Hamzah Wald Maqbul – Khutbah on Patience.mp4

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The speakers discuss the importance of understanding and intention before taking action and rewarding small and large amounts of reward. They emphasize the need for a positive attitude and a positive attitude for life, rather than just a temporary one. The speakers also emphasize the benefits of fasting, including the ability to enjoy oneself and receive rewards, and the importance of patient and rewarded behavior. They stress the importance of having a thick skin and being patient when dealing with people with terminal illness.

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			There's been a,
		
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			request
		
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			to remind the brothers regarding the second adhan.
		
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			The second adhan is
		
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			a
		
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			institution that is considered to be a sunnah.
		
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			The Nabi
		
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			during his time
		
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			would have the adhan called 3 times.
		
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			Once,
		
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			and then twice, then 3 times, which make
		
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			sense because in the a'far there are 3
		
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			names for Mu'athins that come for the prophet
		
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			Abu Mahdura
		
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			who is the most long lived of them,
		
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			Said Nabila
		
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			and Abdulahibni
		
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			So it comes in the athar that he
		
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			would have the azaan called 3 times, one
		
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			after the other. And Madinah was such a
		
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			small city in the time of Rasulullah
		
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			that that would be sufficient time for people
		
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			to hear the adhan, make wudu, get to
		
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			the masjid.
		
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			What happened is this was the concept during
		
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			the reign of Sayyidina Abu Bakr and Sayyidina
		
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			Umar
		
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			That in the reign of Sayyidina Uthman
		
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			Madina became too large for that. That didn't
		
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			give sufficient time for people to make it
		
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			to the masjid. So Sayyidina Uthman
		
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			made that into 2 Adans. One adan when
		
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			the time of the prayer comes in, in
		
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			order to
		
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			be a warning for the people that you
		
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			should start making say, you should start
		
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			start rushing toward the the prayer if you
		
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			haven't already started toward the prayer. And the
		
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			second one, which is the one that was,
		
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			that that that announced the beginning of the
		
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			Jumuah
		
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			time. This is something very important since it's
		
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			brought up. It's something that's
		
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			merits discussion, words discussion. It comes in the
		
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			athaar of the messenger of Allah
		
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			That when the adhan is called in the
		
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			day of jumu'ah,
		
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			the angels will fold up the books. The
		
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			angels that stand at the doors of the
		
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			masjid then write down the names of the
		
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			attendees.
		
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			They will fold up their books and enter
		
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			into the masjid in order to observe the
		
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			sanctity of
		
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			Salat Al Jumwa.
		
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			And so this is something it's a good
		
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			reminder for all of us while we're on
		
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			the topic of the adhan, that one should
		
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			make their utmost effort in order to attend.
		
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			Because if they attend after the adhan is
		
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			called, the
		
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			is there. You won't be punished for having
		
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			this jumuah,
		
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			but it seems that the hadith suggest that
		
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			a person will also not receive the reward
		
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			for having attended. And if a person is
		
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			going to take the time out to come
		
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			anyway,
		
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			you know, it would be sad that they
		
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			miss out on that reward and Allah knows
		
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			best.
		
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			Everything
		
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			that a believer does is predicated on understanding
		
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			and predicated on intention.
		
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			Is the first hadith of Sahih Bukhari. That
		
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			every
		
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			action is based on nothing other than the
		
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			intention by which it was initiated.
		
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			That there is,
		
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			for a person, no reward other than for
		
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			the thing that they intended.
		
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			And so
		
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			it's important this is part of the
		
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			It's important to know what you're doing before
		
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			you do it, to understand before you do
		
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			it. This is part of the hikmah of
		
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			the hukama. It's not only Muslims are,
		
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			not the ones that believe in this exclusively.
		
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			It's almost a piece of universally accepted wisdom
		
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			that right action only will flow from right
		
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			thoughts. And so it's important that a person
		
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			have knowledge and understand what they're doing.
		
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			Ramadan is really around the corner. It's less
		
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			than one and a half months away.
		
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			And so in order to understand Ramadan, which
		
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			to most people is the month of fasting,
		
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			we have to talk about what fasting is
		
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			underpinned by.
		
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			What fasting is underpinned by.
		
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			Allah his messenger
		
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			he said in a hadith
		
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			that half of iman is patience.
		
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			Half of iman is patience.
		
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			That half of iman is what? It's patience.
		
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			And it comes in another hadith that a
		
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			patience
		
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			is half
		
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			fasting is half of patience.
		
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			So patience is half of iman and fasting
		
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			is half of patience.
		
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			Patience is the theme that a person,
		
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			decorates Ramadan with. Just like the evil, the
		
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			theme of it is sacrifice.
		
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			Just like the theme of the salatul is
		
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			despise, is tilfar.
		
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			Just like the theme of different different acts,
		
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			you know, is something that a person should
		
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			understand before going into those. One should understand
		
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			that the theme of Ramadan is what? It's
		
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			suburb.
		
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			So it comes in the hadith of the
		
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			prophet
		
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			narrated by Imam Muslim, and Suhayb
		
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			Rumi
		
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			A hadith with which undoubtedly,
		
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			most if not all people in the Masjid
		
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			are familiar with. That Sahib Rumi
		
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			who narrates that the messenger of Allah sallallahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam said,
		
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			how wondrous is the affair of the believer
		
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			because all of his affair in its completeness
		
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			is good.
		
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			And that is not a deal that happens
		
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			to anyone except for to a believer.
		
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			If he is
		
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			afflicted with happiness,
		
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			then he's thankful for it,
		
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			and it's good for him. And if he's
		
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			afflicted with
		
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			harm, then he's patient, and it's good for
		
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			him.
		
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			Now everybody understands how it's good for them
		
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			to be afflicted with happiness.
		
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			You just made a $1,000,000.
		
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			Everybody is understands that. That doesn't require too
		
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			much explanation of why that's good. Even though
		
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			it may require some explanation as to why
		
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			it may be bad, but a person intuitively
		
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			understands that
		
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			that that that something that they like, or
		
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			something that they want, or something that they
		
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			wish for, or something that they dreamed about,
		
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			it coming true as something that makes a
		
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			person feel happy.
		
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			If that happens, instead of second guessing yourself
		
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			and being a person who's,
		
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			never able to be happy if something good
		
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			happens to them, if something bad happens to
		
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			them, be happy about it. Ask Allah ta'ala
		
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			for barakah and for his fadl. And if
		
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			you should receive it, then be thankful to
		
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			him. He will vouchsafe and safeguard it for
		
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			you. And what a sugar. Sugar in the
		
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			heart is to acknowledge that the niyamah, the
		
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			the the
		
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			blessing comes from Allah
		
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			and to, in the heart. And
		
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			and
		
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			action is what? Is to use that namah
		
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			or use that blessing in anything that's not
		
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			haram.
		
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			The highest level of sugar is to use
		
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			a blessing that Allah gave you
		
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			for the sake of Allah. Why? Because it's
		
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			his. He gave it to you, and an
		
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			honorable person will recognize that this is a
		
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			gift from Allah because
		
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			I received it. I owe him even more
		
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			than I owed him before.
		
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			But a normal person, as long as you
		
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			don't use it for the haram, you got
		
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			the $1,000,000, don't use it for something
		
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			haram. Go on vacation,
		
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			buy yourself a car, buy yourself a house,
		
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			do whatever you want, you know. Even if
		
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			you don't give the whole thing to charity,
		
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			it's still you're still making sugar to Allah,
		
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			as long as you don't use it,
		
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			in an act of rebellion against him. That's
		
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			fine, Alhamdulillah.
		
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			That's something very easy to understand.
		
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			And nobody nobody would mind if their child,
		
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			if their son or daughter grew up to
		
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			be a very intelligent person, a very wealthy
		
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			person who lives a long life and who's
		
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			respected and who has all sorts of, of
		
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			of of of blessings from Allah Nobody would
		
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			mind that.
		
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			Allah says that the reward of sugar is
		
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			what?
		
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			If you are thankful, I will give you
		
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			more.
		
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			The reward of being thankful for a blessing
		
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			is what? You'll receive
		
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			a you'll receive even more of that blessing.
		
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			But the reward of sabr is what? Allah
		
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			says,
		
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			He says, Verily,
		
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			the reward for is nothing other than to
		
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			be rewarded
		
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			without any relationship between the amount of and
		
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			the amount of reward a person receives.
		
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			A person will make small amounts of in
		
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			the dunya. They will show up on the
		
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			day of judgement.
		
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			They will show up on the day of
		
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			judgement, and Allah
		
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			will give them so much reward, so much
		
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			reward. They will be surprised. They'll say, you
		
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			Allah, such a small amount of saber and
		
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			such a large amount of reward, surely there's
		
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			some sort of error in this calculation.
		
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			But there is no error. Allah himself says
		
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			in his book, there's no calculation. You show
		
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			sabr, I give you so much that there's
		
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			no relation
		
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			between the reward you receive and bef between
		
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			what I give you. And why is that
		
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			logical?
		
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			Why is that rational? Why should it be
		
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			that way? It should be that way because
		
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			everybody wants to be a pious person reading
		
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			salat in the first row while being rich,
		
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			and while being happy, and while being well
		
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			loved, and while being influential, and while being
		
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			powerful.
		
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			Nobody thinks, you Allah, except for the people
		
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			of the highest rank with Allah ta'ala. Nobody
		
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			thinks, you Allah. I wish I wish that
		
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			I I will be fired from my job
		
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			for the sake of Allah
		
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			I wish that I will my lose life
		
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			and limb for your sake, you Allah. I
		
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			wish that for the sake of your deen,
		
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			I'll be ridiculed by the the people who
		
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			I love and by my own family members.
		
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			You Allah, I wish for your sake I'm
		
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			denied entry into a country, or because of
		
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			your sake or because of worshiping you,
		
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			I wish that, you know, my life become
		
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			miserable. Nobody says that.
		
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			Somebody who
		
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			their iman is in such a state that
		
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			they've completely turned their back on the dunya,
		
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			and there are people like that. There are
		
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			people from the Sahaba
		
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			whom like that, and there are people in
		
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			every generation who are like that. But we
		
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			say we say, kids, don't try this at
		
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			home. If you're not at that point, if
		
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			you try it, you're just gonna end up
		
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			ruining your life, ruining your iman in the
		
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			process.
		
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			It's not something that a person should,
		
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			a person should pursue if they're not there
		
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			yet.
		
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			And this is also another principle, a great
		
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			principle of deen. It's not it's not good
		
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			to try to do the amaal, the acts
		
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			of people who are in the state that
		
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			are above your own, lest you ruin your
		
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			own iman and you ruin your own your
		
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			own life in the process. The prophet
		
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			accepted all of the property of Sayna Abu
		
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			Bakr
		
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			when he gave it, but he only accepted
		
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			a third from, Sayna Sad bin Abu Waqqas
		
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			when he tried to give
		
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			it because he understood not everyone can handle
		
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			every act of piety. Some things are are
		
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			more difficult than others.
		
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			So Allah
		
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			says what? The first the first, reward that
		
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			that that that we mentioned regarding the theme
		
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			of sabr is what? Is that when you
		
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			have Sabr and when you have patience on
		
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			an issue, on a matter, you will receive
		
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			reward from Allah
		
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			in such a way that it's
		
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			beyond being commensurate with the amount of that
		
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			you had. And that's really the the beginning.
		
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			It's just the beginning. We say what? That
		
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			Allah
		
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			he gives other things as well. He says
		
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			he gives his he gives his love.
		
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			Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah
		
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			Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah
		
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			Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah
		
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			Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah
		
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			Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah
		
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			Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah
		
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			Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah
		
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			Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah
		
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			Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah
		
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			Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah
		
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			Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah
		
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			Allah will love a person, a person who's
		
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			patient. What does Allah's love mean? When somebody
		
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			else loves you in this world, it's something
		
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			that is
		
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			makes you feel better, but it doesn't pay
		
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			the bills. It doesn't,
		
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			you know, get the job done. It doesn't
		
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			treat you while you're ill. It doesn't doesn't
		
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			do you know, there's a lot of things
		
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			it doesn't do for you. Allah
		
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			if he loves you, then the entire creation
		
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			is at your disposal.
		
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			Remember, this life is not what you were
		
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			created for and what I was created for.
		
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			We have so many doctors over here. What
		
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			is this life?
		
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			This life is like the waiting room at
		
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			the office.
		
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			You wait, you fill out a form, and
		
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			you wait for your name to be called.
		
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			When your name is called, the actual clinic
		
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			is behind the
		
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			door. You go in the clinic, you'll see
		
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			there's the ultrasound machine,
		
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			there's tools, there's a surgical operating theater,
		
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			There's doctors. There's files. There's just this whole
		
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			world. The whole thing you came for is
		
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			all behind the door.
		
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			The little little,
		
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			you know,
		
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			waiting room, that's not what you came for.
		
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			There's a usefulness and a reason for it
		
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			to be there, but it's really not what
		
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			you came for. You know, so if you're
		
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			busy reading the magazines
		
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			and watching something on the little television over
		
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			there, and they call your name and you
		
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			miss it, This is kasara. This is a
		
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			loss.
		
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			So what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, if you're
		
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			a subar if you have subar for just
		
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			a little bit in this world, and Allah
		
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			loves you, then trust me, the entire creation
		
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			of the heavens and the earth and the
		
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			and the grave, the hereafter, all of it
		
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			is there for your disposal. All of it
		
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			is there for your disposal. All of it
		
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			is there for your enjoyment.
		
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			The of a person, a pious person in
		
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			this world is you pray all night and
		
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			you fast in the day, and you go
		
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			through difficulty.
		
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			Your
		
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			your will be to enjoy. There will be
		
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			no 5 times prayer over there. No one's
		
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			gonna jostle you for not keeping a beard
		
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			or not wearing hijab. Nobody's gonna give you
		
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			a hard time about, about, you know, did
		
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			you pay your zakat or not, or what
		
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			day is the, you know, moonsighting gonna be
		
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			for the Eid? And what day is the
		
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			moon sighting gonna be for the begin none
		
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			of that's that's not your Ibadah over there.
		
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			Your Ibadah over there is to enjoy yourself.
		
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			Allah will tell you, go. Go enjoy yourself.
		
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			Go do all the things that you wanted
		
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			to do. All of it is there for
		
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			your for your enjoyment. Right? That's what means.
		
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			A person of Sabr, Allah
		
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			promises
		
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			his
		
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			promises
		
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			We're here at
		
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			according to Imam Al Ghazali.
		
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			In
		
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			this world means like a room. Right?
		
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			Over here, there's a difference between them even
		
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			if there's there's
		
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			a sharing of of of the ism, of
		
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			the noun that they both use. This is
		
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			not this gurfa, this is that gurfa.
		
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			When Allah gives it to a person, it
		
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			doesn't mean he's praying to him but it
		
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			means that he's giving that person
		
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			Allah
		
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			gives her the people of patience what?
		
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			Glad tidings and salat, and mercy, and guidance,
		
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			and give glad tidings to those who are
		
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			patient. Those who went, they are afflicted with
		
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			an affliction, they say, verily, we belong to
		
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			Allah
		
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			and verily to him shall we return. Those
		
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			are the ones upon whom the salawat of
		
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			Allah ta'ala descend from their lord, and those
		
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			are the ones upon whom mercy descends from
		
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			their lord, and those are the ones who
		
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			are upon guidance.
		
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			So the ulema say, what is what sabr
		
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			what the benefits of sabr are, these are
		
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			just the benefits that are there in the
		
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			Quran.
		
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			It comes in the hadith of the Prophet
		
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			There's a long hadith about the benefits of
		
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			fasting, we'll talk about it maybe in a
		
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			constant subsequent week. But the part I wanted
		
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			to bring to you is a hadith could
		
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			see that the prophet
		
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			narrates from the lord, most mighty and majestic
		
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			is he, then he says he says he
		
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			says that every deed of the son of
		
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			Adam will be rewarded up to 10 times
		
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			its equivalent, all the way until 700.
		
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			Every deed of the son of Adam will
		
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			be rewarded to 10 times his worth. You
		
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			give a dollar in the sadaqah box, Allah
		
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			will write for you $10 in the in
		
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			the, in your book of deeds. If you
		
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			have more Iqlaqs, maybe he'll write a 100,
		
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			maybe he'll write 700. He'll write from 10
		
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			all the way to 700.
		
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			Except for fasting.
		
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			Why? He says,
		
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			Why? Because fasting is for me,
		
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			and I'm the one who rewards for it.
		
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			Now tell me everything else is for the
		
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			sake of Allah ta'ala, why would he say
		
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			that?
		
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			Why would he say that that that
		
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			why would he say that? Fasting is for
		
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			me. Why wouldn't he say is for me,
		
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			or is for me, or being kind to
		
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			your parents is for me, etcetera. Why would
		
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			he say fasting?
		
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			All of the acts are for the sake
		
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			of Allah Allah but the nisbah that's made
		
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			to Allah by himself
		
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			is a nisbah of tashrif. It's a nisbah,
		
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			it's a connection,
		
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			that's there to show honor.
		
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			Just like we say the Ka'bah is
		
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			The Ka'bah is the house of Allah Ta'ala.
		
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			Doesn't
		
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			mean that Allah Ta'ala lives there. That's not
		
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			what it means. It is a house like
		
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			other houses, it is a building like other
		
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			buildings, except for Allah
		
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			He says that, this is my house. Meaning
		
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			what? I honor this house by associating this
		
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			house with me. It has an association with
		
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			me in a way that other houses don't
		
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			have association with me. Just like that, Allah
		
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			honors
		
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			this act. He says that that that the
		
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			song, the fasting is for me, and I
		
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			am the one who will reward it. But
		
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			what I wanna bring your attention to is
		
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			what?
		
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			He again in this hadith puts me makes
		
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			he makes he makes negation of the connection
		
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			of how much deed a person does and
		
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			how much reward that they do. Remember we
		
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			said,
		
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			Verily, the reward for
		
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			for the patience of the patient ones is
		
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			nothing
		
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			other than such a reward that has no
		
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			sort of mathematical
		
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			relationship between the amount of difficulty a person
		
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			took and the amount of reward that that
		
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			person will receive.
		
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			Just like that you see, remember, that fasting
		
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			is half of patience. You see the same
		
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			you see the same expression is used by
		
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			Allah
		
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			to describe the reward of fasting.
		
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			That fasting is for me, I'll I'll be
		
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			the one who rewards it. Don't worry about
		
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			the accounting. I'll take care of it. This
		
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			one's on me. This is what Allah is
		
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			saying. One of the variants of it, because
		
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			the the the books of hadith, they're written
		
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			without they're written without
		
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			So sometimes
		
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			the read the same hadith with a different,
		
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			a, a, a, a different, a, dicritical inflection.
		
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			Right? So some of the ulama actually read
		
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			this hadith as well,
		
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			As,
		
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			That fasting is for me, and I am
		
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			the reward for it.
		
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			Don't worry about anything else. Even the delights
		
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			of Jannah are nothing compared to Allah
		
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			If he gives you himself as his reward,
		
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			you're you're clear. You don't need to worry
		
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			about anything after that. You don't need to
		
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			worry about asking for specific things. It's a
		
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			hadith of the prophet, salallahu alaihi wa sallam.
		
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			A snippet of a hadith, he says,
		
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			When you ask Allah
		
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			right? One of the meanings is to ask
		
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			in a beautiful way. One of the meanings
		
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			is to ask in general.
		
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			Don't ask for
		
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			ask for
		
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			Ask for general things. Why? Let Allah take
		
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			care of it. Trust me, he'll plan out
		
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			a good life and a good reward for
		
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			you better than you ever could.
		
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			Better than I ever could.
		
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			The song is for me, the fasting is
		
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			for me, and I am the reward for
		
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			it. I am the one that you'll be
		
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			rewarded for it with.
		
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			Allah give all of us this reward.
		
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			What did Ullamah define as? What did Ullamah
		
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			define patients as?
		
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			Right?
		
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			Then he says that, patience is an expression
		
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			in the language, meaning, to hold yourself back
		
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			from something. And in the deen, it is
		
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			an expression meaning,
		
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			staying with those things that are,
		
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			caused by your sticking to the deen, and
		
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			staying away from those things that are caused
		
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			by sticking to a person's,
		
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			passion desires.
		
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			And this is the meaning of the hadith
		
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			of the messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi wa
		
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			sallam,
		
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			that the fire, its hijab is all of
		
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			those things that a person desires. And From
		
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			the outside, you see your desires come closer,
		
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			closer, closer. Once a person touches it, they
		
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			find that it's the fire. And the hijab
		
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			of Jannah is all those things people
		
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			dislike,
		
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			hard work, not being popular,
		
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			not being recognized for what you do, pain,
		
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			suffering,
		
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			hunger, thirst, all of these things. You keep
		
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			coming closer and closer and closer to them.
		
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			Once you touch them, you'll find that this
		
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			is the rahma of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			put in physical form. And this is what
		
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			what suburb is, this is the suburb that's
		
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			being talked about in the hadith of the
		
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			Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam in the Kitab
		
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			of Allah Al Hakim.
		
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			Right? And so then, Ghazali
		
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			as a number of a
		
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			great group of the then
		
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			further break down into different types. It's important
		
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			to know what these are because a person
		
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			thinks of as what? Just doing nothing when
		
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			you're in a situation where you can't do
		
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			anything in the first place. That's not what
		
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			sabr is. Sabr is an active choice.
		
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			Sabr is an active choice. It's not something
		
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			that okay. You do do what you want
		
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			to, and at the end of it, when
		
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			you're stuck in a situation,
		
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			you can't do anything about, then then then
		
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			say, okay. Now I'm going to do sabr.
		
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			There is some element of that, but it's
		
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			not complete. The complete story, it's not even
		
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			a majority of the story.
		
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			The first type of sabr, which is something
		
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			that most people are familiar with, is what?
		
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			So what the Ullama referred to as as
		
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			The of the amount of patience that you
		
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			have to have in order to keep waking
		
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			up in the morning for the
		
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			That you have to have to keep yourself
		
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			awake in order to, read the salat al
		
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			isha when it's late at night. The amount
		
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			of sabr you have to have to keep
		
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			fasting every Ramadan, even though you know this
		
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			year it's gonna be June, you know this
		
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			year the longest day of the year is
		
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			going to be, in Ramadan.
		
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			Masha'Allah. Allah
		
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			will then reward you in a way that
		
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			other people aren't rewarded. And so you say,
		
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			oh, man. I wish I was in I
		
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			was in South Africa or in Brazil this
		
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			year. You mean, you'll be rewarded in a
		
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			way those people won't be rewarded. Isn't that
		
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			something that's appealing to you? Isn't that something
		
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			that gives you Himma and courage and gives
		
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			you some sort of motivation and drive to
		
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			do something that you will be rewarded from
		
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			the
		
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			in a way that other people won't be?
		
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			A person should be a Muslim can be
		
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			many things, can have many problems, but a
		
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			Muslim a person who believes in Allah and
		
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			is Rasulullah
		
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			alaihi wa sallam mustn't be a coward. Obviously,
		
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			a person is not in good health and
		
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			can't do it. There is a, a ruxa.
		
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			There's a dispensation in our sharia for you
		
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			and you shouldn't feel bad. But for those
		
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			of us who can do it and you
		
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			just know it's gonna be hard, and trust
		
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			me, those things that are not worth working
		
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			were worth working for, they're not worth having
		
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			in the first place.
		
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			Allah
		
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			he,
		
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			his messenger of Allah
		
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			I should say, his
		
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			What did they used to say? It's narrated
		
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			in the books of the that they said
		
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			that
		
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			sorry.
		
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			This is the second type of sorry. This
		
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			is the, second type of sabr. The first
		
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			type of sabr is the sabr for the
		
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			sabr on those acts that you're commanded to
		
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			do. The second type of sabr is the
		
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			sabr that you receive or that you have
		
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			to have when Dealing with other people saying
		
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			bad things to you. Right? Look how stupid
		
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			you are. You didn't buy the house on
		
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			the mortgage,
		
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			and everybody else has a house. Now you
		
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			don't have a house. Look at you. You're
		
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			waking up in the morning. You don't get
		
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			enough sleep. If you slept more, instead of
		
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			going to fajr, you would do better at
		
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			your job and make more money, and this
		
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			is culturally backwards. Why are you wearing this
		
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			thing on your head? Why do you have
		
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			this beard on your face? You look like
		
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			you're from the village. You look like this.
		
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			You look like that. All of these things,
		
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			we hear them. Unfortunately, we hear them more
		
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			from our own relatives than from our own,
		
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			meaning, Muslim brothers
		
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			sometimes than we hear them even from other
		
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			people. Other people don't have a problem for
		
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			some reason. It's it's our own people sometimes
		
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			that torture us and abuse us about these
		
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			types of things.
		
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			The again, what did they say? They said
		
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			that there there are many of them. This
		
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			was a saying amongst them that's reported from
		
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			many Sahaba that we did in,
		
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			we didn't use to, consider the imam. We
		
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			didn't use to consider the imam, the faith
		
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			of a person to be real imam to
		
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			be real faith, if that person wasn't able
		
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			to just put all of these silly things
		
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			people say aside.
		
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			You gotta just man up. This is part
		
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			of the deen. Right? This is a part
		
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			of the deen, and obviously, this is not
		
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			a misogynistic
		
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			expression. It's an expression meaning, have a thick
		
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			skin toughen up. Because indeed, there are many
		
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			beautiful,
		
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			sifaat, and many beautiful
		
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			attributes Allah gave men and many beautiful attributes
		
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			Allah gave women. There are some things men
		
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			can learn from women about how to be
		
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			merciful and patient
		
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			and forbearance with people, just like women can
		
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			learn things from men. How to when you're
		
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			on the when you're on the on the
		
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			how to be strong. And indeed many women
		
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			are have more sifat of the more sifat
		
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			hamida, more praiseworthy attributes of men than many
		
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			men do. And many men have some praiseworthy,
		
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			sifat that many women lack sometimes as well.
		
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			So what do you have to do? You
		
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			have to have a thick skin, part of
		
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			the deen, not just regarding suburb, but regarding
		
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			everything. Part of the deen is what? Being
		
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			more concerned with what Allah thinks of you,
		
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			than what other people think of you.
		
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			You live in the dunya, you obviously cannot
		
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			be completely oblivious to what other people think
		
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			of you. For example, you're driving through Cherry
		
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			Valley at 70 miles an hour, at a
		
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			45 mile zone. The cop doesn't think that's
		
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			a good thing. You have to be mindful
		
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			of that, otherwise, you'll get a ticket. Right?
		
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			But at the end of the day, there
		
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			are certain things. Fine. This is a financial
		
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			matter. It's something that, you know, there's a
		
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			a level of pragmatism that comes into it.
		
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			You cannot be completely flagrant when you deal
		
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			with other people. But a person, at the
		
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			same time, if the * was to tell
		
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			you, just believe in Allah and his rasulullahahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam, you say, listen buddy, I'll
		
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			pay your $140 ticket. I'm not gonna go
		
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			to jahanim forever because of your stupidity. Obviously,
		
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			the cops wouldn't do that. But I'm just
		
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			saying, it just said, just
		
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			as a a hypothetical situation. Right? So you
		
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			have to you have to have a thick
		
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			skin. You cannot when it comes to your
		
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			akhirah, when it comes to your deen, you
		
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			cannot be one of those people who lets
		
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			other people put too much, poison in your
		
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			ear,
		
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			and poison into your eyes regarding these types
		
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			of things. This is part of imam.
		
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			The next type of sabr, that Imam Ghazali
		
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			mentions is what?
		
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			Those things that are, you know, being patient
		
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			about those things that you don't have a
		
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			choice with. Why? Because you you know that
		
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			the person who sent you the
		
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			the the uh-uh, disease is also the one
		
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			who sent the cure. The person who sent
		
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			you the hardship, or the the entity that
		
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			sent you the hardship is the same entity
		
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			that sends you the reward. The one who
		
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			gave you all of the difficulties you had
		
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			in your life is also the one who,
		
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			by his father, will enter you to Jannah
		
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			forever. So doesn't it behoove a person to
		
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			be patient about these types of things? Things
		
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			happen, people become ill, people have so kind
		
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			so many plans, they become ill, the market
		
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			crashes,
		
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			they lose their job, you know, they get
		
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			into a car accident. All of these types
		
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			of things happen, and the person is faced
		
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			with what? They're faced with the choice of
		
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			either I'm going to
		
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			be patient with what I have in front
		
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			of me, or and and and accept that
		
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			it comes from Allah
		
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			Against, it's an active choice. I mean, accept
		
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			this comes from Allah or I'm just going
		
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			to be upset,
		
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			and and and
		
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			be, contrarian to to what Allah's
		
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			is, and see what where it gets me.
		
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			This is another type of sabr. It's something
		
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			that also a person should keep in mind.
		
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			And the,
		
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			this type of sabr is personified by the
		
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			hadith of the prophet or I should say,
		
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			exemplified by the hadith of the prophet
		
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			in which he the Nabi, sallallahu alaihi wa
		
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			sallam, narrates from his lord, most mighty and
		
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			majestic is he regarding a person who is
		
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			given a debilitating
		
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			disease, debilitating illness. And we have people who
		
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			are doctors, cancer
		
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			specialists, people who deal with degenerative diseases and
		
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			things like that. This is a hikmah that
		
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			you should imbibe yourself and share with people.
		
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			Even if they're not Muslims, it gives them
		
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			comfort. Obviously, you know, you don't want to,
		
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			browbeat a person with proselytization when they come
		
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			to you for medical help. But at the
		
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			same time, a good word at the right
		
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			time, it sometimes gives a person some sort
		
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			of, some sort of peace and help, and
		
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			there's reward in helping everybody and giving,
		
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			ease in a person's pain and suffering whether
		
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			they're Muslim or not. Allah says in a
		
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			hadith narrated by Sayyidina Nabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,
		
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			Allah says what? He says that, if and
		
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			when
		
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			I try and test my slave
		
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			with,
		
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			with the with the tribulation,
		
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			with the disease in his body, with the
		
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			tribulation.
		
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			And that slave is then patient, and that
		
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			slave doesn't complain about me to those who
		
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			come and visit. Why me? God, why me?
		
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			Why did you do this to me? Why
		
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			this, that, and the other thing to me?
		
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			Didn't didn't do that. Rather was saying,
		
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			I have my iman, Allah ta'ala. It's difficult.
		
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			You can even say it's difficult. It's hard
		
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			sometimes.
		
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			That's fine. There's nothing wrong with that. If
		
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			you don't, that's even a higher but there's
		
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			nothing wrong with saying it's difficult, it's hard.
		
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			I have a hard time, but I ask
		
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			Allah
		
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			to forgive me my sins, or I ask
		
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			Allah to get me through it. Right? But
		
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			you didn't complain about Allah You didn't say,
		
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			Yeah. Why did Allah do this to me?
		
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			Right? That that person doesn't complain about me
		
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			to any of his visitors. He says, If
		
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			they can do that much, that be patient
		
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			and don't complain about me to any of
		
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			his visitors, then such a person, I will
		
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			give him
		
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			a flesh better than the flesh he lost
		
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			in his disease, and a blood better than
		
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			the blood that he lost in his disease
		
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			or she lost in her disease.
		
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			That means what? That means both in this
		
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			world and in the hereafter.
		
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			Your body will be resurrected, my body will
		
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			be resurrected one day. If it doesn't happen
		
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			here, it'll happen on the other side. I
		
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			give him a flesh better than the flesh
		
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			that he lost, and I give him a
		
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			blood better than the blood he lost. And
		
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			if I were to give him a cure
		
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			in this world, I would cure him in
		
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			such a way, that he would be cured,
		
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			and he would have no sin left over
		
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			his head. And if I were to take
		
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			him back, I only take him back into
		
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			my mercy.
		
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			This is also a
		
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			type of saber. This is also a
		
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			type of saber. The saber for those things
		
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			that you can't deal with. Because everyone of
		
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			us has to leave this world, everyone of
		
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			us has to exit this world, and there's
		
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			very few people who are excited to do
		
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			so, although there are many people who are
		
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			prepared.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala make us people a
		
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			subr of understanding, of preparedness to leave this
		
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			world and to go into the next one.