Haifaa Younis – Welcoming Ramadan Wholeheartedly #01

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The speakers discuss the importance of fasting, including the need for ease and speed in achieving goals. They emphasize the importance of slowly building up actions and activities to achieve success, learning the language of Islam, and not hesitting to ask questions during quarantine. The speakers stress the importance of achieving goals in order to achieve success in the age ofams and the need to be mindful of one's behavior. They also mention a training camp for people to practice patient behavior and achieve real goals.

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program. And we'd love to welcome you all and share with us where are you joining us from emotional
		
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			North America we have from India. We usually have from all over hamdu Lillahi Rabbil aalameen. So as
you all know,
		
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			today is Tuesday and there is about less than two weeks even less after maybe 11 or 12 days till the
awaited guest I always call it the awaited guest is going to come and join us which is you all know
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that you probably get to hear it again and again and again as Ramadan comes in it's the verses
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may attain taco We will cover this Inshallah, if Allah give us life next week about the what should
I do and expect and the result of me joining the result of me if Allah subhanaw taala give me life
till I get to Ramadan and after Ramadan. So we will leave this La La Quinta de casa you may I think
Taqwa to next week, but in general the first thing is in solitude, or second chapter of the Quran
		
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			and divorce 183 Allah subhanaw taala put it very clearly that fasting is an obligation. kuti, Barack
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			Quranic language is not writing it's actually this is this thing became an obligation. So So fasting
become an obligation, and it's not something new. The whole many nations before us come up with the
Valhalla demon obstacle as it was prescribed on the people before you La La Quinta taco so you may
think taqwa
		
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			and then am a man do that few days. So there is no month yet. And I'm going to come to this few
days. Uh, yeah, man mad do that. Okay.
		
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			I'm gonna show you the income Shahara failure. You already know I'm an equity value concern comm
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person who was sick or Allah suffer a troubling fight the two main aim
		
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			and then Allah said shutaura Madonna lady Uzi Rafi Hill Quran this third is the month of Ramadan is
the month that number one the Quran was revealed right for mention them in comas shahada for your
son, whomsoever live to see the month of Ramadan shader, meaning you basically you witness the month
you meaning you're alive, and you notice Ramadan failure so of course for the Muslims
		
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			Failure some woman can I mean companies on our last suffer traveler or you're sick fight the woman
am you know how you do it in another day in another time and why is that you read a lot Hobbico you
struggle or you read recuerdos The reason Allah subhanho wa Taala want from you though what he wants
from to all of us and this is something we all have to always remember. And um maybe I'm going to
move a little bit on this journey.
		
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			A little bit from the topic of CRM I'm going to move to in general in general you read a lot will be
coming to us from what Allah wants from me and you is ease is ease so always there is in everything
I see in this Deen This is very important for us to remember there is ease in it and I will just
talk more about this is you read a lot who become will use Allah once always easy for you. When I
read you become universal and it does not want hardship for us. So always when I as I am practicing
my religion as a Muslim, when I see or feel or I think that there this is something difficult. This
is something hard. I can't understand. Always remember this verse, you read the law who become a
		
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			USA, Allah loves for you is what are you ready to become laws and he does not want hardship for you.
		
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			Okay,
		
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			now Ramadan is coming. Let's learn a little bit things. Maybe it's simple, and maybe we have never
heard it before. Part of the ears of Allah subhanho wa Taala part of the sooner of Allah subhanho wa
Taala that he makes things easier for us. Things comes gradual. What does that mean? If you go for
fasting Subhan Allah fasting the month of Ramadan didn't come this way first, meaning Allah did not
made fasting Ramadan right away, immediately you go and fast the hormones, no. In fact, the
obligation for fasting the month of Ramadan came in the second year of withdrawal. So you had all
the time of factor.
		
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			There was no fasting Ramadan, the whole month, there are sorry salt was migrated to Medina and in
the second year. So what did they do before there was no fasting? No, it came gradual. And that
teaches me something that's when I need to get a goal. And especially if the goal is something I am
not used to have not done it before, we need to take it gradually and this will apply to Ramadan
also. Why? So I will reach my goal and I will not get tired and then stop doing what I am doing. As
rasool Allah salatu salam
		
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			said in a hadith the meaning of
		
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			don't be too hard on yourself. And then you will be like that person too hard too harsh too quick,
too high goals without real planning and gradual going through it and then you will end up as he
said, that is a lot Oh Sarah, the that person who was on amount on an animal and then love off on
Africa. What are our lucapa He did not reach the goal. And he did not even keep the animal because
he kept whooping whooping whooping on the animal and animal died.
		
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			What is this? Look at how Ramadan how the fasting of the month of Ramadan came to us Muslims. It did
not come right away. It's come in graduation. The first
		
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			obligation of fasting was actually one day, which is actually the day of Ashura.
		
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			It was an obligation before Ramadan became an obligation. Imam Al Bukhari in his book narrated that
Saraswati salatu salam said Karna are slightly aside to a sinner Karna Yamato be Siani Ashura, he
used to he used to order and command the fasting of the day of Ashura. Then when Ramadan came in, he
said, Whosoever want to faster Ashura that day or cannot, it's up to you. So the first step in
fasting for us as Muslim came as one day, which is actually the the month of Ashura. At the day of
Ashura, another Hadith jab rudeness similar in Muslim he said Roswaal is AutoSum Can I Maura be CME
Ashura for Mr. Fuller Ramadan? Let me up Mona Willemijn, Hannah Willa muta had not in the can I know
		
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			Busia Ashura originally, he used to command us and ordered
		
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			was too fast won the day of Ashura, which is the 10 days, the 10th day of the first month of the
lunar year.
		
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			And not only he used the command as we heard finale he used to really encourage us and want us to do
with where to how to handle anger, and he was particular about us, fasting the day of Ashura for
Lama fully Ramadan when Ramadan became obligation. Now you see the graduation the graduality,
gradual right lemma for Ramadan, whomsoever wants to fast or not, what do I learn from this? When I
come to Ramadan, and this is extremely important for us, why not Ramadan came, comes in. And here I
am, here we are, we have not had fasted, we have not had done two or three hours of taraweeh every
single day for the whole year. We need to take it gradually in this way, because what we normally
		
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			see, and this is sometimes unfortunate, is that the first day of Ramadan, we have so much energy,
and we fast, and we are up and where it's Koran. And then gradually, as the month goes by, and of
course not everybody but we start to see our him, our resolve becomes weaker and weaker. Why because
we started very fast, and we started very strong, but we were not ready for this strength. And that
is why are Swati salatu salam used to fast majority of Shabbat a lot of the time in Shabbat and why
getting ready graduality take things gradual and prepare is extremely important in the month in
Islam and is specifically for the month of Ramadan. I still have about 11 days, so I'm not there
		
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			yet. It's there, it's coming I can see it, but it's not there yet. I need from now to start getting
myself gradually. But So on day one Ramadan comes in some of the things became habit. And for for
the fasting if you have not fasted yet, it is not recommended to start fasting after the middle of
Shabbat in the last two weeks of Shabbat unless it comes in a habit but in general, the things that
we need to start from now get ready for his relationship with the Quran and the relationship with a
sunnah because Ramadan is not only fasting, the obligation is the fasting is like you're baking a
cake to make a cake you need the cake, but that's just the cake. But if I want to make a good cake,
		
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			tasty cake and tasty cake looks beautiful, I need to do frosting inside, I may cover it I may put
fruits chocolate, the idea, aroma, avant fasting is the base, but many other things on the top and
the top and the top. I need to get ready for that.
		
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			establish the relationship with the Quran, establish a stronger, firmer, more loving, loving
relationship with the cider and generosity and giving and we'll cover this all next week in sha
Allah when we started coming in what other things we do in Ramadan beside the fasting. So graduality
Ramadan came in first was Ashura. Then when Ramadan came in, that fasting of Ramadan was not an
obligation yet, it's actually in the verse I recited to you, it came in as an option. Third stage
which is the verse 185 is for men Shahidan call chakra failure song whosoever witnessed the month
and the obligation and the fasting is an obligation on him or her then they have to graduality
		
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			thinks things are graduate. Why? Because shuttle and Milan shuttle Ramadan is as the days goes by,
actually the virtues and the act of worship and Nevada increase. And the end, the last 10 days is
the finale. And in them is the finale night. So what I need to do is I need to build up on my acts
of worship, on my relationship with Allah subhanho wa Taala on my relationship with the Quran, on my
relationship with the Salah, I build it up, I don't start very high. And then I get tired, and I
cannot continue on the contrary, I need to gradually build up, build up, build up, build up so when
the last 10 days of Ramadan comes in, I'm ready I've trained spiritually
		
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			Relationship love feeding I all, so make sure all of you, and all of us from your OB, I mean, I am
number one is besides I'm not talking about the fasting, I'm talking beside the fasting, I need to
start gradually so day one of Ramadan, let's say I've never read Quran before, I am going to
discipline myself and I'm gonna read, let's say, three pages, four pages, 10 pages, but then as the
Ramadan goes in, I will increase. The sooner however, is actually you read one juzo a day because
our soiree salatu sera and say even a jubilee used to come to him and review it Adara sir oran he
was review that he used to review the Quran with Satan every once in every month, except the last
		
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			year when he died alayhi salatu salam it was actually twice so graduality This is one of the first
thing as we are welcoming it I need from now I have about 11 Maybe 12 days left for Ramadan. He lets
me go up. Let me go up so normally now I do my salah I do with the humbler, but I do it you know,
whenever I can. Now I am going to gradually I'll say okay, every day I'm going to be at least to
choose to solder obligatory that I am going to perfect them I'm going to work on the quality of
them. I am going to make them longer. I'm going to read Quran longer, as much as I know one I don't
do sooner, maybe it is time now to start doing maybe one or two sooner gradually but increase so
		
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			when Rama like put a goal somewhere Ramadan comes in again, a lot no second or third of April. I
have already established a base and the base is way better than my base today. So and then I will go
up and up and up and up again. So that's number one. I needed all of us to remember is to build up,
build up number two,
		
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			the month of Ramadan is called Ramadan. Right and Allah subhanho wa Taala mentioned this month in
the Quran by the name at the I resorted to Chateau Rama Ivana levy on Zillow fee Hill Quran, who
then leanest Oba enacting that hotel for shallow Ramadan, who called it Ramadan.
		
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			And why it's called Ramadan.
		
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			Actually, the Arabs before Islam, the months the lunar months, when they came in, there is different
opinion about who gave them these names. The idea when the time came in, and they start giving the
months, the lunar months names, they gave them the names according to the season that year. Because
as you all know, the lunar month smooths. So it's like not all the time Ramadan is in the summer.
And not all the time Ramadan in the winter, actually it goes as we all know goes back every year
about 10 to 11 days. So when the month of Ramadan was that time, when the lunar months it's the
Arabs decided to give it to name them, Chateau Ramadan, which is the ninth month of the year, the
		
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			ninth month of the year, that time Ramadan came that month, came the ninth month of the lunar year
came in the time of summer and not only summer, but the extreme heat it was that month in extreme
heat, I need you to remember this because this is remembering this is this is related to what I need
to feel and what is the goal and what should I come out from Ramadan with. So it was called this
		
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			it was called this because it was the time of naming the months was the nine month was actually in
the summer with extreme heat, but has to be a name for the name has to have our relationship because
every act of worship that Allah subhanho wa Taala ordered us to do. There is the external name but
the name has something to do with the goal of the with the goal of the worship, for example, and
Hajj. Okay to hedge Allah subhanho wa Taala called it in the Quran. El Hijo asuran baluarte Hajin is
an appointed well known months, but what is the word Hajj mean in the Arabic language? We all when I
asked you is what is heard you say okay, that when we go to Makkah in that time of the year, it's
		
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			true, but that that's Islamically but linguistically, Hajj is all
		
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			cost is the goal is the aim.
		
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			So when I am going to Hajj inshallah we'll discuss this when Allah subhanaw taala when make us live
to the time of Hajj May Allah invite everybody to be me is a cost. So when I'm going, I need to
remind myself there is a goal. I'm not going for vacation. I'm not going just to see the car but I
am going there my cost my intention, my goal, my focus is to please Allah to be his guest to respond
to His invitation. So what is our mobile?
		
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			The word the Ramadan comes from Ramadan, the origin of it is Ramadan. And Ramadan is extreme heat.
		
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			Ramadan, extreme heat.
		
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			So what is extreme heat has to do spiritually?
		
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			What is the goal of Ramadan, as I shared with you just now, in the verse La La Quinta taco, so you
may attain taqwa and or stop or Allah conscious. And what is Allah conscious mean? Allah conscious
mean, I'm going to do everything he's pleased with and I am going to be staying away from everything
he doesn't want. I'll show her Ramadan. If I do it, the way Allah subhanho wa Taala went to me as
much as I can. Focused on him. Focus on what I am doing, and not only holding food and drink and
marital relationship in that timeframe, or rather, holding every cent making Allah is my focus,
doing every extra I can. Then the end is taqwa. It will burn my sins, it will remove some of the
		
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			Noble is like the sun burns. They said, Ramadan, when we do it properly. This is what it was. This
is why it's extremely important for us from now, to change the way we look at Ramadan. We all
celebrate it, we all are very happy. I mean, some of us even counting the days. There's a special
feeling internally and we're looking at it and you're Olara Milan is gonna come and we'd have a lot
of blimey Muslim still still well you can still
		
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			glorify Ramadan, know the virtues assess art Ramadan Hamdulillah. But what I need to do is from now,
put goals for myself, for me when I leave Ramadan, that I achieved those goals and I'm going to take
them with me. And one of the goals of Ramadan coming from its name or Ramadan. Extreme heat that
burns is actually it will burn my sins, meaning my fasting, the proper fasting, my relationship with
Allah, my salah, my PM, my night salah, my charity, my conduct, all of these cannot be multiplied
not I'm not going to do the casual, neither quality, not quantity. I'm not just going to do total
cost after Russia. I'm going to do my taraweeh and I'm going to do longer and my relationship with
		
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			the Quran I am building and building so how is my sins will be burned? Because Allah said it in a
personality. You the humanists say yeah, for me salata purifying in a hurry was all a family in the
Hassan RT, you Huebner say yeah, Allah said this at the end of solitude. It says to rasool Allah
salatu salam.
		
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			Fatima salata Baraka in a hurry was all of a mentally perform Salah at the two ends of the day and
part of the night for our Kamisato Rafi na he was hola Femina. Late. Why? In al Hassan RT Wehrli
good deeds you inhibin SC at remove,
		
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			expiate by deeds. So here I am, gradually I am building from now and the day of Ramadan day one, day
two, day three, day four, I'm building on building on building more good deeds, and building a
better relationship with Allah and building better relationship with the Quran. And but I'm building
more better relationship even with the people around me. These are all good deeds, let alone Salah
and of course the fasting and the family These are all good deeds in Al Hassan RT with humans say
good deeds. Remove bad deeds or Ramadan and this only in Ramadan. Subhan Allah Ramadan has this
special uniqueness in it that good deeds is very easy and we all know the Hadith, right in Adana or
		
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			Jaya or Ramadan, right, put your head above bulletin.
		
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			That Saraswati salatu salam said in many narration in Imam Malik in Muslim in Buhari, he said his
idea or Ramadan in Imam Malik narration that Allah Ramadan when the Ramadan comes or enter what
happens for Jihad
		
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			bulletin
		
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			the doors of China are open the gates of Gennaro open come on.
		
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			Well only catch Ababa now and the doors of hellfire closed will actually it's like absolutely locked
wasafi datashare thing and the devil's shaytaan are chained.
		
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			This is a metaphor, meaning if shaitaan is chained has no power over me. In general, good deeds is
much easier. obeying Allah subhanaw taala is much easy, it's easier. I need to keep reminding myself
of this as I am preparing, getting ready for Ramadan that don't think it's going to be too hard at
all. Don't say it's too long. Oh time change. Now it's longer. Don't say that. Oh, it's in the
middle of the exams. Oh, I am working Oh, why didn't I take vacation? Don't say any of these.
		
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			On the contrary, remember this hadith. When the gates of gender open means what is not physically
open? It means the people who will it's going to be welcoming people to come and what is the number
one reason after believing in Allah to entertain as good deeds is good deeds. So Hiranya for Jihad
Ababa, Jenna meaning good deeds are easier. Good deeds in Ramadan in general is easier. So
graduality and the graduality will be quicker because doing good deeds are easier. Well, holy crud
Ababa now, then the gates of Johanna, the gates of the Hellfire are closed or locked, meaning doing
bad deeds are harder. And one of the reasons is because Shayateen is chained. So here I am. Second.
		
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			So three things so far for me, I have about 11 or 12 days, it's not too late, never too late. And
Allah Subhana Allah wants ease for me, and he put it in between I had to say, in between the verses
of fasting, he puts that a lot once is for you. So I say to myself, never too late. I still have
time. Let me prepare not only mentally that Ramadan is coming, or even now many, many of the of us
preparing, you know, preparing meals, preparing food preparing, but also spiritually, I'm going to
be prepared preparing myself that I am going to be day one of Ramadan. Or I will say day two of
Ramadan better than day one, day 12 Better than day two, and day 22 I'll be better than the 12 and
		
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			two, and let alone at the odd nights, the 23rd 25th 2729 and the last night of Ramadan. Whether it's
29th or 30th.
		
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			The 29th I am going to be I am definitely going to be I'm going to put this as a goal. Much better,
much better, if not hugely better if I can use this term than day one. And this is how the curve
will be the curve of my relationship with Allah and the curve of my acts of worship will be going
this way should not go that way. And sometimes we see in massage this in massage Al hamdu Lillahi
Rabbil Alameen your allah how grateful we are to you. The massages are open, they open maca. Amara
is open Alhamdulillah Europa halloumi your Allahu Allah and I'm seeing this to everybody. Let us all
don't let us not forget two years ago, how was Ramadan?
		
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			When there was no masajid there was no tarawih Subhan Allah there was no h bar with people Subhan
Allah. But Allah is Rahim Subhana Allah has Karim generous Subhana Allah has OFF or ON or dude or
for giving all loving loves to give love. And he brought us back. Let us all this is the first year
after two years. Let us not forget that where we are back to normal. No social distances hamdulillah
no limited numbers Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah so let's not forget this nearmap
		
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			Let me show khardungla as either knuckle if you are grateful, I'll give you more water in cover to
another fabulous read. And if you are not, if you are ungrateful, Allah forgive us. My punishment
Allah see, if you are ungrateful, my punishment will be severe. I need absolutely to be grateful to
Allah in this Ramadan more than any other Ramadan simply because we tasted for two years we tasted
the bitterness and the sourness of not going to the masjid
		
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			Have not praying in drama of not seeing each other and enjoying the sofa but from Oban I call it now
which is back. So three things remember the name of Allah especially those all of us Europe be me
that we will live to see Ramadan the near me that we have reached Ramadan the near me that it is
open hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen then Yama the near term of me able to fast your OB I mean or even
if I am not able I can Allah pantalla gave me other options to do good deeds and there is other good
deeds I do want to gradual meaning going up the curve this Ramadan will go up to not go down.
Absolutely it will not go down. Lala cantata on day two of Ramadan, my Taqwa better than day One day
		
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			10 Or day nine or 11 My Taqwa Allah conscious Allah love Allah feel is better than day one and day
two and day three,
		
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			three that graduality need preparation from now, I still have time.
		
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			Increase your relationship with the Quran, build it up, improve your Salah quality and quantity and
improve your relationship with the people around you. Ramadan is not only externally bad, and we're
going to cover this next week is not only external Ramadan is not only not eating and drinking and
not having marital relationship in this timeframe law. This is the only superficial if we look at
our Mo Vaughn only this way if we look at Ramadan only this way, we will miss a lot we will miss a
lot and getting to the Allah confidant will be much harder.
		
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			Ramadan is actually I call it a training camp at training camp in me to remove all my ill characters
and bring forth and improve and nourish my good characters. With the relationship with the people
around me as we call it labored
		
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			HOCl a battle from now gradually I'll work on my external and my internal my heart every day from
today, till we get to Ramadan everyday in Ramadan, examining your heart,
		
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			examine your heart, and I'm not talking as a physician and I'm going to put the stethoscope and
listen to the heart. No.
		
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			Look inside your heart. Let me look inside my heart. What will I see in my heart? With thoughts?
What feelings I need everything in my heart to be pleasing to Allah pantalla that's my bad and
everyday, they want better than the last day of Siobhan. Two and three and as we go on, on, on I
internally, I'm a better person with people around me for giving pardoning no hatred, no jealousy,
no anger. I'm Ramadan everyday and my relationship with Allah subhana wa Tada my relationship with
Allah subhanho wa Taala is even everyday is better.
		
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			Now, go don't forget the name Ramadan to burn my sins. Ramadan is is it's gonna burn my sins.
Questions always come in. Why? Ramadan is called Ramadan. And we said this but why Allah chose
Ramadan?
		
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			And this is a question the reason I am bringing this is because
		
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			these days because of the technology of everything we have. We're getting answers to almost
everything. And we are
		
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			learning to ask questions. 10 years ago, nobody asked. Nobody wondered why Ramadan is called Ramadan
		
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			which is good to ask for sometimes there is no answers, and we need to learn to submit the will of
Allah. So Allah chose Ramadan and this is what I'm getting to. Number one. And once I learn this,
and comprehend this, my relationship with Allah will change. Number one, Allah Allah Allah will
Hackie
		
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			Allah is Allah Ali will Hakeem. Allah is all knowing. And Allah has always for his wisdom, for his
knowledge. By His knowledge, he chose Ramadan to make it a special month of the year.
		
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			Same same Allah chose certain times, certain places, certain creation of his to be special.
		
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			Meaning Allah said this sort of hedge Allah stuffing million Malacca to Sudan
		
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			Amina NAS, Allah choose from among angels
		
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			to become messengers and from people to become messengers. He chose them. He chose Satan, the debris
that's in Nigeria will deliver the Quran. Why the hikma wisdom? Allah has it, why I'm saying this,
one of the changes, that's one of my goals in Ramadan will be that I as a human being, as a servant
of Allah, as his creation, I need to learn to submit to the will of Allah. Not everything is why,
and it doesn't make sense. And I'm not convinced. That is not how it is with Allah subhanho wa Taala
Islam by itself.
		
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			The word Islam is to submit and to submit to earth, to submit to the will of Allah. And that is why
there is things we don't know why. And we don't know how. And Allah is capable of showing it to us.
But he kept it unknown. The hikma as we say, for all wisdom, one of the goals in me in Ramadan, I
need to learn to submit to the will of Allah subhanho wa Taala
		
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			for example, I always might to live this concept I remind myself, or I asked myself this question.
So why Ramadan is front why fasting is from dawn to dust. So from six, let's say this morning 537
right to 701 Why not? 702? Why not? 659 It's only one minute or three minutes earlier. If somebody's
in Ramadan, or at any time fasting.
		
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			Anytime fasting, the mother of his let's say 701 and I eat at seven my fasting is nullified
		
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			what I'm trying to say, one of the core core character of the Muslim, that he or she submit to the
will of Allah and that and you know why we should all submit without even a blink of an eye. Because
who Allah
		
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			because he is Allah. And he is Al Hakim de ys, Al Ali the All Knowing so when he told me you fast
from this time to this time, I submit when he told me and then I take this and I apply it on my the
rest of my life. When there's things happens in my life that I cannot understand why this is
happening to me.
		
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			I need always to remind myself, stb Rila. Submit Allah's pantalla as Allah Subhana Allah says in
surah Nisa, in the chapter the woman Woman is an Adina women s LEM, wedge her hula he wahama sin
with Obama letter, Ibrahima Hanifa. Who has better Diem religion than than s NEMA which hola submit
to the submit his face meaning all his body and his word to Allah wa who are messing with Exodus, no
arguments why it doesn't make sense. Why this? Why that. That's what Ramadan also teaches me. And
that's what I need now in this 12 days to come to terrain myself, to submit to the will of Allah
subhanaw taala not only in fasting, meaning I'm not going to eat I'm not going to drink in this
		
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			time, but also to the will of Allah because I'm reading some of your questions on the chat. I was
like I'm getting so stressed out because of work and all the things which is true, all of us get
this but but the more I have a relationship with Allah subhanho wa taala, the more LRB, the Karela,
he thought my inner Kurobe Wehrli by the remembrance of Allah, hearts will reach serenity. And what
is anxiety is when my heart is not in peace, when my heart is not at rest, when I am connected with
Allah pantalla with his dica with his remembrance was submission with Doha, with asking him I will
learn to submit. So gradually, gradually, I'm going to focus on graduality today, gradually from day
		
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			one, as I get to the 30th I am going to train myself to submit to the will of Allah and hold myself
when I say why. I am not convinced I need to know the reason then I am not yet the fully Muslim,
Allah subhanho wa Taala want me to be I am not yet the full Muslim. Allah subhanho wa Taala wants me
to be so short on Ramadan let's go back again. Then. Allah as I said, chose the Ramadan as a month
he chose angels for
		
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			Example signature breed, he chose the Roswaal as AutoSum from from among people, he chose messengers
he also chose places Arafa he chose maca as we have discussed and not long time ago. So Allah
chooses the Hickman, I am going to reinforce the idea we need to live. One of the names we need to
live in Ramadan is Mullah al Hakim, the name of Allah al Hakim, always, always whatever happens to
me, I always have to say number one, before I say why, why me? I say Allah there is a wisdom please
show me your Allah show me their wisdom. Show me their wisdom Malala the Allahu when we start having
this personal relationship with Allah, I know you are wise. I know you let you are allowing me to go
		
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			through this difficulty. There's a commercial me. This is too hard for me Allah I can do it. Tell me
for I'm commenting on the comments I just said about anxiety. And she what Allah subhanho wa Taala
wouldn't do Subhana now
		
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			graduality the core, the the lat land, the mark of Ramadan is fasting. As fasting, why Allah chose
why Allah said so trained, Allah said so he wanted me and the beauty of fasting. There's so many
beauty of fasting also will cover it in detail at the level of fasting next week in sha Allah. But
what I'm trying to say is Kulu Amelie me Adam Allah Illa song for holy one, Zb.
		
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			Let me translate that's a hadith of
		
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			cuyama Livni Adam law Illa. So, for holy one exhibit all the deeds that the son of Adam do is for
him meaning for his benefit for his dunya benefit and akhira benefit Illa Psalm in Assam, except
fasting, for holy it is for me, and I rewarded by it. What the scholars teaches us about this, every
good deed we do, every good deed we do is timestamp
		
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			Minja it has an IT fellow Asheville untidy Allah said this is also an add the cattle whomsoever do
any good deed, it's time 10
		
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			Except the fasting, when this hadith quartzite this hadith the saying of of ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada
and came to us the Torah Swati sought to serve his wording that all the deeds of the human being is
for him is a song for holy one, Zb and why? And then he said yet to Katama, who was shot all the who
they are yet to kutamo Sharabi Warszawa truly, what do we do in fasting, we don't eat, we don't
drink and no matter till relationship, why? For Allah, this is where I want to reach. If I can do
this for Allah, and it is not easy. Fasting and not drinking and not eating alive goes on for us who
lives in the West, life doesn't change, continue. Right. And no matter tell relationship for Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala in this 12 or 14 hours, it depends where you live. If I can do this for 30 days, I
can do much more outside that that's why I called it's a training camp. If I can for 14 hours, not
eat or drink and no marital relationship, I can stay away from sin gradually, gradually.
		
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			Gradually
		
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			Utakata Amahoro Serravalle whenever you feel and this is for everybody. I see a lot of comments
here. You know, but the difficulty, remember this hadith or So Marie, when Zeba I want you to live
Ramadan with this hadith, Allah Allah, Allah is going to make you much it's going to make it much
easier on you and you you see it on the screen, a very good action is rewarded by 10 times up to 700
times except fasting which is for me, and I reward it or I do yeah, I reward it. When I feel tired
when I feel exhausted, emotionally or physically or both. When I feel I am not to me I'm not giving
him what he should subpoena or I'm not giving Ramadan what it should be remember this hadith or
		
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			Somali? Don't belittle that anything little good deed you're doing a normal bond donorship on do
this to you or your knifes do this to you. And what's pushed me to do more is when I remember I'm
doing it for Allah, all of us Subhan Allah when we when we
		
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			love someone. When we love someone, we do things for them
		
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			all with all our heart, we do our best because we love them.
		
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			Whether it's our children, our spouses, our parents we do this. But But
		
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			when we think of the love, when we think of them, we do and we do it way better than normal. Now if
I am thinking of Allah subhanaw taala or so moody fasting is for me and I'm doing it for him Subhana
Allah I to this hadith, literally send yourself reminder every day on your phone, write it in a
place where you see it. A so Molly, fasting is for me and who is me? So last Hannah who dad, ALLAH
SubhanA wa Tada an eye and there is no reason for me leaving my food, leaving my drink, leaving the
relationship with all the hardship we go through for 30 days except for him.
		
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			Except for him, what will he reward and that's why there is no accounted reward. Because fasting is
the same as a patient is both inter interchangeable interchangeable in Nemo for Cybertronian agile
Hungary hisab those who practice patient they will be rewarded and accounted for we don't know how
much same idea
		
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			what I need to to to summarize for everybody. We're still alive. Only I
		
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			keep asking a lot to keep you alive. Jambi me, all of us. Your Alaba Luna Ramadan, this is the dua
Allah humma Bella now Ramadan, you are what make us live, to reach Ramadan to So number one, I
really want to make this dua for myself today that I want to live to see that Saturday or Sunday,
your OB me one, number one, number two, I still have time Latty Asuma Rohilla don't disappear from
the mercy of the love of Allah subhana wa Tada i still have time to start working. Let's start
working. One day a time when Salah at a time. One Salah better, one good word better, one charity
better gradually, gradually 10 days 10 days and put goals, realistic goals to three, when Ramadan
		
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			comes in the goals becomes much easier. Why? Because the doors of Gennaro open the doors of Jahannam
are closed and Shayateen are
		
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			chained, so the good deeds become much easier. And Allah subhanaw taala would help in I always say
this to myself and I want you all to remember this when I really want to obey Allah and he seemed me
		
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			with this desire to obey Him, but I'm tired, I'm weak, or what we go through what do you think Allah
will do for us? Absolutely will pull us absolutely He will help us. Absolutely because Allah
subhanaw taala what makes Allah so happy? Subhana laahu Asha do Farhaan be Toba haidakhan Nothing
will make Allah more happy than when he see you and me returning to him in Toba in repentance,
that's the Hadith or Swati Santosa that's when Allah subhanaw taala see a servant of his you on me
and anyone going back to him in repentance, meaning turning back to Allah, I want to do what pleases
Allah, I want to get close to he is more happy Subhana and he doesn't need me and he doesn't need
		
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			you. More Happy Than that person in the middle of the desert. When he law news. His mount is common
with all his foods and his drink and sits and says I'm going to sleep till I die. And then he wake
up and you find the animal in front of him and he gets so happy that he made a mistake and say, are
Aloma into have do not have bookie Allah you are my servant. I am your Lord when I add the biller
and our soiree salatu salam said Oh, but mean should follow he is made mistakes because he was very
happy meaning in Ramadan and from now when Allah see me struggling and this is again, I'm commenting
on all the comments I'm seeing on my on the screen. Don't despair. Don't feel anxious. You know why?
		
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			Because he will make it easy. Allahu Allah acephala In Yama Jalta who Salah your Allah know nothing
easy, except what you make it easy and let it out. Yes, brother Adam, but without Allah. Talk to
him. Talk to him and you
		
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			Oribi make it easy. You're Allah, you know, I want to help. I want to obey you, I want to get close
to you. What do you think you will do Subhana so don't forget this. And it's a gradual and everyday
in Ramadan my goal this year, my goal will be everyday I am better than the day before in my
relationship with him in my relationship with Sarah, in my relationship with fasting in my
relationship with oran in my relationship with sada in my relationship charity in my relationship
with a Doha and he will never, ever, ever let us go. Let us down and not help us. So Hannah Callahan
will be handing a shadow. And I stopped Furukawa today solo LSA now hum early he was hired with a
		
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			seaman Kathira there's a lot higher and if you have any questions you can send it to us send it to
Jenna Institute at Gmail and I will try my best to address them next week in the in the Tuesday NAT
program I will highly recommend that we don't need to ask the same questions every year, every year
which is this will break my fast this will not break my fast these are like all should be known by
now. But more questions about my relationship with Allah subhanaw taala disciple Malachy, all of you
who have joining us I've seen it from all over the world is from Australia, from Canada, from
Malaysia from the Middle East, of course from the States and Canada. May Allah reward you may Allah
		
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			subhanho wa Taala May Allah subhanho wa Taala make us all bring our hearts together give us life
deliver on Milan, make this the best Ramadan ever and make us always always getting closer and
closer to him. And yes, yes. We have also people of course from the UK SubhanAllah homovanillic
Shadow Allah, Allah and Esther Furukawa today so Allah Allah say now Muhammad Ali, he was heavily
testing and Kathira BarakAllahu li DISA come along