Hamzah Wald Maqbul – Khutbah Contentment is the Real Wealth ICC 12132019

Hamzah Wald Maqbul
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The speakers discuss the importance of seeking happiness and wealth, rather than just money, in finding one's success. They stress the importance of learning to be a positive person and taking care of one's struggles, as well as the negative impact of toxic headlines on one's behavior. The speakers also emphasize the importance of avoiding harmful things and not seeking things that are harmful to one's health.
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All praises to Allah, and may his peace

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and blessings be upon his servant and messenger,

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our master, Sayedna Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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Allah says that he didn't create any creature

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he didn't create any creature except for he

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took the responsibility himself for providing sustenance for,

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for it.

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For providing sustenance for,

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for it. And he said,

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that the believers describing the believers in Sorbonne,

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He said they're the ones that when they

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spend,

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they're not excessive. They're not waste total. They're

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spending,

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rather their spending is

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something that is,

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moderate,

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in aid, in a way that makes sense.

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And Allah most high,

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declares in his book that I did not

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create the jinn in the in that in

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mankind

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except for, in order for them to worship

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me.

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I don't want from them,

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I I don't want from them any provision

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nor do I want them to feed me.

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Indeed, Allah himself is

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the one who provides and gives provision to

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all, and he's the one possessive of might,

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and and the one possessive possessive of greatness.

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And so the reason for mentioning these ayaat

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is what?

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Many of us, if you don't then make

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for me. Many of us, if you don't

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then make dua for me,

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inshallah, the first lesson is what? Is that

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Allah made certain things permissible and he forbid

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certain things.

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And it's hard for the the and for

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the ego to let go of the things

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Allah ta'ala forbid.

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But as a matter of

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belief,

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most of us understand

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that those things that Allah

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has made forbidden for us are harmful for

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us,

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both in this world and in the hereafter.

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It's sufficient for something, haram, for something unlawful,

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to be harmful that it displeases the Lord.

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The one who loves Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala,

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should be heartbroken that he should,

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distance himself from the one that he loves.

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But after that, everything that Allah Ta'ala prohibited

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in his book,

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and prohibited on the time of his messenger,

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

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it is,

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clear for the person who ponders and studies

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how all of those things are harmful for

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us in this world and the hereafter. And

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the prohibition for those things is a mercy.

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Whether it's eating pork, whether it's committing adultery,

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whether it's a prohibition of lying, cheating, stealing,

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any of these things, it's clear what the

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benefit is for the believer in this world,

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and it's also clear for the believer who

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has correct belief what the benefit of those

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things should be in the those prohibitions should

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be in the year

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And this is an important lesson for us

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to take. And indeed, all of these, verses

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of the Quran

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reinforce this idea

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that you don't you don't need to, and

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you don't even want to,

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seek those things that Allah prohibited

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in terms of provision,

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as a provision. You don't wanna feed yourself,

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the haram. It's a poison.

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You don't want to enjoy the haram because

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it looks like enjoyment, but it's like the

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enjoyment that a person takes when they're over

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overdosing on drugs.

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It's a small enjoyment and, it's a big

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catastrophe and a big catastrophe and a big

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loss, immediately thereafter

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to the point where any person of sanity

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and some constitution would not enjoy.

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However, the second,

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lesson that we should take from it also

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is what?

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Is that

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the stress

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and

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the anger

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and

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the vigor with which people seek,

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worldly gain,

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seek money even from the halal, even from

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those means that Allah made permissible,

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sometimes it's misplaced.

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The idea for our life in this world,

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especially when it is connected to the idea

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of seeking happiness, both in this world and

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in the year after.

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The idea is what is that we should

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be seeking something that is sufficient for us.

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What happens? What's the difference between a person

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who has a $100,000,000,000 and a $150,000,000,000? There's

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practically very little difference at all, but people

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will literally die of heart attacks when they

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go from a 150 to a100.

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And when they go from a100 to a150,

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they'll think that their tigers, flying in the

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air. Practically, it makes no difference to to

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them. The Practically, it makes no difference to

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to

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them. The idea of these numbers when we

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get into the 1,000,000,000 and trillions, these numbers

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don't even exist. There's not not even that

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many printed notes in the world.

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The idea at that point, all of it

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is about what keeping score in a pointless

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game.

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It's about what? It's about keeping score in

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a pointless game. And the Nabi sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam, he has a number of very

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beautiful statements that are comprehensive in their wisdom

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and in their meaning.

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And they are something that we should think

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about and remember because,

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we have even with our prayer 5 times

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a day and our coming to Jum'ah and

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our fasting in Ramadan

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and our, praying the 2 eights and our

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going on Hajj,

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even with, our our,

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disputes that we have with each other about

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the intricacies and minutiae of, Islamic law and

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creed on Facebook and Twitter, and, at tea

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parties,

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all over the world.

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Even with all of these things, there are

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some things that it seems that as a

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community we miss out on. So the messenger

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of Allah

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said

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in one such hadith, he said that

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wealth

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is not in having

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a great amount of goods, just a large

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number of things. Is like the goods that

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you keep, like inventory to shop.

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Wealth is not in having a great amount

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of inventory,

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rather,

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true wealth is the wealth of the soul.

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True wealth is the wealth of the soul.

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What does that mean?

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Are you rich or are you poor? Most

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people in the room will reflexively answer that

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they're poor. Maybe I'm like no different than

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anybody else. That's why Allah chose me to

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be, the imam because

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like you are, this how Allah will put

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in for on top of you. So I

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understand you. I'm not talking down to you.

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Although, I guess, this is very Romeo and

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Juliet looking,

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pulpit.

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But,

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if physically I'm talking down to you, but

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like in the realm of ideas, I'm not

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talking down to you.

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If someone were to ask, are you rich

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or poor? What would you be? Yeah. I'm

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broke. I have nothing. I'm I'm poor.

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Despite the fact that gave all of us

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enough to eat, most human beings,

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throughout the history of humanity,

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probably 1000000 of years,

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they struggled at times that they didn't have

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enough to eat, they didn't have shelter,

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war, famine, poverty, those types of things we

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don't struggle with, alhamdulillah.

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The funny thing is the strange thing is

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that those people who struggle with those things,

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many of them were content people.

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Many of them were content people. I would

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venture to say probably most of them were

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content.

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The issue is this is that wealth is

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what? It's the wealth of the soul. It's

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the contentment of the soul. And this is

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a point that we mentioned in the Arabic

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portion as well, that even the word in

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Arabic meaning wealth. That even the word in

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Arabic

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meaning

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the primary meaning of it is not necessarily

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having a lot of stuff, but it's in

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the idea of being free of need for

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anybody else. Okay. The primary meaning of it

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is not necessarily having a lot of stuff,

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but it's in the idea of being free

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of need for anybody else. Okay. So but

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it's in the idea of being free of

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need for anybody

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else. The idea of not having need for

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anybody else.

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So even if you don't have a dollar

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in your bank account, in fact, even if

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you don't have a bank account, in fact,

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even if you don't have a bank account,

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it is possible. I'm not account, in fact,

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even if you don't have a bank account,

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it is possible.

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I'm not necessarily recommending it. But just if

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someone doesn't have a bank account, they're not

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going to die. If you don't have a

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credit card, you're not going to die. I

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know people who don't have cars and they

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you know, and their human beings.

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Whatever it is that you have or you

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don't have. If you don't need anybody else,

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you're a wealthy

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If you don't need anybody else,

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you're a wealthy person.

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And on the flip side, if you're the

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$150,000,000

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person, if you're the $1,000,000,000 person, and $2,000,000,000,

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and $3,000,000,000, and $1,800,000,000

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person,

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But you need you need others.

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The money is not going to make you

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wealthy. It's

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really irrelevant. You're still a poor person because

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you still have a need. You still have

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to spread your hand in front of somebody

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other than Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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What did the messenger of Allah salallahu alaihi

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wa sallam say?

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Al Rina. The true wealth is what is

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the person who's wealthy wealthy inside.

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So let every one of us look inside

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of our hearts and say, is there something

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really that we need all that badly?

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Is there something really that we need all

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that badly that we shouldn't, have sleep at

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night and that when we wake up in

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the morning we should have stress? For some

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of us, it may be that.

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Somebody may be ill and require some sort

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of treatment or struggling to get through school

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or struggling to fulfill some commitments or debts.

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But for the vast majority of us, even

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those things,

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they're getting

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done.

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And the choices are ours to wake up

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and say, am I, am I do I

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have enough or am I still in need?

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Do I still

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need to go out work and

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waste those, prayers inside of the master,

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in order to get even more money even

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though I'm already well fed and have decent

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place to live? Am I going to waste

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those precious moments and hours with our with

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my children,

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with my wife, with my mother and father,

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with my brothers and sisters,

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sisters, both in Islam and also the ones

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that were born from the same mother and

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father as me.

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Is it really worth it? Am I really

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in that bad of a situation that I

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wanna waste those things? And lest, a person

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think that this is merely one more exhortation

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in a long line of impractical exhortations

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with regards to the evil of this world,

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from a person who himself lives in it.

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Brothers and sisters, these things actually end up

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making very practical problems for people after

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Why?

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Because

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that desire

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to have more,

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that

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lack of contentment

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that makes a person who is rich. Allah

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gave all of us so much.

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Make that person who is rich with Allah

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feel like they're poor. What does it do?

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It separates them from their deen. It separates

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them from their family.

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It stresses them out. It makes people work,

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more than they absolutely need to. And that's

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not everybody here. I understand there are some

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people who are hustling just to get by.

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And your struggle is not something that I'm

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talking down to. In fact, your struggle is

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Mubarak. There's blessings and Allah rewards it. If

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a person is just struggling to keep their

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head above water, that struggle is a noble

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struggle, and there's great reward in it. But

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if you get to a place in your

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life where those things are taken care of,

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you have a system of taking care of

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those things.

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Then after that point, to waste your time

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with your children

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in order to get more so that the

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the the logo on your car will say

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Lexus instead of Toyota even though, you know,

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the engine is the same in the middle

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of the 2 of them.

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This makes very little sense in the but

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worse worse than that, it also makes very

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little sense in the dunya.

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Those hours with your wife and kids, you're

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not gonna get them back. And the worst

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thing is what? Because when you're out at

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the job, you have to say please and

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thank you to every math case in the

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world. You have to silly people and put

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up with the silliness of silly people. You

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have to wait at at the back and

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call of your customer because the customer is

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always right. Even though the customer is not

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always right, but the customer is always right.

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You have to take that stress on top

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of you, then you walk into the house

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and

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who are you gonna unleash

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the the the negativity on?

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Not on your customer, because if you do,

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you ain't gonna get no more customers.

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You're gonna unleash the negativity on your wife

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who loves

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you. She may not be perfect, but she

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loves you. For that reason, our sisters also

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work so hard. You're gonna unleash that negativity

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on your husband who loves you.

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He's definitely not perfect, but he still loves

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you.

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Your children who look up to you, your

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children even when they're

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even when

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they're ill behaved, even when they took crayons

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and,

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you know, ruined the walls and spilled

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the most

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red food coloring ist, drink all over the

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white carpet. And even when they didn't listen

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to you and even but still inside, you

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know, nobody, to love except for you. You

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could but still inside, you know, nobody, to

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love except for you.

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You could have spent those moments with them.

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And instead,

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what do you do? You

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take the time that should be big to

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spend with them, and you cut it down,

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and then you change the quality of it

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from something that's at least neutral, if not

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positive, into something that's what? That's negative.

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This is very harmful. It's not worth it.

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It's not worth what does it come from?

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It comes from that desire to drive Alexis

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because your cousin has a Lexus, or your

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brother has a Lexus, or your neighbor has

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a Lexus. Who cares what they have, what

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they don't have?

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And this is another,

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a small point I wanted to mention. Nowadays

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toxic masculinity. The all of them have written

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a lot over the centuries about what,

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what positive masculinity

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is.

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What what how to be a man in

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a positive sense. And there's actually a lot

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of fame and good that even the sisters

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can gain from that.

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But there's been a lot written about this

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this topic that how to be a man.

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And it doesn't come from just something that

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made out. Rather, these things, they actually come

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from the teachings of the messenger of Allah

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And

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so, especially

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our, young Islamic school boys, you should listen

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to these things when you have a, you

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know, when you have the idea for what

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you wanna be and how you wanna be

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and who you wanna be in the future.

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What did the messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam say?

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He said being being being tough, being being

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strong. This part of iman.

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Iman.

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Meaning what? What is Badada? Badada is part

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of your faith. Badada means what?

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It means

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being tough

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and not going after, like, luxury all the

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time, not being soft.

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So if you want

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to get a car, what's the difference between

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the Toyota and Lexus? They literally have the

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same engine inside of them.

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One is a little prettier than the other.

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Remember, as a man, your beauty is not

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in how pretty you are.

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Being pretty is like suitable for for women,

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for them to show their beauty to their,

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family members,

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in their

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homes and in their private places, in their

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private lives. That's something that's good.

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For a man who's pretty, this kind of

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decreases him from his manhood, it could completely

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destroy his manhood for for him. What is

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the beauty of a man in? In strength.

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By selling yourself for the dollar, constantly. It's

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earned by a completely different process.

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Allah

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give

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us the,

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toffee of imbibing this Badada.

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Allah enter into our hearts, the, the, the,

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the, the,

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are struggling, may Allah give us what's sufficient.

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May Allah,

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free up our minds and our hearts for

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those things that they're meant for, for the

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love of one another and the love of

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our families, our wives, our children, our parents,

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and for the love of Allah, his Rasool

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salallahu alayhi wa sallam in the service of

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his deen and the service of Allah's creation

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as a way of honoring him. Allah ta'ala

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give all of us so much tafikusallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam alaasinha Muhammad ba'ala alahi wa

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sallamihi wa sallamihi.

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