Haifaa Younis – The Quran Has It All #10 Parents

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The transcript discusses the use of Islam in various settings, including parenting, church practices, and personal experiences. The "by the way," book uses the same concept but with different language. The "by the way," book describes a disturbing and depressing story about a man named Subhanallah who claims to be a son of god, but is met with confusion and discomfort. The conversation also touches on the topic of Islam and how it has changed over time.

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			How about parents? Have they been mentioned in the Quran? About 10 times even more? All of them in
the context of treating them well, kindness and excellence. I must Pantanal Swartz and Bukhara
service and this is the first time they are mentioned with a hug Nami Sokoban isa Isla la Tambu
Doornail Allah will be waiting Dini Santa, was it a quarterback where you get Tamar, when a messiah
keen, we're all in Nasir Krishna, while chemo salata will add to zakaah tomahto will later in our
Calida main call. Now Anton Loreal, Allah here speaking, the first time in the Quran about this
concept is actually talking about Benny swine, we made this covenant with the children of Israel
		
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			worship, none but Allah, but God, and now with it, or be wildly Dainius Hannah, and show kindness to
parents and to their relatives, close relatives and then to the orphans, and then to the poor. And
he went on to many other, but the thing that we all have to pay attention to the Tomas punctata
Here, he put it together. Exactly worship me only, and this is all about Islam is to heed the active
affirmation of the Oneness of Allah and with it one, one equal Bhiwandi deigning Asana, this is
actually in Al Baqarah. And the worst is 83. Now if we move a little bit forward, and we're gonna
see and so let me sell Allah subhanaw taala. Now Kim has an order. What abou De La Hoya went out to
		
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			st Kobe he she says Chapter The woman worship Allah this is to us now and don't have don't associate
anything with Him while you are reading Santa, same thing and treat your parents with kindness with
excellence and the same concept will be the orba Tama masa kini with God the call Bible god you know
more details here but still the same idea is relatives here at an emphasis on the neighbor and
different kinds of neighbors in chapter four so attorney said the woman Allah says Why would Allah
want to shrink Kobe He's here now son order worship Allah in don't associate anything with Him
together and the same concept with the others. Now come to for a total anam the capital goes to ILO
		
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			come on in. Let me tell you a clue Mahara maramba Kumari come I'm gonna tell you what Allah made it
forbidden for a lot of Shrek Kobe he che same thing. Do not associate anything with a lot of blue
antedating Santa and treat your parents with kindness and with Exodus and then go with Nora Well,
that's appropriate for Lakisha Marwaha roaming Alma Bhutan Don't come close to any indecency whether
external or internal. But this was the second commandment Allah subhanaw taala told us to eat your
parents with kindness. Be kind to your parents. Now as you go further, when we come to salatu salam,
many slightly and this one actually had way more detail wakad on aboukir It's an order. It's already
		
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			done. A lotta Bodoni idea same concept. Don't worship anyone but Allah Santana What do you want
Hidemi Asana same thing and treat your parents with excellence with kindness, utmost kindness and
utmost excellence. And then details and lotsa boudoir Kanara mocha Yatta boo, yah, Obi Wan, Asana
now come to the toughest one in my Oblivion named Kibera. huduma Akiyama when one of them gets to
the old age or both of them, because that's the challenge. Fidel taco Lahoma often don't you even
say to them off, why not and hakama do not say anything that is inappropriate to them. Rather
Wakulla Huma COVID and Karima speak with them with gentleness, speak with them with honor while you
		
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			do homage and during Amina Rama This is so beautiful, lower the wings of humility to them and make
dua for them or call Robbia Hamdulillah. Come out, Obiang saw the euro and smugly to answers your
Allah have mercy on them, and dunya and alpha, just the same way they have raised me up.
		
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			Now what is
		
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			the word of in these days when we roll our eyes against our parents when we just slam a door because
we don't like what they said, or they wanted something from us. And this something may be a little
bit hard or difficult or not in the right time, and we just shrunk our shoulder and then we'll just
move or leave the table and say ye mean Subhanallah and he says is his off? Now let alone all the
other things and Allah remind us how this
		
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			Can Be Easy. And luck they raised me up when I was very young when they when the mother woke up at
two or 3am Because I was crying or the father worked so hard to help me to reach where I am. Let's
not forget this even prophets say you'd never hear said Well could you borrow NASA and I am not
going to be ungrateful to them or I'm not going to be not obedient to them and say you know, he said
to his mother saying the same thing about won't be worried that he wouldn't be a John needs a bow on
Shaka year even say he's not an ISA immediately as he was just born and he said peace beyond me the
day I was born, the day I will die that our be resurrected while bond run be wildly dirty, and I was
		
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			treated my mom with utmost kindness. I will treat my mom with the best I can. And then Allah
Pantanal. Surah Cooperman comes and teach us even if they were not Muslims, sweating Giada can be
too sneaky be mine, a seller can be hearing hello to play at home. I just don't obey them. If they
have enjoyed or they pushed you by to do things that is displeasing to Allah here. The only time
that you're not going to obey them, but you're still going to treat them one. Hello to Takoma wasa
hidden magic. duniya ma rofa. So Hibbeler be behind them, be with them, treat them wild and treat
them with kindness. But you're not going to follow that you're not going to obey them because what
		
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			they are asking you to do is not pleasing to Allah subhanaw taala or slain or webbing join on human
being the treatment of his parents. And our this is an Aquaman Hamlin a total mobile wallet and what
what he sided with the army and his co li when he was younger masa, your mother courage you with
weakness upon weakness, and delivered to you or pregnancy for nine months, and then breastfeeding
all together 30 months, however, treat them well. And again, if they weren't not Muslims, or they
were forcing you to do something that is not pleasing to Allah, that's the only time you're not
going to be obeying them. So for us, what we will really really need to learn here is treating
		
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			parents well, one of the most important things in his town, after the obligations of his town after
the five pillars after the man, parents, excellent treatment of penance is associated with you with
worshiping Allah, I don't. And even if it gets more hard, even if it gets very hard, we still have
to stay focused on the agenda, and where we want to be and what pleases Allah. And also remember how
they went through so much difficulties when we were young, and they took care of us. One last thing
we have to think Why did Allah enjoying so much, or so much emphasis about children treating their
parents well, but there isn't any about parents treating their children, which is extremely
		
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			interesting, because parents treating children well, is a natural instinct. Usually parents take
very good care of their children, it's natural, you don't have to remind them, you don't have even
to have, tell them a verse from the Quran. It's very normal. They even go way above and beyond to
take care of their children. But when the children grow up, and have parents who grow up, that's
where the challenge dunya challenges distractions and then parents became less and less and less.
And also we don't need them much. When we go older and they grow older. They need us more than we
need. So may Allah subhanho wa Taala help us to learn this and most importantly, to practice it. In
		
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			this day and age things has changed completely, but we shouldn't change as Muslims because our deen
doesn't change. Parents equal treating parents will equal to worshipping Allah and worshiping no one
else. So she asked any wisdom? Do you worship Allah only? The answer is yes. The answer should be
the same. When any one of us ask themselves. Do you treat your pet your parents? Well? The answer is
should be absolutely well, and may Allah bless all the parents who are be me