Faith IQ – How Do I Control My Anger With My Children
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Kids will always be kids. We all know that. However, there are times in which a parent finds it difficult to keep their cool when dealing with their children after the child has done something wrong. How can one ensure to keep their temper under control when dealing with their children?
The speaker advises parents to seek refuge in Allah for anger towards their children. They also remind parents of their own shortcomings and that their children make mistakes. The speaker suggests that some external factors, such as work or home, can cause anger.
As parents, it's very easy to lose our cool with our children. So when you find yourself angry,
firstly, seek refuge in Allah because anger is from shaitaan. Secondly, remind yourself that
children will be children, they will not be perfect. Thirdly, remember your own shortcomings also,
where your children make mistakes, you also make mistakes. However, try to find out what is it that
is really making you angry, because oftentimes, it's not our children's behavior that's causing us
to be angry. It's some other external factor, like the situation at work or at home. So try to
resolve that first inshallah.