Ebrahim Bham – Reconciliation – Aleppo – J Jamshed

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			my dear respected elders and brothers.
		

			Today as we are aware in our country, we have a public holiday which is entitled The day of
reconciliation. So, I felt that given the name and the reason why there is this
		

			day of public holiday, I will speak on the subject. Together with that we are also aware of the
critical situation in Syria and inshallah we will touch upon that also in sha Allah. Firstly, the
aspect that Allah subhanho wa Taala
		

			has made us social beings. Allah subhana wa Taala has made us creatures who need
		

			to interact with one another and to be able to have companionship with one another. This is such a
need
		

			that even add Emily Salatu was Salam in Jana Adam la Salatu was Salam in Jana was in Jenna,
paradise, all limits all favors, but even they he required companionship, and he asked Allah Allah
grant me a companion to give me companionship. This is such a need of humankind. As masala had
Kadena Jamelia to see Manasa Casa hombu siko Caribbean Caribbean or Allah subhanho wa Taala in Santo
coopersmith Mila Julian or musala here in San kisara him or he is the rue de sa Chiara Melissa to a
Salaam Jana, those Metallica uno Nabi Allah Allah said wa monkey Allah Jonathan mo Jacqui Sharif,
Sharif Nana Kwame musavat Kalia Queen, Queen aqui kwena Quito so Allah subhanho wa Taala has made
		

			this a reality that we need someone to be easy to interact to have companionship with. Now one of
the drawbacks with regard to companionship is one of the drawbacks why we need companionship we need
interaction, we are social beings. One of the drawbacks is that from time to time, you are going to
have difference of opinion. From time to time you're going to have disputes from time to time you
are going to have arguments, this is a reality. Like while companionship and interaction is
necessary. This is also a reality that from time to time, you are going to have difference of
opinion disputes as humans. How do you deal with this? How do you deal with it? After Smith? Jeff
		

			busaba durata they can make knocks on your head cap as Mick Jagger out and as Lou Kasama became
number two he preaches to sam kista rossana by how do we deal with this? What am I have written? The
first aspect with regard to arguments in dispute is to walk away from an argument. Stay away from
arguments. Don't get involved in arguments as far as possible.
		

			As far as possible, don't get involved in an argument. When the time comes. You feel that there is
yeah if I'm going to go there is going to be arguments walk away from it. In a family situation. You
have to attend certain type of things you know that there is tension rising. The conversation is
moving in a direction that is not good. Walk away from the other
		

			Humans walk away from places of arguments and dispute a line the Quran has told us what he thought
about booja hironaka who said that when the ignorant engage you in argument, don't get involved in
that argument. Carlos Salama say Peace be upon you. You're on your way beyond my way and move away
from them. This is what the Quran salamati is Jaeger Akiva? Was it
		

			just a prank Italia? Kj MacPro? jata. Corsica was a challenge. Oh, I'll give you an example of how
to stay away from an argument. And sometimes people can provoke you. Shy Smile Shaheed Rama
colalillo, one of our great scholars. One day he was giving a talk and during the course of his
talk, someone abused him. Someone abused him in such a manner and said that you are an illegitimate
child. I don't want to use the English word with regard to it, or to make it up harami you are an
illegitimate child, shy smell shade Rahmatullah instead of being provoked. What did he reply? He
said, I've never heard sooner you have heard the wrong. The evidence for my parents nikka still
		

			alive, go and ask them.
		

			Marry Valentin Kanika go up, took me to the jacuzzi puja. I'm not an illegitimate child, my parents
nikka has been witnessed by someone and that nikka the witnesses are still alive when asked. So as
far as possible, we don't get involved in an argument. We don't bring ourselves down to the level of
people who abused us, many times people who are abused, they reflect the inner self rather than they
reflect you. So the first aspect with regard to whenever we find ourself in a situation, then we
stay in walk away from an argument as far as possible. The second aspect of what Allah has taught us
is, consider unilateral withdrawal.
		

			When there is an argument there is a dispute consider unilateral withdrawal this move away from
there. It's difficult, but it is extremely rewarding. Nivea cream sauce alum has spoken highly about
the person who walks away from an argument. And this hadith should always be in our mind when we
talk about the aspect of interaction and the aspect of arguments disputes. And as a moon debating
fee versatil Jenna lemon takamura.
		

			It is an additional Buddhahood that may be occurring. While he was so limited. I guarantee a house
in the middle of Jenna for a person who walks away from an argument while he's correct. I guarantee
a house in the middle of Jannah. For a person who walks away from an argument while he is correct,
Allah subhanho wa Taala will grant him such a great reward, sometimes consider unilock withdrawn
because in that there is it's not a matter of sometimes of right and wrong Allah tala will decide
who is right and wrong. Sometimes you are withdrawing because of the reward Allah has promised you
not to bring further stress upon yourself. So it's an option that sometimes we choose not to ignore,
		

			but there are many benefits with regard to it. Sometimes another option that you can use with regard
to this method is when these disputes and arguments is led to compromise, this is also another
option that we have to deal with, in terms of how to deal with an argument in dispute. And a letter
in the Holy Quran has referred to this option by saying was sold Ohio
		

			compromise his hair, it is good, what is compromise, compromise means you give and take. So, you
have a particular you are to feel you are entitled to something, but you take less than what you are
entitled to for the sake of a compromise and for the sake of reaching an agreement. So Allah
subhanho wa Taala has made mention of soul and compromise is something that is good, it is one
option that you could also consider, right. So this is now all the aspects of it talking about
reconciliation, in terms of how to this how to bring about an end to disputes and arguments how to
deal with your arguments and disputes and difference of opinion. Then of course, one of the other
		

			aspects sometimes is you should consider this as an option that you forgive the party who have
wronged someone has done you wrong, you feel you are entitled with regard to the wrong that he has
done you are entitled to something but you forego that and let me give you the definition of
forgiveness which is very important. Forgiveness is a right to which you are entitled to
		

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			So he said right that you are entitled to, but you forego it for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala
for the sake of gaining rewards from Almighty Allah subhana wa tada
		

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			I was a teenager, so this aspect is very important. Now forgiveness is a rite which I intend to look
at how Allah has made mention of it in the Quran, we're just say here to say here to Mithra someone
has done you wrong, you are entitled to do that much wrong. In that sense, he has taken your 100
grand you can go and take back his undergrad.
		

			He has done you something you are entitled to, to bring about equality with regard to what he has
done to you. But for men alpha Lucha for Hydra who Allah but he who forgives and reconciles his
utter and reward is with Allah tala. Taku acabo de taqwa. And if you forgive, it is closer towards
taqwa. And there are many examples with regard to it. So this aspect, how to forgive increased time
brothers, we need all these aspects because we fight so much. And Latin America's mouth with regard
to whether it be parents and children, whether it be husband and wife, whether it be people in the
community say Masjid all the time, today, we are hearing more of this truth than ever before. So
		

			they say this husband and wife are one day fighting. So when they were fighting, they were going on
they had to go to a function, they had to go to some important function. So they were driving, but
at the same time, they were not communicating with one another, they will not speak into one
another. And many times you'll find that when the husband and wife are not speaking to another small
child which or he becomes the intermediary mother will tell him he said, Go to ask your father if he
wants to eat or not. When as your father if he wants to eat or not. The father will say whatever you
want to say I'm not in a mood of eating no your mother wants to know that I don't want to eat now
		

			they were sitting in a world waiting and they were arguing. So they will procross by you know a
group of donkeys that were there.
		

			So, as they cross this group of donkeys that they were there, the husband said relative of yours
		

			relative of yours. So the wife said yes my in laws.
		

			Today we find this aspects all the time equity. So you know now how do we do forgiveness is also an
option. And this is an option which Allah subhana wa tada nebby chose. When Kareem Sam came to MCI,
MCI Rama, in front of him were people who had done the most worse of things that could have ever
been done to a human being. They had been the ones who had thrown phones on the path of our beloved
navia Kareem sallallahu alayhi wasallam. They were responsible for chewing and mutilating the body
of his uncle.
		

			There were those who are responsible for the death of our beloved Nivea cream sauce from his
daughter. What great type of persecution and oppression did not meet our beloved nivia cream sauce.
They placed him testings upon his body on his back while he was in siesta and ruku all of that they
did. And when our beloved maybe a cream sauce alum had full control to do whatever he wants with
them. And maybe a cream sauce alum found them in front of them. And he asked them, What do you
expect? What do you feel? How should I treat you on how I'm going to teach you? They said we expect
kindness and compassion from such a great human being. Let me occur himself. Sam said, Let the three
		

			ballet pumilio go I have forgiven you. There is no reproach your fellow. Allah forgive you, I have
forgiven you. There were certain people who are exempted from the general amnesty. And this Give me
an example of maybe occurring sausage forgiveness. One of them was
		

			those who had been responsible for taking the life of people. They were exempted from this amnesty,
something that's African government should have perhaps heeded. So in this particular aspect, they
were exempted. But even then one of them who was exempted was
		

			because he had been the cause of the killing and the taking of the life of few people. One of them
was the daughter of our beloved Libya cream sauce from that he injured her to such an extent that
she fell down from the camera. She aborted the child that she was getting. And then later on that
particular wound was the result and resulted to her losing her life after a while, but found himself
in a moment of privacy and he went to me and said, Oh Muhammad, I know that you are kind I know you
are compassionate. I have done this wrong. I know that I have done wrong. I am remorseful and
regretful and forgive me, let me a cream sauce him despite the fact that he was exempt from the
		

			amnesty via cream sauce. Oh, forgive him.
		

			The one who was responsible for his own daughter's death. This is what our beloved
		

			has done. This is what we should try and aspire towards. But of course bear in mind, it's a rite
that you are entitled to. If you choose that route, no one can blame you. But if you do it, Allah
subhanho wa Taala will reward you. It is more closer towards taqwa. It is more closer towards piety.
many examples in my Maliki Anasazi Allahu anhu was was punished by the ruler and the leader of his
time, right because he differed on a masala on an issue. And he was told that he must be then
afterwards a punishment must be he was must be put on an animal He must be paraded in front of
people that he had gone against the halifa. Right. This was so called his dishonouring. But people
		

			as they saw Maliki, Anna's coming they started becoming very agitated. And they rent towards him out
of respect and honor. And the halifa had to undo what he had done thinking that he is going to this
honor Mr. Malik Malik Rahim Allah as he was going insane. Oh people remember I'm Malika bananas.
Those who know me know me those who don't know me. Bear in mind I'm Malika bananas Rahim Allah May
Allah Allah Felice cover was more. And remember, no one must do anything with regard to this person,
the wherever has done me wrong, I have forgiven him. So this is another aspect. And a very important
point, my dear respect for others is to bring surah amongst people. You know, disputes are no
		

			ordinary matter. As far as possible, we should reconcile. As a community we should bring people
together. disputes are no ordinary matter. Allah says Well, I
		

			don't dispute with one another Allah, Allah will take away your strength. Allah will make you weak,
Allah will make you cowards. This is individually and collectively, individually also you will
become weak, your family will become weak, your community will become weaker, the weaker inshallah
Allah he was. The one day was coming to tell the people with regard to the precise night he was
coming to tell the people the precise night of labor through color. And then he saw two people
fighting because of that aplicaci Rahmatullah Lee writes that maybe a cream sauce lamb so two people
fighting because of that Allah tala lifted that elemental the day of
		

			you said because of two people fighting Allah subhanho wa Taala deprive the Ummah of the blessing,
the other wisdom that's a different matter. But this is what actually happens with regard to when
the is fighting, as it Luqman, Allah Allah has made mention of his own surah and he he has given
such beautiful advice one of his advice was may look Cyril Mira yesterday Mustafa, he who gets
involved in fights, he will either sway people or people will sway so don't get involved in
arguments because either you're gonna scare people or someone is going to sway you.
		

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			this particular aspect now, what do you do as far as possible reconcile? Look at this hadith of
Libya, Karim. Allah will not be open. Be honest the literature taka milele wasa Amina hora, should I
not tell you about a situation about a tea? Which is even better than namaz better than Rosa better
than charity? balaia surah la jasola tell us what is that? Maybe a cream sauce himself Elisa who
that will
		

			bring people together? reconcile people. As we come to hear about an argument between someone who
can put a matchday
		

			we can add to it. We add fuel to the fire, maybe a cream sauce Adam told us exactly the opposite
with regard to a yummy was Aqua sama Novato, Jos de la Rosa setka semirara, Petra, loco de Dr.
Demian sulaco. Local booth located in Sumatra, yet namaz Rosa's attacks me better than himself
because fighting and disputes el hanifa it shaves off, it was dry, it shaves off and I don't say it
shaves off the hair. It didn't proper bartending. It finishes off your deal. Mr. Murthy allowed me
to say walk one mile to go and visit a sick person. Walk one mile to go and visit a sick person.
Walk two miles to go and visit a person for the sake of Allah. Walk three miles to bring soon
		

			amongst people go the extra mile to bring people together. go the extra mile
		

			maratea LaDonna saatva Macaca Monica de Marchi, Jada Kelly eight mil cello. And Nike was the logo
say Milliken killer Dr. mutulu lickin, global remians Sula, tyrannically to
		

			go the extra mile, maybe a cream sauce on the occasion in his
		

			Matter of fact when he was sick towards the end of his life, let me tell you this Aslam came to know
about an argument in a dispute that was in Cuba, Libya, Kareem saw some in the difficult situation
maybe a cream sauce, we went to a mixer and it was towards the end of his life. And then we saw some
was not well, and in his return, maybe a cream sauce lamb got late avocado, tomato, no red and
perform the Salah. The shows the importance of making sure amongst people to bring people together.
So on this day of reconciliation, mighty respect brothers, we have made mentioned with regard to
some of the points of how we are social beings, we have made mentioned with regard to this
		

			particular aspect of sometimes has been social beans. We also get involved in disputes and
arguments. How do we deal with disputes and arguments? This is not a complete aspect with regard to
it is not a complete, you know, talk on all the aspects but at least some of the points it does give
us just to show you the importance of Sula, maybe acronym saw silom went to the Treaty of Arabia
with 1400 people. And afterwards maybe a cream salsa made peace in two years time maybe a cream
sauce enter into matava 10,000 people. This is the benefit of Sula and reconsideration in peace. So
my last monitor give us a topic of understanding. Brothers we also aware that in this last few days,
		

			the aspect in Hannibal Aleppo has been very, very serious. absolutely critical. May Allah subhanho
wa Taala make it easy for the people there in 2011 in the city of Daraa people because of the
oppressive condition, they rose up against the rule of the time, Bashar Assad. And over the years,
what has actually happened 300,000 people, according to some estimates have lost their life. Some 9
million people are in refugee camps are 9 million people. Sometimes when we read the stats, it
doesn't register. We wonder what has happened to us in terms of feeling out for people. Have we
become so desensitized that we don't worry with regard to what is happening? We just read stats. He
		

			doesn't register. I wonder whether the feelings of brotherhood is the left? They are chilling
murderers, defilement of woman executions of innocent woman and children this is happening on a
regular basis. here Allah Mazel Monica Hoon ki Kima penokee South Park pany civica manomaya who mama
dummy dummy Philistine or aashka hallak may or may or Xiaomi Yella Kalyani firma this thrill of
Russia, Iran and acid have brought about such great zoom in oppression upon the people that may
Allah subhanho wa Taala deal with them appropriately. And in this particular regard, whatever we
need to do we need to be doing my dear respective brothers, Joseph Willem Bashar Al Asad Russo,
		

			Iranian Alicia who Suzanne massamba chipper, or by his heart in Palo Alto Daya Cusco, Decker us
manby Escobar, Cusco Dr. Usman B Ashbery, mother, Tanya Susan, Islami, Malik, beta Masha,
		

			Masha de la Kalia electronica sun pharma xalapa allones animoca, we must make dua that Allah
subhanho wa Taala brings about the relief from the oppression for the people of Sham Allah what
difficulty they are going through when you find you know, human being violated, children been
executed in the streets, he Allah make it easy for them. Yeah, whatever we can do in terms of dwell,
we should do at least I would request for records of Nuffield that much we can do today inshallah,
will everyone do that also inshallah, that has made was it and whatever we can do whatever was Roy
voice, you can you can raise, raise the voice materials because they are people who are collecting
		

			in terms of helping the people that Jemison Alma is also busy collecting whatever you can do with
regard to helping the people there, please do a do that. So in this way we make dua that Allah
subhanho wa Taala make it easy for the people of Allah and make it easy for the people of Shama,
another aspect that I would just like to conclude with today's public ordinary so maybe I can
accommodate another two three minutes. I would like to comment on something and not only comment on
what has actually happened, but to take a very great lesson. We know that recently there was a
person who had passed on in a train in a in a airplane crash for the Junaid Jamshed and we know that
		

			there was just an amazing outpouring of grief for him. We make dua that Allah subhanho wa Taala fill
his cover was more under elevated status May Allah make it easy for all the other passengers were
also lost their lives. May Allah tala elevate the status May Allah forgive them also, the point is
not so much speaking about the incident. The hair crash, he has a personality he's dying, although
there was such a great janazah that took place that one off
		

			The great alliums of Pakistan. monometallic, Jamil. When he spoke about the genocide, he saw the
great film of people coming there. So he said, Bahrain se wala hota Hey, Jean Casey janaza Brenda
siwalik sh
		

			sh o Pasha hookah. Jana, Xavi been a lotta How fortunate are these people are people like this, that
we have such a great throng of people coming to the janazah we don't find the genesis of Kings also
in such a way. The point is, what was it that made the people turn towards him? What made people
turn towards him and I would just like to give everyone this lesson today. One is for yourself.
Never, ever feel that I cannot change. Never, ever feel that the circumstances are beyond me to
change. Never, ever feel that with regard to your children. never feel that with regard to anyone.
Don't lose hope on anyone.
		

			Our past might be tainted. Our future is spotless. No one here, no matter how much Guna you have
committed, no one year has committed any Guna and sell the next two minutes. No one. Our past might
be full of sense. Our future is spotless. We still got an opportunity to change our life. Yes, an
opportunity of a person who was a rock star. He was a person who was one of the greatest musician
women in terms of stats, you know, BBC and Times magazine that said that his songs were the third
most popular in human history. And then he changed his life. He had a beard, he passed away when his
last supper was in the path of Allah talking about Allah subhanho wa Taala which reminds me that
		

			during the course of narrating his life story, once when I heard it from him, he said that during
the course one day someone told him that go out in the path of Allah go and speak to people. So he
said, I'm a rock star. I'm a musician, whatever I got to do to to tell people to come in the path of
Allah, the person who was making his skill, who was telling him Come on the right path. He said
today by Bray Paul mud bolo Junaid. Don't make tall claims today. Don't make tall trains. Hard to
Hazara loco gana sooner I yakata
		

			up Hazara loco Bianca, today you are, you are singing songs to 1000s of people, if not millions, who
knows if Allah will change your life? One day you will be given a ban of greatness to 1000s of
people. And that is exactly what happened. A person who was singing songs to other people, and law
changes his life. He goes out in the path of Allah, he dies in the course of being in the path of
Allah and look at what a janazah he leaves behind that 1000s of people and millions of people come
to pay tribute to him. It's a very great lesson. Don't lose. Don't lose faith in yourself. And don't
lose faith in anyone. Don't judge anyone can bring about a change