Haitham al-Haddad – Divorced after 20 years of separation – Does she have Iddah

28 April 202320 April 2022

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The speakers discuss the process of divorce and the importance of waiting for the ADA period. They also mention a woman who was divorced for 20 years and needs to wait for the ADA period to ensure her eligibility for marriage. The conversation ends with a discussion of a beauty Nevada origin in La Jolla.

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			120s Yeah, if the husband leaves her for more than 20 years without divorce

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			without divorce, can she re marry another person?

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			Yeah, and the answer is no.

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			Unless she is officially divorced, or she goes to a well known reputable court if there is no
Islamic court, well, reputable court or Muslim tribunal or Sharia Council chose to dissolve
marriage.

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			Yes. Okay. Imagine, imagine

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			her marriage was dissolved

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			by an Islamic court.

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			The marriage was dissolved on Saturday.

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			Yeah, Saturday,

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			fifth of suffer the month of suffer? Because we calculate things according to what the Hegira
calendar not according to the Gregorian calendar.

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			How can how long she can stay before remaining? Shall we say that she has been away from her husband
for 20 years? So she doesn't need to wait for a day.

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			Is the question clear?

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			Shall we say that she doesn't need to wait for it because she has been already

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			left abandoned by the husband for 20 years?

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			Shall we say this?

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			And the answer is no.

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			The answer is what? No. She should wait there it does the proper read the period after the divorce
not after separation from the husband. Once she is legally divorced by her husband or legally her
marriage was dissolved. Yes. Or she received polar or

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			even if she has left her husband or she has been away from her husband for 100 years. Still she has
to what? Wait for the ADA period. Okay, so what is the point behind the ADA?

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			What is that

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			if we say that she should wait in order to make sure that she's not pregnant?

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			Yeah, definitely. This lady who has been away from her husband for 20 years. She is not pregnant.

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			Yes. So why she needs to wait

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			for the

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			because Allah Allah Allah Allah said so.

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			Clear.

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			Okay, if we now we have pregnancy test.

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			She was divorced. She wanted the doctor. She had the best than the most accurate test or tests and
it was confirmed that she is not pregnant.

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			Yeah.

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			Should she wait for the aid or not?

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			It is clear now. She should wait for the

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			period. Okay. If her husband said to her that listen. Listen down. Linda, I divorced you and you've
been away for 20 years from me haram okay, I divorced you. I am 454 Go my ADA Right.

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			Can he drop that?

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			He can't. Because there it is the right of who? Allah.

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			No one can drop it clear.

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			Is it clear? Okay.

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			Yes,

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			long muscle use any man

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			if she got married during the period

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			then what do we say? If it is after the first divorce or the second divorce,

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			then we say to her that as if you are married, when you were married,

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			when the second so called marriage be valid.

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			It will not be valid. So if she got married

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			during the period, then that marriage is invalid. Okay.

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			Then Inshallah, next time we will speak about

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			what the Allah

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			of redoing them in beauty Nevada origin up in La Jolla, Tina. Aisha team, Marina and sha Allah this
is enough this will be enough inshallah for today