Haifaa Younis – Beautiful Patience
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The speakers discuss the importance of not forgetting the loss and the importance of learning from the material in understanding the meaning of Surah Al Baq offline. They also touch on the use of "has" in the Quran and the impact of Islam on people's behavior. The speakers emphasize the importance of protecting people from temptation and building a strong foundation in Islam. They also mention the use of "offensive" in the past and the importance of not giving up fear and belief in Islam.
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the same room. And I was like, okay, yeah, sure, why not the handler by May Allah bless this community, to beautiful Subhan Allah on a Friday night, this is amazing. And the number of the youth is also beautiful. So humbler beyond me. Since last time I was here, we all are living it and we lived it again today. SubhanAllah. As I was boarding, the same happened again. So let's not forget, even if it's going to take years, let's not forget them. Let's not get used to it. You can never get used to injustice, we should never get used to
pain and suffering of the others.
And the more we see what we are seeing, and again, I was saying this to myself, how grateful we are, we should be to Allah subhanaw taala. And I'm saying this to myself, what will I say to him when I stand in front of him?
Everybody in this room, what test we went through?
Right. And I mean, the story is from us, which one we start to which one we end, you heard che Omar talking about the man who's Khalid, who he lost his granddaughter, rah rah, he used to call her the soul of the soul. And it's not now becoming a hashtag. And everybody else in the woman's who says that hamdulillah Ilaha illa Allah and the God who said it is she does she have seen her? She was saying that it's my mother. I know her from her hair. And the men trying to console her and says, No, it is not she says no, I know it is she, I mean, the story is, is beyond. So the point I'm trying to make is for us, living in the blessed world. I just came back from Africa on Tuesday.
Everybody wants to come and live in the States. Everyone. i It was a huge conference, I was with the youth and I just asked who wants to come with me on Tuesday. And I didn't say California, I just said America, every hand was up.
And I was like why? And I asked them they got beautiful answers. But the point is we the blessed ones, we need to remember this. And we need to be grateful to Allah subhanaw taala and then I'm gonna get you to the sovereign Jamil the beautiful patient.
The beautiful patient for us. And again, may Allah forgive us is when the temperature becomes 50
or becomes 14 Dallas, and it gets very cold and everybody starts complaining.
And if you come to California even worse, because everything is available and everything is available in the best way. An easy you want to go and buy any fruits you can stand in front of them and says which one I'm going to take.
And many of us what Illa hunt we don't even think about the price. So the more we see this and I kept asking myself, your Allah, there is a hikma you're making me see this and live this. And the only thing I say show me your wisdom and make me learn from it. And make it in make it in a way to make my right scale heavier.
So the reason we chose Surah Yusuf, it's actually these are series I started doing it from September with the community in Islamic Center of Irvine it's on Tuesdays usually to the whim woman program that's live streamed. All of us know the Quran.
Now you're gonna tell me all of us, yes, all of us. All of us know something called Quran.
Most of us can read it.
Majority of us and correct me if I'm wrong, and I'm looking at everybody here. Majority of us don't know what Allah is telling us.
And I'm not saying the meanings.
Again, if you are born like me blessed to know the Arabic language so of course I say I know what's Bismillah R Rahman Rahim what it means if you know English, very easy you go in the Name of Allah, the Most Merciful
What does it mean?
What does it mean in my life
as I am now living wherever Allah wants me to live in whatever condition so this is what the series is actually it's called Understanding the Quran I didn't call it Tafseer because everybody thinks of seer in a different way. So we finished Subhanallah we finished Surah, two Lanka wood, and I was not planning to do so that use of I was planning to do another Surah and then the huzzah happened.
And I was like, This is what we need. Why is that? Now in one hour, I'm not going to be able to cover everything again we did it. fifth week will be this coming Tuesday.
Whenever you read the Quran chapters of the Quran, this will be very good for you as in general especially getting ready for Ramadan. So a couple of things when you look at Surah any Surah pick up any sort of from the Quran, whether it's Surah Al Baqarah or check so just read for us or your reading source and NAS the last chapter in the Quran a couple of things pay attention to
each one of you. Number one is the name
why the name of the surah right and I can give you many questions and I know how you will answer but just a quick one to bring your attention to the deeper meaning Surah Al Baqarah which we just heard part why Allah called the Psalter baccarat everybody is going to tell me because the story of the Bukhara is in there right? Yes, anyone will say different than I'm going to tell you to why it's not called Surah Musa.
There's the longest the communist story theme especially in the first part of Surah Al Baqarah. is about money destroyed and Musa the name of Musa repeated Surah tulkus has half of it is about the story of Syedna Musa why it is not called Musa.
So don't be this is the superficial answer. Well, yeah, of course it's so Baqarah is called but what does the Bacara or the cow when I hear Al Baqarah? What is Allah reminding me? Not the cow.
Right? But what was the story of Al Baqarah? The arguments of bunnies Rai
and Colin know who you are okay? We're not convinced why we didn't know and three times and finally they said we will. One of the messages sorted buckler, don't argue submit to Allah. So let's come to solitude. So the first thing you come is the name of the surah.
What when use of name comes to you when you come and open the Quran and you're in the 12th part of the Quran and you see use of what's the first thing come to your mind. What does the name use of brings to your mind? There's many messages in the name of use of beauty.
Beauty comes around number one, or could be too comes tests and not a beautiful test meaning a test of luxury because the tests are two kinds. And all of us have to remember we are as I am speaking now in this masjid, we are absolutely being tested. There is no bombings. We have electricity Alhamdulillah temperature is beautiful. It's beautiful. But we are being tested in every second because the test is not to only with the hardship.
When a blucon visionary Well, Heidi fitna were Elaina Torrejon we test you and Allah Azza thistle Surah tool MBR we test you know blucon will test you be sure evil things we don't like what the people of Gaza are going through. Well, very good. Luxury, prosperity, safety, peace.
Now, what fitna fitness test or trial. And you we're gonna go back to us. So when I remember the name of use of or I'm reading Solatube. So absolutely the test is going to come in my mind. Right, what else? When you when you read the use of out you're reading it or just you heard it, or you read the name use of how did he respond to the test? That's the main message of Surah Joseph, because the end of Surah Yusuf is the message Torah Swati salatu Sinha
Surah, Yusuf was revealed in one of the heart this time of the life of rasa risotto Sinha. It's a murky surah was revealed in Makkah. But it was when he just lost his uncle lost his wife. And now the people of Makkah starts prosecuting him like what is happening now in the people of Gaza. And you can imagine, there is a deep sorrow and Roswaal a saw to some lost one of the most beloved person to him. CEDA leader, now the most important support, and now the people are prosecuting him. And Allah revealed Surah Yusuf. It's the only surah in the Quran that
As the whole story
every other story is divided if you read the story of Satan or Musa his birth and what's happened is across his discussion with Iran in more than one in a shahada and then out of a you come into his a poor example of what's happened and if I'm remembering now his his discussion with the people of Bani Israel he you have a Tempah you have it and a lot of it's the only story these are all outline they call it many of us she came in this was one of the most beautiful one is actually in the shade of the Quran. Before he talks about any as he goes to the detail, he gives you the overall so when you come to Surah TOS if you're going to say Haha, it's all revealed a time of difficulty. So Allah
is telling me number one, remember the Quran talk to me.
It doesn't matter how old I am, where I live.
It's telling me when you're going through a tough time, read Surah Yusuf
and learn from Surah Yusuf
and you don't learn only from Satan the use of
because there is in the in the story for those of you who have ever written a story or a book, there is certain main character.
And there is not only say the use of in here, there's many players we say it is him who's the most important second player?
Let's see anybody
his father, so you know Jakob, and then you get all are the same? Because everyone played a role in his life. You have the brothers, you have the tool, you have the wife of the minister, then you have the people, the two men with him in the prison, right? What is the two biggest players? In surah? Two, so
it's not human beings.
I'm giving you a clue is not human beings, two most important players in his life that changed his life. Now just a second. Anyone raise your hand Bismillah
AR Allah is always number one, everyone but in that story.
Nope.
Brothers please. Exactly. That dream not only his dream, dream, dream played a huge role in his life true or false? Right, there is true dreams. And so that use of not one was one his dream. But the other one was that no, the two dreams of the two men or the dream? Yeah, the two dreams two men. Each one had a dream, why they play the role. Because because of the dream that he interpret in the jail. As the end he was removed out of the gym. And actually in fact, that is three dreams. So you know you also have the two men and the king saw the dream. And the king dream is what changed his life. What is the second biggest player?
Not a human being? I'm sorry.
The feeling? No, you haven't read? Saw it yourself? Yes, the shirt. The shirt. The shirt is the main player. Why? The shirt was the reason he ended up in the world. The shirt showed that his brothers were jealous and plot against him. The shirt showed that he was approached by the wife of the minister the shirt.
At the end, the shirts made the father has his sight back again. So don't forget, what do I learn from this?
Again everything in the Quran is for you and me.
It is not only people that you have to pay attention in your life. For example, what is the biggest test you have here? Is not a human being
here
is the masjid itself.
Why is that?
Because did the masjid change my life?
Is the masjid like the shorter side now Yosef in my life
is the masjid like the dream in the life of Satan or Yosef?
The Masjid is something I'm going to be asked about.
Allah gave it to me. Allah brought you here made you hear calls you can come. So everything again in the story. You're gonna say okay, so I don't have a shirt. But what
Watch shirts I have in my life, I didn't see a dream.
But what is equivalent to the dream
that changed my life.
And the more we pay attention to this, this is how you will reflect on the Quran. There's a new very new,
like a science now called Double Quran, I'm sure many of you have heard about that, which is not tafsir is you reflect on what Allah has saying. Now, if you look at his life,
there is a lot of the third player
in his life is going to be I doubt if any one of you will know because it's you have to be you have to have read and studied, it's actually feelings.
Feelings played a huge role in the life of Satan the use of true or false.
I don't hear it.
Okay, which feedings now, of course, I'm going to ask you
what could
talk what is not a feeling to work what is a faith? What feelings play its role in his life, it starts from the beginning Bismillah number jealousy, actually, before the jealousy, which led to jealousy, the love, that is love of his father to him, led to another feeling which is jealousy, led to another feeding, which is plotting and hatred. They wanted to kill him or Cthulhu USofA. The first thing came to their mind, these are brothers. This is your family
of Cthulhu use of the first thing they said kill him.
Then the other one of the or the oldest brother, as they say, was a little bit more wiser. I will
lead them and leave him in the wild. So at least we feel better. We didn't kill him, he will die, but we didn't kill him ourselves. So there is love, there is jealousy then.
Then you have to know the story.
Another Love, love and lust, desire. What's happened to the wife of Allah z's, these feelings played a role in his life. These feelings just not like feeding, I don't feel good this morning. The feeling changed his life. If there was no love of the Father, there will have not been a jealousy. If there weren't, if there was no jealousy, he will not end up in the well. If there was no jealousy and end up in the well he will not have been a slave. If there was no slave he will not have ended up in the house of the minister. And then there will not be another love. What's the other feeling?
See how many Okay, I want to see hands everybody. How many times or everybody in this room or at Surah juice have at one point in their life? Raise your hand
by YouTube.
So what is the next feeding?
So we said love, jealousy love. Now the wife of the minister loved him. Right? Okay, what is the next feeling? I'm sorry?
How hope?
volume, volume injustice before that? Who was that feeling led to the injustice? What was the feeling?
Now I wish if there was fear of Allah there will be no injustice. Why did he end up in jail?
First Why did he end up in jail?
I'm sorry he's answering I'll come to you and
he doesn't want to
mashallah he didn't want to break Allah His rule.
True or False?
Masha, Allah, what is your name?
Abdul Rahman, one of the most beloved names to Allah, you know that?
Yep.
The most beloved names to Allah ma OB Dawa. Hamid it's Abdul Rahman is one of them.
So it is he didn't want to break the rules. But what what feeling? Come on What feeling led him to be in the jail?
Love
111 I'm sorry.
It is not to come but it's anger. She was upset with him. Because he didn't do what she wanted. What ended up she plotted convinced her husband put him in the jail.
What do I learn? Again, I'm taking you through so what feeling?
Every feeling I go through every feeling I go through all of us. And again, love hate
Jealousy, feeling arrogant all i arrogance all these feelings has sequences and sequences changed my life. Bring me closer to Allah or further away from Allah and change the course of my life.
So the anger she felt because the woman in the city made fun of her or colonists were tough in Medina Mara Atolla as easy to the Torah we do Fatah Neff say, culture Rafa, in other Narahari banality movie in the talk of the town. The woman of the town starts saying, Wow, the wife of the minister, imagine a leader in in this town, the wife of the governor, right, all the woman are talking about her. Oh, she fell in love with this man.
Which means he did not want her to know if you know the Adobe cut shafa she's in love. Allah didn't say they were in love.
And she's not all happy about it movie. She's absolutely doing thing. unright she's going astray. Her response.
She feeling upset and angry. And arrogance. Wait, wait, wait, wait, see how I'm gonna do?
Come on in all and if you read the commentary on this is amazing how she brought everybody she brought all the woman brought them fruits, got them knives so they can cut the knife. And as they were cutting the fruit, she said come on in.
And they looked at him and they thought they were cutting the fruit. They were actually cutting their hands or combine a deal. And those of you who know I'll be looking at how Allah use the cut pattern, meaning they kept doing it, looking at him
on a Harsha Lillah
wa
Mahadasha This is not a human being. What feeling is this?
admiration and surprise in her that lamella Khan Kareem This is an angel. Feelings plays a huge role in our life.
Because we're human, and feelings if we use in the right way. change our life and if use it in the bad way, change our life. And feelings changed his life. Very interesting point. We never saw his feelings.
He didn't let his feelings move him. Everybody around him in the story. Their feelings changed his life. But his feelings were what constant that's a subdural Jami his feelings all the way was constant. What was his feeling? Now let's see if anyone knows that.
Anybody? Yes.
I wouldn't say fear of Allah. Let's stay away from the fear of Allah.
I'm sorry.
Connected to Allah.
You know why, again, when you read it, in the beginning of the story, there isn't many, many things. He said, till the wife of the disease in that moment, that many of us will have been weak.
And not necessarily feeling between man and a woman. But when temptation comes to you and me, he was tempted, was a younger man. He is a slave. This is the wife of the boss and they said she made herself so beautiful. And he knew if he didn't respond to what she wants, he will end up in big trouble. What is the first thing came off his mouth?
That's the feeling that's the attachment to Allah. What did he say, Man Allah. I seek refuge in Allah. How many of us in this room, young and not very young. When I am tested by temptation, and temptations is a huge wide range from food to people to everything else. The first thing come in my mouth is my other law.
No, most of us what is the first feeling comes out?
I'm sorry.
Is absolutely is justification.
And this dialogue I call it you know, it's only one time humbler Allah's offer. Rahim don't be too harsh. Don't make a stamp too hard. All this not him. And if you look at him when his feelings were tested, when he saw his brothers, I always want to feel live that scene. You hurted me. I was eight years of age.
They say he was between eight and 10. And because of you, I ended up orphan away from my family state for 40 days, at least in a way
Well with scorpions and with snakes ended up being slave ended up being in jail I did nothing. It's because of you and you come in front of me
and I am now in a position of
power.
What will I do to you?
What feelings will come inside you me? And Allah expressed his feelings when he first what? What do you use of for the Hello Ali Farah for him? Well, hula hula monkey rune, they all entered.
And he knew them. Allah is telling us he knew them. Imagine this, all of you, everyone in this room. Imagine this, somebody in that current terminology destroyed your life.
Made you get fired of your job, lose your family, you need to move out of your home and comfort. And now you are in position of power. And they come in front of you. What is the feelings? Feelings first?
Feelings, anger. And just wait. Don't really say this. That's the moment. Let me see which one I'm going to do. What did he do?
Nothing.
Nothing. Even when they said to him law in the law, second time when he wanted to take his younger brother.
And Allah subhanaw taala gave him the trick.
And they said, Yeah, you had a euro in accomplice area code. Or Hey group, you are your thieves. And then when they proved they were thieves, what did they say to him?
Are you a yes rock rocket Soraka Allah Holman Kabul. Oh, if this boy had stole something, oh, his brother before stole something. La ilaha illa. Allah 40 years later, they're still jealous of him. What will you do? You kill them?
Right? You put them all in jail.
You look at them and says, Haven't you had enough? Yanni? How many is you still hate me? And you are jealous of me? Is that fair? Honestly, Isn't that fair? And even in Islam, if someone hurts you fairness is to hurt them the exactly the same way. Which is not to say yes to say yes to mickleover. Allah said this. And so what Assura when someone hurts you, you hurt exactly the same. That's fairness. What did he do?
What did he do? What did he feel and do Fetisov rahayu Sophina fc will unmute the Hallahan. He kept it inside and didn't show any feelings.
condimentum Sharon McKenna, he was talking to himself, they are worse than you. And Allah will give you victory.
How many of us would have done that?
I doubted this is how I say I'm saying I'm talking about myself. I know you, you all are better than me. I doubt it. And I keep saying girl, I'm not an angel.
Right? So the feedings, there is love. There is hate. There is jealousy. And what is this feeding called?
Sub Ron jimmied.
That's the sub rule Jamil.
When you don't act, you act like there is nothing exactly the grandfather, who was holding this beautiful dream. Right? And he's kissing her as if she is alive. And he and then I'm sure you all saw this. When he was comping, they're here, both of them and cleaning and nothing.
This is solid and yummy.
When when the feelings or the what happens or the circumstances is way above human perception, and you still
connected with Allah, act and feel and see what two pleases Allah sub Ron Jamail. Now Surah Yusuf is a crescendo. If any of you have you know what this means, meaning it comes it gets more tense, more tense, more tense, more tense, the end.
Every time, every time I read it, I stop at this point and I say you're on Allah. Give me what you gave him.
And make me say what he said. This is in the last part of the story but not the surah because the chapter when the story ends now comes to the message. Dora Suarez saw it with Sarah, and I'll end up with this, but let me cover this. So the end of the story you all know now he is the governor. He has his ruling
Everything now he come they come again right. And his father come back the short the father is seeing, you know, what did he say?
Let me take you through the, for the Mother Hello Allah USofA our Ma he have over a year. Now, they all entered. Imagine this imagine him he here, right? And what you ever see a governor with all the intros they entered who? Polymer the Hello Allah USofA our era here by the way, they the brothers came in and the above a father and the mother. What did he say?
And I want you you feel what will you feel and say autonomously in sha Allah who I mean first thing no upset no feeling no I told you see, come on in. Come to Egypt and you will be safe.
No revenge. No wait and see what I will do. And this is to all of us. Then what Rafa he had a large he put his father and mother on his side on the throne. Will Harada who said Jeddah and this is before Islam where no one prostrate but to Allah, they all prostrated to him. What did he say?
On a Liberty ha that we'd wrote. Yeah, I'm in public. Daddy.
Remember I told you the dream played a huge, he said Daddy, this is the interpretation what is happening now. Now listen, this is all okay. This is all story. Now and from here.
This is the interpretation of my dream, my lord made it true. How are you? Now look at this. And look at the relationship between him and Allah subhanaw taala
will cut us and Abby Caja Allah Hora be haka. My lord made my dream comes through. Okay. What is an OB? And he treated me he's talking to Allah. And he treated me so well.
Give me your heart so well
in the world, slave jail, and then stayed in jail as an OB, what did he say? And scholars comment on this beautifully. He said he only remembered
only remembered what Allah gave him as good and he didn't mention any of his suffering. Wicked. asoebi is a horrid journeymen a surgeon. He treated me so well and made me leave
the jail he didn't say Allah put me in jail.
He didn't say all my life was ruined. Know what I sent to be used word, son. What? Asobi Rajani message now look at what he said to his brother.
Would ya be coming Alba do and he brought you all back to me from far away.
Greedy, far away. mean bad? Yeah. And NASA shaitan Albania, Albania equity, they did nothing is shaytaan
shaytaan plotted and came to them.
In Nara, Biale mon Hakeem, my Lord is all knowing always. Now the connection with Allah. How many of us will say this dua when Allah gives you everything in your life. When you get the job you want when you buy the house, when he gives you the family, everything, he turned to Allah immediately, none of this load him. None of this changed him or B.
This is the dua one of the most beautiful dua to me in the Quran,
or Arteta and even Al Mulk. He turned to Allah and says, Yo Allah, you gave me all the sovereignty. I take any mineral Maliki while lumped in him into will Hadith and you taught me nothing he did. Shawn from Allah, and you taught to me knowledge and interpret the dreams. Now he talks to Allah see how many of us say this to Allah, cloud era somehow it will or
the Originator of the heavens of the earth until we leave dunya? Well, you are my ally is not a friend, you are my protector, in this life, and in the hereafter. Now, what did he ask Allah? This is the Adam of dua, this is the etiquettes of dua, you praise Allah subhanaw taala and now you ask, so he praised him, the Originator of the heavens and the earth, right. And you are my protector? What did he ask him?
To watch funny Muslimah while Hackney beside him, make me die.
As a Muslim and follow the righteous people, I'll have Kenny, you make me join the righteous so he's not righteous.
He's not he said, Make me follow I'll Hackney make me follow or catch up
what a human being he is.
And then Allah turn to Roswaal as AutoSum immediately is Daddy commitment or Hanaa IDIC that he can approve or Alikum
min Amba la ma Quinta alum, one toe woman publica phosphate. Now I'm sorry this is not the Phil who would delicately what I recommend and by the way, this is what we are telling you from the unseen because he didn't know Satan or Yusuf was way before Rasul Allah is Surah to a sinner. What did he tell him? What is the message to Rasul Allah His salatu salam comes later on hashtag est SL Rasul. This is to the people of Azusa and this has to us
had the state SL Russell, when the profits lost hope
while unknown, unknown Cutco zebu and they see that no one is believing them.
Jah who knows Solana
our victory came to them. Jha wholeness wanna
this is what we all have to believe in.
Whenever we feel so down, when we feel everything is not going or it's going to end up in a victory.
Jah who knows sooner. So the victory doesn't come right away. Any when I read these stories, Allah can not give seed neosurf right away.
Allah could not have exposed the brothers and tell the father as father is a prophet go to this well, we'll get him out. But Allah make us all go through tests and the tests takes time. And He tests us in again in good and nothing good. Basically, this is one of the names of Allah or rob he.
He treats us in a way to get us ready to where he wants us to be. And that's why it's a subdural Jamil wala Hill, Mr. Han
and, and lacquered canopy because last verse In surah. Joseph Lockett can have your Kasasa him a baritone Lulea l BB. The reason of this story is not just to read a story
Yes, the Quran is a book of story also. But the story is is not just a bedtime story and gone to sleep, a burr what is the Ibra era is and when Nishan is for you and me to learn from but who will learn you only Al Bab. Those who reflect in our terminology smart people, people who pay attention to details, Makana Hadith, and you've Torah. It was not a false speech or just talk vain. While I can Decra it's a reminder
what we need these days in what we are going through whether here or definitely there is need to remember. We're not the first people who are tested and we are not going to be the last people we will be tested. That test is way to expose me this is how I say Sora to Tobin, I will end up here so we'll give you some time for question answer. Chapter of a Toba repentance in the Quran. One of the names of Surah Al Fatiha the chapter that expose the hypocrites in Medina.
What is happening today? I call it a foul the * it exposed everybody. And I'm not talking about politicians.
I'm talking even about us as individuals.
It's exposed my relationship with Allah, my hope in Allah, my faith, my my connection to Allah subhanaw taala it's exposed how me I'm talking about myself how much nothing cheaper than talk and when action comes in? How many of us will I don't know what they will do. I don't know what will happen. And this is on individual level or community level leaders level and the highest treadles leaders. The one of the things this since October 7. It exposed us as a community as individuals and expose our relationship with Allah subhanaw taala May Allah subhanaw taala make us of those when they read the Quran learn when they read the Quran reflect and the Quran is a change game changer
for us is not only reading and get the reward your OB Amin May Allah subhanaw taala lift the all the sufferings on the people of Gaza May Allah subhanaw taala accept all there those who have died as martyrs May Allah subhanaw taala give sub rune jimmied to all the families may Allah subhanaw taala heal
All those who are wounded May Allah subhanaw taala heal those who would have a long term trauma Natla bring them back to their homes may Allah subhanaw taala make give them better than what they lost and may Allah subhanaw taala give them victory sooner than later. Amin Subhanallah homolog handy a shadow Allah
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Tori a little bit mcconachie Islamia. So every time I think how I was raised up, I was not raised up as a proper Muslim, or the raising up way was not the proper lead me to leave Islam and become a Christian for more than 10 years that if this time when I was 13 Subhan. Allah? Yes. So she became Christian at age 13. No, I came Christian in the age 20. And they get ties when I was 27. Your law? Yes. First time I need this. Oh, we are a lot, unfortunately. So and then I become an atheist for five years, because one of my crucial friends who was studying to be
a missionary in the Middle East, especially working with Syrian, she said to me when she was in college studying Arabic, she spoke to one lady and she the Muslim, Jordanian Palestinian lady, and she said, I hear the voice of the Holy Spirit and her. And she said, Jesus said, You know, my chiefs, they know my voice. And she said, I know my lord voice and she was speaking like him. And that made me take a Bose and other events, which it's made me so you became so became ACS for five years and years. And then I read the novel, which because of this novel, I become a Muslim, which novel it's called fi called Beyond Ciborium.
Art is a woman, the writer, she's from Tunisia, her name, Dr. Hala, and Marshall. Question. So my question is, when I look to my background, I feel scared how I will be a future mother because I don't know how to raise my child and as a Muslim, and you just do a parenting program champions.
I'm sorry.
That's what I know.
So my question is, I remember in your video, you said you should start when the baby steps first. No, I said you should start before you get married.
I really mean it is by choosing your spouse.
Because this is one of the biggest issues in in Muslims homes. You have an it's not always Yes, from your side. Like it's always the woman or the best woman or ethno. I've seen the opposite to is the two parents has to be on the same mindset that they want both to raise their children as Muslims as a priority. Because when you put this as a priority, you will need to sacrifice from this dunya I have another problem and I'm trying to it's my own fight. I want to learn Quran like to memorize for I'm not sure.
But I want my child to be half as why?
Because I wanted to be half it. But I don't know how to be a half. So I want to start with my child. I don't know how to start with my child. I will not recommend that.
You all are looking at me. Don't make your children what you couldn't be.
That's not fair for them.
Did you get it and this is one of the problems that youth suffer from. Right? The mother or the father wanted to be a physician they couldn't for whatever the reason they want the child but the child doesn't want
let the child love the Quran. And he or she wants to memorize you help them but don't tell him or her. I want you to be to memorize the heart because I couldn't memorize the Quran. Know the only thing I'll tell the child right and this is actually one of the reasons the main reason I memorize the Quran because I wanted to crown my parents
right because that's a hottie. You memorize the Quran, you crown your parents on the Day of Judgment. Don't do. Don't make your children who you want it to be, but you couldn't. Snot fear. They're not you.
They are not you, all of everybody. Make your choice, the only thing I say, and again, Scheherazade is way more experts in me than this.
Raise your children, on knowing Allah, and loving Allah, don't use the word haram, don't use the word fear, don't use the word Karuta. All these big names, they don't know what this means. Make them see Allah in everything, in everything. In you in this in this in this. And but and I will say this to everybody. fact that you Shangela Yachty, we say in Arabic, if you don't have it, you can give it if I don't see Allah in this, I can convince my children. So this is why I said the raising of children is before you get married.
You work on yourself, you choose your spouse, you both work together. It's a process. And the result and this is the most important thing is not in your hand.
Allah took you away from or allowed you to leave Islam, Allah brought you back. It's not your parents.
The only thing every parents in this room should do is don't forget your children in your DUA. It doesn't matter what they did. When you get so upset with them, say your Allah guide them. And you need to say me, that's the best DUA
and what a what a lucky woman you I hope you are grateful to Allah.
Now that's shaitan coming to you. No, no, no, don't let shaytaan come to you. Look at the positives. You could have been again, still atheists and you're not here. He brought you back. I always say the one who made me do this. If it's good, he can make everybody else. So alhamdulillah.
Any question from the brother? Bismil? No question from the brothers. Yes, please. Just to be fair.
Yes, please. Oh, yes.
I wanted to consider because in this day and age, we live in a day where we're surrounded by fits on not just on a level of consciousness, but even a level of unconsciousness of everything that we're surrounded by. That was something that took me a great deal of education for myself. But I think to myself, How do I protect the people around me from this unconscious fit? And that were subjected to all the questions, a very nice question. That is obvious tests or fitness or or temptations treating you the way you're talking about these temptations. But there is the subtle temptations that many of us don't pay attention. anybody in this room studied Marketing.
That's why you ask this question. Exactly. Because that's how they make you and make you and me buy something is not by telling me go and buy it. No, it's a subtle message. Right? Have you seen the ads for the medications? Now, of course, I'm a mother. I'm a physician. Right? They tell you how good is the medication, they told show me that when they come to the side effects. They say it very quickly, and they saw very beautiful things happening. That's a subtle message. So the subtle fitness we have here. The biggest subtle fitna is where isn't the phones, and the Internet, you're doing your homework, you're checking your email, and suddenly something comes up. You're checking
the time of Salah Have you seen it in all the apps right? And something comes in your face? The best?
There those strategies, but the first one is is what's the name of the book is hospital in Muslim? What is the fortress of the Muslim? What is it? Don't tell me the book. I know the book, but why the book is called hostile Muslim. Why it's called the fortress of the Muslim.
Calm Come on, guys.
I'm sorry. I can't hear you. Why.
From what to do,
is to hadith of rasa de Sala to set up. The meaning of Shavon is around us subtle or obvious that goes in our blood. What wills save me the fortress is a vicar.
That's a book of vicar. The most famous book in Islam is hostile and Muslim Subhan Allah. What did this man had with Allah subhanaw taala. He didn't write any extra word. So only the DUA is the most published book in every language.
So the first thing is a thicker and thicker before the temptation comes in.
That's why we have the morning and the evening at copyright law muffled Nimbin a woman Hanafi Wang me me why did she marry you, Allah protect me from the front, from the back from the right from the left from what?
The subtle things I don't even know. I don't even know how I'm exposed. And the second common or the most dangerous is the temptation that I love. I like it. I love it. You know, when you have a food and you're fasting, what a struggle is this when somebody puts in front of you, whatever you like biryani chocolate ice cream, and you're fasting. What a huge
so the best number one, no one will protect me from any temptation obvious or subtle, except Allah.
What Can daddy can incite the use of Why did Allah saved him from the obvious temptation, in the home in a burden and more closely or on moral sin, he is from our servants who are chosen or sincere, I want to be protected. I need to build my relationship with Allah. I work on my relationship with Allah in the night before I leave, I did my tahajjud I read my salah, I read my Quran, I go out and I don't know how Allah protected me moved away, the ad comes in. I don't look at it. The ads about to come in and my internet goes bad. That's all hostile and Muslim. So the best way each one of you is you build or as the hadith of Rasul Allah saw to a certain to our Prophet
Allah, he
should know Allah, a time of prosperity, he will know you a time of need. May Allah reward you? That's a very good question because we are bombarded by temptations. Anybody especially if you are you go to universities or schools, or do you work outside the Muslim community? It's it's a huge fitna, and it's everywhere. By the way, it's not only in the West, it's everywhere. I very recently I was in the Middle East, and I just came back from Africa. It's everywhere, believe me. It just have a different shape and color Subhanallah does that Kamala Highlands honey I know there's a tea right? Is the tea still served?
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