Haifaa Younis – How Does One Cleans Their Hearts from Hatred for Someone Who Does Wrong Them Day In – Day Out

			How does one cleanse their heart? From hatred for someone who does wrong to them day in, day out?
		

			Then she said, I promised myself every day that I will ignore and forgive this person for the sake
of Allah. But I fail every day. Because something new happens. It really doesn't matter what this
person does, but what matters is, this is what I loved about the question.
		

			Let's see if you will feel what I felt she said, doesn't matter what this person does. What matters
is, I have failed Allah again. And all my good deeds are being eaten up by this hatred in my heart.
		

			I loved it. That's why I put it number one harder question.
		

			I feel immensely burdened by this. And it saddens me that I am not the better, bigger person to
completely clean the state and forgive this person. Please advice? I don't know how old Where is
she? I just got the email and the question. This applies to all of us.
		

			Nobody in this room, nobody on with me online, nobody in this world have not lived
		

			time. If not repeated time, or someone have
		

			bothered you
		

			did an act of injustice to you. Truly not you are perceiving it. It's real. Right?
		

			stabbed you in the back disappointed you. So this is what I when I read this, I say welcome to the
world. And this is why this life dunya is dunya. So we all have to accept it. Number one, especially
I'm talking to the young because you're not yet Subhanallah I wish I was your age. But I didn't know
anything. And everybody was beautiful and nice. But the more we grow up and it's part of the world
and part of life. So this doesn't mean okay. How does you do this to me? I'm going to hate you.
		

			This is what I say to myself before I will give you the the answer. And I actually some of these
answers I really researched.
		

			Number one, what is the difference between me and everybody else?
		

			This is very important for you. Where are you? with Allah subhanaw taala
		

			it doesn't matter. I'm not seeing everybody. I'm talking between me that's why I loved the second
part of the question, which it doesn't matter what this person does. And again, I don't know he she
was that person. But it is every time I fail Allah, what is she looking at?
		

			She's looking at her relationship with Allah. That's where the starting point should be for
everybody.
		

			Once you start seeing people it gets very difficult, almost impossible. I really mean it. It's
always whenever something good happens to us from through people. Or here we are. The first thing it
has to be two things. Why Allah allowed this to happen?
		

			Nothing happens without the will of Allah right? When you say just ACULA higher, Allah allowed it.
When you say you're the worst person I have met, Allah allowed it. So the first question is, Why did
Allah Allah words meaning what does he want from me? What does he expect from me? One two, how
should I act in the way he pleases Allah? Neither pleases me, nor pleases people. And this is where
this this verse in surah Taha show and I highly recommend, all of you memorize it like your name.
		

			And this is Allah subhanaw taala. After he praised the MaHA during the immigrants and Al Ansari, the
helpers, he said there is people's going to come afterwards. This is you and me. Well, Adina Jha,
whom embody him, they came after all your kupuna Robin Aquilina de nobuna. Look at the sequence.
Number one, yeah, ALLAH forgive our sins. What does that mean? I probably have done this. Maybe I
didn't do it intentionally. I am sure I'm hurted somebody. I'm not an angel. None of us are both we
usually what happens we don't see our
		

			faults. We don't see our mistakes. And if someone comes and tells you your mistake, that's when you
know who you are. How do you take that mistake?
		

			So number one, I will say Allah subhanaw taala allowed and then what does he want from me those who
comes after Rhodia coluna from bona fide Lyna don't Obinna your Allah please forgive me? Forgive my
sins and not only for me I'm not selfish when he one in a Latina Saba Hona Bhima and everybody that
came before me, believers. Now comes to the point because the question is the feeling in the heart
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			the Allah don't put it in our hearts they will it is not only anger and hate it's a combo it's
malice when you that when you see that person she or he you really don't want to see them and
everything inside you changes and you say I don't want to see her I don't want to see him and then
if any word comes in what's the response will be immediately you have to say or have been allotted
your article Houvenaghel in Medina Amman, your Allah don't put in our hearts hatred to anyone just
because they are what a
		

			believer This is what the verse said it doesn't matter
		

			that not all believers are Angel not everybody does perfect right? So number one and this happens to
me and I'm sure it happens to you and this verse literally like you put anesthesia on a need
		

			immediately you look at this person and say Robin a lotta traffic Illuminati Linda Nina. Anwar,
don't put your begging Allah, you're turning to him. This is an act of worship, you will be rewarded
I will be rewarded.
		

			Laughter traffic Rubina villain Medina Amma don't put any hatred in my inside me. Doesn't matter
what they did the other verse which will help you not only clean your heart, but also make sure he
act in a best way
		

			is when Allah subhanaw taala said it to say networker
		

			and you all know the story when he said he was accused, and then who surprised? The rumor. Now
imagine you live in here. And everybody in town is talking about you. Nuts negative in the worst
case scenario. And you are the daughter of Abu Bakr and the wife of a Swati saw it was Sarah, who
surprised the rumor who said did you hear text share was his relative. His relative is poor and Cena
Abubakar always spent on him. So here the scenario is Satan Abu Bakr didn't do anything. Anything on
the contrary, and this man out of weakness,
		

			just surprise them. How many times do we say things and you say why did I say it?
		

			And then Satan Abu Bakr naturally. This is his daughter said that's it. I'm not spending a penny on
this man. Fear or not?
		

			Fear or not?
		

			And Allah revealed the verse. It's an assault on you. Well, I actually live in Kumasi. Asante Are
you too old CORBA well Misaki no more hydrography siberica Firefall was Fahad here this is the
million underlines far who was for Hope How can I do this your Allah Allah to have buena El Faro
Hola Hola. Hola Hola for all right. So what Allah is saying is saying those who have wealth and
Allah has expanded their sustenance, do not
		

			do not stop spending specifically this is a noble worker, do not spend that stop spending on those
who are poor and they are immigrants for the sake of Allah. And then what will make me do it
		

			now this is very easy said this is not easy. Done. I mean, think of all the scenarios
		

			and Allah says fast food was for him to orders King John, forgiven partner. Forgive Meaning I'm not
gonna retaliate. And I am not I'm going to try to avoid you.
		

			First for who there is nothing in your heart.
		

			And in general, I will respond even better.
		

			What's the heart I need? Honestly, right? What makes me do it the next in the verse. Allah to buena
AirFit. Hola Hola.
		

			Don't you want Allah to forgive you?
		

			And I say this too. I remind myself all the time because we all go through this how many times join
me and show me hands. We have disobeyed allah
		

			how many times right just today don't tell me the number that he kept feeding me
		

			gave me all the things brought me in here brought you here right tomorrow will be inshallah even
better.
		

			And as to have buena interfere Allahu Allah. Don't you want Allah to forgive you? The answer is
that's what Satan Abu Bakr did. Now I'm Robbie, he needs to talk to Allah Bella Huangdi by Allah he
has and he not only spend or reinstate the payment, you know what he did? He gave him even more.
		

			So this is this is
		

			case has two parts parts is me internal. So this is what you have to do and this is not going to be
a day or two this is constant and then in your Salah in your dua you say this dua clear my heart if
you don't know the if you say clear my heart don't have don't let my heart have any grudges hate on
anybody. Now second this person is day in day out.
		

			Try to avoid that person as much as you can. Again, she didn't explain what is the relationship. But
if this is a friend, absolutely pull away. They don't they will not change. You need to reach a
point where you accept people the way they are. It's very hard by the way, because you still have
expectation
		

			avoid as much as you can they text you respond with one word respond because it's actually Salaam
and Rhonda Sarah, but minimum one word don't argue don't try to explain is going to go nowhere.
		

			It's going to add
		

			so again, I don't know him. I don't know. Imagine this is the parents. Imagine this is a child.
Imagine this is a husband or a wife in an awareness was she said they did or siblings. A lot of
Doohan May Allah make it easy. Again it is not easy whatsoever but Allah makes things easy.