Haifaa Younis – The Cambridge University Islamic Society Presents Love of Allah

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The speakers discuss the importance of practicing and laughter in achieving a "any thing you do" concept in Islam, as it is impossible to claim it. They also discuss the concept of love in Arabic language and how it is taught in the title of the book. The importance of understanding and practicing is emphasized, along with the need to practice healthy behavior and avoid giving too much information. The speakers also mention upcoming classes and events, including a tour of a community center.

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Amish roughly sondrio a silly Omri watlow. The 10 melissani of our colleges are co located on for
the invitation. First and foremost is Alhamdulillah hillbrow. Amin we are all talking to each other
with his Ramadan its second day, Allah gave us life. We are seeing it we are smelling it, we are
seeing the breeze of it so I hope inshallah everyone is feeling what I am feeling right now it's
it's it's a beauty that we all have to be very grateful to Allah spawn tada for it hamdu Lillahi
		
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			Rabbil aalameen and number two is I do apologize we had as always our last pantalla testers last
minute we had a real issue with the microphone so we had to change everything. So please forgive us
if hamdulillah Allah made it happen. We had a plan B and a plan B actually it was Plan C and finally
Plan C worked at hamdulillah Blimey, I it's my honor and pleasure to be part to speak to all of you
I don't know where are you? In which parts of the world but I know there is some of you are in
England because this is Cambridge University in England I'm sure there's some people in the states
and maybe everywhere else in the world. This is the beauty of having this technology we have to be
		
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			very grateful to this technology. And I always don't. Yeah, it would be nice if everyone tells me
where are you from? It really will well It makes me feel the the sisterhood we always talk about and
in spite of all the difficulty we are going Alhamdulillah we have this internet and one of my
daughters you may laugh I was like your love Please don't let Khurana comes to the internet because
it really was helping us and it still is helping us hamdulillah and I hope and pray everybody's
Ramadan is going very well even more than what is expected and it's very interesting Subhan Allah
that when the Islamic the Cambridge University Stan society invited me to speak what's the same
		
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			topic that's actually we have our Ramadan planner we wanted to plan something it's so interesting
for Zanna isn't it? We were actually wanted to do something about the two fast short reminder to
everybody that is not too complicated. It is something simple that everyone can listen apply and
practice it not too complicated, not too sophisticated. And somehow mana the fella who this came to
my mind this actually this is the plan the planner, I'm showing it to you and you can easily get it
is by just go to
		
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			our website and there is a you can register once you register it's a free you will get it and then
every day on our media, on our Facebook and on our YouTube channel there is a small
		
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			video comes with it so basically it's day by day what what action I will do that Allah subhanaw
taala will love me so we are going to go with you through the actions that Allah loves that I'm
going to do daily, we chose the 30 actions and inshallah by the end Allah will love me. And then
Panama This is the same topic that you guys wanted. And it's it's beautiful. I mean there is nothing
more beautiful. Allah Allah, Allah when I'm saying this from the bottom of my heart, there is
nothing more beautiful than the fact I know for sure that Allah loves me. It's not the claim is not
I mean all of us can claim, right? We all claim we love Allah. And this is very easy, because
		
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			everybody can claim what they want. But I cannot say Allah loves me. And I am sure
		
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			number one who I am, this is how I say to myself, and I'm not saying to anybody, I'm talking about
myself who I am, that Allah loves me. You have to imagine, right? For example, always when you want
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			learn something, bring examples from reality. So here you are, you say for example, this is the most
popular person in your community, for example, right most popular person in your community and you
say, this person, she, I am her best friend. I was like whoa, she chose me. And you're gonna say
wow, people will say Wow, what's so special about her that she chose you that's a human being. Now
look at a loss of Hana hautala will love me or will love you love us. We can claim it, but reality
is very difficult. So that's the first thing the concept of love. Number one, the concept of love.
And then the concept of Allah subhanho wa Taala I have this relationship with Allah and the
		
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			relationship of love. We normally most of us grew up with one relationship.
		
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			Don't do that you will go to the hellfire.
		
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			Allah will be upset with you, Allah will not give you field
		
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			and we need the field, we need the field we are with the last pantalla like our children with us,
you will love them, they love you. But also they have to be afraid from you otherwise they will not
obey you. So here I am. My relationship I'm gonna do with insha Allah through this talk, I'm going
to take you through and through the whole Ramadan by practicing these small things, daily small
actions very small. I will feel that my relationship with Allah is closer. And the feeling is
feeling of love. You are not afraid you are in love. And you all of your mothers, especially, you
know this feeling, it's the feeling of being in love with someone and this is my goal. This is my
		
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			goal and I will share with you as we go the dwarves of Roswell, so it was around about he asking a
lot to love him. So number one, when we start, let's be very careful when I claim or you claim, we
claim. Allah loves us. That's a huge claim.
		
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			I say and I didn't say clean. I say I love Allah.
		
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			And Allah will say, okay, Show me.
		
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			Show me where it is your love. And Allah Subhana Allah put that in shorts earlier in Milan and some
of you may be familiar with it. In Iran, Allah subhanho wa Taala said and the verse is 31 cool in
conjunction a boon Allah factor we only use the como la
		
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			I'll translate and I want you to feel it with me say all in control. If you if you take Boone Allah
if you love Allah, factor B only factor B only follow me This is Rasul Allah hisako said I'm saying
say if you really love Allah, Follow me Follow roswaal a saw to some his soon What will happen you
have been a Kuma Allah, Allah who love you.
		
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			You're welcome Allah we'll have a look on the novacom I'm not the only gonna get the forgiveness of
Allah spandana or I'm sorry the love of Allah subhanaw taala I am going to get the forgiveness of
Allah subhanaw taala and forgiveness of my sins one Allahu Allah for all right. So number one,
number one, the concept of love is in the Quran. I need all of us to learn this, the concept of love
like there is concept of Jannah there is concept of the Hellfire, there is a concept of love this
relationship special with Allah. And here the one I just shared with you is how Allah loves me.
		
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			Now Allah in the Quran, and this is what the planner will will give you and I will share some
quickly with you, what are the things I do, and you and Allah will love me.
		
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			Being a Muslim itself is not enough. Interesting. Allah did not say in Ohio Hebrew muslimeen.
		
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			And however, Allah loves those who worship him only
		
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			in Allah labeled caffine Allah does not love those who Kaffir reject Him. So the concept of love in
the Quran now this is the month of the Quran. This is how we will learn the month of the Quran. The
Quran, when you are reading everyday, once you get to the word you love, or lay your head doesn't
love, underline,
		
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			underline or write it in a note. Usually next to it there is a character there is an action or don't
do it. Meaning this in the Arabic language is very common is that they say it is by it or the
opposite of it. So Allah will say in Allahu Allah loves or in Allah La him. So these you you as you
are reading your Quran, and in every almost every chapter in the Quran every day, there is one of
these sometimes more actually, Allah loves or Allah doesn't love what I and you need to do. I need
to know this. The one he loves, I need to know the one he doesn't love. I am going to do my best
number one. I'm a physician. So I'm going to speak with you in medicine. Number one, I have to
		
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			diagnose myself. look inward. Don't look at people. Look at yourself, look inward and see does any
of the characters Allah has Allah wants me to be taught so he loves me? Do I have it? Do I have it
in Allah
		
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			fago sabreen Allah loves those who are patient of mine
		
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			in Allah your herbal massimi Allah loves those who are good doers am I and not a claim? Not a claim?
It's an Action. Action. And this is the small videos we are sharing with you every day. What does it
mean like this morning we shared I don't know if they shared that yes yet but it is about October in
Allah your head with the webbing while you're a bull Matata Hurry, this is a solitary bacara the cow
and the verse is too too too easy to remember when Allah talks about my situation. He ended up by in
Allah Verily Allah loves he. So panna capital H, your head with the Wahby, those who are in constant
repentance constant. Pay attention to this, it's not a one day action is not only a normal bond
		
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			action, this is in all your head mutawa being pay attention to the way Allah use it in, in the
Quran, that the scent that the word in which form he used it at the word been meaning they are in
constant Toba in constant tober. Meaning, I will make sense you will make sense but he wants me to
go back immediately to him. Ask him your love, please forgive me and change it. So look in this
every single day. Again, with the with the planner, you put yourself and if you don't have the
planner yet, for example, look at this, right? This is was yesterday, right? Or this is actually
today, I'm sorry, you had both the Wahby and we put you This is the verse and under it here you have
		
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			the actions, actions, this is what I want you to do, and do more. We chose only 30. Because of the
days of the Ramadan, there is way more and there is also some from the sun. So this is number one
step.
		
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			I'm going to go back a little bit. And let's come and talk what is the word love mean? I mean, I
wish I am with you in public, then I'm going to ask you and you will answer me but unfortunately 100
in love in the Arabic language and amazing the beauty of the Arabic language we use the word hub, ha
and ba only two letters. How and ba and the only difference this word has five different meanings by
only changing the vowels, only changing the O or E or R. So five meanings. Yes, exactly. Marshall
lots of Article offers on zacky law. So we have these seats, she put it there for you. If I am going
to say number one, number one meaning this is linguistic meaning right origin of it when the teeth
		
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			teeth are white, shiny, and bright.
		
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			White, shiny, bright and pure. They call it harbor bull. So
		
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			that's one. That's one.
		
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			Number two. Number two is being obvious. It comes out shows off can't hide it. Can't hide it. That's
another meaning of the word. Now think connect this with the love the feeling true love. not
claiming through love. So number two obvious it shows up. I cannot I cannot hide it. Number three.
Number three. And this is if you put a towel on the HA HA Fatah and you put shudder on the bad
habit. They call it habit no ha ha ba only hamba
		
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			What does that mean? What's it they say have Melba your the camel habit? Basically stayed firm,
steadfast,
		
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			steadfast, Now pay attention. This is love. This is all the same word. So three meanings. Pure,
bright, obvious, constant, stable, Are you with me? Are you with me all doesn't change doesn't
change. And number four, it says
		
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			a loop or hubba hubba meaning meaning the seed the inner seed of something. Inner seed of something
so it goes way deep.
		
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			way deep.
		
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			way deep. Number five Subhan Allah Subhana Allah if you only put kestra yeah farzan put kestra under
the HA
		
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			Okay, and Shanda on the bar but put them on the bar hibou
		
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			I'm sure all everybody after this, we're going to go learn how to be please do. Please do because it
comes beautiful that the dean our Islam becomes even more beautiful when you know the language
himbo. And this is very common, some parts of the world still habit, the sister who is with us from
India, it's called the Hague. And we still have it also in the Arab world. It's actually a clay
container, that people put water in it, they didn't have filters and no fridge, they put the water
in it right to protected.
		
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			And they call a tag but same word. So the fifth meaning is, you protected, you're protected. So
love. Now take these meanings, apply it to love,
		
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			apply it to love, love is pure,
		
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			is bright, is obvious. It's constant, it's constant, it's deep. And it's protected. You care about
it.
		
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			The Love, love. Now, each one of you, each one of you going to answer this question to herself, no
need for people to know how much my claim of the love of Allah my claim
		
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			of the love of Allah
		
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			applies to these five criterias it's pure, pure only for him. It's obvious. Everyone see it on me
not claim, not words, see it on me actions, how deep it is, how much I care about it. And I
protected and how much it is constant doesn't change in Ramadan, it's up and after Ramadan goes
down. When I am with my friends, I'm different. When I am alone, I'm different. It's constant state,
constant state. So basically basically in one of the beautiful meanings of love, and you apply it to
Allah, it says meaning it is the pure feeling
		
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			that moves the heart that moves the heart that shows up on the body. And the heart will not replace
it with anything else, no other feeling and it's constant with it with him or her and will give the
person you love you'll give him everything.
		
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			That's the love of Allah.
		
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			That's the love of Allah.
		
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			Now how much we really love Allah subhanho wa Taala and I'll share with you a beautiful saying this
is always you hear the same when anyone talks about the love of Allah. And this is an emammal Junaid
le momily Junaid legendary in piety and legendary in relationship with Allah. And he there was a
group of people sitting in Mecca.
		
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			And they all the discussion in the group look at the discussion what they talk and look at us. The
discussion is about the love of Allah. And remember Jeanette was the youngest, so he didn't say
anything out of respect. So the people said to him, Say it. Say yeah, Iraq, he's originally from
Iraq, like my origin. And he said, okay,
		
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			you say it, what is what is?
		
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			What is love of Allah for you now love of Allah for you. If you want to write that right down, I'm
going to translate as much as Allah makes it easy for me. And he said, first of all, his eyes were
tearing,
		
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			and he said,
		
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			they said talk about love of Allah. He said, love of Allah is a servant, servant.
		
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			Moving away from himself, a servant, moving away from himself,
		
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			conducted with the remembrance of his Lord,
		
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			moving away from himself, conducted with the love with the remembrance of his Lord,
		
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			standing constantly fulfilling his duties,
		
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			fulfilling the duties, his duties and the rights of his Lord,
		
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			looking to his Lord, by his heart, now you're only looking at Allah always with your heart. Do you
know what does it mean you look to Allah with your heart.
		
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			There's, there's no there's no lenses here. But there's a huge lenses here meaning anything in my
life
		
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			I say I do. I don't say I don't do is my heart immediately look at Allah and say Allah? Should I do
it? Is that pleasing to you? Is that how you want me to do it? Or your Allah? This is not something
you want me to do. I'm not going to do it. Now they don't either he'll be I'll be looking at a law
with his heart. Now actions, I'm still talking, I'm still translating the statement of Lima murjani
fell into kalama fabula. If he speaks, or she speaks By Allah, wa Inaba for Angela,
		
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			the words he uttered is about Allah, waiting to have Raka if he moves by the order of Allah, one
second from Allah, and if he stands still, he is with Allah, for who? He is, by Allah. To Allah, and
with Allah. So he is by Allah, for Allah and with Allah.
		
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			That's the love of Allah.
		
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			Where are we?
		
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			This is the love of Allah.
		
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			servant, going away from his naps, you know what that means? My focus is not what I like or what I
love, why want to do I'm sad because they didn't do this to me while I am happy because they did
this to me. It's all about to me, no love of Allah, I am away from all these things. My focus is not
to me. My focus is not them. Is not he or she, my focus is him capital H.
		
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			There he was an FC matassa along with the career of B he's always connected with him, not by claim
by constant remembrance of Alhamdulillah Subhana. Allah istok federal law allows you to hack the
law, your law, I did not give you your due right? constant, you look at your child and say,
hamdulillah what a blessing you gave me, your child become very successful. Alhamdulillah You made
my efforts successful. Everything is related to Allah
		
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			to things call him and be okay, you fulfill the person who loves Allah, fulfill the rights of Allah,
what is the rights of Allah upon you and me? What is the rights of Allah upon you and me? and other
Suarez AutoSum was asked in this, how kulla Allah to trick me he shaiya the right of Allah, you do
not associate anything with him? Well, my whole life I've Omaha called a baddie and Allah, what is
the right of their human being on Allah eutherian region, if they did that, he will get them to
Jenna. What Allah wants from me yahaya law. That's what he wants from me, and not the tongue law.
Law. No God, no deity worthy of worship, except Him. And not by tongue and not by claim rather by
		
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			action. By action. So matassa along with Akira be conducted with a lot through his dick, fulfill
Allah zooty
		
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			look at Allah with his heart, His heart is focused on Allah, nothing, nothing else. When we speak By
Allah, words, about Allah move by Allah state by Allah He is, this is what I want you to memorize
these last three for him for who? That human being Billa Allah moves me. Allah moves me when I first
started studying. I used to remember one of my teachers you say used to say, I'm not going to do
whatever Allah showed me and I was like Allah how he's going to show you know, like for us I mean
especially I'm talking about for me, I mean you're you're a person who studied medicine so
everything is obvious for everything is based on evidence how I'm gonna see a lot and then I'm not
		
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			gonna say or do unless Allah shomi la la, la la, la, la la. Once you start this relationship that I
shared with you about an emammal Junaid, you will see it you will see how Allah will stop you. And
you say I don't know why I can do this but I just can't do it. Then you find out is because what you
want to do is not pleasing to Allah. Or you say I didn't plan anything. It just happened
		
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			because I'm not once you know I'm talking about things that's obedient to Him. That things that is
radiant to him.
		
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			So you are beloved by Allah, willing Allah for Allah. Everything is for Allah you know what you say?
I don't want anything from you learn read.
		
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			Welcome Joseph, Allah Shakira. I don't want any Thank you any gratefulness from you. I'm doing it
all from if people will say,
		
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			Jackie Hello, hi my alladhi word you thank you Alhamdulillah they said nothing. Alhamdulillah
		
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			and Omar Allah, you're always with Allah. One of my friends just this morning, asked me this
question. And she said, What? She's so Pamela she was overseas and she got stuck overseas. So she's
alone. And she says, I forgot how to speak with the lockdown. And then and she said, What do you do?
I said, talk to Allah. Talk to Allah. This is your opportunity. You're alone. Talk to him, read his
words, read his words, make your dua. You don't have to memorize all your hours. Talk to him. You're
a law. You gave me everything. And I didn't do anything for you. As simple as this. Your last piece
will give me you know how you got into Suhana nickel Two Minute Warning me. The more you do this,
		
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			you're the more you start the relationship. he'll pull you. He, he'll pull you and He will show you
practically we always want practical. how I'm going to do the SR ifa. This is a beautiful talk. But
tell me, give me 12345
		
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			I'll give it to you. How do we number one, and it says Pamela Alhamdulillah. It is in Ramadan
because it's much easier in normal. number one. Number one, you read the Quran with understanding
and what Allah wants from you. This is the number one a lot of Quran reading your word, his words. I
had the three year old some time ago asked me how can Allah talk to us? You know how beautiful these
kids and so beautiful question how can I talk to me? And I said yeah, no, she said there's a lot of
talk to me. And I said yeah, and she said how I said read the Quran. She said one it's his words.
		
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			Cora however having said that is not the Euro Hydra. You read it just quickly so I finished the
hotma. Again, very recently somebody was asking me so like I do to Agia in a thorough way. And I was
like, Mashallah, how long that will take to powder as you say it. So about 40 pages of the Quran.
		
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			40 pages in the night in Tarawa. And I was like how long this will take. She said one hour,
		
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			one hour.
		
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			That's reading you will get the reward of reading saying the words, but I'm talking about here. Our
goal is Allah loves me, and I love him.
		
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			Read it. Take your time. This is what I recommend to everybody who's asking, especially those who
don't know the Arabic language.
		
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			You make it daily, in this beautiful month of Ramadan.
		
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			Whatever Allah time gives you, we are very different. Spend time with understanding the Quran. Not
only reading Yanni do only one hotma. Finish it only one hotma
		
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			one para a day if you read the juice takes about an hour. If you're just reading, but spend allocate
another time that you will take one page half a page one it doesn't matter. I want you to understand
that what is he saying? What is he telling me? What is he telling me? Right What does he say? Alif
Lam Meem daddy Kalki tabula rasa Buffy who Daniel McAfee first iron sawtell bahco first verse in
Advocaat in the cow chapter. This book lowri Buffy no doubt who then guidance to those who have
Taqwa? What does it mean?
		
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			Keep asking this question every day in Ramadan, pick one IRA and hamdulillah there is plenty of
programs now. I will recommend you have to have something alone with a law. Show him the efforts.
It's not just sitting, listening to a video it's very easy. This is called passive learning. passive
learning is a good start, but it will not change me. What changes me when I put the effort. When I
learned today that I need to read the Quran with understanding and from today, not from tomorrow.
today. I'm going to allocate 30 minutes or one hour whatever allocated, don't change it. allocate.
See what will happen. See what will happen at the end of Ramadan. You know why? Because you put the
		
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			effort, what he Subhana who will do will pull you
		
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			will make you understand more. Allah Allah they allow and I'm sharing this with everybody when I
started memorizing the Quran, I thought I will never be able to do it. It's impossible. And a good
number of my teachers said they told me later of course
		
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			But Subhanallah you keep doing it, you keep doing it and you fail and tired and you get up and you
do it. No one gives it to you at the end. So number one, read the Quran number two, before I get to
two, there is no claim of love of Allah without doing the obligations. There is no don't talk about
a loss love what I love him. He loves me why I want to be at the mammal tonight and I don't wake up
for fragile. We are claimers. We are basically saying what we don't do limita coluna malata follow?
Why do you say what do you do what you don't do. So number one, now comes steps. So I'm gonna read
the Quran with focus, I would pick one to whatever Allah opens for you. Number two,
		
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			to get closer to him. To get closer to him.
		
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			To get the love, you need to do the extras. In this you will compete extras, all the sunan of assala
all the extra, the non or the voluntary extra Salah to before fudger Salatu Maha two or four before
world war two or four after Lahore, then to two after memorial to after Russia. That's first, then I
will graduate. I'm in Ramadan, I'm going to do more. I'm going to do the two before us or it's not
commonly done. I'll do two before Mahara and then my tarawih my tarawih we, I do 20 Alhamdulillah.
Now I'm going to do 20 and I'm going to read more, or I'm going to do 20 and I'm going to read
longer, I'm going to do longer sujood I'm going to do longer
		
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			record graduates, this is what I say always to myself before anyone you cannot be today second day
of Ramadan you are exactly the same human being in your relationship with Allah, meaning in your
actions in your deeds with Allah the same as last year, we are losers.
		
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			I need to continue what they call a tolerable Allah and get closer to Allah subhanaw taala by
performing number one, his obligations and then
		
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			closer is by the extras and I will share this hadith with you so hanifa Cozzi, some of you may be
familiar with it.
		
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			I'll get to the questions. Probably I will finish another 1015 minutes and then I'll take some
questions and please forgive me at two o'clock, five to two I have to to finish so please forgive me
if I cannot stay longer. Allah Subhana Allah said in this hadith on kotse
		
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			matter arroba la Abdi Vichy in the name of Dr. Holly, nothing will bring the human my servant you
and me closer to me to Allah, other than what I made obligatory upon him or her. Nothing I was
saying nothing will make me nothing. Whatever you do, you did not start this is I'm commenting. You
didn't start the journey of love of Allah, if there is no obligations, no obligations. Having said
that.
		
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			The obligations is not only do the obligations is don't also solo on time. No backbiting. See, I'm
from Yvonne. No looking at haraam giving my czaka not withholding charity. Right? I'm talking about
obligations, no obligations. So then the dual obligations were rolled while they excellent treatment
to the parents. That's an obligation not to excellent treatment. ladipo lahoma of don't say off to
them. That's also a don't, that I'm not going to do. So the first step look at your journey and mine
with the last pantalla as a road as a road.
		
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			GPS, put it on the GPS, my destination, Allah's love.
		
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			Where do I start your law? Right? What do they say starting point when you put the GPS? When do they
tell you you put your home address you put somewhere else? Your start point, you didn't take the
journey yet, your start point is the obligations. Each one of you listening to me look at
obligations that you don't do, or haraam or this obedient to Allah that you do this need to need to
be out.
		
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			Now but I didn't get to the love of Allah yet. Back to the Hadith. Matter hora de la Abdi Vichy
baliem in Matera, totally, nothing will bring the servant of me close to me, other than what I made
obligation, Okay, next step. I need to get to the love of Allah. Look at what Allah is saying here.
		
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			roswaal is AutoSum in a highly well ASR lab Dr. Tara Bula you have been no one had that boy and my
servant continued to do the voluntary the acts the extra actions till I love him
		
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			till I love him
		
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			Ah, we're there.
		
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			How do I know I am there? These are all spiritual stations. How do I know? I was saying it had the
oboe, okay. fader back to one I love him who's speaking Allah when I love him What will happen?
calling to Allah saying this call to I will be some old lady. Yes Maui. I will become his eisah I'm
sorry. Yeah, come to summer I will. I will be his hearing.
		
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			Well, basa hula the absurd ob and his eyesight that he sees with
		
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			hamdulillah May Allah reward you your persona. You're amazing. I love it. She's making very easy
your life. A lot of duality for Zara, before you break your fast jannetty for those who have
Rosanna, all of us, Allah Saudi motorcar believe we are facing each other in Ghana. On on couches,
everybody, you're on the all the Muslims, Europe and everybody on this earth to become a Muslim and
in Jannah So here you go. She even gave you the narrator Abu Dhabi, Allahu anhu. Said are also la
salatu salam said, Allah the Exalted, said I will declared as the beginning of it. I am an orderly
alien who will harbor I will declare a war against him, who shows hostility to a pious worshipper of
		
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			mine and the most beloved thing with which my slave comes in nearer to me is that what I have
enjoined upon him made obligatory and my slave keeps on coming look at this point keeps coming
closer to me. Through performing no often extra is not prayers only is not prayers is everything and
nephila is everything extra you do. Charity is another filler
		
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			smiling in your face of your sister is enough it's a soda so everything extra Hector or Hippo till I
love him now what will happen
		
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			if I loved him now the sign now the action through going to some Angola vs malby I become his
earrings, his hearings I'm sorry, meaning if Allah is my hearing, I will not be able I will not be
able to hear or listen to haraam
		
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			is not I'm struggling. I just can't anymore. I can't anymore because Allah is my hearing. Or quanto
basato will bussola the absurd ob and I am his eyesight. I can look at her arm. I can see her arm
let alone I watch her arm let alone in Ramadan is not only good deeds is not good deed it's higher
level. I have enemy the sign that Allah loves me enemy something comes up right away and says don't
do it. This is not pleasing to Allah and I don't then Allah who loves me
		
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			or something in me says go and do it. Allah loves it then Allah loves me
		
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			now the Hadeeth is not done yet. Come to some small be oversaw hula hoops Adobe now to signs. You
know what?
		
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			To signs. This is amazing fee.
		
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			Pay that I loved him going to somehow I become his hearings. Well vasara one of the absurd ob now
two things the last two things in the Hadeeth will either sell any law
		
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			when he or she asked me now who's answering on law, I will give him law or law motto kid and the
noon of Tokyo. I will give him water in his dad and he and if he seeks refuge in me, I will give him
refuge I shall be his hearing with which he shall hear his sight with which he will see his hands
with which he will hold and his feet Nagasaki, Ohio. Well read the hola to em Shiva and his feet
which he will shall walk. And if he asked, ask something of me. Look at the last word. Put your
heart in this Hurry, I shall surely give it to him. And if he takes refuge in me, I certainly will
grant him. That's the sign of love is not a claim. That's the sign of love.
		
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			That's I am exactly what emammal Junaid what I shared with you I am by a law and for Allah and by
Allah and with Allah. I say what pleases Him, I hear what pleases Him, I see what pleases Him, I
lower my gaze from what he doesn't like, I close my ears for what? From what he doesn't want
		
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			to hear, and my hands will not write or do something he doesn't like or write and do something he
likes, and my legs will not walk to any place but to what he loves. And what does he love me to walk
to his massage, may Allah make it open again. And he does not want me to keep going to the markets,
I will reload the ilahi and massage. The most beloved place to Allah is the is messagebird
		
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			are available.
		
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			The meaning of it the most disliked is LS swap. Markets, malls,
		
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			I can't be spending now. hamdulillah now Alhamdulillah by another choice, Allah is pushing us away
from the disobedience. But later on Allah Subhana Allah insha Allah who lifted this test from all of
us, I cannot be. I cannot be claimer. Allah loves me. Every time I asked. Allah will give me an idea
all this, somebody will say well, every time I ask Allah He gives me and I do not obey Allah. That's
very dangerous. That's called in the stomach terminology. STD Raj, Allah is pulling you more and
more.
		
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			You know when you gave up on someone,
		
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			child why you have never done that when you give on someone who says I am done. I am done. I'm not
gonna do anything, let them do whatever they want. I'll give them anything they want. So if I and
you May Allah not make us of those who disobey Allah, and then he still gives me that means a loss
pantalla is letting me to myself, and he is not interested anymore in me returning to him. So number
three, number two, at the Auto Buddha law, number three steps practical to get close to Allah
subhanho wa Taala is constant decree of Allah.
		
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			Constant dekha remembrance of Allah they say the sign of real area of war Li the real alliance of
Allah subhanaw taala that you're always in liquor, liquor is reading Quran, they can memorize the
Quran, they can say stop ferula they can Alhamdulillah the curse upon Allah, the curse Allah and
they can morning and evening as constant remembrance even when you are with people and let the talk
is not about Allah or something to get me close to him. You stay silent but inside you you know
everybody now have these rings that you do have Salah Allah and Rasul Allah salatu wa salam reminds
you this needs to be your heart. Always licola number four, number four,
		
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			you put what Allah hellos ahead. I had
		
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			I had the from what you love, anything Allah loves will take precedent. Anything Allah loves will be
number one. Anything Allah loves will be number one, even if what he wants a loves I don't love, but
I'm gonna do it for only one reason, because Allah loves it.
		
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			Where are we? Where are we here?
		
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			anything he loves, I do it. Although I am not informed of it, although I don't like it.
		
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			And then that means things I like I am not gonna do. That's a huge sacrifice. But that's the love of
Allah. That's the love of Allah. So number four, number four, you do the things that he loves, even
if you don't, number five,
		
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			learn love and live the names of Allah.
		
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			Learn
		
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			love and live the names of Allah subhanho wa Taala His names and characters is not we only have them
as hanged in our homes.
		
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			is you know the meaning what does it mean a lot of man. Allah is the merciful meaning with
everything I'm seeing with all this COVID-19 Coronavirus with all the death with all the lock down
with all the loss of jobs, loss of resources, loss of freedom, all what we are Allah is still a rock
man.
		
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			He didn't change he doesn't change.
		
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			Where is a rock my Allah Allah I'm not seeing it but I noticed there then you know Allah.
		
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			It cannot be May Allah forgive me You cannot say I can see where is Allah is Rama. And how can you
tell me a lot of man look
		
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			What is happening? Then? I have not seen him yet.
		
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			And if I don't know how to do get there, ask, show me your law. I know you taught me until Rama,
please show me your. I'm not seeing it. I'm weak. I'm a servant. I know nothing. And Allah taught us
these days how insignificant we are, how weak we are, how a small virus that nobody can see.
		
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			Shut off the earth. That's how I look at it. The earth is on lockdown. Shut off.
		
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			Animals are very happy. The trees are happy, the earth are happy. Everybody is happy, except to
human beings. Freedom.
		
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			So you're a law. I don't know your names in actions. Show me ask him in your draw in your Witter.
When you're so dude, doesn't matter. The more you know about Allah, you start seeing him in his
creation and this is how they teach you in our theater. They say Allah subhanaw taala did not show
himself Subhana to us, but he showed himself to us through His names and attributes. And he didn't
teach us His names and attributes
		
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			directly rather by his actions, the creation the beauty, the snow, the rain, the grain the desert,
all this a Jamal and Jeremy so learn the names of Allah learn love and most important live live I
have no doubt this is higher for me. This is how you say you say things I've no doubt whatever
happens is good because it's coming from Allah number six. You see his bounties on you individually.
You see his bounties on you don't say don't take everything for granted. Of course, I worked very
hard. I studied No, there's a lot of people who studied very hard harder than me, but he didn't give
it to them. And there is people who have studied much harder than me and he gave them more. It is
		
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			him. Him in Namah Kowloon alley Shane is our dinner who and all Allahu coldfire cone Allah says this
is what the nine and the bees innama Oh Luna Alicia wehrli if we say something, if we want something
to happen, the only thing we need to do is we say be and it will be
		
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			so see the bounties count your bounties I had a class very recently younger people and I said count
for me 5055 050 50 bounties Allah subhanaw taala gave you other than you are a Muslim and other than
you parents. I can't tell you what it comes one of them sick he said a young man very young man boy
actually and he said is my disease he's sick. He said it's diseased and nerima and I said How come
he said nobody else has it.
		
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			That's when you see Allah
		
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			you didn't say Why me? You say he but he gave me this because when I get sick and I act with patient
he will reward me he will reward me so number six, number seven
		
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			number seven, you act with Allah as a beggar
		
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			you act with Allah as a beggar
		
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			in need poor that's your relationship and mine with Allah should be that's my relationship should be
with Allah subhanaw taala beggar
		
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			I have nothing I can do nothing. It's only in his hand is only in his hand.
		
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			Number eight I may be going a little bit because I want to give you all this and I give you some
time for questions and answers. Number eight, and this especially in Ramadan.
		
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			halwa seclusion, alone with him. Only. seclusion meaning no phone. seclusion, meaning I'm not
talking to people. I'm not saying I'm alone in the house. But I'm not alone. I'm with the TV. I am
with the internet. I'm with the YouTube and with the phone. No no no no.
		
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			seclusion, and this is the best time this year. And actually I called Rama while I gave it a
nickname. I call it the Ramadan. halwa is the Ramadan of seclusion because you're not seeing people
no parties, no invitation is not even Tarawa and Masjid. It is you and you with your family also but
also your family will go everyone will go to their room at one point.
		
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			seclusion spent time with him. just spent the list sit down and talk to him. Think think of
something beautiful. You have seen
		
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			If you have if you just delivered the baby, look at the beauty of the baby. Look at the beauty of
the baby and see.
		
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			Number nine, company, peer pressure spent a lot everywhere. The speed of pressure. Title applies.
You spend your time with the righteous people. Don't spend your time with the not righteous people,
those who are heedless, they will pull you away. You want to be with people who will lift you up.
You want to be with people who will say, Oh, you only do 10 taraweeh you only make one hour in
Ramadan. I don't want people to say all matter online or you know, I want people to lift me up. I
want people when I sit with them, they remind me of a law. When I see them, they remind me of our
law. modulus masala when they say spending time, companionship is your righteous people, whether on
		
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			the phone, whether on the groups, whether on the social media, whether in person, people I choose
this or not, I'm not talking about family, family, we have no choice, but I'm talking about I choose
them. These are the people who will bring me closer to Allah number 10. And this will be the last
one, that number 10
		
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			stay away from anything that will prevent you or will put a curtain or a hijab, or a barrier between
you and Allah will allow. And Allahu lubaina and Maria lb. One Sharon, Allah said this is sorted I'm
fat and no, no, that Allah can put a barrier between you and him.
		
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			Yeah Your Holiness minister Ji would India he will Rasulullah da come the mifi company this is how
the IRS starts Oh believer respond to Allah when he calls you to what revive your heart and what
when he calls you an roswaal he saw to Assam calls you to revive your heart and scholars tells you
number one it's the Quran and his orders while I'm one No, no and Allahu Lubin and Maria lb, Allah
will put the barrier can put the barrier or a hijab, your whole heart basically how it is when you
put a part of the
		
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			women in what are you are called by luck and put a barrier. So move everything that will put a
barrier and number one barrier that I put on we'll put between me and Allah is since this obedient,
don't do that. Don't do that. Stay away from sins. Because there is no love of Allah with sins.
subhanak Alomar behind the cache Edwin lerida hoglund testofuel cola to bully sobre la alesina
Mohammed Ali who was Harvey testament kathira I asked her last pantalla to accept from all of us I
asked her last pantalla to reward everyone who worked on this in London and in the US I asked
everybody who gave us one hour of her time in Ramadan or his time in Ramadan to listen to us May
		
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			Allah reward you May Allah make me worthy of saying the words that I say me Allah Subhana Allah make
me before anyone else that we practice what we learned and what we teach each and all of us and May
Allah spawn tada by the righteous deed which only one of us will do or anybody on this world to lift
this test and bring us out of this test and trial much better much purer much closer to him your
ebme is akmola
		
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			we okay to do question now. Yes Okay. We have plenty but you choose
		
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			okay so one of the first questions is what is your advice on fostering long lasting and eight year
old baby without with a eight weeks old baby? Yes. She breastfeeding
		
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			It doesn't say I think maybe we could open the question up to what would your advice be on fasting
if you have children while their responsibilities the what was para hautala and you go go back to
the origin
		
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			of Surah Al Baqarah about the fasting and you can go back we did last week actually last Sunday two
hours on the fasting How do I make Ramadan best ever? How do I actually it was titled Ramadan my
gate to gender it's on our website and it's on our social media, our and it's on YouTube channel.
You can listen to it and recovered one one of these things. In general, if the nursing woman or the
pregnant woman, the same ruling. If fasting a factor affects the breast a factor after the baby then
the answer is yes, she can break her fast and she makes
		
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			Sit up later on if there is no excuse honestly there is nothing she's absolutely fine she was she
normally fast and fasting is not a big thing for her then she should trust so this is something
between you and Allah This is something between you and Allah and you know your ability but also
don't be too hard on yourself because it's my boy and I have to know Allah gave you the permission
in the permission or concession is actually in Ramadan and one of the things again in our planner is
in Allahu and Toto Hassan Allah loves those who take his concessions and having said that don't take
it very lightly also see can you do it and if you can do to Formula if you cannot you cannot
		
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			what is the last one? Yeah persona
		
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			and the next question is what is the best way to call to allow for help? Yeah, yeah Maureen in me.
It depends what kind of help and the best way to call for Allah call him by his names. So I need the
money. You're a zapper is your Allah The one who are the Sustainer please just give me sustenance.
I'm sick and I need to get better yeah Shafi mama though but so I've been nice ish. We want a Shafi
your Allah The Lord of people, you are the one who cure cure me, the best way to call Allah subhanaw
taala. Actually, before I even say this now I remember the very nice saying, I think it's an email.
But if I find wrong, please correct me. He said he was asked this question. He said the best way to
		
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			call Allah call him with sincerity from your heart.
		
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			Sincere from your heart. Think of yourself and this is a beautiful concept I learned that you are on
our every time I feel I'm away from Allah, I bring this concept back. You're in the middle of the
ocean.
		
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			And you do not know how to swim.
		
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			You're in the middle of the ocean, and you don't know how to swim. You're about to draw to die. And
you're holding to a piece of wood in the middle of the ocean. Nobody in the dark. How we will call
Allah pantalla what's your da? How are you going to say your Allah nobody will save me except you
something like that. This is how you answer one more question we should end for exam.
		
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			See what questions we have.
		
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			Another person has said can you give examples of how to see his balance sheets? Yeah, absolutely
very easy.
		
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			Anytime you walk in the street and you see somebody on a wheelchair,
		
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			or picture of somebody on a wheelchair, or on crutches, what's the bounties on you and me? What's
the bounty on you and me? I'm walking. You see somebody blind,
		
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			and your work and you're you're seeing
		
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			that's a bounty even easier. We are well I live in St. Louis, we are heading to me. And may usually
is the month that you get a lot of thunderstorms and sometimes not uncommon, we lose electricity
because we have big trees and from the thunderstorms. The trees may fall on the electric lines and
then we lose it and we become completely dark. We don't see anything. You can't even cook the
freezer or the fridge is not working, what bounties we had.
		
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			And then when the lights come back again you say Alhamdulillah
		
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			that's why there's a DA I'm glad this question comes in. There's a DA I'm not sure if it's offer
roswaal in salatu salam but it says along the lateral alaknanda Amica visa, your Allah don't teach
me and show me your bounties by taking them away. What bounty now we had an he took it away.
Freedom, work.
		
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			Safety, Health. We all had it daily. We didn't look at it. Here you go. He sent Corona to remind us
that I can keep you in the house. I can cover your face, I can push you to put niqab I'm going to
push you not to shake hands.
		
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			So Subhan Allah is akmola hidden. One last thing I want to also share with everybody we run classes,
we will run it again after Ramadan. We do classes and you go on our website jhana institute.com,
john institute.com. And we do classes on Saturday morning. It's eight o'clock St. Louis time, which
is about two o'clock London time and everybody else you figured out the time. And this we do. The
class is specifically about how do I learn, love and live the origin. We started with just wanna
it's all recorded and you can join line online live audience
		
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			If you cannot for whatever the reason then the recording will be sent to you. And on Sunday we do
classes test here, purification of the heart, and that's seven o'clock on a Sunday. Is that gonna
lock it