Ebrahim Bham – Rights Of Relatives In Islam

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			Alhamdulillah Allah subhanho
		

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shaytani r rajim Bismillahi Rahmani Raheem?
		

			roba haka, sir Hello.
		

			My dear respected elders and brothers,
		

			Islam and our religion has come to set all our relationships correct.
		

			This includes our relationship with Allah subhanho wa Taala and our relationship with human beings.
Islam puts great emphasis upon proper relationships with human beings in regards such relationships
amongst human beings is one of the core principles on which the Islamic teachings on social
responsibility and social etiquette is based upon
		

			and Islam also, from there onwards tell us that we have rights upon human beings and has given
certain relationships, more importance than others. Islam now, a bad PR boat zodia on one may say
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Murat wakaba Daddy, hey, they say bye Bianca esta chowmahalla Krista and one of the important
relationships with Islam has placed great emphasis upon is the relationship of relatives. And now
I'm not talking about the rights of our parents, etc. Some months back we spoke about the rights of
our parents. Here I'm talking about the rights of our relatives, blood relationships, our brothers,
our sisters, our aunts, our uncle's, there's there is a very great emphasis upon this type of rights
and this relationship in our Sharia. In one Hadith our beloved nebia Karim sallallahu alayhi wa
		

			sallam emphasizing this relationship and one of the reasons why this relationship between relatives
is so greatly emphasized because it is so important in achieving social cohesion and perpetuating
cooperation and love amongst the Muslim community. social cohesion starts off within your own family
and from there it goes beyond and sometimes you and I, we make a mock with regard to it. We make a
joke with regard to it. They say you can choose your friends, you can choose your relatives and it's
true. And they also make mentioned that no family ties is like cheese. The more older it gets, the
more funkier it gets. No, we make all these type of jokes but look at the emphasis Islam is placed.
		

			In one Hadith our beloved Nivea creme de la jolla was Solomon said I am Allah imrf man. The one of
the most exclusive attributes of Allah tala is Ramadan. I have created the bonds of family
relationships. And I have given it the name of Rahim which comes directly from my attribute of
Rahman and Rahim I have given the name of family ties Scylla to Rahim right? And this is it comes
from where this word Rahim comes from where it comes from the womb and it comes directly from Allah
tala has attribute of Rahman and Rahim and he comes in Saudi Arabia Karim sauce from said, Allah
says, I will join and be close to those people who keep the ties of relationship and I will break
		

			and destroy those who break this tie. Because it comes directly from my attribute. And when Heidi
mentioned is made like this, that Allah tala created the bonds of relationship, then this bonds of
relationship came in pleaded with Allah, our law, our law
		

			Keep good with those who keep good with me between the family ties and destroy those who destroy
family ties. Allah tala listen to the pleas of this regiment said go I have given you your wish.
This is the reality with regard to family ties. It has got a relationship directly with Allah
subhanho wa Taala. We take it for granted One day, a person came to our beloved Nivea creme de la
Julio Sullivan said jasola I committed a sin. How do I make a far out of my sin? How do I wipe away
my sin? So nobody says him said Is your mother alive? He said yesterday My mother is not alive. She
has passed on Nevis Aslam said is your holla alive? Is your mother sister life. He said yes, my
		

			mother sister is alive. The resource them said go and do good to her. Allah will wipe away your
cells do and boom do good to her. Allah will wipe away your sins. There is one honey that our
beloved maybe a cream sauce limited whoever wants an increase in his risk. And whoever wants an
increase in his life joco Chai Kepner risk may or Omar mercato to jacker up nourish Siracusa his
ruca go and do good to your relatives. Allah will give you Baraka and risk and Allah subhanho wa
Taala will give you Baraka had increased so h Allah will give you a long life. And I've seen it
respect the brothers in a short time that we have seen. Those who have maintained Family Ties Allah
		

			has given them tremendous Baraka and those who break family times and laterra take away the Baraka
Allah tala take away the peace of mind. This is a hadith of our beloved nebia Kareem said Allah
Allah wa sallam, and because of its importance, let me make mention that the Hadees in Jammu
tirmidhi and a saying of 100 Omar Viola Delano he said the Alamo and Saba comb know your family ties
you know we make a joke Yeah, you know when you go to old people, they will take up relationship
from the 45th cutting also they will take out relationship. This is a hadith tala one Saba come
learn your relatives learn your relationship, know where you come from, know know your family ties,
		

			because it gives you identity. And let me also say, learn, teach it to your children. Take your
children to go and visit family members. Let them also know who their family is. Because in the
words of God, allow them to learn and teach your children family ties. The Hadith says to
		

			know and learn and learn your family ties and also teach it to your children because they will also
come to know about it. So this is amongst the aspects that just to give you some examples with
regard to how Islam has given us such great emphasis upon family ties. What does it mean? What does
it mean to have good family ties to maintain good relationship with your family members, showing
them respect, showing them love, showing them kindness, showing them some sympathy? be there for
them when they are in need? Go visit them at times. Sometimes when they are sick, go and visit them
even more that time. Be a good support at a times of difficulty and tribulation. Share with them
		

			joyous moments. Share with them your good news, share with them the good news, this is all part of
it helped them financially when they are in difficulty.
		

			Allahu Allahu says when Allah subhanho wa Taala revealed the Lenten Allah will be
		

			a boon you will not gain piety and closeness to Allah until you spend that which you love. Just
appname mama said Jos Giada ma boo boo aapko Cusco and La Cara Mia nakara Allah tala cuckoo pasilla
Yoga, when this is was revealed, Abu tahara Viola Tanaka
		

			jasola this is been revealed. I got one garden known as beauty ha, I love it more than anything in
this world. There are Sula, I have decided to give it in charity. Yasuda Tell me who must give it to
let me start swimming Akaka What did Mr. Aslam Tell him to go and give it to your friends or give it
he said, Oh, I would tell her go and give it to your relatives up nourish Dhaka, Dhaka. So when Abu
talhah came back and he said let me start to say what you did I say I gave it to my relatives, and
we saw some said bah bah when we have done a tremendous thing. This is the meaning of being good to
your relatives, the good to them at the time of need. Be kind with them, be sympathize with them,
		

			share what they Good, good times go and visit them. This is the reality and together with this
importance, we must make mention that in place
		

			Time, the spending and being good to relatives has become a neglected responsibility. We hardly take
out time and we do not pay attention with regard to the fulfilling of the rights of our relatives.
		

			on small small things we break off ties. Yeah, why? Why are you not speaking? Sometimes it's
amazing. A brother and a sister, a brother and brother who used to play together who used to drink
the milk of them mother, the same breath and today you ask them what's happening we're not speaking
to one another. Why? Why you're not speaking. He didn't give me the hour properly.
		

			He didn't make me Salaam properly. Your life he didn't make you salon property you go and make him
some property is there's a reason why you couldn't break ties.
		

			With a salon aka, is this the reason why you break ties. Now via cream sauce lamb said last year,
the whole Janata cotton. He who breaks ties of family ties will not enter into Jenna. He who breaks
Family Ties will not enter into Jenna how much more Kate will emphasize the aspects with regard to
the importance of family ties. In one Heidi nebia Kareem saw Sam said mom in them in a hurry you
Angela Allahu Allah sahibi alcova to fit dunya mama you know phylloxera. There is no Guna in sin
that Allah tala hastens the punishment Allah tala yeah happy as Arpita
		

			pelotonia man except to to gunas and sin, Allah tala hastens the punishment in this world, besides
what he has in store for you in the after Alba kakatiya Torah him. One is zulum oppressing other
people and one is breaking family ties. These two things are not Allah gives you the punishment here
in this world before whatever happens in the year after this is, is a very important point. And
brothers one of the aspects that we have to see everyone talks that you must be good to your family
ties will be good for your family. Today we sit as I say, we make jokes with regard to it. I think I
made mention of this humorous incident. One day the husband and wife were going and they were not
		

			talking to one another and they were fighting with one another and they were driving in as they were
driving. You know, they by the side of the road there was like donkeys, you know, they were like
donkeys. So the husband or maybe I shouldn't say who said who one of the spouses told the other one
that your relatives? The donkey, this your relatives? So the other spouse report yes my in laws. So
now this is what we make jokes with regard to these family ties. Look at what Islam has placed
emphasis on good family relationship. Everyone says yes, you must be good with your family. But
Islam has taken it to unprecedented heights. Islam it says it is a duty to be discharged without an
		

			eye for a simplicity. It must be discharged irrespective of how the other family member treats you
and it must be discharged even if the family member is not a Muslim.
		

			He Islam is placed emphasis upon Family Ties irrespective of how the other one treats you or doesn't
treat you well. And even if it's a non Muslim as far as the ultimate came from Jaroslaw, my mother
has come to visit me and she is not a Muslim. What should I do? Let me agree with him said as mother
sustained love, never saw Scylla or smile going treat your mother well. Go and treat your mother
well. irrespective of what she She's your mother, even if she's not a Muslim, go and treat her well.
Islam has taught us fulfill family ties, even if it's not a Muslim, even those who are not Muslim,
your family members or a Muslim country them we're going to show them kindness, show them
		

			compassion. Go and take gifts for them. Go and show them goodness. Who knows maybe because of your
relationship with them. They will be able to see the true beauty of Islam and tell them this is what
our Deen teaches us. This is what our relationship and what our Deen and our Quran teaches us. So
hon Allah it is something that we have to keep in mind many times, you know, nobody saw some say
Lisa wants to do bill McAfee. Well, our Kindle was Louisa rahima. We're lucky enough to attract him.
		

			salami to a K jaw. rishta obsequiousness luchar taho apuseni Sook Kj, bulky Scylla ramita Yeah, Joe
upsell rishta Torah. Upon service da ga lacell was stupid McAfee he does not fulfill the rights of
relationship who believes if they do good to me, I will do good to them. This is my making mention
		

			That even a dog does that even a dog does what does it give you any type of you know superiority as
of as the great creation of Allah tala of Ashraful masuka, that if you do good to them, they do good
to you, you must do good to them. But what criteria of goodness is that, that we saw slimserver
keener was the one who fulfill Family Ties is he even if they do bear to him, he still does good to
them. He still does good to them. A person came to me via Kareem saw cillum era Sula. I have
relatives with whom I maintained family ties, yet they cut off from me, I treat them kindly, yet
they treat me in an evil manner. I am patient with them. Yet they are rude and ignorant towards me.
		

			Let me sauce them said if the situation is as you say, you are filling the mouse with send in one
rewire you are filling the mouse with fire. As long as you continue doing what you are doing. Let me
repeat that howdy the person came to me and said jasola what this I am doing good to a person he's
doing better to me. I am tired, he is not crying. I am being good. He is not being good. What should
I do? Let me sow some seeds you are filling in the mouth sin and fire as long as you continue doing
good. This is not a situation that if they do good I must do good. What greater example can we code
then the example of Abu Bakr radi Allahu Allahu Allah. Sometimes when we think of this example you
		

			are astounded
		

			when someone and amongst them there was a group of people who were in the forefront of accusing has
an eyeshadow the Allahu taala of immortality, as I shall be allowed on
		

			the Gaia curvy mountain, okay.
		

			So as I
		

			said, I used to be good to them. I used to give them charity. And now after it good to them, they
are in the forefront of spreading rumors about my own daughter and brothers. Can you imagine what
can be more hurtful than someone spreading rumors of immortality against your daughter they can be
perhaps no greater hurtful thing than that and said, I'm not going to do good to them. I'm not going
to give them any more charity. Allah subhanho wa Taala revealed an ayat Well, I actually live in
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			Masaki in Omaha Jerry Nafisa.
		

			He does not be home a person with the dignity of Abubakar to say he will not help his relatives even
after they have done what they've done.
		

			Even after they have done what they have done, so hon Allah is there more greater emphasis that we
must be good irrespective of how our family treat us? Or how our relative status one of the most
common type of situations we don't do good to them because they did this they did this they did this
by they did this they are responsible. What are you doing responsible? You are responsible for your
deeds. You are responsible for being good. You don't need another person's behavior to determine
your pin good. Why do you make other people's behavior a criteria for your goodness? It's amazing.
It doesn't it's illogical but people do it. Do you know what the harm of his breaking times there
		

			are two rewires which are big mentioned one is made mentioned on the authority of Abdullah bin opha
which is made mentioned in the book is 401 is made mentioned on the authority of abalone Masood, and
Sarah Carter.
		

			That nobody saw Salaam one day and according to whatever Abdullah must have heard from who himself
Salah they were about to make dua and before they made to our beloved opha says nobody saw Salaam
said anyone who has broken ties with relationship. Please leave that gathering.
		

			Go away from the gathering. Once a hobby was at odds with his Auntie, he ran quickly to his Auntie
to make math and he went to go and forgive. Forgive her and they forgive one another. He came back.
Nobody saw him saw him coming back. realize why he went and said lerton zero Rama Allah comin Fie
him Katya Rahim. Allah Rama does not descend upon a gathering where there are people who break
family ties, brothers, anyone year breaks family ties. He is impacting upon this entire gathering.
		

			He is bringing the whole set upon this entire gathering. He is bringing he's been someone who is
really in preventing a lotta drama coming upon this entire
		

			Gathering from this hadith of COVID evidence via Kareem sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So they are
they are these type of things. And in conclusion, what can I say? Do some of these small things,
arrange frequent visits to your relatives, don't only wait for occasions, sometimes go for few
minutes. Unfortunately, today we have even our visits, we have made it with formalities, so that
even the host please tell us one day in advance before you come in, so that we can make this process
		

			for you to go and visit someone you don't need any formality. take few minutes go and visit your
family members. This is arranged frequency and clear misunderstandings. One of the ways of clearing
misunderstandings is keep your financial records correctly.
		

			Some say is a hadith some says an Arabic saying that deal what's the deal with your family members
as far as financial methods are concern as if there are strangers and deal with strangers as far as
kindness is concerned, as if they are family members.
		

			Clear misunderstandings between you and your family members. have special respect for the elderly in
your family. bring joy to your family members in family gatherings. If there is an occasion of joy,
add to the joy. If there is for example,
		

			a wedding in the family, to the joy don't come create more complications. That's a type of happiness
we say to either give without properly so you spoil the occasion. At times of joy, join the join the
situation, bring family bring joy to the family. If there's a time of sympathy, then also play your
role with regard to it. Be there for your family members in whichever you you can because that is
the teachings of Islam and that is the teachings and emphasis of our beloved Livia Karim Allah. May
Allah give us a topic of understanding