Ali Ataie – Ramadan Reflections Be Patient, Be Principled

Ali Ataie
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The speaker discusses the misogyny of people in modern times, including the belief in absolute moral accountability and the need for love. They provide examples of misogyny, including the names of various people associated with Islam and the importance of keeping faith through actions and word expression. The speaker advises the audience to be patient and keep going until they meet the prophet's announcement, emphasizing the importance of not letting one's faith be revealed and continuing to go until they meet the announcement.
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Being a principled person,

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especially in modern times, in our times,

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is a very difficult proposition.

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There's a hadith that's related by Imam Atidmidi

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from Anas ibn

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Malik. The prophet

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said

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Where he said that there will come a

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time upon the people when the one who

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is steadfast in his religion

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will be like a person clutching onto a

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burning piece of coal,

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Simply maintaining

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that there's an absolute truth

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or that there is a moral right and

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wrong

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will make you the target of ridicule and

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verbal attack in our culture.

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Abrahamic

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tradition is under ideological

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attack,

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in the media and in the academy.

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They'll call you all sorts of things, all

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sorts of ad hominem,

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epithets,

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backward, misogynist,

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homophobic, violent,

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stupid, archaic.

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And people don't like to be ridiculed or

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verbally attacked. So what do they do?

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Well, they're going to drop the coal

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and say, wow, that is just too hot.

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I can't handle it.

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People are led to believe

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nowadays

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that atheism

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is better for societal well-being

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than theism.

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There was an 18th century French philosopher,

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a believer in God, who said it like

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this.

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Imagine you had a magic button,

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and if you press this button,

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all of the wealth of the entire world

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would come into your possession.

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But there's one catch.

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If you press this button,

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a human being, a random human being anywhere

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in the world will fall down dead. It

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could be anyone.

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It could be your own mother.

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It could be a total stranger halfway around

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the world.

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So he says, to whom would you entrust

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this button?

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To a very devout God fearing Abrahamic theist

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who believes in

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absolute moral accountability,

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who believes in a day of reckoning, a

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day of judgment,

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or to a very committed atheist

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who believes in natural selection,

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who believes in

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survival of the fittest,

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does not believe in an afterlife,

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who does not believe in any type of

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supernatural

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moral accountability.

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Think about it.

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Ibn ibn Juzay al Kalbi,

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he said that there are 7 compositional forms

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in the Quran. In other words, 7 types

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of ayat in the Quran.

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2 of them

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are covenantal

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and retributive,

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or wad and waid,

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promise and threat.

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The following, the following is a retributive verse

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that I find that I find myself quoting

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a lot these days.

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says,

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oh, you who believe, whoever amongst you turns

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away from the deen,

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from his deen, soon will Allah

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soon will Allah

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bring a people

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whom he will love and they will love

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him

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lowly with the believers.

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But

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but having izzah, having honor,

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having

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a type

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of strictness with the unbelievers.

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Striving and struggling in the in the way

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of Allah

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Allah and never afraid of those who find

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fault,

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never afraid of being blamed for being believers.

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That is the grace of Allah

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that he gives them whom whomever he wills.

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And Allah

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is,

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He is the one who is all encompassing

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and omniscient.

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So what do we glean from this ayah?

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We glean

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that the main reason

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for the Iritidad,

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the the main reason,

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for the apostasy,

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that Allah

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is describing in this ayah

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is a lack of love.

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Because Allah

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says

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That if you turn away, then Allah will

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bring a people.

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A people that he will love and they

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will love him. So it's a lack of

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love according to the exegetes, the ulama,

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the,

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the mufasareen

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of of this verse.

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Whom does Allah love

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and why? Well, in the Quran, Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala explicitly,

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tells us the categories of people whom he

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loves.

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These are believers who exemplify

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some sort of character virtue.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says,

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for example, Allah

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loves the people of Tawba,

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the people who repent.

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Allah

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loves the people of Tahara, the people who,

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the people of purity who purify themselves.

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The people of the people of justice.

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Allah

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loves the people of Tawakkul.

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The people who put their trust in Allah

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Allah

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loves the people of taqwa, the people of

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piety,

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the people who fear Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala loves the people of

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patience, the the people of perseverance, the people

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of Sabr. Allah

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loves the people of Ihsan,

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the people who make things beautiful,

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the people of spiritual

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and

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and and every other type of excellence.

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These are the virtues of the, Hiba'u'llah,

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of the beloved ones of Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala.

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Now there is a Hadith in Tirmidi, and

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there's some weakness in the Hadith.

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Well, the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam is reported

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to have said something quite amazing.

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He

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said that Allah

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has ordered me to love 4 people

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and he's informed me that he himself

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loves

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these people.

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It was said, O Messenger of God,

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name them for us.

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Now he's going to name them. But if

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you look at all 4 of these names,

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you'll notice that these were men who never

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wavered in the deen.

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They were principled. They were dedicated.

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They were loyal.

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All of the virtues that are extolled in

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the Quran,

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People of repentance, of purity, of justice, of

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trust, of piety, of patience, etcetera.

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The first one that he named was Sayidna

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Ali ibn Abi Talib.

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Imam al Tabari says

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that

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in the early Meccan period when the ayah

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was revealed, warn

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your family who are nearest of kin. The

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam asked Sayidna Ali to

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organize a dinner party.

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And 40 men of the aristocrats of Bani

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Abdul Muqtaleb attended.

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And Sayna Ali was maybe 13

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13 years old at the time.

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And so the prophet sallallahu alaihi sallam, he

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stood up and he said I've been ordered

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to call you to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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Call

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I've been ordered to call you to Allah

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as the singular God with no partners.

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Which of you will help me in my

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mission? And there was a long uncomfortable silence

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and then Sayyidina Ali stood up and said,

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I will help you.

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And the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam said, Hadha

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akhib, this is my brother, Atirahu, obey him.

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And all of the men started laughing and

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said he's ordering us to be under your

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son. They were saying that to Abu Talib.

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But that was Saidna Ali.

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He wasn't afraid of people who

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who found fault in him or blamed him

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for his religion.

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And of course, we have the famous hadith

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or the famous statement of the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wasalam mentioned by Ibnu Majah.

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That when the prophet

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was at Khaybar,

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he said one night

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Tomorrow, I'm going to give the standard to

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a man who

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loves Allah and his messenger and who is

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beloved to Allah and his messenger, and he

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gave it to Sayyidina Ali. In Bukhari, we

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are told that the Mushrikeen wanted to revise

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the treaty of Hudaybia

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from saying Muhammad or Rasulullah to Muhammad ibn

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Abdillah.

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And so the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam, he

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ordered Sayna Ali, he said erase where it

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says Rasulullah

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and Saydna Ali said

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I would never erase you.

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So Sayidina Ali even disobeyed the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam, but it was out of

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love and reverence

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for the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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The next name that he mentioned was Abu

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Dar al Ghifari.

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When Abu Dar al Ghifari became Muslim, he

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went to the Kaaba and started shouting

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and the beat him

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within an inch of his life. And Al

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Abbas had to throw his body over him

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to save his life.

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And the prophet said to Abu Dhar, you

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you should not have you should not have

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done that. And he Abu Dhar said, I

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couldn't help it. And when the prophet passed

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away, sallallahu alaihi salam, Abu Dhar moved to

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the Syrian

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desert. He never recovered from the passing of

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam. He was never

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the same. He was terminally heartbroken.

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And the 3rd man he mentioned, Al Miqdad

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ibn al Aswad, just before the Battle of

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Badr,

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam, he held a

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war council.

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And the prophet told the Ansar that the

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coming conflict was within the Quraysh.

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In other words, between the polytheistic

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Meccans and the Muslim immigrants.

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So the Ansar were not required to join

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the fight.

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Imam al Bukhari, he relates on the authority

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of Abdullah ibn Mas'ud Mas'ud that Al Miqdad

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ibn Aswad, he stood up in the council,

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and he said,

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We will not say to you as the

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Bani Israel said to Musa alaihi salaam, go

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you and your lord and fight, and we

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will sit here.

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But advance and we are with you.

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And it was as if the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam's face was beaming with joy

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at the words of Al Miqdad ibn al

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Aswad.

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And the 4th name he mentioned, Salman al

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Farisi.

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Salman, of course, was a scholar of religion

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who traveled the world to find the truth.

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He was told by a Christian bishop in

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Iraq that the appearance of a prophet

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was imminent in the Hejaz.

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Salman arrived in Medina, and he was captured

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as a slave of the Bani al Qoreda.

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And he was a slave for years.

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And once in a while, he'd see the

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Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam and feel absolutely elated

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until finally,

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam found a way

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for him to be free from his so

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called master.

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And the prophet said in a hadith in

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Tilmadi that if iman if faith was suspended

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from the pleiades,

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this man and his companions would find a

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way to reach it.

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The prophet said about him, Salman

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is from us. The people of the house,

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an honorary member of the

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So the prophet said that I have been

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ordered to love them and I've and I've

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been formed by Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala that

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he loves them.

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So look at the qualities of these beloved

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ones of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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So my my advice, my parting advice

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is to be patient, to keep going, to

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keep the faith,

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to understand that life is a marathon,

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and that we need to pace ourselves.

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But don't stop running.

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Don't sell out the religion and don't check

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out of the religion. Allah

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ordered us in the Quran

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to

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worship your lord.

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Worship your lord until

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certitude

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or the certain thing should come to you.

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And many of the exegetes including Imam Al

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Qurtubi, Imam Al Razi, Tabriz, Al Maqshiri,

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They say that the meaning of al Yaqeen

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here is probably a reference to death.

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Worship your lord until death comes to you

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because that's certain.

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One of the very last things that the

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prophet

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said while he was in his final illness,

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he sat on the minbar in the mosque.

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And he said

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Allah he said that indeed Allah

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has given a choice to one of his

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servants between what is in the world and

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what is with him.

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And that certain servant

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chose what what is with Allah.

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And at that, Abu Bakr as Sadiq, he

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started to weep. And Abu Saeed al Khudr,

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he said,

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that we were very surprised at his weeping.

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Why was he weeping? And then he realized

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that the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam was talking

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about himself, that he was the servant,

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that his time was very short.

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And the prophet

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said,

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be patient, persevere

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until,

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until you meet me at the Hawd at

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my basin. So be patient, keep going, persevere

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until we meet the

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prophet

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just outside of paradise.

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Allah and

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his messenger know we can't be perfect.

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Do the best we can. As

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says in the Quran,

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fear Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala as much as

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you can. Do your best. The prophet

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said, try your best to be upright, although

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you will not be able to do so.

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We will never reach perfection, but do your

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best.

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And he said,

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work, work, and the best of your actions

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is the prayer.

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And only a believer is constant in his

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ablutions. We ask Allah

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to give us the the tawfiq to understand.

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