Haifaa Younis – What Can I Do When I Get Period in Ramadan

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The speaker discusses the importance of changing the meaning of "good" in the context of worship, as it is a natural act of worship. They also mention the need to address the limitations of the options available to them, such as not drinking coffee or eating too many foods. The speaker emphasizes the importance of changing the meaning of "good" in the context of worship.

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			What can I do? Or I must awaking in Ramadan, I get this so many times, my cycle is 15 days. There is
one there cycles 10 or 11, which well what do I do? I can't fast I can't go to the masjid. I can't
listen to taraweeh and I cannot pray what's left from Amazon and they are sad and their people
really are crying. Number one before you tell her what to do change the way you think what is a bad
		
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			you give them the definition of a bad that
		
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			Imam Ibn Taymiyyah gave it and to make your life very easy because that's related to another
question comes in it came from a student and a bad act of worship. Don't define the salah. And
that's it. Really what is the big deal?
		
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			And Eva is one German, it's a name that contains all the following. What is the following? Who Luma
your head? Whoa La Jolla robot everything Allah loves and pay attention to the next one. Please do
it.
		
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			External and internal saying an actions it's six things remember that? Actions and sayings external
and internal. Allah logs and pleased with I'll give you an example.
		
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			Saying yes to your parents since I have a good amount of youth
		
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			and you don't like it? And you're not convinced what mom's saying?
		
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			When you're gonna say is that a saying? Yes. Is that pleasing to Allah? Yes. Does Allah loves it?
Yes. Is that external? Yes, that's an act of worship.
		
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			act of worship.
		
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			I didn't pray I didn't fast I didn't go to the masjid I did not read Quran I'm during my cycle
		
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			345 yes to your parents you prayed five salah.
		
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			I have a lot of other examples. But I want the examples applies to every age in this room. We need
to change the meaning of a bad
		
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			because sometimes I am in an external act of rebellion. I'm praying, but I'm not pleasing Allah.
		
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			Yes or no? Right? Or I am doing it but not the way Allah ordered me to do according to what I like.
That's not an act of worship. So what does the minister waiting Woman number one, look at all the
other acts of worship. Right? Next door neighbor, old person living alone, you can go and spend 10
minutes 15 minutes sitting with her Muslim or non Muslim Muslim even better
		
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			act of worship.
		
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			We don't think of it. It's an act of worship. But while you're doing it, you have to put your knee
not because I love her not because she's nice, not because she did this before it has to be for
Allah. Because Allah taught me through the soil a saw to salon take care of your neighbors. And the
rights of the neighbor is even sometimes more than the rights of the person, your blood relative,
that became an act of worship.
		
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			So when I have everybody from now, from today, put a list of the things you're going to do, do or
say or don't do and say that is going to be absolute acts of worship, that usually when you're
having your cycle, you don't have time to do it. Because the time is very tight and Ramadan, right.
Especially if you're working whether inside the house or outside or these days, all the students are
in colleges and in schools, we don't have this luxury and you have to take care of the family and
then you have to run to the masjid or you want to do your taraweeh you can just sleep, get up for
Soho all these now Allah lift this up from you for about a week. Now your time you will have time to
		
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			sit for Fudger but you're not praying but you're going to do your car.
		
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			Your proper remembrance of Allah I will remind you of this beautiful Hadith that is going to make
the scale very heavy. Probably more than 20 Rocard but you will pray in the masjid. What is it? Can
you mutton coffee for Tanya I know the sound that feed attorney Phil Misa Have you been attorney la
rama Subhanallah he will be handed Subhanallah we are running to statements. Very light on the
tongue. Very heavy in the scale. And very beloved to a rough man he and the Hadith he didn't use
Allah He was the rough man. The Most Merciful what are they? Subhanallah he won't be handy.
Subhanallah Obeah lovely. How many of us say it in the day? Don't show me hands because I can guess.
		
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			Here you go for it until that day. I'm not gonna go to the masjid. I'm going to everybody's
		
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			Gotta go to them as just having to read Yeah, I'm gonna have my peace of mind. Right and I don't
have to take care of this without
		
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			I'm going to sit in my room on my sit Giada I'm not praying, but I'm doing another form of a bada.
And I'm just gonna be doing why they could
		
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			Subhanallah be handy. How much is to find we have to do? How much how many times you have to ask
Allah for forgiveness, Salah and maybe Alayhi Salatu Salam 100 200,000, whatever Allah opens for
you, this by itself, if you set see if you can do that.
		
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			That always starts normally takes about an hour, hour and a half, right? Maybe two hours? I don't
know. Let's assume two hours. Can you sit on that agenda? In your home for two hours doing liquor?
		
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			Then that's a by the tool, however what I call it, you go to the masjid. Because one, two and three
and four and five, I'm not going to put them. One of them is to pray Taraweeh for sure.
		
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			Versus I'm sitting on that suggested turn off my phone.
		
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			And I am crying because I can't go to the masjid what Allah says that's another form of a bad
attitude. Or even better. You have your friend who has children, and it's not her monthly time. Can
you take all the children and you babysit them and tell her go and enjoy your taraweeh for a change?
That's an act of a badass because you help somebody to worship Allah.
		
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			Did you see so many options we can do? But we are so limited.
		
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			You can't fast which means you have more energy than you can cook for somebody tell her don't cook
today. Don't cook today. You know what, Russ today. I'll send you the food before Iftar
		
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			what kind of rewards you will get? So I don't want to hear or I don't want you to let yourself say
what I am going to do.
		
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			What you can do, puts a list outside Salah outside sin