Hacene Chebbani – Burdened with Decision Making – The Power of Istikharah QA

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The importance of being prepared to take decisions and not waiting for guidance is emphasized in these conversations. The speakers emphasize the importance of praying for Islam and not over expressing one's feelings or emotions. The speakers also stress the importance of staying ahead of potential opportunities and not hesitating for signs. The importance of combining intentions with words and practicing the Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's Hara's

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			You never know. So, here it's very important that when you make a Sahara, whatever decision you
make, be prepared to be satisfied with it, to accept it and to be happy with it.
		
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			Will Allah huzzah Allah Allah? Now if you have a question, I'm sure you have questions about it.
Especially about dreams.
		
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			Yeah, go ahead.
		
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			Sometimes you take a good example. I went to a shop I got a job there for example. Okay. And once I
got the job didn't read everything. I felt uncomfortable straightaway.
		
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			And then I decided not to take the job without doing this
		
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			that's what I got the feeling before it's to find out something so in that case, you do suffer
afterwards and then go ahead and take a decision
		
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			the same thing you follow the same the brother Yeah, I know what you mean. Yeah, yeah, this is a
common problem. The or sometimes the opposite you like it and you're happy about it excited about it
and you want to do it and then you say, oh, okay, let's do is Takara
		
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			the youth the brother is saying I got a job offer write a job offer and then he thought about it, he
looked into it and he didn't like it. He didn't feel good about it. And then he decided to make a
secara so he got the feeling before it's too hard. This is a common problem. Whether you feel good
or good or bad about it, do a sticker off of yours to have a prayer and then see what will happen
after the Sahara. If you want to go ahead with it go ahead with it and see what will happen Allah
subhanaw taala will will inshallah guide you to the right thing it could be that you didn't feel
good about it but you will find it turned out to be a good job you know, because you don't know you
		
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			don't know the future
		
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			will give chance to other people that come back to
		
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			the length of the site or should it be as if your family or
		
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			the brother he asked me about the length of solid list Hi Annie you pray just to shore trackers or
you pray long records like you're doing to emulate two pages in one workout with the three pages. I
mean, it's up to you. Ursula sesamum did not mention anything there are some Roma in some medallic
We mentioned this ad it's better to recite in the first raka salted caffeine in the secondary castle
with a plus and some other ruler might have mentioned some eight that indicate the power of Allah to
choose for His servants were a bouquet of local machines were taught and so on. But many of them a
majority of their own family said actually there is no there is no proof for that is our center tell
		
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			us a master seven minute rule number six any any they feel like it could be it could be good if you
if you recite this the sorrows but there is no delete as long as there's no reset for Lyrica,
Kartini invading forever. Let you pray to workers. And as long as it's up to you now you're gonna
pray it for one hour. It's up to you and I pray this to work as in 10 minutes, five minutes, it's up
to you. Allah will help you because I think the most important thing is the dua but also what is
more important is your tailor Quran Allah subhanaw taala.
		
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			Because actually this the Hara is, is a very strong and beautiful expression for us to work with.
		
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			As he said to hear, you're telling Allah sending a message to Allah, Allah and week I need your
help. I cannot decide for myself so whether you pray for one hour or you pray 10 minutes is too I
will be there in sha Allah. And if you have this you come to Allah subhanaw taala with this
attitude, this mindset Allah's Penetang inshallah we'll help you beat me later. So there is no any
read whatever you want
		
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			to do
		
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			you
		
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			can just proceed if you have multiple options
		
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			Yeah,
		
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			I mean
		
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			yeah
		
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			I told you I answered this question the brother he said when I mix the hara, I'm supposed to go
ahead and move ahead with my plants. This is one way you could wait for for a feeling you could wait
for a sign if you want
		
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			you if you want to wait for a dream. It's up to you. I'm just saying dreams are not part of this
process. But there is a possibility that Allah I got someone a brother here, who made this a card
about getting married with someone and he saw a dream and the dream was very clear.
		
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			Not to go
		
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			But not everyone
		
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			he told me about the dream and I told him this is a clear sign.
		
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			She can go for it. But it doesn't happen with everyone. My my answer again, Allah subhanho wa Taala
would help you in different ways. You might get a phone call, like I got a phone call here in my
office,
		
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			you might see something, you might go to the job, you have different options and you feel like the
manager is not is racist, for example,
		
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			a feeling that he's racist, and you won't have a good time with this person. So you said maybe do do
a different decision or the other job, they will allow you to praise Him as the the first one will
not allow you to presume otherwise could be assigned for a good Muslim who is who is concerned about
his ummah. So Allah subhanaw taala would help you. I'll tell you about another personal story. One
time I was planning, it was not in here it was in Vancouver, long time ago, I was planning to do
something, I think business with some people.
		
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			So when I made this the hara, and then I left my house, and I took the bus.
		
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			But I was not feeling well about that matter, I didn't have a good feeling.
		
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			Without feet without paying attention, instead of taking the bus that would take me to that load
destination. I took the other routes that will take me to the opposite direction.
		
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			And then I didn't discover this until 10 minutes will lie I found myself that I'm going in a
different direction without paying attention and about the bus and they stayed in the same bus and
they brought me back to the same place. I just decided to go home back
		
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			and said this is an answer from Allah. That is my personal interpretation.
		
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			So Allah subhanaw taala will help you with something. That is my answer. I don't want to tell you
there is a clear process about how Allah subhanaw taala will guide you to the right decision, they
are clear there is a clear process about how you offer your prayers and how you make dua recite the
same words memorize the same to say the same Dr. Insha Allah, but how Allah subhanaw taala will
guide you I have no there is no one answer for this.
		
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			Is it clear?
		
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			That I might be sometimes you feel good about something and you go ahead
		
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			we have to make a quick decision. Is it possible to make the DUA without me in Santa
		
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			Sahara forest secara the brother he said sometimes we need to make a quick decision is it
permissible to just make dua there are some lemma said if you are taking a bus method and we are in
the car and you cannot stop your car and pray the Toorak as you can make it if you want and this
factor applies to women who are having their monthly period they cannot pray they need to make a
decision they said if they want they can wait until their period is over monthly period is over and
then we pray this Vihara properly and make the DUA but if they have to make a decision within that
period then it's okay for them to just recite the two out without offering the two took as well love
		
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			to Allah Allah yes
		
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			you don't know how to
		
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			do this
		
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			this is what I think I clearly answered this question brother but I will repeat myself
		
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			if you don't speak Arabic, you still have to do it in Arabic
		
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			You don't have to
		
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			you know these days is very easy to get access to these things if you have iPhone or Blackberry.
		
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			Mr. Google will solve it
		
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			to the fortress of the Muslim first website I told you first website Islam awareness dotnet click on
it you get the list of all the doors in Heslin Muslim and you will find it there in your machine
		
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			to translate the transliterated it's a very difficult word. transliteration but the transliterated
text.
		
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			Yeah you will find it there you read it and when it comes to the matter that you need to decide
because it is not part of the door it is part of the albatross, Allah says Selim service and
everyone has his different his own matter right, his own problem. Then you have to you can say it
with a different language, English or Urdu
		
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			or whatever you mix between two languages. But the main body of this do I say it in Arabic?
		
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			Just because of the statement of jabber Can I liminality Hara camellia alumina Surah terminal Quran?
Can you read Quran in In your Salat in English?
		
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			Can you say subhanallah? below the mean used to Judo or in your record? In English? You're supposed
to say it in Arabic, right?
		
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			Yes, brother.
		
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			Something that could be considered. For example, I'm
		
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			gonna do it. Like you said after staccato, you could get a sign, which you know, this is not the
arrow. Otherwise it will be. So my question is, for example, can you go look for a sign like let's
go you
		
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			look for what
		
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			do you make? Okay? You said afterwards, it's going to be a sign from Alaska. There could be I said,
it could be a feeling. It could be a sign. Sometimes Allah will not give you any sign you move ahead
with a plan and everything will be easy.
		
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			The faster than waiting maybe you want to be a little bit proactive and look for a sign so for
example, okay, a little bit like a license plate says yeah, no.
		
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			No, you shouldn't you shouldn't you shouldn't seek guidance in these things. No.
		
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			No horoscope No, no, stay away from these things.
		
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			I'll tell you something.
		
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			When it comes to signs Rasul Allah says LM que Bucha el Hassan. Yeah, and he used to love good
signs. So good signs is okay. What was haram at the time? What was Haram is someone who would see
something bad and who feel bad about it. Bad luck and he will change his plans.
		
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			The Sahaba came to rasool Allah says Allah He said this is the practice for my people. Sorrows Allah
says Allah we said well so don't lie so Donna call me and you don't change your plans based on these
		
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			these events when you see something bad and you don't feel good about it, you change your plans.
This is not but if you see a good time a good sign Yeah, that could be okay that's fine. That's hola
Salam Kenya we hit boufal Hasn't fell hasn't Good luck.
		
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			Concealer, so my my, my younger brother he wants to invest some money on his business. So my dad
asked me my permission. Like he asked me am I like my permission like are you okay to give the money
to him? So in that case, do I need to pay for me or
		
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			if you aren't, it is a decision it's an important decision because you are investing your money with
your brother.
		
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			Like family yeah, we never know. You never know. Could be good could be bad Allahu Allah make us
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			Is not our our bad luck right? 13
		
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			We don't know Believe it
		
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			or not
		
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			what the Bible was talking about the year why it does not matter to us.
		
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			But yep, means yes, right.
		
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			If it is a good sign, it's okay. But 13 years we don't believe in the number the bad luck of number
30 If you want to be a second wife
		
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			the first wife disagrees
		
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			and causes a problem is this a sign not to pursue?
		
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			Allah Allah, I cannot tell you about signs, but most likely these days the first wife will not be
happy about it. This is a given. This is guaranteed. At the time for Salah Salem, it was very easy.
It was very simple that people will get married with three wives four wives. It was very common for
them
		
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			at that time, but these days
		
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			Yeah, honey 99 point 99 of women will not be happy with if if her husband would get second wife. But
at the same time, I couldn't say this is a sign. But if you want to make a Sahara, and then you
don't feel good about it because of this, that could be an answer. And whatever you choose whatever
decision you make, then inshallah it will be the answer of yours.
		
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			or Allah Allah Allah Allah.
		
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			It's really hard to answer these questions.
		
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			difference. Yeah because you have to be in her shoes you have to be in her position then look at
different issues, different problems surrounding that that matter and then you come up with a
decision.
		
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			If you have a decision to make and Allah dislike it, how do you how do you if you don't see a sign?
How do you do is the hara and what happens if you pursue it still? I mean, I said it I answered this
question If Allah dislike it, if it is mcru We're not supposed to mix the hara about it. If it is
something more cruel, we're not supposed to do it.
		
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			Unless it is palak
		
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			divorce it is mcru. Allah does not like it for a fact. But it is halal. And sometimes it is a
solution.
		
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			And you need to make the hard about it. Actually, divorce. Yes.
		
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			Salam Alikum. How do you know a clear sign from your carelessness and natural occurrences? For
example, if there is something I think about, I think about and minor accidents happen, tea spilling
or things fall out of my hand? My friend thinks it could be because because that topic makes me
angry. But what if the accidents are consistent?
		
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			Allahu Allah. I wouldn't give you an answer for this. If it is a bad bad sign or actually we're not.
Yeah, I don't know. I gave you the example the personal example when the car when I couldn't get the
key out. That was my interpretation, personal interpretation.
		
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			But this is a personal experience.
		
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			Don't take it as a rule.
		
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			So Allah subhanaw taala will guide you in in his way, Allah subhanaw taala will choose the right way
to guide you to make the right decision. But I wouldn't say that this could be a sign Allah Allah
Allah Allah.
		
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			I'm not sure.
		
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			Salam Alikum Hunkin into quantities list. You heard about the Moodle team in Seminole Matera in Dima
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fucker there in Lima about the center cannula. I didn't know how the sheriff law set with the work
of Daniel Harmon.
		
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			will come to be their Lika.
		
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			To choleric, we're lacking in SF limita criminal CV can a solid he he and Kenny sorry, was Salah
Lister Hara Kablammo I'm going to factor that in. So the system he will back home and her brother,
her husband applied for a job
		
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			and he prayed istikhara and he did not get this job. So what happened is this company declared
bankruptcy after one year. So this sister is asking if the answer of this taharah would be would be
seen or would be known after one year he'll be the answer is the Hara is not this. The company has
declared bankruptcy after one year. The answer of the Sahara is that Allah subhanaw taala guided her
husband not to take this job that is answered with the Sahara. And it was there at that time after
he applied.
		
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			But after one year, he knew about the hikma the wisdom in Allah's guidance that this company has
declared bankruptcy. So this is the answer The answer he got it long time ago when he when he did
not go for the job.
		
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			Or the job. Okay. Oh,
		
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			lo questions.
		
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			You're gonna look at it. I don't know if you can read it.
		
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			After you move, after move, you move ahead with your plan. Do not have to wait for a dream. Possibly
you might get info from your dreams guide you.
		
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			Again, going back to the matter of the dreams. If you want to wait for a dream, it's up to you. But
there are only a material command that you move ahead. If you have one option. You feel good about
it. Move ahead. Don't wait for a dream. When the message is if you feel good about it and think are
made easy for you. You applied for a job in the call you met and he said we accepted you got
accepted for this job. Are you going to wait for a dream? Tell them I went Wait Can you give me 111
week I'll think about it. You lie
		
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			You get the job you are happy about it you apply to prayed Sahara you got the answer? What are you
going to wait for?
		
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			So this is what I meant or this is what the ruler meant that don't wait for this dream. If things
are made easy for you go ahead with your plans. But if you couldn't you couldn't decide and you want
to wait for a sign and one of the signs could be a dream. That's fine. It's up to you
		
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			cannot pray Sahara on someone's behalf on someone else on behalf of someone else. Sahara is sunnah
within I don't know I cannot read this sister is the only one you write when you
		
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			shift I think we want you to Maratea we are not these are not this isn't a question these are not
		
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			called by mistake maybe he brought them here by mistake okay
		
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			go back to the brothers yeah go ahead
		
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			know they're not Yeah.
		
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			When you praise the hara PRAISE THE HORROR with intention for
		
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			Allah to Allah
		
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			the way to make decisions after playing the Sahara, but the same Can you say it again my
understanding was always that the way to make decisions after cleaning is to Hara that the same as
the way to make decisions before praying is
		
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			that correct to change? It is the same way Yeah, should you make decision the same way?
		
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			What do you mean the same way for example, if you don't crash the car and you want it to the job or
look at the salary location benefits
		
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			so once you've
		
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			made the decision the same way you change
		
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			this the hara will make you the brother is said he said after we praise the hara, we will look into
the same thing information about the job and everything is like you're saying there is no point of
making Mr. Hara who are going through the same process consulting people
		
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			I want him to express himself
		
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			to say that there's no point but I'm saying that
		
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			like even if we do is to Hara we trust that Allah will give us the best outcome okay, but the way of
making decisions is the same remain the same but should remain the same.
		
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			People didn't change the car and then they start waiting for a dream or they you know, they look for
times like the tea cup or time for smiles darling was always use the same tools same the same tools
you consult knowledgeable people and you look for information you think about it, okay. These are
all as verbs. This is due diligence you you use all these tools and at the same time you wait for
Allah's guidance you wait all you just go with your plan if you feel good about it.
		
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			Okay, you do as I said, you don't have to wait for a sign but Allah might give you a sign. You don't
have to wait for a dream Allah might bless you with a dream. But you have based on the same
information, the same you know, consultation, the outcome of the consultation and your thinking and
your research. Just go ahead, nothing will be changed. The only thing is the staccato will give you
some comfort. It's the hara will give you confidence that I made the Sahara I okay I accepted this
offer job offer. After he made the Sahara you feel more comfortable if something happens, bad
happened, said Hamdulillah I made this the hara whatever is there it was written by Allah subhanho
		
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			wa Taala and there is some pigment in it, there is some good in it. So you will be the hara will
help you to be satisfied with the outcome. Whether it is positive or negative, Allah Allah Allah
Allah
		
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			and he chose your trust Allah subhanaw taala even if you are not able to see the hikma because there
is something that happened that you don't like for example, like the person got married with a lady
and he divorced her after two years. And he made this the hara maybe I mean, if he's knowledgeable
and wise, he will look at this experience from different angles. What did he learn from this
experience? Okay, and then if he's not, he might he might think that he might, or even if he wants
to think that Allah Subhana Allah did not answer his dua. There is a possibility one, because the
two alphas taharah is a dua
		
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			if Allah subhanaw taala was to answer your DUA he will ask you to her. If there are some obstacles,
some issues, your income is haram. Your food is haram. Your clothes are coming from haram sources
coming from haram
		
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			sources, maybe Allah subhanaw taala will not answer your da and he will leave you. I mean,
everything is under his taqdeer within his Boudreau and taqdeer subhanho wa Taala Calusa in Bikaner
everything is under his control and he's stuck there, but he will not help you with His guidance to
the right decision because he doesn't or he didn't answer your DUA because it is a DUA, but as soon
as SLM said when you do it this way.
		
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			You pray to workers and you recite this to our you increase your chances for you to add to be
answered.
		
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			You increase your chances Allahu Taala let me go back to sisters because sometimes they complain
actually, most of the times they complain that we are ignoring them and
		
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			after I did the Sahara I thought of everything as a sign which was problematic.
		
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			Can I just say if this is a good this is good for me then bring it close. And if it is bad for me
then move it away from me during my normal prayers because I do not know what are the signs
		
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			again
		
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			think thinking about signs and waiting for signs Yeah, one is not part of the process. You might see
a sign you might see a dream but it's not necessary.
		
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			But it's the Hara is a sunnah is a well established sunnah. It's highly recommended. So the sister
is saying instead of praying is the Hara. I don't want to look for the signs because I might be
confused and everything problematic. I would just say this dua in my obligatory prayers. No. You
follow the Sunnah of Rasulullah Salam pray the Torah cause and recite the Quran Allah will guide
you. Allah will guide you. You need here today we have a problem for trust here. Trust to place your
trust in Allah subhanaw taala after
		
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			Allah will guide you because this is a promise of Rasul Allah Azza wa sallam Nan Yaffe will come
back to you
		
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			this way. If a person for example Let's not miss when the person he applies to law school, please
Okay. It gets rejected the first year that is the correct rejection first year, second year to start
applying or should or what this is not saying sign up is different. Saying will it be a sensible
thing after doing this to harder for after being rejected twice that say to start applying for the
thing and move on somebody else? Oh, we'll just we'll just still keep going and going is it the
brother is saying your brother applied for law school he said a school for a course or
		
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			field of study. And then he was rejected two times he was not accepted two times. So this is good
you could be assigned for as the hara and he prayed this Tahara I mean, Allahu Allah, these are
personal things. If I was in his shoes, I could be assigned for me. I would think about something
else. I shouldn't wait for for the school to accept me. Who Allahu taala. And he rejected twice, two
years in a row right? After praying is too hard. If I was in his shoes, but these are personal
matters.
		
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			Even if you said I love this, this subject and I want to study it. I want to try again, praised her
again. I love him. It's up to him. But that could be a sign. Well, Laura, what do you think she
		
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			is personal? Very personal. Yeah. The brothers in the audience.
		
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			So hypothetical question. Okay.
		
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			Is there any mention of any particular time? Like nighttime daytime? Any? Yeah, I clearly answered
this question. The brother is there is any specific time to praise the heart. I said, you can praise
the heart at any time, except those times that I mentioned, between acid and Marieb. And between
Fajr and sunrise and adore 10 minutes before the her did a did you asked me a question.
		
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			How could hamdulillah because I think you raise your hand
		
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			because a lot of brothers were asking about science when you made this call. And if you're waiting
for signs, you're sensitive to things that are happening around That's right.
		
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			That actually have to do something with your That's right. Yeah. For example, that appointment to go
get a job, some executive position and you run over a squirrel
		
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			that's yeah.
		
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			Yes. I want the brother who. Okay, go ahead. Melissa, we asked question before, right. Go ahead.
Well,
		
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			the question is regarding just the wording of the diabetes
		
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			When you say put the title in the head, I assume you don't have to say on the head. You just you
replace that. Great. Yeah, of course. Yeah. How does this matter? You mentioned your problem.
		
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			That's the blank. Yep. In Quinteto.
		
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			Yeah, yeah. And then okay. And then
		
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			in the second part, when you were asking, would it be best for you? You repeat it again? Or
		
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			can you just refer to it as? You know what? When you when you repeat the second part, you repeat it
again? Yeah.
		
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			Yeah, the actual matter. Yeah. Okay. You don't just like think about it in your heart and alumnos in
the head of No, no, no, no, you repeat it you repeat it. You mentioned you send me via battery wire
to alcohol, you always send me hazards at the end. There are so many hazards, you have to say it.
Okay, and with this since you brought that you brought that up. I always thought that meant to add
that part at the end of the day. But no, no, no, no in that part in the middle
		
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			of my marriage with x or y. For example.
		
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			When I mentioned the word marriage, people started laughing and smiling.
		
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			They need help
		
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			let's look for someone who was given who was not given a chance before Yes.
		
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			To make a decision on two different topics, for example, doing business or traveling completed, do I
press the card twice? Or do I pay once and when combined? It's optional. And then the owner may
decide if you want to combine it okay. Combine it make statement and combine choose for me Oh Allah,
this will this will be pressed harder for the first one that you feel comfortable with. Because at
the end you're saying and choose for me what is best for me. So obviously if Allah subhanaw taala
doesn't want to choose for you what you mentioned it to do. He will choose for you the other option
		
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			if the other option is better Allahu Allah. So could we if we pray one time it's gonna be fine for
one thing or you pray to if you're for this and this that's fine too.
		
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			Yes, go ahead. Well, can you combine your intention so say for example
		
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			have that also as your is the Hara?
		
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			Yeah, I answered, I answered this.
		
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			I said this in my lecture, I said you can combine between the Sahara and Sunnah. But the ruler Maddy
said, when you start the prayer you have to have the intention of his Tahara and Sunnah at the same
time. The mistake that some people make, he would pray soon Namath and he would be praying sunnah
and the second raka he remembers that he had to praise the hara for example and say okay, let's make
it let's include the Sahara with it, when he would finish his to work as which were previously or
initially done as a sunnah. And then at the end of the stork as he would do the DUA he would recite
the DUA and the remedy said this is not correct. Now if you want to combine then you have to start
		
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			with the intention of staccato from the beginning or the combination of the two but the perfect
scenario is that you pray to separate trackers for instance, that is my my preference will allow to
Allah
		
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			unless you are in hurry yes we go back to the
		
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			problem worth
		
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			more okay yeah, even if you like it if you have good feeling about it, you can make the Hara.
		
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			I'll give you an example. I'll give you an example. Because these things are coming all the time and
that's fine. I understand what you're talking about. But I'll give you an example. Someone wants to
get married with a lady
		
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			and this lady is religious Mashallah.
		
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			Swearing full hijab, highly educated, well mannered coming from a good family noble family. He's
very happy excited about this mesh. And he likes actually to get married with this lady. He looks at
her she's mashallah she's good. Suitable for him Yanni.
		
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			But he doesn't know is a human beings. You don't know if you will have a good life with this lady or
not. Even if she is like very, extremely religious. I know people who got who took that into
		
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			consideration and the thought that they will have a perfect life. Because the sister is very
religious, very religious, it ended up to be a different story.
		
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			And that she was a different person. She was not a different person, she was still religious, but he
couldn't get along, didn't have a good life.
		
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			They didn't know how to communicate with each other and everything problems. So she's religious,
coming from a good family, they have a good reputation while educated. You see all the things that
you want to know this lady still as a servant of Allah, you need his help praise the hara, because
you don't know what will happen in the future down the road.
		
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			Especially with important important decisions like method of buying a house, the house could be
wonderful. They may be there is a problem with one of your neighbors.
		
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			And your life will be miserable with that neighbor.
		
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			The life could be good the house could be good so makes the hara Allah, Allah Allah.
		
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			I sent someone's
		
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			bio data to another person, person for marriage purposes.
		
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			It didn't go to the right person three times.
		
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			This is coming from a brother rate system.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			When she tried getting in touch with the relevant person,
		
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			whom I have spoken to before, but the phone kept going to the wrong person.
		
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			I
		
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			received this question.
		
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			And we didn't make a mistake with the phone number.
		
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			Is this the result of istikhara?
		
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			Allah to personal Allah I'm
		
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			not sure. It could be. This is my answer. It could be but I'm not sure. Yeah, these are not matters
of knowledge. Again, it's up to you as a person when you are in this situation to make a decision.
If you think that this is a sign then make a decision based on it and Allahu Allah subhanaw taala
last time it would bless your decision based on your DUA
		
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			now familiar. So what is the current
		
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			multiple decision?
		
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			What is the horizon enough? What do you mean multiple decisions, let's say someone needs to take to
CDC during the same time
		
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			or the short time so
		
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			the problem is the problem that you need to solve has to be mentioned in the DUA
		
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			it was if you mentioned all of them together I don't know it will be difficult
		
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			make you include the car and house job
		
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			on the wholesale
		
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			you can meet guys in five minutes Kuru Allah had and then we'll falak and the second one will ask
him the second Rakhine time agriculture. And THAT'S IT problem solved.
		
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			Suddenly hijack syndicates that should only be one at a time. So it's better to mention only one
problem.
		
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			I'm just amazed at this.
		
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			I'm just trying to change the mood and sometimes you are very serious sometimes we like to.
		
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			But that's good. I mean, I'm open to any question there. I am just trying to make it easy on you.
		
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			Not like not concerning the size or the answer. You know, I'm thinking of it as kind of you do it
and you forget if you get assigned fine or not, but you should just continue right. So regarding the
fact that you MedStar and Manila was pantile and being humbled
		
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			does this in any way maybe affect the quality of the decision like maybe US dollar wrote for you to
get married or to buy a house for cars? Because it becomes better and somewhat does this affect the
quality?
		
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			Well, if you're guided to the right decision, that means this is the best thing for you.
		
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			The right brother is saying Does the do out of list Hara or salata Sahara would affect the quality
of what you get. But then you get the best thing. Well, this is what we want. We want to be guided
to the best thing.
		
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			When we talk about the right decision if you have options, we want to be guided to the best thing if
you
		
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			Have two cars who are confused about buying two cars. What do you want?
		
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			What do you want the best one right? terms of maybe I don't know, a different people look at cars
from different angles depends on your age, and maybe you are a man or a woman or young adulthood
different different needs. You have to use it for a business or for personal use. So we look for
different things in that car. And you have you're confused between two cars, so you're looking for
the best option. So you want the loss regulator to guide you to the best thing without Allah. Sorry.
		
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			Yeah, like if you get two options.
		
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			So you have to look for the same like, suppose you're looking for two businesses and you weren't
sure which
		
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			could be better for you. So you look for a sign to appear.
		
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			Below the signs, the matter of the science keeps on coming back. And I told you, it's very personal
this matter. There is no clear process about how you're going to get the answer. There is no clear
process. This is what they said. Let me let me explain to you, there is a clear process about how to
make Sahara you pray to our cosmic Kudo. Pray to your hands, and then you do the athletes Tahara
either before salah or after salah. And then after that, what will happen after that is to personal
very personal, you might see a dream, you might see a sign, you might get an answer a phone call,
and the other person will tell you we accepted your offer come in, we'll make the deal or make the
		
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			contract. So and you feel good about it and you go ahead with it.
		
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			I'll mention another another personal so you can you can hope I'm afraid that I'm gonna confuse you
with these personal examples. But these are personal examples and they might learn from them alarm
it's up to you.
		
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			I want you to buy a van. I still have it this van I still have it. My wife drives it. So I wanted to
buy this van.
		
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			And then I talked to the dealer and everything and I liked it. I looked at it and I told him Okay,
I'll go home and then I'll give you the answer within a couple of hours. I don't remember I told him
a couple of hours or within 24 hours. So I went home and I I prayed this the Hara.
		
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			But this is a help from Allah subhanaw taala what I said Salaam and made dua, within few minutes, I
got a call from him saying that he is decreasing the price,
		
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			decreasing the price. He was working with his dad. And he told his that I think they had a
discussion about it. And they decided to give me a discount maybe the price I felt the price was
expensive. So they decided to decrease it maybe to help you to make a decision Allah. What happened
I felt good about it. I said this could be a site. I went back I got the vibe.
		
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			I don't have major problems with it. We're still happy with it for two years. It's working very
well. But the phone call I got it within few minutes. He didn't say how he prayed Sahara This is the
answer viewers because
		
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			he didn't tell me that. Basically we're giving you a discount discount was a good discount. I think
1000 I think it was 1000
		
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			So I said okay, this is a sign I felt happy. I went to him made the deal got the fat. That's it.
		
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			You could get this kind of things and then you feel good about it. You go ahead. So my point is
yeah, one I don't want another question about science. There is no clear process about how you get
your answer or how how Allah subhanaw taala will guide you to make the right decision without Allah
		
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			Okay, we have one minute or two minutes this is a promise now 10 o'clock sharp we're gonna stop the
Halacha and next Friday chicken Aveda will be doing the Halaqa I'll be out of town and then the
other one will be canceled because of negative course and then come back after after the other one
shall on February 28. Will
		
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			you will later on you now support your Holika right subject type one question and that's it we
finish inshallah.
		
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			furtherly
		
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			it's a
		
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			common phenomenon
		
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			about what do you do
		
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			when you have to be
		
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			I mean do you
		
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			normally, if you do the thing
		
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			because if
		
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			you did it
		
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			That's right
		
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			there is flexibility if you want to do it this way that's okay. But I would prefer that you don't
add any other dua that you do only do Alice the hara this is what I prefer
		
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			because we don't have delete yeah the those who said you praise Allah and he says to solid Allah
Rasulullah Salem and then you make the do alphas Takata if you're doing it after Salah you don't
have a clear delete because also Allah says Lim said you Salah Kathy Maria
		
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			is with Rasul Allah says enemy say then he should say directly, right so that means the prayer that
you prayed will include praising Allah subhanaw taala and include you know Salat ALLAH, ALLAH
		
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			SubhanA cologne Hamdi, shredwell Allah and I lead the suffering going to Buddha