countries and how much trials and tribulations were caused, and how, you know, the
		
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			best scholar isn't had
		
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			conflicts among themselves and disagreements and
		
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			and it is extremely hard to be discerning in times of trial and tribulations, even the Sahaba. In
the times of the fitten. It was extremely hard. Which side should you take? What should you be doing
now? Should you be taking sides? These are more about the pursuit, the conflicts of pursuits, they
are very distressing to the this belief is because you have to the believers because you have to
make a decision. And you're afraid that you are that your ego, that you have not escaped from the
urges of your ego and your ego is there in control of your decision? And how could you completely
walk away from your ego so your decision becomes all for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala complete
		
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			impartiality, that Jarett that read, that read is when you basically strip away all of the urges of
the ego, all of the, you know,
		
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			desires of the ego. And then you have a pure heart, a clean heart, a transparent heart, one that is
capable of making the right the right decision, most pleasing to Allah Spinetta. Wouldn't that cause
them distress? Absolutely. Absolutely. It was caused them a great deal of anxiety and the stress
more
		
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			About a puzzle. And lastly, what are
		
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			some objections to the decrees and those decrees could be the, you know, the commands of Allah
subhanaw taala, or the universe of decrees of Allah subhanaw taala objecting to the commands as by,
you know, failing to
		
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			add this level object into the command does not by failing to submit, is talking about the lease
here. objecting to the command is by finding some resistance in your heart when the command removes
you from your hat, from your state, or the hat. Like if you have, if the command removes you from
Zik allows you to do something other than Zik. And you are in your jammies and now you are in your
togetherness with Allah and urine state of elation by this decree have been making sacred for the
last couple of hours. And then there is a command to just do something else at this point at this
time,
		
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			then you must make the knowledge of the the in the knowledge of Sharia
		
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			supreme in this case, and the chief guide should be the knowledge of the deed, not your taste, not
your hand, and not the comfort that you have in the station. And that could be hard for people
because they could be so comfortable in a station. And then when they removed the find this
resistance, it is not the lack of submission. Here it is that resistance and their hearts. Whereas
the true well he is the one who submits immediately to the command of Allah subhanaw taala and moves
from any hand to wherever Allah wants him to be, or whatever Allah wants him to do. And then he
objects into the universe of decrees. It is in this particular state, objecting to the universal
		
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			decrees. Sometimes it is described as
		
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			desiring other than what Allah had desire. That's why our Beloved Muhammad when his son died, and he
and he was laughing, he said in the La Habra, Dr. Maha Bella, a lot of something and I love to love
that which he loved. So he did not want to desire other than what the last thought I wanted to
desire. But we said that the prophet SAW Selim weep and showed grief over the death of his son,
because he was able to master those two stations, the station of mercy, kind heartedness, compassion
for his son, and the station of acceptance
		
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			of the decrees of Allah subhanaw taala. Those who can master those the station simultaneously live a
profit that is better for them, than to master one on the other two stations. And then a law cam
objected to the universal decrease quote could also be shown by
		
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			failing to take immediate shelter in the station of river preparing to take immediate shelter in the
station of river. Certainly that is for people who are at a lower level or lower degree than the
first group. It's failing to take immediate shelter in the state of river
		
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			and showing a resentment or lack of acceptance, to recall the other stuff that comes along with
extra land stuff or go to work.