Feiz Mohammad – Death Series 06 Innovations Of The Grave

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The history and culture of the Islamic Empire are emphasized, including its implementation of Islam and the holy month and the holy day. The importance of burying deceased parents and their families is emphasized, along with the use of animals as symbols of Islam and forgiveness. The speakers emphasize the need for privacy and privacy in burying parents and their families, as well as pray for the died benefits of burying parents and family members.

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			In the country laying in the middle who want to stay in or who want to stop 01 out to be like him in
Cerulean fusina Melina Maja de la bufala mo de la la when I used to live the other way shadow in La
la hora de la sharika. Why shadow? Mohammed Abu hora solo?
		
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			Yeah yo Latina am an otaku? La haka. toccata he was in one two Muslim Oh, yeah Johan. Taco de como
la de la la kakum. Enough su
		
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			wahala come in has OSHA robust I mean who marisha and Kathy
		
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			what takelma Halla de Luna v one or ham in namaha? Can Allah Kumara peva
		
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			yeah yo Latina mano taco Tacoma Haku colon sadita usili lacuna Malecon we have Fira lafonda no back
home one hour so la casa de falls on Adina in the halal Cara McCallum Allah
		
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			Mohammed in solo law where he was sending them a shout out
		
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			to her wakulla modesetting bidda wakulla
		
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			wakulla de la latifi now,
		
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			verily, all praises God Almighty Lord, we praise Him we seek his aid will be sages forgiveness.
		
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			After Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam passed away
		
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			his beloved companions or the law to Allah.
		
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			And the companions of the companion attend their own rhodiola hotel and home. And likewise,
		
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			in rhodiola, hotel and home, they paid sharp attention
		
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			in preserving the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
		
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			they made sure that no one touched, no one mocked, no one changed. No one played, no one
		
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			had anything to do with the way of our beloved prophets of the Lord, he was setting them in order to
restore it in any fashion manner, or in any way. However,
		
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			they repeat, after the first three generations, deviation misguidance corruption and destruction,
they repeat innovation, fabrication,
		
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			and as we all know, today,
		
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			it is
		
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			it has become beyond controllability. Innovation is so vast that it's hard to find a place or a
person who is saved from this evil affliction or tribulation.
		
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			You say people,
		
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			they follow this or they follow that they say, in our country, we do it this way.
		
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			But an ask how Mohammed does this, we do it this way. or others say that we believe that this way is
better than that way.
		
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			Others say or they take a blind bride, where they follow the ancestors or their tribal heritage or
the nationality race or culture.
		
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			You got others that say whatever the majority do, would, whatever the majority do, we will do not
recognizing,
		
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			not knowing that the evidences or the truth is only recognized and known through the evidences in
the Sharia, and not for the acts of a large number of people. As the Almighty God says, we're in
total Apsara manfield up Luke and Sabine de la
		
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			luna in lavonne way in home in Busan. If you obey the majority on Earth, they will mislead you
misguide you, that when deviate you from the true path, they follow nothing but conjecture. And they
do nothing but lying. You got other people that say, the Jews the Christians are advanced. So
they're just like our ways from their ways. And this was predicted by our beloved Prophet salallahu
alayhi wasallam when he said that you will follow the nations before you inch by inch step by step
even if they were to enter the hole.
		
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			Have a sand lizard, you too would enter it. Is it the human male prophet of Allah you're talking
about? He said whom other than the Jews and the Christians, you are other people that say whatever I
desire I'll implement or eight Amana da da Illa hahaha ha, Have you not seen He who has taken his
desire as his Lord, this is our situation
		
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			the majority of Muslims today are of this caliber.
		
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			And as long as we remain like this with people are hardly bothered concerned
		
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			with taking off on learning and taking the truth only
		
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			from the pure knowledge of the Quran and Sunnah.
		
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			Online confusion and more and more disunity discord will continue to hammer the body of this Muslim
nation.
		
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			This is the reason why we are divided today. The reason why we are the way we are because people are
not referring back to the two effluence the two sources of the Quran and Sunnah. And our greatest
example is
		
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			the graveyard,
		
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			the graveyard of the Muslims, which leads us in the topic for tonight, the innovations that occur in
the Islamic graveyard.
		
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			And as you can see, inshallah, we're gonna start showing you some
		
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			images.
		
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			This is the
		
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			Islamic graveyard, the section in Rookwood
		
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			cemetery, where it is known to all year to be the Islamic burial section, you can say how
beautifully designed it is.
		
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			Before we enter it, you cannot tell if this is a gradient of a Muslim of the Muslims or the
graveyard of non Muslims. * no before the Arabic writing there, you would never have known.
		
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			But how should the Muslims graveyard be?
		
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			Let's have the first place.
		
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			We all know that Islam has taught us everything we need to know
		
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			even how we bury our dead. Now Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam gave us the clean picture.
		
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			The understanding of how we should make our graves
		
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			the grave or Muslim should be leveled with the ground
		
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			should be leveled as you can see with the ground or you are allowed to raise it a hand but not
higher than a hand.
		
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			And this is in accordance to the narration collected by Muslim judge on the authority of Allah de la
Vitaly rhodiola Allah Han who, who was instructed by Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to level
every grave with the ground to level off the ground.
		
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			This is an Islamic way of the grave. As you see it there that is acceptable. You see, the gray is
close to the level of the ground, or in some areas, there is a little bit of a hump which is
acceptable.
		
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			And as you can see, there is a mark and there is his plan.
		
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			permitted mark, for example of a stone
		
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			or a piece of wood, or anything of that sort that might be placed in order to recognize it as a
grave. And this is based on the Hadith collected by a new measure on a property owner best or unless
that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam place a rock on the grave of man illuma zone in order for
him to recognize that this is a grief. And this is acceptable. Now if you get to Albuquerque and
Medina, you see the majority of graves similar to this but it's Earth nopparat it's earth. And over
there, they'll have a rock on each grave, a rough a bit rough and just raise sort of hand about a
hand height, nothing else. So we can say that this is the way that the grave should be in accordance
		
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			to Islam. No other no other
		
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			Next slide, please.
		
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			Next one.
		
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			These are also examples or images, how a grave is allowed to be there is a rock there is actually
three or four, three grades there. There's one rock there, another rock over there.
		
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			And this is the way it should be exactly as you are witnessing right now. Next one, please. Now,
there has to be a brighter picture.
		
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			This is not an Islam as white washing, or in English as white washing and white washing is
decorating the grave with the beauty of this world
		
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			where the dead has no need of whatsoever. And as you can see explicitly that
		
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			this involves unnecessary expenses for no reason.
		
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			Now, we all know that the grave is gonna disintegrate, it's gonna go
		
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			as time goes on. So what happens is you are spending all this money
		
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			for AI, you can say free Villa tea is futile reason, believing that while you're doing this, you are
hoping the dead person or us so we respect that you love the person, if you really love the person,
brothers and sisters Is that how you show that you love the person Why put in a prayer mat there are
artificial flowers or real flowers or palm trees and the likes. And there is a narration in Muslim
on authority of God that Mohammed Salah love, he was seldom said I should beat you to whitewash a
grave. In other words to decorate the grave another narration and behati and Muslim on authority of
our Isha rhodiola Tada and that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said I was not ordered. Listen
		
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			to this carefully, I was not ordered to cover stone and clay to cover stone and clay. In other
words, we have not been ordered to do this.
		
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			You know the expense on this, all these various items on hand and around the tombstone on the grave.
Next place.
		
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			You can see the crescent
		
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			you see the sky marble chips, artificial flowers, they even hire people that work in the landscaping
department in order to come in clean, wash, purify, keep the title shiny. And this is done on a
weekly basis have asked about this. When I was out there
		
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			are some people that will actually work and how often do you come here and claim these every single
week? So how much do you pay or we get someone to do a for us we give them $100 for that day.
		
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			Now brothers and sisters, that $100 is not better to put in charity for this decision
		
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			on a dead person.
		
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			Now which is better to throw it at lunch that whereby is going to get blown away destroyed whatever
or to give it in charity on his behalf. Which is more beneficial. Is it not like the resemblance of
the Jews and the Christians
		
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			next place
		
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			the better cola is like it's been taken care of everyday. Everyday nice tea tree, rose bushes,
cherry bushes, you can probably take some fruit from it in the future.
		
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			Man you can see how nice he trimmed it is the vases the dugout.
		
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			Next place
		
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			here I put an extra sort of
		
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			decoration where it's known to be those little sort of marble chips with the sand and that is
extremely expensive, very, very, very expensive, expensive. And that is in essence the decoration of
the grave. The whitewashing that we are talking about next place.
		
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			Now here there is writing. And there is a narration by
		
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			say by Holly that Hama Salalah alayhi wasallam forbade the writing
		
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			A grave for bait. In other words, if it's a portion of the Quran is haram.
		
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			If it's a letter, it's how long it was a name. It's how long even a name is how long in Islam
		
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			anything any kind of writing on a grave is not permitted the Hadith says I have forbidding you to
arrive on the grave. He did not say except the name of the deceased
		
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			so it's a generic term, everything, absolutely everything.
		
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			And I was shocked that we should have taken those photos and with their brother selfie that I saw
when I was there, I love note on a lot of grades for my love notes.
		
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			Other great other other areas there was anniversary, sort of like you know, Happy anniversary, or
Happy birthday. Well lie on the grapes. We're going to issue you a great boyfriend.
		
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			Now spondylitis Islam
		
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			is this Islam.
		
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			And you will get the shocking the shocking thing but people don't understand and when you tell them
this is a big deal. It's a big deal.
		
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			It's a major deal.
		
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			This is all things that are innovative, warns against we are warned against these things that are
clean, no decoration, white washing, no writing,
		
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			no lamps or candles or lighting in any way.
		
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			The Hadith is clean, living off the ground and leave it leave it do not come and say well my son a
problem is today's generation with a lot of money we want to sort of spend on this person to show
him how love you really love this person, you will not go and build expensive ceramic construction
like this, because the narration clarifies and testifies to the fact that Mohammed sallallahu alayhi
wasallam said to us, I have forbidding you to cover the graves with a hard object which is plaster,
brick tile or anything else is actually forbidden in Islam as an aberration mentions.
		
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			So you can see the situation here now how much money this will cost? You can you can make a figure
		
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			at least at least a a, a tombstone like this, and that construction will cost at least $5,000.
		
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			That's minimum depended on a ceramic tile.
		
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			Now so panela could he have not benefited with that money? Is it not better to give that $5,000 in
charity for this deceased or throw it on the ground? So I don't throw in it? What's the benefit?
Next place?
		
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			There's another one the radical left of the Quranic defense of policy advocacy and effect how on
top.
		
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			Now realistically, brothers and sisters is Al Fatiha gonna benefit the dead person.
		
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			Realistically, let us logically look at it. We know it's hot in accordance to the Sharia. But now
logically, is this gonna benefit the dead person or to see when you're thinking here on the Most
Gracious, Most merciful to guide you to the straight path guide whom the dead, the dead is dead.
		
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			The Federal high is built on guidance guiding you as a Muslim to the path of righteousness you're
seeking from Allah to Allah, that we worship known by you and please guide us to the path of
righteousness while the path on those whom you have favored these people in
		
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			front
		
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			of them any other Quran Had this been good would not Mohammed Salah law or they will seldom do it to
the companions that he buried in Albuquerque
		
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			or in omokoroa in Mecca. You get to the graveyard in a bucket and Medina those who've done ombre or
harsh. I'm pretty sure you saw this. There is nothing it's bare land, bare land, metal expense, what
so all just to stern, where the debt is raised to 400 the height of a hand approximately and that is
it. This is the way he was buried himself. If the creation was buried like this, so seldom do we.
		
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			Next
		
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			that's a candle now that testifies or signifies to the person that done it, that it's light. So
they're sick of putting the candles there every night. So they made it into the actual tombstone.
They made it easier
		
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			And they believe there's an actual evil belief out there that they built. They'd say that having an
account one day lightens the burden for the person in the grave. Where did they get this from? Allah
Allah. But there's a belief out there that is flying near. The Hadith says, Allah curse those who
placed the lights, lamps, candles, or any other kind of lighting on the grave. And this is the
essence of the work of the Jews and Christians. And you can see here Likewise, the beautiful
tombstone
		
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			the name Sheena, put the name anyway, next place
		
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			you got the photos now photos is how long it's Whoa. And I the photos, you got the swords there. You
got the swords testifying team. It wasn't me, JT, you don't know.
		
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			You got the soldiers there. You got the beautiful tiles, the beautiful vases, the artificial
flowers, and so forth. Next place.
		
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			Isn't that beautiful?
		
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			marble chips, you got the works in this one, it's actually made a little cocktail.
		
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			Next place.
		
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			This is a great, this is a grave where they fought
		
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			the first mass of whitewater.
		
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			So violates grace, I think it is it is a consumption of a shrub Allahu Allah. But
		
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			he must have been a gardener who love gardening. So they wanted to make the best of it. Next place.
		
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			There's a big palm tree there. Now, this is absolutely hot on all the sudden. And this is actually
warned against the companions rajala data and they knew this that this may come up because when
Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam Pike Place, the plants in the grave isn't a full reason that
Allah Allah gave him the intimation that these two
		
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			occupants of the grave have been punished. So he commanded him to do this. But this is revelation
that was sent to him, he did not tell us to do it. He did not allow for us know that the companions
do for any other competitor, or any other person that donating their time, nor that will handle me
in this situation, which was revealed and he was commanded to do. Now this person's product grave is
probably about, say 30 years old,
		
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			for that tree to be a source of quality.
		
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			And a lot of our next place
		
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			is once again a lot of work and effort has been placed in these graves, brothers and sisters. Now
seriously, instead of placing it in the grave, Isn't it better to place it in the deceased, the
money they spent the word that is taken care of? Isn't it better to put that money that effort in
your deceased relative?
		
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			Next place?
		
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			Next place,
		
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			nice ways.
		
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			Here, you got birds,
		
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			you got a verse. And you got the crescent and the star again, just very highly sort of exposed. Now
if we look at the reality of the crescent in this town, there's no significance in this land. There
is no significance in his plan for the crescent and the star as the Christians have the cross. The
Muslims tried to resemble them to Canada. That's the essence of it resemblance that wants to make
something like a symbol like the Christians that they made that present in the side, where did it
come from? If you look at the history in Islam, it is a pagan belief.
		
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			So it's actually hard to consider this anything to do with Islam.
		
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			It's not Islam, there will never be Islamic. It's actually hard on to consider this part of Islamic
significance. It should be destroyed. arbitrated every single minute now.
		
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			Hey, look, angels.
		
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			Now so Pamela, is that how the angels look?
		
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			Is this how the angels look? Where did it come from brothers and sisters is enough from the non
Muslims. Is this not from the non Muslims?
		
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			You know, this kind of a nation look like the images of angels as they're they are the way they are
here. That's how they look. And this is the belief of no other than the People of the Scripture. And
those who are abomination like him. Place
		
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			is a beautiful holiday.
		
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			The expense on that is extremely high. Something like that. would not be
		
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			Less than $7,000 and approximately $10,000 to place a tombstone like that if you get close to where
you see the thickness of it, and the word placed into it.
		
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			Next place
		
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			the flag, you see the flag you got the president in the sun excellent. And you have the rest of the
innovative things he has you noticed the whole lot in one nice place.
		
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			Again, the flag, it's stuff like a country lucky support in a country or some kind of race or
nationality.
		
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			That
		
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			takes place.
		
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			Next place,
		
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			you can say is apparently as a place in each one of these next place.
		
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			Now, we gotta know that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam warns against all this. And in many
countries, you say the worship of idols began with the oration, the worship, or the importance of
people placing in degrees, for example. And there was a narration that says or signifies to respect
the Hadith objective noctel there, the Mohammed sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, destroy, or do not
allow not one structure to replace over the grave. Another narration mentions that Mohammed Salah
Muslim instructed olive oil and Muslim as well to destroy every single structure over the grave. In
other words, if this was an Islamic land, say in the Arabian Peninsula, all of this will be
		
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			destroyed, all of it, not one structure will be allowed to remain over the grief, not one structure.
Even if the grave was built with basic concrete, as we see the other ones this basic concrete and
you see many of them that likewise would have to be destroyed. The reason being is, as mentioned,
integration created by Buhari on a photo of the best and I know I said that hammers a little longer
than he will sell them. In the last moments of his life, he will place a harness on a cloth on his
face. And when he got hot, and short of breath to take it off and say my own occurs to Jews and
Christians, for they have taken their graves as places of worship. They're taking the graves as
		
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			places of worship. You got to Pakistan. You got to subcontinental in general, you got to the Middle
East, or a lot of African countries, what you see there is places where they are called the graves
of the elderly and the graves of the elderly. You actually get people standing at the door of that
graveyard, the cemetery and they are directing Muslims to so called Alia and telling them that this
is wonderful and wonderful and wonderful and and fast. What do they do? They go straight to them.
They belted in they burn incense, and then they slaughter for them. But ask the inmates of the grave
for the fulfillment of their desires, their wishes and needs. They seek assistance from them. They
		
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			even asked them for children.
		
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			This is what my in reality what is occurring today.
		
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			They're idolizing the dead with action that should be rendered exclusively to the almighty Lord,
isn't Amata Allah, Allah rasik and Malik alcoholic? Is he not the owner, the provider the master.
		
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			He does not the earth run in his control.
		
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			Not atoms in the breeze on the earth except for his command, not at least balls but for his command.
He alone obeys. He alone commands and fast we as Muslims must believe in that and thus not
compromising anyway, especially in issues like this, whereby this could lead to corruption, where
you could lead people to what caused them to be people of idolatry by worshipping the graves. So you
see them in those countries, the people who are standing on the front of the grave, they get paid
top dollar for it top dollar, and they lay due to so called bodies and tasks. They commit all the
acts of shirk, that can be committed.
		
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			Now Yeah.
		
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			It looks like a shrine or a mosque or whatever, in a lot of modeles next place
		
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			maybe they're scared the child might get out and try to run so they don't want to restrict him.
		
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			Next place
		
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			This is the Islamic so called graveyard. wasteland is innocent from. And it's not the graveyard of
Islam as it should be, as you all witnessed, these are all acts which are highly reprehensible,
where there is neither sanction or origin in Islam, and the committers of all these things are now
other than perpetrators of the evil but they're the only bidder, which is all evil, and first will
lie they'll have no merit in Islam, they will have no merit in Islam. Now, let us look at
		
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			the issue of are you allowed to visit the graveyards? Are you allowed islamically to visit the
graveyards in the initial stages of Islam? Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam prevented all of us
from visiting the graveyards, males and females.
		
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			Why fearing as we said earlier on, fearing x of the days of ignorance, or feeling people that may
indulge infidelity or polytheism. But however, when Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sold on
Muslims.
		
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			He observed their strong faith in their firm belief and their conviction to stick to the truth under
any circumstance, he allowed them to visit the greys as mentioned in Muslim on authority of woreda
that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam said, Come to new heights, and Yakubu Fazal ruha for in
Manhattan, Common Era I forbade you to visit the greys but now you may visit it for indeed and makes
you mindful of the here after that when you go to the grave.
		
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			What do you say? Or are you allowed to go to a non Muslim grave?
		
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			If you had a relative as a non Muslim, maybe there's a revert out there. Her mother or father could
be no Muslim, her uncle, her and her son or daughter they had may have a non Muslim relatives are
they allowed to visit their relatives to deceased relatives and eration collected by Muslim the
hijab on Masada Herrera, Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam so permission from his Lord to visit
the grave of his mother. Was he given the permission? Yes, he was granted permission to visit his
mother and then he saw permission to what
		
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			to say forgiveness for her permission was declined rejected. So yes, if you have a relative with a
non Muslim, you are allowed to go and visit that relative. However you are not allowed to do for the
non Muslims what so what do you say when you go to the grave? And their ration collected by Muslim
like was on the authority of woreda they were taught this to so whenever you go to the grave of a
Muslim graveyard, you say As salam or Aleikum, Allah Dr. Meena Muslim ina one meaning
		
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			we're in insha Allah who become the de hecho a Salama hola hola como la via Peace be upon you are
inhabitants of Muslims and believers in sha Allah will follow you soon. We ask Allah to grant us and
your well being. Likewise in Muslim we see Ayesha mentioning that every time was her night, towards
the end of the night. Hamas also Lama traveled to the bucket and the bucket is where in Medina, the
Gregor of whom the majority have been the companions. Thus he would go and say a salaam aleikum,
della call me meaning what to do and I'm oh god, oh god, we're in insha Allah who become the de
hecho en us Allah Hola, hola, como la.
		
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			And then eration us or LA or LA not Finley de Bercy Allah, Allah, Allah, God, our Peace be upon you,
all inhabitants of believers. What you have been given will soon pass tomorrow at a fixed term. Soon
inshallah we'll follow you. May Allah grant forgiveness to those who are buried in alibaug area.
		
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			That is the main stream that you should say when you go there or you need to say anything else. Yes,
you are allowed to say anything, anything else. You can say for example, Allah have mercy on them.
Allah give them Allah wide in their grave of light. Allah placed him in the highest of Paradise,
anything that is a invocation for them that will aid them in the grave, or either in the
resurrection and in the hereafter. This is what you should be saying to the people of the grave. You
did not go to the graves and seek any aid or assistance or no Do you see them as a medium for you,
between you and Allah to Allah?
		
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			When do you go to the grave? Is there any specific date you are allowed to go to the graveyard when
it
		
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			You please, whenever you please, there is no periodic intervals that you must go but specific times
the so called annual commemoration, which we all know at the IID
		
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			that people go on us to chabanne, the 15th of chabanne, or people go on Thursdays or Mondays, or
that makes specific days to go. This is all innovation. There is no base for some or in Islam. You
can go any time to the graveyard in order to seek blessings for the dead, and mercy and forgiveness
and so forth. When you go to the graveyard,
		
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			do not stand on the grave. Do not step on it in any way. Do not walk over it did not run over it, do
not jump over it. Do not lean on it, do not sit on it. As the Hadith mentions Mike was Muslim on the
photo radar. There it is better for one person to see on a glowing coal that burns through his
clothes and gets to his skin than to sit on a grave.
		
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			And still people do not take heed of these are authentic narrations you seem reclining against the
tombstones sitting on them, walking on them and so forth. You are not allowed to pray towards the
graveyard, as the narration mentioned Muslims again that
		
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			Allah Allah has beaten you to pray towards a grave. This is the situation of the grave and that is
what you are allowed. As for the condolence since we all know that after the death, there'll be
people mourning the relatives and so forth the deceased what do you do? What is condolence? What
does it mean? It means that to show patience, or to enjoin patience, to comfort, the distressed to
lighten his grief and burden, is it legal? Yes, it is. It is highly highly recommendable that you go
to the seized family of the deceased and show your condolences you said
		
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			earlier humble and this inshallah Allah is a highly advised as a narration mentioned and by hockey
unable to measure that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to us, whoever consoles is
distressed brother, Allah to Allah will dress him in an apparel or tire of honor, on a day of
resurrection. But today we see many people they go, could they go and seek or do condolences once
twice? 34567 No.
		
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			You go once and relax, do not burden the person or the family of the deceased. They need rest here.
Did not burden him. He gave him your condolences or her
		
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			and then you walk away. It's not right for you to sit down and gossip and then come back in the
afternoon. Come back in the morning, then the afternoon then the morning then the afternoon. This is
not the way of the sun.
		
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			What do you say anything can be offered as long as it's light makes things light for the distressed
		
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			and makes it sort of solace for the bereaved he feels comfortable. But the best words is that which
is mentioned in a trans mitted Hadith by Buhari on the authority of Osama Museo de Muhammad
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to his daughter, when she sent him a message that his son is dying.
He returned the messenger saying sending his regards saying in de la Hey, Ma Ma wakulla shaking the
whole big masama fotospeed Well,
		
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			Allah belongs where he has taken to Allah belongs what he has taken and to Allah belongs what he has
given and everything with him as a fixed term. So let her be patient. Let her be patient and
anticipate Allah report. He said had Allah is the daughter of the porcelain. Her son just died. Look
at the response. He gave his daughter, be patient. Wherever my has taken is he is wherever he gives
his his and everything has a fixed time. So just be patient and anticipate all those reward.
		
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			It is not Islamic
		
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			to wear black.
		
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			Whether it's the relatives, or the mourners, other than the relatives or anyone. It is not Islamic
to wear black, it is not Islamic, to arrange gatherings of morning on the third day or the seventh
or the 20th or the 40th or the 100th or on the anniversary of the dead. This is all evil corruption.
There is no such thing.
		
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			There is no such thing
		
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			In light of Islam, it is not Islamic, to sit down in gatherings whether on the day of the death or
after it on the day of the mornings, and we slept around together, whether it's through the cheer
scene or any other sort of any part of the Quran, it is not Islamic brothers and sisters, to do all
these evil things, you are committing innovation.
		
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			There is no merit whatsoever in this man for any of these actions. It is non Islamic to me so I
salute your sin by going to the grave and reciting your sin or at home or besides the dead the
person who died next to his head this is all evil.
		
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			And the Hadith they use we saw it sorta just seem to your dead This is not only weak, it's cold in
Arabic masala Hadith halleck is a perished perished narration there's no base for it, no base and
yet people
		
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			neglect or reject this teaching and they do that which is a lot Allah has forbade, which is
committed innovations.
		
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			It is not Islamic to go and do tolkein for the dead person. After the Duffin the person has been
buried, you get people in the shade unfortunately over the grave, and they start saying to the dead
person, two energies will come to you. The question is the first question Who is your Lord make sure
you say a lot of people
		
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			who is your prophet and make sure you say Mohammed Nabi for Salah. What do you do? Make sure you say
Deen Islam Subhana Allah
		
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			if this person was not the way he was supposed to be as a correct genuine Muslim, is he gonna answer
this question? You might as well go to the grave of the capitalist later today.
		
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			If you think he's gonna benefit from this you might as well grab the Casio
		
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			it's a bit too long Medina Amira will call the Fed it's been hired to do nothing. allocates
allocates them not unlike those who believed with the correct answer the correct saying in the light
of this world and in the next which is the grave when the merit of the question
		
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			apiece, these are all an Islamic
		
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			brothers and sisters.
		
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			There is sufficient alternatives to all these Islamic innovations. You want the way of the sooner
the way you'll be slammed. If you consider yourself a Muslim, then take it from the sun. Take from
Islam, you want to help the dead look at what helps the dead when Mohammed Salam taught us to teach
our children and to teach ourselves and apply in order to aid the dead, but the mercy of Allah to
Allah.
		
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			We have many ways of hoping that did in accordance to show you all the way mo has taught us our
prayers to the person who's dead on behalf of the dead. robina fildena waggener alladhina Saba Guna
be the man to the fashion verse number nine, Allah forgive us and those who have preceded us in
faith for our brothers do to have for them in your frustration. In the latter part of the night get
up and do to to God for them, not give the prayer for them. But due to the court in the middle of
the night, the latter part of the night and in your frustration seek forgiveness safe mercy for the
people of the dead, your Muslim brothers and sisters. Then we just display the head all the time.
		
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			Think of your brothers and sisters in the latter part of the night while everyone is sleeping.
You're going to need us to one day get up the last third of the night before fasion even five
minutes
		
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			doo doo and pray to the court and frustration say euro
		
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			euro euro pasta cup Rubino euro, dosa ALLAH forgive them, have mercy on them bestow your favors on
them.
		
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			Are you not gonna need this as well like if you do this alone, say likewise likewise, likewise to
YouTube.
		
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			And if you care for your brother, and your sister
		
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			if you do not care space sleeping small ring, like a dead brick
		
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			kailani by yourself.
		
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			And this is how we are today the majority of Muslims aren't careless, careless, your mother might
die and they're still sleepy. 24 seven.
		
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			They might say Hello Honey, if they've got the power to say that
		
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			this is wrong. This is extremely wrong.
		
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			It's not accepted with a Muslim
		
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			character or ethics.
		
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			So it can happen due to have for those who you love the political system, especially if you have a,
a mother or a or a relative that has passed away, get up and do to have for this person will lie
they need you to add, they need you to add you can do something for them that can't do anything.
This days have seized them be greedy brothers and sisters Think of your brothers and sisters who
have been buried Warhammer Salamis to get up every night just about as they hadn't mentioned the
last third every time and go to the buffet and say forgiveness.
		
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			They want is the direct family. But he would not want his companions, his beloved companions that
were Muslims. He cared for them because he knew the situation of what is happening. The reality of
the interspace he could not sleep. He cared for his brothers and sisters, every night's a panel, the
last third of the night will go to the graveyard and seek forgiveness. Do you ever do this? How many
of us has ever woken up not to get the prayer
		
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			have went to the graveyard?
		
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			Even if you are not allowed to enter that. But have you thought of them? Is it tonight or lie on I
think these brothers on kind of get up in Sharla and do to have them
		
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			reflect and contemplate the brothers and sisters. Likewise fasting
		
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			for the deceased. If you have a relative that has
		
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			been fast owing to Allah tala whether it's Ramadan on earth or another,
		
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			which he did not fulfill before he died. You are advised as a Muslim to fulfill that day for him or
for her. As the Hadith in Bukhari mentions on the fourth day of our Asia that Muhammad sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam said whoever died are going fast his guardian should fast on his behalf. Another
Hadith mentions in Buhari is that a man came to Mohammed Salah Salem and said to him yet I saw the
law. I have a mother who passed away. She owes one full month of fasting. Can I fast on her behalf.
He says, of course you can pass on her behalf. The debt paid to Allah to Anna has more right than
any other debt.
		
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			So yes, brothers and sisters, if you know anyone who have your relatives have not fulfilled their
fast, whether it's Ramadan, whether it's another, whether it's an oath, please fulfill it for them
and lighten the burden of them. Likewise, paying financial debts. For example, you might have
someone that passed away, and he owes money to someone.
		
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			Anyone can pay the debts with a relative or no relative of the deceased. And we've got a beautiful
narration that one day a delegation of companions came to Mohammed salon with the dead brother. They
asked him how Salaam to pray for this person the funeral prayer. He asked does he led me to anyone?
They said yes, yes to dinner. He walked away
		
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			to do pray for him.
		
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			Then I woke up tired when the companion said, Yeah, I'll take responsibility for this today. No
		
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			narrative is I'll take responsibility for the student on his team, you pay to the creditor, and he
will be absolved from this deadline. Because yesterday,
		
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			he stood and prayed for him.
		
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			So brothers and sisters, if someone has loaned you money,
		
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			or you have loaned money to anyone, and you know who's passed away, forgive that. Forgive the sister
if you are able, if you do not need that money, even if you do, help your brother, help your sister.
If you know someone that has died while he's in debt, likewise, aid that person if you are capable
of aiding him with your financial ability
		
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			in Islam,
		
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			a continuous charity will likewise benefit the dead Muslim. And we know that children are monsters
charity, as the Hadith says three things will benefit the dead after they die. One, an ongoing
charity to
		
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			the child that says pray or praise for his father or mother and three knowledge that will continue
to be benefited from
		
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			now the children are the most important sort of child
		
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			It is that a person can leave behind him, as the Hadith mentions that the best earnings American
consumed is that which his hands have earned, and his children are found his earnings and his Shogun
are from his earnings. So, the brothers and sisters who have parents that have died, you as Muslims
are obliged, very, very highly to prostrate and seek forgiveness for your parents and everything
that you do that you give in charity, every prayer that you make every second every charity, every
fast, every pilgrimage, everything that you do, he the parent will be rewarded for that for medical
or physical do more acts of worship. For this your parents will benefit from it.
		
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			And there are many other things in sha Allah tala but time has beaten us and I see brothers that
begin began to procrastinate and full time so we'll leave it at that inshallah Allah and will allow
questions to be asked if there is any questions we have for Davina handler here on Villa alameen.
		
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			zocalo Hira, can you have that intention? In other words, can you say what I'm going to do is fully
absolutely for my parents for the rest of my life. Regardless whether you do this or not, you are in
Charlotte, Arizona for your parents.
		
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			You do not have to intend any action that you do as a son you ever buckle. Any action that you do as
a son your parents will get full rewards for it without you decreasing in reward in any way.
However, no doubt if you fully sort of make it for your parents solidly then there's extra reward in
the end child Matan, he put it on their behalf and only on the behalf as you as well get reward for
inshallah, but if you do, oh, the ultimate thing Absolutely. inshallah Tada. Yes, Elena is your
intention. So if you forget in Charlotte is excused because you have made the intention that from
now on, whatever I do is for my parents sake, you are allowed to throw three hand full of earth for
		
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			the filling of the grave, it is silly not to throw three handfuls.
		
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			Now you do not say anything you don't say as people said men have fallen out of fear and worry token
woman handle horizontally. This is baseless. This is baseless, you find in the box that is mentioned
there is no authentication for this whatsoever. The only problem in the US you withdraw and let
someone else have a chance. Very good question, who carries the responsibility, the burden of these
innovated matters? For example, as we saw that extreme white washing earlier on, now, does the
person get affected by this? Or does the relatives or those that commit this get affected? In other
words, do they carry the sin, if he if he the dead person, advise this advise this he will carry it
		
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			and they will he and they if he did not
		
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			advise this that will carry it. However, in your will brothers and sisters in your will, which every
single Muslim should have no matter how old you are. If you are at the age of discernment or
accountability you should all have a will have in that world. I do not want anyone to place
anything. Any decorated items over my grave I want it to be exactly as the sun advises. That's what
we are asked to do in our will to place this
		
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			The question is infj from their fruit tree alone, and why not?
		
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			Allow them why not unless you are sure you are certain that that tree is nourished or was nourished
from the flesh and the burns of the disease? I cannot answer that question because I do not know the
exact way of cultivation.
		
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			Allah the Quran next to the living still living on his deathbed is advisable is advisable. The
reason being is that he can still he said he may be admonished. Ah, it's a reminder for him to die
on Islam. So yes, as he is dying, if he can reflect, he can understand comprehend what you are
saying in his advice. There's no issue there. But once you're dead, you're dead.
		
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			And there is no reciting of the Quran on a dead body.
		
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			Very good question that is known to be a lead, which is known in English as the niche or the niche.
There's two ways of pronouncing it.
		
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			Now there is a look like a little chamber they have either inside the grave on the bottom. And
that's when the data is placed in that little chamber in that niche, he or she is covered with some
kind of barrier like plaster rock, whatever it may be or timber, anything that prevents the earth
from touching it, the body
		
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			or maybe on the bottom of the grave. And then you place it over the grave in a way on an angle where
it's not touching the dead person, that by their birth acceptable, you should not let the earth
touch the body.
		
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			That's the way we're taught.
		
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			It is for you to recognize that area as a grief.
		
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			A whole as a whole. If you want to go to your sort of relative then you can stand over the
relative's grave and say Allah, Allah for lack of whatever and so forth. You can't do that. But when
you enter you say a sedan or alayka Dr. Mina Mina will muslimeen we're in danger of law becoming a
sort of law Allah Allah Allah Matthew, what do you say to the non Muslims grave?
		
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			The really the dimension and
		
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			what do you say? Is it anything you say?
		
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			The Hadith mentions that you give them the glad tidings the solid idea of Hellfire by shooto khumba
now Yeah, and now
		
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			we give you the glad tidings
		
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			we give you the glad tidings of * fire or people of whole fire a lot.
		
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			The
		
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			you are allowed to cry but you are not allowed to weigh or why Oh, you are not to scream to your
clothes, rip your cheeks, pull your hair out, scream and so forth. Crying softly is not a problem.
		
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			No, if you cry loudly you can be punishing them. As the Hadith mentions one of the reasons why this
call is just allowed the latest to visit the graves is the uncontrollability
		
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			man if a lady cannot control herself at the grave she is not allowed whatsoever to go anywhere near
the grave. If she's a lady and ladies are allowed to visit the graves as long as they do not act in
a way of ignorance nangyari sample
		
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			you are allowed to visit the grave at night there was no problem whatsoever you heard me next.
		
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			The panel is accepted with some common perfume and the initial
		
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			purposes smell nice that you prepared on yourself. What do you watch the dead person for is the
cleaning. You can tell what's the purpose? He's got to get on the ground and get eaten. But you
still clean me Why should God be perfect? And he's ready for the question. like can you imagine
that?
		
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			The last time you had to get washed and you get washed in a beautiful way. Three times we don't even
watch three times so our souls now three times of soup and perfume and whatever they do a brilliant
job.
		
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			There is a narration yes there's a confirmation for the listener that the deceased will be punished
due to the crying or wailing of the relatives or the people.
		
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			Now if he has if he is innocent from all this and he advise against it in Charlotte Allah Allah is
adjust to adjust and inshallah we say he will not get harmed but Allah knows best is the narration
to confirm that with potential brother Horton.
		
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			You are allowed to wash your your wife and likewise she is allowed to wash you.
		
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			You are allowed to wash your father. You are not allowed to wash your mother.
		
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			You are allowed to wash your wife. You are not allowed to wash your sister. You are not allowed to
wash your mother You are not allowed to wash your daughter.
		
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			Now you are allowed to wash one
		
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			side besides your wife You cannot wash will if she died as a non Muslim. We cannot pray for her
whatsoever. We know that halifa Herrera and Muslim when he saw permission to visit the grave of his
mother. He was given permission. But when he sought permission to what to seek forgiveness for her.
It was declined. It was rejected because Mohammed's mother died as a pagan. Likewise his father as a
pagan. They both died on the belief holder the lair of idolatry Is that okay? If you
		
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			Visiting the grave and you see a statue on your way. Are you allowed to break it?
		
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			Well we are now in a position to start destroying and breaking demolishing.
		
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			If you have if we were in a place where we have the ability to take it back to an Islamic leader,
yes you will be and you'll be advised and commanded but we are in no position to do that. So I think
you better leave it as it is Alan as best
		
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			is it haram to wear a ring example wedding ring or just for the pleasure of wearing it? Is it how
long it is haram to wear a wedding ring? Yes it is. is not from Amanda Muslims. Muslim ethics is
from the non Muslim ways and tasks we don't resemble the people of infidelity.
		
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			in Medina, one of the companions has a big gold house and they go gate around it isn't that hot on
which house he talking about?
		
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			I do not know exactly where you are referring to. There is not one companion if you're referring to
the prophets grave Salaam. It's got nothing to do with a shrine or a mosque or whatever, just closed
area and you cannot leave the profits grave uncovered. The worst of Shrek will be committed. They're
the worst of shirk. Or even today they are committing shirk, they're trying to anyway, that's why
you have security guards everywhere around the Prophet grave. One time when I was doing my
scholarship in 1996.
		
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			I was next to the prophets grave or just sort of observing because you get people from all over the
world. Now there was a brother from the subcontinental. He was doing circles going from Webster
lamb, from Tbilisi, Brazil, and turning, turning, he was caught by the security guard. He asked him
What are you doing? Because please, please one more one more shot. Amato if I have done any six or
one more left, he was actually circumambulating the grave. Man this is what you
		
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			witness witnessing there. And what happens if you do not restrict those people of ignorance.
		
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			But there is no companion there that have a house built on top of them. Nor the porcelain there's no
house built on top the sun is a security or safe guarding against every evil that may be committed
if it wasn't. Every night before I sleep I feel as though I am going to die in my sleep. I feel as
though I'm not going to wake up. What does this mean?
		
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			Well, it doesn't mean anything. It's just a whisper. However, prepare yourself before it does
happen. Because that may happen. You may sleep and you may never wake up. And there's a verse in
this in the Quran, that Allah Allah takes the souls while will sleep while sleeping. Those heat some
he may return and some he may never ever written. So if Allah tala has written you in the start of
the Ye, as among those who will die, and that ye, you may never ever wake up again. mentioned that
failing so
		
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			that one day you're going to sleep and not wake up alone. And this is going to happen brothers and
sisters one by one day is going to come that you're going to close your eyes and never ever open
them again. Except when you get resurrected or back in the grave.
		
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			Absolutely is like a lion you are allowed to put a mark such as a stern or a word or anything of
that type in order for the grave to be recognized as a grave tonight.
		
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			They their first bird seat where
		
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			they believe by throwing that actually saw that there are people that are so bags of bird seeds and
other sort of
		
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			feeding material to the birds. And they believe that this is actually a blessing by feeding the
birds in the Prophet's mosque or around the Prophet's mosque because the Heron day, and by feeding
them they have that belief that you are doing extremely good for the birds. You are feeding them so
you get blessed for hate for taking care of the creatures, the birds and the no significance
whatsoever. There's no significance whatsoever.
		
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			Good question as a person if a person becomes senile or become stable or is an eight or you can say
he's got no sanity normal, he is not accounted he is not accounted he will be accounted to the time
he is still aware, alert or vigilant. So Allah tala will not judge a person when you know he is
incapable of doing what he's supposed to do. I am an ecobee niqab remains the placement of the hijab
on the face. Is it okay if I wear a nose ring? Yes It is okay if you wear a nose ring, but you do
not expose that nose ring only to your husband. Although
		
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			See who you are not allowed to marry? How do you know which grade belongs to her? If you if you
can't write on it, you are not supposed to know you should know when the time of the burial when you
bury the dead, you should know who his grave it is, then if you do not, it's the way it is your
unfortunate situation. It is the way that we were told by Mohammed Salah lover that he was settled
and let us not get into philosophy here.
		
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			is in the prophets grave decorated?
		
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			Or at least surrounded? Absolutely not. You are far from the truth there.
		
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			He's graves exactly as the companions grievious soil before rock on that nothing else the soil is
That's all it is. And that is the best creature that walked this earth. The best creature Salalah
		
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			is around to have a graveyard at the place of worship example. In the mosque grounds. Now you are
not allowed to build a grave in a mosque. And if a grave is built in a mosque, you are not allowed
to praying that mosque and that mod that grave must be demolished.
		
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			And the gray porcelain is not in the mosque. It is not in the mosque. If you go there you will see
it's like it's an insertion there that leads to outside and that is not part of the mosque. So do
not be fooled and believe that the mosque or the grade is built in the mosque it is not absolutely I
need to go there you can get to the bucket itself is 1000s of grace.
		
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			And why is it better there's no need for the proof the proof isn't the same as apostle them and his
actions and he's what we can see. Now
		
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			the reason behind why the name is not allowed and so forth. We can say one reason behind that is
because if we knew that his person for example, loved the most food what's gonna happen, people are
gonna take it as a shrine as a place of worship as a mosque, they're gonna worship His grave. Now
wonder why people are worshipping the graves because they they so called Oh yeah, too many people
they know the names, the names is there, a shrine is bought and so forth. You are not allowed to
pray in the graveyard whatsoever. You are allowed to pray the funeral pray after the burial, after
the burial not before the burial. If the person has been buried, and you have not prayed over this
		
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			dead person, the buried divert the burial was completed, the death is completed you are allowed to
stand towards the grave and pray the funeral prayer as performed by Mohammed Salaam to the lady who
was known as soldier who used to take care of the mosque and he did not pray on her. When he was
asked about when he asked about her. He was told that she died they prayed on her and they buried
her he went to the grave and bowed on her. You are not allowed to travel to any grave anywhere in
the world. anywhere in the world. You are allowed to travel to the Prophet's mosque sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam, it is haram to travel to the grave of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
		
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			However, there are the thing or the allowance he is to three mosques in Islam, which the Hadith
mentioned tighten the belt only to three who knows the three. The Prophet's mosque is one,
		
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			the sacred house in Mecca and beta Locksley in Palestine. Let us all tighten our belts and go to
Palestina.
		
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			Now if you're there, sorry, if you're there, you might as well give him Sam. Absolutely abnormal
would go in front of them and say salam alayka Rasool Allah get Oba salam alayka abdelkarim sir mo
salam alayka, Rama, yeah, Bharti. They used to make idols.
		
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			When in the past, of course, they made a lot. That's how either worshipping began, due to the
images, they brought over them statues, constructions and so forth. They made them into shrines. And
if you go to the Syria, you find a mosque called a huge mosque, one of the biggest in the world
masters dilemma we were in it they claim to have property here, his head or his body, I'm not sure.
And I went there to visit this mosque. And I found out that they claim they believe that his grave
isn't there. It's still surrounded by a cage and you get people just worshipping it, seeking
blessings. They wipe in their hands on the still frame and the sake inform you and asked me to
		
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			fulfill their desires and their needs and everything is the worst corruption, absolute infidelity in
its essence. That grave should not be there. It's in the mosque, and anyone that goes there, you are
not allowed to pray in that mosque.
		
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			You are not allowed to find that mosque if it is true what they claimed
		
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			Now you should not make your backyard a cemetery. And I don't think he's going to ever ever be
allowed. So
		
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			wait, you considering making it back to your backyard at home? You're gonna bury in your little
kitten.
		
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			You're gonna get you can probably the cat in the in a dog.
		
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			That's a guard dog or hunting dog or farm dog, not a pet dog.
		
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			Can you rebury someone in there? Yes, if you have not.
		
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			If there is a reason behind your construction in a particular area, and the burns had been
decomposed, it's gone. It's nothing there. And you you are in dire need of that place you are
allowed to do something. And scholars have said is disliked in this situation. However, it is
allowed in the most correct opinion, just as it is it out to build to bury someone ever it if you
need that position. That's after the bones have become decomposed. But it's not advisable
whatsoever.
		
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			You cannot tell or define the exact measure due to you not knowing how long it will take. But
naturally you will know why digging it up. No.
		
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			That's if you are in need of that place, say against necessity. Yes, it is absolutely you are
allowed to move if there's a need for that area. Or if it's a betterment for the person in the
grave. Or if you want to re bury someone in that grave and has no other room for it. But the grave
you are allowed as long as the body he decomposes, does nothing left.
		
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			Yes, you can. Yes. And it's happened to have offered. And many other situations where companions
have moved the dead from one place to another in the battle or heard that actually, when they dug
the body out, they found the body in the same way in full tap the day it was buried. This is months
after that the actual wounds was still bleeding.
		
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			The third day gathering for morning is absolutely wrong. There's no basis whatsoever. Oh, it's an
innovation the third day, the seventh day, the 20th day, the 40th day 100th day, the anniversary of
the day of death. This is all an Islamic. Whoa, we mentioned earlier in one of our lessons that the
non Muslims or the Muslim sorry, if the animal was constipating that will take it to the non Muslims
graveyard. And we know that the animals all creation other than human and Gene can hear the
punishment of the grave. So they will take it to a graveyard of paganism and so forth. And it will
no longer be constipating after that. It will drop its droppings and tasks run like a beast.
		
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			Absolutely not. It's just deep enough that Earth does not uncover it deep enough that it's going to
be safe. That is the reason.
		
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			Now you are not allowed to have members of the same family same grade you can have next to the grave
and not in the same grave. Absolute wrong. There was no basis of what we saw any Koran. Look, listen
carefully. Why is it helpful?
		
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			Why do you recite it every time in your prayer? What is the reason behind it for guidance, you know
not for not for a day for the living. If you reflect upon the verses in the Fatiha, which I would
like every single brother to go and reflect upon understand that and see the benefit in it for the
living the dead is dead, you cannot benefit. There's no you're saying say give him the got this
great guidance of those who have bestowed upon favor that did you are allowed to have multiple
graves in an occurrence of the Battle of offered where there were so many dead, that we all know
many died at least 70 companions, they buried them in one grave one ditch. now in this situation you
		
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			are allowed. You are allowed you forward the most righteous who you believe like for example fun
memorizes the Quran has memorized more than the other he comes first, then the next then the next
accordance that we did today Islam you are alone. We have asked the question Are you allowed to pray
for the dead more than once? Now scholars asked about this that were different in this matter Some
say you are not allowed and some say if you have already proud of the dead it is no problem if you
pray again and the correct opinion Charla which Allah is respected as well is that you are allowed
there's no harm done whatsoever. Both inshallah opinions and burfi stated. Are you allowed to pray
		
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			the funeral of absence, for example, the prayer that is prayed over the dead are you allowed to pray
if you are not present in his place in the country where he died in likewise scholars differently
		
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			issue we know and he wrote a lot and who was prayed by Mohammed Al Salam in Medina, even though he
died were
		
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			in Ethiopia and Habesha ever senior. And he, he at the same time, pray for him in Medina after his
death, we say Alan, that you are allowed, you are allowed
		
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			to pray due to this narration. However, there is another opinion that say you are not allowed but
the Hadith is there for us to confirm the authenticity of this issue.
		
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			We can put the lawnton Allah
		
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			next lesson is resurrection. Our next lesson is resurrection. So, if you have any more questions of
the grave asked tonight will be the last time yes every single person will get the question of the
grave every single person Muslim and non Muslim the exact gravity of that question a lot of data,
but every single person you are not allowed to donate organs to anonymous to a non Muslim, but to
Muslim Yes, not to a non Muslim to a Muslim in the most correct opinion you are allowed minute
		
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			blood you are to both Muslim and non Muslim. Yes, you can very good question and that has happened
in the past. If you are on a ship, you are far from the shore where you cannot make a burial there
then you must place it in the ocean but place something on him that is heavy so you can go to the
bottom of the ocean and be eaten there. Otherwise we'll float and there is a pressing the body you
play something on the body that is heavy and fast you will sink to the bottom of the ocean and that
you are advised to do it ASAP. Otherwise the body will contain
		
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			a
		
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			bad smell.
		
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			It's called a stench absolutely not
		
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			you are not allowed to go and sign your license for example, even though they weren't accepted these
days.
		
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			And say that I would like to donate my body parts to
		
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			any any person after iodine is unacceptable.
		
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			You are allowed to Muslim
		
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			to any organization well scores have differed here your latitude to non Muslim and the correct
opinion amongst them is that inshallah you are allowed to travel you are allowed
		
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			especially to those that may be close to Islam, but you may not know that, however, allow them that
is their opinion and with respect to inshallah.
		
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			Now you should not curse them because they're hard to say
		
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			but should have been now. So give them the glad tidings of hope for you. You can say in general and
a lot of caffeine. that a lot of shaking a curse to pagans or the curse of disbelievers in general.
But you'd have to go stand up the grass on the cursor, a cursor on the cursor. The Hadith says give
them the glad tidings of Hellfire inshallah we'll stick to that I am allowed to take the body from
one country to another. We say it is allowed if there's no harm to the body whatsoever. If there's
no harm to the body whatsoever, and if it is done promptly, promptly, yes. If it's delayed, it's
actually if you actually oppressed in the body. And if you can, if you die for example he and you
		
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			are if you are sort of given the security, the confirmation that indefinitely will be taken to
Medina and buried or straightaway you are better off
		
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			like if I was confirmed that I can die today here right and be taken to Medina and buried there. I
would not allow them to bury me here or prefer regarding Mohammed Medina. But that's got to be done
immediately. It is delayed. You are present in the body.
		
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			Absolutely nothing can be touched. Me no one narration or not narration when I was in Saudi Arabia,
one of the brothers died in a car accident he was doing his Islamic course there. And all the
shapes. They want him to remain there. This brother was from from Kosovo. His parents called for him
to be taken back to Kosovo. They've done everything to the best of the capability to get him buried
there. They said we'll pay for your tickets the whole family to come and witness the burial here.
They did not want that they wanted his body over there. So they had no option but to send the body
there.
		
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			That was a big mistake because they had you said if you're able to die in Medina then die in Medina
that was get buried in Medina exactly where they get buried.
		
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			It becomes a burial or graveyard cemetery. Look at Oxford for example. look at whether
		
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			they buried exactly what I died
		
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			in area now it's become us
		
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			cemetery
		
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			yes the place that they 14 will live in at the shelter no effort I went hungry