Faith IQ – How Do I Deal With Toxic Mother In Law – Shaykh Omar Suleiman

			How do I deal with a toxic mother in law?
		

			Every situation is different. The toxicity here that's being referred to would need to be taken into
consideration by someone that's arbitrating the situation. Generally speaking, the shutdown puts
into place, protections right by enshrining the rights of each person in the family, very specific
rights, right. So the parents, each person has to honor their own parents and then honoring the
spouse, and all of these other factors come into play, they often come into play, because of the
violations of those things that were meant to solve that in the first place. So, you know, space is
something that's very important, right? So a woman having a right to her own space.
		

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			there are there are writes in his book that Allah subhanaw taala assigned within the marriage that
cannot be trampled by anyone else, as we spoken about and a different question. So what do you do in
these situations? Number one, try to follow the prescriptions of the media in regards to navigating
that number to try to maintain courtesy always, you don't, you don't have to pick unnecessary fights
and pick your battles wisely. choose your battles wisely. However, it's always better to solve these
things, or to try to have that conversation to try to find that place of peace, before things
completely blow up. And a lot of times, unfortunately, you know, something horrible happens, a
		

			person takes a lot of a lot of abuse, a lot of verbal emotional abuse, and then they wait and wait
and wait, and then it blows up entirely. And then at that point, you try to figure it all out. And
it's often very difficult at that in that situation. And so the best thing to do is when you start
to feel things going in that direction, you try your best to, you know, to seek counseling or you
know, in counseling doesn't necessarily mean in the professional sense right away, but some sort of
counsel in a way that would help the situation Charlottetown even using it maybe as an opportunity
to have a direct conversation and privacy in a way that would hopefully not exasperate the
		

			situation. These are very specific situations that require wisdom, wise counsel, and a lot of
staccato and no point however, should a person tolerate beyond just the way that that naturally
we're going to clash in our personalities, and we're going to find things within our personalities
that don't always align. And people can get very territorial and things of that sort beyond those
things that are normal and expected. A person should try to mitigate them at the start in
Charlottetown, so that they do not become exasperated and lead to a more detrimental situation.
		

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