Hatem al-Haj – #04 Fiqh of Family – Un-marriageable Women (Continued)

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The speakers discuss various legal issues related to marriage, including the idea of marriage after Islam, the use of visa letters, and the disagreements between Muslims and non- Muslims. They stress the importance of legal privacy and the need for strong legal framework. The discussion also touches on the use of "arson" positions and the legal system for marriage, including the possibility of a marriage between a woman and another woman. The speakers emphasize the importance of remembering a legal Maxim and the need for legal privacy. They also discuss the legal system for marriage, including the divorce, which is not yet finalized, and the legal system for marriage after Islam.

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			So, happy
		
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			to proceed. So, today we will go over the rest of that Muharram harmonica or the chapter on an on
marriageable women on marriageable women. And remember last time we talked about the permanent
prohibitions, and we draw this we
		
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			drew this diagram,
		
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			where we have the woman as the index case in the middle and then we try to figure out who will not
be marriageable to her.
		
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			So, we will not repeat this because otherwise we can
		
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			just get stuck there and we will move on.
		
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			But I hope that it is clear that that diagram is clear in your mind's eye hope diagram is clear in
your minds.
		
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			Now, the permanent prohibitions as I say in the document sent to you the permanent prohibitions are
caused by one of four causes consanguinity, which is an acid marriage and Massara breastfeeding
garaga Hanley iron, we talked about consanguinity and that was the diagram we talked about the
marriage we included those also in the diagrams. So steps on step by step son stepfather, father in
law son in law, for you know, that are prohibited because of Masada or marriage.
		
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			Then we talked about breastfeeding briefly and we will come back to breastfeeding in the next
chapter. But when we talked about breastfeeding, we said the prophets of Southern Zodiac a woman or
a man or woman and NASA, whether, you know whatever is prohibited through marriage through
consanguinity will be prohibited through law as well. So rather as like marriage is like
consanguinity. I told you that in order for you to get this right breastfeeding. Imagine that the
baby that was breastfed was transplanted into the new family, not vice versa. The mother was not
transplanted into the babies. The milk mother was not transplanted into the baby's family. The baby
		
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			was transplanted the milk son was transplanted into the mother's family. And then you go from there.
		
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			Breastfeeding applies to marriage as well as according to the vast majority, some said no, it
doesn't like even Tamia Kamala and but the vast majority said it does apply meaning that the word
that the mother
		
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			so the woman who breastfed your wife, for instance, the woman who breastfed Your wife
		
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			is this Haram. Yeah. And
		
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			all the all the all the for the prohibitions that arise from marriage arise from breastfeeding as
well.
		
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			So Leon,
		
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			is the fourth one, there it is the fourth one.
		
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			Now with the hand, you have,
		
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			so you know what the iron is. It's called public implication. Sometimes it's translated as mutual
invocation of curses. Neutral invocation of curses would be the more literal translation of it. It
is mutual invocation of curses. So when I say when a man accused his wife of adultery, he has to
basically take five holes that she did commit, you know, the sin and the fifth, those are not those
		
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			holes would be
		
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			would be invoking a curse on himself if he was a liar. Or if he were a liar. Now, this is the iron
after the iron. According to the Maliki surveys and combat ease, medic ease, ease and ease.
		
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			She becomes permanently prohibited to him.
		
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			The Hanafi said if he goes back and belies himself, or you know, denies
		
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			the accusation to recants except back, then it will be permissible for him. The majority said no,
he's pretty
		
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			bluntly forbidden whether it goes back or does not go back. Now, all of them agreed that a doctor
that he denied slowly and will be forbidden for him permanently does is when you not only accuse the
wife of
		
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			adultery, but the iron also could be done to deny the paternity of your son or daughter. If you deny
the paternity of your daughter through the iron, she will be permanently forbidden to you, according
to the four emails. So these are the prohibitions that result from the iron and they are permanent
preconditions as we discussed, were done now with a permanent for emissions. What are the four
causes of permanent prohibition? NASA consanguinity
		
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			marriage Massara.
		
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			Breastfeeding grandma.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			So when it comes to the temporary prohibitions, when it comes to the temporary prohibitions, first
for the first one temporary provisions that will come to mind is the idea for sure. The waiting
period, you know, because a woman cannot marry in her waiting period. Well, certainly being married
for the woman, she can get married again,
		
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			temporarily, but also if she is an IDA, she cannot get married while she isn't.
		
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			There is over. And we talked about proposing to a woman and I had the before and so on. So she can't
get married in her head.
		
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			That's for the woman. What about the man does not apply to the man. In some sense it does. If he's
married to four women.
		
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			He cannot get married to a fifth even after divorcing
		
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			one of them
		
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			until her ad is over. Tell her right there is over.
		
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			That is that is coming later. We will talk about coveri later.
		
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			He has to wait for died. Yes. So the idea here is now this is for sure. According to all of them, if
this was a non finalized divorce, what if it is a finalized the divorce? finalized? Divorce?
		
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			Do you need to wait?
		
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			Like you you have you have four women? You divorced one of them.
		
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			And it is a finalized divorce finalized divorce does not mean after that because now we're talking
about being indicted. So finalize divorce in this sense means that it is that she is you can't take
her back. She's not that I'll tell you. Let's say you divorced her for the third time. This is a
finalized the divorce. You cannot take her back. Can you now go out and marry another one?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Okay, well, no, according to the embeddings and Hana fees, and if you do this, you gotta be careful
because you could go to jail if the laws in your country are Hanbury or hanafy. Because you would be
combining between five women at a time.
		
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			And that's
		
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			actually if he if you're from Egypt, there was like a famous case takedo in order for, you know, the
owner of Turkey to note
		
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			that that was his case. So he was like a practicing guy. But he also had like, I don't know how many
marriages like 70 some marriages are like 80 some marriages.
		
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			So he was not wasting any time.
		
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			Like he divorced. he divorced one of his wives, you know, he had for divorce one of his wives. And
then he wanted
		
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			he wanted to marry
		
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			us enough so.
		
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			So the so he wanted to marry so he went to a chef, a chef, and asked him and he a chef. I said,
that's fine. We're Hanafi in Egypt, formally officially is are the laws in Egypt are Hanafi so he
got he went to jail.
		
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			Because it was
		
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			you know, in the in the eyes of the law, and that's why you have to be careful because there has to
be a law of the land and so in the eyes of the law, it doesn't matter whether he went so if it was a
finalized the divorce and
		
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			the man was
		
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			To get married, he would have to wait according to the Hanafi secondaries, he does not have to wait
according to the Maliki's interface, but you have to, you know, and it is actually safer just the
way the you know, if you have like three other is like what is the US
		
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			All right.
		
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			So, why,
		
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			because it is it is still there are still
		
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			there are certain laws that apply, you know, to this phase, which is the idea phase, there are state
laws that apply, even if it is yes, they cannot come back, but she is still unable to marry.
		
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			But, but there is a woman that is kept from marriage because of him.
		
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			So, he is not well, you know, you could you could be some funny, that's fine if you want.
		
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			So, but But anyways, but in the Hanafi and honeyberry sense, she is not released from the bondage of
the marriage yet, he should not be released, to get married to another one.
		
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			She does, of course, have had the,
		
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			she has had the everybody has to have it, she's just going to go and marry another one.
		
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			So then these are the sort of the causes number one and cause number two when it comes to temporary
prohibitions clause number three, when it comes to temporary prohibition is this belief, this
belief, so a Muslim man can only marry a Christian can only marry a Muslim Christian or Jewish
woman, Muslim man can orient can only marry a Muslim, Jewish or Christian woman. And that by that is
by agreement in the land of Islam. In outside of the land of Islam, there is controversy and there
is a very strong position that it is not permissible, because of the consequences particularly,
particularly two to two issues have been mentioned. One, it will disturb the sort of the
		
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			proportionality between men and women, Muslim men and Muslim women and if Muslim men married non
Muslim women, Muslim women would not have Muslim men to marry. And that is a concern that Amara
mentioned when I was a child he wanted to marry. And
		
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			Omar mentioned that if you if you do this, then the Muslim woman will have no one to marry
		
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			a Muslim and have them exotic, what fitna could be greater than this to the Muslim woman. And then
the other cause is the fact that they will actually bajada D that they will basically take his child
away from him, particularly in the case of disputation, and
		
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			then they will convert them into, you know, their own respective religions. So
		
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			that was the that was a very strong position
		
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			that I personally uphold,
		
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			does not mean that the marriage is invalid, absolutely not. It means it is impermissible. But the
marriage is a valid marriage. The marriage is a valid marriage, but it is an impermissible marriage,
you earn the sin, but the marriage is a valid marriage. So it's not not not marriage, it's marriage.
		
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			This is a an opinion, and the mother has an opinion and the mother. In fact,
		
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			in fact, in the Hanbury authorized position, the Muslim who is in that entire band that is, you
know, the end of the day, the division and I do say this, and I do write this in the book that the
division of the world into Islam is not a sustainable division anymore. There is not a sun which is
basically the whole world is the land of reconciliation or the land of Treaty, the land of Covenant,
the Land of Peace, the land of whatever, based on the UN Charter, charter and conventions and so on,
that Muslim countries are signatories to so that division is not
		
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			applicable anymore but the 100 is that it would not be permissible for a Muslim man to marry invalid
hard period.
		
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			Unless they have sort of like they cannot can't handle
		
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			their fever from fitna then they can marry.
		
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			So this belief is one of the positions. This belief is a temporary temporary. For the Muslim men for
the Muslim woman, she is barred from marrying anyone who is not Muslim. So there are no exceptions
like a Muslim men cannot marry you know, other than Muslim Christian or Jew or Muslim woman cannot
marry other than Muslim and Muslim only. So, so this belief, then the issue of Xena the issue of
chastity, the issue of chastity is in the Hanbury method, the authorized position in the combat, the
mother of Muslim men cannot marry an unchaste woman. And in in the non authorized position in the
mother, which was chosen by the mayor, the reverse is true as well, Muslim women cannot marry an
		
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			unchaste man, the reverse is true as well, but that's not the authorized position in combat.
		
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			That's a position and the method chosen by a military man, that also for Muslim women, they cannot
marry an unchaste man, but the authorized position and somebody method is that a Muslim man cannot
marry and unchaste woman and
		
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			you know, hobbies of mercy, where the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said that where it was, you know,
		
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			I often sort of Northern about xennials Ania.
		
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			silica
		
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			was
		
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			a very common woman in these verses were revealed when Martha does the profits or not if he can
marry a woman that he used to know from the past, she was like not she was not a chaste woman that
he used to know in the past, but he loved her and so on. And this was revealed. So this is maybe
based on this context may be used to support the position that you cannot marry an unchaste woman.
		
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			A prophet SAW Saddam was approached by another man who said
		
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			my wife does not basically deny any harm.
		
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			Means that does not deny the hand of anyone who wants to touch her.
		
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			Which meant that she is not chase and the promises of themselves, which means to love her, which
means divorce her and the man said last.
		
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			Last, but Allah
		
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			I hear that I cannot take it to the laughter Yes.
		
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			So the profits or loss,
		
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			said timekeeper them,
		
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			like if that's the case, I guess, so that was used by the majority to say that it is not
impermissible to marry an unchaste woman.
		
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			So the majority that's the canopies mannequins and jafra is considered it permissible
		
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			to marry an unchaste woman who have the questions and answers unless it's disambiguation, meaning
that there is something confusing, but if there are comments or objections, we will take all the
objections.
		
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			I'm sure that there will be a lot of objections coming from but anyway.
		
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			So that is the concept of chassis the concept of chastity is not does not cause a temporary
prohibition for the majority, it is only a problem for the hand bellies. So the 100 bodies would say
that a man would may not marry an unchaste woman. And there is a position in the method chosen by a
button that says the reverse is true as well. A woman may not marry and Andre Smith.
		
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			Then the core referee is what is left in this list of
		
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			prohibitions. That is what is left in this list of temporary prohibitions and that's what the
sheriff would start with here. He says,
		
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			firstly, way after Magento by another tiny webinar, not at all, not at
		
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			all, not at all, not at
		
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			the inequality.
		
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			subsection it is forbidden to have a woman and her sister or a woman had her hand or on
		
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			paternity
		
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			Or maternal as co wives. This is because the Messenger of Allah sallallahu Sallam said there are
there should be no combining as co wives, a woman with combining as co wives a woman with her
paternal or maternal
		
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			paternal and maternal on.
		
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			He did not say that of the sisters the lead or the proof from the sister because it's an endocrine
on Robin and Octavia lemak itself, but to combine between the two sisters except for that which was
in the past, but the lead from the sun on the prohibition of combining between a woman and her aunt,
whether maternal or paternal is male, or the automobile no
		
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			matter what our binary inequality, which means there should be no combining
		
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			as co wives,
		
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			woman with her paternal or maternal aunt, and this is an interesting hobbies because there are a
myriad of issues that are discussed. You know, because of this Hadith, it may be used by the goodgym
or that's the medical supplies and combat is against the hunter fees. To say that the Sunnah
specifies the Quran because this particular Hadith specified from the generality
		
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			or had a lack of knowledge.
		
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			Everything beyond this has been made permissible for you after a Lost Planet Allah mentioned, you
know, kind of a political Mahatma, but Mahatma
		
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			Gandhi after law mentioned all the prohibitions and marriage and he said everything beyond this is
permissible. This Hobbes said, not everything, you know, you cannot marry a woman and her onto the
same time. So that is called taxis alone taxis.
		
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			And that is the son of specifying the generality of the Korean and that's the Metalab according to
the medical surveys. It is not the method according to the HANA fees, although they would not
outright rejected but they have stringent criteria for this exercise to be valid.
		
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			But they will not outright reject the substance stringent criteria to validate this exercise of
specifying the general generality of the program by the sun. So that's how it was used is used in
this regard. That is what is also is used to establish that the sun is not only does not only
corroborate and explain the forehand, but it adds legislations that are not present in the plan. So
but the disagreements between the people concerning this as a disagreement of technicality and other
disagreements of substance, because at the end of the day, all of them say that you cannot combine
between a woman and her aren't. They're not disagreeing over this. They are disagreeing whether this
		
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			has whether this is not a this is the legislation that the sudden added or a legislation that the
court also had, because the Quran hinted to it. How did it end to it? One that's my main concern,
and that you do not combine between two sisters. So the Quran is hinting here to something and the
Prophet sallallahu Sallam is establishing another detail of the ruling on the basis of the Quranic
prohibition of combining between a woman and her sister. So it's it's a disagreement of
		
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			technicality more than a disagreement of substance. But at the end of the day, it's,
		
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			you know, to me, at least, you know, it is not clear that you can combine between the two sisters,
it would not be clear that you cannot combine between that person and not mentioned that
		
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			it would have not been sort of a straightforward as they may have not been able to figure it out,
that you should not combine between a woman and her aren't, whether it's paternal or maternal.
Therefore, to me it establishes that the sun does add to the rulings of the Quran, just like an
homage to a domestic donkeys the prohibition of eating domestic monkeys, and like a genre of rulings
that are only established in
		
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			the sun. Well, domestic monkeys, you know, how do these say how the, you know, the people who say
that the Senate does not add the senators in the table to harmonium says that he makes wholesome
things hard for them and unwholesome things around for them. And he identified for us that this is
not from a flavor. So it will that's what they say anyway, but it's it's like I said that
disagreement, like in technicalities, not in substance. Now, the idea here is that what you
		
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			I want you to remember, I want you to remember like a legal Maxim. When it comes to these
prohibitions of combining women and one marriage, I want you to remember a legal Maxim that will
make things easy for you because it is not limited to these two scenarios where you combine between
two sisters or combined between a woman and her onto the paternal or maternal, actually, what you
want to remember is, if one of the two women were men, and they cannot marry each other, you cannot
have combined between them in a marriage. So,
		
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			to two women that are maternal aunts of each other,
		
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			to women that are paternal aunts of each other, to women, where one of them is the maternal arm of
the other and the other is the second is the paternal aunt of the first Can, can you imagine those
scenarios?
		
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			Okay, can you imagine a scenario where two women are the maternal aunts of each other to women, each
one of them is the maternal health of the other
		
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			okay. So, let's say you have a man here and the man has a daughter and you have another man here and
he has a daughter and this man married the daughter of this man, this man married the daughter of
this man
		
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			these two have a daughter here and these two have a daughter here
		
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			Okay, these two daughters are the maternal aunts of each other. Because this daughter here this this
girl here is the daughter of this man. This girl here is the daughter of this man. They are sisters.
paternal sisters. Then
		
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			Then this daughter and this daughter are what
		
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			sisters? The these are sisters. So this would be the maternal aunt of this because this is the
daughter of this woman
		
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			what
		
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			No.
		
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			Tanya
		
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			defended you defended the
		
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			guys, okay?
		
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			This man has a daughter, this man had a daughter. They're not related. Okay, so he went to tell him
		
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			keep in mind sometimes he just
		
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			wants to give rulings for people is not telling the people go and marry.
		
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			Now advocates saying if you do this, then this would be the case. So like
		
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			another something like people are people are really unfair that we could use when in the read sort
of awkward scenarios and the books effect as if the Messiah quartering the people just know they're
saying what if you do this, then this is what the case is. And this is what the ruling is. So
anyway, so this man wanted to marry this girl, the daughter of this man, he told them, that's fine,
which I want to marry your daughter as well. So we will.
		
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			But if it is a swamp in the sense of dropping the monitor, then it is haraam. Because that's Nicosia
God, when you drop the mod for the swap marriage.
		
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			But if this if everybody gets their own monitor and everything is working, and you know the one
marriage is not even one marriage is not a condition in the in the other marriage. It's not like, I
will not marry you this until you know, they're just completely fine whether they just wanted to get
married. This man married the daughter of this man, this man married the daughter of this man. Each
one of them have a daughter.
		
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			This daughter, so this man married this girl, okay? They have a daughter right now.
		
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			This daughter and this daughter aren't the sisters. Okay? So now. Now, this daughter is the daughter
of this woman. So isn't this parent maternal aunt, Karla. Yes, the same, the same the other way. So
this man married this. This man married this woman. And then they have this daughter. This daughter
is the daughter of which man this man
		
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			This one is the daughter of which man, this man, this woman and this woman are sisters. So this one
is the maternal aunt of this one. Both of them are the maternal ons of each other.
		
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			It's very simple.
		
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			You can go try.
		
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			Okay, so how could they be the amount of each other the paternal onto each other?
		
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			That's very simple. This man hear this man here. has a mother. This man here has a mother. This man,
married the mother of this man. This man married the mother of this man.
		
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			They have a daughter, they have a daughter. Okay.
		
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			Okay, now they married not each other's daughters, but they married each other's mothers. So they
have a daughter and they had a daughter, this daughter here, this daughter here?
		
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			How is she related to this man? His sister?
		
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			How would she be related to this woman who is the daughter of this man? Her paternal on the sister
of her father.
		
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			Okay, now
		
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			the the opposite is true. This girl here?
		
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			How is she related to this man? Her sister?
		
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			Then how would she be related to this her paternal aunt, she is the sister of her father.
		
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			So you have the scenario where two women would be the clones of each other if two men married each
other as mothers.
		
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			And so what? Like, can you have a scenario where one woman would be the paternal aunt of the other?
And the second would be the maternal aunt of the first. Yes.
		
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			So this man had a son.
		
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			And this woman had a daughter.
		
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			This man
		
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			we have one hour to discuss all of your objections.
		
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			Okay, so the this man had this man have a son, this daughter, this woman had a daughter, this man
married this stuff this father married this daughter. This son married this mother
		
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			isn't possible logically, it is possible. This could be 40 years old. This could be 20 years old.
This could be 40 years old. This could be 20 years old. High there is sort of cut offs and agent
marriage in Islam. No, like a 20 year old man can marry a 40 year old woman and vice versa. So now
this man married this mother and his father married her daughter. They had
		
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			two daughters.
		
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			Now, in this daughter, this daughter, how is he related to this? Man? Her sister? So how is she
related to this? Girl? Her paternal aunt?
		
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			Okay, this daughter here? How is she related to this woman?
		
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			Her sister? Because this is
		
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			their their mother? So they are maternal sisters? Then how is she related to this girl? Hair
maternal on? This is the paternal aunt of this. This is the maternal aunt of this. Now.
		
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			Can they marry each other? No. Can the two
		
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			can they marry each other? Can you if one of them? Like I said before, if one of them is? is a boy
is a man? Can they marry each other? No, because you can neither marry or aren't paternal or
maternal. Can the can the previous scenarios marry each other? No, you cannot combine between these
two. If they cannot marry each other you cannot combine between them.
		
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			And
		
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			then the SEC says
		
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			so so what is the rule here? The rule is
		
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			if the two women that you want to combine in one marriage
		
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			you know you're probably not
		
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			Doing anything guys
		
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			where it's just the fact that we're teaching it but you're probably not going to
		
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			it would be good if you would like marry the first time.
		
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			So, the
		
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			these two,
		
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			these two women that you are combining, if one of them were a man, you will have to ask whether they
can marry each other. If they cannot marry each other you cannot have them you cannot combine them.
		
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			Then the chief said what I do sort of Hurry and Yamaha van XM in our binus world I love the anatomy
if nothing good is not permitted for every man to have more than four wives simultaneously or for a
slave to have more than two.
		
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			That's obvious. Friends Emma Habana Mila Magana. houfy accident infested with canopy aka Dinah la
mia Athenaeum in Houma. If a man simultaneously marries two women who are unlawful to combine in one
contract, the contract becomes void. If he does that in two contracts, the latter of them is void,
obvious. So he wanted to marry two sisters. In one contract, that contract is valid, he's not
married to either one
		
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			is invalid. So he's not married, either one of them. He wanted to marry two sisters, he, like he,
you know, he had two successive contracts one after the other. First one would be valid, the second
one would be invalid.
		
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			Then she said, Well, economic capital, a doctor who can determine whom Allah had, if a man accepts
Islam while already being married to two sisters, you must choose one of them to keep as a wife.
		
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			You know, Rhianna sakaki, when he was when he became Muslim, and this is controversial, and it's not
but it's accepted among the FDA and the meaning of the application of it is accepted. He had 10
wives, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam asked him
		
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			to keep four out of the 10 and release six of them.
		
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			But he allowed him to choose which four he wants the key. Have he done this after being a Muslim, he
would not have been allowed to choose, he would have been able to keep the first four, and then
anything beyond this would be invalid. But since his marriage has happened before Islam
		
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			we accept all the marriages that happen before Islam, regardless of how they happen, technicalities
and so on, and that is something to learn also, this is a proof that we accept the marriages have
happened before Islam even if they don't meet conditions are conditions that you consider the
managers in their own culture in their own DNA and stuff. But then after Islam, you cannot get a
woman.
		
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			So he will have he will have to choose. So that's that's an important difference here. And then, so
if he may, if he became Muslim and he had two sisters married to two sisters, he would have to
release one
		
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			in Canada on mental event and one on the article. But if so, then he got the house in Canada dakka
dakka dakka Houma. Mata Allah bead
		
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			if they his co wives are a mother and a daughter, and he has not entered on the mother than the
mother his marriage alone becomes void. Why? Because once he marries her daughter once he finalize
the contract with her daughter, she becomes a heroine to him, not the opposite. If he was married to
her, then he would have to consummate the marriage with her before her daughter becomes a harem to
him.
		
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			So if they go wives are a mother and a daughter and he has not entered on the mother than the
mother's marriage alone becomes void if he has entered on the mother then both of their marriages
become void and they both become forever unmanageable for him. They are both become forever
unmanageable for him.
		
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			When asked my doctor who acts seminar ba I'm second in hon our bond
		
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			is on canon am second in one hour, I'm going
		
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			to do an extra minute
		
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			if he accepts Islam while already being married to
		
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			more than four women
		
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			for
		
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			We're coming to the to no more than four women he may keep on the four of them and must separate
from the rest had everybody lined up in southern Africa. It is fine whether he keeps the one he
married first or last because that was before Islam has happened to be after Islam The first would
be valid the second would not be or after the first four would be valid afterwards it would not.
		
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			The same applies to a slave who accepts Islam while being married to more than two women. He would
have to divorce the rest.
		
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			maman tala cumbre faneca
		
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			Mesa Tempe Aditya lamesa hacer en cannot palabra de and Albanian. We already covered this. If a man
divorces a woman and then marries her sister, her aunt or a fifth wife, while the divorced woman is
dead in her eyes. His new marriage is invalid whether the divorce is finalized or not. His new
marriage is invalid whether the divorce is finalized or not. He had four wives he divorced one of
them. The divorce was finalized was not finalized on daddy's don't care about whether it was
finalized or finalized. In both cases he cannot get married to another woman until that woman
		
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			expires. masochism, Shafi said The divorce was finalized, he could go out and get married to another
woman homebodies and hanafy said No,
		
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			you cannot. So that brings us to the end of the chapter on an maharana friendica or women that are
not permissible to marry. There are two types of them there are permanent prohibitions or temporary
prohibitions. There are four causes for the temporary for the permanent prohibitions one
consanguinity and NASA to marriage, Zahara three breastfeeding for the hand,
		
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			mutually invocation of curses, the temporary prohibitions five causes for temporary prohibitions,
the either for the woman, and the bad of the wife, for the man, these are two causes this belief
		
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			no chastity, or chastity would be three and four. And number five is forbidden covary.
		
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			As we said, you cannot combine between a woman and another one who would have not been allowed for
her to marry, had she been a boy, perhaps even a man. And quickly.
		
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			We did take the index case last time has a woman let me take the index case this time has a man so
that he would have had the two diagrams in your mind. So
		
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			this man
		
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			this is his father. This is his mother.
		
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			This is his grandfather.
		
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			Okay, he married he's married to this woman. They have boys and girls.
		
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			His parents also had another daughter, and another boy, daughter had a boy and a girl
		
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			which has a sister have a boy and a girl, boy and a girl. And then anything like this.
		
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			Anything like this.
		
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			And then
		
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			his wife was married to another man. And she had a
		
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			boy and a girl.
		
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			His wife had a father and a mother.
		
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			And
		
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			okay, and this one year. So this is his father, his father.
		
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			His father
		
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			had a
		
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			brother
		
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			and a sister, sister had her own kids and a brother had his own kids.
		
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			Then
		
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			the same applies here as well.
		
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			Okay, let us say
		
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			whose grandfather of a parents of his grandfather they had also
		
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			these are the parents of his grandfather. So this would be, this would be the parent of his father,
right. This is the aunt of his father. And this is
		
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			the Ottomans. Father, this is the index case. This is the index case, this is the father of the
index case, this is the grandfather of the index case.
		
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			Okay, this is the great grandfather of the index case, the great grandfather, the father of the
index case had three kids.
		
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			This is the sister of his grandfather. She is the paternal aunt of his father.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			It's much easier to do this than the other way because the other one was just like,
		
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			you know, everything you have to flip it, you know?
		
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			You have to flip it. So this one here, what a metallic
		
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			metal mukalla.
		
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			Can we find them?
		
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			to come? Yes.
		
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			The index case he's married to the woman right?
		
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			He's married to this woman.
		
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			xo.
		
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			Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Bottom line.
		
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			Where's his mother?
		
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			You can't marry a
		
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			banana to come to Where's automaticall? means here What?
		
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			this one as well. And this one as well. And this one as well.
		
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			All these aren't his mother's.
		
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			Okay, you're gonna have to comb your daughters who's forbidden? This one is forbidden. This one is
forbidden. This one is forbidden. Any female progeny? forbidden? Whether she can inherit or not
forbidden?
		
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			How to come? This one is forbidden.
		
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			How article means three
		
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			means the full the paternal and the maternal. So this is full because she is the daughter of his
father and mother. But if we presume that there has father married another woman
		
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			who actually we need to make his father marry another woman.
		
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			In this case, it doesn't have to be dotted Who said that?
		
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			So I'm just gonna keep it on dotted here.
		
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			Let's say it's one I'm married another woman.
		
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			Okay, and then
		
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			they had a boy
		
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			and a girl.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			They had a boy and a girl. Okay. So
		
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			okay, so this one is forbidden. That is his paternal sister, right? Let's say his mother married
another man has to be adopted here right.
		
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			And they have together a boy and a girl. This woman is forbidden. So three sisters here. In addition
to h1. The milk is faster. But we're not putting the milk thing here because we don't want to
confound that anymore. So
		
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			more color to come. While medical more color to come. We're gonna
		
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			have to ematic mokara to come. Who are a metal here. Who are his paternal aunts here.
		
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			Wait, no, wait a second. This is his This is his father right? This is his grandfather.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Now we said anything that comes from the progeny or the progeny of the siblings, it'd be Harold does
not end. It was all when it comes to the paternal aunt, what about this? No, this is Helen, what
about this has Holland? Okay, it's just a putter on. So I'm meant to come is this pattern? Who
answers are magical?
		
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			Yes, this
		
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			this is automatic as well, because metacam is your paternal aunts and the paternal aunts of any of
your ancestors.
		
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			A big
		
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			return on your father, the paternal aunt of your grandfather, the paternal aunt of your great
grandfather. All of them are haram to marry.
		
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			What about their children?
		
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			No, they're not held on to marry. They're not parenting marry. Okay.
		
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			So what Karla to come where is Carla to come here.
		
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			Okay, this is mother. This is the Okay, so this would be fella to come. This is hilarious.
		
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			Because it is his cousin. Okay.
		
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			Yeah, who had to come the same way when it comes from medical, the maternal aren't of any of your
ancestors, the maternal aunts of any of your ancestors, that is your parents on either side. Hold
your hands up there are around for you to marry. Now, whether or not would actually open up to
		
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			these are your the your nieces, whether they are the children of your brothers or the children of
your sisters.
		
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			So this is his sister. And this is his brother.
		
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			You know,
		
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			this, this is Hana. caught on in this.
		
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			Can anything down here any anything down here. Any women that are coming down from the brother, or
the sister would be hi Rhonda, Marissa
		
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			will not
		
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			talk about this now. We're on the 22nd we're not talking about the breast feeding now. We're on
Manhattan, he said a comb. Where is where is the mothers of your wives? Where's his wife? This is
his wife. This one here he cannot marry. And he cannot marry or mahabis ekomi cannot marry her grand
the grand mother and the great grandmother and McGregor.
		
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			Where's his arrabida? Where's his stepdaughter with you know from his wife with which he had
consummated the marriage? This one, right? He cannot marry this one.
		
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			Now, when you are unable to marry a woman, are you whether you'll be able to marry her mother?
		
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			No generally accepted in certain cases. Because this woman here, you're unable to marry. But you
know her mother, her mother is your wife. So you should be able to marry her, but you're unable to
marry her daughter, you would not be able to marry her daughter. So but generally speaking until
proven otherwise, you would not be able to marry her daughter.
		
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			You will not be able to marry
		
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			the descendant. So the *
		
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			or actually we did not talk about
		
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			the
		
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			then what are we going
		
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			to benefit
		
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			from now the wives of your sons that are from your loins that so this is his son.
		
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			This is the wife of his son. This would be haram right. haram after his son consummated the marriage
with her.
		
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			As soon as they are contracted, the only one that is pending. The consummation is one case on the
		
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			heavy marries a woman. Her daughter will only become impermissible
		
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			Which is the stepdaughter in this case only becomes impermissible after he wants to mention the
marriage with her mother. Okay. Then then
		
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			went
		
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			on to
		
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			this is the combining. And this is a different thing,
		
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			which is a temporary prohibition, not a permanent prohibition.
		
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			What about where's this?
		
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			Is this geraldo rivera?
		
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			Okay, this is a cousin.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			What about this woman here? Who's this woman?
		
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			Oh, we didn't remember this woman? Well, I think you're gonna have to come in and say
		
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			don't marry the woman that your fathers have married except to that which happened in the past. Not
meaning that your father married and divorced. That means that before Islam, you know, but you know,
a woman that your father marries is forbidden to you permanently. That is called your stepmother.
Right? Yeah. stepmother.
		
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			Where's his mother in law that we mark his mother in law?
		
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			His mother in law is this
		
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			Okay,
		
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			are we done? Is everybody marked is every woman here Mark
		
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			Yeah, I guess there are no women here.
		
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			That's it.
		
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			You know, this chapter is was just like too big to finish in one session. But don't allow we were
able to finish it in two sessions, but we have still time. So we will give some time for people to
leave. And then we will have plenty of time for questions and answers. Comments objections is the
draka