Hamzah Wald Maqbul – Riyd alSlihn The Prohibition of Backbiting II Ribt 09102023

Hamzah Wald Maqbul
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The speakers discuss the importance of reading hadiths and giving small amounts of money to see a change in spiritual path. They stress the need for individuals to not hold back from others and give what they have. The speakers also emphasize the importance of acknowledging the need to be an authority and not just to avoid causing issues, and the use of language in documentaries and political movements. They stress the importance of valuing oneself and not just treating others with a different standard.
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This is like, amazing. These are like

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the I'm having, like, mishkatul Masabi flashbacks

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from from from Madrasa, which by the way,

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this young man's grandfather teaching online. I don't

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know if it's too late to sign up

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for it, but you should sign up. Amazing

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class. I know a lot of people here

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are,

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you know,

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you're somewhat on your way in your your,

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study of ill.

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And,

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maybe you're here just, like, you know, for

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some

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on a Sunday afternoon

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or,

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because you like or for the or whatever.

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But,

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these are those things,

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the hadith of the prophet

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all of it is the pure light from

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the heart of

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and it's bound up in these books.

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And so reading this hadith again after so

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many years,

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it reminds me of that

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that that that pure

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and pleasant

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experience

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that the messenger of Allah

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sometimes in certain hadith

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of his that are not all that long

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binds up so much meaning, so much understanding,

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and in particular, the meaning and understanding that

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people are are missing, they're lacking.

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Because the prophet is

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to many people like a personal

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do it yourself construction project that they make

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up and they'll be in their mind and

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then they they venerate that

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or they say that's their Rasool Sallallahu Alaihi

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Wasallam. Whereas the actual Rasool Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,

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the things he used to do and say

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are recorded in the books.

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There's no person in the Muslim world,

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unless they,

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unless they are

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extremely good at

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being quiet and not saying a word

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for their own safety.

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There's nobody who doesn't love the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wasallam. There are many people who have

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no idea who he is sallallahu alaihi wasallam.

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There are people prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

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they would say no. It's just because they're

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what's in their mind, God knows what it

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is, you know,

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but it's not it doesn't resemble

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somewhere.

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At any rate, it bears some inaccuracies in

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it.

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And so what better way to know who

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the actual is

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but to read his hadith. So this is

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a hadith, a relatively short hadith, but

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it contains so much with regards to the

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deen,

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and such a comprehensive picture.

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So Sayid al Mu'adh

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who was a young man,

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he was a personal he was he was

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a young man from the Ansar. He was

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one of the authorized Quran

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teachers, from Khazraj,

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and he was one of the

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great of the companions of the.

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And notice there was there was, like,

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they're moving. They're moving.

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There was a, you know,

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a preference in political leadership for patrician nobility,

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for people from high birth, from particular tribes,

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things like that. Right? But for there isn't.

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For it's meritocracy.

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One of the reasons why why,

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there is some preference for

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for,

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patrician nobility

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to rule in politics is because

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practically, they're the ones who have the means

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to actually get things done,

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oftentimes. And if there's, like, a case in

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which that's you know, a person another person

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can get it done, then it's not itself

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a virtue to be of a particular family

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or whatever,

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or descent or lineage in order to be

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a leader, but it's impractical sometimes for some

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people not to. You'll

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see this you'll see this that the prophet

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would promote people,

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of different tribal affiliations.

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From

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that's and there he wasn't even from Quresh.

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They're like herders in Badu.

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And here you see

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who is definitely not a Qarashi.

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But,

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he reached a high.

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What does the dean venerate more, political leadership

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or knowledge?

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Knowledge. Knowledge. Rather the or a check on

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on the political

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leaders.

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So it says it says narrated from saying

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the Mu'adh ibn Jabal radiAllahu and who said,

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I said, oh, messenger of Allah,

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inform me

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of a deed that will enter me into

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paradise and will

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take me far away or distance me from

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the fire.

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He said,

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you asked about something, an enormity, something very

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enormous.

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He said, but it's

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easy for the person who Allah makes, Allah

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most high makes it easy for them.

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Worship Allah and don't

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associate with him anything.

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Establish the prayer and give zakat

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and fast

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and make Hajj of the sacred house if

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you're able to find a way to

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it.

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Then he said, shall I not inform you

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or shall not shall I not guide you

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to

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the doors of goodness?

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He said that fasting is a shield.

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It's a like a self defense mechanism. And

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this is this is

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I mean,

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it's given that this is a,

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a, a, a, this is a very practical

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method that a person can use in order

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to make the of of the nafs. You

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know, if you find yourself, I don't know,

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watching

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kitty cat videos on TikTok

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for more time than you should,

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you know, then, you know,

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fast

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the next time you do it.

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And it will deter you or, at least

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it will slow you down

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because war

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sometimes cannot be 1 in one day.

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It's a war of attrition. It's a slow

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slug.

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And so what did the messenger

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said?

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The fasting is like a shield. So people

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should use it like that.

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People should use it like that. Like, even

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though it's not Ramadan and it's not Ashura

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or whatever,

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but you can fast other days as well

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and use it as a shield to protect

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yourself from all sorts of bad things like

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kitty cat videos.

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And you've this is the the fasting is

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a shield. And,

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giving charity extinguishes a sin like water extinguishes

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fire.

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This is one of the screwed up things

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about,

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our the way our life is modeled right

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now. So we don't have anybody to give

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to.

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Or we do, but we

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turn our noses up because of our Protestant

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sensibilities.

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But Martin Luther isn't the imam,

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nor is John Calvin,

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nor are any of the other,

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cast of characters,

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from

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Kenneth Copeland,

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who literally, if you watch videos of it,

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looks like he's suffers from demon possessions. There

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are moments in which you can literally see

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the tajalli of shaitan coming through the man's

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face

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or, you know, whatever. There's all sorts of

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options. You know? You're the bishop, like, honorable

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bishop whatever whatever

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from the Mount Zion Tabernacle of the

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Holy, Jesus Christ of the Hebrew

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National,

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whatever,

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church,

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just up the street in Maywood.

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All of it. None of them are imams.

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In their deen, it's

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poor people are like a blight, and giving

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to them is not good. You should give

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your money to rich people.

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Shouldn't give your money to poor people because

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rich people are virtuous

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and poor people are the scum of the

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earth.

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Whereas in the Muslim world, that's like a

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cool thing. Like, people you don't have to

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give, like you don't have to write a

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check for, like, $500 when it's, like, someone

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asks you for something. Someone will take out,

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like, whatever,

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5 rupee or 10 rupee note. It

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was I mean, like, I'm

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the Pakistan in my mind is, like, before

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significant amounts of inflation. So whatever the equivalent

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of that is now. Right?

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But, yeah,

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is great. It's wonderful. A person should give

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it. A person should give it. And the

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thing is, like, everybody loves their money. Right?

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So that means they're giving you a small

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amount. It's not gonna, like, quote unquote, change

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the world, but it does mean something with

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Allah to Allah. So the messenger of Allah

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is saying that the saddukha

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extinguishes sin like water, extinguishes fire.

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So that's that's good. That's great. If the

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fasting isn't like a total,

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a total solution to your problems or whatever,

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then give money just like a military has,

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like, you know, in the old days, they

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used to have a cavalry, and

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they had infantry, and they had artillery, and

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they had archers and they had this and

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that.

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That these are all different methods a person

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can employ upon the spiritual path giving salatized,

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like, very heavy firepower.

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And, the the weirdest thing weirdest thing, nobody

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wants to give to another person. Everybody wants

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to give to a building.

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If Allah cared about the brick that your

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mustard is made out of so much,

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Why would he send floods that destroy even

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the granite stone blocks that the Kaaba is

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made of?

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But more beloved to Allah is people, and

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nobody wants to spend a dime on anybody

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else.

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And, you know, nobody wants to forget about

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the imam, the Masjid Musking, he's gonna suffer

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because he's going to Jannah. That's okay. We've,

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like, written him off. Right? Your own relatives,

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your own poor relatives,

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your own relatives that are struggling. Salaka can

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be that as well. Right?

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Your own poor relatives ask for something,

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even the ones that you don't like. In

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fact, the less you like the relatives, it's

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quite possible, the more we're gonna get forgetting

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to them. Right?

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So, like, you know, give money to people.

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It's good. It's a really good thing. And

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this is one of the things we don't

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have beggars over here because, you know, prosperity

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gospel has criminalized begging.

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And begging is definitely not a good thing,

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but if a person needs to,

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the Sharia allows for it. So the fact

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that, you know, you can't criminalize necessity, that's

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just kind of part of life. So there

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are some people in in in society that

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need,

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and so, you know, you should give to

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them.

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You should not hold back from them.

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You should give to them, and you don't

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have to break the bank. Just give what

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you have. Have. And, if they, like, roll

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their eyes at you because what you gave

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them is not, you know,

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enough to make them happy or whatever,

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then,

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you know, you're not giving for them. You're

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giving for Allah. They say they say the

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used

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to perfume the coins,

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that you'd give to the beggars. And so

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someone asked, like, why do you do that?

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They're just gonna spend it on something. So

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I'm not doing it for them.

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Rather, this is this is the my my

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way of showing love to Allah who I'm

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giving it for.

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And the prayer of, man in the belly

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of the night,

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thank God for desperation. If it wasn't for

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desperation, a lot of people would never even

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know what Tahajjud

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is. And if you're desperate, then maybe you

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should try it too.

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Big things happen because

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and it gets old after a while.

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Like, you have problems in your life, and

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you're like, oh, the sky is falling. And

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then what happens the next day, your problems

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get solved.

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And then the next time you have a

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problem, then you feel like the sky is

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it gets old after a while. Allah takes

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care of people.

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And even even even when you die, you

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only die once.

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So, let a person,

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go to

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the salat in the middle of the night

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and ask Allah for

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for for his needs. Allah gives.

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Then,

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read the ayats from Surat Sajdah,

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that that they're the people who separate their

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sides from their beds,

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to the end of the ayat.

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Then he says, shall I not

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inform you of

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the head

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of this entire affair and the pillars that

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support it and the the pinnacle of it.

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The is

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what?

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Is the,

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the

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the the part of the camel which is

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the top of the hump, the highest part

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of the camel, the apex.

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Right? So the head is one thing and

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the is the apex, the the highest part.

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Although, I guess, theoretically,

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like,

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a camel could flex its neck and stick

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its nose above its hump, maybe. I don't

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know. But at any rate, the head is

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one thing, and then the the hump is

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the the apex, the highest part of it.

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So

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you wanna know what is deen? Right?

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Well, some organizations

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spend money, price the cop money

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to put put, like, posters on the side

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of the bus,

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you know, talking about what is Islam to

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me. Okay. The prophet now it's your turn

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to share. What does Islam mean to you?

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Right?

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So you can judge which one is more

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important to you than the other. He says,

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does shall I not inform you what the

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head of the affair is and what pillars,

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what pillars it rests upon and what its

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apex is.

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And said,

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indeed, oh messenger of Allah.

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He said,

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the head of the affairs, Islam, meaning what?

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Meaning that a person should submit to Allah

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Ta'ala,

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and in particular, meaning that a person should

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rigorously implement the dictates of the Sharia,

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upon themselves outwardly.

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And the pillars

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upon which

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it rests is the prayer itself.

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Without the prayer, all the rest of it

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is meaningless,

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literally meaningless.

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I don't know. I guess I feel like

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a broken record because when I say it,

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everyone's looking at me like, okay, of course.

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But I grew up in a house where

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the prayer was completely wasted, and that never

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occurred to anybody that, like, somehow you're not

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a Muslim, a proper Muslim for this.

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So there are people like that out there.

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So they should be reminded,

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just as I was reminded at one time.

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May Allah bless the ones who

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reminded me and send salat and salams on

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his prophet

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says that the pillars upon which it rests

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is the salat and

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the

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apex is jihad.

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And so this is this is I mean,

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this is also important. Although it's not the

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Bible you have, you already passed that

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from before.

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But, this is one reason I feel like

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it's like a real problem,

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and it's a real,

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problem in people's,

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saluk

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that they don't acknowledge what this is,

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that they don't understand what this is. Tell

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me something. Someone is a Sufi. Like, I

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believe in, you know, being a good person

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to everybody. Right? What better person is there

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to everybody than the person who, like, leaves

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his house,

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and puts his own wealth and his own

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life in danger

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in order to make the

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supreme and bring justice to those people who

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have no justice

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and to repel oppression from those people who

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are yoked in slavery

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and to,

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make the world a better place.

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If that's not spiritual,

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then all the rest of your spiritual is

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all like Walmart made in China.

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Spirituality.

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And it's gonna give you cancer, and it's

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disgusting, and I don't want any of it.

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Otherwise, there's no more Sufi than the

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who with the who literally preach

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pass pacifism,

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as well as as well as, saying that

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whoever opposes the rule of the British in

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our homeland is the son of a horror

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or whatever.

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Verbatim words from a man.

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So,

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this is this is Islam. This is the

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actual Islam that the prophet

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was describing.

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Then he said, shall I not

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inform you,

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of how to how to control how to,

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like, how to how to control all of

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it, how to be, in control of all

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of it. He said, indeed, oh, messenger of

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Allah. Then the messenger of

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Allah,

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he physically took his

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tongue

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in his hand.

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He said

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afterward,

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hold

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this back,

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from from against yourself.

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I said, oh, messenger of Allah,

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will we be taken into account about things

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we say? Right? The question is, is this,

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like, really a deed? Like, okay. I didn't

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commit zina, and I didn't. But this is

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just this is just talking. Is this really,

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like, that big

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of a deal? And the messenger

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said, may your mother mourn you. Like I

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said, if you're you're like that, so may

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your mother mourn you.

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And do you think people will be, dragged,

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in the

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fire,

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on their faces,

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except for because of the harvest

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that is reaped by their tongues.

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Like, everything your tongue says is a crop

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that's planted, and then the harvest of it

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is going to either take you to the

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hellfire or it'll take you to Jannah. And

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this is this last part of the hadith

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is the of,

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of why this hadith,

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which otherwise has a number of different things

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dealt with it,

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dealt with in it, is brought here in

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the

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chapter regarding the prohibition

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of backbiting.

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But, you know, like, my sheikh,

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like, Moana Saji, Moana Hassan, he always says,

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he says that just, you know,

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just like that, like, how many horrible things

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can happen from the time. Right? Person go

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to Jahannam for,

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you know, saying dumb things. Just like that,

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the tongue is like a machine of doing

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good deeds as well. So engage it with

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the recitation of Quran and saying and saying

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nice things to people and good things to

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people, giving them good advice, etcetera.

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But, yeah, it can go really wrong if

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a person is just

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prattle,

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gossip on to you about everything all the

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time. It's not good.

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Backbiting

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is? They said, Allah and his messenger know

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best, sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. He said, mentioning

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your brother

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with that thing that he dislikes.

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It was

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said, do you not see what you say

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about,

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if what I say about my brother is

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true? It's actually a trait that's actually there

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in him, present in him.

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And he said,

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if what you say about him is,

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like you say, then you have backbitten him.

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If what you say about

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him isn't is not there, however,

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you've slandered him. Another sin.

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Mahtdan, you've you you've slandered him. It's a

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different sin. It's also haram.

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So just because something is true doesn't make

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it not not backbiting.

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And like we mentioned in the there's from

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before as well, saying, well, I say it

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to his face,

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that's

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that's,

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that's lumps. That's a different

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that's a different sin. All of them are

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sins.

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Again, there's, like, this whole, you know, fifti

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rubric about legitimate reasons to backbite. Those are

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the exception.

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Someone's like, go I'm gonna go and take

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a gun and shoot Hamza. Okay? Then you

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can go tell me about it. It's no

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longer

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backbiting or whatever. But,

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in the middle, there's a lot of stuff

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that really people don't have a legitimate interest

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in knowing there's no benefit in in knowing

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it to just transmit it here and there.

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It's not it's not good.

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In that sense, even things you know, there

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are some things that a person has a

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legitimate interest in knowing about.

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People send me all sorts of things.

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This YouTube video in which someone airs all

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their dirty laundry

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against somebody,

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and then the other person airs all their

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dirty laundry against them as well. And so

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what do you think about this sheikh? Like,

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I don't know. Why should I think about

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this? Why do I care?

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So, like, no. It's a legitimate interest. These

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people are like you know, they're imams, and

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they're this and that. If I look,

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I didn't learn fit from any of them.

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I didn't tell anybody to learn fit from

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any of them,

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a and b, the Sharia is all documented

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in books. So even if theoretically,

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to this point, it's never happened, but even

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if theoretically, the people I learned from, you

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know, when we got down in a blaze

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of scandal,

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you know, that it's not it's not them

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that I learned it from. It's the books

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and the traditions

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that's already documented.

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We're not dependent on on personalities in that

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sense.

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And I say, on top of all of

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that on top of all of that, there

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may be somebody in the world that has

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a legitimate interest of knowing some of these

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things and they can make us laugh. They

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can rectify something that's broken, whether it's breaking

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broken people's relationships, making them

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functional again, or whether it's returning,

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a a a something that somebody took without

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right from another person, or whether it's punishing

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somebody

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who has wronged another person in order to,

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restore some semblance of justice. When the *

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am I that

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guy? It's not me and it's not you.

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If it is you,

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Allah help you.

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But until it is,

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why do you care? It happens once. It'll

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happen twice. How many times does it happen

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until you you realize that you really can't

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do anything about any of it?

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If you do something about it useful, please,

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by all means, go ahead and do it.

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But there's a lot of I feel like,

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there's a lot of this kind of, like,

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fantasizing about being able to do stuff about

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things that you're not really gonna do anything

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about. So if you've already written it off,

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like, this is one of the problems of

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having too much information, which we talked about

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yesterday. It's

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not good. You you just it just numbs

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a person to whatever is,

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you know, whatever is a benefit in their

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life. You can't do everything all the time.

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Who's the only one who can do everything

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all the

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time? You know? So you just gotta, like,

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own up to that. That's part of your

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is not to not to fantasize about, like,

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you know, being some sort of omnipotent control

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of the world or whatever. And don't listen

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to things that you can't do anything about.

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Yes?

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Oh,

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so I heard you're mentioning about, like, a

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fair to kind of stay for getting involved

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in these problems. But if you're in a

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position where you could do something, like, and

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you

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can be helpful, but you chose to abstain.

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Is that is there is there any Look.

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If you're in a position you're saying you're

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in a position that you can and you

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cannot. These things are issues of authority.

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If you're and you're like, oh, I don't

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wanna get involved in people's problems, you're gonna

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go to Jahannam. That's your that's your responsibility

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at that point.

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If someone asks you a question, you're the

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Mufti,

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and you don't answer their question, that's your

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problem.

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The question arises, why in the world would

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somebody wanna be an authority if they didn't

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have to? It's just a bunch of liability,

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and the the benefit is hardly worth it.

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But by necessity, we have to have, as

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human society, some people and some types of

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authority.

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So the question is what? If you're an

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authority, can you ignore it? No. If you're

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not an authority,

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then should you probably ignore it? Yes.

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If no authority exists, should it be made?

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Yes. It has to. It's Fardh Kifai all

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of these things. There needs to be a

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sultan to make sure people are not, like,

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mugging each other on the street. There needs

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to be a a sultan to make sure

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that, like, you know, like, the whatever Fentanyl

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dealing gang doesn't, like, you know, get elected

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to the board of the Masjid,

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which sometimes it does. Right?

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If there's

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authority, then it's

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the authority's problem.

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If there's you're not the authority, it's not

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your problem. If there's no authority, what is

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the proper way of going about doing something

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about that?

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You watching somebody else's, like, drama and trauma

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and problems

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in the same way that, like, a *

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addict watches *?

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Or

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working towards some sort of

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systemic authority that's not ad hoc based on

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just this one freak out that happened?

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Which do you think is a better solution?

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You have some sort of centralized authority. You

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have someone who's trained in order to be

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able to dispense it. You have you gather

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enough political clout to put it, And then

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cases can go through and flow, like, on

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a system without bias toward one thing or

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another. But to let the cycle of foolery

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of human beings,

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incite you to do this and then the

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next day it incites you to do that.

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So today it makes you face north and

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go north and then tomorrow it makes you

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face east and go east and then the

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next day it makes you go west.

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This is stupid. You're just gonna walk in

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circles for the whole rest of your life.

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It's not a way of dealing with things.

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I think this is more the

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the the the the issue I'm trying to

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say. Of course, there's a necessity for people

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to be in, but this there's nobody that

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you're not nobody is gonna be in the

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situation where, like,

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you know, if I really cared, I could

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be the Qadi, but I'm not going to.

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That's not how any of that works. Right?

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If there is no, then that's that's the

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problem that you should be worried about. Not

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that, like,

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you know, they caught so and so, like,

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famous, like, die, curb stomping a puppy or

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whatever. Like, that's not

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that's not that's not the that's not this

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that that issue, that's not what's gonna

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help anyone

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with that or things like that.

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So,

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yeah.

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This is a small snippet of what the

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messenger of Allah

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said,

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at what was possibly one of the, if

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not the largest gatherings

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that was assembled before him during his Mubarak

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life

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that he said on his khutba on the

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day of Eid in Mina,

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in his farewell Hajj, which was the only

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time he went on Hajj in Islam

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after and this a snippet of it. Otherwise,

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the whole hadith is after after asking what

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what day is this, what month is this,

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what land is this, knowing it's the most

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sacred day of the most sacred month of

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the

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most sacred land.

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He said what? He says that indeed your

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blood

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and your honor

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he says, indeed your blood and your property

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and your honor are haram. They're inviolable.

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They're sacred boundary. You can't touch another man's,

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blood or his

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property or his honor.

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Their haram for you just like this day

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is sacred and just like this month is

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sacred and just like this land is sacred.

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And then this is

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addressed to who? To Allah

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Have I not conveyed the message?

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So the thing is this. Right?

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All these three things, sadly, the Ummah is,

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Ummah is has disregard for all of them.

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And,

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you know,

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as a a a very novice student of,

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I feel like this is actually one of

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the biggest problems in right now.

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More than more than what people think are

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the problems is what? Is that Allah ta'ala

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who

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said

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The fact that we treat each other like

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garbage, it's like really problematic. It's spiritually, we're

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basically sabotaging ourselves that

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Allah said whoever is,

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makes an enemy of a friend of mine.

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I declare war on them. What does that

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mean about everybody whose enemies are all Muslims?

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And the fun thing is, right, the wali

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is not not the wali the person that

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a person thinks of as some sort of,

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like, super. Right?

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No. No. By by no one can be

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like that. The definition of a according to

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the

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Islam or what.

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Whoever is from the. So it could even

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be. It could even be like a deviant

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innovator

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as long as that you don't have the

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proof that they're a hacker. You treat them

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like a of Allah. That's it.

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And, this is, like, really problematic. The fact

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that we

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sometimes find ourselves, especially people who do work

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in the community, find ourselves,

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cherishing the enmity of our own brothers and

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sisters more than we more than we see

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evil amongst others.

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We see evil within the ummah more than

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we see it outside.

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And, that's problematic.

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That's problem. Most masjids sadly like this. Right?

00:31:00 --> 00:31:02

If someone walks off the street,

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then people are going to be like, oh,

00:31:04 --> 00:31:06

you know, Islam means peace. Have a seat.

00:31:06 --> 00:31:08

Here's your, like, little bag with, like, a

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and a and a translation of the Quran

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and and, you know,

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whatever. And then, like, a Muslim

00:31:16 --> 00:31:17

walks off the street

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in a bad situation or a bad state

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and stuff like that. Don't you know any

00:31:21 --> 00:31:23

better? Don't do this. Don't do that. Didn't

00:31:23 --> 00:31:25

your parents raise you? Didn't this. Didn't that.

00:31:25 --> 00:31:27

You know, it's a problem. And if someone

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walks off the street in a bad state,

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that's bad. But,

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like, their Islam should mean something to you,

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should have some objective difference. It should result

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in some objective difference in how you treat

00:31:37 --> 00:31:38

them. It should have some worth to you.

00:31:38 --> 00:31:39

Right?

00:31:40 --> 00:31:41

So that's that's problematic.

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And so, Rasuulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, I mean,

00:31:45 --> 00:31:46

if he's gonna take this

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opportunity to say what? That your

00:31:49 --> 00:31:52

blood is haram. Most people in America, we

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don't like kill each other because the cops

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have radios.

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Otherwise, we would have done it.

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People do it.

00:32:00 --> 00:32:02

Most of the acts of violence against one

00:32:02 --> 00:32:04

another. But in general, most people, they don't

00:32:04 --> 00:32:05

wanna go to prison

00:32:05 --> 00:32:07

because Pakistanis don't, like,

00:32:08 --> 00:32:10

usually bench press more than

00:32:12 --> 00:32:13

a £115.

00:32:14 --> 00:32:15

So they're like, why am I gonna go

00:32:15 --> 00:32:16

to jail? Right?

00:32:18 --> 00:32:18

Brothers,

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you guys can do, like, you know, whatever,

00:32:21 --> 00:32:23

500 push ups or something like that.

00:32:24 --> 00:32:26

But, you know, people don't wanna go there

00:32:26 --> 00:32:27

anyway.

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If it wasn't for that, people, you'd see

00:32:30 --> 00:32:31

them. They'd punch each other, hit each other,

00:32:31 --> 00:32:33

kick each other, kill each other. What's the

00:32:33 --> 00:32:34

proof? Go to the Muslim

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world. People treat treat each other like people

00:32:38 --> 00:32:40

kill each other. They literally bleed each other

00:32:40 --> 00:32:41

in the streets.

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If that's not profanity

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and blasphemy, then I don't know what is.

00:32:50 --> 00:32:52

Otherwise, the killing of another Muslim, the spilling

00:32:52 --> 00:32:53

of the blood of another Muslim

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is,

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you know, it's the

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and even the Quran itself it

00:33:02 --> 00:33:04

it describes it as kufr.

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And the

00:33:06 --> 00:33:08

they said that this is metaphorical. This is

00:33:08 --> 00:33:09

not literal

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But it talks about it as if it's,

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which is like a really big deal.

00:33:15 --> 00:33:15

Who

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gifted the small

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that's hanging on the

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on the on the hook.

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I remember hearing in a of his that

00:33:26 --> 00:33:28

he quoted an author that whenever the blood

00:33:28 --> 00:33:30

of a of a Muslim is spilled without

00:33:30 --> 00:33:32

haqq in a place, for 40 days, the

00:33:32 --> 00:33:34

land of Allah reigns in that in that

00:33:34 --> 00:33:37

place. Allah's curse reigns in that place for

00:33:37 --> 00:33:38

40 days because of how

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enormous what happened is in in the eyes

00:33:40 --> 00:33:42

of Allah ta'ala. But look at it, man.

00:33:42 --> 00:33:44

Every single Muslim country, people are killing each

00:33:44 --> 00:33:45

other.

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Every people kill each other. They harm each

00:33:48 --> 00:33:50

other. They hit each other. They make threats

00:33:50 --> 00:33:52

against each other, and all the way to

00:33:52 --> 00:33:54

the point where people kill one another.

00:33:54 --> 00:33:54

And,

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the even more disgusting gross thing about it

00:33:57 --> 00:33:59

is that many of them then claim that

00:33:59 --> 00:34:00

we're the ones that are

00:34:01 --> 00:34:02

bringing the hookah of Allah and His Rasool

00:34:02 --> 00:34:03

and

00:34:03 --> 00:34:06

we're the ones who are establishing the caliphate.

00:34:06 --> 00:34:08

We're the ones who are the righteous people.

00:34:08 --> 00:34:09

We're the ones who are this and that.

00:34:09 --> 00:34:12

And they actually parade and flag around

00:34:13 --> 00:34:14

what what

00:34:14 --> 00:34:17

what they see as the righteousness of their

00:34:17 --> 00:34:19

cause as a justification for doing all of

00:34:19 --> 00:34:21

those things. Whereas if your cause was actually

00:34:21 --> 00:34:23

righteous, you wouldn't do that.

00:34:23 --> 00:34:25

And someone's like, oh, this is impractical.

00:34:28 --> 00:34:29

Man, that's why

00:34:29 --> 00:34:30

being a righteous like

00:34:35 --> 00:34:37

a That's why the maqam is so high.

00:34:37 --> 00:34:39

It's not easy to do. What do we

00:34:39 --> 00:34:40

do? We do the opposite.

00:34:41 --> 00:34:42

We do the opposite.

00:34:44 --> 00:34:47

I remember, you know, after 9:11, people started

00:34:47 --> 00:34:49

saying the craziest thing. Jihad is only defensive

00:34:49 --> 00:34:50

war.

00:34:55 --> 00:34:56

Haven't you read the seerah of the prophet

00:34:56 --> 00:34:59

sallallahu alaihi wa sallam? The same person, you'll

00:34:59 --> 00:35:00

never hear them speak out about the killing

00:35:00 --> 00:35:01

of another Muslim.

00:35:05 --> 00:35:07

It's a complete, like,

00:35:08 --> 00:35:09

it's a complete

00:35:10 --> 00:35:12

refusal to, like, cope with how the real

00:35:12 --> 00:35:13

world works.

00:35:14 --> 00:35:16

And to put the burden on or to

00:35:16 --> 00:35:17

put the burden to put the,

00:35:18 --> 00:35:20

the the the the burden and the

00:35:22 --> 00:35:23

the lack of

00:35:25 --> 00:35:25

value

00:35:27 --> 00:35:28

to put the value on

00:35:29 --> 00:35:31

Kufrin, to put the burden and lack of

00:35:31 --> 00:35:33

value upon the people of Islam somehow as,

00:35:33 --> 00:35:35

you know, your recompense in the hereafter being

00:35:35 --> 00:35:38

a justification for treating each other like garbage.

00:35:38 --> 00:35:40

The recompense in the hereafter is because you're

00:35:40 --> 00:35:41

not garbage.

00:35:42 --> 00:35:43

You say you have some worth with Allah

00:35:44 --> 00:35:46

So the point of saying all of this

00:35:46 --> 00:35:47

is not to say that, you know, oh,

00:35:47 --> 00:35:48

you know, it's okay to, like,

00:35:49 --> 00:35:51

harm or kill, non Muslims. That's not the

00:35:51 --> 00:35:53

point at all. But the point is is

00:35:53 --> 00:35:54

that when you treat another person with a

00:35:54 --> 00:35:57

different standard, that's because of a sickness inside

00:35:57 --> 00:35:59

of your own heart. It's a cheapness inside

00:35:59 --> 00:36:00

of your own heart.

00:36:01 --> 00:36:02

And not to be too self helpy about

00:36:02 --> 00:36:04

it, but that's the thing. Right? If a

00:36:04 --> 00:36:06

person doesn't love themself, how are they gonna

00:36:06 --> 00:36:07

love their brother?

00:36:08 --> 00:36:09

Loving yourself,

00:36:10 --> 00:36:10

you know,

00:36:11 --> 00:36:13

after a certain point, it becomes arrogance.

00:36:14 --> 00:36:15

But

00:36:15 --> 00:36:16

the fine line,

00:36:17 --> 00:36:19

of what differentiates between those things is that

00:36:19 --> 00:36:20

you

00:36:20 --> 00:36:22

you love this thing Allah gave the fadul

00:36:22 --> 00:36:23

that he gave to everybody who said,

00:36:24 --> 00:36:25

You can acknowledge that this is not something

00:36:25 --> 00:36:27

I did anything to deserve, nor is it

00:36:27 --> 00:36:29

something I can ever do anything to repay,

00:36:29 --> 00:36:31

nor is it something that I gave. But

00:36:31 --> 00:36:33

you have to recognize also that this has

00:36:33 --> 00:36:35

some value with Allah. It's a valuable thing.

00:36:36 --> 00:36:39

That's not arrogance. That's, having that's having faith.

00:36:39 --> 00:36:41

And so this is a really scary and

00:36:41 --> 00:36:42

dangerous thing.

00:36:43 --> 00:36:44

One of the most beautiful

00:36:45 --> 00:36:47

things about many of the even political movements

00:36:47 --> 00:36:49

that Muslims find like heroic.

00:36:51 --> 00:36:51

Who are they?

00:36:52 --> 00:36:54

They're the people who decided to give up

00:36:54 --> 00:36:55

fighting their own brothers

00:36:56 --> 00:36:58

and exerted their energy into,

00:36:59 --> 00:37:01

into taking Islam to the places that it

00:37:01 --> 00:37:02

wasn't there from before.

00:37:02 --> 00:37:04

That's one of the reasons people are fascinated

00:37:04 --> 00:37:07

by places like Sicily and like Andalus. That's

00:37:07 --> 00:37:09

why people are fascinated by the Morabeton,

00:37:10 --> 00:37:12

who instead of, like, fighting one another in

00:37:12 --> 00:37:14

Africa, they took the army across and they

00:37:14 --> 00:37:14

saved,

00:37:15 --> 00:37:15

Andalusia

00:37:16 --> 00:37:17

from being eaten up by the.

00:37:19 --> 00:37:21

They're fascinated by the Ottoman Empire. The Ottoman

00:37:21 --> 00:37:24

Empire took the Deen to lands that it

00:37:24 --> 00:37:26

had hitherto never been.

00:37:27 --> 00:37:29

Otherwise, much of what was Rumelia in fact,

00:37:29 --> 00:37:31

none of what was Rumelia was under the

00:37:31 --> 00:37:33

European side of the Ottoman Empire was under

00:37:33 --> 00:37:35

the hookahum of Islam from before except for

00:37:35 --> 00:37:37

maybe parts of Crimea or or or parts

00:37:37 --> 00:37:38

of the other side of the Black Sea

00:37:39 --> 00:37:40

that they ruled for some time.

00:37:42 --> 00:37:43

That's why p you know, like, all the

00:37:43 --> 00:37:46

most, in fact, successful and culturally vibrant empires.

00:37:46 --> 00:37:49

There was what? Babur. Right? He conquered the

00:37:49 --> 00:37:50

the Indian subcontinent.

00:37:53 --> 00:37:55

He was like Uzbek warlord, a rough tough

00:37:55 --> 00:37:57

like Turkic warlord who enjoyed,

00:37:58 --> 00:37:59

you know,

00:38:00 --> 00:38:01

who enjoyed the narcotics.

00:38:03 --> 00:38:04

Interesting guy.

00:38:05 --> 00:38:06

Not gonna win the award

00:38:07 --> 00:38:09

anytime soon, but he was a good man.

00:38:09 --> 00:38:11

He loved a lot of his Rasool and

00:38:11 --> 00:38:12

he had his quirks in hang ups and

00:38:12 --> 00:38:13

used to acknowledge it's not good.

00:38:14 --> 00:38:15

At some point or another, he just got

00:38:15 --> 00:38:17

sick of fighting other Muslims. And he said,

00:38:18 --> 00:38:20

after this day, I'm not gonna I'm not

00:38:20 --> 00:38:22

gonna fight I'm not gonna fight Muslims anymore.

00:38:22 --> 00:38:24

That's why he conquered he conquered the Indian

00:38:24 --> 00:38:24

subcontinent.

00:38:25 --> 00:38:27

Not even, like, the BJP guys, they're like,

00:38:27 --> 00:38:30

these Muslim moms, like, murdered, like, 900,000,000,000 people

00:38:30 --> 00:38:32

or whatever or, like, whatever weird, like,

00:38:32 --> 00:38:35

logic or reason proof, like, accusations they made.

00:38:35 --> 00:38:37

But the fact of the matter is nobody

00:38:37 --> 00:38:38

wants to visit the monkey temple. Everyone wants

00:38:38 --> 00:38:39

to visit the Taj Mahal,

00:38:40 --> 00:38:41

the Red Fort.

00:38:42 --> 00:38:44

Everybody wants to visit Agra and Delhi.

00:38:45 --> 00:38:47

They didn't build those cities. We built them.

00:38:50 --> 00:38:51

The fact of the matter is that none

00:38:51 --> 00:38:52

of them even understand,

00:38:53 --> 00:38:55

you know, the the language that they that

00:38:55 --> 00:38:56

they deployed

00:38:57 --> 00:38:59

in. But everyone understands Indian movies. Indian movies

00:38:59 --> 00:39:01

are not in Hindi. They're in Urdu,

00:39:03 --> 00:39:04

which is not something I'm boasting about. I'm

00:39:04 --> 00:39:07

just saying that the language like, it's inextricable

00:39:07 --> 00:39:08

from that land what they gave what they

00:39:08 --> 00:39:09

gave to the people.

00:39:10 --> 00:39:12

And so, you know, what's his name? Ravi

00:39:12 --> 00:39:13

Shankar.

00:39:13 --> 00:39:14

He's

00:39:14 --> 00:39:17

he's he's Bengali. You know that? The Siddhar

00:39:18 --> 00:39:20

Maestro. He had a fake conversion to Islam

00:39:20 --> 00:39:21

in order to learn how to play the

00:39:21 --> 00:39:22

Siddhar.

00:39:22 --> 00:39:24

Because all of the best

00:39:24 --> 00:39:26

sitar tabla masters were all Muslims.

00:39:27 --> 00:39:28

And then he later on made the jali

00:39:28 --> 00:39:30

of his kufir later on.

00:39:31 --> 00:39:33

But he learned adab from the Muslims. He

00:39:33 --> 00:39:34

said, I came to Woodstock,

00:39:35 --> 00:39:37

and I saw Jimmy Hendrix play. I said,

00:39:37 --> 00:39:39

this man is really talented. This is amazing.

00:39:39 --> 00:39:40

Like, he's like, I was just listening

00:39:40 --> 00:39:42

to him. Then he said that he because

00:39:42 --> 00:39:44

the guy was up, like, on some drugs.

00:39:44 --> 00:39:46

So at the end of it, he took

00:39:46 --> 00:39:48

his guitar and smashed it into the amp.

00:39:49 --> 00:39:50

He said, I was so disgusted by this,

00:39:50 --> 00:39:53

like, reach of Adab. Because imagine, playing musical

00:39:53 --> 00:39:55

instruments is what? It's haram. Right?

00:39:56 --> 00:39:58

But if you were, like, a pious Muslim

00:39:58 --> 00:40:00

man who played a musical instrument,

00:40:00 --> 00:40:02

would you smash your instrument into the into

00:40:02 --> 00:40:04

the it does that sound like a the

00:40:04 --> 00:40:06

day, like, we made a katham of and

00:40:06 --> 00:40:07

I would have been lots of, but it's

00:40:07 --> 00:40:08

like, you know, like,

00:40:09 --> 00:40:10

people would be horrified. They go, what is

00:40:10 --> 00:40:11

this? You know?

00:40:12 --> 00:40:13

So he was like, he was he was

00:40:14 --> 00:40:15

horrified. I didn't come back to America for

00:40:15 --> 00:40:17

decades after that. He said, this thing I

00:40:17 --> 00:40:18

just saw, I couldn't deal with. Where did

00:40:18 --> 00:40:20

who did you learn edib from?

00:40:20 --> 00:40:20

Right?

00:40:22 --> 00:40:24

And so, you know, that's a decision to

00:40:24 --> 00:40:25

make, inshallah. If you ever get hemmed into

00:40:25 --> 00:40:27

a corner where all of your

00:40:27 --> 00:40:29

bandwidth is taken up in, like,

00:40:29 --> 00:40:32

negative negativity toward other Muslims, Maybe you should,

00:40:33 --> 00:40:34

like,

00:40:35 --> 00:40:37

shoot for a change of venue and try

00:40:37 --> 00:40:38

to change things up. There's a big world

00:40:43 --> 00:40:43

out there. If all you can do is

00:40:43 --> 00:40:43

be a hater, go find some more evil

00:40:43 --> 00:40:43

people to hate on, Insha'Allah. And then Allah

00:40:43 --> 00:40:45

will reward you for being a hater. Right?

00:40:46 --> 00:40:47

Allah give

00:40:48 --> 00:40:50

give us all toafeed, I guess.

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So,

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Said Aisha

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has narrated that

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she said to the prophet once,

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Enough.

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He

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said he said she said to him,

00:43:38 --> 00:43:39

the wife of the prophet

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and she described her

00:43:45 --> 00:43:47

as such and such. Some of the narrators

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say it meaning that she was indicating that

00:43:49 --> 00:43:49

she's short.

00:43:52 --> 00:43:53

And the messenger of Allah

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said that you said such a you said

00:43:56 --> 00:43:58

such a thing right now, such an utterance

00:43:58 --> 00:44:01

that if it was mixed with the water

00:44:01 --> 00:44:02

of all of the sea,

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it would have

00:44:05 --> 00:44:07

made its water stink.

00:44:10 --> 00:44:12

And she says, but I I was just

00:44:12 --> 00:44:14

saying, like, how she really is.

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And,

00:44:17 --> 00:44:17

he said

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I wouldn't I wouldn't

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be induced not to, not to,

00:44:31 --> 00:44:31

not

00:44:33 --> 00:44:33

to,

00:44:34 --> 00:44:36

not to, not not just talk like that

00:44:36 --> 00:44:39

about other people. Insinuating something about her, which

00:44:39 --> 00:44:39

is

00:44:41 --> 00:44:43

that she would not like her in a

00:44:43 --> 00:44:44

way that she would not like even if

00:44:44 --> 00:44:46

it is true. And

00:44:47 --> 00:44:49

make sure to bring the hadith of the

00:44:49 --> 00:44:51

prophet the ayah of the the ayah of

00:44:51 --> 00:44:53

the Quran that he doesn't speak from his

00:44:53 --> 00:44:55

own vain desire rather than when he speaks

00:44:55 --> 00:44:55

it's,

00:44:58 --> 00:45:00

revelation that's revealed to him.

00:45:37 --> 00:45:38

So he said that,

00:45:38 --> 00:45:39

said

00:45:40 --> 00:45:42

that the messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi wa

00:45:42 --> 00:45:44

sallam when he was raised up into Jannah

00:45:44 --> 00:45:45

during the

00:45:45 --> 00:45:48

said I passed by some people who had,

00:45:49 --> 00:45:50

nails made out of,

00:45:52 --> 00:45:53

is like copper. Right?

00:45:55 --> 00:45:56

No. Is copper.

00:45:57 --> 00:45:58

Is I think brass,

00:46:01 --> 00:46:01

but,

00:46:02 --> 00:46:03

some metal, basically.

00:46:03 --> 00:46:06

And so they're scratching themselves, they're scratching their

00:46:06 --> 00:46:08

faces, and they're scratching their chest. They're cocky.

00:46:08 --> 00:46:10

They're wounding themselves when they scratch themselves with

00:46:10 --> 00:46:12

it. They itch so much, and their nails

00:46:12 --> 00:46:13

are made out of this, like, really hard

00:46:13 --> 00:46:15

material, and it's causing them to be wounded

00:46:15 --> 00:46:16

and bleed.

00:46:16 --> 00:46:18

And, this is one of the punishments of

00:46:18 --> 00:46:19

the hellfire.

00:46:19 --> 00:46:20

And so,

00:46:21 --> 00:46:23

I he's he he said, I asked, who

00:46:23 --> 00:46:25

are who are they, oh Jibril?

00:46:26 --> 00:46:27

He said, and said that Jibril

00:46:28 --> 00:46:30

responded that they're the people who

00:46:30 --> 00:46:30

eat the,

00:46:31 --> 00:46:33

the dead flesh of others

00:46:33 --> 00:46:33

by

00:46:38 --> 00:46:39

by, falling into

00:46:43 --> 00:46:44

by falling into

00:46:46 --> 00:46:48

ripping down their honor by their speech.

00:47:04 --> 00:47:06

And so this is, again, a repetition of

00:47:06 --> 00:47:08

this thing that all the all the jinns

00:47:08 --> 00:47:09

of Muslim,

00:47:10 --> 00:47:11

all of them are

00:47:12 --> 00:47:14

sacred or inviolable to every other Muslim

00:47:15 --> 00:47:16

in their,

00:47:17 --> 00:47:19

in their blood and in their honor and

00:47:19 --> 00:47:21

in their wealth that you can't you you're

00:47:21 --> 00:47:23

not allowed to violate the honor of any

00:47:23 --> 00:47:24

of these things.

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