Haifaa Younis – Ramadan The Month of Love – Day 09

			Bismillah
		

			salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen. We are continuing in our
journey in this blessed month of Ramadan, to look at Ramadan in a different way. And our goal is to
make this month, the month of love of Allah subhanho wa Taala. And how we will reach this goal by
daily covering and action of virtue added that Allah love and I knew we will do our best to practice
that virtue or deed or action. So Allah subhanaw taala at the end will love me. So my goal is that
Allah Subhana Allah will love me. And of course we all love a las panatela Today we're going to go
to something
		

			a character of virtue that's in the sooner are also Alia salatu salam described it or talked about
it in the following way and this hadith is actually in Mohali and Muslim and he said that he Salah
to a sinner
		

			in a lot of heat. Indeed, Allah is raffia that's the word. That's the character translated loosely
to gentle kind. forbearing Indeed, Allah is gentle, kind forbearing you're a word, love, gentleness,
kindness, and forbearing.
		

			Phil Emery Cooley, he loves gentleness, kindness for bidding in everything. This is one same
concept. In another two. NARRATION he said our Swati Sato sinner in the la hora. Same thing. Allah
is gentle, kind forbearing your Hebrew riff and he loves gentleness, kindness forbearing. While
you're out the Allah, Marathi the lady he gives as a result of gentleness, way more than what he
normally give for other things. Meaning if I add the character of gentleness, kindness forbearing to
a deed, a good deed, I will get way more reward or I will get from Allah things way more than than
he usually get. And another narration and this is an incident also on the same concept or free
		

			gentleness or group of Jewish King Torah. Swati salatu salam and they greeted him in this way Somali
Somali equal reality is death on you.
		

			It's not a Salam alikoum it's not Peace be upon you. So rather assemble that and see that I chose
with him. So she right away or Swati salatu salam responded by saying Wali calm and upon you. As
Sita Ayesha looked at the roswaal he saw to a Salaam and says your Rasul Allah Didn't you see what
they said death on you. So she responded why they call Lana whoa whoa diva Allahu Allah, Curse of La
come upon your his death and the curse of Allah and death upon you. Saraswati saw to sit up, turn to
her and said, the meaning golf I understood what they said. And I just said while he called upon
you, if their intention was peace be upon us whether there is peace upon them. And if their
		

			intention was death, then death upon them. And then he gave this that is related to our virtue of
today and he said, Yeah, sure.
		

			Yeah Isha something in the meaning of gentle Madeline, take it easy. Whenever gentleness added to
something, it will beautify it. And whenever gentleness is stripped away from something, it will
make it look ugly. It will make it look ugly. So gentleness, kindness, forbearing. So what does it
mean when Allah subhanaw taala is gentle. So panna, number one, he took his time and in, in his
creation,
		

			there was no rush and hurry. This is something for us to learn. For example, creation of a human
being takes nine months, Allah Subhana, Allah can do it in a second creating of the heaven and the
earth. It took six days it could easily have been done with a minute. So unless pantalla is gentle,
he created his creation gradually took his time. Number two, Allah is gentle in his orders, and his
punishment
		

			of the sins, meaning unless pantalla does not punish right away, so panela how many human being
disobeyed Allah and he's still feed them. Give them more
		

			They want to respond to their supplications. That's part of his gentleness out of hope that or give
them more time that they will turn back to him. sign off kindness and gentleness. So what about me
and you and us? How do I do this gentleness in my daily life, there's many things we can cover.
Number one is when we are calling for Allah subhanho wa Taala. Whether we are doing this in our
homes with our family members, whether we are doing it with the people around us in our work in our
community, gentleness, and Tao auto in Allah be gentle. And Allah pantalla said it to Rasul Allah
hisar to a salon. Will Quinta for one volleyball kalbi lamb for boom and Holic, if you were harsh,
		

			or off, hard heart, they will leave you, they will not stay with you. So calling to unless pantalla
when I want to tell them, my child, go and pray. I remember I am going to do it in a gentle way.
Because Allah love gentleness and Allah will give me because of my gentleness, way more than he will
give other things meaning, he will make what I am saying easier, people will listen and hopefully
they will follow. So number one, in calling from law, number two, in dealing with the people who I
have power of over. So if I am a boss in a at my work, and then I have employees and I, again my
family members, especially my children, gentleness, put gentleness in the way of daily
		

			interaction
		

			gentleness, with the with the parents, this is going toward the youth these days, especially when
they get older, especially when they need more gentleness I have to remember Allah is rough here.
Allah is gentle olise kind are wise for bearing I need to be like him. So he will love me. And that
is the name of some scholar says it's one of the names of our last panel with dad. So gentleness
with the parents gentleness with this with the
		

			spouses, family, gentleness, with a friend's gentleness with the acquaintance, kindness, for
bearing. And in general kindness is meaning the meaning of is you make things easy. You don't make
things complicated. So someone is coming to you and have a problem. You try to solve it even if you
cannot get you at least you make it easier on them. You give them some hope. You show them things
they are not seeing. Especially these days somebody lose someone beloved to them, you remind them,
you remind them of the blessings a whole lot. pantalla what you will get remind them that Allah is
Jen is Hakeem is wise, there is a hikma in here, you remind them that this life is temporary, we all
		

			are going to be leaving, then they will feel as much as you can, and Allah will put the bark at it,
they will feel better. So number one, number two, the meaning of gentleness is you you bring the
reasons to make things easy. You You are like a way of making things easy. Practically, you make
things easy, that's another meaning. And one of the meaning of gentleness is your take your time, is
forbearing. Take things slowly, don't respond right away. don't respond right away. Even if
something is bothering something is not right. You take your time think attorney take time. Take the
time and and even when we are punishing and we said we talked about this yesterday also responding
		

			to something that is harsh. We respond in a gentle way. Even in punishment, I respond in a gentle
way. So we're going to look today as how I am going to be applying the gentleness in my daily life
daily. I'm going to try and do it as much as I can so it will become a habit. It becomes my
character. What will I get at the end? The love of Allah spawn Tada. So let's remember, in a lot of
you, Indeed, Allah is gentle, and kind, your hibel restful Agricola he loves gentleness in
everything, including and I will end up in here, gentleness again with the earth around us.
gentleness, with everything, no waste, no abuse of the resources that's all kind of gentleness. May
		

			Allah subhanho wa Taala teach us what is beneficial for us and benefit us from what we are learning
ceremony.
		

			Kumara rahmatullah wa barakato