Farhan Abdul Azeez – Sweetness of Hajj – 01 – Introduction

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The importance of hedging is emphasized, including the headsail and learning Islam. The speakers emphasize the importance of hedging for health and family reasons, as well as physical and mental health, including physical preparation, staying in the moment experience, and avoiding getting lost. They also advise hedge owners to improve their character through hedges and patient behavior, and suggest avoiding getting into trouble by following hedge laws and focusing on their health and family.

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			sundara mannerheim and hamdulillahi Rabbil alameen wa salatu salam ala rasulillah Juana and he was a
big man he had two brothers and sisters is a journey to the house of Allah subhanho wa Taala it's a
journey to the house of Allah and Allah subhanaw taala he commanded Ibrahim alayhis salaam, in Soto
to the Hajj in Surah number 22 verse 27 lessons that is as well as the
		
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			nasty Bill had to carry jala
		
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			MIDI, Tina Ming Khalifa Jin ami, Allah Montana says and proclaimed to mankind the call to Hajj was
infinity bill Hodge law says that they will come to you on foot and on every lean camel, they will
come from every deep and distant mountain highway to perform the Hajj. Right even my bass he says
that when I brought him on, he said I'm completed building the Kaaba. So he was building the cabinet
with with this man and he soon after he completed building the cab, but Allah Subhana Allah
commanded him to make this call for Hajj. So Ibrahim asked Allah subhanho wa Taala he says Don't be
one Maja blue salty. Oh my Lord. Who am I voice reach at this time whenever I listen, I'm built the
		
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			Kava, nobody's there in Mecca. Right. There's very few people is that just like who's gonna hear the
call of heads a lot of data tells him he says you know as vinuela and Bella, just make the call and
I'll take care of the rest. It's upon me the last thing is my job to let the message reach the
people. And so he made the call he says uh, you know, scooty Valley cumin has you know, innovated it
idea. All Mankind. It has been prescribed to you to perform heads to the ancient house of Allah
subhana wa Tada. And the narration says for semia human being a summary while he says that
everything between the heavens and the earth heard this call and lessons have caused everything to
		
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			hear the call of abode on Imani Sam then headed says I fell out sorona and the NASA g Unum in
Uppsala EULA Boone. Don't you see that people come from that most distant lands, all coming singular
big aloha mela big calling answering the call of Allah subhanho wa Taala. So how do you brothers and
sisters is a pillar of Islam. Hajj is a pillar of Islam as a headsails bruneian Islam Allah hubbs
right Islam is built upon five pillars, right? Shahada, the testimony of faith and there's no one
worthy of worship of Allah and that Muhammad is His Messenger solo on even send them right and then
what the five daily prayers will send me Ramadan, right and giving us a cat and then fasting
		
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			Ramadan. And then we had Gil Bates who had * and journey to the house of Allah subhanho wa
Taala. And without these pillars, there is no building right? This is the basics. This is what we
all learned in Sunday school when we were you know, five years old. And from the earliest days, we
learned the five pillars of Islam, right height is one of the pillars of Islam. And without the
pillars, there is no building, right? The rest of us dam is built upon these pillars of snap. Right?
The rest of his time is built upon these, this foundation. And those of you who've gone before, who
How many of you have gone to hazard before Show of hands. Mashallah A lot of people have gone to
		
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			hazard before. So those of you who've gone You know, it's a life changing experience, right? There's
nothing like it. And every year when hedges time comes, the heart has a strong emptiness is longing
to go back to the house have a lifespan of what's out every year, like you'll find yourself on
Google, you're at work or you're at home or whatever, and you're just Google imaging the Kava or
you're going to like channels that stream the cabin or just watching the cabin filling your heart
with the memories of Hajj from before. It's a life changing experience. Because it's not just the
journey of the bodies, the journey of the heart as well. It's not just a physical journey of the
		
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			body, but the journey of the heart. lives are changed. Lives are completely changed by this journey
of heights. But here's my question to you brothers and sisters. What about the millions of people
who have never gone to Hajj before millions of Muslims have never gone to Hajj before let's take it
a step further. Right? You can if you think about it, the overwhelming majority of Muslims actually
don't have the ability to perform Hajj. Right and we'll briefly talk about as soon what are the
requirements that make you know make you obligatory to go to Hajj. Right The majority of Muslims
don't have the ability to go to Hajj, the majority of the Muslims who have spent their life and
		
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			they'll pass away having not performed Hajj they haven't performed Hajj. So my question is the, for
the for it to be a pillar of Islam upon which the religion is built. How is it that so many people
won't perform this one pillar? How is it a pillar if so many people can perform this pillar? Right?
And the answer is brothers and sisters that hedge is not just for the Hajaj hedge isn't just for
those who are going to hedge hedges for everyone else panels and essays in Soros or hedge in the
next hour after Ibrahim nsna makes a call in verse 28 sorts of hygiene says Leah shadowman afia
home. Allah says that they may witness benefits that are theirs. He says the home lamp technique
		
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			they own This is ownership. These are benefits that they're supposed to get from hedge Leah
shadowman Fei the home right so there's benefits from hedge. There's lessons from hedge there's
principals from hedge their brothers and sisters you and I should learn and apply in our life
whether we've gone for hedge or not, whether we are going or not whether we have a chance to go
right now. Maybe it
		
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			How your life is you have no no prospect in the near future of being able to perform Hajj you just
don't see it happening. But Allah subhanaw taala wants you to learn the lessons from hedge. Right?
So brothers and sisters, that's why this class is so important and unique is that because this
course has three main goals, this whole course today and tomorrow, three main goals, number one is
that we cover the flip of hedge. So I want everybody to leave tomorrow night's being comfortable
with the different situations of hedge, what's required of them? What are the you know, the
differences of opinion, and what can what they can do every step of the way. And we'll go through
		
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			the footsteps of the Messenger of Allah send them through the whole journey of hedge. And we'll also
cover the difference of opinions amongst the Imams. Number two is the cover in depth, and the focus
of the course the spiritual aspects of Hajj. Right, so you understand every step of the way, what
you're doing every step, what it is that you're doing, what's the meaning? What's the spiritual
benefit behind it? What's the life changing lesson behind saying the baker lahoma bake? What's the
life changing lesson behind wearing that, with every step of the way, you were gonna stop and look
at the spiritual aspects. And number three, as we said, For everyone else, lessons that you can live
		
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			your life by. So whether you've got to hide, you're not in Charlottetown, you live the life of
someone who has gone to Hajj before because brothers and sisters, every aspect of our worship, every
aspect of our worship has an external component, and also has an internal component. Right? Those of
you who tend to sweetness of sauna a few months ago, we talked about the internal components of
Salah. Right? So physically, we just pray, so lots of Muslim, right, but spiritually, how much of
it? Were we actually there for where we actually concentrating on? How much of us How much? How many
of us remember what we said and to do? Like, did we make them out or not? Or was our mind focused on
		
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			something else or whatever. There's this there's this spiritual internal component of the act of
worship, and similarly has it's no different. There's a very powerful, multiple, you know, internal
lessons that we should learn from hedge as well. Why is this course important? As I said, it's very
unique. It's dedicated for the hijab and the non Hajaj and, and here's the thing, for those of you
who are going to hedge, often the people who get to go to hedge only go once in their life, right?
Maybe if you're lucky, you get a second chance, right? majority of people if they go, they go once,
rain is a big investment, you're taking two to three weeks out of your time, you're paying anywhere
		
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			from six to up to $20,000 for the premium premium luxury five star, you know, they bring the
jemalloc to you kind of package, right? That's a large amount of money, a huge investment you're
making and it would be a terrible tragedy if you spend this much time and this much money and you go
there and you don't get the benefits that you need to get the benefits of right isn't that just as
foolish right? So it's a worthwhile investment to put the time in to learn about hygiene so that way
you get the most out of it shall tada when you go
		
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			now, before we get into the you know the topic today prepare your provisions. Let's just cover some
very basic things about hedge number one, what does hedge mean? What does hedge mean? And I'll share
with you the shadow a meaning the religious meaning of the word hedge and a little later we'll cover
the linguistic meaning hedge brothers and sisters in Islam, it means to set out to the sacred house
in Mecca, to set out to the house of Allah, the Kaaba in Mecca, in order to perform specific rights
at a specific time, again, how simply put is a journey that you set out to the house of Allah
subhanaw taala the caliber to perform specific rights at specific at a specific time. And as we
		
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			said, it's a pillar of Islam. When does it become obligatory on someone, the majority of the
scholars they hold that is why jubbaland fold. It's obligatory as soon as possible, meaning like, as
soon as you meet the conditions, it's obligatory, right? So what do they say?
		
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			What that means is that if you delay Hajj and you had the ability to go, you met the conditions, and
we'll talk about it in a second. If you met the conditions for Hajj and you didn't go for Hajj, you
are sinful. You've committed a major sin. It's the equivalent of someone the time for slots a load
comes in, and they don't pray slots.
		
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			They don't pray slots of load. When it comes another room comes and they miss a prayer altogether.
If you had the means to go think back in your life, if you had the means to go to Hajj a year and
you didn't go, then you have committed a sin. And if you didn't know that, what if you didn't know
you have also committed a sin, you've still committed a sin because this is basic knowledge of the
religion that everyone is required to have. You can't plead ignorance on this because this is just
like how to make will do and how to pray. These are basics of the religion that we have to we're
required to know and it's unremarkable how few people know about hedge because hedges oftentimes,
		
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			it's a it's considered something, I'm only going to do one I have to go for it right. I'm going to
learn about it when I have to go if that majority of people they don't even learn about until then
they learn about it when they get there asking their email. Right so it's it's a it's critically
important that we perform when we're able to do so and what are the conditions before we mentioned
the conditions. I don't know how Bob he has a couple very interesting statements. Remember that you
don't have a whole lot to add or he stays in his book in the cupboard. He says that he he said I
have considered sending men to different cities.
		
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			To see who has made the pilgrimage, who has not made the pilgrimage I'm sorry, who has not made the
pilgrimage
		
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			and he says that
		
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			I am going to collect from them the jizya tax. For those who had the ability to go to Hajj but
didn't go and they haven't gotten yet in their life, I was gonna make them pay the jizya what is the
jizya the juicy as the tax that non Muslims paid Muslim land.
		
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			non Muslims plenty saying those who had the ability to go for Hajj and didn't go and they haven't
yet gone in their life. I was gonna collect the jizya from them. Another narration I'm gonna call
Bobby says whoever can afford hedge, but did not perform it. There is no difference in his case, if
he dies while being Jew or Christian. That's how serious of an issue it is. Right? Why don't we
buckle down who when the Muslims refuse to pay the cap, right? They're Muslims, but they're saying
you know what, this is one pillar of Islam, we have nothing to do with it. We're not going to pay to
the cat
		
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			who waged a war against these people? He waged war against them because they rejected one pillar of
Islam. So hedges a pillar of Islam. So I'm hoping we get an idea of how important it is and how
important it is for us to recognize that. So what are the conditions that make Hajj obligatory?
Right, so this is some of the fifth what are the conditions that make Hajj obligatory. Number one,
that you are a Muslim, that you're a Muslim, if you're a Muslim, of course, then that's required of
you to go to Hajj. Number two, that you have the same mind what they say in the Arabic language,
		
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			you have the same mind is Europe's a person of sanity. If that's the case, then you also meet the
second condition. So being Muslim and being of sane mind number three. The third condition is to be
in a state of adulthood. Nanny balos someone who's reached a state of adulthood now in America, once
you're 18 years old, you're an adult, right? Once you're 21 is legal for you to buy, buy, buy
alcohol, right that's that's how they have it as if when you're 2020 years old, and in three and 64
days you so it's not legal and something all of a sudden changes when you become 21 years old.
Right? And it's time adulthood, you're responsible for yourself when as soon as you reach puberty,
		
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			as soon as you become an adult, and it could be 10 years old, 12 years old. 13 whatever age it is,
that's when it becomes required of you. What about someone who performed Hajj as a child? Someone
who performed had as a child, their parents took them to hydrate them is it required that they
perform Hajj again, what do you think?
		
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			Yes, it is required the process let me send an authentic hadith AML sabi hija he says somebody from
a better family has written authorizes any young man or woman who has performed Hajj then he says,
and he reaches you know, adulthood, he reaches the age of puberty, then it is upon him to make a
hedge another hedge. So he gets the reward of the first hedge the mercy of Allah subhanaw taala
gives him the reward of the first hedge, but it doesn't remove the obligation of hydroponics. So
someone who made hedges a child, he still is required to make hedge again. So the first three
conditions number one is
		
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			the Muslim number two is
		
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			a sane mind number three is ban of being an adult very good number four and Hurriya. being free,
being free, meaning someone who is a slave back in the day this is more relevant. If you were a
slave, you know, then it's removed from you the obligation of going to Hajj or someone who's in
jail, for example, whether by you know, justly or unjustly, right now we have over 100,000 people in
Syria who've been jailed unjustly, right. In Egypt, we have 1000s of believers in Egypt who are put
in jail unjustly, right being sentenced to death unjustly, right, these people, whether just or
unjust, whether they committed a crime or not, those who are you know, don't have the freedom to
		
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			leave, they're in jail, then they're they're there, they're exempt from performing hajj, but those
of you who are free then this is also meets one of the requirements number five, and it's the PA LST
PA, which means the ability, the ability to go for hedge and this this under this category falls
three things so in your notes, you can put five a five B five c okay five A is the financial ability
to go to hedge right highs it's pretty expensive, right? So if you don't have the means you don't
have the financial ability, you know, you're living paycheck to paycheck, whatever it is, you have
all these payments, you have to make you're in debt, whatever, then it's not required of you, you're
		
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			you're you're absolved from the requirement, if you have the means you have the extra $8,000 or
whatever in your bank account $6,000 in your bank account.
		
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			What's the next five number five B is the the physical means money, the the the the health, you have
the health to perform hajj, right, someone who's in the hospital, and he has he has all the other
conditions but he's hospitalized, then he's exempt, or he's sick and he cannot go, he's paralyzed,
he cannot go all these things would fall he would be exempt and he's not required to perform Hajj.
And the number five see the number three under under five is that the security to go to hedge the
security to go hedge and this encompasses different things back in the day meant something different
than now. Although now and still relevant some places but meaning like you have a reasonable
		
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			reason to believe that you have a safe path to go to Hajj. For example, someone who doesn't get the
visa is a little more relevant, right somebody they want to go to Hajj they have all the means they
apply, but they don't get approved for the visa. Then they're absolved from the obligation, right.
They've tried and they didn't get the
		
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			means to do so some handle that I've seen people who've gone they've got the visa and everything
they've got the tickets, they go from America, they land in Frankfurt, Germany, and they don't have
the ticket to go the rest of the way. It's been canceled they have to go back home. So hannula right
if you don't have the means or whatever is handled by those who go to hedge they're the guests of
Allah. Allah Allah Allah chose these people to be his guests this year right it's by invitation only
right you can plan all you want but listen is by invitation only he'll call you to hedge right so
there's those are the five conditions and there's the six conditions a scholar mentioned for sisters
		
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			specifically and that is that you have a maximum to travel with you to hedge that you have a maximum
with you to travel with you to hedge and I'm Adam is you know, a close male relative to you who's
who cannot. who cannot marry you like your husband, obviously your husband, he's already married to
you. He's your mom, or like, father, brother, that kind of thing. Okay, um, Adam who can travel with
you to hatch for the sisters? So that's the requirement of
		
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			what makes Hajj an obligation. What about the greatness of hedge? What are some of the rewards of
hedge what are some of the Forgotten of hedge their promises enemy season? ahaadeeth he's not so he
didn't go to the mat but you know, Huma will Hadrian Mabu Lisa who down in London Rosana says
between two cameras that you perform at wipes out all that's in between them all the sins in between
them. If you perform ama now and maybe five years later, all the sins in between wiped out. Then he
says science alum will have junior member or an accepted hedge and a hedge performed appropriately.
Lisa who designed in an agenda has no reward except for paradise. Just as five days Hatch's just
		
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			five days that's all it is. It's it can even it's five days that's it and if you do it right you get
these five days right and what do we mean by right the fifth wise are following it. You're getting
the benefits of the understanding what you're doing, and you don't do commit any things that would
nullify your hedge. They said who does out in legend agenda is yours. That's remarkable. I mean,
that's that's enough about you. We don't need to say anything else. But there's more so Pinilla the
president of the SES is one of the greatest deeds that you can do. I showed him on how she goes to
the messenger of a loss alum and she says Yasuda law nephrology has done a phenomenal job. She says
		
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			O Messenger of Allah we see we consider jihad, FISA be the law to be the best deal possible that one
can do. The most rewarding deed is to fight in the way of Allah subhanho wa Taala. That's what we
consider. So she's saying me as a woman, as the wife of the Messenger of Allah, she's saying we as
woman I Fernando Jaya, can we not fight in the way of Allah subhana wa Tada. And what is the measure
of autism? Tell her she say he says that what lack enough knowledge he had had Jim Rohn. He says, He
says no, but the best Jihad for the woman is an accepted hedge, a hedge performed properly that's
accepted by law students out and this is in Bukhari, right? So the man the the magnificence and the
		
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			amount of reward for hedges. Remarkable. Number three, it forgives one since our last one who he was
one of the companions in the messenger of a loss I sent him. And when he was on his deathbed, his
son came to him and he began.
		
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			You know, he was in his last moment. So son is reminding him of the good things that have said about
him. He's Oh, my father, you know, Allah has sent him said such and such about you, and gave you
glad tidings such and such and such and such. So the narrations he lost his face was turned to the
wall. And after his son said this, he turned, he turned to his son. And then he says that, according
to Allah, Akbar, cantera, his last words to his son, he's saying, in my life, I've gone through
three stages. I've gone through three stages in my life, he says, the first stage, he says, I found
myself averse to none more than the messenger of a loss. And I said, No, I was not more angry with
		
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			and more upset with and more hateful towards anyone than the messenger of a loss. I said, No. And he
says that and there was no desire stronger in me than the one that I should overpower him and kill
him.
		
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			He's saying, the first stage of my life, I hated the messenger of a loss. I said, I'm to the point
that the my eye drempt I slept, I woke up all my mind was I want to kill the Messenger of Allah. And
I said, No. And then he says, and I had I died in the States, I would have surely been from the
people of the hellfire. Then he says, When Allah and still love for Islam in my hearts, and I came
to the Messenger of Allah, and I send them and he said to me, stretch out your hand, so that you may
pledge allegiance.
		
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			So he stretched out his right hand to the Messenger of Allah I sent him and as a messenger of Allah,
I said, I'm stuck out his hand, he pulled his hand back. He pulled his hand back.
		
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			And so the president told him, What happened to you?
		
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			Why did you do that? Right? And so he says, He says, I want to lay down some conditions on the
house, he's about to take the Shahada, but he says, I want to put some conditions down on messenger
of Allah. So it wasn't him say he said it to me mouth. Let me be mad, be mad that what are the
conditions that you have? And he says, and you'll follow me that I'm forgiven my condition on
messenger of Allah I'm going to take us accept us that is I'm forgiven for all that I've done
before. So the Messenger of Allah I send them he says that I'm an alum to Islam Yeah, do Americana
tabula rasa. Do Americana Kabbalah Ha, ha ha ha ha de McCann
		
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			kubla He says, Oh, hello Don't you know he sees Mr. Lim Don't you know that the fact that Islam
wipes out the previous previous misdeeds? And he says, Yeah, I mean he like destroys like if you if
you lived a life so far away from a lessons that you've literally built up, like you've already
built like a huge home for you and Hellfire, not in a paradise and Hellfire, like you've secured
your spot and Hellfire, you're so established in sin that
		
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			you can feel like there's no hope for you. President says that the one who reverts to Islam, Islam
he has a mechanical blah. It not just wipes out it destroys everything that was before our last one
of the leading enemies of Islam is now brand new slates. Then he says and also Don't you know that
higit Allah destroys everything that came before all its sins and He says and Don't you know that
Hajj destroys all the things that came before you go to hedge everything you're coming back as
outside as a brand new thing as a messenger boss. I said MCs man hijjah phenom yada fourth, what am
Yep, so Raja kiyomi. What are the two, the one who performs hides and doesn't perform what often and
		
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			fisc? He doesn't have relations with his spouse when it's forbidden to do so. And he doesn't perform
any Fisk fisken the Arabic language, the Arabs would say fess up until the seed that burst out the
seed burst out. So what does that mean? fisken in Islam means you burst out of the boundaries. Allah
has said certain things you can and cannot do. So the one who goes to Hajj doesn't have relations
with a spouse and doesn't, you know, do any fisc breakout from the boundaries that Allah has set for
Hajj, then he will come back like the day his mother gave birth to him. He will come back like the
day his mother gave birth to him. So I'm going to ask he told a messenger last I sent him he says
		
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			after he said that, and he says no one was more dear to me, than the Messenger of Allah says send me
sees. And there was no one more precious in my eyes and he says what am I going to do? and Emma I
mean, who isn't Allah Allah he says I couldn't even after that moment, I couldn't even look at the
Messenger of Allah say Salaam and fill my eyes with the beauty of his face out of honor towards him.
He says, and he had you asked me at this time in my life to describe the Messenger of Allah, I
wouldn't be able to do so. I don't know how much I love the Messenger of Allah. And he thinks that I
had I died at that time in my life, then I would have hoped that I would have went to Jenna. Then
		
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			the third stage of his life, he says is that that he says, after her son died, all what has happened
has happened. And now I don't know where I stand. And now I don't know where I stand. So Hajj,
forgives one sins and that just forgives it completely wipes out all your previous history. Another
the benefits of Hajj and there are many others shared this last one for you is that there are some
essays and Hajaj when Omar Wafula the Hejaz in the amount of those who perform hajj and umrah. The
President says that they are the delegation of all US panelists, as you know, when you're when you
go to meet royalty, you send a delegation, right? Allah, Allah saying that the people who come to
		
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			hedge are the delegation of everyone else. So the people who go to Hajj every year Allah has chosen
them to represent all the rest of mankind to come to his house. The house which he says no Quran, or
Hadith at my house, he says is my house. So come to my house. He says that.
		
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			He says that the judge Mr. or the wife, the law in Tao Hua, Jabba Oman is still around. He says that
I'm saying that if they call upon Allah and Allah Allah answers their call, so one of the benefits
of Hajj is your is answered one of the benefits of what is your answer and he says that if they ask
Allah for forgiveness, then Allah will forgive them and this book has had eaten narrating the books
have been magic, and it is hesson.
		
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			So what is hedging mean from a linguistic perspective? hedge from a linguistic perspective, hedge
literally means us. calf saw dollar cost. What does that mean? That means an aim a destination, like
you have a goal in mind, right? So like when you shoot an arrow, and the arrow goes to its target,
that that's what the example of hedge is that you're the arrow, the one who's performing hedge is
the arrow and the target is the beta of Allah subhanaw taala. So the arrow doesn't waver, it goes
straight in is going to his target and hits its target. That's the goal of hedge. Right? It means us
to have an aim and your aim is the house of a left panel. What's the right it's a it's a law's
		
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			house. Imagine the honor of that that you're going to the house of Allah spawn Tada. And what that
means is that it implies if you are a Hajj if you are a casa, if you're someone who is aimed and
focus on the destination, that means you'll leave off any distractions. Right. This is important to
understand, very important to understand further Hajaj and Fernanda judge, that when your aim is
Allah, you leave off any distractions, right, you leave off any distractions. So leave off any
disagreements with who number one most importantly with Allah subhanho wa Taala. So if you have
disagreement between you and Allah, meaning you're committing sins that you shouldn't be committing,
		
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			number one, if your goal is to reach the house of a law, you have to leave those sends off. And
number two is disagreements amongst the people to leave off any disagreements that you have with
anyone else. And if you don't do so, if you get
		
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			distracted you argue with people you this you that when you're in hajj, then you're not by
definition, you're not accosted, you're not a Hajj, you're not someone whose aim is Allah subhanaw
taala let me give you this example, if you're, if you're a boss at work tells you by by by Tuesday,
I need this project done, has to be done. That's it. I mean, this is the most important important
project in the company, you are the man responsible, you need to have it done. by Tuesday, you have
five days to this is a weekend now but you will spend the weekend this labor day you will spend this
weekend you know, your jobs on the line, you won't go to any anywhere else, you won't go on
		
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			vacation, you'll cancel your family plans. You know, your son wants to do this, sorry, I can't I
don't have time your friend calls you Let's go play basketball. Sorry, I don't have time. You know,
you have a big exam coming up, whatever it is, you have something in front of you. Everything else
becomes secondary, right? Right. When you have a final exam, you know, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday,
Thursday, you could hang out but Thursday night, there's no ball, right? You're gonna pull it on
later, you're gonna focus for the exam because now it's crunch time. Right? It's crunch time. This
is this is it. And that's the example we have to have, right? The one you have a goal in your mind,
		
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			the one who's performing hides that goal, nothing can distract you from that everything else becomes
secondary. And your aim your goal is the house of Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			when you go into the house of assessments at your his guests, and you have to understand what that
means, understanding what that means to be the guest of Allah subhanho wa Taala. You know, when we
have social gatherings in this world, let's say you have the Super Bowl or you have the you know,
the Final Four or whatever in your in your city. And people go people attend this the social
gathering and convention, whatever it is, the people who missed out, they feel something, they feel
like Oh man, I missed it, I missed the chance to go to this event, I missed the chance to go to this
program or this this sports event or whatever it is, and they feel, you know, becomes a talk of the
		
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			town. Right? The people who go to the house have a lost parents either all of us brothers and
sisters. During the season of Hajj, we should have this longing in our heart and the sadness in our
heart if we haven't gone that we're not amongst those who are attending the greatest gathering that
the Earth has witnessed. The greatest gathering every year, Earth witnesses is the gathering of
Hajj, the greatest place is the day of alpha. Right? This is something that we should feel something
that we're not there, right. You know, there was an old woman who was performing had she was with a
group and they're traveling to Mecca. And of course back then there aren't these hotels and high
		
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			rise towers and all that stuff. So once you reach the tip of the mountain, you see the house of
Allah subhana wa tada and all his glory in His glory manifest right there. So the whole time on the
way she's a blind woman, she's saying b2b, b2b, you know, when you leave your home, and you're going
on vacation, and the kids say what you haven't even left out of your neighborhood, you're like, Are
we there yet? Are we there yet? Ready to go to Disney World? Whatever it is. They keep asking, Are
we there yet? Because they're so excited about the destination to go to Nana's house or whoever
they're this? They want to go. Right? So the old lady, she's saying b2b, b2b, like are we at the
		
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			house of my Lord yet? Are we at the house of my master? And there were countless of Bureau and
they're trying to you know, make her patient and are saying no, it's coming, relax, just you know,
Take a chill pill, right? It's gonna, we'll get there. You know, now we're not there yet. Until
finally they, they they reached the tip and they they see the house of Allah hands out and they tell
her how the beta buki. This is the house of your Lord.
		
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			And so she you know, they rush forward to go to the house of Allah subhana wa Tada. And she grabs on
to the,
		
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			the robes of the Gabba. And she says they should be they should be, they should be and she dies
right there.
		
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			She's holding on to the gap and then she dies, right? They're saying b2b Why? Because the inner
realization, of knowing that Yeah, Allah from amongst so many 1000s and hundreds and 1000s and
hundreds of millions of people. Allah subhanho wa Taala chose me to come to his home to be his guest
who am I. And that inner realization caused her overwhelmed her so much that she passed away right
there and out in front of the house of Allah subhanaw taala. And brothers and sisters write this
down, that to the extent that you undress you, you you internalize this understanding of being the
guest of Allah subhana wa tada his house will be the extent of your experience that had
		
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			you understand that you are a guest of Allah at the house of Allah, Allah will be the extent that
you have the experience of Hajj. Right. And when you go and let me give you a simple example, you're
invited to a king or a chef or whoever, some person of importance in this world and you go to the
house, and let's say he invites only 15 people from the whole of America. 15 people special people
are invited to this gathering. That's the new main what you're one of those 15 people, you know,
you'll dress up nice, you'll make sure you're here you got your haircut, your beard is looking good,
your hijabs looking good. You go there, you show up, and maybe somebody is giving you a hard time
		
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			bothering you, you know, takes your drink, spills their drink on top of your shirt, all this stuff.
But you know what, at that gathering, when there's only 15 people, and it's the most important
person and you feel it and whoever it is in your life, you wouldn't bother that person, you would
argue, you would argue and say, oh, whatever, you'll be patient, because you don't want to cause a
scene. Right? And that's that's the attitude that the judge has to have, that when you go to Hajj
people may get on your nerves. People may get on your nerves, but when the opportunity presents
itself to argue
		
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			You to fight back to get frustrated to get upset remember you're a had your accosted you're someone
whose focus is the pleasure of Allah subhana wa tada and all these things are distractions. All
these things are distractions, so you wouldn't cause a scene Allah subhana wa tada he says, and so
does in Bukhara verse 197 he says and had you as Sharon Allah Luma femen photo Buffy
		
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			Jeff Allah Rafa Walla Walla je de la ville had
		
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			no mean Heidi Allah.
		
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			Allah says that the hedge is in the well known months meaning Chahal, Luca and hedger.
		
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			Right Hydra actually itself falls in that hedge of course, right. But you can leave from from show
what that says from the time when the months of hedge begin. So he says whoever intends to perform
hedges they're in then he should not have any relations with the spouse fell out office, while Apple
soup as the head you've mentioned, no Fisk as we just defined already, and he says what Dan and Phil
had and there is no arguing in hedge. There is no arguing you leave off all the disagreements.
somebody steals your spot in prayer. You're in the front of the guy but you're in the third line the
gap is right there you can see the EMA and somebody comes and takes your spots and you can argue
		
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			this is your right but you know what you say I know the promises that I'm promises the one who
leaves off an argument and he is in the right a palace in paradise. And I know that I'm in hedge and
my focus right now is not to get into argument my focus is to earn the pleasure of Allah spawn tada
and you'll walk and you have to walk back the lines fill up to find another spot and the Gabba.
You're gonna have to walk for a while until somebody gives you a spot. Right? But you don't you
don't argue you don't cause a scene. Allah says that's why he says after a while I do that I feel
* says one, two volume and Heidi yanam, hula, whatever good you do a law knows it. So when
		
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			you're performing a laugh, and somebody elbowing, you, pushing you, right, you keep getting elbow
and elbow in the back and you're turning around expecting some big guy and you turn around you see
this small sister. I found it when you perform with the love, their elbows are the most dangerous.
And they got that maybe I don't know why but their elbows are planted in your back and you will get
pushed to a point that you are you're fed up. But instead of turning around and giving giving her an
angry face, frowning at her or saying something to her or whatever. You don't even you turn around
and you smile. And you say I said I'm on a call. And then you make a data loss without it in your
		
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			heart that she doesn't even hear Oh Allah grant her agenda. You do that? What is the lesson that I
say is one to follow Him and Heidi Allahu Allah. He says whatever good you do, the small thing that
no one sees but Allah sees whatever it is that you do, Allah is a fully aware of it, and he knows
it. He's aware of it. So brothers and sisters, you're a hedge, you're a hedge, you have to keep your
focus on the last panel. What's odd, then, and and then the IEA continues and Allah says, what does
he do?
		
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			Rosa de takua what The Goonies
		
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			law says and take your provisions, he says and take your provisions. And the best provision is that
of taqwa. And so fear me omentum understanding Allah subhanho wa Taala he sees and take your
provision. So anytime you travel, right, you're traveling anywhere. You have to prepare your
provisions right when I'm coming here this morning, yesterday night I was packing my bag I'm putting
my codes in what I'm gonna wear you know, I'm gonna have my my bathroom, you know, stuff like the
toothbrush, toothpaste, my Cologne, all these things I'm packing right? You prepare your provisions
hide, you're going for a couple weeks to three weeks. So you prepare your food Allah saying prepare.
		
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			What does that word do? But he says for in the hierarchy taqwa. Right? But the best provision is
that of taqwa where does Toppo reside brothers and sisters takota resides in the in the heart attack
wa hoonah. So a lot of saying just as much as head is a physical journey, a physical journey when
you leave your home and go to the house of Allah Tada. It is just as much a spiritual journey. It's
a journey of the heart before it's a journey of the body. And so he's saying guess prepare your
physical provisions. But the best provision that you can take is a provision of the heart which is
taqwa what is taqwa?
		
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			What is taqwa? Let me give you a basic example. Let's say you're driving on the highway.
		
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			The speed limit is 70 miles an hour and you're going 85 miles an hour. When you're speeding on the
highway, what happens you got one eye on the on the median, right? checking if there's a cop there,
and the other eyes on the rearview mirror, make sure there's not a cop behind you. So they're and
they're back and forth, right. And now you have apps and stuff like the waves app, right? By the
way, I recommend downloading it. I recommend speeding that up would recommend downloading it w z.
Alright, so I don't have any stock with them. But it could save you some tickets. Basically, you
could flag a cop so it gives it's like a user friendly thing. You can flag cops if you see him.
		
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			Anyway, so you got your app open. You got your eyes and the medium eyes in the back and stuff and
you're and you're keeping a lookout for cops right? Then you come around to bend you're looking over
here and the COP is hiding behind the bridge. And you're you're right in what you get that feeling
that that you know that the hate that feeling everybody hates right the butterflies in your stomach.
So what do you do? You're already ahead of the cob now so if your stick shift you downshift you
don't even touch the brakes.
		
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			Right, you know, you put your blinker on you check your blind spot, you do the all like follow
textbook driving, right and you get in the slow lane. Right that feeling. That's the definition of
duck law. That's the definition of taqwa, the awareness that you're being watched. The awareness
that you're being watched and that that awareness causes you to change your actions to fall in line
with Allah, Allah has commanded, right that awareness causes you to fall in line with awesomeness
commandments. So that's taqwa. So Allah says the best provision you could take for Hajj is that of
taqwa. Forget your clothes. Forget your sleeping bag. Forget all that stuff. The most important
		
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			thing is taqwa. And the second most important is especially for the letters. When you're gonna have
you're gonna need the vessel. We'll talk about that a second. All right, but talk was critically
important. critically important. You have an attorney, you're always aware allies watching you,
you're always aware of laws watching you, right, that's important. Now, let's talk about this
though. Let's make it a little practical. From the what to Zoho do and prepare your provisions What
are physical things that you should take with you to hedge so as I mentioned, I definitely recommend
Vaseline Alright, just to put on the inner thighs because when you're wearing a crown for those few
		
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			days it can get you can develop a pretty bad rash it can be very painful. So Vaseline put that on
but get non scented Vaseline, right? Because you have the baby scent Vaseline and you have the non
scented get the non scented Vaseline. All right, obviously toiletries, right you may want to
consider even taking toilet paper right because when was that even for example, you may not well
there are some bathrooms but the lines are going to be huge and you may not be able to wait or
obviously toothbrush to face
		
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			call your hedge group to find out if they're going to provide for you and Matt to sleep on him was
that he felt right in Mina they'll give you they'll have a 10 you'll have a small little like couch
type bed thing there. And obviously you have your hotels, the only time you'll need like a mat to
sleep on is was that effect so call your head up and find out are they providing most of them do
provide a mat for you. So you may not need to take it but you may want to take it just in case or a
sheet or something to cover yourself. Obviously if you have medications that you need to take the
medications
		
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			I would recommend taking a copy of your passport in cases to handle that's so interesting is when
you go to the when you land in the airport. Like your passports are just thrown in this like this
back room just like millions of people and just like in this pile and it's like CV there's no
organization has just thrown there but when you leave Subhanallah the passwords brought to you
except for maybe there's some people who were unlucky right most people they have a copy of the
passport some people may lose their may lose your ID tag, they'll give you an ID tag you may lose it
so you want something to you know for proof of your identity with you. So a copy of your passport
		
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			The other thing is that's honestly like it's a big problem is is this
		
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			the not the cell phone itself but the camera right The problem is is that people they're in heads
they're making the life and they're taking like selfies right? They're like like trying to get it
like with them with Tesla right behind them the door the cabinet and you're trying to get it
perfectly and then somebody smacks them and they get upset and they argue and their phone falls they
almost get trampled. Look brothers sisters I strongly recommend toss the cameras don't bring them
right i mean you take your cell phone if you need it for making phone calls or whatever you want an
app for hygiene or whatever it is or the sweetness of had you know the guy that shot while you guys
		
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			get tomorrow when you register we have a pamphlet you want to take the digital version you have on
with you all these things that's fine but beware of all these this this selfie culture right of
taking pictures of yourself every step of the way. I've had had the shadow McAfee Allah whom we
witness benefits that are yours now live in the moment. Don't think about getting the perfect
Facebook profile pic right so I can have myself in the galba and everything just don't do that. It's
gonna spoil your hatch. Don't forget about the cameras forget about the pictures. Just live in the
moment experience experience has all the spiritual benefits experience it Don't Don't worry about
		
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			all these, these pictures. Now.
		
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			Here's the lesson for the non Hajaj right we said that the most important journey and the life the
most important provision on the journey of hedges taqwa. And similarly a lot of that essays yeah you
Helene's and who in naka de Haan ina beacon Academy malarkey he says that oh mankind barely you are
returning to your work towards your Lord with your deeds and actions are most definitely sure
returning, and you will meet the results of that thereof. Right? We're all on this journey. Tell us
kind of data from the moment we're born. We've also embarked on a journey tell us Montana and just
like the most important provision of hedge is tough law. You may need in this life. You'll need a
		
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			car you need a home you need you know clothes and all that stuff. But the most important provision
of this life to get you ready to meet Allah subhana wa tada is also the provision of taqwa. It's
also the provision of tough one. So brothers and sisters, this is a critical component of not just
how to better our lives, and after a tough one, those of you who have gone to Hajj before I think
you'll agree with me in saying that the second most important provision is that of
		
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			he's got an uninsured
		
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			suffer patience is wearing a shirt that says have patience. Patience, patience, patience, write it
in gold circle that highlight it put every single color of the pen and everything in color of the
rainbow on your notes patience. You will need a very healthy dose of patience and Hajj repeats you
will need a very healthy dose of patience in hedge understand brothers and
		
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			From now that things will go wrong, things will not go according to plan. And that's, that's just
the nature of hedge. Things will be disorganized. You'll come across people who are rude, you'll
find long lines to the bathroom, you may have to wait three hours to get into the bathroom. When you
get in there. You have somebody as soon as you're in banging on the door to get out, right? And then
you go into the bathroom and it's like, not clean at all. Right? You may you're on the bus, going
from Mecca, Medina to Mecca or Mecca to Medina, right, this long journey. And guess what, out of all
the buses, it just happens that your bus got not only stuck in traffic, but the AC broke. So you're
		
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			sitting in this bus with no AC with a bus full of 50 people, and it's hot in this middle of the day
in the Saudi Arabian sun, and you're sweltering, everything that will go wrong, that can go wrong
may go wrong. So prepare yourself right, you may find you will find unfortunately, a lot of trash.
People will litter right people come from all over the world some don't know better, some do know
better, but they don't care. And these litter the streets when you're if you walk from minute to
Mecca, or Amina to to park different places, you'll literally you'll be walking through trash,
you'll be like walking through trash, right? And now that could get on your nerves, it should bother
		
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			you because you believe it doesn't like that, I believe, relax comeliness. But you have to be
patient, you have to be patient, right, you might get lost, you're in Mena, every time looks the
same.
		
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			It looks the same. And the problem is all the like the security there or, you know, the people, the
government officials who are there.
		
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			They're they're not four directions. They're not given a course on who lives where. So the only
people you can go to for directions are those people and you go to them and they have no idea. They
don't know where you're supposed to go. So they can't help you so becomes frustrating, and you will
lose your patience, right you can go to throw the jamara out and you have to go an hour walk back
and you have no idea how to get back. You have no idea how to get back and hopefully go with your
group and somebody can guide you maybe you get lost I mean there's millions of people there it's
easy to lose, lose your group, right so to get back as difficult you can get lost is very hot you
		
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			maybe you don't lose anything, you're sleeping on the rocks and Mina when I went for their first
trip in my head when I went back in you know several years ago, you know, I didn't have a tent and
		
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			the tent was full they didn't have a spot for me. So I had to sleep outside you know under like
right underneath a bright you know, white you know those big like parking lot lights, you know,
there's huge lights, I'm sleeping right under this bright light and room right next to the buffet
table. And the chairs. There's always everybody's drinking to die, right you have to have giant, so
every drink in the giant are eating their food, and I can't get rest. And it was wintertime at the
time. It was December when I went to head so it's very cold at nighttime. Right? I didn't have that.
You have to have patience. We went to Mecca the first night after leaving Mita Guess what? Sorry,
		
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			your hotels aren't booked tonight. You have a reserve reservation for tomorrow night. So all your
group got a seat, figure it out. But you're not sleeping in the hotel.
		
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			I paid my money I paid my I want my premium package. I'm from America, here's my American passport
doesn't work doesn't work, your patience will be tested. Right? And so you have to prepare yourself
for that you may have things stolen, your your ship, ship, your chapel, your sandals, expect them to
be stolen, and I don't see the people have their they don't they don't consider it stealing, right.
Because it's just kind of like you go into the machine. And there's like a sea of sandals. So when
they walk out these grand whichever sandal and they walk out. So if you grab somebody who's better
sandals and you know America, I don't recommend it. And I don't I don't I would definitely want the
		
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			responsibility of having somebody else's sandals. Right. So if somebody takes her sandals, go buy
some new ones. Okay, it takes make sure you have some money at the end of my first trip. Because I
lost my ID badge. I went with cashier's checks, don't take cashier's checks. It's just a big
headache. Don't do it. Just take cash, and you'll be fine. Okay, and just try not to get stolen as
other trouble. But I have I couldn't I couldn't cash my cashier's check. So by the end of my trip, I
didn't have any money left. And so somebody saw my setup for the rest of the time. So one of the
groups that groups in the heads, one of the groups and one of the members of the group bought me
		
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			some sandals. But the point being things will get your money make when I was making in Gemini after
the Gemini, Estonia Gemini, we'll talk about it tomorrow shala somebody stole money from my pocket,
I have no idea how I was focused on the diet and boom, my money's gone. like cell phones will get
stolen, your belongings may get stolen, things will happen that will test your patience. And so I
wanted to do an exercise with everyone. And this is where you need your notes.
		
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			What I want you to do is to draw
		
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			to draw
		
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			three circles, okay, just like you see.
		
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			Or two circles. If you can the outside borders also were there you won't draw a third circle. It's
up to you. Okay, so the first circle inside the first circle, I want you to write my patience. Okay.
		
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			And then
		
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			and then what are you going to do?
		
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			It's on here. It's not on there.
		
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			It's not under that side.
		
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			Oh is on over here. I don't know. Can you guys see it? Okay, so it's fine. So, a circle, you're
going to draw a circle and you're going to put inside the first circle, I want you to write my
patients Okay. And then go ahead and write in there, everybody right now.
		
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			Write things that when they happen to you, that you are patient for, right things that when they
happen to you, you're patient for them. Okay? You're a patient for these things. So I put on this is
an example, people being rude to you, people cursing you and getting sick, okay? This is just an
example. And everybody could be different. These are just some examples I thought of, Okay, so these
are the things to happen, you know, you probably will get second heads, you might get like a sore
throat, you know, cough, all that stuff, fevers, whatever, you might get some gi upset and all those
things. Maybe that's what happened. But you're typically when you get sick, you're patient because
		
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			you know, the reward of the lessons, or whatever it is, somebody's rude to you, you know what?
pressure off, keep moving forward, you know, worried about it. These are things that you're
typically patient for. Okay? So write down some things that you're typically patient for inside the
first circle.
		
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			Inside the second circle, I want you to write down things that are kind of 5050 sometimes they're
patient, sometimes you're not. Right, so the thing is, I put down being shoved Alright, somebody say
something to you fine. I'll be patient but when it comes physical, when somebody puts puts their
hands on me when they push me Alright, now what's on like Donkey Kong right now? We'll take it
outside. We'll take it outside that
		
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			doesn't make sense when we've seen it happen people break out fistfights inside doing the laughing
there's fistfights. Right, we might be doing the way people try to get to the Blackstone what
happens to get lifted up above the crowd so you see them surfing on the crowd and then somewhere
they drop it a lot of us and after that, if they land on their feet or land on their head because it
land on their head? We'll love them. Right so things that you may be patient for you may not be
patient for unsanitary conditions. Maybe that's something that you just you're a clean freak you
hate when things get dirty. Maybe that's what's something that's gonna bother you and the last thing
		
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			this organization maybe that's what it is all right, but this is kind of a exercise that you need to
do and you figure it out yourself things that you may not be patient for and then the outside the
second circle in the third circle if you draw drew one is things that you are absolutely going to
blow your gasket for. You never are patient for this. Right no food you come home to Brianna is that
ready? You lose your patience Ababa niniola. You, you The table is flipped and everything and it
shouldn't be that way. I sent him when he came in his home, he put that around before he comes in.
So he smells nice for his wife. And he gives nice words and stuff, right? But maybe somebody loses
		
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			patient when there's no food. So guess what's gonna happen? You're supposed to have the food
delivered at three o'clock and it doesn't come you're waiting opens coming at six. When it comes at
six. They say Oh, sorry, you can't eat it. Because guess what? It was outside too long in the sun.
And we can't let you eat it because it may be maybe,
		
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			maybe hot, but maybe spoiled now, right? So you don't have lunch today. You don't have dinner today.
And they happen and for some people maybe, you know being taken advantage of when I went to my first
hedge trip, you know, a long time ago, I wanted to go with my foreign teacher at the time I was in
you know memorization with the teacher. So he said he's going to have this Okay, I'll go with him.
Right and so what happened was I signed up for the hedge group I paid I was gonna go with him and
then they took me out of his group and put me in a different group. And they charged me $300 more
although I was leaving four days later, so I had a shorter trip and I had to pay more money and then
		
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			our group that was put in didn't even have any man let alone my own teacher who was close with I
don't even have any ma'am altogether our group didn't have any ma'am. So this is something that I
get upset with I'm certain principles like being taken advantage of I get upset, right, this is my
test to know then start high just starts before hedge right This happened before I even left for
hedge. So these are things that I want you to write down that you never are patient for okay? Then
what I want you to understand is that you understand this brothers and sisters, all those things you
wrote on the outside and the read those things on the outside the second circle and the third
		
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			circle, those are things expect that you will be tested with those things. I repeat, expect that you
will be tested with those particular things. Okay? This is an important exercise to do because when
you mentally picture you see in front of you, what is it that I am not patient for and you
understand that test will come your way This will help you when the tests do come that you will be
patient, this will this is critical. So I want everyone to do this exercise. If you didn't do it
right now, then definitely do it at home. And obviously, you can see how this applies for non Hajaj
right? This is very, very simple, that one of the goals of hedges to improve your character. And one
		
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			of the goals in life also for you is to be to improve our character the president said he was only
sent to perfect character, he was only sent to perfect characters A lot of us. So our character
should be improved through how when you come back you come back very different than when you went
right similarly for the non hijabs your character should also be there. So what are some tips
brothers and sisters, to have patience number one, understand that Allah Allah says in your foresaw
Bureau?
		
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			Be ye
		
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			Allah says most definitely we will reward those who are patient with the reward that has no bounty
that has no bounty at all. We will reward those who so Allah gives specific rewards for the Shahadat
for this for that they have specific rewards as for those who are solid, those who are patients,
they will have reward that Allah tada has no limit set for it. Right. The angels will say to the
people of Paradise set Manali be male so about Morocco bad
		
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			Peace be upon you for your patience and excellent indeed as a final home for you. Right number two.
		
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			Remember that all of you have given up so much to go to Hutch. Don't lose it for something so small,
so insignificant, right you're gonna lose your hedge because of a one night in a hotel that you were
supposed to have that you didn't have you have to sleep in the street. How much is that? $200 $300
you will spoil your house for $300 for that one night think about it because you're going with the
mindset of of Nope, I paid for this I want this but don't lose this put it in the grand scheme of
things. Don't lose your hedge because somebody pushed you Don't do it. Don't lose your heads because
somebody cursed you or because you don't have what you were promised. It's not worth it. Number
		
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			three. This is important write this in gold forget about your rights.
		
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			Forget about your rights. When you people go to hedge they say I paid $8,000 I want every penny of
this $1,000 that I spent and if I don't have my five star eight course meal then you know what we're
gonna have a problem. Right people fight people argue people get upset with their heads leader. And
yes, there I'm not saying there isn't a problem of hedge leaders and hedge groups take advantage of
the Hajaj there is there is that problem, but you know what hedge isn't the time to deal with it.
There's another time and a place for that. But when you're in hedge everything that comes your way
take it with stride. push it away, don't lose your hedge. Right? You know, the chef Mohammed the
		
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			shitty You know, he says, He says no thicker, just thicker. No thicker, just thicker Don't worry
thicker and in Arabic It means like contemplation and ordering means worrying. Right? You're
worrying about something right? So you say no fix it Don't worry man. Just think of a last modified
anytime you're about to get upset now you know, Mohammed
		
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			Mohammed somehow make Likud avanzada no thicker, just thicker. Put all those things aside forget
about your rights. Right forget about your rights. be giving and forgiving. be giving and forgiving
and not demanding and requiring Okay, be giving and forgiving. Not demanding and requiring number
four dealing with the crowds dealing with the crowds how brothers and sisters
		
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			if you're not claustrophobic beforehand, you will be after hedge
		
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			cuz you're in crowds that are that are sometimes can be just push you to the limit and pull off. You
could be in a point where you're literally body to body, everybody around you. You don't you're not
controlling where you're walking. You're just kind of like just going just going like the water
pushes, you know, things in the river. Right? insane. I remember there was a time when the first
time went to hedge what happens when you enter the site. You're cut when you make the first turn
after Safa people are all joining. There's all these new hijabs coming in to perform the site and
you have all the people there. So you get this crushing effect on the opposite side. So people were
		
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			up against the wall being crushed against the wall. I mean, I think people died that day. Right?
They're being crushed there. Right? So the crowds can be difficult to deal with. And as you say, one
day, two days, five days, 10 days, 14 days or they're going to the messenger there's a task because
it's 3 million people all going to the masjid. Right. So it's difficult. It's challenging, right? So
don't let the crowds get to you. Don't let the ground crowds get to you. I remember one time
surround Allah.
		
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			You know, I was in we were on the way Tim was dead Eva. We're on the way Tim was there and I the the
bus got stopped is stuck. I stuck in traffic and we couldn't go we were moving for hours. So we got
out of the tent, you know, the truck or the bus. I don't know what to do. So I one of my group
members had a phone call. So I use it to call my mom in Michigan. One of the moms that used to be
the seminar machine and I called him I said, Yeah, he picked up the shift. I'm in head right now. He
says he sees what's going on. So I was like, I have a question. He's the bus isn't moving or you
know, we're stuck. What do I do? He's he's gonna walk. And I was like, Well, I don't know. It's my
		
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			first time I had I don't know where to go. He's like, you saw me he's special. He has a white beard
right here. And he's saying Why aren't you walking I walk when I go to Hajj and you're a young man
you're not walking and says I don't know where to go. He says just follow the millions of people's
heart right? Sounds like a good point. He says follow yellow brick road. Just follow all the people
where they're going right? So if you're ever alone, and chances are you're in the wrong place,
because you're never alone in hedge. There's so many people there but the thing is the crowds will
get on your on your on your nerves. So this is my advice how you can deal with it. Because hedge
		
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			requires you to get to another level. This is what it is a lesson Tada. He says
		
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			he says what's he gonna do? Taco Bell? Amina jannetty Zuma da da da da
		
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			da
		
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			da da whom Hosanna to mana income. Salam aleikum.
		
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			hoo ha ha needy. Law Center says the people of Tacoma again the provision of hedge in the provision
of life you want success in your life. You need taqwa the people of taqwa. There'll be taken to
paradise in groups. Hector, Elijah who have a foot he has a wah wah when they get there. The gates
of genda will be open before they're open. You know, the heartbeat says the president says that what
occurs that Khurana
		
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			because when he says to the president, he said to them, what happens that caradonna anabaena Misra
and even Masada masari agenda
		
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			Sierra to Alabama in Arma. Weather yet tn tn Allah He Oman wahaca Viva Mina z hum. He says so I tell
him that
		
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			the distance between two of the sides of the gates of Jenna is the distance of 40 years and travel
40 years and travel is between two sides of the gates of Paradise 40 years it takes one day to get
to Mecca. Imagine how why the gates of Paradise are 40 years of travel. But their promises tell him
he said they will come upon the gates a day in which it will be overcrowded with people. Meaning the
believers will be crowding around the gates of Paradise rushing to get into paradise. They're trying
to get into all they're just like how do you have millions of people, right? You're doing
philosophy, you're in the people, you're in this group and you're trying to get to get into genda
		
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			the president says there'll be a day that there'll be so much crowds around the gates of Paradise
from all the believers trying to enter Paradise, why am I sharing that with you? because anytime
that brothers and sisters, the crowds gets here, get on your nerves, the crowds get on they start
bothering you, then what I want you to do is remember that there will come a day when you will be in
crowds just like this except you will be at the gates of Paradise inshallah. So this moment of
difficulty will now become a moment literally that could be spiritually transformational. You can
literally start crying saying yo la, I'm surrounded by your guests in a gathering at your house or
		
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			loss around me with similar people around the gates of paradise. It can be remarkably
transformational experience just understanding that and the last thing I want to share with you
about about about this topic is that about patience is see the positive things and don't be
overwhelmed by the negatives I know they said five minutes take five more minutes and I'm almost
done with this session it's outside I'm so sorry. I just have one more exercise I need to I need to
do with you. And that is this
		
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			don't see the negative see the positives. What do you what do you see on the screen?
		
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			A black dot anybody see anything else?
		
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			whitespace All right. So first thing we said is right away we see the black dot then we said
Mashallah we see the whitespace This is the example of hedge when you say example of life, when you
when you're driving your car, and you get that big old bug that goes and smashes on your windshield,
right even though the rest of the windshield is Mashallah you just got a carwash is beautiful, that
one spot you keep seeing it right and it gets on your nerves, like man, that bug if it wasn't that
already would be dead now, right? You know, you're gonna get so upset with it. The black spots are
easy to see, right, the black spots of heads the the problems and hides this argument this thing,
		
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			there's no hotel this that the black spots will stick out. But what happens is, look at the screen
again, look how many white dots are on the screen that we don't see. But we see this one black spot
because it sticks out in a bothers us. But there's so many countless white dots, you're a guest on
the law. And the best days of the year. And the most rewarding days of the year, during the most
rewarding are one of the most important actions at the house of Allah subhanho wa Taala. It doesn't
get better than that. So these small tests that come your way, push it aside, focus on the positive,
be positive, don't be negative, and don't be in your group. And if somebody is in your group and
		
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			talking about oh, this group, you know, they promised us this and they didn't do this and we're
supposed to have a hotel and we're waiting for eight hours for the bus and blah, blah blah, they'll
go on get out of that gathering. Don't be there because it could take a few rotten apples in the
group, a few negative people in the group and the whole group becomes negative. Keep it positive.
Keep it very positive in your group. Think on the positives and don't focus on the negatives. Think
about the positives and don't focus on the negatives brothers and sisters has is a journey of the
heart not just of the body. Many will be the passengers to hedge few will be the Hajaj many will be
		
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			the passengers the hedge few will be the Hajaj be amongst those who are the Hajaj and not just the
passengers to hedge alright. Lastly, the prophets of Salaam are close with this he says that
philosophy of the man in line as the origin he says three people three types of people are in the
care and protection of Allah subhana wa tada he says Raja Raja msct masala has a man or a woman who
leaves to go to the house of Allah parents out of the message from the massages of Allah. So all of
you right now are in the care of protection of a less kind without that you're hearing the message
and shall tell you in the care of protection of Allah. Then he says What are you doing? hora de voz
		
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			de Sabina LA and a man who leaves fighting in the path of Allah spawn untied Mujahideen sebbene
Allah, He is also in the care of a lot of hands on the protection of Allah subhana wa Tada. And then
he says, What are deunan Harada had done and a man or a woman who leaves their home to perform Hajj
they're also in the care and protection of alas Valentine. So we asked a lot of data to bless us all
with the ability to perform hedge and not just has performed with a hedge mabou Delta if not this
year, in the coming year. We ask a lot of us all those who are going to hedge with an accepted hedge
such as echo Hayden
		
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			chautala tomorrow 10am we'll meet back again and we'll start with an overview of hedge so please try
and come please bring family bring friends how to be a great experience and we're going to go
through every step physical and spiritual, fifth and spiritual aspects of hospitality. Before you
get up we have a special presentation inshallah from one of the butters about Islamic world
		
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			So please give me your attention. Does that mean okay, well I'm good with that one and I'm delighted
Robin. I mean was Santa Monica light I know about a cat