Ebrahim Bham – Purification Of The Heart #14

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The speaker discusses the negative impact of anger on human relationships, including negative behavior and negative emotions. They also mention the importance of respect and understanding of one's behavior. The speaker emphasizes the need for a trophy and a positive attitude for one's success.

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			And hamdulillah Al Hamdulillah he was salat wa salam O Allah Mallanna Viva la Vida photo Villa
homina shaytani r rajim Bismillahi Rahmani Raheem.
		
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respected viewers and listeners We begin by praising Almighty Allah for granting us the most
comprehensive and the most beautiful Deen which he has chosen for humanity says Allah what are the
two local Melissa Medina essential rotations upon our beloved nebia Kareem sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam
		
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			continuing with our series on purification of the heart. Now, we starting off after speaking about
Rhea ostentation, then jealousy and then pride. Now we starting off on something before we start on
that spiritual disease. And something to do with the heart. Let me give you a small introduction
Allah subhana wa Taala has created within us certain emotions, certain instincts, some unnatural,
like hunger and thirst, some are positive kindness, compassion, mercy, which Allah tala has kept in
every human being, some have propensity for harm, some greater than others, but in terms of harms,
to human relationship, this calamity and affliction and disease that I'm going to be speaking about
		
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			and of course, the disease, if it is not controlled, is perhaps one of the greatest and one of the
most hurtful and harmful for human relationships. And that is anger. And many people have given an
example of anger known as rub in the Arabic language of a swelling ocean, which is very difficult to
control when unleashed. And we know and we are understand the harm with regard to anger in terms of
human relationships, for example, how many people's lives have been destroyed by words or sentences,
which were uttered in a fit of rage and anger, and thereafter is very difficult to to bring it back
out. Someone had said both beautifully, that I'm a master of what I have not said. And I'm a slave
		
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			of what I have said. So in anger, no matter how much you regret it, we have to sometimes live by the
consequences of what you say, how many people have become estranged have been discarded by the
family and society because of not being able to control the anger, how many people have been
offended by words which have been uttered by anger. So there is no doubt with regard to the aspect
with regard to be very, very harmful. Therefore, one day a person came to Nivea creme de la jolla wa
sallam, and he said he had a similar give me advice, and maybe a cream sauce from told him three
times La, la, la tada don't become angry don't become angry. Perhaps he was amongst those who was
		
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			prone to anger, who could not control his anger. Therefore Nivea cream sauce lamb gave him that
advice, which was most appropriate for him. Now very interesting is that anger is not necessarily
all negative. It's not necessarily only a negative emotion, it becomes negative, when it is not
controlled and not channeled as I will go on to say, but it is part and parcel of our makeup is an
instinct with which we are growing and it can be a very, very positive motivator. Without anger, how
will we be motivated to protect our interest? How will we be motivated to respect our honor? How
will we be motivated to protect our assets? Our respect, our honor? How will we be able to be
		
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			getting the right type of attitude to resist injustice and wrong a letter in the Holy Quran says JD
Rockefeller well, Mona Tina was loose alliums strive against those people who aren't falsehood and
be stern against them. How will that happen if there is no anger? And therefore we find in the words
of the the Hadith any exempt executive in in the example of our beloved Nivea cream saucer, they
used to get angry, especially for concentrations of truth and justice and Huck may be occurring saw
seldom never the Sahaba say that never got angry for his own personal reasons. He used to get angry
for the sake and for considerations of truth and justice. And sometimes when he used to get angry
		
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			that they used to be a vein that used to protrude between his two eyes between the eyebrows, and
people used to see it and his, you know, cheeks used to be flush with redness
		
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			In one rewired so amazingly, they say it was as if pomegranate was squeezed upon the face of our
beloved to be a cream sauce from Monrovia Loughton was anger for the sake of truth and justice is
well known as shut to home Family Law humor via cream sauce them said the one who is most stern and
strong upon the commands of Allah tala is over. And who can forget that most remarkable incident of
Allah, the Allahu anhu, which has been made mentioned in the books of history, that he was fighting
in the course of fighting. And he overwhelmed a person who was a competent, not a non competent,
competent, someone who was in the war. And he had set upon him and he had overwhelmed him. And he
		
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			was about to finish him he was about to, to complete here, the aspect of killing him in the
battlefield. And all of a sudden the person spat upon the face of the law. And he got up and the
person was just taken aback and he said, You had me under your control. It was not as if this was an
unfair and unjust type of thing. It was a war. If I had the opportunity, I would have done the same
thing to you. What made you do this? He said I was fighting with you for the sake of Allah. Now that
respect upon me, I saw personal considerations coming into the play, and therefore I withdrew. So
hon Allah that is a substitution. Imam ghazali Rahmatullah So, beautifully said that anger right is
		
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			correct, for the right time at the right time, at the right place, with the right reasons with the
right intensity. Let me repeat that anger can be positive, if it is at the right time, the right
place, the right reason with the right intensity. And there is no greater example in this than the
example of our beloved Nivea creams, Allahu Allah wa sallam in every meta he was an ideal. We know
minutus details with regard to the life of our beloved maybe aquariums alone and we know that he
used to get angry. We also know that sometimes those anger used to be upon his face, but we never
ever know that maybe a cream sauce lamb lost himself in anger, or he did something that was rash or
		
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			imprudent. And that is the example that we have to follow. May Allah Allah give us a trophy case we
will continue with us in the coming days
		
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