Hamzah Wald Maqbul – Riyd alSlihnLeadership Being Alone and Blessed Times 12032017

Hamzah Wald Maqbul
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The speakers discuss the history and importance of Islam, including achieving personal gain and avoiding sacrificing for personal gain. They also touch on the loss of people and the importance of acceptance of sh pattern and not apologize for one's actions. The speakers emphasize the need for practice and acceptance of one's behavior, as well as avoiding giving out personal information and learning about mirrored behavior and adab. They stress the importance of learning and preparing for a future and being around and not just looking out for one another.
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We continue with the.

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This is the the book,

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or the section regarding the etiquettes of how

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to travel.

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Muslim sunnah way of how to travel

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and how a person can garner the,

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maximum spiritual benefits from from from the way

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that they travel. The

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specific chapter with regards to the recommendation to

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leave the house

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on

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a Thursday

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and the recommendation

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to,

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leave in the beginning of the day.

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So in the cabin

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who narrates that the prophet set

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out for the the

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the expedition of Tabuk

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on a Thursday. The exped expedition of Tabouk

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is,

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a follow-up after the battle of Mu'tah. Mu'tah

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was a a battle in which Rasulullah

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sent to dispatch an army

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to fight the Romans who were encroaching on

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the Arabian Peninsula,

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and that army was under the command of

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Zayd bin Haritha Radiallahu Ta'ala Anhu, who was

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in Jahiliyyah, the adopted son of the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wasallam. He was such a close

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companion of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam. Had

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he survived the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam, he

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may have been even his Khalifa.

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And,

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so he set him as commander of that

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army. And then after him, he set,

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should he fall,

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say,

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Jafar bin Abi Talib, who is the brother

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of Sayed Ali radiAllahu anhu, and the person

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physically resembled the prophet, sallallahu alaihi salam, closely.

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And,

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then after him, should he fall,

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Sayidna Abdullah bin Rawaha,

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Radhi Allahu Ta'ala Anhu. So all 3 of

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those commanders were Shaheed Fisabilillah

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in that battle.

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And the flag fell from the hand of

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Said Nasid bin Haritha

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And, Abdullah bin Jafar took it and, he

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was given the lakab of a tayar

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because it was seen in dreams that of

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him flying through Jannah. That his two arms

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were

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amputated,

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from losing them in battle. That he one

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arm was carrying the flag and it got

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cut. And he held the flag with the

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other arm and it got cut. And then

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he literally

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held the flag with his teeth,

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until he until he fell on the battlefield.

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And then Abdullah bin Rawaha received it.

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And so in place of his, amputated arms,

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he had wings and he he he flew

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and was ascending through the Muqamat of Jannah.

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Abdullah bin Rawaha afterward, he hesitated

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momentarily before going forward in battle, and that's

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why it was seen as

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were flying

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faster than he was flying behind the 2

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of them.

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And then after that,

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Amr bin Asr

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who was a new convert,

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to Islam,

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and he was

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a a a a a a genius of

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strategy, a very eloquent man, and a very,

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very intelligent man of Quresh. He had recently

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defected,

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from Quresh and and taken up the deen

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and, accepted Islam.

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And because of his new Islam, he wasn't

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put as a commander in the army, but

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because the appointed commanders of the Messenger of

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Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, all of them fell.

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1 by 1, the Sahaba

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decided because he was a very competent and

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able person, they decided to make him commander.

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And so what he did was he took

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the rest of the Muslim forces and they

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retreated because the Roman armies

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crack elite force very difficult to fight.

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And so they did they did a tactical

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retreat.

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And then what he did was he ordered

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by the nightfall, he ordered the Muslims at

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each of them to

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gather wood, firewood.

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And each one of them make a fire

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in order to make it look like because

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the scouts of the Romans wanna see how

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many of them are there.

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They wanna make it look like there's 10

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times the number of people because usually you

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only light a fire for 10 men.

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And then after that, he, ordered them in

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the day in the,

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when the day broke to march around the

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mountain in and out of the sight of

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the of the Roman army. So it looks

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like there are more and more in reinforcements

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coming

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to demoralize the Romans.

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And so the Romans actually retreated from there.

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And so the Sahaba radiallahu anhu, it's very

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interesting that when they came back to Medina

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Munawara,

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Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam wept for the

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people who who were

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shahid in the path of Allah Subhanahu wa

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ta'ala. And he went and visited and consoled

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the family of Jafar bin Abitalib

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and, of of Zayd bin Haritha and the

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other Shuhada.

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And the the Madani people were somewhat,

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irritated with, Amr bin Aas radiallahu in Hawaii

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because you should have also fought and you

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should also been shaheed like the rest of

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them.

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And Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, in fact,

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he didn't he didn't agree.

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And he, he said to Amr that you

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did what you did, what you did was

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right. The idea is that a person should

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sacrifice for the sake of Allah Subhanahu wa

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ta'ala and be ready to sacrifice for the

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sake of Allah Ta'ala.

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But the goal of that spirit is not

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to not to just lose for no reason.

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That if you have an objective, you set

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out of your home to do something, the

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attainment of the objective is the goal. And

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then in in that process, if for whatever

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reason you should fail,

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or you should be killed or you should

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suffer some sort of loss, then that's something

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that's accepted by Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. But

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the failure shouldn't be an objective in and

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of itself. And I think that's one of

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the problems with a lot of weird,

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screwball groups in the in the world nowadays

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that are ready to go out and just

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blow themselves up and whatever. They have no

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objective in mind in the first place. They're

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not doing anything. There's no rational way a

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person like that can think how how Islam

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and the Muslims are going to benefit from

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this. They just said, well, you know, we

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already lost, so what the *? And just,

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you know, and that's what it is. It's

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just what the *. That's where it begins.

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That's where it ends.

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There's no there's no,

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glory and glamour in it and there's no

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reward in it. It's just, makes life difficult

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for everybody and it will make the hereafter

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difficult for themselves and Allah protect us from

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them. That's why it's important to attend dars

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and things like that. There are many people

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who have a lot of excitement with regards

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to deen,

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but because they don't understand it, they end

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up doing more harm to themselves and to

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others than than than than benefit

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and had they sat and listened. Right? Rasulullah

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salallahu alaihi wasalam actually praised Amr bin Az.

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He actually saved the rest of the army

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and the objective which was what? To check

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the advance of the Roman army into the

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into the, Arabian Peninsula. They said these pea

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they thought these people fought so hard and

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now they have all these re

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reinforcements. And there's so many of them. And

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Arabia is like a godforsaken place according to

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the rest of the world. Right? It's nothing

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there but desert. There's nothing there to steal

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or jack. Even today, nobody would care about

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it if it if it wasn't for oil.

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So they just said, you know what? Just

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leave it alone. Leave it alone as long

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as they stay there. The next year, the

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Khazu of Tabuk after the after the battle

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of Mu'tah,

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because imagine that he took it very personally.

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He himself

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gathered an army and this was the most

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prepared army that the Muslims ever had.

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Every other

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time, you know, things like that, it was

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very like they had to scramble an army

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at the last minute, or or with very

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little preparation.

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The Battle of Tabuk,

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was an army in which there were it

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was an army in which there was announcements

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made in Madinah Munawara and from all the

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places where the Muslims lived that come forth,

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prepare, everyone should bring a riding animal, everyone

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should bring their proper arms, armament, armor. The

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the wealthy amongst the Muslims donated for those

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people who couldn't afford to,

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bring the proper, the horse and the the

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arms and the armor

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that they donated money for those soldiers then

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to to be equipped properly so that this

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army could go and face the,

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face the Romans. It's not like they just

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said, this is the messenger of Allah. We're

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just gonna walk on the battlefield and, like,

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you know, like, twirl the stick like a

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magic wand and the angels are gonna just,

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like, you know, whatever, like some sort of

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video game,

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rain down fire onto the battlefield.

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Those things those things happen, but then what

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do we need you for?

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If the angels are doing all the work,

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then why are you and me gonna show

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up your and ask to go to Jannah.

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Right? The angels are already the angels.

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So, you know, there's there's wisdom in everything.

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At any rate, rasulullah salallahu alayhi wa sallam

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tabuk was something that he meticulously planned.

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And, and,

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there's, like, there's a lot of history with

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regards to it, but

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used to love going out on on on

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on Thursday. When he would go on a

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trip, he would plan to leave on Thursday,

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and he left for the razua of Tabuk

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on a Thursday.

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And a lot of those best with the

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Hikma,

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of it may be one of the things

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that comes to my mind is the barakah

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of of Jummah.

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That one, if you're traveling, then the Jumuah

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is not.

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But the of Jumuah are very, very helpful

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and very necessary for people.

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Some of the greatest,

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battles,

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of the history of Islam, they took place

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on Fridays.

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The battle of

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which

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is, the battle in which the Mamluk Turkic

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slave king army,

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they they they they,

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gave the first defeat in the open battlefield

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to the Mongols.

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Imagine the they went all the way from

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Mongolia all the way to,

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Palestine,

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and they're about to invade Egypt. They literally

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swept the entire Asian continent without being defeated

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in the battlefield.

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So, you know, and

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and the the the the Mamluk slave slave

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king armies

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of Egypt, they were like, no.

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This is it. It's gonna stop here. Because

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the the Mamluks, the slave kings that rule

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over Egypt, they themselves are Turks who are

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like cousins of the Mongols.

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So they have very similar battle tactics. They're

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similar abilities.

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They ride horse very well, both armies. They,

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they have very accurate,

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archery skills.

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They're they're master tacticians. They they strike hard

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and they move fast.

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And so they said that, yeah, these guys,

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you know, we're not gonna let them we're

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not gonna let them destroy Syria and destroy

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Egypt, like they destroyed the Muslim lands of

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Central Asia. When the you know, Imam Bukhari

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and Tirumidi and all these Nessa

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and and Tirumid, all of these different cities,

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these were great centers of learning culture in

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the Muslim world literally decimated to the ground.

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Even plants were not left alive.

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They were burned in such a way that

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that stone was not left on top of

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another stone. Buildings, everything was destroyed.

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And so these cities, they still exist in

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and

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and Tirmiz and all these. These are all

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all the original people of them all died

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and people re you know, different people came

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and re inhabited them and repopulated them.

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And in many ways, the culture of those

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that Central Asia, much of it

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had to flee and seek refuge in India.

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Because India was also,

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ruled by Turkic slave kings

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and, they also they also held their own

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against the against the Mongols in battle. So

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at any rate, the battle of Ain Jalut

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is the first defeat that was given to,

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given to the the Mongols in the open

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field.

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And that was the advice of the ulama

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to,

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say who

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was the the the the the the commander

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of that army

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That wait until after the hour of has

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passed.

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Even though because they're in the path of

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, neither Jumayah is is

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obligatory on them,

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nor are are are they gonna pray it

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anyway. But because they wanted to have the

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help of the duas of the people, because

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everybody knew that the the the this army

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is going out, if it gets defeated, then

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all of North Africa will probably come under

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Mongol rule as well. And they don't let

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people go. They kill everybody.

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And so it was a danger for the

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existence of Islam itself. That if they decided

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to turn south and then destroy the sack

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of Haramain Sharifin, there's nobody to defend them

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afterward.

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But Allah Ta'ala was there to defend them.

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So they literally waited for waited for the

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the sacred hour of Jum'ah to pass so

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that duas of the people were with them.

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And by Allah ta'ala's help,

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you know, the the the Turkish commanders lured

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them into

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into such a trap that,

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that they they completely got decimated.

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And it was such a shock.

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The the the the the Khan,

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Ulegu, who is the commander of that army.

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Although he wasn't personally there in the battle,

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he was revered. In fact, Ulegu becomes in

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Persian and Arabic, it becomes Halaku, which is

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not actually his name. Halak in the Arabic

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language means like destruction, like killing and destruction.

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They gave him the nickname because it was

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it was spelled very similarly. The gaf and

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the kaf are written the same in the

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in the old Persian orthography.

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So they gave him the nickname because of,

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like, how crazy he was, like, how many

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people he had killed. He'd sacked Baghdad, which

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was the seed of the caliphate. People were

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in shock. They thought the was happening. This

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is how crazy this guy was.

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And, for him to, for his army to

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fall into a trap and and literally only

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a couple of people were sent to to

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carry the the message. They were spared in

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order to send back the message of how

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bad the defeat was.

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It was such a sadma and it was

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such a

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a blow to the prestige of the Mongol

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armies that they quarreled with one another and

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they started to fight with one another after

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that. That there was one of the the

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Mongol commanders,

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his name was Berke. He took the the

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the Muslim named Baraka. He accepted Islam, and

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he actually had the the the the the

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gallant to rebel against,

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his

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his cousin, Hulaku,

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and actually contest the the the the the

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leadership of

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of of of the Mongol hordes in the

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West. And it completely, like, they never rebounded

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from that that that the how hard that

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that that defeat was again afterward.

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And afterward, most of the Mongol commanders will

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start to accept Islam as well.

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And,

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what was it? It was perhaps

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best with the the reason is for the

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Thursday, but one of the things that that

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I think it may be also is that

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it it helps a person by, garnering the

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barakat of of of Jumuah

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and whatever,

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suffer that people went out to. And these

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are they didn't used to go and suffer

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for vacation. Either you're gonna visit the house

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of Allah Ta'ala or you're going to seek

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knowledge or you're going to,

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go out in in the path of Allah

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ta'ala.

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1 Sahabi

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So.

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Gamed is a a a clan of ASD.

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ASD is a very large,

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is a very large, tribal confederation of, of

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the Arabs.

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And so, Rammed was

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his name was Amir.

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And the reason he received the name Ahmed

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is because as the tribe tribal confederation of

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Az did they had beef between them.

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It fractured into several competing different groups and

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they all they all fought with one another.

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And, he,

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he took the different, warring sides

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and he, made between

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them. So he he,

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he he he packs up things between them

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and got the tribe back together again and

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stopped them from infighting.

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So,

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they call him because the the the the

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anger and the war and the infighting from

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before

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who is like he drowned it out.

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There's a a a a a joker

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individual

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who takes the name Saeed Ahmed Rammedi, and

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he's neither Saeed nor is he Ahmed nor

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is he Rammedi. He actually took the name

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just like as a stage name, and he

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was a stooge of the, the the the

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military dictatorship of.

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Alhamdulillah. Alla ta'ala be praised to rid,

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the Darul Islam of it. And,

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he now makes the rounds in America because

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he's banned in Pakistan because he gave all

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these kind of ridiculous fatwas to make the

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military government happy. But the problem is they're,

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like, completely against,

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they're completely against Ijma'at ulama, and he did

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he's basically a hadith rejecter and weird guy

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who gives weird fatwa. You don't have to

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pay zakat because you already pay taxes and

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all this other stuff. So, you know, I

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guess you don't have to pay as many

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taxes anymore either because,

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the senators is about to rob the, the

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exchequer drive, but, we

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digress.

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So this was a real

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was a descendant of this,

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who is, the

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the. And, he said that the prophets of

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the messenger of Allah, sallallahu alaihi wasallam said,

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he made dua,

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allah, put barakah in my ummah in its

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mornings.

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And Rasulullah, sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, if he

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was going to send out a a detachment

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or an army, he would often send them

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at first thing in the morning.

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Uh-uh. Why? Because there's Baraka at that time.

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And,

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this

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hadith, he was a businessman. He's a tajr,

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a trader, and he also used to be

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very meticulous that whenever he did any business,

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he would start out early in the morning

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at the cracker, basically right after Fajr is

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right after praying Fajr. And,

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Esra

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Saradhar Saradharwatin. He he became wealthy.

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To Esra

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and his, his his wealth became plentiful.

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This is another thing. It's really bad.

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What do we do? After Isha, we hang

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out and we talk. It's not a good

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it's not a good thing.

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Our parties, if we wanna have them, we

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should have them earlier.

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People should go to sleep right after right

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after Isha. That that's the type of the

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time of sleep that's the most restful. And

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then people should wake up the next morning

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from Fajr. If you feel sleepy, then take

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a nap later in the day. But people

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should try to do that, the the Fajr

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to,

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Fajr to Isha schedule. In the summers, it's

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not as easy because the night is shorter,

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so you take a nap longer.

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But, this whole thing of hanging out

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at night afterward, it makes people miss fajr,

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first of all,

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and it precludes them from ever being able

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to read the Hajj. Nobody is achieved any

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Maqam with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,

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except for by reading the Hajj.

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Nobody, any person who thinks that they're Sufi

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or as one of the Salihin or Salafi

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and they follow Salaf. The Salaf, they used

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to wake up for Tahajjud.

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The Sufis, they used to wake up for

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tahajjud.

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Everybody used to wake up, nobody wake up

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for tahajjud anymore. It's comical how you wake

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up for tahajjud then your problems get solved,

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and then the next day you're like, yeah,

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I'm tired.

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If you don't go to sleep right after

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Isha,

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you're probably not gonna wake up for Fajr.

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There's a good chance you're not gonna wake

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up for Fajr except for with great difficulty

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and you'll muddle through your Fajr.

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Whereas, if you're going to sleep at 8

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o'clock, I mean, you get a straight, 8

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hours of sleep after 8 o'clock and you

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still have an hour and a half to

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pray tahajjud before before,

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the,

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Fajr comes in.

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That's the proper schedule.

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And more than that, or or on top

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of that, I should say, is that the

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Baraka is in the early morning. When you

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study, that's the that's the most time. When

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you do some business, that's the most time.

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When you do some work, that's the time

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that Allah targets, more done with less. But

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but guess what? The whole Pakistan, the whole

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India, the markets don't even open until, like,

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11 o'clock.

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If you show up at someone's shop at

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10:30,

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they'll probably be sitting there eating their breakfast.

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They'll like drink tea with you. They don't

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sell you anything.

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Whereas what? Those places that are heavily influenced

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by the Brit like Lahore, for example, Karachi.

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The markets all open late. The places where

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the British didn't rule directly. Right? The the

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the the the places,

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in the in the in the, north

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where the Patans are or the places where

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the Balocha are or the places where the,

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for example,

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rural areas that weren't so heavily influenced by

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the the British, still the markets are open

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after Fajr.

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Why? Because

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of.

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Right? You don't have to have the business

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open 247.

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The idea with people was what? You have

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you know, they had a completely different way

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of life. All the people who sell shoes

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are in one line. All the people who

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sell pots and pans are in one line.

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Everybody knew how much money they needed to

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get their household expenses done. Once they got

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their money, they closed up the shops so

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that their brother could also make a living.

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If you have a a community like that,

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will people care for each other? Yes. If

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people care for each other, are you gonna

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have as many drive by shootings? Are you

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gonna have as many, like, theft? Are you

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gonna have people, you know, outsiders gonna come

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come in and be able to mix it

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up and, like, dispossess you of your land?

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Absolutely not, because you got each other's back.

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And everybody's happy. There's enough to go around.

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It's just that when when people do things

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stupid in a stupid way and waste their

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resources,

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then there's not enough resources left over. And

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when you have to compete for those things

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that were plentiful and you screwed them up

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yourselves as a poem out of bad habits,

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I shouldn't say you, I should say me

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and we,

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out of our bad habits, then people will

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instead of collaborating with one another, then people

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are gonna try to backstab one another.

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And individuals may become very powerful, but as

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a community,

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everybody is going to become weak.

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But Rasool Allah, that's

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that's his,

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his sunnah is that things should be done

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early in the morning. Trust me. I'm the

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last guy who was like, I'm not a

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morning person. When morning person say stuff like

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this, then you're like, yeah. Sure. It's easy

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for you to say that. I'm not a

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morning person.

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I'm I'm, very much a night owl. The

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thing is though, the problem is it works.

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And I've experienced it myself as well. And

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if it's not easy to do, you have

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to work hard in order to maintain that

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that,

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that schedule. Sometimes people accuse you of being

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antisocial.

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This comes to another,

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important precept with regards to your,

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saluk, which is what?

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Don't ever, feel ashamed or apologize to anyone

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for not wasting time.

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If someone wants to waste your time,

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say no. And if they try to guilt

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you guilt trip you about it or say

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something to you about it, it's your problem.

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Never apologize about using your time wisely. It's

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the only thing you have. It's the only

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resource Allah gave any any one of us.

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Use your your use your time wisely. If

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it's difficult to get onto the schedule, it's

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still worth it. Do what you can to

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get get get on the the the schedule

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of the sunnah.

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So this is the

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chapter with,

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regards to seeking company

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and seeking leadership,

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for people over themselves,

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from someone that they that they will follow

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their orders, someone that they they they can

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obey.

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This means what? That one of the one

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of the signs or one of the the

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traits of a leader,

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it's not only piety and righteousness and knowledge

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and competence. Those things are all important as

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well.

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One of the traits of a leader is

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also that he's somebody that's like, obeyable.

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Somebody who is really good at what they

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do, really smart, really pious, but they're completely

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disagreeable in their disposition.

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How are people gonna abate such a person?

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So somebody who is in a position of

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leadership should also do themselves and do other

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people a favor as well,

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not be so harsh with everybody

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all the time, lest somebody who is less

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competent be put into leadership and the people

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suffer because of that as well. So if

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you want someone to apologize to you, you

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should also have your door open and, like,

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you know, not make it difficult for them

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to apologize. If you want someone to listen

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to what you say, then try not humiliating

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them every time they listen to what you

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say. I I I I'm, like, I'm I

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don't even wanna say I'm preaching to the

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choir. I feel like everybody here in the

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room is, like, relatively nice people. This is

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advice I'm giving to myself. So

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it's alhamdulillah, it's a thing at any rate.

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Allah

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give us

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He said that the messenger of Allah said,

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if people knew,

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with regards to being alone what I know,

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then no rider would have gone out at

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for a night alone.

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Meaning what? A night is not like a

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long time.

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It's literally like half a day.

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That if you knew, what I knew about

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the perils of being alone, then nobody would

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have even gone out alone at night.

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Why?

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There are so many reasons. Like, looks okay.

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You guys, but

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go ahead and tell me what's the reason.

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What's the first thing that comes to your

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mind? Why is it why would Rasoolullah

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say this? It's dangerous. What else?

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Shaitan will come to you. Shaitan will come

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to you. Someone Shaitan comes to him anyway.

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Yeah. Even more could come even with with

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with even harder game. What else? Easy to

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get robbed. Easy to get robbed. It's easy

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to get jacked.

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What else? It's hard to it's hard to

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navigate at night. It's hard to navigate at

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night. I read something in the,

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commentary,

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which made me feel so ashamed.

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Like, look at the difference between our elders

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and look at the difference between us. The

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first, you know, the first thing that he

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mentioned

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Said if you're alone, how are you gonna

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pray in congregation?

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I was like, oh, man. It's tough for

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a lot. I wasn't even thinking about that.

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I was thinking about getting jacked and getting

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robbed. You know?

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Because I was thinking about my money. Those

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people were thinking about what? They were thinking

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about their salat.

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That was the most important thing. They were

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thinking about their salat, and why wouldn't they

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the salat is the most important word that

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a person has the salat if a person

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does it correctly and does it well. The

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accounting on the day of judgment will go

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well. And if it doesn't go good, then

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the rest of it's not gonna go good

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either. So I read that. I was like,

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oh, man. I felt really ashamed real you

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know, because that's the way we should have

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been thinking about it, but I I got

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you guys are all pious people. You probably

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were thinking about it. I didn't even think

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about it until I read it. And then

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afterward, he says all the other all the

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other good stuff about, like, you know, a

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person might get robbed and they might lose

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their way. And if they need help, they're

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not gonna have anybody to help them. They

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could get stuck in a bad situation and

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things like that. Right? Hey, Counsel. Yes. Can

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you go back a little bit? You see

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what was the question again? Why shouldn't we

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go out at night? Why why why what

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what are the dangers of being alone?

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All the dangers of being alone. Why would

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Rasulullah tell

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us tell us or warn us against being

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alone?

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And and the you said they they replied

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because they've caused a lot?

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That's that's the the the the commentator. 1

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of the even Alaa and the commentator on

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this hadith, he said the first reason is

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because if you're out alone, you can't pray

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in congregation.

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Yeah. Yeah. And then afterward, he mentions all

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the other stuff that you you're pray to

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Shaytan,

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you're pray to spiritual,

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getting spiritually jacked and also, you know, physically

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your wallet jacked as well in this dunya.

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If you're alone, you don't have anyone to

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back you up or help you out. If

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you get lost, you have no one to

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help you find your way. If you get

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hurt, you have nobody to, you know,

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you're just alone.

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You're easy prey.

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And there's a lot of there's a lot

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of, both practical

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drawbacks and spiritual,

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drawbacks as well.

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Because imagine,

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everybody here is so pious.

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If anyone of us were to commit a

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sin, what would we do? Would we like

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be like, yeah, okay, like,

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who's gonna go whatever get drunk after Yad

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Vasalihin?

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No one would do it. If they're gonna

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do it, they're gonna hide and do it

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alone separately.

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Right? So what is the the the the

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solution to that?

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If that's an issue, then don't spend time

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alone.

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There's so many sins there's so many sins

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that that Shaitan comes to the person's hadith

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of the prophet, sallallahu alaihi wasallam, that that

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that stay with the stay with the jama'ah,

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stay with the the the the congregation, the

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gathering of the Muslims because the the wolf,

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shaitan, the wolf,

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shaitan will,

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attack the stray,

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the the sheep that strays from the herd.

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Why? Because if shaitan tries to jump in

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the middle of herd, like like,

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3 sheep, like, charging the shaytan and hitting

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it 1 or hitting the wolf and hitting

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it 1 after the other, it's gonna kill

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the wolf or put it out of commission

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or, like, you know, put a cramp in

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its style at the very least. Whereas the

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stray one, the wolf can kill it before

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the rest can get get to it to

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help. So it can kill it, bite it

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in the neck, kill it, bleed it, and

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then run away. And then the other sheep

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will be like,

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this is bogus, the sheep is dead, but

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they'll leave eventually, and they come back and

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eat it.

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And that's the same that's the same thing

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that that that happens with us. And it's

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not just a physical

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thing that happens. It's a spiritual thing that

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happens as well. It's a it's a that's

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those thoughts they assail a person when they're

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when they're when they're alone. And so people

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who are feeling

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people are feeling doubts in their iman, people

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are feeling down.

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Of course, we're sitting in the Khalil Center.

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Some of these things, they get go so

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far that they they require clinical intervention.

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But there's a a clinical definition of of

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depression, and then there's, like,

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normal depression that every human being goes through.

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Sometimes that normal depression,

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it goes so far that it requires clinical

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intervention, but, like, 85% of the time or

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whatever,

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it's not that far.

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You can help yourself by coming in the

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company of other people. And Chetan, what happens

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that these are like psychological issues.

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Shaitan will exacerbate it. Just like when a

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person you're a pure doctor

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Sami Masha Allah, you're, whatever,

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you know, providing people with antibiotics or whatever

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doctors do. Right? Is this not true that

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people carry with them diseases sometimes that lie

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dormant in the body, and then when the

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body becomes weak, then they pop up and

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they hit you. Right? So that happens also

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with Shaitan as well.

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There are things that a per person, you

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know, like the there's things that are, like,

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they're dormant inside of you, and they're waiting

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for you for your moment that you have.

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You're the weakest and you have the least

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resistance against them spiritually.

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And then Shaitan will get up on you

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on that time. Because if he tries to

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mess with you while you're, like, all namazed

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up in Ramadan mode, they'll look at their

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with your, like, bakkora on one hand and

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ruevs on the other hand, you know, he's

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not gonna get nowhere with it. He's gonna

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have to wait till he's gonna have to

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wait till,

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you know, you're till you're down and you're

00:31:01 --> 00:31:03

all these other things. So when you walk

00:31:03 --> 00:31:05

into the when you, you know, when you

00:31:05 --> 00:31:06

walk into the Dars where the hadith of

00:31:06 --> 00:31:09

the prophet is read or the or the

00:31:09 --> 00:31:11

vicar of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is being

00:31:11 --> 00:31:14

made, These are places where where, you know,

00:31:14 --> 00:31:16

you have the the protection of, like, the

00:31:16 --> 00:31:18

flock around you. And literally, the hadith of

00:31:18 --> 00:31:20

the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam with regards

00:31:20 --> 00:31:21

to,

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there's a long hadith with regard narrated by

00:31:24 --> 00:31:25

Sahih Muslim with regards to,

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the the benefits of

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making dhikr and the benefits of the gatherings

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of dhikr,

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literally. Right?

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And so the the

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the Rasul sallahu alaihi wa sallam when he

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narrates that it's the angels they witnessed that

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gathering and then they have a conversation with

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Allah ta'ala about it.

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And finally, Allah

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says my angels bear witness that I I,

00:31:47 --> 00:31:50

accept from them and I, forgive their sins

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and all of these other things. And then

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the angels bring up an objection.

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The last thing is they bring up an

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objection. They say, oh, so and so was

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there and he wasn't there for, like, out

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of your love. He wasn't there for sincerity.

00:32:00 --> 00:32:02

He was there for some other reason. And

00:32:02 --> 00:32:03

what does Allah to Allah respond to them?

00:32:03 --> 00:32:04

He says,

00:32:06 --> 00:32:08

Those are such a people, the even the

00:32:08 --> 00:32:10

ones that that that sits with them, that

00:32:10 --> 00:32:12

person will never be unhappy.

00:32:12 --> 00:32:13

They'll never be wretched.

00:32:16 --> 00:32:18

So that's a that's I mean, the hadith

00:32:18 --> 00:32:19

is it's a good bet. Don't separate yourself

00:32:19 --> 00:32:21

out and then afterward be like, oh my

00:32:21 --> 00:32:23

god. Like, I don't, you know, believe in

00:32:23 --> 00:32:24

I don't know if I can believe this

00:32:24 --> 00:32:26

anymore and I can't this and I can't

00:32:26 --> 00:32:27

that anymore.

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These things are true I mean,

00:32:29 --> 00:32:31

these things are to some degree, they're also

00:32:31 --> 00:32:33

choices that we make as well. Don't live

00:32:33 --> 00:32:36

in, like, some weird community and, like, the

00:32:36 --> 00:32:38

backwards note middle of nowhere if your iman

00:32:38 --> 00:32:38

is weak.

00:32:40 --> 00:32:40

Right?

00:32:41 --> 00:32:43

With captain Barbarossa, he keeping it real, man.

00:32:43 --> 00:32:45

He's like he's like the lighthouse over there.

00:32:45 --> 00:32:47

He's generating so much newer people from miles

00:32:47 --> 00:32:49

around can see it. Right? But if you're

00:32:49 --> 00:32:50

not in that howl,

00:32:50 --> 00:32:52

if you're like, you know, your iman is

00:32:52 --> 00:32:54

dangling by a thread, you know, it may

00:32:54 --> 00:32:55

be time for you to, like, you know,

00:32:56 --> 00:32:58

get an apartment next to next to, like,

00:32:58 --> 00:32:59

MSI or whatever. Why?

00:33:00 --> 00:33:00

Because,

00:33:01 --> 00:33:04

because that's that's it. Right? The is on

00:33:04 --> 00:33:06

one side. Is on the other side. You

00:33:06 --> 00:33:08

know, the uncles got you covered for, for

00:33:08 --> 00:33:10

Fajr and and and Isha,

00:33:10 --> 00:33:12

and, you have help.

00:33:13 --> 00:33:15

You have someone to back you up. You're

00:33:15 --> 00:33:16

not alone anymore.

00:33:16 --> 00:33:19

This is also another reason why the ulama

00:33:19 --> 00:33:22

classically didn't used to look look, favorably on

00:33:22 --> 00:33:23

people leaving Dar al Islam.

00:33:25 --> 00:33:26

Many of us, we had no choice. We're

00:33:26 --> 00:33:28

just born here. What are we gonna do?

00:33:28 --> 00:33:28

Right?

00:33:29 --> 00:33:32

But classically, that's something that that the of

00:33:32 --> 00:33:34

the they didn't used to look look favorably

00:33:34 --> 00:33:36

on it. It's not because they hate hate

00:33:36 --> 00:33:37

you and me.

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It's a very practical there's a very practical

00:33:40 --> 00:33:42

reason for it that the people the Adhan

00:33:42 --> 00:33:44

is there, the Masajid are there, etcetera, etcetera.

00:33:44 --> 00:33:46

When you're alone, you're especially prey.

00:33:48 --> 00:33:50

And some people, Allah gives them a strength

00:33:50 --> 00:33:51

that they can resist all of these things,

00:33:51 --> 00:33:53

but not everybody. Most people, they they get

00:33:53 --> 00:33:55

affected by people who are around them. If

00:33:55 --> 00:33:57

you see that, don't waste your akhirah. It's

00:33:57 --> 00:34:00

not worth it. Surround yourself with better company,

00:34:00 --> 00:34:01

better people. Even if it means taking a

00:34:01 --> 00:34:03

pay cut, it's okay. You know, Yo Muqiyama,

00:34:03 --> 00:34:05

nobody's gonna be asking you for a 20.

00:34:06 --> 00:34:08

Everybody's every you got $5 I can borrow.

00:34:08 --> 00:34:10

Nobody's gonna be asking you got $5 I

00:34:10 --> 00:34:11

can borrow. What are the people are gonna

00:34:11 --> 00:34:14

be asking one another? Can I have a

00:34:15 --> 00:34:16

get lost? Get your own

00:34:18 --> 00:34:18

Can I have

00:34:19 --> 00:34:21

a get lost? Get your own This one's

00:34:21 --> 00:34:22

mine. I'm I'm gonna need it.

00:34:24 --> 00:34:26

So don't don't don't don't waste your iman.

00:34:26 --> 00:34:28

If if if you're in a perilous situation

00:34:28 --> 00:34:30

and you're alone and stuff like that,

00:34:30 --> 00:34:33

just go go wherever go wherever the Muslims

00:34:33 --> 00:34:34

are and wherever you need to to shore

00:34:34 --> 00:34:36

your iman up. You'll very quickly realize they're

00:34:36 --> 00:34:37

not perfect,

00:34:38 --> 00:34:40

but, like, disbelieving god is not one of

00:34:40 --> 00:34:42

the things. They they may, like, you know,

00:34:42 --> 00:34:45

sell you inferior, quality briyani or gyro.

00:34:46 --> 00:34:46

But,

00:34:47 --> 00:34:49

but, like, you know, throwing your mind in

00:34:49 --> 00:34:50

the garbage can is not one of the

00:34:50 --> 00:34:52

complaints that you're gonna have from them.

00:35:15 --> 00:35:17

I love this. This is this is amazing.

00:35:18 --> 00:35:18

Right? Rasulullah

00:35:20 --> 00:35:21

that's the beauty of his words.

00:35:23 --> 00:35:25

Eloquence is getting to the point,

00:35:25 --> 00:35:27

not beating around the bush.

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Rasool Allah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam wasn't blunt,

00:35:31 --> 00:35:32

but he did get to the point. He

00:35:32 --> 00:35:34

did it with style and he got to

00:35:34 --> 00:35:34

the point.

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He wasn't insensitive or whatever, but he got

00:35:38 --> 00:35:39

to the point so people can understand. You

00:35:39 --> 00:35:41

know, not everyone is the sharpest tool in

00:35:41 --> 00:35:43

the shed. You know, if you tell someone

00:35:43 --> 00:35:44

that there's like a,

00:35:44 --> 00:35:46

then not everyone understands what you're talking about.

00:35:46 --> 00:35:47

So sometimes you have to get to the

00:35:47 --> 00:35:49

point. So now Amar bin Shoaib,

00:35:50 --> 00:35:53

from his father, from his grandfather who was

00:35:54 --> 00:35:56

Abdullah ibn Amarin, ibn al Asr

00:35:57 --> 00:35:58

They narrate the hadith

00:35:59 --> 00:36:01

that a a a rider a lone rider

00:36:01 --> 00:36:02

is shaitan.

00:36:03 --> 00:36:05

And 2 riders are shaitan 2 shaitans.

00:36:07 --> 00:36:09

You know, shaitan. You're not being sensitive. Sorry.

00:36:09 --> 00:36:10

Rasulullah sallahu alaihi wa sallam said it.

00:36:11 --> 00:36:12

And he's right.

00:36:13 --> 00:36:15

If you disagree, you're wrong.

00:36:16 --> 00:36:17

So the lone riders,

00:36:17 --> 00:36:18

a shaitan,

00:36:18 --> 00:36:21

and the the the, the and 2 riders

00:36:21 --> 00:36:22

are 2 shaitans,

00:36:23 --> 00:36:25

and 3 riders are are like a group

00:36:25 --> 00:36:26

of people traveling.

00:36:27 --> 00:36:28

Meaning what?

00:36:29 --> 00:36:31

Person who is alone, it's bad news for

00:36:31 --> 00:36:34

him and he also it's quite possible he

00:36:34 --> 00:36:35

may carry bad intentions

00:36:42 --> 00:36:44

it's so stupid. You listen to the news

00:36:44 --> 00:36:45

at CNN. You think the ISIS are some

00:36:45 --> 00:36:47

sort of, like, criminal mastermind geniuses.

00:36:48 --> 00:36:51

They're not. They just flood social media with

00:36:51 --> 00:36:53

stupid messages, and there are people who really

00:36:53 --> 00:36:55

need to just see someone at Khalil Centre,

00:36:55 --> 00:36:57

or see someone, like, you know, who can

00:36:57 --> 00:36:58

help them, like, with their with their with

00:36:58 --> 00:36:59

their issues.

00:36:59 --> 00:36:59

And,

00:37:00 --> 00:37:02

instead they don't get that help, but because

00:37:02 --> 00:37:04

they're Muslims, all of a sudden everything they

00:37:04 --> 00:37:05

do is holy war.

00:37:05 --> 00:37:07

And so someone just does something, like, you

00:37:07 --> 00:37:10

know, some 17 year old kid does something

00:37:10 --> 00:37:11

dumb, which is what 17 year old kids

00:37:11 --> 00:37:12

do.

00:37:12 --> 00:37:14

But they just didn't you know, they just

00:37:14 --> 00:37:16

like, somebody, hit them with a particularly

00:37:16 --> 00:37:19

stupid message at a particularly vulnerable time in

00:37:19 --> 00:37:20

their life, and they didn't talk about it

00:37:20 --> 00:37:21

with anybody.

00:37:22 --> 00:37:23

Right? Why? Because if there are 3 or

00:37:23 --> 00:37:25

4 people sitting around, they would have realized

00:37:25 --> 00:37:27

when they look at each other's faces how

00:37:27 --> 00:37:28

stupid of an idea this is.

00:37:29 --> 00:37:31

But it's usually the individuals that that that

00:37:31 --> 00:37:33

you get to. Why? Because shaitan attack attacks

00:37:33 --> 00:37:34

the,

00:37:35 --> 00:37:36

shaitan attacks the,

00:37:37 --> 00:37:39

the the sheep that strays from the flock.

00:37:39 --> 00:37:40

So Rasulullah

00:37:41 --> 00:37:43

he said what? He said that that one

00:37:43 --> 00:37:45

rider alone is shaitan

00:37:45 --> 00:37:47

and 2 riders are 2 shaythans

00:37:47 --> 00:37:50

and, 3 riders are are are like traveling

00:37:50 --> 00:37:51

companions.

00:38:18 --> 00:38:20

Hadith that the messenger, Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

00:38:20 --> 00:38:21

said.

00:38:21 --> 00:38:24

When 3 people go out, on a trip,

00:38:25 --> 00:38:26

then let them pick 1 of them as

00:38:26 --> 00:38:27

a leader.

00:38:28 --> 00:38:30

So the idea is 3 a big number

00:38:30 --> 00:38:31

or a small number?

00:38:31 --> 00:38:34

It's small. So the smallest number that's considered

00:38:34 --> 00:38:37

a a a correct plural in the Arabic

00:38:37 --> 00:38:37

language.

00:38:38 --> 00:38:39

There's a discussion

00:38:40 --> 00:38:42

as to whether to is plural or not.

00:38:42 --> 00:38:44

Without getting into it, it's the the smallest

00:38:44 --> 00:38:46

number that without difference of opinion

00:38:47 --> 00:38:49

forms a forms a plural in Arabic language.

00:38:49 --> 00:38:50

Is

00:38:51 --> 00:38:52

a a a a

00:38:52 --> 00:38:53

trip,

00:38:53 --> 00:38:55

something that's permanent or transitory?

00:38:57 --> 00:38:59

It's transitory. It's just ephemeral. It's

00:38:59 --> 00:39:02

temporary. It's just it's for a short time.

00:39:02 --> 00:39:04

So if it's important that

00:39:05 --> 00:39:07

3 people on a trip, even them for

00:39:07 --> 00:39:09

them, it's important that they should pick someone

00:39:09 --> 00:39:11

to be in Amir. This is a sunnah.

00:39:11 --> 00:39:12

If you go out in on a trip

00:39:12 --> 00:39:14

that you should, amongst yourselves, pick someone to

00:39:14 --> 00:39:15

be an emir.

00:39:17 --> 00:39:19

Then then what about more than 3 people

00:39:19 --> 00:39:21

and what about something that's more permanent than

00:39:21 --> 00:39:22

than going out on a

00:39:23 --> 00:39:24

trip? It's even more important.

00:39:25 --> 00:39:26

Now this is the this is the problem

00:39:27 --> 00:39:29

which is what? Which is that the egos

00:39:29 --> 00:39:31

of people become so huge and intractable.

00:39:32 --> 00:39:33

Completely intractable.

00:39:34 --> 00:39:37

Nobody can accept the of anybody anymore.

00:39:38 --> 00:39:41

Parents can't accept the of their, children can't

00:39:41 --> 00:39:42

accept the of their parents anymore.

00:39:43 --> 00:39:45

Youngers can't accept the of their elders anymore.

00:39:46 --> 00:39:49

Wives cannot accept the imar of their husbands

00:39:49 --> 00:39:49

anymore.

00:39:50 --> 00:39:52

Students cannot accept the imar of their teachers

00:39:52 --> 00:39:54

anymore. Nobody can accept any anybody

00:39:55 --> 00:39:56

telling them, you can't tell me what to

00:39:56 --> 00:39:59

do. Who's the though if you nobody tells

00:39:59 --> 00:40:00

you what to do, then you're alone and

00:40:00 --> 00:40:02

you're the one that shaitan gets easiest.

00:40:03 --> 00:40:05

The people in the old days, the idea

00:40:05 --> 00:40:06

of that someone is Amir and it's a

00:40:06 --> 00:40:08

sunnah that someone's Amir, doesn't mean that that

00:40:08 --> 00:40:10

person automatically turns into some sort of infallible

00:40:10 --> 00:40:11

Nabi.

00:40:13 --> 00:40:15

The understanding is that that person is human,

00:40:15 --> 00:40:18

they are fallible, but having somebody as Amir

00:40:18 --> 00:40:20

is still the benefits outweigh the

00:40:21 --> 00:40:21

the,

00:40:22 --> 00:40:24

outweigh the the harms. Why? Because when there

00:40:24 --> 00:40:26

are 3 of you and there's Imara, then

00:40:26 --> 00:40:27

you're together.

00:40:28 --> 00:40:31

When there's no Imara, then there's 1, and

00:40:31 --> 00:40:33

then another one, and another one.

00:40:33 --> 00:40:36

There are 3 single Shaitans going together.

00:40:36 --> 00:40:38

When you have an Imara between them

00:40:39 --> 00:40:41

between you, then you're you're you're 1 Jama'ah

00:40:41 --> 00:40:42

of 3 people.

00:40:42 --> 00:40:45

When there's no Imara, then there's 3 separate

00:40:45 --> 00:40:47

shaitans that happened to be, going together with

00:40:47 --> 00:40:48

one another.

00:40:48 --> 00:40:50

This is a really, really big deal. This

00:40:50 --> 00:40:51

is a real big issue.

00:40:53 --> 00:40:55

Nobody is going to listen to this at

00:40:55 --> 00:40:57

a huge conference and there's nobody's gonna like

00:40:57 --> 00:40:58

listen to this. There are suggest the people

00:40:58 --> 00:41:00

who are here and the people who listen

00:41:00 --> 00:41:01

to it, let them listen to it.

00:41:02 --> 00:41:04

It's part of your your success as a

00:41:04 --> 00:41:06

Muslim that you should be able to accept

00:41:06 --> 00:41:08

the imar of another person even if that

00:41:08 --> 00:41:10

person doesn't seem to be the most competent

00:41:10 --> 00:41:11

or you feel like you have more hakta

00:41:11 --> 00:41:13

the Imara than them.

00:41:13 --> 00:41:15

This is not me making this up. This

00:41:15 --> 00:41:17

is who said this Rasool Allah sallallahu alaihi

00:41:17 --> 00:41:18

wa sallam.

00:41:18 --> 00:41:20

He told the Sahaba radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu that

00:41:20 --> 00:41:22

a day will come. This is a hadith

00:41:22 --> 00:41:23

narrated by Sidna,

00:41:24 --> 00:41:26

Fatadah radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu.

00:41:29 --> 00:41:30

Who was one of the heroes of the

00:41:30 --> 00:41:31

Ansari. He was like one of their tough

00:41:31 --> 00:41:33

guys in battle. He was the guy when

00:41:33 --> 00:41:35

they went for Umrah and stuff. He would

00:41:35 --> 00:41:37

not go in haram. He would go plain

00:41:37 --> 00:41:39

clothes be and he would be armed because

00:41:39 --> 00:41:40

he was a security for the caravan.

00:41:42 --> 00:41:44

He he visited Sayidina Muawiyah radiallahu anhu during

00:41:44 --> 00:41:47

his caliphate once. Imagine Muawiyah radiallahu anhu accepted

00:41:47 --> 00:41:49

Islam after the fact. The Sahaba, the Ansar,

00:41:49 --> 00:41:52

the ones who were who, like, basically built

00:41:52 --> 00:41:54

this whole thing up. The the the came

00:41:54 --> 00:41:56

to them and that's when it started. As

00:41:56 --> 00:41:58

a community, that's when Islam started as a

00:41:58 --> 00:41:59

community.

00:41:59 --> 00:42:00

They're the ones who were there from the

00:42:00 --> 00:42:03

very beginning. And so he's visiting Sayidina Alaihi

00:42:03 --> 00:42:05

Wa Ta'ala Anhu who is now Khalifa in

00:42:05 --> 00:42:05

Damascus.

00:42:06 --> 00:42:07

All of the Ansar to the

00:42:08 --> 00:42:09

alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi

00:42:09 --> 00:42:10

alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi

00:42:10 --> 00:42:11

alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi

00:42:11 --> 00:42:13

alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi alayhi

00:42:14 --> 00:42:15

al

00:42:17 --> 00:42:19

They actually visited him. So say no,

00:42:22 --> 00:42:24

said he said that how come that none

00:42:24 --> 00:42:26

of Ansar come and visit me? And so,

00:42:26 --> 00:42:28

Abu Kata says, because we don't have any

00:42:28 --> 00:42:29

camels. So what happened to your camels? He

00:42:29 --> 00:42:30

said, they got tired.

00:42:31 --> 00:42:32

He said, why why did they get tired?

00:42:32 --> 00:42:34

They said, they got tired chasing your father

00:42:34 --> 00:42:36

first and then chasing you afterward.

00:42:36 --> 00:42:39

They're all out of commission now. And so

00:42:39 --> 00:42:40

is

00:42:40 --> 00:42:41

like an absolute ruler. He could put him

00:42:41 --> 00:42:43

to death for that, but that's not the

00:42:43 --> 00:42:44

kind of person he was. The way he

00:42:44 --> 00:42:46

dealt with his enemies, if you read the

00:42:46 --> 00:42:47

history and things like that, the way he

00:42:47 --> 00:42:49

used to dealt with deal with his adversaries,

00:42:49 --> 00:42:51

you just give them money, keep by giving

00:42:51 --> 00:42:53

them more and more money and, gifts and

00:42:53 --> 00:42:55

things like that until they felt ashamed to

00:42:55 --> 00:42:57

oppose him. It's a very successful technique and

00:42:57 --> 00:42:59

it's actually cheaper than fighting a war, in

00:42:59 --> 00:43:00

many cases.

00:43:01 --> 00:43:02

So what happens is that that,

00:43:03 --> 00:43:05

he he says to me, so I'll tell

00:43:05 --> 00:43:07

you something else. Abu Khattala says to

00:43:08 --> 00:43:10

I heard the messenger of Allah

00:43:11 --> 00:43:12

say that,

00:43:12 --> 00:43:14

one day, this affair, the leadership of the

00:43:14 --> 00:43:16

Umma, meaning, this this affair will be put

00:43:16 --> 00:43:18

in the hands of people who don't deserve

00:43:18 --> 00:43:20

it. Meaning that there will be people who

00:43:20 --> 00:43:22

are more deserving than them. What is he

00:43:22 --> 00:43:24

saying? Is that we were here from the

00:43:24 --> 00:43:25

beginning. How come you're ruling right now?

00:43:27 --> 00:43:28

It was with respect. It's like they took

00:43:28 --> 00:43:30

Bea with him. They accepted his Imara.

00:43:31 --> 00:43:32

But he was telling him that that we're

00:43:32 --> 00:43:34

the ones who are doing this thing from

00:43:34 --> 00:43:37

day 1. And like, look, interesting how you

00:43:37 --> 00:43:38

now you're Khalifa.

00:43:38 --> 00:43:39

What did he say? He didn't say it

00:43:39 --> 00:43:41

like that bluntly. He said what? He said

00:43:41 --> 00:43:42

that I heard the messenger of Allah Sallallahu

00:43:43 --> 00:43:45

Alaihi Salam say, a day will come where

00:43:45 --> 00:43:47

this affair will be in the hands of

00:43:47 --> 00:43:48

the people who don't deserve

00:43:48 --> 00:43:50

it. And then say them, what did he

00:43:50 --> 00:43:50

say?

00:43:52 --> 00:43:53

Well, that's what you think. That's your opinion.

00:43:53 --> 00:43:54

No.

00:43:54 --> 00:43:56

What did he say? He said, what did

00:43:56 --> 00:43:57

Rasulullah

00:43:57 --> 00:43:58

say then? What should do we do? What

00:43:58 --> 00:44:00

should you do when when you see that

00:44:00 --> 00:44:01

day?

00:44:01 --> 00:44:02

He said that he told us to have

00:44:02 --> 00:44:03

patience.

00:44:04 --> 00:44:06

And, then said the said then have patience.

00:44:08 --> 00:44:09

Meaning what?

00:44:10 --> 00:44:12

Rasool Allah didn't say no. The now the

00:44:12 --> 00:44:14

revolution is gonna go down and we're gonna

00:44:14 --> 00:44:15

paint the town red and it's gonna be

00:44:15 --> 00:44:17

red October and god knows what and, you

00:44:17 --> 00:44:18

know, no.

00:44:19 --> 00:44:20

He he says follow the Amir, the Imara

00:44:20 --> 00:44:22

is there as long as it's there, follow

00:44:22 --> 00:44:23

it. As long as they don't call you

00:44:23 --> 00:44:25

to open kufra or abandon the prayer or

00:44:25 --> 00:44:25

whatever.

00:44:26 --> 00:44:28

Why? Because it's obvious to everybody this is

00:44:28 --> 00:44:30

not the optimum situation,

00:44:30 --> 00:44:32

but it's still better than than the chaos

00:44:32 --> 00:44:34

where everybody their their unity breaks up and

00:44:34 --> 00:44:36

everyone just becomes shayat in on their own.

00:44:37 --> 00:44:37

So

00:44:38 --> 00:44:39

this is the pro this is one of

00:44:39 --> 00:44:41

the problems that we have nowadays. Okay?

00:44:41 --> 00:44:42

What is the Farangi's,

00:44:43 --> 00:44:43

like,

00:44:44 --> 00:44:45

method of

00:44:45 --> 00:44:48

destroying every place that he comes to?

00:44:49 --> 00:44:51

It's divide and conquer. Playing people off against

00:44:51 --> 00:44:54

one another and divide and conquer. Mathematically, what's

00:44:54 --> 00:44:55

the logical

00:44:55 --> 00:44:58

via the extreme form of divide and conquer?

00:45:01 --> 00:45:04

How's the maximum you can divide people up

00:45:04 --> 00:45:04

into?

00:45:05 --> 00:45:05

Individualism.

00:45:07 --> 00:45:08

I guess you could cut people into pieces

00:45:08 --> 00:45:10

as well, but then there's nothing to rule

00:45:10 --> 00:45:12

anymore. Who's gonna earn money so that, you

00:45:12 --> 00:45:14

know, your corporation can get a tax break

00:45:14 --> 00:45:16

afterward? Who's gonna buy your goods afterward. Right?

00:45:16 --> 00:45:18

So you can't just kill people. The maximum

00:45:18 --> 00:45:20

you can divide them up is into individuals.

00:45:20 --> 00:45:23

This is listen to everybody very carefully.

00:45:23 --> 00:45:25

This is why individualism is pushed down your

00:45:25 --> 00:45:27

throat. It's not because of freedom. It's not

00:45:27 --> 00:45:29

because of liberty. It's not because of the

00:45:29 --> 00:45:31

pursuit of happiness. It's not because of any

00:45:31 --> 00:45:31

of those things.

00:45:32 --> 00:45:34

It's what? It is the logical extent of

00:45:34 --> 00:45:35

divide and conquer.

00:45:36 --> 00:45:38

When no two people and every person's becomes

00:45:39 --> 00:45:41

so indomitable, so, like, irascible,

00:45:42 --> 00:45:43

so intractable

00:45:43 --> 00:45:45

that no 2 people can agree with one

00:45:45 --> 00:45:47

another, that nobody, even husband and wife, can't

00:45:47 --> 00:45:49

can't agree with one another.

00:45:50 --> 00:45:52

Right? People who should love each other can't

00:45:52 --> 00:45:54

can't, like, compromise and get over their their

00:45:54 --> 00:45:56

issues, then what happens?

00:45:56 --> 00:45:57

Right? When

00:45:58 --> 00:46:00

children, you know, like, they can't get over

00:46:00 --> 00:46:01

I mean, do you guys agree with everything

00:46:01 --> 00:46:04

I say? No. Right? But we get along.

00:46:04 --> 00:46:04

Right?

00:46:05 --> 00:46:07

Why? Because we're a family. If we didn't

00:46:07 --> 00:46:08

get along, it would be horrible.

00:46:11 --> 00:46:13

She's honest kid, Michelle. She she's like, yeah.

00:46:13 --> 00:46:15

Sometimes Baba says stuff and I'm like, what's

00:46:15 --> 00:46:16

that all about? Right? But the thing is

00:46:16 --> 00:46:19

that the if everybody if no 2 people

00:46:19 --> 00:46:21

literally no 2 people can get along with

00:46:21 --> 00:46:23

one another, then what happens?

00:46:24 --> 00:46:25

Then the entire poem becomes a victim.

00:46:27 --> 00:46:29

This is what it's a it's not about

00:46:29 --> 00:46:31

it's so it's like, oh, look. He's bringing

00:46:31 --> 00:46:32

his, like, weird patriarchal

00:46:32 --> 00:46:35

backwards stone age thinking that's gonna make us

00:46:35 --> 00:46:36

all become slaves to,

00:46:37 --> 00:46:39

you know, some mullah somewhere and whatever. Trust

00:46:39 --> 00:46:41

me, the days when people were slaves to

00:46:41 --> 00:46:43

some mullah somewhere, that's when the Ummah used

00:46:43 --> 00:46:44

to have some respect. People used to have

00:46:44 --> 00:46:46

a good time. They they lived a very

00:46:46 --> 00:46:48

beautiful life in those days. Right? What you

00:46:48 --> 00:46:50

what you demonize like that, it wasn't that

00:46:50 --> 00:46:52

bad. It was actually it was much better

00:46:52 --> 00:46:55

than look at now everybody's an individual and

00:46:55 --> 00:46:57

educated and whatever. And the Baghdad isn't the

00:46:57 --> 00:46:58

Baghdad that used to be.

00:46:59 --> 00:47:01

And the Damascus isn't the Damascus that it

00:47:01 --> 00:47:02

used to be. The Cairo isn't the Cairo

00:47:02 --> 00:47:03

that it used to be. The Lahore is

00:47:03 --> 00:47:05

not the same. Lahore it used to be.

00:47:06 --> 00:47:08

Right? These place Dili is not the same

00:47:08 --> 00:47:10

Dili that it used to be. Why? Because

00:47:10 --> 00:47:12

people can't get along with one another.

00:47:12 --> 00:47:14

They hate each other. They they they they

00:47:14 --> 00:47:16

they only thing more intense than their hate

00:47:16 --> 00:47:17

for each other is their love for their

00:47:17 --> 00:47:19

own nafs. How is anyone gonna go anywhere

00:47:19 --> 00:47:20

with it? Whereas,

00:47:20 --> 00:47:22

Rasulullah said, this is one thing, I

00:47:23 --> 00:47:24

hand it to the.

00:47:25 --> 00:47:27

There's been some hiccups lately. I don't wanna

00:47:27 --> 00:47:29

get into it. But the point is, at

00:47:29 --> 00:47:31

least with the small jamat that goes from

00:47:31 --> 00:47:32

your local masjid.

00:47:32 --> 00:47:32

Right?

00:47:33 --> 00:47:33

As

00:47:34 --> 00:47:35

much as they may not win the Imam

00:47:35 --> 00:47:39

Ghazali and Fakhruddin Razi award for, like, sophistication

00:47:39 --> 00:47:40

and, like, intellectual,

00:47:40 --> 00:47:42

Islam or whatever. Right?

00:47:43 --> 00:47:45

When you're going on Jamat from, like, MSI

00:47:45 --> 00:47:48

to Villa Park or whatever, imagine if they

00:47:48 --> 00:47:49

let the Jamats into Villa Park. Right? If

00:47:49 --> 00:47:51

when you're going on Jamat from MSI to

00:47:51 --> 00:47:51

Villa Park,

00:47:52 --> 00:47:55

and there's, like, 5 of you, Farhan and

00:47:55 --> 00:47:56

Ishma Humayun and

00:47:59 --> 00:48:02

Shahir. Sorry. And and and Rafa and and

00:48:02 --> 00:48:02

and,

00:48:04 --> 00:48:05

Abdullah. Right?

00:48:06 --> 00:48:08

Look, it's so it's Vanessa is so annihilated.

00:48:08 --> 00:48:09

He doesn't even recognize his own name. Right?

00:48:09 --> 00:48:12

Abdullah. Right? So when the 5 of you

00:48:12 --> 00:48:14

are going on Jamat together, you're literally gonna

00:48:14 --> 00:48:17

drive for, like, 7 minutes, 9 minutes, 11

00:48:17 --> 00:48:19

minutes, or something like that.

00:48:19 --> 00:48:21

What is it? You pick someone who's Amir.

00:48:22 --> 00:48:24

They pick Rafa. Man, what is Rafay gonna

00:48:24 --> 00:48:26

tell them in those 9 minutes to do?

00:48:29 --> 00:48:30

What if he says go kill yourselves? It's

00:48:30 --> 00:48:33

haram. Already the sharia has a fail safe.

00:48:34 --> 00:48:37

You can't obey the the the the the

00:48:37 --> 00:48:39

creation and and the disobedience of the creator.

00:48:39 --> 00:48:41

Kill yourself as haram. We're not gonna do

00:48:41 --> 00:48:42

that. And but you're still Amir, but we're

00:48:42 --> 00:48:44

not gonna do that. Okay.

00:48:45 --> 00:48:47

We're gonna fill up gas from Chevron instead

00:48:47 --> 00:48:48

of from Shell.

00:48:49 --> 00:48:52

But Chevron, it's, like, 2¢ more expensive, and

00:48:52 --> 00:48:54

it sells Aquafina, whereas I like to buy

00:48:54 --> 00:48:55

the Dasani water.

00:48:55 --> 00:48:58

What is someone gonna die from that? What's

00:48:58 --> 00:48:58

gonna happen?

00:48:59 --> 00:49:02

Literally, it's there's almost no harm that could

00:49:02 --> 00:49:03

happen from it.

00:49:05 --> 00:49:06

Most of the time, no harm, but the

00:49:06 --> 00:49:09

benefit what's the benefit? When you're together, the

00:49:09 --> 00:49:11

worldly benefits aside, the from Allah subhanahu wa,

00:49:11 --> 00:49:14

that's a big benefit. Just the fact that

00:49:14 --> 00:49:15

the rest of them were prepared in their

00:49:15 --> 00:49:18

heart and in their mind that that I'm

00:49:18 --> 00:49:20

gonna step on my and I'm gonna follow

00:49:20 --> 00:49:22

our Amir because this is the the the

00:49:22 --> 00:49:25

the happiness of Allah and the, the of

00:49:25 --> 00:49:27

Allah is in this in this act.

00:49:28 --> 00:49:30

That Allah Ta'ala will be with me, Allah

00:49:30 --> 00:49:32

Ta'ala has realized in this act.

00:49:32 --> 00:49:34

It's not about doing it. Allah Subhanahu Wa

00:49:34 --> 00:49:36

Ta'ala asked Ibrahim Alaihi Salam to sacrifice Sayed

00:49:36 --> 00:49:38

Ishmael Alayhi Salaam. Did he actually make him

00:49:38 --> 00:49:39

kill him?

00:49:40 --> 00:49:42

No. But the fact that he was ready

00:49:42 --> 00:49:43

to do so, that he passed the test,

00:49:44 --> 00:49:45

That's it. That people should be ready inside

00:49:45 --> 00:49:47

of their hearts. That's why we have teachers,

00:49:47 --> 00:49:50

we have our elders, we respect them. Someone

00:49:50 --> 00:49:51

said, well, what what if someone, you know,

00:49:51 --> 00:49:54

abuses their authority? Okay. And, if they're abusing

00:49:54 --> 00:49:56

it, then we can talk about it.

00:49:56 --> 00:49:57

The idea is that

00:49:58 --> 00:50:00

one thing is if they abused authority, like,

00:50:00 --> 00:50:02

you can talk about, okay, let's, you know,

00:50:02 --> 00:50:03

like, wait for Rafay to, you know, go

00:50:03 --> 00:50:04

to the bathroom and we'll just jump in

00:50:04 --> 00:50:05

the van and take off.

00:50:06 --> 00:50:09

That's, like, that's a problem still. There's still

00:50:09 --> 00:50:11

oftentimes, people want to, like, rebel beef when

00:50:11 --> 00:50:13

there's still remedies that are that that are

00:50:13 --> 00:50:15

to be had if people are calmed.

00:50:15 --> 00:50:17

What about us now? We're not even we're

00:50:17 --> 00:50:19

not even, like, ready to entertain the possibility

00:50:20 --> 00:50:21

that anybody else will have any sort of

00:50:21 --> 00:50:24

Imada over us in the first place.

00:50:26 --> 00:50:28

This is one of those things, you know,

00:50:28 --> 00:50:30

you can read a 1,000 books about Islam

00:50:30 --> 00:50:31

until you practice these things in the of

00:50:31 --> 00:50:33

the, you'll never understand what they mean.

00:50:34 --> 00:50:36

You can read a 1,000 books about Sufism

00:50:36 --> 00:50:38

until you actually sit in the of the.

00:50:38 --> 00:50:40

When you read a book about Sufism, it's

00:50:40 --> 00:50:41

like King Arthur in Camelot

00:50:42 --> 00:50:45

and, you know, unicorns and wonderful book things

00:50:45 --> 00:50:47

about miracles and everybody's wonderful and it's nice.

00:50:47 --> 00:50:49

When you're actually in the Hanukkah getting dressed,

00:50:49 --> 00:50:52

drilled down by the by the the Nazim

00:50:52 --> 00:50:54

and, like, you know, you want you're still

00:50:54 --> 00:50:56

hungry and, like, they took the food away

00:50:56 --> 00:50:56

and whatever,

00:50:57 --> 00:50:58

then you're like, wow.

00:50:58 --> 00:51:00

This is a lot more, real than than

00:51:00 --> 00:51:02

we thought it was supposed to be. But

00:51:02 --> 00:51:04

the barakah is in the realness. The barakah

00:51:04 --> 00:51:05

is not in, like, you know, like, whatever

00:51:05 --> 00:51:07

some sort of Lord of the Rings out

00:51:07 --> 00:51:09

version of of of Islam.

00:51:09 --> 00:51:11

Because that doesn't exist. It never existed.

00:51:12 --> 00:51:13

You thought of it in a certain way.

00:51:13 --> 00:51:15

It doesn't exist that way. This is a

00:51:15 --> 00:51:17

thing people should practice these things.

00:51:17 --> 00:51:19

You know? Just accept that fact that that

00:51:19 --> 00:51:21

that one person even if it's the person

00:51:21 --> 00:51:23

you detest the most, that the the the

00:51:23 --> 00:51:26

of Allah is in being together and being

00:51:26 --> 00:51:28

together, the sign of the togetherness of a

00:51:28 --> 00:51:30

people is that they have that when they

00:51:30 --> 00:51:32

move, they move as one. And the right

00:51:32 --> 00:51:34

of a emir is that he should be

00:51:34 --> 00:51:35

obeyed and the right of the Mamur, the

00:51:35 --> 00:51:37

people who, are under the emirs that they

00:51:37 --> 00:51:39

should be listened to.

00:51:39 --> 00:51:41

All of these things we've forgotten how to

00:51:41 --> 00:51:43

do them. So someone becomes boss at work.

00:51:43 --> 00:51:45

Why? Because I have the money, I own

00:51:45 --> 00:51:46

the company. Or because I'm the one who

00:51:46 --> 00:51:47

got the raise, I'm the one who got

00:51:47 --> 00:51:49

the promotion. They don't even listen to people

00:51:49 --> 00:51:52

at work. Consequence, everyone at work hates them.

00:51:52 --> 00:51:54

If the unit fails, it fails together.

00:51:55 --> 00:51:57

If the business fails, everybody's out of a

00:51:57 --> 00:51:57

job.

00:51:58 --> 00:52:00

There's adab on the other side too. You

00:52:00 --> 00:52:02

should listen. Parents, you should listen to your

00:52:02 --> 00:52:02

children.

00:52:03 --> 00:52:04

Husbands, you should listen to your wives.

00:52:05 --> 00:52:06

Like, not just like, yeah. Yeah. Okay. Are

00:52:06 --> 00:52:07

you done yet? But, like, no. Actually, like,

00:52:07 --> 00:52:09

listen and think about it before making a

00:52:09 --> 00:52:11

decision. You don't have to give an answer

00:52:11 --> 00:52:13

today. You can give one tomorrow or, like,

00:52:13 --> 00:52:14

in 2, 3 days.

00:52:14 --> 00:52:16

People don't. Nobody the people, once they're on

00:52:16 --> 00:52:18

top, you know, once they're on the bottom,

00:52:18 --> 00:52:20

it's all about the revolution. Once they're on

00:52:20 --> 00:52:21

top, it's all about,

00:52:22 --> 00:52:23

you know, like, I earned this, I deserve

00:52:23 --> 00:52:25

this, and, like, everybody else is jealous of

00:52:25 --> 00:52:28

me. This is all, like, super, like, nafs,

00:52:29 --> 00:52:31

gotten out of control. So what did Rasulullah

00:52:32 --> 00:52:34

says that said he said that that,

00:52:35 --> 00:52:37

the 3 that that that that

00:52:37 --> 00:52:39

that if you 3 people go out on

00:52:39 --> 00:52:40

a journey,

00:52:40 --> 00:52:41

then let them

00:52:42 --> 00:52:44

choose one of them, as an Amir.

00:52:44 --> 00:52:45

And

00:52:46 --> 00:52:48

if it's more than 3 people or if

00:52:48 --> 00:52:50

it's something more permanent than a journey than

00:52:50 --> 00:52:51

they should,

00:52:51 --> 00:52:53

they should they should then also have a

00:52:53 --> 00:52:54

leader.

00:52:57 --> 00:52:58

This is one thing very I'll be honest

00:52:58 --> 00:53:00

with you. This is something I've it hurts

00:53:00 --> 00:53:01

me inside.

00:53:01 --> 00:53:03

And I'm not I'm not, like, saying it

00:53:03 --> 00:53:04

out of whatever.

00:53:04 --> 00:53:07

The the ulama in any place they can't

00:53:07 --> 00:53:08

get together and they can't pick in a

00:53:08 --> 00:53:09

mirror amongst themselves.

00:53:10 --> 00:53:12

It hurts me inside to say this.

00:53:13 --> 00:53:15

And inshallah, Allah give all of us tawfiq

00:53:15 --> 00:53:16

and give all of us hidayah.

00:53:16 --> 00:53:18

Because if if they did,

00:53:18 --> 00:53:21

then the people the people amongst them, anyone

00:53:21 --> 00:53:22

who had any inside of them, they would

00:53:22 --> 00:53:23

follow.

00:53:23 --> 00:53:26

It's difficult that something affected every single of

00:53:26 --> 00:53:27

society.

00:53:29 --> 00:53:31

And and, you know, they they just just

00:53:31 --> 00:53:33

can't just can't do it. We can't as

00:53:33 --> 00:53:35

a Muslim community, we can't pick if we

00:53:35 --> 00:53:37

well, if the Muslims in America, they will

00:53:37 --> 00:53:39

pick someone as an Amir.

00:53:39 --> 00:53:41

Right? Someone who at least believed in the

00:53:41 --> 00:53:42

deen. Right?

00:53:43 --> 00:53:44

And believe that the Rasulullah,

00:53:45 --> 00:53:46

what he came with was the truth and

00:53:46 --> 00:53:48

believe that what's in the Quran is true.

00:53:49 --> 00:53:51

If we and we we fall we wouldn't,

00:53:51 --> 00:53:53

as a community, get tossed around like we

00:53:53 --> 00:53:55

get tossed around. We wouldn't get, jacked like

00:53:55 --> 00:53:56

we we do from all sides.

00:53:57 --> 00:53:58

Why? Because

00:53:58 --> 00:54:01

anybody who wants anything from us, they know

00:54:01 --> 00:54:04

every single man amongst us, every single woman

00:54:04 --> 00:54:05

amongst us.

00:54:05 --> 00:54:07

There is statistically,

00:54:08 --> 00:54:10

going to be in, like, 5, 7, whatever

00:54:10 --> 00:54:12

number of 1,000,000 of people, Muslims there are

00:54:12 --> 00:54:14

in this country. There's gonna be someone who

00:54:14 --> 00:54:15

will agree with everybody.

00:54:16 --> 00:54:17

So you just sift through until you find

00:54:17 --> 00:54:19

the person who's yes. I think pink lemonade

00:54:19 --> 00:54:21

is the most important thing in Islam. And

00:54:21 --> 00:54:23

class, you give that person a $100,000

00:54:23 --> 00:54:25

a year and give them a nice stage

00:54:25 --> 00:54:27

and make a nice sounding name for their

00:54:27 --> 00:54:28

organization, the Islamic,

00:54:29 --> 00:54:31

Supreme Council of the Islamic,

00:54:31 --> 00:54:34

you know, Klingon Empire. And Khalas. That person

00:54:34 --> 00:54:36

is now the president of it. And,

00:54:37 --> 00:54:38

they'll be and they know that they can

00:54:38 --> 00:54:40

interview them on Fox News. And what will

00:54:40 --> 00:54:42

the Muslim community do? They'll be, oh, this

00:54:42 --> 00:54:44

guy was on TV. Why don't we invite

00:54:44 --> 00:54:46

them to our Masjid for the next fundraiser?

00:54:46 --> 00:54:47

Why don't we invite them to our Masjid

00:54:47 --> 00:54:48

for the next or, you know, our thing

00:54:48 --> 00:54:50

for the next conference? Why?

00:54:50 --> 00:54:52

Because we don't have any group amongst us

00:54:52 --> 00:54:53

in the 1st place that we can say,

00:54:53 --> 00:54:55

does this person even speak for us if

00:54:55 --> 00:54:56

they do not speak for us?

00:54:56 --> 00:54:58

So you have all of these talking heads,

00:54:58 --> 00:54:58

some of them utter blasphemy on social media

00:54:58 --> 00:54:59

daily. And and what happens, we accept them

00:54:59 --> 00:55:01

as on social media daily. And and what

00:55:01 --> 00:55:02

happens, we accept them as our leaders because

00:55:02 --> 00:55:03

we don't have a group in the first

00:55:03 --> 00:55:04

place. So they're not our leaders. They're just

00:55:04 --> 00:55:05

people there's, like,

00:55:08 --> 00:55:11

5,000,000 individuals. Each one represents themselves, and that

00:55:11 --> 00:55:12

person seems to have gotten the spotlight. So

00:55:12 --> 00:55:14

we think, oh, well, he's more leery than

00:55:14 --> 00:55:15

the rest of us are, so we may

00:55:15 --> 00:55:16

as well listen to what they have to

00:55:16 --> 00:55:18

say. Now they become an important person in

00:55:18 --> 00:55:19

the in the community.

00:55:20 --> 00:55:23

Whereas that's that's, you know, that's ridiculous. North

00:55:23 --> 00:55:26

Korea found an American who thought North Korea

00:55:26 --> 00:55:28

was good. Right? Dennis Rodman.

00:55:28 --> 00:55:29

I said, this is the leader of the

00:55:29 --> 00:55:32

Americans. We're gonna negotiate with him on behalf

00:55:32 --> 00:55:33

of America. Right? The government would be like,

00:55:33 --> 00:55:34

this is a joke. Right?

00:55:35 --> 00:55:36

You can have

00:55:36 --> 00:55:38

him. You can keep him. They wouldn't get

00:55:38 --> 00:55:39

anywhere.

00:55:40 --> 00:55:42

Right? They wouldn't get anywhere.

00:55:43 --> 00:55:44

Yes, ma'am? Is it is it is it

00:55:44 --> 00:55:46

this practice of assigning a mirror, is it

00:55:46 --> 00:55:48

good to to do it even with 2

00:55:48 --> 00:55:50

people so you can check your own self?

00:55:50 --> 00:55:52

I'm listening to what you're saying because sometimes

00:55:52 --> 00:55:53

we

00:55:53 --> 00:55:55

lie to ourselves. But if there's 2 of

00:55:55 --> 00:55:57

us, 2 sisters, is it best to just

00:55:57 --> 00:55:59

go the extra mile to just have 1

00:55:59 --> 00:56:01

leader over if we're traveling together? With with

00:56:01 --> 00:56:04

2 people, generally, the adab is that your

00:56:04 --> 00:56:05

companions, that you just look out for each

00:56:05 --> 00:56:07

other. Okay.

00:56:08 --> 00:56:09

That that much,

00:56:09 --> 00:56:11

you know, you just look out because it

00:56:11 --> 00:56:13

becomes overbearing then. There's checks and balances. If

00:56:13 --> 00:56:15

there's one person's a mirror and 2 aren't,

00:56:15 --> 00:56:17

then, like, you know, the person who's giving

00:56:17 --> 00:56:19

the commands is cognizant that, like, you know,

00:56:19 --> 00:56:21

if the command becomes too ludicrous, I can

00:56:21 --> 00:56:21

be over overwhelmed.

00:56:22 --> 00:56:24

But, yeah, 2 people, the adab is you

00:56:24 --> 00:56:26

just look out for each other show concern

00:56:26 --> 00:56:27

for one another.

00:56:27 --> 00:56:29

So the last hadith in the Bab Insha'Allah.

00:56:35 --> 00:56:37

And this hadith is awesome. This hadith, like,

00:56:37 --> 00:56:38

it's

00:56:39 --> 00:56:39

a

00:56:40 --> 00:56:42

person, Iman, should come into their into their

00:56:42 --> 00:56:44

heart and flow through their veins when they

00:56:45 --> 00:56:46

hear it.

00:57:04 --> 00:57:06

And this is a glad great glad tidings

00:57:06 --> 00:57:07

for people. Anyone who wants to do something

00:57:07 --> 00:57:09

in the path of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,

00:57:09 --> 00:57:11

the help of Allah Ta'ala is there for

00:57:11 --> 00:57:12

you. The prophet

00:57:13 --> 00:57:15

said, the best companions

00:57:15 --> 00:57:16

are 4.

00:57:16 --> 00:57:18

If you wanna do something, get 4 of

00:57:18 --> 00:57:20

you together and and do it. InshaAllah. The

00:57:20 --> 00:57:22

help of Allah will be with you. And

00:57:22 --> 00:57:23

the best detachments are 400.

00:57:24 --> 00:57:26

Right? If you have some big project that

00:57:26 --> 00:57:28

you want you want big task, if 400

00:57:28 --> 00:57:29

of you are on the same page, the

00:57:29 --> 00:57:31

help of Allah Ta'ala is with you. And

00:57:31 --> 00:57:33

the best of armies are 4,000.

00:57:33 --> 00:57:36

And Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wassalam said 12,000,

00:57:36 --> 00:57:40

believers, 12,000 people of the ilaha illallah, they'll

00:57:40 --> 00:57:42

never get together and do anything and failed

00:57:42 --> 00:57:43

because of lack of numbers.

00:57:44 --> 00:57:46

If they fail, it's gonna it's gonna be

00:57:46 --> 00:57:48

because of lack of sincerity or lack of

00:57:48 --> 00:57:48

obedience,

00:57:49 --> 00:57:50

to Allah

00:57:51 --> 00:57:53

or because something else was better for them.

00:57:53 --> 00:57:56

But 12,000 people will never get together and

00:57:56 --> 00:57:59

be frustrated from whatever they they're doing because

00:57:59 --> 00:58:00

of lack of numbers or means.

00:58:01 --> 00:58:03

Dude, there's like 12,000 Muslims in Chicago.

00:58:06 --> 00:58:06

The problem is

00:58:07 --> 00:58:09

and they all eat Giro Biryani but they

00:58:09 --> 00:58:09

can't

00:58:10 --> 00:58:12

agree on which Giro Biryani they want. So,

00:58:13 --> 00:58:15

you know, enjoy yourself. Keep doing doing what

00:58:15 --> 00:58:16

what we're doing and, like, see how far

00:58:16 --> 00:58:17

it goes.

00:58:17 --> 00:58:19

Otherwise, it's not like a huge number of

00:58:19 --> 00:58:19

people.

00:58:20 --> 00:58:22

And that's something that we need to do

00:58:22 --> 00:58:24

if nothing else, if everyone is intractable, if

00:58:24 --> 00:58:26

every man hates his neighbor,

00:58:26 --> 00:58:28

you know, have kids, teach your kids, you

00:58:28 --> 00:58:30

know, teach your 2 boys, love one another,

00:58:31 --> 00:58:33

they'll become 12,000 soon enough.

00:58:33 --> 00:58:35

You know what I mean? Whatever you can

00:58:35 --> 00:58:37

do. And this is the thing. This the

00:58:37 --> 00:58:38

the sad part is this is that

00:58:38 --> 00:58:40

the person who learns a lesson and prepares

00:58:40 --> 00:58:41

for it,

00:58:42 --> 00:58:44

that person on the other side in the,

00:58:44 --> 00:58:45

even if you're like, yeah, I see this

00:58:45 --> 00:58:47

12,000 thing. Let's do it. And you're the

00:58:47 --> 00:58:49

only one and nobody else shows up to

00:58:49 --> 00:58:50

help you. You stick your hand out. Nobody

00:58:50 --> 00:58:52

else takes you by the hand, in order

00:58:52 --> 00:58:53

to do it. So I'm not even trying

00:58:53 --> 00:58:55

to be no Amir. I'm just there. If

00:58:55 --> 00:58:57

somebody wants to be my Amir, I'll I'll

00:58:57 --> 00:58:58

put my hand in their hand and follow

00:58:58 --> 00:59:00

them. But let's do so. Let's make the

00:59:00 --> 00:59:01

world a better place.

00:59:03 --> 00:59:05

Anything. Right? Because people always think about the

00:59:05 --> 00:59:07

caliphate and I'm just like, dude, why don't

00:59:07 --> 00:59:08

we try to make a mustard with a

00:59:08 --> 00:59:10

clean bathroom? You know, let's start with a

00:59:10 --> 00:59:12

good shoe rack and then build up from

00:59:12 --> 00:59:12

there. Right?

00:59:13 --> 00:59:15

Whoever whoever said, I'm ready. I'm ready. Whoever

00:59:15 --> 00:59:17

wants to be my Amir, I'll follow them.

00:59:17 --> 00:59:19

And nobody puts their hand out or someone

00:59:19 --> 00:59:21

puts their hand out and they're insincere.

00:59:21 --> 00:59:23

I'll be honest with you. My personal

00:59:24 --> 00:59:26

personal experience is like that that I always

00:59:26 --> 00:59:27

tried ever since I came back from Madrasa

00:59:27 --> 00:59:29

and very contrary to my disposition in my

00:59:29 --> 00:59:31

own, pre Madrasa training.

00:59:32 --> 00:59:33

I always tried,

00:59:34 --> 00:59:36

whenever somebody is there, if they want to

00:59:36 --> 00:59:37

be a mirror, you be a mirror. I'll

00:59:37 --> 00:59:39

just help you, and I'll work where you

00:59:39 --> 00:59:41

work for you. And many people take that

00:59:41 --> 00:59:42

as a sign of, oh, look. This is

00:59:42 --> 00:59:43

like free slave labor.

00:59:45 --> 00:59:47

Right? And this is a mas masulia. Right?

00:59:47 --> 00:59:49

It's a responsibility with Allah.

00:59:50 --> 00:59:51

Even if you stick your hand out and

00:59:51 --> 00:59:53

nobody else takes you by the hand or

00:59:53 --> 00:59:54

they take you by the hand and just

00:59:54 --> 00:59:56

waste your time and abuse you, in this

00:59:56 --> 00:59:58

world, the bad news in this world is

00:59:58 --> 00:59:59

not gonna work out.

01:00:00 --> 01:00:02

The good news is in the hereafter, you'll

01:00:02 --> 01:00:04

receive the reward of what your intention was.

01:00:04 --> 01:00:06

The thing is this world, it's it sucks

01:00:06 --> 01:00:07

to fail in this world. I'll be honest

01:00:07 --> 01:00:09

with you. It's not fun. Nobody likes it.

01:00:09 --> 01:00:10

However,

01:00:11 --> 01:00:12

the good news is that this world is

01:00:12 --> 01:00:14

only temporary and that the hereafter will last

01:00:14 --> 01:00:15

forever.

01:00:15 --> 01:00:18

So someone might say, well, all this, talk

01:00:18 --> 01:00:19

you're talking about, you know,

01:00:20 --> 01:00:20

404,012,000,

01:00:21 --> 01:00:23

all this stuff, but it's impractical. When will

01:00:23 --> 01:00:25

all these people ever get together and whatever?

01:00:25 --> 01:00:27

What I'm saying going to * forever is

01:00:27 --> 01:00:27

very impractical.

01:00:29 --> 01:00:31

So follow the sunnah of the prophet sallallahu

01:00:31 --> 01:00:32

alaihi wasallam. The dunya is like a blink

01:00:32 --> 01:00:34

of the night. When it's gone, it's gone.

01:00:34 --> 01:00:35

Nobody will be able to get it back.

01:00:36 --> 01:00:37

And the akhirah, we're all gonna be there

01:00:37 --> 01:00:38

for forever.

01:00:38 --> 01:00:40

The day of judgment is a day that

01:00:40 --> 01:00:41

started, it never ends. Allah

01:00:42 --> 01:00:43

gives so much tofir to all of us

01:00:43 --> 01:00:45

to make good decisions for ourselves in this

01:00:45 --> 01:00:47

world and the hereafter. You never know. You

01:00:47 --> 01:00:49

know, sometimes you you try something and you

01:00:49 --> 01:00:51

ask Allah for his help and, like, you

01:00:51 --> 01:00:53

yourself are surprised how how did this ever

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happen?

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How did the help of Allah to ever

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come? We never thought this was gonna make

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it anywhere. We just said we're gonna do

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this for the sake of Allah, of his

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Mahaba, and look where it got.

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Uh-uh.

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You know, and a person should be never

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surprised by the help of

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Allah. It's done greater things than, you know,

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stuff that we're trying to do. Allah to

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give all of us so much tawfiq,

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