Bilal Assad – Talking to Allah

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The speakers discuss the importance of "winning to be papa" and finding a higher power. They also touch on the concept of "winning to be papa" and the importance of trusting someone. The speakers stress the need to show love to people and not rush to avoid success. They also emphasize the importance of not rushing to get relief from the Prophet and not giving personal information. The speakers stress the importance of leaving negative emotions in one's life to avoid regret and achieve success.

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			So,
		
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			Akhi Aiman
		
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			sees me in this outfit.
		
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			I've never dressed like this before.
		
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			Someone gifted it to me from Melbourne and
		
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			I promised them that I'm going to wear
		
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			it here.
		
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			So I come out, mashaAllah, and he says
		
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			to me,
		
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			hello, Smurf.
		
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			I said if my beard was white, you'd
		
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			call me papa Smurf.
		
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			Anyway, he's brushing off on me. How are
		
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			you fam?
		
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			Beautiful topic for you. I wanna talk to
		
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			you about it. It's really close to my
		
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			heart and I wanna share it with you,
		
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			insha'Allah.
		
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			It's called talking to Allah.
		
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			So basically about du'a and connecting with Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. But let's go through it
		
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			insha'Allah.
		
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			First of all, the theme today
		
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			is about the Quran. So I want to
		
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			begin with a verse from the Quran
		
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			about the Quran, insha'Allah, for us to start
		
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			off and to be proud of why we're
		
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			here, insha'Allah. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			said in chapter 10 verse 58.
		
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			Allah says,
		
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			O people,
		
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			now has there come to you
		
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			an exhortation from your Lord,
		
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			a healing for the ailments of the hearts,
		
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			and a guidance
		
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			and mercy for those who believe.
		
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			Tell them, O prophet,
		
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			let them rejoice in Allah's grace and mercy
		
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			through which this book has come to you.
		
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			It is better than all the riches that
		
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			they accumulate.
		
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			So rejoice, brothers and sisters, with this Quran,
		
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			the word of Allah, which he talks to
		
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			us through
		
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			and it is his relationship to us. He
		
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			talks to us and he is waiting for
		
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			us to respond.
		
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			Brothers and sisters, let me begin with something.
		
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			From the moment we're born,
		
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			every human being has a natural, psychological,
		
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			innate
		
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			nature.
		
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			That nature,
		
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			from the moment you're a baby,
		
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			is that you yearn for an attachment
		
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			with
		
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			a caregiver,
		
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			someone who looks after you, someone that you
		
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			can feel the love from,
		
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			someone that you can cry to as a
		
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			baby,
		
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			the person who will look after you in
		
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			your vulnerability as a baby.
		
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			And the psychologists say that when a baby
		
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			attaches to its mother and to its father
		
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			and there's a healthy relationship,
		
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			that child grows up to have a better
		
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			psychological
		
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			well-being and a longer survival rate.
		
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			Why? Because their mental well-being is better because
		
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			they found their attachment
		
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			to a caregiver.
		
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			The human being loves to feel secure and
		
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			safe.
		
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			And in our times of hardship and when
		
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			we feel lost,
		
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			we naturally turn
		
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			to someone.
		
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			Some of us know who to turn to
		
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			and others of us don't, so we feel
		
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			lost.
		
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			Some people don't have any support mechanism, and
		
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			others, they do have the support. But when
		
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			the going gets tough, even the closest people
		
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			to them that they relied
		
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			on, they can't help them. So we always
		
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			yearn to look for something even higher. And
		
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			if we can't find it, this is how
		
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			people go astray. They resort to all sorts
		
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			of harmful things in their lives. They resort
		
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			to drugs. They resort to sexual addictions, they
		
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			resort to gang gangs, they look for their
		
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			identity or they just lose themselves. Some people
		
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			even take their life.
		
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			Psychologists tell us that based on this,
		
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			they found this is a this is a
		
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			a study which is confirmed.
		
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			They said
		
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			that, thus,
		
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			a person who has a connection with God
		
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			or a higher power,
		
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			a faith in God,
		
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			it is proven that they have a better
		
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			psychological health overall,
		
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			and their mental condition
		
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			is better dealt with over time, and they
		
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			have less rates of
		
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			suicide. So brothers and sisters,
		
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			Allah
		
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			what does He call us to do?
		
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			He says to you, connect with Me
		
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			so that you can feel amazing.
		
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			The moment that you woke up in the
		
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			morning and right now that you are breathing,
		
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			the fact that you're breathing
		
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			means that Allah
		
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			still has use for you in this world,
		
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			and you have a purpose and an importance
		
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			in this world. You are needed,
		
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			or someone needs you, or Allah has seen
		
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			something good in you that He wants your
		
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			goodness to continue,
		
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			or He's giving you time to repent and
		
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			to return.
		
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			Whatever it is, assume well of Allah
		
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			I'll tell you a little short story. This
		
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			happened to me a few years back. An
		
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			atheist guy, an atheist who doesn't believe in
		
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			God at all,
		
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			He was a cable guy. He came to
		
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			my house to do some cable technician
		
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			technical stuff.
		
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			So after we finished, he liked me and
		
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			he said, you know what, I'm gonna do
		
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			it for free for you. He was an
		
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			American dude.
		
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			So we came outside and had a little
		
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			discussion. He wanted to talk to me. And
		
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			he said to me,
		
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			you know, I've looked through all the religions
		
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			and I've given up on God. I don't
		
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			want to see or talk about God.
		
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			I said, have you looked at the Quran
		
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			or Islam? I couldn't even finish the sentence
		
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			and he goes, no.
		
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			I don't want to talk about God.
		
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			No God. I went through so much pain.
		
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			And then I said to him, just and
		
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			he says, no.
		
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			So I stopped.
		
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			And then he himself said to me
		
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			his worries and his pain and his trauma.
		
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			And in the end,
		
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			wallahi, he said to me this by himself.
		
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			He said to me, but you know what?
		
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			Why do I feel?
		
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			Why do I imagine
		
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			that if I was because I go fishing,
		
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			he says. I imagine that if I was
		
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			on the boat
		
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			in the middle of the sea
		
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			and I'm all alone,
		
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			I get this thought, this fear,
		
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			that what if my boat sunk right now
		
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			and I got nobody to help me? I
		
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			feel so scared. I feel so vulnerable.
		
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			Why do I he's asking me,
		
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			why do I feel
		
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			like I need to turn upwards,
		
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			like I need to call upon
		
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			God?
		
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			Why do I feel like that? And I'm
		
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			thinking, you just shut me up. Why are
		
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			you asking this question?
		
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			But it's innate. We always look for a
		
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			higher power. He says, why do I feel
		
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			like that? He must have felt that there's
		
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			something
		
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			good
		
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			and a bit deeper that I can offer
		
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			him.
		
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			I said to him, you know what? Remember
		
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			when I told you about reading the Quran?
		
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			He goes, no, I don't want Asapusa, please.
		
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			I just want to tell you exactly
		
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			about your question.
		
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			And I recite it to him.
		
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			Allah says,
		
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			Allah says in chapter 29 verse 65,
		
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			and when they, the disbelievers of Makkah talking
		
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			about the disbelievers of Makkah until every other
		
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			disbeliever.
		
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			When they, the disbelievers of Makkah, embark in
		
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			the ships,
		
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			they call upon Allah.
		
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			They call upon Allah with full heartedness,
		
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			with their faith to him.
		
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			But when he rescues them
		
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			and brings them to land, they suddenly begin
		
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			to associate
		
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			others with Allah
		
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			in His divinity.
		
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			In another verse, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says,
		
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			Allah says again,
		
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			when waves engulf them in the sea like
		
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			canopies,
		
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			they call upon Allah,
		
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			again, full heartedly in their faith solely to
		
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			him. But when he delivers them safely to
		
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			the land, some of them become lukewarm,
		
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			meaning they start to
		
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			not really stick to their promise
		
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			and their deal that they made with Allah
		
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			in the beginning.
		
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			None denies our sign except
		
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			those who are ungrateful
		
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			and those
		
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			who
		
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			don't want to follow the truth.
		
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			Brothers and sisters,
		
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			each and every one of us has been
		
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			through some hardship in life and we need
		
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			to call upon Allah. So Allah invites us
		
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			in the Quran in chapter 40 verse 60.
		
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			Allah says,
		
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			your Lord said,
		
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			pray to me, make du'a to me, call
		
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			upon me,
		
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			and I will accept your prayers.
		
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			Surely those
		
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			who are too proud to worship me shall
		
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			enter *
		
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			utterly
		
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			abased.
		
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			Let's go through this verse a little bit.
		
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			Please bear with me and stay with me,
		
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			Insha'Allah.
		
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			The first thing that we notice about this
		
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			particular verse, the first thing is that Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala tells us to make du'a,
		
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			to pray
		
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			to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala in du'a. And
		
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			the second thing we notice is that he
		
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			mentions Ibadah, which means worship. The two things,
		
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			dua and Ibadah,
		
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			Calling to Allah
		
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			and worshipping Him
		
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			are exactly the same thing. Some people they
		
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			say dua means just to call upon Allah
		
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			for what I need.
		
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			No. No. No. No. No. You need to
		
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			understand.
		
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			Everything you do of worship, your salah, your
		
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			fasting, your zakah, your sadaqa,
		
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			helping another person, visiting a sick person, guiding
		
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			another person, advising another person, being there to
		
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			help someone, bringing a smile to another person.
		
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			All these good deeds all these good deeds
		
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			of worship, they are all called du'a.
		
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			Your salah from the moment you say Allahu
		
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			Akbar to the moment you say salamalaykum,
		
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			it is all called what?
		
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			Dua. Because the word dua means Ibadah
		
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			and Ibadah means
		
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			dua. Did you all get that?
		
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			It's very important. You have to get that
		
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			before I can go on.
		
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			Worship is
		
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			supplication and supplication
		
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			is
		
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			worship. What does that mean? It means that
		
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			every time you worship Allah, any good deed
		
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			you do for His sake, while you are
		
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			not lifting your hands up like this and
		
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			saying, oh Allah, oh Allah, the fact that
		
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			you are doing an act of worship itself
		
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			is a request from Allah for something.
		
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			And Allah rewards you all the time. That's
		
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			why when you do your salat and you
		
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			finish,
		
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			you find that
		
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			Allah blesses you more.
		
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			We just don't see it all the time.
		
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			When you do a good deed, don't you
		
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			feel something changing in your heart?
		
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			When you look after an orphan, don't you
		
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			feel something changing in your heart? When you've
		
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			advised someone or you were there for them
		
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			and you feel, and they just come up
		
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			to you and say, wallahi, Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala sent you to me and my life
		
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			changed, or I was about to do this
		
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			and you came to me and this changed.
		
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			How do you feel?
		
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			Because an act of worship changes something inside
		
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			you and gives you a paradise in your
		
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			heart that nobody has.
		
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			So therefore, brothers and sisters, there's 2 types
		
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			of du'a. The du'a of request, which all
		
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			of us know about. It's when you say,
		
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			O Allah, I'm poor, give me. O Allah,
		
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			I'm sick, cure me. O Allah, have mercy
		
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			on my parents. O Allah, I'm lost, guide
		
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			me. O Allah, protect me. All this is
		
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			called the requesting dua.
		
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			The second type of du'a is what?
		
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			What is it?
		
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			You guys are not listening.
		
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			What's the second type of du'a?
		
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			Worshipping Allah. Worshipping is called dua.
		
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			There's a reason why I'm saying that.
		
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			The prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,
		
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			he said, the hadith is in Tirmidhi,
		
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			prayer or dua
		
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			is the marrow. The marrow is the marrow
		
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			of the bone. It's the heart
		
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			of worship.
		
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			Dua is the heart of worship
		
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			because worship is how you connect to Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			I'm sure you have husbands and wives here.
		
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			You have parents and children here. You have
		
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			siblings over here. You have friends.
		
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			Some of you have pets.
		
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			You have pets at home?
		
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			I'm sure that you love someone or something.
		
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			And I'm sure that your connection with that
		
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			someone or something is very special.
		
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			If it's not special, there is no attachment
		
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			really.
		
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			Can you imagine you say they say to
		
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			you, I love you. I love you. I
		
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			love you. I love you. But they're not
		
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			actually fulfilling anything about the love. They're not
		
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			really doing anything to show you the love.
		
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			You'll say, Well, you're a hypocrite. This is
		
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			hypocrisy.
		
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			If you say to somebody, I love you
		
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			but you show no love towards us, nothing
		
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			that you're doing, the love is not real.
		
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			Isn't that correct? And you feel that cold
		
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			the relationship is cold.
		
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			If you if there's a friend of yours
		
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			that you really love and you tell them
		
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			you're my best friend or whatever, but you
		
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			don't call them, and they don't call you,
		
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			and you don't spend time together, suddenly your
		
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			hearts kind of drift apart. You don't remember
		
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			each other that much.
		
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			Same with Allah
		
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			If you don't have a special type of
		
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			connection that you talk to Him, you're gonna
		
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			be forgetful.
		
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			Some people they say, I love Allah and
		
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			I'm always loving Him, and I'm there, and
		
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			I'm that, and I'm this, and I'm that,
		
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			and if you know, I'll go out and
		
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			always defend Islam. But that's not enough, brothers
		
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			and sisters.
		
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			If you don't have regular contact with Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala, regular talking on a daily
		
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			basis,
		
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			you are never going to feel that connection
		
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			that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is talking about,
		
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			ever.
		
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			Brothers and sisters, the second thing we take
		
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			out of this verse is the following,
		
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			that Allah
		
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			loves it when we supplicate to him. He
		
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			loves it whenever we supplicate to him.
		
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			The prophet, peace be upon him, said,
		
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			ask of Allah his bounty.
		
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			Ask him, oh my Lord, give me from
		
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			your bounty. Oh Allah, provide me from your
		
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			blessings. Oh, Allah, let me enjoy your blessings.
		
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			Nothing wrong with that
		
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			because Allah likes that he should be asked.
		
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			You know what? Someone told me a very
		
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			stupid question. They asked me a stupid question.
		
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			Actually, it wasn't even a question, it was
		
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			a statement.
		
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			They come up and they
		
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			go,
		
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			why would God need you to ask Him?
		
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			This sounds like a narcissistic person,
		
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			a controlling person.
		
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			They always want you to come back to
		
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			them
		
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			to feel
		
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			that you are in need of them. SubhanAllah.
		
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			This is kufr. This is disbelief and blasphemy,
		
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			twisted
		
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			ideologies. And I'm sure they're not Muslims who
		
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			said that,
		
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			but that did come to me. Brothers and
		
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			sisters, don't ever think of Allah
		
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			that way. I'll tell you why Allah
		
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			says He loves it for you to ask
		
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			Him and supplicate to Him. Number 1,
		
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			to make you feel
		
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			His presence
		
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			with you.
		
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			That's the first thing.
		
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			When you call upon Allah for a need,
		
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			it means that you feel His presence with
		
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			you. Allah doesn't need anything. He doesn't need
		
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			you to call upon Him. What are you
		
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			gonna bring to Allah
		
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			For you to feel His presence that He
		
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			is with you. That's number 1. Number 2,
		
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			you call upon Allah and Allah loves it
		
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			because He wants to make you know
		
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			that He is always
		
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			listening. You know, you love your parents when
		
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			your parents listen.
		
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			Always young people, they say to me, my
		
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			mom and dad just don't listen, so I
		
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			go and do my own thing.
		
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			They're the last people that I'll tell that
		
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			I've got a girlfriend. Why? Or a boyfriend
		
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			or someone that I love. Because they don't
		
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			they've never listened.
		
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			What are they gonna tell me?
		
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			And I'm not saying that this justifies you
		
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			to go and do that haram, brothers and
		
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			sisters. Don't you ever do that? I promise
		
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			you, when you get married, you're gonna have
		
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			all sorts of problems. Trust issues,
		
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			the person that you marry, if you've been
		
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			out together a lot, then they're probably going
		
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			to say every time if a girl goes
		
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			past, a woman goes past, and you look
		
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			at her, she's going to say, well, you
		
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			looked at me when it was all haram.
		
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			How do I know that you fear Allah
		
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			now? And then he will say to her,
		
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			well, you went out with me as well.
		
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			How can I trust you? I've seen a
		
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			lot of this happen. Start everything halal and
		
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			watch how, Insha'Allah, your relationship will be pure
		
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			insha Allahu ta'ala.
		
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			But anyway, coming back to the story. Number
		
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			3,
		
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			it shows that He cares and loves you
		
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			because he wants you to connect with him
		
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			and ask him because he loves to give
		
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			you. He loves to look after you.
		
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			Number 4, to make you feel independent of
		
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			people. We always we always complain about how
		
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			we can't trust everyone.
		
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			How everybody betrays us, even the closest of
		
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			people. Even the people who help you a
		
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			lot, there comes a point where they just
		
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			can't help you. Isn't that right? They let
		
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			you down, they fail you. Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala is telling you, if the whole world
		
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			fails you and turns their back on them,
		
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			always know that I am always here for
		
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			you and you are independent.
		
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			You don't have to please anybody. So long
		
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			as you are pleasing Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,
		
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			you are free and you are independent. And
		
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			every single individual in this audience and around
		
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			the world can be special to Allah
		
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			and not need anybody. All you have to
		
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			say is
		
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			We hear the Palestinian brothers and sisters in
		
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			Gaza every time. No matter how many members
		
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			of their family die under the rubbles, what
		
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			are they saying? What do you hear them
		
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			saying?
		
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			What do you hear them saying?
		
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			We don't need anybody. We have Allah. Ma'ana
		
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			Allah, they say.
		
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			This is what we want. This is true
		
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			victory, brothers and sisters. This is true victory.
		
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			This is what's killing their enemies.
		
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			How are they still so victorious and free?
		
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			Because it's inside.
		
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			They've got Allah. Just like Ibrahim alayhi wasalam
		
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			was thrown in the fire, he said,
		
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			he doesn't need anybody.
		
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			And Allah says, I'm here for you.
		
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			Brothers and sisters, it is also human nay
		
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			natural inclination to turn to a caregiver, as
		
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			I said before. And Allah is omnipresent.
		
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			He is present always with you, all powerful,
		
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			and he gives you a sense of security
		
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			in hope. That is why Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala loves you to call upon him. He
		
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			wants you to feel it. He wants you
		
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			to grow. He wants you to feel amazing.
		
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			Brothers and sisters, so dua
		
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			and worship is attachment and relationship
		
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			with your caregiver and your Lord
		
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			Next, brothers and sisters,
		
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			rasul,
		
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			He says,
		
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			when you ask and call to Allah,
		
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			make dua about everything.
		
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			Everything. Listen to this. The hadith is in
		
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			Tirmidi. He said,
		
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			each one of you should ask his every
		
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			need of Allah.
		
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			So much so that even if his shoelace
		
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			breaks,
		
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			he should pray
		
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			to Allah
		
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			about it.
		
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			It's an authentic hadith. How do you pray
		
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			to Allah if your shoelace breaks?
		
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			Or if you do up your shoelace?
		
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			You can say this, you can say, bismillah.
		
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			When you wear your shoes, you can say,
		
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			O Allah, bring about goodness for me by
		
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			wearing these shoes.
		
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			Talk to Allah and say this stuff.
		
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			This stuff is not just affirmation.
		
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			This stuff really makes you connected to the
		
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			true God, Allah, and it makes your day
		
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			change. Try it. Try it every morning. Tomorrow
		
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			morning, put your shoes on, do your shoelaces
		
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			up, and say, Bismillah,
		
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			oh Allah,
		
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			Make these shoes
		
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			a pathway for goodness for my day today.
		
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			Make me walk to the best of places
		
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			that benefit me. Try it tomorrow.
		
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			I dare you to try it tomorrow. Come
		
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			on. Try it tomorrow. And, InshaAllah, you'll see
		
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			something change about your day.
		
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			My brothers and sisters, another thing we understand
		
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			from this verse, Allah says,
		
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			I will respond to you. Now this is
		
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			the biggest problem people have. It's a big
		
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			misunderstanding.
		
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			A lot of people say, I've asked Allah
		
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			I've made du'a, why isn't the response coming?
		
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			Where is it? And then they give up.
		
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			Here's the thing, brothers and sisters. Listen very
		
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			carefully. It's a very important lesson.
		
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			We human beings,
		
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			we don't know everything. Do you agree?
		
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			Do I know what's gonna happen tomorrow?
		
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			Do I know what's gonna happen tonight? I
		
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			don't know.
		
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			I didn't even choose to be born here.
		
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			Who am I? Where am I going? I
		
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			don't know what's gonna happen tomorrow.
		
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			So when I make du'a,
		
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			I'm expecting
		
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			something specific from Allah
		
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			at a specific time in a specific way.
		
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			That's the majority of people that are doing
		
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			it.
		
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			I remember one person,
		
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			they were going through grief, so they came
		
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			to me for a bit of help.
		
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			And
		
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			they did the typical stuff, you know, they
		
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			they went and made du'a, they isolated themselves
		
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			from people, they left their job,
		
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			and then they're making du'a night and day
		
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			night and day crying and crying crying. And
		
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			then they said to me, it's getting worse.
		
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			Why isn't Allah giving me help?
		
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			And I said to them, it's because you
		
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			are focusing on one particular
		
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			expectation.
		
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			You are focusing on God giving you something
		
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			specific, and that is relief.
		
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			I said, you are over exhausting yourself.
		
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			Because you're thinking about it a lot, you're
		
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			making it
		
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			worse. You have to get out of it
		
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			and continue.
		
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			Get out, make your dua, and then move.
		
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			You gotta do your part.
		
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			And don't expect something specific at a specific
		
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			time Allah knows and say, Allah will give
		
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			it to me exactly when I need it.
		
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			Listen to this beautiful hadith of the prophet
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. He said,
		
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			pray to Allah with the certainty
		
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			that He will answer your dua. That's the
		
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			first condition. When you make dua,
		
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			have certainty
		
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			that Allah is going to respond to you.
		
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			Number 2, don't be hasty.
		
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			Don't hurry up the du'a.
		
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			Rather, the prophet
		
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			said, the servant's pray
		
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			the servant's prayer is granted
		
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			provided that he does not pray for a
		
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			sin. You can't ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			for something sinful.
		
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			And number 2, for severing connections with the
		
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			kindred.
		
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			So to say, oh Allah,
		
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			disunite between so and so and so and
		
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			so. Oh Allah,
		
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			disconnect my parents from me, disconnect my children
		
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			from me, disconnect my cousin from me. No,
		
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			no, no. That's not how you should make
		
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			your dua. Rather, the Prophet
		
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			then said, so long as you don't ask
		
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			for something sinful or cutting off of ties,
		
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			unless you say somebody is really harming you
		
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			in your family, say, oh, Allah, protect me
		
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			from this particular person in my family who's
		
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			harming you. That's a different story. But I'm
		
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			talking about, you know, sometimes
		
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			like some some young people, they say to
		
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			me that,
		
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			sir or sheikhs, my students, they say, my
		
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			mother made a dua against me,
		
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			and I didn't even do anything.
		
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			Will her dua be accepted?
		
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			So what did she say? She said, I
		
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			hope that Allah cuts you off out of
		
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			my life.
		
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			I said, Insha'Allah, that du'a is not going
		
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			to be accepted.
		
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			Because the Prophet
		
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			said, so long as you do not make
		
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			a du'a of severing ties.
		
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			Sometimes I heard another person came up and
		
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			says, my dad doesn't like the woman I
		
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			married.
		
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			So he made a dua for us to
		
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			separate.
		
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			I said, InshaAllah, this du'a is not going
		
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			to be accepted.
		
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			Why? Because the Prophet said, so long as
		
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			you do not make a du'a for severing
		
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			ties. They said, but then my parents and
		
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			Allah said that he accepts all the dua.
		
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			Yes. He accepts the dua when you wrong
		
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			them,
		
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			not when they wronged you.
		
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			And your du'a
		
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			against someone else
		
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			with injustice, like if you say, oh, Allah,
		
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			do such and such and so and so,
		
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			and they don't deserve it,
		
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			your dua is not gonna be accepted.
		
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			Because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is adil, He's
		
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			just, and He will not respond to injustice.
		
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			Next, the Prophet
		
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			said, so long as you are not hasty.
		
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			O Messenger of Allah, they said,
		
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			what does hasty mean? And he said, being
		
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			hasty is that a person says, I have
		
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			prayed so much again and again, but
		
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			my du'a is not being answered, then he
		
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			becomes tired
		
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			and gives up their du'a, which means that
		
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			Allah was probably about to accept it, about
		
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			to give you what you want, and then
		
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			you
		
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			just gave up. The second thing we know
		
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			here that the prophet
		
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			he said,
		
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			whenever a Muslim prays, unless it be a
		
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			prayer for a sin or for severing relationships
		
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			with the kindred, Allah grants it in one
		
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			way or one of 3 ways. Number 1,
		
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			either his dua is granted in this very
		
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			world. You get what you want in this
		
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			world.
		
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			Or it is preserved
		
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			for rewarding him or her in the hereafter.
		
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			Or a disaster of some degree is prevented
		
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			from befalling him or her.
		
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			This is how the companions and the prophets
		
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			used to ask Allah
		
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			They said, O Allah, give me what is
		
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			best for me, and You are the Most
		
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			Merciful.
		
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			Ayyub
		
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			did not say, O Allah, cure me, when
		
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			he got sick. The prophet Ayyub said,
		
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			Oh Allah, harm has touched me and you
		
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			are the most merciful. Meaning, we never attribute
		
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			anything negative to Allah. Harm does not come
		
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			from Allah. If Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala allows
		
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			harm to come to you, it has to
		
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			be some benefit in it. But pure evil,
		
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			Allah never never decrees pure evil on anybody.
		
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			So that's why Ayub said, oh Allah, evil
		
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			has touched me. It is said that his
		
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			wife started to get affected. The shaitan came
		
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			and started to whisper to her. So he
		
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			said, oh Allah, harm has affected me, and
		
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			you are the most merciful, meaning do whatever
		
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			it is under your mercy that is best
		
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			for me.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala do what is merciful
		
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			to you. This is the way we ask
		
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			Allah. The 4th thing we we understand from
		
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			this verse is this. Allah
		
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			says, those who disdain
		
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			My worship shall enter * utterly abased. You
		
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			know what that means?
		
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			It doesn't mean that if you don't make
		
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			dua, you're gonna go to hellfire. What it
		
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			means remember what I told you. Dua is
		
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			and
		
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			is It means people who give up on
		
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			Allah, they don't worship Allah, they turn their
		
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			backs on Allah, it means they're ungrateful to
		
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			Allah, it means they don't acknowledge that Allah
		
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			is the Provider, the Maintainer, the Powerful, that
		
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			means you turn to something else for help.
		
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			These people have given up on Allah. They
		
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			will not receive what Allah
		
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			has prepared for them. 1 of my friends
		
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			once said to me,
		
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			you know,
		
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			worshipping another god or
		
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			making du'a to another god or to something
		
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			else other than Allah and then expecting the
		
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			reward from Allah is like working for Hyundai
		
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			and expecting Audi to pay you.
		
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			It's not gonna work. Can you work for
		
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			a company and expect another company to pay
		
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			you? No. You got to turn to Allah
		
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			and
		
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			have a two way
		
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			communication
		
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			and connection.
		
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			My brothers and sisters,
		
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			something very important.
		
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			We notice in this verse that Allah says
		
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			He will respond. Some person might ask the
		
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			question, hold on a minute, hold on. If
		
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			Allah has already written everything for me and
		
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			everything is already going to happen and my
		
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			fate and my destiny is already written, what's
		
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			the point of making du'a? If I make
		
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			du'a, whatever God has written for me is
		
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			still gonna happen. So what's the point?
		
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			Or some people they say, hold on, why
		
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			would Allah say to me ask dua when
		
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			he's already written what's going to happen, so
		
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			he's already
		
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			you know, he has to stick to his
		
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			word that he wrote this. This is what
		
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			people have asked me what
		
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			The answer to that, brothers and sisters, is
		
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			here, that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is in
		
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			control of qadr. He is in control of
		
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			destiny and fate. There are certain destinies of
		
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			fate that can never change. For example, if
		
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			you say, O Allah, return me back to
		
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			my mother's womb and make me a boy
		
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			instead of a girl. Or make me a
		
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			girl instead of a boy. O Allah, return
		
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			me back and give me different parents.
		
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			O Allah, make me fly. No, no.
		
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			There are certain things that cannot change,
		
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			but
		
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			there are certain things that are connected to
		
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			your Du'a.
		
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			Allah has left every single one of us
		
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			in this world, even the non Muslims, everybody.
		
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			There are certain things which Allah
		
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			withholds
		
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			and He'll change them only if you do
		
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			something.
		
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			And if you don't do that something, then
		
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			the original decision will be given to you.
		
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			Example,
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says, Whoever likes to
		
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			have a longer life and more blessings and
		
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			wealth in life, then be good to your
		
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			parents and connect your ties.
		
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			Because there's happiness when your family is together,
		
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			insha'Allah,
		
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			if you can. The Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa
		
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			sallam gave us several other examples. He said,
		
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			nothing can avert destiny but the prayer.
		
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			Bad destiny, bad things that people don't like,
		
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			nothing can change it except dua. But you
		
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			might be saying, hold on a minute, I
		
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			thought that Allah He is the one that
		
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			does all the Qadr, how could my du'a
		
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			change? Well, who are you calling to? You
		
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			are calling to the one who owns the
		
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			Qadr. So the one who made the Qadr,
		
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			you're calling him to change that Qadr. And
		
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			And Allah tells you, I have left some
		
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			of the Qadr to be changed based on
		
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			your dua. Why? Because Allah wants to give
		
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			you importance. He wants to work with you.
		
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			So that when you call upon Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala and you change or you do
		
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			something good, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will reward
		
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			you by changing
		
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			the qadr and saying to the angels, I
		
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			have now made a decision for this person
		
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			in another way. And finally,
		
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			brothers and sisters, here are some ways to
		
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			make dua. Number 1, in your sujood, when
		
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			you are insulat in sujood, after your prayers,
		
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			sit down and make dua. In the nights,
		
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			get up and make dua while doing a
		
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			good deed. You're doing a good deed, make
		
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			dua. Ibrahim alayhi salaam Ismail did. When Ibrahim
		
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			alayhi salaam Ismail were building the Kaaba, they
		
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			would make dua as they're building it. So
		
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			as you're doing a good deed, make dua
		
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			and the dua will inshaAllah be more likely
		
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			to be accepted.
		
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			In any language you like, it doesn't have
		
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			to be in Arabic. You can make your
		
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			dua. Some people say to me, but in
		
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			my salah, do I have to make dua
		
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			in Arabic?
		
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			I say to you, the scholars said that
		
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			in the compulsory prayer stick to the Arabic
		
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			ones that you've learned from the Prophet salallahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam. And in your sunnah and
		
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			nafil prayers, you can do your dua in
		
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			English. And that is the correct opinion Insha'Allah.
		
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			Otherwise, you can make your dua in any
		
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			language you want. In fact the dua has
		
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			to come out from your own heart. So
		
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			even if you make a dua in the
		
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			way that you know, like you might be
		
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			sitting there and saying, O Allah, I don't
		
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			know what it is, but there's something I'm
		
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			not feeling right about this, You Allah. I
		
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			don't know what to ask for, but just
		
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			whatever is good within your mercy. That's it.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala knows exactly what you
		
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			need.
		
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			Another thing is by mentioning your past good
		
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			deeds.
		
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			Some people they say to me, isn't that
		
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			blackmail? I couldn't believe that question. I said
		
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			a story about 3 men who were stuck
		
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			in a cave, and one of them he
		
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			said,
		
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			they got together and they said, let's all
		
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			take a corner and ask Allah Subhanahu wa
		
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			Ta'ala by mentioning some of our good deeds
		
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			that we've done in the past and maybe
		
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			Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala
		
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			will relieve us from this cave. And then
		
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			the first man he said, You Rabb, I
		
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			had
		
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			parents
		
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			who I loved and I used to serve
		
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			them a lot. And then one day they
		
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			asked for some water, I went and got
		
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			them water, I came home, and I found
		
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			them asleep, You Rabbi. So I stayed next
		
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			to them waiting for them to wake up
		
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			any minute just to give them that water,
		
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			I didn't want to also disturb them. And
		
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			they didn't wake up until fajr. Oh my
		
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			Lord, then I gave them their water. O
		
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			Allah, if You know that I did this
		
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			for Your sake and only to please You
		
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			and out of love for my parents, Then
		
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			save us from this cave. And the rock
		
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			moved only a little bit. The second person,
		
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			he said, O Allah, I had a cousin,
		
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			and she was very pretty and very gorgeous.
		
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			And I tempted for her.
		
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			He says, one day I offered her money,
		
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			and I said, I'll give you money if
		
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			you will do haram with me.
		
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			And she said no. Then she became
		
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			destitute at one point, and then I offered
		
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			her again, and then she said, okay, you
		
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			give me the money because I'm so much
		
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			in need. It's a matter of life and
		
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			death. And then he said, when I had
		
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			power over her and I was about to
		
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			do the Haram with her, she reminded me,
		
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			she said, Fear Allah, my cousin. And if
		
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			you want to take me then take it
		
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			in the halal.
		
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			He said, I feared Allah and this woke
		
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			me up. It hit me. I went away
		
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			and I let her keep the jewelry. Oh,
		
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			Allah, if You know for Your sake, I
		
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			went against and withheld my temptation for Your
		
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			sake, save us from this cave. So the
		
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			rock moved only a little bit, but not
		
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			enough. The 3rd person, he said, oh, Allah,
		
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			I used to have a business and I
		
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			had investors
		
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			in crops.
		
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			And after everyone invested, the crops came out
		
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			and I gave them profit.
		
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			1 of them didn't take his profit on
		
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			that day. He went and about a year
		
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			later he came back, and then he wanted
		
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			his profit. I gave him a little bit
		
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			of profit.
		
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			So, he wanted his profit, and then I
		
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			said to him, you know what? Your profit
		
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			stayed with me and it made 1 year's
		
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			profit extra. So you deserve everything you see
		
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			in front of you. That all came from
		
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			your investment. He said, You're joking. He said,
		
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			Wallahi, it's Yours, this is our contract. And
		
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			he took everything. He said, You Rabb, if
		
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			You know that I fulfilled my promise and
		
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			my contract, for Your sake save us from
		
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			this cave. And Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala saved
		
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			them.
		
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			If you have good deeds and you remember
		
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			them, mention
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			Worship is du'a and du'a is
		
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			worship. So what you did over there is
		
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			actually worship. All you're doing is, Oh, my
		
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			Lord. That worship that I did for you,
		
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			I'd like to use it now.
		
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			And I'm in desperate need and Allah gave
		
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			you that as a gift. He says, I
		
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			will let you use even the worship that
		
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			you did, and I will not take away
		
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			your deeds at all.
		
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			This is a gift from Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala and out of His Mercy.
		
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			And finally, brothers and sisters,
		
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			this is beautiful. Did you know that the
		
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			angels also can make du'a for you? I'm
		
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			gonna give you 5 ways to get the
		
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			angels to make du'a for you. Number 1.
		
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			Number 1. When
		
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			you repent to Allah,
		
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			making tawba, you're doing something wrong and you
		
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			decide to change your life. This is the
		
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			best du'a. The Angels, they say,
		
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			the Angels
		
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			that bear the throne and those that are
		
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			around
		
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			Allah
		
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			the Lord and praise Him. They believe in
		
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			Him and ask forgiveness for the believers saying,
		
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			O our Lord, you encompass everything with your
		
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			mercy and knowledge, so forgive those that repent
		
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			and follow your path and guard them against
		
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			the chastisement of hellfire.
		
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			Our Lord, admit them to the everlasting gardens
		
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			you have promised them. And those of their
		
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			fathers and spouses and progeny that were righteous,
		
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			surely you alone are most mighty, most wise,
		
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			and guard them against all ills. He whom
		
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			you guard against ills on that day, to
		
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			him you have surely been most merciful.
		
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			This is the great triumph. All this du'a,
		
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			the angel makes for you when you repent
		
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			to Allah.
		
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			Number 2. Checking in on your sick or
		
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			ill brother or sister when they are in
		
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			need or they need help. The Prophet
		
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			said that 70,000
		
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			angels
		
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			pray for this person from morning until sunset
		
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			if they checked on that sick person or
		
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			the person in need in the morning. And
		
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			they make dua for you, 70,000
		
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			from sunset until fajr, if you checked on
		
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			that person at sunset.
		
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			70,000 angels.
		
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			The hadith is in Tirmidi and Ahmad. Number
		
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			3, while sitting briefly after you pray and
		
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			you don't talk to anyone, so long as
		
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			you're sitting there, let's say 5 minutes, the
		
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			angels make du'a for you to forgive you
		
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			while you're sitting there. And number 4,
		
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			when you give charity. And number 5,
		
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			please listen to this and this is the
		
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			conclusion.
		
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			If you want the angels to make du'a
		
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			for you, number 5,
		
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			you make du'a for your believing brothers and
		
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			sisters around the world.
		
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			The Prophet
		
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			said in Sahih Muslim and others,
		
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			making du'a for your brothers and sisters in
		
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			their absence,
		
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			not in their face
		
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			because you don't want anything from them, in
		
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			their absence
		
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			is an accepted du'a.
		
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			Standing at that person's head
		
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			is a delegated angel
		
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			specifically for you.
		
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			Every time
		
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			the person makes du'a for their brother or
		
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			sister in their absence,
		
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			the angel says,
		
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			Amin,
		
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			and for you is the same,
		
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			and for you is the same.
		
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			So brothers and sisters, make dua'at for your
		
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			family. Magdua for your brothers and sisters. For
		
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			every believer around the world, 2,000,000,000 Muslims,
		
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			2,000,000,000 duas from that one Angel. May Allah
		
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			bless you, my brothers and sisters. May Allah
		
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			bless our brothers and sisters in Gaza and
		
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			Palestine. May Allah bless and protect our brothers
		
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			and sisters all around the world. May Allah
		
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			have mercy on their on their martyrs and
		
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			make their children
		
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			waiting for them at the fountains and the
		
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			doors of Jannah. In your hibbuqum fillah. I
		
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			love you for the sake of Allah. Make
		
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			du'a for us.