Ali Ataie – What’s the Point of the Ramadan Fast Ustadh (Interfaith Iftar)

Ali Ataie
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The host of a bar introduces the importance of witnessing the presence of God and the assignment of gender to words in Arabic. They discuss the use of "naqna" in Arabic language, which refers to the holy god, and emphasize the need for fasting, praying, and mastering oneself. The importance of acceptance and compassion in helping individuals to overcome addiction and strengthen their immune system is emphasized, along with the need for acceptance and understanding of one's source of creation. The importance of fasting and praying to increase one's love for others is also emphasized.
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The peace blessings of God be upon, all

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of you.

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Thank you for having us

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here and hosting this bar.

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It's an honor to be here.

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I'm actually not gonna take too much

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of your time.

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I,

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I've noticed that

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usually when,

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there's a Muslim speaker, people have a lot

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of questions.

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So maybe I'll actually open it up for

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some q and a in a minute or

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so. You can ask me whatever you want

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about Islam. It doesn't have to be about

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fasting.

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But fasting is one of the,

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pillars

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of Islam.

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So there's a famous Hadith. Hadith is

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a saying of the prophet Muhammad, peace be

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upon him.

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And there's different grades of these Hadith. Some

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are strong, some are weak, some are fabricated.

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This particular hadith tends to be strong.

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Or he said,

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to quote him directly.

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Islam is built on 5.

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Alright?

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By 5, you have the pillars.

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So the first pillar is called the shahada

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in Arabic.

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It means witnessing.

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So witnessing that there's only one God. Right?

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Muslims call this God,

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Allah.

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And Allah is not

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a foreign god.

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According to the Quran, Allah is the god

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of Abraham.

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Allah is the god of Moses.

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Allah is the god of Jesus.

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And these prophets

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are mentioned in the text of the Quran

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itself.

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Right? So Allah is not some, you know,

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Arab God or, you know, the god

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of the Middle Easterners or something like that.

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He's the god of Abraham. Right?

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So Shehada is the witness that he is

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the only one God. When I say he

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is the only one God, that's, again, not

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to say that God is masculine or male,

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but

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every word in Arabic

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is assigned a gender. Right?

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The linguist.

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So sometimes it's obvious, sometimes it's not. Sometimes

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it's a natural gender. Sometimes

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the linguist will assign what's known as a

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lexical gender to the word.

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So for example, the word the the the

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word for sun, s u n in Arabic

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is shams.

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But the linguist, way back in the day,

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decided that the sun is feminine,

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and the moon is masterwork. Nobody really knows

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why that is. Maybe there's someone here that

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studied

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the history or the etymology of Arabic,

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words.

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But the word Allah in Arabic

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is masculine

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lexically.

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So we refer to him as him, that

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there's no god but him, and that the

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prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him. The Muslims

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believed to be the last,

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in a long line of prophets

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starting with Adam,

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including names like like he said, Abraham, even

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Noah,

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even David and Solomon are seen as prophets,

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Elijah.

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And there's a minority opinion that there are

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several female prophets, including

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the wife of pharaoh

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named Ahasya,

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whose story is not told as far as

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I know in Jewish sources,

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as well as

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Sarah and Hagar

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and Mary,

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the mother of Jesus,

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and was mentioned in the Quran as well.

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So the shahada

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is

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similar to maybe the Shama

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in

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in its importance.

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Right? This is sort of the essence of,

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Islamic

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confession.

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And then the second pillar is known as

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salaam,

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which believe it or not has an etymology

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a common etymology with tafinda

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Hebrew, which means prayer.

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So Muslims,

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well, they should at least pray 5 times

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a day

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at different times.

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Right?

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And,

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these prayers take

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a few minutes.

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When somebody converts to Islam, it's kind of

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burdensome.

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I I have to pray again. I just

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prayed 3 hours ago.

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But then as you

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age

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and get wiser, these things become much easier.

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So they take a few minutes every few

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hours.

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And then there's something called

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which is also known as

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in Hebrew. It's related to

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which has a root meaning of to purify

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something. So it's zakah or

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is a

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a poor dude. Most things that there's excess

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wealth, but this is only for people that

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can afford

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that. 2 a half percent of their excess

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wealth will go to the

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less fortunate or to the poor.

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And then we have the 4th pillar, which

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is called,

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Hajj

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or Khayi

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in Hebrew. Or if you live in Egypt,

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it's also called Khagim

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because

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the the gene and

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the letter gene in Arabic,

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Egyptian dialect is pronounced like a female.

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So they'll say like, Michael Gordon.

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So Michael Jordan.

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Okay.

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So again, this is for Muslims that can

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afford to do so. They'll make a pilgrimage

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to Mecca.

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Once a year is the obligation, if you

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can afford to do so. And then there's

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something called the which is the lesser

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pilgrimage.

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And then finally the 5th pillar is

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called

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This is exactly the same word in Hebrew.

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Song, meaning fasting, also known as siam in

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the Quran.

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The Quran says

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Quran says to the Muslims at large that

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fasting is prescribed upon you just as it

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was prescribed upon those

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before you.

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And the exigence here,

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clarify and say before you means atlibkitab,

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the people of the bible,

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The people of the book, Jews and Christians.

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Alright.

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And then.

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So the the purpose of fasting is given.

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So there's an axiom amongst

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the scholars of Islam

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that the merit of something is known by

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its objective.

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So the objective of fasting according to the

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Quran

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is,

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in order for you

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to be people of God consciousness.

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The word in Arabic is taqwa,

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which is very very difficult to translate.

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Sometimes it's translated as fear of God, in

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in order for you to fear God,

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which is the beginning of all wisdom according

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to God. Sometimes it's translated as

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in order for you to repel evil,

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to guard against evil.

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Right?

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In pre Islamic times, the word actually meant

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a shield,

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something to block

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the blow of a sword.

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Right? So probably the best

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translation is

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to be conscious of God. So when Muslims

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are fasting,

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when anyone's fasting,

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in theory,

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they should

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there should be a sort of

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focus on

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the inward.

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Right? You're not eating. You're not drinking. There's

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no miracle relations in the daytime according to

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a Muslim's fast.

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In order to if we want to focus

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on god completely.

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Right?

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And how does one focus on god? Try

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remembering god

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and by guarding one's limbs.

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And this is something that a Muslim is

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supposed to be doing all throughout the year,

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by the way.

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So Ramadan is really more like a training

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program to set the stage for the rest

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of the year. It sort of wanes through

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the course of the year. It shouldn't, but

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it tends to.

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And then Ramadan, again, you enter into this

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training program. We're not we're not looking at

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things that are forbidden. So it's not just

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a fast in the stomach.

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Right? There's a hadith of the prophet where

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he said, there are several people

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it's a rhetorical question.

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How many fasters are there that get nothing

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from their fast, except hunger and thirst?

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Meaning that they're missing the point of the

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fast.

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The point of the fast is to really

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master the self.

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Right? To master the self. There's a hadith

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of the prophet and there is some weakness

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of this hadith.

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But generally, the the scholars of Islam will

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quote it,

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because they would say they would argue that

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the meaning of the hadith is true even

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though it's a chain of transmission. It may

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have some weakness. Anyway, it's reported that the

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prophet said,

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the translation is whoever

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knows himself knows this lord.

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Right?

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So the word in Arabic here, harafar or

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maghafar, really needs to recognize

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recognition.

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Whoever recognizes himself,

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will will recognize

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his Lord.

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So one of the meanings here according to

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the scholars of this hadith

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is that if you recognize your origin

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as God's creation, as God's beloved creation,

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you will come to know

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that God is the beloved.

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Another

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shade of meaning of this tradition

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is that if you master yourself, then you'll

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come to know God.

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If you can guard your eyes, guard your

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ears, you know, if you can guard your

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tongue from lying

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and from, you know, speaking ill of people

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behind their backs,

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from cursing,

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from even raising their voice. So we have,

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you know, descriptions of the prophet Muhammad as

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far as his disposition

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goes.

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And all of the hadith say that the

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Prophet did not even raise his voice.

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That he was, easygoing personality.

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Right?

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That he said the best of you are

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those who are best to their family members.

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He said that he is not from us

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who doesn't

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honor the elders and have mercy on our

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young.

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Right? He said, none of you will enter

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paradise until you truly believe, and none of

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you will truly believe until you love one

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another.

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And then he said, shall I tell you

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of something that will increase your love? And

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they said, yes. And he said,

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Spread peace amongst yourselves.

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So,

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this is the main sort

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of focus or point of the fast,

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is

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to really,

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transcend the physical,

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and also to empathize.

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Right? With those who are less fortunate.

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Right?

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To experience something of what they're experiencing

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for the sake of increasing our concern for

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them.

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The more empathy one has, the more compassion

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one has. And the more compassion one has,

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the more godlike as it were, or more

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angelic they are.

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Right? Jesus is actually quoted in the Quran

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as saying,

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which is obviously Arabic.

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But he said, be lordly.

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Be like God.

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Right?

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You know, be perfect as your father in

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heaven is perfect in the language

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of Matthew.

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What does it mean to be like God?

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It means to

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appropriate, if you will, define qualities at a

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human level.

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None of us can be God.

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Right?

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Despite what some world leaders think.

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Or perceive themselves.

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We're not gonna name drop.

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But

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to be divine, the lowercase d,

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is to,

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assimilate qualities of God, such as mercy and

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compassion.

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Right? And this is accomplished through these

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pillars of Islam.

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Through prayer, through charity, through pilgrimage, and especially

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through fasting. The prophet said in the Hadith,

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quoting God,

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he said, all of the actions of the

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sons and daughters of Adam

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are forgiven

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except fasting.

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For indeed, that is mine. And the exigence,

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they say, what this means is, no one

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knows that you're fasting. When you pray, people

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can see you praying. When you go to

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pilgrimage, people can see you in your garb,

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and you're making your circumambulations,

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and so on and so forth. When you're

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getting charity, people can see that. When you're

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fasting, no one knows except God.

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So the prophet said, God says,

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fasting is for me and I will reward

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them for that,

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up to,

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add add infinity.

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So

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fasting has a very,

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honor placed amongst the practices of a Muslim.

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That's all I wanted to say.

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If there's time for a few questions, I

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can't. I thought I'll just use it now.

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What do you think?

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