Haifaa Younis – Tips for making your children love the Quran

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For the children, number 1, make the Quran

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part of your house.

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Part of your house,

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number 1. Number don't don't force it on

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them.

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And I know people forced it on their

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children.

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They hate it now

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because they forced it.

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They didn't wanted. I hear it all the

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time from them. I don't wanna memorize. That's

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what they say. You know what? If they

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don't wanna memorize, leave them

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Because

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maybe Allah

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will open their hearts later in their life.

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I didn't memorize it when I was 8

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9. No.

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But if you force it on them when

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they are they will hate it,

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and there will be it will be associated

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in their mind with a trauma,

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especially these days and everything is a trauma.

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Number 3,

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try to switch it to to stories.

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When you explain it.

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So try to be

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Quran.

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Make them love the Quran.

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Not just read it like birds with Islamic

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schools, and and they don't know what they

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are doing. Plus, you have to be realistic

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what they are seeing outside.

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And number 1,

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I will say this to every parent, all

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of you.

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You are righteous,

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truly righteous, not externally only.

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We have said this many times internally

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in your relationship with Allah, in your practice,

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in in how you respond to trauma or

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I'm sorry, to to trial and how you

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respond to Ni'mah, Allah will never let you

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down.

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Allah protected the the 2 orphan

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in in Suratul Kahm because their parents, Abu

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Huma, was

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a righteous person. And a lot of dua.

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A lot of dua. And the result is

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not in your hand.

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It's in Allah's hand.