Difficult Issues in the Quran
Hacene Chebbani – Family – Part 1
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The transcript describes a situation where a woman refuses to allow her mother to speak at an awards show and is upset, leading to verbal argument and physical altercations. The speaker emphasizes the importance of protecting one's reputation and being aware of potential embarrassment. The situation escalates into a dressing room incident, which the speaker describes as a "slackball" event.
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Amina salatu salam O Allah, Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi
three Giacomo La Quinta for coming for this to this halaqa tonight, as it was announced will be in Sharla with Neela. In this program, we will try to discuss some difficult family issues in the Quran by carefully in sha Allah looking at some beautiful stories.
In the Quran, some of them are very painful, and yet they are loaded with wonderful and amazing lessons. Some of them are overflowing with lessons. There are lessons for all Muslims, from the time of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam till the Day of Judgment, because they are preserved in the Quran in the book of Allah subhanho wa Taala the best form of guidance for all Muslims.
So, in these stories here, one we will discuss with Neela. You know, we'll discover how great people like prophets and messengers and their family members and their companions behave at times of hardship, where they are facing difficulties
during stress, times of stress and difficulty. So how these people behave, this is what we need to know as Muslims this what we learn to need to learn from these great personalities in the book of Allah subhanho wa Taala. And our first story in this in this program is the slander of a Chateau de La Hoya.
The false accusation that was made against a Chateau de la vida, and the other great Sahabi soft one
of the Alon, and one of the objectives of some of the objectives of this lesson insha Allah, it would be to recognize and discover a strong and excellent actually proof of the prophethood of our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam have met some of my values in his profitability is a great there is an excellent delille there evidence for his
prophethood that he did not fabricate the book, he did not fabricate the message. It was truthful messenger of Allah subhanho wa Taala. It was only receiving revelation from Allah subhanho wa Taala. Because this matter is a very personal matter. It is related to his beloved wife, I showed the Allahu Allah. So these have been to study or they
will also discover the greatness of their manners, his manners, the greatness of his character, Ani salatu salam, the way he was balanced, the way he was well composed. He did not lose his control of his emotions, the way he behaved. In this stressful month, it was a complete month. And Allah subhanho wa Taala did not reveal anything about this accusation until one month had passed. And also we discover the greatness of his wisdom, and his knowledge and his hikma and keeping the community together. Because this big problems have the potential to divide the community and create in a huge fitna in the community. But also la Selim with his hikma, las patella blessed him with hikma and
knowledge and he was able to kill the fitna. It was able to deal with it in the best way. And also we discover the purity and the innocence of our mother and the mother of all believers are so deep into so deep, the truthful one, a daughter of the truthful one, who was the best companion of Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam who had the audacity less assalamu Abu Bakar, the best man in this room after our messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is a worker. So dietro the Allahu anhu and yet he was you know, he was people hurt him in the in the honor in the honor of his of his daughter, the wife of our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam Rob Zoloft, Salafi will say either to bait in Nevada
authority Herman mininova Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he was the symbol of purity and cleanness of the Allah Juana. Now Allah subhanho wa Taala has mentioned this ayah Surah to know from 11 till i a 25 or 26, around maybe 15. ayat, Allah subhanho wa Taala discussed or talked about this issue, this difficult issue.
This those difficult moments that are socialized silom had to experience with his family. And the family of course of his best friend, our work was to decode the alarm. And the last part Allah started this story with or this is with the ayah 11 that says in
levena jo b iski Ross bottom income. So he said Verily those who brought forth the slander are a group among you from amongst you. So they came from within the circles of the Muslim community and those who were involved in the spreading of the straightener who mentioned their names. That's okay because the book, the fuqaha, and the mufa siru. And the aroma of Hadith mentioned their names. Some of them are good believers. And some of them were Muna 15, especially the leader, or suniva, Abdullah, heaven obey even salute the leader of the hypocrites at that time, but some of them were believers, and they had a great relationship with a supervisor send them and there are some lessons
here to learn, we need to pay clearly and carefully pay attention to these lessons. So the first one was misbehaving.
And who was Mr. He was the cousin of a walker so deep or the law I know, we'll talk about the relationship. So that means he was the cousin of Asia or the lohana.
a family member, a relative, Mr. Have no FF and that second word has cerebral habit, and everyone knows who is the has said with avid who was a famous poet who was defending in a similar cinema with his poetry and have never been to Josh another Sahabi or the Allahu anhu. So these are Sahaba from the alarm and have good people but they fell prey to the influence the negative influence of the hypocrites and but however, they said the man who had the greater share in this evil talk in this accusation was Abdullah have no way of you know saluda Rasul Allah Muna 15, the leader of the Mona 14, and he was secretly, this is what they believe, secretly encouraging his friends and his
companions to spread this rumors about Asia, because his purpose was to defame the reputation of our profits on the low end Ensign, he was not able to divide the Muslim community. The problem is his problem is before our son was actually moved to El Medina, he was about to be crowned as a king in the city of Medina. So the hustlers will always competing with each other for a long period of time, there was an ongoing conflict. And sometimes it becomes it takes the shape of a military conflict, they would fight with each other. And this man, I think, the made before the coming of Rasulullah saw senator Medina, we made a sort of agreement between the two tribes that this man from the
Kabbalah
will be the king will be the ruler of the city of Medina. So when we when Rasulullah sallallahu came to the city of Medina, he came as a prophet as a messenger, he traumatically became the leader of the community. So he felt that he lost the opportunity of his life.
And he became very dangerous. He actually he announced his Islam, you know, outwardly, but inwardly he was, you know, holding grudges against the Messenger of Allah. And he was trying his best to spread fitna in the Muslim community within the Muslim community. So the purpose of this accusation was to defame the reputation of fossilized assylum and his family, but that hamdulillah this man was not successful. Because Allah subhanaw taala dealt with it. The last fact Allah is the one who revealed our brand. Last minute Allah told us about the details of the fitna and he declared the innocence of eyeshadow the allow Anna from above the seven heavens. This is something that she was
not dreaming of. She was hoping that she would see a dream, a dream telling him about the innocence she was not thinking that the last panel Tyler will himself defend her honor and reveal at that will be recited till the Day of Judgment and allows her talent maintain him in the eye 11 in order to know what he said, Well, lady, Kibera who may know,
Navin Villa de toda la cabra, who kibra hadn't had an If so, he said the one who took upon himself the greater portion thereof, greater portion of this evil of this false accusation. He said, For him, will be a great punishment. On the day of judgment, Allah subhanaw taala did not say on the Day of Judgment, but we know that this is something that will happen to him because he died on the fact he did not make Toba even Rasulullah Sassoon was trying his best here. It's amazing. As soon as I send him had, you know, great character, even though he only he hurt him in his family and the honor of his family, but still after that,
So let's assume we're trying to help him to change. He was hoping that this man will change that will change his heart. And then we become a pure, a true Muslim. And then we will be involved truly involved in the Muslim community and help Muslims. But this is something that didn't happen. The proof that you want to send and pray janazah for him, Allah, Allah blamed him, blame the Messenger of Allah for praying janessa for this man did it for a couple of reasons. This is not our topic today. But I would like before we start, you know, move forward with this story. I would like to analyze this part in the livigno belief heroes, but to make them those who, verily those who brought
forth the slender are a group from you from the Muslim community. So they are not outsiders. They are not McKenzie, they were not Mexicans. They were not members of the Jewish tribes living in the city of Medina. They were not from the moon. They were members of this very the same, the same Muslim community. So they were people from your own circles. Now.
I mentioned Mr. Fattah, I said he was the anchor sorry, the cousin of Abu Bakr so deep. So his grandmother, his grandmother, the grandmother of Mr. Was the maternal uncle and maternal aunt of our workers.
And he was one of the Mujahedin. He made his way to Russia to El Medina, for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala. He left the city of Mecca. And he moved to the city of Medina. So he was one of them who actually and one who witnessed the Battle of better and those who witnessed the Battle of whether I had the great status within the Muslim community. They were highly respected within the Muslim community at the time. And we will know in this story, how I shut up, Ilana will be defending him after his mother will insult him will say something bad about him, his own mother, his own mother in front of it will say something before I knew about what's going on. And I'll tell you what
happened after that inshallah. So this is the man
you know, he made his euro, he participated in the Battle of his brother, he was a cousin of a woodworker. And there is something extra, something really important, as you do, it will show that a great character and mercy of the Sahaba they allowed and especially a worker, he was spending on him on a regular basis. He was supporting him financially supporting him on a regular basis giving him money abubaker he was poor.
analyst for Intel, I will mention this incident, when a worker will decide later on, I will make a decision that he will never spend a penny upon him at the last pantalla will tell him something else. Allah will give him a different guidance. We'll talk about it in sha Allah in detail because this is very important when it comes with
very important when it comes to dealing with our own problems. How do we deal with family members who misbehave
and they treat us with with with, you know, they hurt us or they don't treat us with kindness Oh, family members and our friends and you know the spirit of forgiveness. We're talking here about the spirit of forgiveness. And Rama olmak Farah with Tasha was so lucky, Allah will direct our worker to follow this path at the end. We'll talk about it. And we'll talk about water loss control and mentioned here, you know about some of his achievements, that achievement of this man. But what happened is, it's a moment of weakness, and no one is immune to committing to sins, and mistakes and miscalculations, so no one is perfect. So this is how we should clearly understand the status of the
Sahaba. They were not infallible. They made mistakes, but because of their achievements and their support and their contributions, and they are very bad at the data loss to Allah forgive their sins. Of course, not all of them fell into the prey to this to this, you know, to this evil talk. Not all of them committed the same mistake only three of them. And will as I said, I will mention their names in details. The rest were Muna 14 was having dinner the whole community majority of the community of the Sahaba stayed away from this problem, and they were not involved. Allah Subhana Allah protected them from this, you know this evil. So as I said, you know, he allowed himself to be
indulged in this in this evil talk. This is something that we we should learn. That's why the majority of the law no con men can understand and fully extendable Sen. Beeman met for in hirelateral, Amano la fitna. He said the one who wants to follow the Sunnah of someone else. He has to follow the Sunnah of those who passed away so they follow
The way we know their virtues we know their excellence. We know that they are following the right madhesh the passed away the and final hirelateral in fitna, the one who is still alive. He's not immune to fitna, he might commit a mistake. So be careful about following people who are still alive. You have to look to the guidance of those are the sooner of those who passed away. We know hamdulillah. Now they passed away. We know they manage their ad. We follow their path, Willow tala, the second person in this fitna. She was a lady and her name was Hannah, as I said, Ben to Josh. But the law I know she was the sister in law, the sister in law of our Prophet Mohammed Subramanyam,
because she was the sister of Xena been to Joshua, the other wife of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
and she was the wife of a great Sahabi Who is he fell Hubner obey the law, one of those who are given black tidings of gender fall How was mentioned among the 10 people who were given the glad tidings of gender and overshadow noble gender, somehow ignore obey the law, of course, somehow is not involved in this. But Hanna made this mistake or the olana and all these three hobbies made tober they made tober it is well, you know, established and documented that the matoba last $100 forgiven their sins. So let's talk about a million mistakes she made, she was thinking that she will be helping her sister Xena.
That's a mistake she made because she knew that there was some sort of competition between Zainab and I shall have the alarm and
rivalry between co wives on she's normal. It is normal Allah, Allah will not take them to account for these kinds of things. It is part of our human nature. That woman if two women are married to one men, or three women, there will be some sort of competition between them. So that was her intention. And I'm not making it up. This is what I should have the lavon has said in a long howdy falgun Sahih Bukhari and Muslim. She said the only candidate to hire anybody off the high end but halachot mom and Halak, she was destroyed because of this because this is a great sin.
And the third person was herself. The alojado, who was his head, a famous poet, he was the Pulitzer Prize homeless asylum, he was defending the honor for assessing him with his inner poetry, and yet he fell prey. To this the influence of the hypocretin he was involved in this talk, that's all, for now was mostly me, and the rest of people who are involved in this problem. As I said, we're all moon fit in the leader Abdullah of Nickleby, but I believe that
he was not.
He was, he was very, it was doing it in a sneaky way.
He was not very, I think clear about it below to Hannah. And but they are the ones who made up the story. So those Muslims
were under the influence of the Manasa t. So they accepted this story. And they started, you know, spreading the rumors. But the one who made up the story, this false accusation is Abdullah bin obey revenue salute. So they fell to the cutting and actual plot. It was an actual plot because he didn't clearly set it. But he was hinting and other people are sharing with them and encouraging them, to spread these, these rumors.
Now, the lesson here when Allah subhanaw taala said that arose, but to mean come, they are from you from your community. This is a proof that evil could come from close friends or close family members.
This is something sad, but this is a reality of life. And we need sometimes to deal with it. So evil might take place within the same family. And people start members of the same family or the same community or the same Masjid. It might hurt each other. This is something that we need to be prepared for. And that's why I mentioned in my photo these days, the the piece of poetry of that famous poet who said, well, who knew the will cover I said do maga button and Mr. Ma l hasami? mahana. De he used to say this poet he used to say that the harsh and hurtful treatment of close family members is more painful than the cutting of a sword, a sharp sword. Allah subhanho wa Taala
told us about this problem. In Surah Al Furqan, he said was Baba commonly bought in fitna. at us the rule was
Can Canada bookable Sara, this is a great idea that this live blu
ray made it out of this iron, maybe two pages when he said this or this it means that illustrated I say we have made some of you people as tribal to for others. Will you be patient?
Are you going to be patient? So some of the people will be a trial to other people. And then the last hotel at the end of this I said And ever is you'll see. So let's Patel is watching us watching our behavior. Watching the outpatients or the lack of patients are good manners, or the lack of good manners. He's patient, he's watching for our reaction. How do we react when evil takes place? Or when another family member or a friend or community member misbehave with us? Are we going to control our emotions, control our manners, and react in the best way in a way that is pleasing to Allah subhanaw taala? Or are we going to take a different path, so it will pay him or her to lie? He
says this is a general statement that includes all people. And he started mentioning examples. He said prophets and messengers were tried and tested by conveying the message to their own people, their own people were trusted and tried by listening to their prophets and messengers and follow their follow their guidance. He said there, the scholars are tested and tried by dealing with ignorant people sometimes to be patient with them to teach them in the best way. And ignorant people are tried and tested by by respecting their scholars and listening to them, giving them the benefit of doubt and so on and so forth. You mentioned rulers and kings, and they and their citizens, the
citizens of the state. He mentioned wealthy people and the poor people because wealth is a test. There are many people who Yeah, and they become very happy when they are wealthy, but they forget that they are tested because they have to pay zakat, they have to give sadaqa they have to take care of the needs of the people in the circles, whether they are family members or poor community members and weak members, you mentioned weak members of the society and the strong and the powerful. So what is the duty of the strong members of the community and the powerful to protect the rights of the weak members of the community, this is a test for them. And the weak members of the community they
have to also an A not to envy those who are given power and strength or money or wealth. And they have to you know, place their trust in Allah subhanho wa Taala he mentioned a man and his wife. You get married you are happy Mashallah. But this is a test. We're going to treat your wife are you going to oppress her and take her rights and abused her rights, we're going to treat her with kindness for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala. So it is a test marriage is a test. And it tests for a woman if she's going to obey her husband, and protect her his honor and his dignity and take care of his wife take care of his children take care of her house, he is tested by all these
obligations and duties. And he mentioned believing people and non believers were tested sometimes by living dealing with non believers, the way we cheat them or deal with them. Are we going to invite them to the deen of Allah subhanaw taala or not? You know, so basically, remember,
he said all people are tried and tested in this life. And this is a general statement that includes everyone. Everyone is included in this ayah which are commonly bought in fitness and atmosphere.
When we talk about fitness, we talk about trials and tribulations but we talk about general tests also, you know, being tested with wealth hula, we don't see it as a child, or the tribulation, being wealthy, something good but you could be tested by, you know, with something good, but Allah subhanaw taala and it will finally qualify. So basically the Sahaba of the law. I know, we tested their Eman, their taco, a taco was tested, their email was tested in this story. And and hamdulillah most of them all of them succeeded. They passed the test succeeded in this test except the three of them that I mentioned beside the other, you know hypocrites who were mentioned in the books of
Sierra and the books of Tafseer.
Now what exactly happened let's talk a little bit about the story. And the story as I said, it is mentioned in the books of Tafseer and mentioned also in the books of Hadith hamdulillah. We are fortunate we are lucky that this story was well documented
in the Quran in surah to know and well documented in,
in in the best books of Hadith Sahih Bukhari and Muslim and other sources of Heidi solo
One can come and say, you know, I have some doubt about the innocence of eyeshadow, the Alon
the aroma he said if someone comes after this clarification from Allah and sort of knew about the innocence of eyeshadow delana he's not a Muslim
period. And he meant it. He said he's a careful because he's rejecting
the Quran, the Book of Allah subhanaw taala is a Lost Planet Allah clearly clarified, clearly clarified her innocence while the Allahu Allah
mini Ayesha of the alarm zones Rasulullah sallallahu dunia have had and also Ali Vitali brought the alarm. And even
after they had some, some disagreement, we know that she she participated in in an event in a military event. But she went there with the intention of making Islam reconciliation between Muslims. That was her intention.
But after the battle was over Alabama we found himself in Xhosa tuna v COVID dunya Allah. Verily, she is the wife of your prophet in dystonia, and she will be his wife on the Day of Judgment show and she was treated with the highest level of respect. So the
now these painful incidents we need to talk about it now this painful incident took place after the Muslim army was coming back from the hospital or the Battle of burning masala. This battle took place Simona de said in the fifth year, during the fifth year after the seizure of Rasulullah, Salah some of them, they said it might have taken place during the sixth year of the hedger after the history of Rasulullah XSL. So it either took place before hospitalization because we know
the Battle of the confidence, or the ditch the Battle of the digital and the same thing took place at the end of the fifth year after the age of Rasulullah, assassin, and ceratophyllum. Where are they allowed who died at the end of the fifth year.
But Southern wild is involved in this story.
His name was mentioned I'll mention his name later on. So if Sadie was really involved in the story, not in a negative way, he was involved in a positive way he was defending as soon as as Illumina willing to support the profits of the lions and so it was evolved in a positive way. mentioned in Sahih Bukhari if there was no mistake if the narrator narrated the Hadith men said no. Why? Because the Lancer Kabira tannhauser. The time and oh sorry. They had many people with the name of Syed from Bengal ashram, and he's from Russia. So he could we never said but if he said we were that definitely. This incident took place before during the fifth year of the era of rationalize I sent
him before his work. If he was not sad, whenever someone else who got the name, same name of sad, then this incident might have taken place during the six year after the hero fasudil lysosome is not really important, but the involvement of sad is important here.
So I should have the allow. There are some survivors others habas who narrated the same story she said it's a hail Buhari is what it was the habit of our messenger of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to cast lots between his wives were planning to leave the city of Medina planning to make a trip who would take only one wife and this shows the either the justice as well as asylum us to use to treat his wives with with justice. So who would not say Oh, look, I This time I will take this man, the woman and the other time I will take the other wife No, he would draw lots between them. And she said it's so happened at the time that my name that my name appeared so the lot of
fell on her or the alarm on her and she was selected she was uh you know, selected to go with him during this expedition. You know that those were of Bernie and musallam.
And she said the you know, this happen after Allah subhanho wa Taala as prescribed or mandated hijab upon woman. So before that time, women It was not an obligation upon woman to wear hijab, but maybe around one year before the husband of burning masala Allah subhana wa Taala revealed the obligation of wearing the hijab upon Muslim woman. So she said I was carried in how this how this is a litter and she said that this mountain was still in it is
It's a it's a curtain couch
that is mounted on shafts and it is meant to carry one single passenger. So it's like a small tent that was carried on on camels at that time. And women who wear the hijab would stay in this litter are in this whole dish, and it will be traveling, you know on this camels in this fashion. So she said when the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was finished with this battle, and he started his journey back home, going back to the city of Medina, he when we approached the city of Medina, he commanded us to proceed at nighttime. So usually they take the use to take rest at nighttime, and then sometimes walk or keep moving during the daytime. But she said in this occasion,
on this occasion, rationalized assailant gave them the order to proceed at nighttime. She said, when the order was given, I walked until I was past the army to go far away from them to attend to the call of nature. She felt that she needed to relieve she needed to relieve herself at the time. So she went far away from the army to relieve herself of the olana. And she came back when she came back before they left, because we're an army, huge army, you know, it's not easy for them to you know, move they take time before they leave the area. But when she came back, she noticed that her necklace was missing. So she said I want back, a return to look for it. And I was delayed before
before because of that, because of it because she was looking for this for this necklace. The necklace didn't didn't have a great value. But Hakan mokume, Sahara, to the author of Rihanna Moto, she said it was a loan. It was did not belong to her. She took it as a loan from from another lady. And that's why she felt that it is an obligation upon her to go and look for this necklace. So she went looking for this necklace. When she found it. She came back to her disappointment. Everyone had left. What happen is said they said the people who used to carry the whole dish. They did not feel the difference that I was missing. She was a young lady. She said there was a young lady. And at
that time, she said in a woman were were lighter in weight. And they were thin and they wouldn't eat much. That was their lifestyle at the time.
This is what she said about the alarm.
Yeah, I like people nowadays. But that was their lifestyle. The life was really simple when they said woman would not eat much. She was very thin and young lady so the people who would carry that how they did not feel the difference. did not notice that she's not she's not there, or the Aloha. Now, this is our statement inside the body.
And he he said they said the camel moving and they proceeded. I found my necklace. I came back I found everyone you know had left. She was of course disappointed. And she said they went to the place where I was staying at a later on. I felt sleepy and she slept about the alarm, hoping, hoping that they will discover her absence. And he will come back to search for her. This is what she was hoping. And this is a smart emoji because if she decided to go and look for them, without any guide without any map without any he or she could have made it worse, right? She meant that it is the desert here. We're not talking about towns and cities and signs and roads, paved roads. It's a
desert in the middle of the desert. So this is actually the right thing to do to wait for them. She said most likely they will feel they will notice my absence and she will come back to search for me. This is what happened. So she said when I was sleeping, who came who was behind the army as of one blue and Matan for the long run, and I think it made him we gave him this duty this assignment to stay behind the army to collect anything that is left behind or forgotten. So huge armies of people sometimes forget things you know when they leave the area. So he was meant to stay actually behind. Look for things that were left.
Left Behind. So he said she said when he reached my place, he saw a sleeping person he did not recognize her but when he approached her, she was not covering her face there when she was sleeping. So he recognized her that she was an Asia because she said he saw me before the Asian
was mandatory upon woman. So she immediately covered her face with her gown. This is what she said Are they allow Anna? She said I only got up when I heard him saying in Lila we're in la hora zero. That was the statement that was made by software who wrote the alarm. I know. He said in LA, or in LA Raja. She said they got up when I heard him saying this, verily we belong to Allah. And verily to him, we will return. She said, I covered my face with my gown. And she said by Allah, I did not hear words from him.
The only thing he did, he knelt down his camel, and they allowed her to ride the camel. And then they kept moving, looking for the army. They're going the following the army. This isn't a morning, she slept the whole night by herself in that in that place. And he came and he found her in the morning. So it was morning time. So what she did, she said that the army stopped before going into a Medina at midday, to take some rest. So he was leading the camel
by the rope, and she was riding the camel or the Allahu anhu. But she said by Allah, I did not talk to him. I did not hear any words from him, except what he said before in alila. He was in La raggio.
So she said that the Allah and her when we reach the camp of the army, so here they said, you know, whoever was meant for destruction.
Whoever was meant fell into destruction. What did she mean by by destruction is being involved in this false accusation. Because this is a great sin, accusing a Pew believing woman of committing something like this illegal act or a major sin like this. This is a great sin, the last panel terrorism, some media
coverage formosana affiliate, and this is what the last panel Donna called it in the Quran in Surah Surah accusing the believing that pure
and chaste, believing woman
so
and she said later on, she said the leader of those fabricators who and she mentioned his name was Abdullah have a new way even
after that when she related the story, she mentioned a lady tower lucky bro it's like a Tafseer to the eye and sort of to know, and the one who had a greater share in this evil was Abdullah hub and obey if necessary. Now then she talks about the spread of this rumors or the slander in the city of Medina. She said after we returned to El Medina, I became sick
for one month
while people were spreading the false accusation in the city of Medina. So people are talking about this accusation. And she is sick in her house, not knowing what's going on outside, because no one came to her and told her about the story.
So Lysa Scylla was confused. And this is a sign of his bashary, especially me that his basher he's a human being. Now his wife is involved in this accusation. That is his honor at the Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and it must be very painful for them to handle this matter to deal with it.
But he was well very balanced Alli salatu salam, he was well composed. And he showed the greatest level of Aleppo and beautiful and manners. He didn't come and start shouting at her.
But then if someone else was in his was in his place, la salatu salam, you expect him to come and say to his his his wife, you know, you brought shame to your family. I mean, you made a stupid decision by going back to look for this necklace, cheap necklace, you know expect someone else to do the same thing right? But never blamed her for going back to look for the necklace, which is amazing.
Because this is what you expect from anyone who is in his place. This is other laws Allah tala she felt that this necklace is an important she took it from another lady. She felt that she it's her obligation duty to go and look for it. And she felt that the people she thought that the people will notice her absence in the dish so they will wait for her. She was not thinking that the people would not feel the difference and they will take the whole dish and move in with her camel. So that was not her intention around the alojado. So she said I was not aware I didn't know anything about what's going on outside the city in the city of Medina.
And he said they only fell during my sickness that I was not receiving the same kindness that they would receive from Russell. So syllabary was sick. There was something different. He would come to the house. And he say he would ask, it would
give the greetings of Silla. You sell them Allah Allah sallallahu sallam, and you say Kay fatigue. Gary, how is that girl doing? Oh, that lady doing?
He knows that she's sick. And he didn't talk to her about it
for almost maybe 27 days, because we will no discover that she would know about it in the last three days. There is something amazing here that many people did not talk about it. Many scholars did not talk about it.
The power of and the excellence of the statement. I talked to you about it before. What Ibrahim Alayhi Salam said when he was thrown in the fire
while the Muslim said in Medina when they were told that the mccanns are preparing huge army to attack the city of Medina. So feel them? What was the statement
has been Allah when Mr. Wilkie so I personally feel because as I said there was some sort of competition between Xena when to Josh, and I shadowed Ilana. So later on later on, this is a story that was elated by an image of a topper in his tafsir Rahmatullah Allah later on, Zainab was saying to Ayesha, my marriage was prescribed from above the seven heavens, say because also La Silla was commanded to marry Xena.
Allah says he was not planning to get married with China. And the last night I had the plan, you know, he told him to marry his ain't gonna purpose because Dana was married to him before him.
They didn't know haritha and who was
the adopted son of Rasulullah.
So an adoption is haram in Islam, but at the time, didn't know that it was Haram. So Allah subhanaw taala wanted to break this jany practice in the in the strongest ways, what is here that he would command His Messenger what is the best way to do it? Through His Messenger, His Prophet, he is a final messenger, there will be no other final prophet who will come other prophet who will come after him. So he has to do it. He has to break this ad that is habit j, the habit of adopting sons giving them your name and adopting them. So he said he commanded him to get married with
with Xena. People were shocked because they know that it's not good. I mean, it's not allowed for a man he's not allowed to get married with a wife of his son. But alas, Patel is telling them this is not his son. This was your this is your statement. He is allowed to get married with Xena and therefore I'm allowing him or commanding him to get married to Xena. So she said to Arusha my marriage was
was prescribed from above the seven heavens It was a commander for last panel Donna and I showed the low unhealth responded by saying and my innocence was declared by Allah subhanaw taala from above the seven heavens. So we are equal right?
So, Xena asked Aisha, she's important here. How did you protect yourself? She didn't say how do you play the game? How did you protect yourself from troubles?
I'll tell you the troubles here.
He said she said Mother cruelty in the markup to German anyone you were writing the camel What did you say? And she said, according to has to be a law when aramaki sign up said lachat cruelty Kelly Mattel mcweeny
you have uttered the statement of the believers.
I personally believe that the last pantalla cheated Arusha with Rama with mercy
with a great deal of mercy. Why had she known about this news and rumors from one day from day one, sorry, from day one. And Allah was planning to
to let it go and let it happen for one month.
It would have been extremely difficult for a young lady, an innocent lady and naive lady to handle this issue for one month. Or so much as enemies a man is strong man is the Messenger of Allah. A worker is the father. He's a man. Her mother is an experienced lady. People are
Have you experienced they were able to, but she was a young lady, and she was innocent. So think about it. If she
knew about it from day one, it would have been extremely difficult for her to handle. Because she said crying, she cried after she knew about it. She cried for two nights and one day, and he felt that her liver, her liver was filled the felt people around her Walker and her mother, how her liver will burst out because of crying, crying for two days or three days after she learned about the story. So I believe that Allah subhanho wa Taala to the actual meaning with the highest level of, of mercy. Because of this statement here what has been a law when Mr. Wilkie use it when you are facing troubles. Place your trust in the last panel data and you see amazing results. Don't say that these
are people, prophets and messengers. She is the wife of Prophet. Those are Sahaba. He's Ibrahim. So Allah, Allah will answer there, he doesn't, he will not answer my job. You say it, place your trust in Allah subhanaw taala Allah will fulfill your needs, and who provide his protection. Because, as I said, we're Maria token ally. So husband who replaces trust in Allah and Allah then Allah will suffice. His needs, this is the promise of Allah subhanho wa Taala. So anyway, so someone says Allah would come and ask about her in that fashion, and she felt that he was dry. He was not showing enough kindness. She felt that there is something wrong, something weird about his treatment. It is
Salatu was Salam. But he didn't tell her anything. And he saw it was. So she said I didn't know anything about what was going until I recovered and decided to go with Mr. So we mentioned misfire, the guy who was involved as a hobby was involved in this false accusation or spreading it.
His mother here, his mother, as I said, is related to related to abubaker related to Arusha to the family, to the went to gather to a place called El Manasa and Manasa. She said it was a place where we would answer the call of nature they didn't have washrooms beside their houses, and they didn't have at the time washrooms inside the houses. So they used to go to an area outside the city of Medina to answer the call of nature here and she said we would go at night from night to night, so the wait for nighttime to go to that place. So when they were coming back, Oh, Mr. Hardy, Allah and her stumbled because of her long dress. When she stumbled, she made a duel against her own son. She
said, Teresa, Mr.
Mister be ruined against her own son. And I was shocked. He said, What a terrible thing you are saying about someone who participated took part in the Battle of brother. Look at her innocence.
And her good clap. You're insulting your son, and he is someone who participated in the Battle of butter. And then the woman told her own life girl. Didn't you hear what he said? And then he thought she told her about about the story at the time. She knew about the story of the olana. So she told her about the rumors and about what's going on and what's the people are talking about. She said she was about to recover. She was recovering from a sickness. She said now my sickness aggravated. And she's in so Panama. And people really talking about it. In a different narration. She said that my father knows about it. There is the Messenger of Allah sallallahu wasallam knows about it. Yes. So
she went back to her house. She didn't go directly to the her parents house. This is what the woman in our days would do.
She went to the house of her husband and she stayed there waiting for him to come. So he came so much as lm and he made the same statement. Okay, vertical. Anyhow, these that girl lady doing. And she said they need Look at her Allah and her manners. I need your permission to go and visit my parents. Even in that most
during that difficult times. She's still respecting the rules of Sharia. And she felt that she needed the to get permission from her husband salallahu alayhi wa sallam love the love and I need your permission to go and visit my parents. She wanted to find the truth from her the mouth, the mouth of her parents, because they are the closest people to her after her husband, la Salatu was center. So he gave her he said yes, you might go and visit them. So she went. He didn't say anything.
And she met her mother, the first woman. Her mother. She said that she asked her mother, her mother said
You know, don't worry about it my my daughter, don't worry about it. He said, she said there is no charming woman who is loved by her husband, and had and has co wives, except that people will try to make up stories about her. That was the response of her mother. Her mother knows the seriousness of this, this accusation. She knows that this is a very dangerous situation. They're dealing with a very difficult issue here. But she wanted to, you know, to comfort her daughter because it's very difficult to allow a woman to be accused.
You know, of this thing. It's not something easy. The most precious thing for a Muslim woman is her honor, her share of her modesty and chastity and higher. So it's not easy to accuse a Pew believing woman of doing something wrong. It's not easy. That's what she said it is a major sin. And we will go through the IRS in the next Haleakala. Second part, we'll talk through that we'll go through the Tafseer of this ayat. And we will know about the guidance of Allah subhanho wa Taala regarding this event with me later. So
at that time, she stayed Of course, she didn't go back to her house, she stayed with her parents. And as soon as I seen him at the time, she's not here. Now he wanted to consult his family members or people who have close relationship with him. So he consulted with Shama Crusade, and adaminaby, Polly and Barry era who was a servant helping and serving guy show in her house. Maria, another young girl, helping Ayesha and staying in she was staying with them in the same house. So Sarah, why you Saba, who said we use, we use to treat him like a son.
He was the son of OSHA JW, haritha, husaberg crusade. And at the time he was a young person at the time was he was maybe around 14 to 15 years old. But Subhana Allah Look, how you know, people are the time used to respect their teenagers expecting them and consulting them and asking for their opinions.
Asking for their opinions. And he asked Adam Sharma defended his family. He said, we know we know nothing but goodness about your family. And he advised him to keep his family because he was consulting these people about about divorcing his wife, after the revelation was delayed, is a human being at the end, as I said, if he doesn't really receive any revelation from Allah subhanaw taala.
Then he has to deal with the issue as a human being.
Right, he has no knowledge now. He doesn't know nothing, no clue.
And the revelation was delayed so cannot there is no way to know about the truth except from Allah subhana wa Tada. There is no way out. Because there are no witnesses, just rumors. Just rumors about eye shadow, the louder and softer and more often are the lower. And I'd even have a thought he said
he made a statement, but it was balanced theory, but there are people who picked on this statement and they felt that there was something wrong between it and Asia. There was some disagreement or dispute or misunderstanding. He said Rasul Allah says Samia Rasul Allah, Allah did not put restrictions on you. And there are many woman other than that issue. So basically, and he don't take it easier. So Allah, I mean, if you divorce her there are some other women that you can get married with. He didn't say it clearly. Right. But this is a balanced statement. He didn't accuse Ayesha. He didn't say anything wrong. He said Allah did not put restrictions on you. And there are other many
women other than Ayesha and Sally jarius. Dude, that's dope. He said as the servant, a female servant, leader, and she will tell you the truth.
And then also lies I sell him cold, very raw.
And he asked her, of course, the Sahaba who are some Sahaba came later on. And he said, You know, they were encouraging Berea to say the truth. And Maria she said, Well, I know nothing wrong with this lady, except that she was a young lady and she was sometimes sleep beside the dough until the goat with common ido.
This is the only mistake that she knows about if she was a young lady, and she was supposed to take care of the dog, you know, the dole gene used to make bread with it. So she was supposed to watch it and take care of it. But sometimes she would sleep and then they go to it Come and eat. Though this is the only mistake I know about her. So she said she testified to her purity and her cleanness and innocence. Are they allowed to watch me
as soon as I said
After he got this feedback from his people who are
live in the same house and they are close to him and their family members I've ever thought of his son in law, and his cousin and Osama, we know the relationship of Russia between him and also Lhasa, Selim, and Maria she lives with them and she's with us all the time. He felt comfortable Rasul Allah says Allah, about the innocence, they think of his wife. We don't know what was going in his mind. It is very hard to say what was going in his mind and he Salatu a sinner, but we know he is a human being. At the same time. hamdulillah we go to proof about his prophethood an excellent proof about His providence, historical, we'll talk about it maybe at the end here. So after he felt comfortable,
and he that his his wife, his wife is innocent. He went to the masjid and he addressed the community. And in the masjid, most of them were the unsolved hazaragi Laos and others were sitting there.
There must have been some Mujahedin, but Mahajan, were not involved in this incident. So to summarize SLM Armenia Zuni Pharaohs Yulin ha manaphy le are live adding to it in the hierarchy was Karuna Rosalyn Murali Mohan hula hiren, Safar numata Lima Hannah at 1130. So he said many are loony Yanni who will give me support if I deal with this man. He didn't mention his name, by the way, but everyone knows that he was talking about both
of the light blue wave and he was not talking about herself with avid, he was not talking about Mr. Ha talking about the leader of the minority, who will give me support for I deal with this man who accused who hurt me by accusing my family and by Allah I know nothing but good about my family. And the mentioned the name of a man by Allah I know nothing except goodness about him.
Except good about him. So what are we what are the social losses enemies being here very balanced. He was not shouting he was not screaming he was not accusing people. Mashallah behaving in the boss This is also Lhasa salami anyway, Nicola Allah, who can help him.
So sadly, he is the problem comes in this rewired in Buhari Muslim His name is mentioned. But if this story took place in the sixth year, that he must be someone else not sad who had another side. But if it took place before it was so sad, it was alive at the time before it was. So he stood up. He said, If he's from the tribe of Laos, he said the aerosol ally, if he's one of us, from the Kabira of Laos, give us your order, and we will deal with him, we will kill him. That was a statement of Saudi will moderate the Aloha, no, but if he is from our brothers, and he knows, of course, that he is from the other part. If he is from our brothers, Kabila of husbands, then we will
deal with him and we kill him.
So what happened is now here is a fitness shaytan is taking advantage of this fitness, who stood up to refute the statement or to respond to the statement of Southern Morocco, another pious man who said of Nova, the one of the leaders of kadesh, he stood up and he said, By Allah, you cannot kill him. If he was one of your people. You wouldn't have said what you said, but you will never be able to kill him. So another man from Sudan who say who was one of the young leaders, so I was at that time they had young leaders because all of their elders, elders were killed in the in the previous battles that took place during the time of yahaya. So say he stood up and he said, By Allah, look at
this statement, this is a fitna here, you are
talking to sattva Oba who is a pious man, a great Sahabi he said you are defending the Manasa t. So Rasulullah Saxena felt that now the problem is getting bigger. So he came down from his member and he started calming them down. And then he kept quiet he didn't want the problem to to go to a higher level. This is a fitna here, and the fitna that was initiated by the Manasa T. And of course shaitan. Here is taking advantage of this, you know this fitna? Here comes the importance or the danger actually the seriousness of spreading false rumors in the community. It might divide the community might lead to division and suffering and, and actually enmity between members of the same
community.
Seldom was able to come them down. You didn't do anything. This is his wisdom. La Salatu was set up. He didn't want to say no, he didn't say no. You're saying
You're right, you're defending your profit, you're defending the honor of your profit, let's deal with him and kill him.
You respect this behavior in this reaction from someone else, not from our messenger sallallahu davisson. So after that, he decided to go and talk to the family for worker in Asia. So he went to the house with our worker. And then he sat down with them. Before that there was a lady from the answer, she came, and she asked for permission. You know, when people are facing this kind of dealing with this kind of problems, they don't want to talk to anyone.
This is something that we know in our community.
The even though to talk to the Imam or seek any guidance will only face this kind of problems. And and the most important are the people people actually worry, the thing that they worry about in our communities nowadays. Is it their reputation. And I know the reputation and the honor and dignity of the family is important. But as soon as I said, will say something very important to us to Asia.
And there are people who made some comments about it, asking about trying to know, you know, the read into the mind of Rasulullah sallallahu when he made that statement, but there is something important here that we need to pay attention to people, as I said, When something like this happened in the in the in our communities, we know that we have real problems, big problems in our communities. You know, I spent in this community.
I spent in this community. I've been here for 17 for 17 years.
17 years. Yes. Two years ago, only I knew that. Sorry. tell you there's a lady told me a sister in this community. She said, I know at least five cases of teenage pregnancies in our community.
But she said this feeble they were doing, she's this sister is in charge of Family Programs. These people never show up. They don't come they don't talk about their problems. I know it's too late sometimes. But still feel to protect your family, protect the other children. Maybe you need to do something and come to the halaqaat and talk about these issues. Encourage the Imams to do programs, more programs. We did a beautiful program last week.
It was Saturday. Yeah. Saturday, Dr. Raymond came from the state.
It was a beautiful program. I was really impressed by the knowledge and the experience of Dr. Raman, who did halaqa here. We got to 50 people registered for the program. We're expecting them to come to the University of Calgary we got only half of them. And he was talking about very serious problems in Muslim communities. The problem is when we think about the Muslim community, we think about those bearded man brothers and sisters wearing the hijab or coming to the masjid and praying with us and attending the Holocaust. This is not the community 1000s of young people are lost in the street dealing with drugs, woman dealing with doing illegal acts, Muslims involved in maaseiah and Fantasia
have big problems in our communities. Of course, I'm not talking about the whole community, talking about the many people who are involved in by people who don't come to the massages, they don't pray, you know, the unfortunately nowadays the people, the pious people, the people who come to the massage then they try to follow Islam and the guidance of the Quran are a minority in this oma and this is the source of our suffering. We don't expect everyone to be perfect or everyone no one is perfect. Everyone should be practicing Muslim and following the path of the guidance of Allah subhanho wa Taala you know, but at least if we have the majority of Muslims of trying to follow the
deen and they care about the deen of Allah subhana wa tada our conditions will allow Allah would have been different our conditions will be different.
But now we are suffering as a oma because people who are doing good who are trying to make a slot had a minority in this oma everywhere talking about the Muslim world anyway.
For
ask Alisha and he made the statement he said yeah, I shall in contemporary attend for say you burrito Killa Xhosa if you were innocent, Allah will reveal your innocence. But if you committed a sin, this is a very difficult statement coming from a husband to his wife. If you committed a sin, then make repentance to Allah to be in Allah for whoever makes a sin and repent to Allah along with accept his repentance. So as soon as I sell him, I know that it was difficult for him to make this statement.
But there is a priority here. There is something important he's trying to bring to the attention of Asia. That is what is the most important thing here
is telling her is he sending a message? What is the most important thing in this in the whole story which is the most important thing
Your relationship with with Allah. Before you think about your reputation and what other people are saying, What are people going to say about you? Think about your relationship with Allah. When I commit a sin, I disobeyed Allah. I didn't disobeyed people. I didn't disobey people.
I don't disobey people, I disobeyed Allah. So I have to care about my relationship with Allah first, before thinking about my reputation, because if Allah is pleased with you, Allah will protect your honor and reputation in the community. In the statement made out of the NASA Villa, you know, Allah subhanaw taala, Allah would be angry with him, and he will expose his faults and mistakes and shortcomings in front of people. And the one who pleases Allah, well displeasing people, Allah will protect his honor. And he will people will be happy with him and allow him to please people, people will be pleased with him. Allah subhanaw taala is in control of our minds and hearts. And if he's
happy with you, if he loves you, Allah will protect your honor and reputation. So this is the message that the Messenger of Allah is trying to send to Ayesha de la hija. When he said this, she stopped crying.
She felt angry now.
She said, I stopped crying, because it's her honor now isn't she's at the center of this problem with this accusation. And this statement, she couldn't tell us the statement coming from her husband sallallahu sallam, but as a prophet and messenger, he had to make the statement reminding her about her relationship with with a loss of Hannah Horta. So she said that I know that you heard this false accusation? Was the correct staccato fuku cecum. Yeah, it is established in your souls now in hearts and minds. This is what she said she was talking to her parents and also last lesson. And if I if I am innocent, Allah and Allah that I knows that I am innocent, and I tell you that I'm innocent, and
Allah knows that I'm innocent, you will not believe me. But if I tell you something else, and Allah knows that this is not the truth, you will believe me. They said My only statement is what the father of us if you forgot about the name of your Kobani salon, because this is a statement made in sort of Yusuf jacoba salon she said I was a young lady and she didn't memorize a lot of Quran. But she said, This is what the father of us have said. And he said, what he knew about what happened to his son user for Southern Shameen. Willow Stan Amata seafood, as for me, is a beautiful patient. And it is Allah alone, whose help is salt against what you assert and what you are saying. For sovereign
Jimmy will long with Stan Radha merciful. And she said she went to her bed, she turned her face and she starts crying and he she didn't do anything. And then after a while, as soon as I sent him started in that moment, receiving why, at that moment in the house of aboubaker. He said he was she said he was sweating, even though it was a cold day, but he was sweating and they would recognize they would know that
the state of would recognize the state of Arizona as a seller. What is receiving Why is heavy
is not a joke is not something easy Jabri coming down to reveal why Toronto Law Center and he revealed to him the first portion of part, a big, big, big part of sort of a new world in which Allah subhanho wa Taala included her her innocence and talked about some rulings regarding those who accused
innocent people and the rulings regarding Xena and you know, no husband accusing his wife of committing Zina and some rulings. But we're not going to talk about this rulings. We will talk about the ayat inshallah next time related to this to this story. As I said, Russia was hoping that Russia would see a dream about her innocence. She was not thinking that the law would reveal Qur'an about her. This Quran would be recited till the Day of Judgment, but it is an honor that was given to our mother and the mother of all the believers. Allah subhanho wa Taala took it upon himself to defend the honor of our era, the olana which is approved that she was the combination of, of decency, and
purity, and cleanness and modesty and chastity and all these she was the symbol of all these virtues that are the Allahu Allah. So they have been to Siddiq Habiba to rasulillah Salam joovy dunya. So it's a great honor. And they wrote me that's why they wrote me They said, anyone who doesn't believe in this earth and still believes that there are issues they might have committed something wrong
Then he's a caffeine he's not Muslim, because he doesn't believe in those ayat. In order to know. Next, next time inshallah.
In this halakhah we'll talk about the Tafseer of this ayah so this is a story. This is what happened. What happened is
the mother or Moreover, the wife, aboubaker mother of how shy she is mother told her to stand up and go in a greeter soon after received Why? Because after he received do I
was laughing and said, I'm Auntie Aisha Katara Kyla, as for you Ayesha, Allah has revealed your innocence. So her mother told her go and greet me. So she said no, thank him, told her thank him said no, I'm not going to thank him. Thank Allah subhana wa Taala who revealed my innocence. She was kind of upset but that's okay. This is a human, our human nature. And as I said, Allah subhanaw taala protected her honor made it easier on her she knew about this problem only in the last three days because of the statement here one that she made when she was writing in the karma has Viola when working this is a personal opinion, but lousiana Allah didn't but the rewire the stay. The
conversation between her and Zane have been to Josh is found into an emergent property. She's a co located in Savannah Coloma.