Haleh Banani – Ask Dr. Hanaa – As a Female Mufti #20

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The speakers emphasize the importance of personal growth, finding a relationship with the Internet, finding a way to make the guest experience even better, avoiding conflict between family members and helping others, and avoiding giving gifts and helping others. They also mention a program to raise children Islam beads and emphasize finding a way to make one's own decisions, such as donating to the homeless Muslims. The speakers also mention upcoming events and a book on " hesitation to grow" that will give attendees a chance to win prizes and a new member of their group interested in learning Islam and becoming a model. They emphasize the importance of finding oneself doing the same and finding oneself doing the same for others.

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			All right hamdulillah We're so glad to be doing this again and in short luck just waiting for
everyone to get on
		
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			so back there
		
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			this is this is the last Monday in the month right is the last Monday of Ramadan
		
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			the fastest wasn't saying that everyone was the fastest Ramadan indeed we say that remember
		
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			but this time I think it really wins the prize this time was really fast so Han Allah that reminds
me up my life you know just so panelized Fast Forward exactly exactly Yes What's my mom would always
say that she would say my life felt like it was on fast forward
		
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			layout haha
		
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			in what How have your main job muddled the higher up alameen Kufa mean on me? Yeah, De Niro planned
for all her patients in the
		
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			in the bombing. Oh, that means a lot to me. My mom loved you a lot and
		
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			I appreciate the elegance and
		
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			people that have ever met so Panama just like a lot head on. Thank you so much. She She loved you
and she knew how dear You were to me and we have Mashallah. We're ready to get started. Salam Alikum
and welcome to mindful Ramadan. This is our last our final q&a with Dr. Hannah Gamal, our favorite
female Mufti from Houston, Texas, Masha Allah we've benefited so much from your your answers your
wisdom and and your beautiful personality. Mashallah, so, we're so blessed to have you. And I like
how we met with our blue
		
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			stripe to imitate my color I know I love you and I want to imitate you
		
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			of the way for us to meet in heist place in Chennai or LA and so they say imitation is the highest
form of flattery. When somebody prays for you, you don't say insha Allah you say, I mean, I mean
		
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			I mean, the answer for that does not stop or wait for the machine. Because you answered the diet
immediately. I like that. I like how y'all remembered please put hashtag live if you're watching
live if you're watching the replay, put hashtag replay and let's get started in sha Allah who's
ready to get their questions answered right me and we are ready to go so we had a few questions from
from last time that didn't get you know we didn't oh they're saying we can't see you. Oh no, don't
tell me that we cannot see you either here Oh, you can't
		
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			Oh no. All right. Can you let me know can I really what they're saying it's a beautiful color of his
job How can you How can you say color his job if you can see yes
		
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			they are talking about mine My My dear I'm sure guys only you as in only me Holly our Dr. Hannah. Oh
no we can't see it this is this is we can see you can use specify you as in me Okay. Why can't we
see we need to have beautiful Dr. Hannah on and
		
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			oh, I can only see okay dogs out there. I cannot see you so panel Okay, well that's okay. As long as
we have our dear guests
		
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			see you. I know inshallah, it will be tended to as of right now. I will. You can hear me though.
Right? You can.
		
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			She said I love Dr. Hannah. Beautiful inside and out. I agree. So you guys, we want to make use of
the time. So what we're going to do is I'm going to go ahead and ask the questions. One minute,
please. One minute.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Support Don't worry, do not fear. My husband is here.
		
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			The little blue thing just needs to be clicked.
		
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			Okay, we're gonna figure it out. You guys. Thank you for being so patient. All of you are scared.
		
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			You're not supposed to be on this group.
		
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			The fifth night you said this is
		
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			only for women. Only.
		
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			Oh
		
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			he left Carlos it's just women
		
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			no but actually we're
		
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			the husband of sister hella it just like one of my sons for a long time he's very very close friend
of my sons is just a person that we love very very much but on the front of house she's gonna kill
me if I say that
		
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			no he loves your you and your family so much I knew your son's much later we go way back 20 years 20
years of friendship and and I've had the privilege of studying with you and you're one of my first
foreign teachers. And if I sound good, it's because of it because if I if I don't sound so great.
It's not your fault.
		
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			I take full responsibility if anything doesn't come up. She will spend so much time with the massage
Ma sha Allah. We did how many months? Eight months? Nine months in months? Yes. 10 months. Okay, so
let's get started Ma sha Allah so we are ready to go this mela
		
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			in one of the answers Dr. Hanna has said that if a deceased person has any remaining fast to be
taken, it is better for the child to fulfill it. My question is Does that mean we can take Sunnah
fast for our parents? Okay.
		
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			I was a bit lacking in a shape Anya rajim Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen
wa salatu salam O Allah ashrafi mousseline Saeed, and I'm having met him while he was here. Right.
So the Haleakala in Medina in lantana in NACA into lollywood, hockey and rugby shortly so that he
was suddenly empty were no longer productive milissa Ania only Allah Masha Allah Milena had a hall
this one eluding me in Europe alameen Allah Medina Illa Sawa It's been a long journey and
		
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			congratulations for you ladies. The agenda insha Allah Allah I asked her what the Baraka with Allah
to accept all of our inquiry and all of our supplication yummy in those last 10 days and the whole
Ramadan and the whole year. And just to make the thing quick, our relationship between us and Allah
subhanho wa Taala does not stop here in the last 10 days of Ramadan, Ramadan, the beauty and the
peace and the connection that we felt between us and our toddler in Ramadan we would love to
continue doing it because the role of Ramadan is the rub of chawan is above every month and every
day and a lot of work with Allah says in the Quran, there are only a study Villa home asking me I
		
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			will respond immediately to you. So it does not stop here at all We would love to continue have the
intimate relationship between us and the poor and in such a beautiful way reciting it the proper way
I understand that I understand that the meaning and the and what Allah subhanaw taala wants us to do
understand what a lot of work what Allah wants us to abstain from understand how to implement and
this is the ultimate goal of reciting Quran so the way belt
		
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			Yani the peace and the serenity when we would have in the relationship between us and the Quran and
Allah and feeling like you know i can i can postpone this nonsense things for standing before a lot
our khattala or sitting with the Quran for a little bit or attilan Allah subhanaw taala my story or
complaint Allah subhanho wa Taala or showing gratitude and thank you for everything that he's done
for me. All what we did the Ramadan was amazing with rejuvenating and with was so beautiful. We
extended that we would love to have a full year Ramadan you can have the whole year. Ramadan, just
need some time before you because this is how you want to prove to yourself that you love you. You
		
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			love you love when it comes to love America, everything is me, myself and I everything is something
for anybody on the face of the earth. It's for me, I am doing my intent to be rewarded for it. And
that's why I would love for you and I I asked a lot of articles to make me say what to do what I'm
saying, to continue having this beautiful relationship between us and a lot of America with IRA.
Hopefully Allah subhanho wa Taala we make our life full of peace no matter
		
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			insha Allah, Allah me, I have a word for this. I'm going to just interject we call it spiritual self
care because we talk a lot on the mindful hearts about self care, but this is the spiritual self
care that we need to do throughout the year.
		
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			This is this is this is the treasure that we need to save in our bank, the bank where the
		
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			The fat in the feed not the interest What is your actual bank account?
		
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			It's it's multiplied by 700 divided by a number that we have no clue about. And, you know, imagine
that when you the first moment when you enter Jannah imagine just
		
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			an amazing moment that the moment would be astonished by your rivers by your castles or by the
people that passed away a long time ago and you're prideful. need them. Imagine that you're seeing
all the Sahaba that you've been reading about and love, your new autumn hopper coming from there. I
fell in love very dizzy over there. I say the hadisha is sitting here I say that Aisha is sitting
there. Imagine all your children are all your family around you and all of a sudden you find life
has nothing of the agony that we're going through. Imagine yourself going to be like 25 years old
like me and you find yourself again 18 years old in general and you there is no sickness there is no
		
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			growth.
		
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			Here there is no enmity there is no there is no that there is no there is no CRM, there is nothing
going over there. We enjoy, enjoy it and it's so worth it. Love yourself for the proper way. It is
very easy for you to go to China as a woman because you go through a lot and Allah subhanho wa Taala
will take you two gentlemen insha Allah Allah together me with you, all of us in general remember in
this day,
		
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			in the highest place in Jannah sitting with our scholars say that he was the one who's teaching us
the knowledge of Rasulullah sallallahu taala he gave me goosebumps goosebumps
		
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			waiting for that and shout love. It's beautiful. And this is our ultimate goal. If you're going
through any hardship, just close your eyes and say insha Allah is coming.
		
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			I mean in sha Allah that He will suddenly murder Carlos, Mohammed in water. He was going to be here
tonight as for the the question that the sister ask the student is something And the fourth is
something else you cannot combine funa with fun, if your mom owes a loss some forum that you have to
have the intention that you're doing for the for her, you will be getting the reward the no doubt
for doing doing two things doing something to be beautiful to your mom and something that you Allah
subhanaw taala is not going to let you go without any type of reward for it. Right? If you know that
she owes over five days go ahead and do it to your brother to take one day you can take one day you
		
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			can do it all at least to train yourself in sha Allah tala to first Mondays and Thursdays as for
Hajj and Umrah? Yes, definitely you can do
		
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			volunteer had you for your mom if she if she if he passed away without performing hajj and she was
capable of doing Hajj there is a huge difference in any disputes among the scholars if you suppose
to do Hajj on her behalf or not. Because at the day she had the means she had the health she had the
safety of the road she had all the requirements for hygiene she chose not to there is a huge dispute
among the speller if you do but I will go for it if I can do from her own money before I distribute
the inheritance or I can voluntarily give it to her for my own money. That's absolutely we also this
is for the mandatory Hajj and I do in each and every person who have the means to go and perform the
		
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			Hajj Do not wait for
		
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			the the as for the volunteer Hajj and Umrah it's open you can do as much as you want. So the Russell
salovaara what he was saying that said is a matter of time Allahu lambing tell us so the purge area
elbonian FRB or willdan sadi from yet
		
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			if a person dies, all his his severed except in three things we'll do inside here the righteous
child who prays for him ongoing charity, or he did it for himself before he passed away or you also
can do it after that. But the best is the one that you do it for yourself. And the third one is
knowledge that benefit people after you die. It doesn't have to be Islamic knowledge. It could be in
medicine, in engineering, in math in anything, but the intention has to be for a lot of arco tala to
help mankind.
		
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			Of course, the DA and then the DA and then the DA is something that is needed for all of us after we
leave this dunya
		
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			Mashallah Jazakallah here for that thorough response and just to make sure
		
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			Sunda fasts are permissible as well, right? Absolutely. He could always say I'm doing this sooner
today and I'm sending my reward for my mom. Nice. Okay, beautiful. And the next question is a woman
with two daughters wants to write a will to distribute most of her property amongst her daughter's
hand, a small portion left for donation after her death. She does not want her husband and siblings
to benefit from her property due to being treated badly for several years. Is it allowed to write
such a Will she wants to please Allah in the best way? Is there an alternative option that would
please Allah the Most? Please can you explain the reason behind property distribution for parents
		
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			and daughters and in which case they are obliged to include their family members and the will?
		
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			Aloma Deena in so so Dr. Amin begin with my beautiful sister, Allah Baraka with Allah when it comes
to the to the finance and to the money, he did not leave a say for anyone.
		
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			A lot of work with Allah is the one who divided the inheritance. But he did not put the condition to
say the only condition that you can deprive your child that you inherit from you when he leaves or
she leaves Islam. Or when you are yourself leaving Islam. This is the only case
		
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			there the inheritance is divided among the boys and the girls and the parents. The way a lot of
Oracle tala divided it in Surah An Nisa a number 11, you will see a lot of learning only the
academies have their own site. And it's detailed one by one.
		
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			If you have boys and girls, the boys will take bubble. And this is the only case that the boys will
take double most of the other cases the girls takes a lot more than the boys. And if they are words,
only, they take the 2/3 and the rest will be for the parents if they are alive, the parents who will
take share of your inheritance if they are alive. If you have boys or girls, they are the one who
brought you up. They are the one who put you in this position. They are the one who took care of you
from elementary school and before all the way to the time that you get married and you have children
and they still were taking care of you. So and again, I'm not justifying any of that. It's Allah's
		
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			decree. He divided the inheritance between the people It does not matter if my son's is on drugs, or
his bad or his good. Anything he takes his chair and then he has to to act the answer to Allah
subhanaw taala for his behavior with you, if he's a husband or a brother or a father or anybody
else. All you have to do is submit to a lot of what I what I ask you to do give the the portion that
you are going to give to the relatives of your husband or your husband is really very, very small
portion and the rest will be all for your daughter but this is for the inheritance so we have no say
we have no say everything has to go as Allah subhanho wa Taala describe it and a lot divided it. The
		
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			other thing is you can do a lot of things in your lifetime. You can give gifted your dog house you
can buy her this you can buy her that and to your heart if you do a lot of work with Allah do not
destroy the money because you do not want to have the relative to go to them. They take an under the
resurrection you will take your rights from Allah Baraka with Allah. And this is the way we feel
Allah, we say semir now altana we obey and we give the help to the people who deserve it as Allah
subhanaw taala directed us to do and they have to answer to a lot of their behavior with us. It does
not matter how they've been good with us, this is not how inheritance Mashallah that was very well
		
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			explained in the sense that you can give what you want while you are alive. So if you want to give
extra gifts to your children and distribute the wealth, but do not change what Allah has prescribed
as far as the well because this is this is summit now I thought that we have to hear and obey. Now.
I am only seeing myself and I'm not seeing your wonderful face. I'm seeing myself in you. Okay good.
But so maybe it's something one more thing before I go. With this the question if you have boys and
girls and you are giving giving gifts, then the gifts has to be equal. The only difference is the
inheritance let's say you have a boy and a girl I want to give $1,000 to this boy is a gift tonight.
		
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			I give $1,000 to this girl to the girl I also buy a house for this boy I buy a house for this
		
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			Give a five letter to this I get $5 this I give it whatever it has to be as a gift equal. Okay?
That's a good distinction. It's not it's with inheritance that the proportions right definitely. By
the way, just in two words I'm so sorry that inheritance is very fair because the my son, my
brother, the one who's gonna take a bubble of me, needs to go to get married in take care of me
still as a sister. He has a wife to take care of his his children. He has a mom to take care of
tooth and he sees responsibility as for me, my man is for me
		
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			or my husband or my children, this is not this is how Allah subhanaw taala Yani give the man a
little bit more because he has more obligation, including myself, he is obliged to serve myself,
right. So on the surface, it may look like the man is getting more but it's because of his level of
responsibility with family members so he is obligated to take care of them. The woman whatever she
gets, she actually keeps herself so
		
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			much well explained. Here is the next question. I have a problem with passing when and I don't know
what is causing the problem when I make Salah when I make Salah I have to repeat my widow a few
times my clothes get wet and my body feels cold. I heard one had the if you hear a sound or smell
passing gas, it invalidates withyou and also another Hadith about using one mu for every fart Salah
is valid for cases like mine.
		
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			Sometimes this picture I get the okay you get it
		
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			wouldn't long have you noticed oh wait so they
		
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			use a limo verticality that I'm hammered in my fingers right? When it goes to person went. Or when
it comes to discharge like you're in or person some of you are in it's all the same. There are three
things.
		
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			One when you have a chronic problem and I do advise a sister who sent me this question to
investigate this with her doctor to see if this is a chronic thing or something that can be Charla
Jani taking care of
		
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			if it's a chronic Yes, you do we'll do for the summer. And even if it if you hear it and even if you
smell it, and even if you do anything with it, and on inside your Salah, you're fine. Same thing for
the person who passes urine. And this is also a some kind of chronic illness. He or she has to do
look for every salah and does not matter if the urine come down on the prayer up. No problem your
Salah is absolutely but Islam is very, very flexible and very beautiful. It's all about your heart,
not about your action.
		
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			So this is the first case the second case, if it's a temporary we have to take care of it, we have
to make sure that the if there is a certain type of food that goes in that or certain type of
situation, and then we have to take care of that. And in this case, yes, I have to make sure that if
I lose it if if something happened I lose my Voodoo and I go RE DO my Voodoo and finish my it's my
Salah, the third one which is very, very scary is the sweats. The one who has in his mind, oh my
god, I think I passed when Oh my God, I think I lost money Oh my God. And this is and he's not sure
of anything, this is very dangerous, you have to be very assure and also you have to be very certain
		
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			that this has happened otherwise the house will be like in a shape on the regime. And the Yani
focusing on your Salah, and keep keep doing your idea that the worst is very dangerous. So be
careful with that. If you follow this one is going to drive you crazy and it is not good for you.
And you know some people they met they ended up going to Jani some problems. So anyway, make sure
that you you're not going through the eastwest like oh, I don't know if I did that or I don't know
they did that. No. The first one is the one who is chronically ill the second one who is temporary l
that we can take care of of it and pay attention to it. And the third one is with words and this is
		
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			the most dangerous one and if you go to any phagwara website, you will find this question there.
Yes, the Hadees of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the one who said that you do not really
follow your shikon when he tells you that there is something going on this you hear something? he
hear it loud at all. You smell something? This is for the people who are no you don't have a
problem.
		
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			don't have a problem. And they, they
		
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			basically does not want them to listen to the Shakedown. And that's why
		
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			you have to hear something or you have to smell something.
		
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			I wanted to just give a psychological perspective on this, because I've had hundreds of clients that
have had obsessive compulsive disorder, OCD. And they do get very obsessed, sometimes it takes some
30 minutes to do with, or sometimes the prayer. And it really has to do with this idea of wanting or
expecting perfection. And many times we have a shoe explaining the widow, that your widow has to be
perfect, and your Salah has to be perfect. And I know they mean well, they are meaning to you know,
do your best. But with someone who has OCD, they will take that literally. So what I tell you, if
you have a problem with this, don't expect 100% if you aim for 80%, say I'm going to do 80% and you
		
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			do your best, that's much better than being consumed with worry and fear and anxiety because of your
widow. So that that's something to keep in mind. And another thing is, if you're passing us It could
be a food intolerance. So if you take some kind of a blood work and find out what you're allergic
to, because, you know, we've done blood work we've seen we have certain allergies, wheat, dairy,
eggs, many, many things, the garlic, and if you avoid those items, then you won't experience the
passing of gas. So it doesn't have to be something you just accept. Please look into that. So just
that's a sign of your heart. Focus on your heart. Focus on your heart.
		
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			ami. Yes. One woman is saying if a woman is diagnosed case of early menopause after two years of no
periods, she has withdrawn bleeding. Can she fast and pray
		
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			with the roll? bleeding? What? Like Like, random
		
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			guys, it just comes. It's not like it yours? Yes. It sounds like it. I'm not sure she has to deal
with it. I know exactly what she's saying. Yes, she can have appeared after two years, or one year
or six months. Yes. She deal with it like a like a period.
		
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			Okay, she deals with it like a period so she doesn't fast or pray during that. Right? Yes. Okay. So
as I said I another sister was asking online right now that if she is a stay at home mom, is she
responsible to pays that card on her jewelry?
		
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			I think we talked about this last week by saying that the majority of the unima do not believe that
you should pay zeca for your jewelry that you're using as ornament. But what are some, like Abu
hanifa for example, there are some of them that they say you should pay for your your adornment. I
myself I don't pay.
		
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			Okay, just Sokoloff ADA. This is saying last week on Wednesday, at Astor time, I noticed yellowish
discharge. And after wrapping up, I notice red discharge. I was fasting that day. So my period
started after my prep. I think the last red color I saw was the following week on Thursday at
fetcher. sohar and then it was yellow at officer. It might be a little confusing. out this period.
		
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			I have no idea. I don't know. Yeah. So the first week, she only had this charge. This was a
yellowish yellow was started after and mcwrap she saw red. And one week later she's started her
period. Right.
		
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			So she started to have periods. This is where she counted period. Right? The questions are very
clear for me. I'm sorry. Okay, it Yeah, it's, uh, says, How do I count this period? Is it seven
days? Or did I go over seven days? Someone told me we count our area from my prep time. It seems
like she started her period, often the memory, right. That's what she saw. Right? I mean, I would I
would take the whole day of the bushi received that discharge as part of her period. Even though it
wasn't read, even though it wasn't read because the to prove that that the three are distorted. She
saw the the red one. Sure. That's a yellow discharge first. You know what she said that she said
		
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			that she is so that is right after mother.
		
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			He would have the red before mother so to be on the safe side. Let her count this thing. Okay. We'll
log on. Okay. All right. And for anyone to count your period for you, my dear sister, you have to be
very vigilant. Several months write down all kinds of sign right now.
		
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			When and how and the smell and the and the color and everything that you have. So you can be very,
very familiar for your period. And that will help you also to help your daughter in the future
inshallah, in sha Allah, there are even apps to keep track of it. So you could do that. And that way
you can kind of anticipate without breaks, if you can smell her here when breaking during Salah What
about in between Salah times in between some of them if
		
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			she wants to maintain her widu she wants to maintain her window. And this is not during prayer. I
believe that's only for prayer time. This is only for prayer times. Yeah. And also, don't be
sensitive or yummy. If you do not if you're not sure that you you you break your will to keep going.
Okay, I have to be certain about it be certain about Yes. Okay. Is it acceptable for my husband to
hide things from me, for example, where he is going or what he is doing? He recently got angry
because the children told me he gave charity in the masjid. And also when they told me there's
something difficult going on in his sister's marriage. Is there any?
		
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			I guess secrecy and marriage is what the question is, belong solely or certainly more verticality
than I'm hammered in my early age. My there are two aspects of this question one, is there any
problem between you and your husband that caused him to have some kind of secrets or hiding things
from you.
		
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			Or already, this is his personality. When it comes to Islam, you don't have to know everything about
your husband. If he was he loves to give some sort of power without telling anyone to give him the
give him the space. You don't have to know this money. And even you if you have your own money you
can give your mother I don't have to tell your husband. So
		
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			also, why he did not share with you the problem that's going on in your his heart, his sister his
house, when I'm very happy that he didn't because I also saw Mohali, he was alum told Osman has nice
learning marketer kuvo melayani, one of the signs of being a good Muslim to let go of things that
doesn't belong to you, instead of making you you know, busy with a situation and think about it or
something like that to your husband, just yet he chose not to kill you, and he did not see why he
should kill you. So we should respect that. Unless you have a relationship that you can share things
with each other. Every home is different, every personality is different than every year we have to
		
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			respect each other as much as we can.
		
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			our Haleh will comment on that much better than me. So it's like Allah Farah, Mashallah you're
always give thorough answers. And that's true as far as like with the data and, you know,
relationship with his, with his family members. I think what ends up happening, a lot of times the
secrecy is about sometimes phone passwords, they put, you know, I think it's really critical to have
transparency within our marriage. So if you're putting a password, you don't want your wife looking
at your phone looking at your messages, then there's this question of why what what is being hidden,
or sometimes the women do this. And so in that point, I really emphasize transparency with things
		
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			that would cause suspicion, right, the prophet Elijah Salaam would avoid any form of suspicion, even
when he was walking with his wife at night and the Sahaba sign. He made sure that they saw that it
was his wife, so not to not cast any doubt. So it doesn't have anything with doubts. Yeah, those two
things that she mentioned is yummy. Something that
		
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			you could do with his own money. Right, right. Yeah. Yanni There are so sister who insisted you know
how many breaths that the husband takes today? Right. That's excessive. It's so much. Yes. No,
you're absolutely right. I mean, I cannot really ask her for her a 30 answer because they don't know
much about her situation. Right. I do not want to comment on something that I am not aware of the
whole situation. That that makes perfect sense. Is it acceptable for my husband? Oh, we did that
when my husband's mom passed away. But he has two step mothers. So I want to know what is the right
of the step mother for him and the right of the step mother in law in Islam for me, along at home,
		
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			get me out of the last one sundiata says how much is the key level care for us asking this beautiful
question
		
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			for your husband. He tried his best to deal with them till tomorrow.
		
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			His own father for his own for for the benefits of his own father, he tries his best to deal with
them bill Morrow
		
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			in the best way of his ability insha Allah As for you, you do the same, just like the way you were
doing, you have no obligation toward you in your mother in law, or your father in law except to be a
gentle being sweet, be nice be in dealing with them bill Morrow, you know, give them gifts, helping
them if you can. It's not an it's not it's not an obligation. Again, it's not an obligation. But
this has something to do with the hostname nature of dealing with each other in the best and the
highest manners. This is the issue between the daughter in law and the mother in law, his
relationship can if you can do it, like friendship will be good. If it's not if it's not possible,
		
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			you be that this person and always give gifts and always say Salaam and always trying to help but
even if you receive any fiber float or any kind of word or any kind of things for people, it's
absolutely fine. It's absolutely fine. Just remember the first minute when you earn the agenda and
say, You know what, I'm gonna be patient because I want to intelligent and look at all this amazing
things. Insha Allah that's a beautiful reminder because many people struggle with this. And many
times they just take that the fatwa of they're not my responsibility and they dismiss they dismiss
it I don't I'm not gonna sit with them. I'm not gonna bring that and that's not the heart of the
		
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			moment that you're snatching huge amount of love of your husband. Yes. For you. will lie. Yeah
hamdulillahi Rabbil aalameen Yeah. And have been a good relationship and it's you. You are the
vibrant You are the young you are who the the one who has the future in front of you. You are the
one who can do a lot of things you can make her laugh You can joke you can tell your husband Let's
go see my mother you know any of this etc. My mother for a long time. My mother loves this kind of
chocolate or my mother like the dish is not going to take anything away from you is going to add a
lot for you. With your husband with your in laws. It doesn't matter how they are going to treat you
		
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			because there are also some allamani who is selling them somebody when
		
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			he said yaroslava I have relative I visit them and they don't visit me I give them the the pride me
I'm be nice with them and they've been bad with me.
		
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			But he also loves it if what you are saying is correct. You wouldn't be as if you are taking the
sand and you are thrown in their eyes.
		
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			So I don't deal with people though they deal with me I deal with people with the if they disobey
Allah in dealing with me, I do not disobey Allah who deal with them.
		
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			I am me. I am working for me. I am working for me. I am saved in in my own bank account with a rock
man. I am not looking at you. I'm looking at me Allah you're great with Allah and that has guided me
so much in so many relationships that I'm only focus on my grade with a lot it's not about the other
person and when you do that and when you do it with sincerity Allah will get their hearts to melt
and eventually Oh yeah. You really are able to when a person over you kill them with kindness.
		
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			having lots of experience with lots of people like that. I think a lot of people that we saw with
our own eyes, how things turn you know, amazingly beautiful it really does a level loss if I'll be
lucky
		
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			for either the NACA webinar whoo who are the
		
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			honey refill with that? The best of the best that you have? Right? Was that person that was really
giving you a hard time. All of a sudden you will find this one the who was an enemy to you became to
you an intimate friend. Mashallah, we've I think we've all experienced that and and it is. It is a
training of the enough's to you know, there were times I would pick up the phone and I say you know,
y'all I'm only doing this for you. And you feel the reward of it.
		
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			One sister is asking, what happens when we get upset extremely upset when we are fasting Do we have
to make up the day because they say they anger can break your fat? Remember? My dear beautiful
sister for the other question. Remember one more thing that lk Lima Yuba for the
		
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			mother and most it's something she looked at you in certain ways it oh mama, you look
		
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			Beautiful Michelle Obama a learning where do you know you remember that thing that you that I ate in
your house last week? I still have the taste in my tongue is so beautiful. Right? So I've kept him
up a year but for the top as for this sister here, aloha folio slo mo barik ala Sayidina Muhammad in
LA LA or San Diego man. alumina Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Karasu Salafi Lapasset when
you become very angry, and you were standing sit down, if you still very angry lay down, if you
still very understandable Makoto, if you still very angry, put yourself under the shell because
anger comes from the shaytan shaytaan was made from fire the water will extinguishes the the fire
		
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			that's going through your body. So this is the this is the steps that you take insha Allah Allah
when you become angry, and don't listen to the shape on the minute that you feel that way. First
eight hours we learn him in a shape on the regime to people who are fighting in the front of
Rasulullah His body
		
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			is extended that their nose and their ears became red.
		
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			Nobody who said upset I know words. If they say them, they that anger will subside all day he mean a
shape on your regime because you are basically reaching out to Allah The one who has the power over
the shape on which he sees you and you do not see him and you say you're Allah take care of him.
Then he become Yunus and was worth of kindness, you become this big and you're here. And that's why
when you start fighting with your husband, you feel the heat. start saying I will be learning the
Shakeology or kill your husband please say our leguminous shake on Russian normally, are you your
your cm is valid. Everything is okay with the car. But you lose some of the reward if he's if you
		
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			are words that
		
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			you know, that's not supposed to be there. Just like a Lafayette on how this one is about parenting.
How does one treat their children the same? For example, girls need more accessories, hence, more
finance, especially at weddings. Or one child might be more assertive in their needs, or the eldest
gets more new things and attention because they're the eldest
		
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			How can we be fair in the treatment of our children and what are their rights in terms of fairness?
Good question. Very, very, very good course it insha Allah Allah Eonni very soon you will hear a
beautiful program about raising children Islam beads in lakita Allah will be on the same panel beat
the library stone and sha Allah and
		
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			Mohammed
		
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			to be fair with your child give him what he needs. If I hadn't filed who's 18 years old, and a child
who is five years old 18 years old needs a car
		
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			$1,000 go to the university with my my five years old needs a remote control car with $100 to play
with. So I give the one who is going to college $20,000 to get the car and for the little one 130
this is absolutely fair no problem with that. I cannot say why I give this a what happened if I die
I don't this is his risk. And this is this is his need at this moment. At this moment. My daughter
get married and I prepare for her wedding and I paid this much money for her and hamdulillah when my
son gets married if I can help with this much less or more I can relax it depends on the situation
at this moment it is not it's not an inheritance that I have to do it Penny by Penny no it's it's a
		
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			situation like I have that today I'm well off and my choice
		
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			in need of $100,000 for tuition I paid then my other son came and I was not as young I didn't have
enough money to give him the tuition this is a situation so there is nothing to be worried about if
situation happened like that unless you plan for it and you mean it like you'd want I can give my
daughter because I I want it my daughter to have all this and my son You know what? He's married a
stranger. I don't want to I do not want him to have you have so again, it depends on your situation.
your intention you try your your best out of the best. This is the only way to keep your brothers
and sister happy together. And this is that richer to keep your family together loving each other is
		
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			a double and this is the easiest way to civil the relationship between brothers and sisters.
Beautiful Mashallah. Just sokola hit on. One sister is asking Should I accept the proposal that I
don't want
		
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			I'm not pleased with just to please my parents. That's there's a lot about, say that again.
		
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			Should one accept the proposal even though their heart is not feeling that it is right in order to
please my parents? Absolutely not. Absolutely. Amen. Amen. I mean
		
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			to some allamani insulin Stein, the lady with him and I really appreciate all the heavy yet May
Allah reward him immensely and gather us with him guys place in general not leave any question for
us to answer now they asked her Susannah for everything. So this lady wanted Rasulullah sallallahu
wasallam she said the Rasul Allah my father wanted me to marry this person to raise his status by me
marrying this guy. Shall I accepted? He said, You do not want him if he said no. He said, No, he has
no right to meet you.
		
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			Okay,
		
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			so if you don't have chemistry for the brother, yes, my dear sister, and if you are your heart is
not happy and flying, that he's married, that you're either really getting married to this brother
is not a good sign. Right? I just liked it a lot. That's that's so important because so many people
just do it to please their parents and then it builds resentment. Then it creates fitna in the
marriage many horrible things happen when they're unhappy with your parents. Your parents are not
going to wake up in the morning and look at this man next to me or this woman next to me.
		
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			I'm not going to live with Him forever. It's something that I look at this man and my eyes are
yummy. Really, please so please No, this is this is this is not fair. And this is oppression. This
is what I call oppression. The woman the girl has the right to say yes to be happy to be flying to
reject the just like the men completely like the man. Right? So Sokka lafaye and I should one be
more careful and reserved with non maharam within the family rather than outside for example,
colleagues, classmates and more reserved with Muslim non my friends because they are least likely to
form a relationship.
		
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			Non Muharram is anonymous.
		
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			If he's actually resourceful Allahu alayhi wa sallam told us
		
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			the relative or more to be more conservative like you're the brother in law for example some people
they just if she's wearing off it doesn't wear up in front of her brother in law if she's doing
things in the house here are all the way because it's only the brother in law know the brother in
law is a stranger just like you're anyone else outside you should be conservative when you are
surrounded by any nonmetal okay just like a lot Hey, is it okay to give that caught caught they'll
fit as groceries for a needy family? yes actually supposed to give it as you know, grain rice food
whatever the family need, that would be the best it's much better than giving the money okay and
		
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			someone else asked Is it okay to give the Is it okay to give the zip Zakat money to family members?
Yes if they are in need if they are under that seven categories
		
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			Okay, just like a Latina Alright, if I sew dresses for women and those women display those dresses
in front of non mahute on men Am I encouraged? Am I encouraging this behavior by making these
dresses do I partially bear the responsibility or this sin?
		
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			You can you can you can Yani with a condition that
		
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			I when I display this kind of dresses I would love to have only women in the in the room and then if
they do anything after that this is their problem. Okay, it's not her responsibility. Okay. All
right, if a mother is bias and supports her son at the old age, even when she is wrong, and
misbehaves when the daughter and is sometimes very rude and unkind to her, What can a daughter do in
this type of misbehavior of her mother? I think the sister is talking about being treated unkindly
and less favorably to her brother by her mother to be more beautiful to her mom.
		
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			This way, the her her Jihad here her struggle is encouraging. Beautiful
		
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			Yeah, if Yeah, forgiven, overlooked definitely if the mom is someone that she can communicate with
chicken, talk to her in a soft way the discard kind of behavior hurts me that kind of things that
can, you know, make me feel awkward, whatever. If she's not, she keeps you boggle.
		
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			Whatever she's doing for her mom, and that we learn your ticket to Jenna
		
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			Mashallah, so regardless of how you're being treated with your mother, you overlook you do your best
and do it for the sake of Allah inshallah it's someone who can advise the mom to be faithful all of
them not for the girl it's for the mom will be best because it is not right to be
		
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			to prefer someone over someone from the kids boys a verse
		
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			just a koala hater. Let's say Can Can you please provide guidance and resolving conflict between
family members in the light of Islam that would take an hours
		
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			I'd like to do so before the end of Ramadan she's wants to know very, very simple and easy. Do not
indulge in details of anybody's life in your family. I always say hi hi bye bye You know soleimani
our you know Barack
		
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			that I don't cut relation or civil relationship between me and anybody. If they have funeral I go if
I have to have something nice I go if I there is something that I need to go and give gifts I do but
not to make sure that they know everything about them otherwise I'm not part of the family or they
know everything about me This is where the problem starts. He will not right and I would add three
things in with for the conflict resolution First of all, Mashallah just like a life here and that
you want to fix the relationship in Ramadan May Allah make this way so heavily so many people hold
grudges and so that's a beautiful character that you have that you want to do this I will say three
		
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			things take ownership of what you have done wrong. So admitted, apologize for anything that you may
have contributed. And third, ask what you can do to improve these are like maybe three simple steps
with a conflict resolution inshallah. So sokola fan and Mashallah so much. We have so many questions
and so little time I'm going to try to go through this is it okay to wear a turban instead of a hit
job or a headscarf? I'm glad that you mentioned this one because there is a sister who asked a
question
		
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			to two, Monday's ago. Yes. And she said that her daughter's like 14 or cherish their puberty and
she's insisting for her to wear abaya because the other is the hijab. And but the daughter has a
special syndrome she has Down syndrome and this she is she's struggling really walking with the with
that diet and be honest with you, you have the eye buyer is not Oh what are they a Baba is not the
hijab.
		
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			The definition of hijab is also for the issue. It does not describe your body, the shape of your
body and it is not transparent. And when in any way you like if you are a thin person that you can
wear a
		
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			pan pants that's loose pants and long a shirt that's under reach all the way under your knees and
		
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			covers your bosom you find that the scarf,
		
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			the scarf, yes, you have a if you were to show one promise but the thick material and it's not
showing what's under it 100 that if you were in a skirt and something over 100 that it does not have
to be Avaya. My dear sister Avaya will be Yes, that's fine. But do not impose it on your child to
the extended that your child don't hit the abaya and hit the hijab altogether. So yes, she can wear
a pants she can wear and you think a lot of Baraka Tyler, that you have such a beautiful girl that
who wants to wear the hijab in this age you are absolutely fortunate I'm hungry leg up and as for
the turban, this is the hijab in Surah two mu and so as it says while you're greener beehoon or
		
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			hiner Allah Jew beginner so it has come from the head all the way to the chest area, this part the
neck has to be covered, the ear has to be covered the chest to have have to be covered, but the
person who put the the Turpin only covered in the here and the whole
		
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			nine yards is still there opening
		
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			so the left for you started with the turban May Allah reward you and increase your Eman little by
little insha Allah tala you'll find yourself putting a scarf and it is not a big deal. It's
beautiful. It's really beautiful. And I just feel honored with a lot about a koala honor. Did you
say you are super beautiful. I want to cover you. You are a gem. I do not want anybody to look at
you. Right? Right. It's upon Allah. I remember when I had first put on his job. I was wearing it
very loosely.
		
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			And a friend had shared, like, Oh, this is a way you can do it and you can wear your earrings with
it. And, and I remember asking a friend of mine who was quite religious, and I said, you know, is it
okay to put you know, earrings and have the neck showing. And she answered this in a way without
being judgmental without saying, you know, this is wrong. And she said, your head job is a
reflection of your level of emotion. And I, you know, I thought about it and I put the earrings I
said, I'm gonna put it aside, because everyone wants to have the highest emotion but we do start at
a certain stage and we build up and I know that I definitely went through those stages. And
		
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			sometimes you just have to take those baby steps as you said.
		
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			I wouldn't have to know that Don't be scared. It's beautiful. It is not a big deal. It is not a big
deal at all. It just it feels special. Yes, yes, Ma sha Allah. So just I call a Hana we have we
still have can we do a few more? Are you fine with answering a few more questions? Anything happy
before you're happy? Just like Allah ADA. So first of all, I remember we had a talk and I had a talk
in debate and it was about his job and I said, Dr. Hanna, I'm gonna need backup. So I remember
		
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			I called you and I said, Okay, help. So you've always been such a source of inspiration and support
Mashallah.
		
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			All right. So let's say if a woman earns money, can she spend her money without her husband's
permission? Does a woman have to give Zakat on the money she has earned herself? My dear beautiful
women, you are a complete entity You are a complete individually or complete servant of Allah,
whatever is obligated for you to do is the same or you're obliged to do your husband or your brother
or your father is obliged to do when it comes to the act of worship. We're all the same in
everything except to the things that doesn't suit our body. That's it. So if you are a working woman
or you inherit money or you are a business woman yes you're responsible for your own money to pay
		
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			your second if your your money stays with you for one full year, reach the nisab you are obliged or
obligated to pay what two and a half percent on that money. Absolutely. And you are super free to do
whatever you want to do with your your money but it's
		
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			unless it's
		
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			gonna be something that is extravagant you buy drugs, you buy alcohol, you buy something good
husband can stop you. But
		
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			it's Yeah, if the relationship is good with you and your husband is too beautiful to
		
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			consult you know, I bought this car I want to buy this ring I want to buy but if you want to get
this other part No, probably you don't have to tell him or you want to give a gift for your mom You
don't have to tell him are you going to do something unless he's somebody that you know you share
everything with and he's okay with everything that's absolutely fine. But the point that I want you
to know that you are free to do whatever you want to do with your money As long as you earn it from
halaal and spend it and Helen and you are no different than any man when it deep when it comes to
money and saw the power and the care and everything 100% equal in that Mashallah Jazakallah Farah
		
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			and for that
		
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			my money is my money and his money is our money.
		
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			Yeah, yeah. And you know, when if you decide to help with the family with the expenses, you know,
every penny that you pay towards the family is a setup. So and that's highly encouraged if we do it
with a good heart and listen Allah there is something that we need to explain to our sisters,
because of course in a lot of problem between husbands and wives,
		
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			when you get married, you supposed to be a wife and you're supposed to be a mother or you're
supposed to be a home take any particular area.
		
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			Now I'm leaving my house 1/3 of the day. And I my think that I was expected and expected of me it is
not even 1/3 so if I come and say you know I am making $10,000 a month I am going to put in the
house $3,000 because I feel like I am dupioni there is a lot of short and my sight that's absolutely
fine. It feels good to participate in the house. Other than that, in the penny that you spend from
your pocket, for your house, for your foot for food for eating for you because the food and the
clothes and every especially the food is on the house.
		
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			Okay, so it puts Payton in the house is one of personal issues.
		
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			It's one of the Young Living in a peaceful way. It is not like my money, your money, here's the
problem. Okay? So that way, even if there is a situation that I'm compelled to put all of my money
in the house, you know what smile, it's okay, you're gonna get reward and you paint the car for
every penny that you put there.
		
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			If you feel like this is too much for you, you're gonna stay at home. It's your decision also.
		
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			Mashallah, that was a beautiful reminder that we will keep that in mind and sha Allah. You know,
while we have everyone online, I just want to remind you, that is the last final days of Ramadan
where everything is going to waste so heavily on our scale. And we do have a setup project that 100%
of donation goes to the homeless Muslims and also the refugees here in Dallas. And we're almost
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			all of you love Dr. Hanna, you can listen to her and you can have it and we have the workbook that
can help you. So it the character building is a year, you know, year long process. It's not just in
the month of Ramadan. So we want to gift you with those two things. And what would you like to share
with us Dr. Han about giving the sadaqa to our brothers and sisters here in our hometown. It's
amazing Subhan Allah, when you look at the i o and Allah Subhana Allah said the when you're dying,
you know you say Rob, Billy Joe, take me back, Omar, why? You want to do more Salah now? You want to
go ahead? No, no only have four.
		
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			So I might pay more. Because now I have the I save all the money and I'm leaving by myself and I'm
not doing anything for myself. Okay, so now I understand the importance of cybercom definitely a
sort of extinguishes the anger of a lot about Ireland, in the door for sustenance, the southern part
as a resource of a body who seldom said
		
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			this much a lot of America with Ireland, take this
		
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			Southern and invest it for you until it
		
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			Wow. So this is a beautiful point investment right now there's a lot of focus on investment with
dodge coin and all these other kinds of, you know, crypto currency imagine and we're so puzzled many
people are like, is he joking? Is it that you know, Elon Musk? Is he really trying to help us or is
he trying to play us but this is an investment that a law is investing for you so you are 110% sure
that it's going to be a compound that then just make sure that you understand very, very well that
there is nothing will be taken away from your money when you are paying for the man
		
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			made an oath he said man Nah, man.
		
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			He did an oath by a law that there is no way your money will be new or be will be less than you
know. I paid 100 $100 out of $1,000 now I have 900 this 900 you'll understand the how much Baraka
might spend it right? In $1,000 Allah knows best Yeah, yeah.
		
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			I want to send you this and
		
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			the lady said, and Phil Yun
		
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			annville spent a lot we spend on a lot Mashallah. And we've seen this so many times Dr. Hanna that
you get the money and several, you know several times over Allah returns it to you sometimes
immediately and you're like, I wish I had given more right because you Masha Allah, it is amazing.
It is amazing. So.
		
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			Exactly, exactly. And we would love all of you to join tomorrow we're going to also talk about, you
know, what are some of the signs of that you're, you're fasting, you're Ramadan has been accepted,
and we're going to kind of solidify everything. And we are going to announce some of the winners of
the of the membership. We're going to give a three month membership of my mentorship program, the
mindful Hearts Academy, and so we just want you to stay till the very end so you can
		
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			can get the prizes. And it all has to do with your engagement on these on these chats, we love the
interaction. And last time everyone loved the dog that you made and if we could ask you to, to do a
beautiful dog as a way to encourage us to continue right to consider because a lot of times people
just end it and part of my motivation for doing the mentorship program was I wanted people to have a
place where they continuously work and grow. And so if you could do a dog that will motivate all of
us to continue this journey of self improvement and spirit
		
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			vitami Allahumma salli wa sallim wa barik Allah say that I'm humbled and early you're one of the
thing that can
		
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			assure you that your act of worship is accepted is finding yourself doing the same anymore.
		
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			And find yourself a version of bitter you
		
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			know, after hedgerow till the people go and always think and put your hand on your heart and your
action on the pond and see if you're the same or a bitter person among Muslim you are suddenly
Mubarak Annecy then Mohammed Mr. Earley, he was like ah my mama can handle
		
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			well I can handle equal I can handle the other river handled Kathy you're on point even mobile I can
see me as semi with you an Oregonian, Mr the mnemonic and she can she in that lamella can handle for
an when it can handle slam well it can handle Amen. Allah moluccan hand the hand and Kathy are on
point given MOBA can see here but I learned a lot on my feet and hit a graph you know, with our
learners, they will lead to a better level Miranda female for a whopping financial Rama avoid
necklace overhead. I gotta talk to a local Dalai Lama my ob Bella Nene sustained for us and keep us
here to witness more and more and more and mini mini Ramadan zero belisle again, and equip us with
		
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			full with piety and righteousness, your bellami may also have access to our God Allah.
		
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			May Allah
		
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			May Allah accept our da Europa, learning our salah and our cm and our father, an hour an hour
beautifying our words Europe galantamine, and our repentance May Allah subhanaw taala open the door
of repentance for us, in order for us to repent your Balala mean
		
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			time and make us from the people who are locked out aka granted into Azure. And the reward of Laila
the father and the Baraka three or Delilah need my Allah Subhana Allah grant us Minnie Minnie Minnie
Layla, Audrey or
		
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			Allah subhanho wa Taala gather all of us on the table of knowledge to learn and to enjoy Islam in
this life you're allowed to mean
		
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			what Allah put the light on our face to invite people to Islam and make us a model walking on the
street. eurobodalla mean to demonstrate the beauty of Islam Europe Allah mean by law protect our
children out of the line and we love our children from their themselves and from the shape one of
the things and the Jimmy are blind and May Allah protect our offspring you may have lots of kanatal
and marry older children the best out of the best Dr. Pillai. Also Same for us our children
knowledge and wealth and healthy are applied and they
		
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			keep us and our children or offspring on either in the mud keep us asleep first, as long as we live
your beloved me May Allah Allah make the last days of our life the best days ever. May Allah
subhanho wa Taala Nick the last word and our thonglor either they have lots of Hana hold Allah
protect us from each and every evil thing in this life and in the Hereafter. May Allah subhanaw
taala gather all of us in the highest personal agenda with the people that we loved and we never
seen a say the hadisha Sita Isha say the American either as esa the asthma as all the people that we
loved and we never seen Europe anonyme
		
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			I gather the US around the holder of Rasulullah his alma mater while he was held up, may Allah
subhanho wa Taala Delilah Nene Nick us looking at the face of the law of Arakawa, Allah May Allah
Subhana Allah Allah make us from the
		
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			faces on the death resurrection, looking at America with Allah, pleasing Allah on the Day of
Resurrection your bill Allah mean May Allah subhanho wa Taala opened his door in Mecca for us in the
Haram format, john hamre. Many many many time your mean May Allah, Allah wa salam O Allah so he
knows who the Lord
		
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			to somebody who was in them wherever they are when it comes to the learner of Delilah me or Linda
malice he didn't have 100 in water early he was on the edge 19 Mashallah Jessa Kola head on we could
have listened to this you know all day Mashallah you have such a soothing, soothing voice and the DA
was so comprehensive May Allah reward you, Dr. Hanna for putting your precious time for us during
the month of Ramadan we had record pool sessions with you answering all the questions of this
sisters, sisters, please make doff for Dr Hannah gammon and her family her her sons her daughter in
law's her beautiful grandkids Michelle llactapata Allah and her husband and make the odd that Allah
		
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			answers all her daughters
		
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			continues to be a source of inspiration and and we're going to do nice projects together I know many
of you are saying continue this we are talking about doing something inshallah that will benefit you
greatly. And thank you so much Dr. Hanna for your precious time why I've benefited greatly and I
miss I miss you and I miss our eats together we used to do remember pancakes we did pancakes I we
would have a fun time together as I miss that inshallah we'll be able to do that again sometime
soon.
		
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			Second, low higher. Thank you everyone for tuning in. inshallah, tomorrow we will be wrapping it up
and giving the prizes as well and please take the time right now. To give in that setup, inshallah
you'll be rewarded and we can reach that goal so we can fulfill our promise to these desperate
people in sha Allah it's a sakala head on for your time, your money on a call a Salah how to live a
better cutter thanks again.