Hamzah Wald Maqbul – Hayat alSahabah The Greatest of Them Was the Best in Spending On and Helping Others.mp4

Hamzah Wald Maqbul
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The speaker discusses the speaker's approach to speech and how he used to be cautious about people. He emphasizes the importance of being mindful of people's needs and not being out to harm others. He also talks about the speaker's approach to people and how he is cautious and balanced.
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Said, with regards to the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam, his speech and his other

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habits how he used to

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do what he did.

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There's a line from

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the previous

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from the previous portion that we skipped over.

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So we'll go over it right now.

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When it talks about the speech of the

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prophet

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that, he used to be very concerned about

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people's needs and he would inquire about the

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needs of the people who came to him

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and the needs of those who were who

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weren't able to come to him that the

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people knew about, and he would give everybody

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with accordance to their their their virtue and

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their rank in society

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and help them to fulfill their needs according

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to that virtue and according to that rank.

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And it's said about his speech,

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That he used to talk about the people's

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needs. In fact,

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nothing would be mentioned in in in front

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of him during this time that he made

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for the public except for the needs of

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people, and he wouldn't speak about other than

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that even if people were to speak about

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it at that time.

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So moving on, Sayed Al Hasan says,

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about how people would leave from from him,

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how he would leave the people.

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The Nabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

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he

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used to hold back or protect his tongue

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sallallahu alaihi wasallam. Not protect, I mean he

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would

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withhold his tongue or or or fort you

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know, put lock it up in his mouth

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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except for for that speech which is relevant

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to the people who are coming to him

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at the time.

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He used to say to them those things

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that would keep them together, and he would

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not,

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say to them those things that would drive

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them away.

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He would honor the,

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the noble people of every, qaum of every

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people,

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and he would give them authority over his

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people.

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And this is one of the beautiful things

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about Islam

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that when the messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam when the people would come and

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accept Islam at his hands, He didn't use

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to uh-uh you know jar the system for

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no reason.

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If everything was working properly

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then the system that was there before Islam

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would be the system that would run-in Islam

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as well unless there was a a dire

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need in order to change something.

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So he would honor the people who are

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honored in Jahiliya amongst the Qom. He would

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honor them in Islam, and he would allow

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them to keep their positions of authority.

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He was, he was very cautious with regards

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to dealing with people.

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He was very cautious

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with dealing with people, but not so much

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so

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to,

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you know, to withhold the the

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showing of happiness or of.

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A person should be careful when they talk

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to other people and talk to them, but

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they shouldn't be so,

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conspiratorial

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or afraid of everybody,

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being out to get them or out to

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harm them to the point where they're not

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allowed to show a smiling face or not,

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able to,

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show good akhlaq to people. And so that's

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what he did. He used to have a

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fine balance. He was very cautious because he

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you don't know who's coming to you for

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what reason, what are they, you know, what

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do they want? They're saying one thing. What

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do they intend? What is the outcome gonna

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be of you meeting with them and talking

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to them? Oftentimes, you know, people want to

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do something good and want to deal with

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other people in a good way and it

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ends in a bad way. So he's very

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cautious. He didn't need to just, rush headlong

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into whatever people are saying to him. But

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at the same time, he wouldn't allow that

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cautiousness to make him withhold his happiness from

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people or his good character from people.

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If his one of his companions wasn't present,

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he would feel the presence of the person.

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He wasn't oblivious of those around him rather.

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He'd ask about people who weren't present, which

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is good. Oftentimes, what we do is that,

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brother, you didn't come to the Masjid lately,

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man. Well, you okay, man? You okay, brother?

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You ain't reading Fajr. You ain't reading whatever,

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you know, in the Masjid. Well, you know,

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oftentimes, people do they don't ask that way.

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That's not a nice way to ask as

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if you're accusing someone. Ask somebody out of

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genuine concern,

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and and and have that feeling. Make that

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Nia in your heart before you say something.

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It's incredible how much of an impact that

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has. You make the niya in your heart

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before asking someone that I'm asking about their

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well-being. I'm not trying to bust their chops

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about, you know, why they're not being as

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pious in public as they should be.

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It makes a great difference for how that

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that feeling conveyed.

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So he

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was one who was,

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concerned about his companions. If one of them

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wasn't there, he he he was he he

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would be, he would feel their absence,

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then he would ask about people ask people

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about what's going on in the public. He

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wasn't someone who was completely,

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sectioned off or isolated from the people.

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He would,

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consider something good to be good, and he

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would give it give it more power, and

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and he would consider something ugly to be

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ugly and he would weaken

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it. Why by his

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statements and by his,

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actions? Whatever he heard that was good, he

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would also,

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you know, give that give that a lift.

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And whatever battle was happening, he would say

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something such to, weaken it or weaken people's

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resolve to, to join it or to,

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interact with it.

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He was always he always kept a balanced,

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way of, of behavior,

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a a balanced affair, and he would never

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change from that balance.

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La Yagfulu Mahafata

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and Yagfulu

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O Yamilu. He was never heedless himself out

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of fear that the other people, if he

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was ever heedless, they would be heedless as

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well or they would, they would they would

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to, you know, turn toward or or become

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inclined toward error.

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And it couldn't be.

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He was always he always had something he

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had prepared for every eventuality,

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which is also part of.

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Every eventuality had some material means that were

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prepared for it whether it be,

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guests or whether it be the need for

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money or the need for arms or the

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need for soldiers or the need for for

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help or whatever.

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He was never short

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in in in standing for the truth nor

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did he overshoot the mark,

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which is both of them are problematic.

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Punishing someone too much or not not not

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bringing the issue up, both of them being

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falling short or going too far with regards

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to the Haqqim that do either of them.

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Those who were closest to him were

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the best of the people.

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The one who was the the the most

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virtuous amongst his companions,

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were they were considered the most virtuous were

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the ones who had the most iqlas for

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everybody else. They're the most sincere for the

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public.

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And the the ones that had the greatest

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station with him,

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were the ones who were the most perfect

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in spending and giving out to other people

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and in helping those who needed help,

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which is another it's another really,

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you know, good reminder, beautiful reminder for us

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also that the people who give

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leadership to should be those people who are

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useful and helpful

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and not any other not other benchmarks that

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we use to measure somebody's

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station

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and rank in society.

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Allata' give all of us dufit

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