Faith IQ – My Parents Want Me to Get Married. What Should I Do

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The speaker advises parents to ask themselves if they're ready for marriage, as some parents may not feel ready for marriage. They should also encourage parents to speak directly to their children about the idea, and to make a clear decision when they're ready for marriage. The speaker emphasizes the importance of making a clear decision to avoid wasting time and offers a link to a YouTube channel for more information.

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			If someone's parents want them to get married, but they don't feel ready, what should they do?
		
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			A lot of the times parents know their children, and they also want the best for them. And sometimes
they encourage their children to do what is best for them. However, parents should never force their
children to do what the children are not ready for. Now, the question is that if someone doesn't
feel ready for marriage, they need to ask themselves that, is it really the idea of marriage that
they're not ready for? Or is it about the particular person that the parents are suggesting they
marry, that they're not ready to marry? So this is something that needs to be clear. And if someone
doesn't feel ready about the idea of marriage, then I would suggest them that they speak to their
		
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			parents about it. Talk to them about your apprehensions, your concerns, why you're hesitant, perhaps
they will explain certain things that will help you make a better decision. And if it is not your
parents that you can speak to then speak to somebody else that you can trust whose advice is
helpful, so that you can identify what those real reasons are, why you're not ready for marriage.
And remember, that only get married when you are ready for marriage, because it is not fair to the
other person, that they're marrying someone who's not even ready to marry them, who doesn't even
want to be in that marriage with them. So make this decision carefully and only make this decision
		
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			when you are ready for it and I said I want to live on a Carter, thank you so much for watching this
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