Assim Al-Hakeem – The Role Model #13 Things he admonished
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The Prophet's actions during the time he was in charge were not based on bias or deceptivism, but rather on behalf of Islam. The speaker discusses the history of Islam, including the deceptive actions of some Muslims, and emphasizes the importance of praying for Islam's well-being and finding a lost item. The speaker also addresses concerns about smoking weed and the importance of addressing actions and avoid mistakes.
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Hello there go to law. Okay, see it all spelled out of mana Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa salatu salam ala Roberto Theo Rahmatullah Alameen Nabina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi Germain, a my bag, the Brothers and Sisters in Islam as salaam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakato and welcome to this new episode of the role model sallallahu alayhi wa early he was salam, where we take a glimpse of how he lived, how he behaved, how he acted and reacted to different situations where we can learn from him Allah, His salatu salam.
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is as the perfect human being
used to be happy, and sometimes be sad. Sometimes he's pleased, sometimes he's angry, but he would never be angry for his,
for him, self or for things that had happened to him. Rather he gets angry only for the sake of Allah, for the sake of Allah azza wa jal, and whatever thing that wasn't good, took place against his own self, he would pardon he would forgive, and he would meet bad things with good deeds. He was patient and tolerant to the rudeness and ignorance of nomads and the likes. But whenever
the boundaries of Sharia were interfered with, he would become angry. Sometimes, he would punish. Sometimes he would reprimand, sometimes he would admonish. And you can see clearly on his face when he hates something, and sometimes he would look the other way. Maybe his face would become red, when anger when angered. And
we will mention today, some of the scenarios and the incidents where the Prophet alayhi salatu salam admonished his companions for things that they had done. How was it? Was it to get even?
Was it to vent his anger?
Was it to degrade people?
Never. It was to elevate them, to teach them and to draw them closer to Allah azza wa jal through guiding them.
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did not frequently admonish and advise his companions, because
when you sit with people who would only detect what's wrong with you, oh, you said this, this is wrong. You did this, this is wrong, you should have done that.
You feel like you're being scrutinized. And people don't, people do not like this.
As a matter of fact, this can backfire in so many cases, so be careful when to admonish, how to pick the right timing and the right environment and situation.
Once the Prophet alayhi salatu salam admonished his beloved wife, so his love and compassion
would never ever prevent him from saying the word of truth.
The Prophet was always objective, and was always talking for the sake of Allah.
Even if he hated people,
he would stand up to the truth.
He would defend any form of oppression that is unjust,
the Jews
whom we all hate,
and we do not hate them, because of the color of their eyes, or the tone of their skin.
Rather, we hate them for their ill deeds and evil ways, and for their disbelief in Allah azza wa jal.
This is what we were told about them in the Quran that
treachery, their betrayal, their continuous lies, and deceit.
And a couple of nights ago.
They desecrated the third holiest place on earth. And there is a Luxa Al Aqsa Masjid.
They desecrated it under the protection of the police and the army. And no one is saying anything.
And this shows you how weak
and cowardice
the Muslims are nowadays.
They desecrated the masjid, they attack the worshippers.
Business as usual. And even the
Westerners who claim to be democratic and fighting for freedom, did not say a thing did not do a thing. And they will not do a thing because they are bias. They hate Islam and the Muslims
in Sweden
yesterday, they the court overruled a ban on burning the Quran.
The court
goes this low
for what? Only to humilate the Muslims, which they have so many off in their country in which they have a lot of commercial ties with in the Muslim world but the Muslims, business as usual. Burn the Quran, who cares, burn the masjid kill the Muslims, and nobody speaks out.
This is why in Islam, we love for the sake of Allah and we hate for the sake of Allah, we have allegiances for the sake of Allah and our enmity is also for the sake of Allah.
So, look at the fairness and justice of the Prophet alayhi salatu salam, the Jews whom we all hate
us to come to the Prophet alayhi salatu salam and greet him with a twisted word.
So instead of saying As salam Wa alaykum, which means peace be upon you, they used to say Assam Aleykum
which means death be upon you see the difference. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam figured that out. And whenever they came and said, a Somali come death be upon you, he would say why they come
and upon you.
So mother, I Aisha, may Allah be pleased with her, could not hold herself back.
And she shouted at them, saying, May the death and curse and the Wrath of Allah be upon you.
See, she bluntly said it. The Prophet said alayhi salatu salam, reprimanding and admonishing Ayesha Mahua insha
Allah does not endorse or like being
offensive, abusive, or using such profanity, such aggressiveness Allah does not endorse this or like this. She said, Didn't you hear what they said a prophet of Allah? He said, I heard
and I just replied to them, and upon you were Allah would not answer their supplication that def be upon me. But Allah who answered my supplication by saying, and upon you, over them.
Even when we hate people, we are fair and just we do not endorse any form of wrongdoing or oppression
that would be driven by our hatred to them.
Also, the Prophet alayhi salatu salam admonished his poet,
the prophet had three poets has Sandemans habit Cabanon Malik, Abdullah Mira,
and cabinet Malik,
on the battle of to book on the ninth year of hijra,
was a bit
reluctant and lazy in catching up with the Prophet ISIS, Salam. So when
the army said off every day, he would say tomorrow I will go, I'll catch up with them in a while. And he kept on
postponing it until it was too late. That was considered to be a sort of desertion,
as if he deserted the army.
So when the Prophet came back out, he saw Saddam, He admonished him and said to him,
why didn't you join us? Didn't you have a right? To accompany us? Did you have money enough? And he apologized by saying, I had no excuse, oh, Prophet of Allah. And you know what the story happened, the Prophet did not let it go. He admonished him. Also.
Sometimes he would admonish his companions, over things that normal people would think that
nothing.
There was a black woman
who used to clean and sweep the message of the Prophet alayhi salatu salam, which is a great form of worship, but in our eyes, it's It's nothing. It's for the workers. It's for the janitor, not for us. So this black woman used to do that.
And one day, it so happens, or one night that she passed away, she died.
So the Companions may Allah be pleased with them, did not think highly of her
enough to go and wake up the Prophet alayhi salatu salam, and notify him.
So
they took care of business, washed her shrouded or offered funeral prayer and bedded her. And when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam came to know.
He admonished them.
Why didn't you inform me? Why didn't you tell me? So the Companions
answered as if she is nothing a prophet of Allah. She is not of great importance. And the Prophet Allah is ordered them to show him her grave. So they went all to the cemetery. And he stood there with the Companions behind him, and he offered funeral prayer for that woman whom we do not even know her name.
And he said that these graves are filled with darkness, and Allah would fill it with light with my prayer upon them.
The Prophet alayhi salatu salam
admonished those closest to him. As stated earlier, his love and compassion did not prevent him from saying the word of truth.
We all know the status of Oussama even as a demeaning Hadith.
May Allah be pleased with a man with his father. You remember we've mentioned this before they didn't hide it was the adopted son of the Prophet RSO son before adoption was demolished and prohibited.
Osama was his son. And the Prophet loved both dearly as a son and a grandson.
on an expedition Osama came back from he was telling the Prophet alayhi salatu salam how they want.
And there was a duel between him and one of the disbelievers. And the Prophet was anxious to hear about it was very happy until Osama said
that I managed to corner this disbeliever and when he felt that he's going to lose the jewel
as form as protection. He said, a shadow Allah ilaha illallah I bear witness there is no God worthy of being worshipped except Allah, which means that he's a Muslim now.
So Sam has said,
this did not prevent me from putting my sword into his chest and killing him.
Then, the Prophet was shocked. alayhi salatu salam.
And he looked sternly to Osama admonishing him saying you kill him. After he said La Ilaha illa Allah.
He said a prophet of Allah He just said it as a form of protection. He wanted to shield himself.
He didn't mean it. We were just fighting. He's a disbeliever. He's an enemy of the religion. And the Prophet kept on saying you killed him.
matter he said La Ilaha illa Allah, what will you do with that ilaha illa on the day of judgment, and he kept admonishing him by repeating it over and over and over until Osama said to himself, I wish I only became Muslim that day, so that it would have erased this incident from my records.
And this admonishment, benefited Osama greatly. Late years later, when this ruffle and dispute took place between the Companions, factions, and they had to fight with one another. Osama was neither with any of the parties. He wasn't there, he did not fight. He refrained from participating in such a fight.
Not only that Osama did something similar again. And he was admonished again.
A woman from the tribe of Masoom.
dignitary, a highly reputable tribe, she used to steal things from people and never returned them back, like borrowing utensils and never
giving it back saying that it's mine.
So when they complained to the Prophet alayhi salatu salam, the prophet ruled that she has to face the punishment for stealing things, and that is to cut her hand off.
So the people of the woman went to Osama because they know that he's close, and beloved to the Prophet alayhi wa sallam complaint and asked him to intercede so awesome. A young boy, went to the Prophet they say the Prophet of Allah, if you can have some leniency on the woman, her family came to me and the prophet Ali, so son was outraged.
Saying to Osama, do you intercede in one of Allah's prescribed punishment?
Do you intercede
then he made a public speech
to teach the people the gravity of such an act. And he praised Allah azza wa jal, and he offered salutation upon the Prophet essence and then said to the people, beware.
Those before you were destroyed, annihilated when their dignitaries stole, and they let them go.
While when the poor stole, they used to chop their hands. So it must be known to all there is no intercession in the prescribed punishment once it's finalized. And
this is to indicate the importance of prescribed punishment for the security and the safety of the community.
Of course, above all, because it's the law of Allah is the Sharia. But compare apples to Apple. Compare the countries that implement Sharia laws with the countries that implement manmade laws.
Where you have prisons filled, unjustly or justly, with murderers with robbers and thieves with a raper rapists
and they don't have places to put them in anymore. And it's costing the government a lot. While in Muslim countries where prescribed punishment are implemented. You don't find this it's safe with the grace of Allah azza wa jal because people know what the punishment is and the punishment is divine and from Allah.
The Prophet salallahu alayhi salam sometimes reprimanded his companions over things that we may not pay attention to.
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
was once in the masjid when a convoy came. And they started speaking to the prophets, Allah Salam and he found this smell that He
prohibited the Muslims from entering the masjid when eating such plants, onions garlics and the likes that have a
He offensive odor. So the Prophet said alayhi salatu salam hadn't I prohibited you from eating from this tree
and coming to the masjid.
Be aware that the angels are offended from what the humans are offended of,
or offended from.
So, nowadays in Ramadan, we go to f bar, and then go to Mercury prayer.
org and attend the Isha prayer and tarawih and Subhan Allah,
you are surrounded by people that offend you and the angels in the masjid and the other worshipers with the amount of garlic and only and that comes out with their breath.
Now we don't say It's haram to eat.
Nobody said that it is haram to eat it. But it's haram to attend the masjid.
And due to the fact that people want the reward of attending congregational prayer and telawi, they overlook the prohibition. And they still attend the masjid with this offensive odor that
is repulsive, that is offending the angels and the worshipers, and they'll say they are sinful for that.
The Prophet sallallahu Sallam also reprimanded more Adam Nijel, his great companion when he used to prolong Asia prayer, which was difficult for the worshipers behind him. In an incident, he came to lead them in Asia. And he started reading with Surah Al Baqarah, one of the companions had so many things to do,
and so many errands, and that was taking too much time. So he completed the Asia on his own and left to attend his things.
People told my wife said that this guy is a hypocrite. Same people went to the guy and said to him, why is he is accusing you of hypocrisy, he went to the Prophet and complaint or a salad. So the Prophet was angry, and He admonished My Earth.
At of a turn on anti math. Are you trying to repel people away from Islam from from prayers, when any one of you leads prayer, he should acknowledge that behind him, there are those who are old, there are those who are sick, there are those who have errands to accomplish. So make it short and easy.
And finally, the Prophet alayhi salatu salam admonished his own cousin,
his own son in law. I lead me Allah be pleased with him. Once he visited his daughter's house, Fatima and her husband Ali, and when they
permitted him to enter, he found them lying in bed.
And it was nighttime. He said, Why don't you pray?
Why aren't you praying night prayer? Immediately it? May Allah be pleased with him replied and said, Oh prophet of Allah, our souls are in the hands of Allah, whatever he wants to set them free for us to wake up. We will wake up and pray. But other than that, we don't have any control. We're asleep.
The Prophet did not reply RSO Salam.
He gave his back and went out, striking his thigh and saying, what kind of insane Othello che in Jeddah Allah. But man has ever been most of anything prone to dispute argument.
Which means that the Prophet ISIS
did not like the answer of Ali. That was quick.
And instead of saying yes, insha Allah, we will do that a prophet of Allah, He gave a justification that was not adequate to the prophet as this is why He said, This ayah and left admonishing it who understood and the message and learned the lesson.
We have a short break, stay tuned, and inshallah we'll be right back
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Of My question is about intentions related to the car. As you have said in a in one of your videos that paying extra for the car cannot be counted for next two years. However, for previous 10 years, suppose I pay extra on my jewelry for the year 2020 to about $1,000 so that it does not fall short. But my actual use a card for 2022 might have been lesser, which I wouldn't know due to not having exact weights purchased each year. Can I make intention that although I had intended amount as precisely as possible for each past year, but if there is anything extra in the amount given for every year, it may automatically be counted for the year before it so that it will not be considered
a delay until I gain more amount to cover remaining years or just because of intending $1,000 for two for the year 2022 It will only be applied to the same year. So if I understand your question correctly, if a person pays the cat for the current year, and pays an extra $1,000, just to be safe. And also, he intends that if the previous years, there may have been shortages due to unintentional mistakes or errors and calculation that oh Allah accept the $1,000 Extra that I'm paying now, to compensate for any short comings that I had done or committed in the previous years. This is totally fine and permissible insha Allah
Osama from the US,
Aslan alaikum warahmatullah.
So I wanted to ask a question on behalf of an individual who missed a few fast intentionally meaning they made a mistake. I tried searching for an answer on many forums like Islam, q&a, and even your past videos. But all answers are relating to breaking the fast intentionally rather than failing to keep the fast due to an invalid reason. So in this case, they
they inform the dumpster who are in the past as a result of being under the influence of alcohol or drugs, etc. So, I informed them that since this is not a valid reason for missing the fast, that they may have to pick a photo. So is there a real compensation in this case for missing fast or they just repent and make up their Mr fast after Ramadan? First of all, there is no Kufa for missing the fast, intentionally or breaking your fast
except if a person has *, during the daytime of Ramadan.
Then this there is this major expiation which is freeing a slave, if not possible, fasting, two consecutive months without breaking a day, if not possible, then feeding 60 Poor people for having * during the daytime of Ramadan, but other reasons, someone started fasting, then broke his fast by drinking or eating, then there is no expiation, he had committed a major sin. And he asked to make up for these missed days.
And in our videos, we mentioned the opinion of shaker beneath a mean, when he says those who skip the fasting of Ramadan are one of two, either someone who started fasting, and in the middle of the day, changed his mind and broke his fast this person started a form of worship and broke it. So he is obliged to make it up.
The other scenario is someone from nighttime, intending, I'm not going to fast tomorrow.
I don't have a reason but I'm not gonna fast. So, there is no intention. This person can never make up for that mistake.
Because he missed it intentionally and did not want to fast initially. And the time that was this form of worship prescribed at was missed. So he cannot make it up. Let him move on. Repent, ask Allah for forgiveness, have deep remorse and do a lot of good deeds, hoping that Allah may forgive him. Now, if I understand your question correctly, someone who's been fasting for the past seven, eight days and his intention was to fast the whole
of
Ramadan.
We say that the most authentic opinion is the first intention for the first day is sufficient. So when announced that tomorrow is Ramadan, and you eat your pre male, pre Dawn meal
this is your intention palace. Do I have to have the same intention every single night? The answer is no, because it's connected. So the first initial intention is sufficient unless you break the fasting by illness or by travel. Then when you resume too fast,
few days later, you have to have an intention at nighttime. Those who were intoxicated, they were drunk they were drugged
though they intended to fast the following day but they did not eat their pre Dawn meal because they were wasted
if they wake up in the middle of the day continue to fast their fasting is valid and they don't have to make it up. And Allah knows best.
Abdul from India
Salaam Alaikum check out Allah Allah Koto. Okay, Sheikh so the question is regarding find what to do with finding a lost valuable item. Okay, so it's a scenario based question. So I'm it take a little longer so so the incidence is of 2005 where my sister found gold necklace pendant. Okay, to make matters worse, it was a Hindu. It has a Hindus ohm symbol on it. Now what happened is she approached my dad, my dad, due to I don't know, he says he inquired in and around, but as per I don't think he inquired as per the one year, you know, due to lack of knowledge, ignorance or greed, he decided to keep it fast forward. 2021 What happened is he consulted local Mateus and it was with us and local,
he said it's been a long time, okay, so what you can do is you can give the charity and
and use it for yourself. So he says in equivalence of maybe Saudi Arabia 3000, he gave it to charity. And he gave it to my sister, he added some more gold and my sister is using as a necklace. Now, my question is that I feel we did not do enough back then I was small and maybe because of lack of knowledge. He didn't do much to give it to the right person. And I feel because of that there's a lot of bad energy, negative energy or marriages are getting killed. I feel marriages getting really always confused about picking spouses or potential spouses or decisions and we lost even our mother due to unusual bad health treatment. So I want to know what
now my dad says he did you are in influence. So the Tetons also here? I can't validate that, assuming he did in goodwill, goodwill, we are going to pressurize him keep asking him, so. Okay. Okay. Okay, in terms of your question, first of all your vibes and negative feelings, and whatever is all bogus has nothing to do with this. This is all from your own demons and your own thinking that it has nothing to do with this necklace. What he did was wrong, he should have notified the authorities and those in the adjacent areas of a valuable item lost and waited a whole year, because he did not do that he has no right in it. Hence, he has to evaluate how much it costs at the present
time, and give the amount to charity, or give it itself to charity. If he did not do that, but he just evaluated it and truthfully, gave the money that it is worth to charity, then your sister can keep it providing it's halal. It doesn't have any symbols of Hinduism or of shares or statutes, etc. And there is nothing wrong with that your mom's death. And the proposals that have been lost has nothing to do with that at all. He has to ask Allah for forgiveness and repent.
homies from the Emirates
salam ala
sushi, I know the Hadith about them. I kind of know what about the Arabian Peninsula where like, you can't really have other religions other than Well, the thing is, I have my dad working in Airbnb and I kind of work with him. So maybe non believers can enter the continent is mine come home. Now this is something that is way above your paygrade in the sense that the instruction and the order of the Prophet alayhi salatu salam not to allow other than Islam to remain in the Arabian Peninsula has been explained by scholars in many different ways.
Among them is that they should not
reside. And they should not be from the people permanently living there, building their mesh their temples, building their churches belittling their son, synagogues. This is totally prohibited for the Muslim and this prohibition is in the neck of the Muslim ruler, if he defies this, and if he does not care about what the prophet or the dalai salatu salam, he'll be held accountable among
a bunch of things on the Day of Judgment. So this is not for you and me to decide.
As a Muslim, when you meet a non Muslim who is in the Arabian Peninsula, there is nothing wrong in dealing with them nicely, treating them nicely, renting them b&b, Airbnb or a hotel room or selling them groceries or having commercial ties with them. There's nothing wrong in that and Allah knows best Rashad from the Philippines.
Michael chef de la jolla Kola
my sister met this guy without Bina.
She found out last year that he was speaking with the girls in smoking weed. Then he gave up all of that he repented and she forgave him. Now she told me that he's smoking weed again, and he told her that she doesn't have to worry and he promised her that he will give her up for having children. I told her to leave him immediately. But she said that he is always praying now and he will change Inshallah, we need your opinion. Just to clarify, so the marriage has not consummated, right? And not yet yeah. Okay. So this is an issue of judgment. They are married already. So it is her call to assess the situation. Smoking weed is a major sin.
Without any doubt, consuming intoxicants would prevent your prayers from being accepted for 40 days.
And it's a major sin. And if a person dials dies, while being intoxicated, he will drink from the nettle hobble in hellfire, which is a bad punishment and
something that is awful. So it is her call to assess whether he is truthfully repenting or not. And it depends on a number of factors if he is living alone, overseas, and he doesn't have any companion with him that would advise him and guide him and direct him to the right path. Maybe this is one of the reasons and your sister going to live with him would give give him a boost to start practicing and fearing Allah azza wa jal because he needs a companion to associate himself with and elevate his Eman with
if she says no, he is accompanied by Muslims and practicing Muslims. But he insists on this and she feels that he's a hypocrite pretending to do things and maybe there are things that are hidden, this is her assessment. And we cannot simply advise people to divorce or to leave their spouses due to this reason, because it could have been a moment of weakness. It could have been an addiction. It can be so many things and Allah knows best
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I noticed black article struck to my feet and sometimes it takes several minutes to remove them.
And I also read that view of your checklist, I will say we are that minor barrier is excused is this opinion of a correct?
Yes, it is the correct opinion that minute negligible barriers can be overlooked, and also as the Hanafi school of thought, and this is our opinion of them in Tamia and also share him with me May Allah have mercy on them, that many huge amount of impurity is also overlooked and neglected, because sometimes it is impossible to relieve yourself from such minut negligible particles and barriers. So therefore in sha Allah, this is a valid
opinion
Mohammed from the US
a Salam aleikum, Sheikh by consult Allah.
So I know that the largest jump Murat that pilgrims stone during Hajj is referred to as Gemina tilaka. What are the names of the other two Chimera? And what is their significance in Islam? Did you shake Ramadan Mubarak and Mubarak to you as well? So, the middle Jamara is called the gemera turbostar, the middle Jamara. And the third one is called Al Jazeera to surah. The minor the little Jamara what is their significance? It's a ritual of Islam and Hajj, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us to take hit our rituals in Hajj from him. So the Prophet stone them, we stone them, not some narrations say that this are these are the places where Satan intercepted
Ibrahim peace be upon him 1000s of years ago, and Ibrahim stoned Satan whenever he intercepted them. I don't know whether these narrations are authentic or not some scholars authenticate and some do not. Either way,
we don't really look into the origin of it. Because it's part of our Hutch. And it's a ritual of our religion. And we follow it for this reason.
Risa from the UK
Polycom, Polycom surround Allah. Here. We know that when we do it, no ruling. In that instance, you can correct me in that instance, we have to go in accordance with our gut feeling. You can correct me if I'm wrong, but
Allah does not hold us to account to this gut feeling. And later on, we need to ask to get the actual ruling. So my question is,
is it obligatory to ask a for a ruling, if there will be more harm than good for example, give OCD or it will cause someone to be more OCD or give them the
joke alone was that this is to genetic Risa mainly speaking, that Allah says in the Quran first Alou Allah decree and quantum lotta Allah would ask the people of knowledge, if you do not know. Now to claim that if I were to ask, this would open the Pandora's box, and it would increase my OCD. And it would cause me a lot of hardship is not a legitimate excuse. If you're asking
as a form of entertaining, you're overthinking this is when the shear would restrain you and put you back where you should be
any knowledgeable share, who would say listen, you're overthinking what you're doing is not healthy. You have to stop here. And he would not entertain your questions, and he would block you from moving on and continuing to ask such questions. But if this is a legitimate doubt,
should I be in a place
where there is music blasting all over the place? Just to eat some ice cream? Is this legitimate? Acceptable, permissible or not? You don't say I'm not going to ask because this would open the door for OCD or it would cause hardship upon me now. This is not permissible. You have to and your justification is not valid.
Xena Dean from the UK
so I saw him while he was sent out Allahu barakato.
Okay, oh, you shake. It's been a long time I've been called Al Hamdulillah. You have only like 20 seconds. So make it quick. Okay, so, one point is a father who is divorced from his wife to admit it to deprive his children from that inheritance. No, he's not. No Muslim on earth has the ability or the authority to prevent any of his heirs regardless of what they have done are committed from the inheritance because this is something that Allah the Almighty has divided himself and no one can interfere with such aid.
division. This is all the time we have until we meet you in Sharla. On Saturday, I leave you here Manila was Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.
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