Ali Albarghouthi – Manners of Seeking Knowledge – Part 7

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The speakers stress the importance of pursuing knowledge and avoiding the end time, as well as learning and practicing to achieve success in pursuing knowledge. They also emphasize the importance of avoiding bad behavior and avoiding envy, educating oneself on what one wants to learn, and avoiding negative emotions. The speakers emphasize the need for everyone to be present for the future, acknowledging the negative impacts of uncertainty and fear on society, and embracing the challenges of the pandemic. They stress the importance of acknowledging and embracing the challenges of the pandemic and the need for everyone to be aware of the negative consequences.

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			It's a physical journey that you're gonna take. Let's consider, for instance, you drive to a
particular Masjid or a particular city because there's a halaqa, there's a conference, there is a
visiting scholar. So that journey is a journey to seek knowledge. So that journey counts for you as
a virtuous act, and the actual journey, meaning metaphoric journey, that on, you know, life's
journey, in seeking knowledge that also, as long as you have that intention, that also is a virtuous
act. But it requires a lot of patience. And it requires also that you always ask Allah azzawajal for
steadfastness, right? Because on your own, you may quit along the journey, right? You may quit
		
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			because it's difficult. But if you ask Allah for support a lot, as Odin then will assist you, and
ask Allah xojo to keep reminding you of the value of what you're doing, and the value of what you
will be able to do with it once you've able to get it. Right. And the benefit of it in the hereafter
and the benefit of this dunya. And this is how you stay motivated. Otherwise, if you're doing it by
yourself, otherwise, if you're alone, otherwise, you know, if no one is inspiring you you're gonna
quit because it is difficult. It is not easy. And is it easy, for instance, to pick up a book and
it's a serious book, Islamic book and start reading beginning to end? Especially today? Is it easy?
		
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			No, there are a million other things that you would actually rather be doing what the JSON will tell
you, you'd rather be doing just like when you start you're solid, the shaitaan is gonna whisper into
your heart things outside of the Salah to distract you. Once you start with your with reading,
you're going to have a million thoughts right before you develop that discipline a million thoughts
about will have me that let me do this. And then I'll come back. Let me just write this let me just
text so on. So let me just I remembered something. So all these thoughts are going to come into your
mind. So you need to, as you in the salon, ask Allah for protection from the sheath on when you want
		
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			to begin, ask Allah for protection from the shaitaan and know and try to realize the shaytans
intervention sometimes to try to distract you and really, so it does require a serious person to be
able to worship Allah azza wa jal through this. And
		
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			he says from en sobre la danika de bajo de la de telemeter, Fukuda debted dunia, he says, the one
who is patient with with that effort with toiling
		
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			in pursuit of knowledge will find that the sweetness of knowledge surpasses the sweetness of worldly
matters.
		
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			And that is, you know,
		
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			to a lot of us simply theory, or says sort of kind of seemed like fiction. How is it that actually
the sweetness of knowledge and gaining knowledge, specifically Islamic knowledge, but you could say
subpanel, also, to an extent, it's all types of knowledge, when you know, when you learn something
new, especially something that solves a problem that you have, or opens up a new field of inquiry,
or you say, wow, this is interesting. So he says that, that sweetness is greater than the sweetness
of worldly matters when you attain them, meaning greater than the sweetness of food greater than the
sweetness of sleep greater than the sweetness of going out and shopping of texting or buying
		
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			something new, is the sweetness of knowledge surpasses all of this. Now, when you begin, you're not
going to find that sweetness.
		
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			Why? Because you're used to what the dunia this world, right. So we're still addicted to that
sweetness. So you know, have you tried to not that I have, but have you tried to switch from eating
sugar to eating less sugar? Right? You try?
		
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			Not a lot, right? But anyway, right? When you when you start doing it, is it easy? No, it's not
easy. The food doesn't have a good taste, right? That coffee, the tea, whatever is reduced sugar you
eat it is what is the taste, you still crave what
		
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			the sugar is. But once you get used to it, that's the that's the persevering. That's the patience.
Once you actually keep doing it for a week for a month for few months now. And your tongue gets used
to it. If you want to go back to that sugary sweetness that you used to drink and eat. What do you
would you find it? Disgusting, is it How did I ever eat this? How did I ever eat this? So you
transitioned. And so now you will like this new food that you're eating more than that previous one.
So that is an experience and this is a new experience that has surpassed the other one. This is why
because you were patient. So in the beginning, the journey will have led me so you bring especially
		
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			if you're young, especially if you have friends, you tell them come and sit in the masjid and record
on just like that, right? It's gonna be one of the most difficult things to do. Said open a book and
read as one of the most difficult things
		
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			to do, so you have to create an end and internal incentive for the person to do this. But if we were
suppose that you're an adult, you recognize what's good for you what is bad for you, and you try it.
And it's difficult in the beginning, if you stay with it, if you stay with it, if you stay with it,
you start sweet tasting the sweetness of learning, the sweetness of understanding what you couldn't
understand before, and you will look at other activities that used to consume your time as frivolous
and dumb. How did I spend my time watching this? or talking about these things, I didn't gain
anything from it by now, I spent five minutes or 10 minutes or half an hour reading a book, look how
		
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			much I'm getting. Look how smarter I am. Now, the things that used to perplexed me before confused
me before about my life, about what I'm supposed to do with it about how to solve a problem. Now I
understand. Now I have a solution. Now I feel better. And especially so he says it will surpass the
sweetness of worldly matters. So he quotes here, Mohammed Ahmed Hassan, he says he when he used to
stay up for nights, the scholar, you say is used to stay up for nights and solve some problems? You
know, religious problems, right through study, intellectual religious problems. He used to say ain't
no leukemia he led that he says, Where are the sons of kings, the progeny of kings, from fighting
		
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			over these pleasures? So is what is what is he mean here? Is that, that SONS OF KINGS or the progeny
of kings, what pleasures do they fight over?
		
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			dunia? That's what they're looking for. Because that's how they grew up. What do they see? They see
their father who's a king, he has this power, he has this wealth. So that's why they fight with each
other though they are brothers. But they fight with each other over these types of pleasures. He
says to himself, when he experiences that will tell him that sweetness of understanding the
sweetness of knowledge, he says, How come the children of kings have not figured out the sweetness
of these things?
		
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			How come they did not find because if they would actually to find out about it, they would fight us
over it because of how sweet it is. Because it's sweeter than this is what he's saying it is sweeter
than and he's especially when you resolve a problem. Like in your head. You can't reconcile two
things. In your head, you're wondering, right? Especially things that really affect you or affect
people that are around you. How is it that a lot as odle commanded this? How is it that the Prophet
sallallahu Sallam did that not that you're doubting what you're trying to understand? And you want
to explain it to others? And you think and you think and you think and you can't find an answer. And
		
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			then Subhan Allah, Allah grants you that answer from reading, from thinking, sometimes it comes to
you by thinking about it. And Allah opens the gates of guidance, and you figure it out. It says, Now
that now once you grasp that thing, it's as if subpanel live eating, you know, a very wholesome, you
know, full meal is this is it, this is beautiful. This is wonderful, because now I understand
something about myself, something about my family, something about my spouse, my child, something
about Islam, something about the hereafter. This, of course requires that you spend time with it,
and you also see the value of it, see the value of what you're learning, because any worldly things
		
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			right that you learn, as valuable as they are, they stop here.
		
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			But religious things that you learn, they benefit you here. And they continue with you. They
continue with you till the Day of debt. And so as they say about so and so that he saw his shift in
a dream. He said the federal law that you've given on that particular day, that reward of that fat
word reached me.
		
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			Well, what does that mean? It means that it's the shift taught him something.
		
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			And that his shift passed away.
		
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			So that that shift, this new shift was still alive. The student who became a shift was giving the
federal CIO his late share, keep them in the dream. And he says that reward of that fatwa reached
me.
		
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			Because you taught it. So that could be you. You don't need to be necessarily a shave, but you can
have some knowledge, some, and you share it with someone and you forget about it. Right?
		
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			And you die, and then that person continues to apply it or teaches it to another person, and you're
getting that reward. So that's that's the though, because it stays with you and you know that you
really have done something lasting, meaningful, magnificent, right? Rather than wasting your life.
So this is the letter there. You do it and you say subpanel live ruin something here. That is really
a value. So he says
		
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			He's a rookie says wemberly $2 bill. He says the secret of knowledge should really concentrate on
seeking knowledge and not be distracted by something else. Meaning like, stay focused. So the more
serious you are, the more focused you are, the more that you're going to get. And he quotes Mohammed
Abu Hassan, he says, Sina Altoona had the human and Maddy it allottee says, this work of ours, this
pursuit of ours is from the cradle to the grave, from an era and yet through careful manner,
hobbies, our habits, affiliate verrucosa, if you want to leave this pursuit of knowledge for an
hour, okay, there's a play on words here, you want to leave it for an hour, let's let him leave it
		
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			this hour.
		
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			Meaning that stop immediately that if in your intention, I'm going to be doing doing some and then
pausing doing some and pausing doing some I'm pausing. He's saying to himself, no, just stop
already. Stop already, because you really are not serious about it. No, he says what he says he need
to keep on it, you need to keep doing it. Now, of course, I don't want this you to take this to
despair and say, Well, I'm sometimes I'm intermittent in my universe, seeking knowledge. Sometimes I
do it sometimes and stop. Sometimes I have energy, sometimes I don't have energy, it means I should
leave it all together. No, he's not saying this, for you to despair and save just That's it, I'm
		
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			just going to leave everything he's saying it to motivate. And to stress, the stress the fact that
it should be continuous. Because if it's not continuous, you're not going to be able to get the most
out of it, you'll get some and then you'll, you'll pause, and you'll forget and you will come back.
So you'll continue to what be in the same place. So he says no, be serious about it. Because it's
supposed to be a lifelong pursuit. So not gonna stop. But if you happen to be that type of person
who either does not have a lot of time, that's fine. Seek it whenever you can. Never give up, seek
it whenever you can, and ask Allah azzawajal if you find yourself that sometimes you lack
		
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			motivation, as a lover, that motivation simply simply is it said, I got this hour today, I just
don't have the energy to do this. Fine. Consider it a day of rest, but as a law as the origin for
motivation, asking for support, so that you can come back to it. And maybe also investigate why is
it that when you were in a better mood, why is it that today, you weren't really able to read,
weren't able to do something productive, what happened. And sometimes upon investigation, you will
find out something, you know, maybe I've done something wrong, if you can trace it, I've done
something wrong, I committed a sin, I suspected that sin, and that's influenced my mood, and
		
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			influence my pursuit of knowledge. So go back and ask Allah for forgiveness for it. So if you're
able to track it back to a particular bad thing that you have done, and sometimes a bad thought that
you may have had, you'll be able to cleanse yourself quicker, and come back
		
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			to pursuing knowledge. So he says this is from
		
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			the cradle to the grave. So it doesn't matter. And we're going to come to insha Allah, the next
chapter, we're going to be talking about, oh, yeah, the next chapter is talking about that there is
no end time, except death for
		
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			pursuit of knowledge. So he gives you he gives you an example. He says somebody came to visit Abu
Yusuf. And all of them all of these are no Hanafi scholars, you know, said that before. And he used
to so he came to visit about use of use of Abu Yusuf was on his deathbed. And he was just his soul
is it's on in the process of leaving his body not yet. He's not dying yet, he can still talk but And
along the way, or on the way of dying. So I will use if he told him as that person or MUJI Mario,
Rocky Buffalo and Mirage Isla, so used to ask them he says throwing the pebbles in head, so throwing
the pebbles, is it better to do it on foot? Or on an animal? Right? So is it better to do it like
		
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			this? Or is it better to do with that? So that person did not know the answer. So I will use have
gave this answer himself. But of course, that question to us today is not relevant, right. But at
one point, you could do that you can either write an animal or you can, you know, be on foot. But
the benefit of that story is what is that still till the end? Till the end? He was what learning or
teaching till the very end is learning and teaching. So you think to yourself, what's the benefit of
this? Because till the last breath, either I can learn something which will help me or teach
something which will also help me. So as long as there is an opportunity for a person to do
		
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			something that's good, you seize it. Right you seize it, and they become most precious Of course,
when you know that you're leaving.
		
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			Yeah, when you know that you're leaving. That's when they become the most precious
		
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			But now that you have so many of them, Suppan, a lot of those moments, try to take advantage of so
many of them right? So not to waste so many but advantage of as many of them as possible. And the
he's not the only person he's not the only person there are other scholars on their deathbed,
somebody comes and they will ask him Did you hear about this hadith meaning that you can you narrate
this hadith to me or narrate that tradition to me, and they'll ask him till when you mean on your
deathbed and you still you know, are seeking and eager to learn? And he says yes, it was still the
end because this may be the lol Kereama Allah t estephe. Do minha lammertsma aka maka maybe the
		
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			sentence that is going to benefit me I did not hear yet.
		
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			Understand. And maybe the sentence that will help me that will benefit me. I did not hear you. And
maybe it's Same thing with sadaqa with charity with a good word maybe the sadaqa that is going to
save me from hellfire. I did not pay it. Maybe the good word that I'm going to say to save me from
hellfire. I didn't say it. So you do not belittle any small thing. You say what what what what is
the dollar gonna do was an extra Heidi's gonna do what is you know, an extra good word is going to
do what is it going to do, but maybe it is this thing that is going to be on top of all your other
good deeds that are going to take you to China. So you don't know. So if it's not gonna harm you,
		
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			and it's not it will benefit you in sha Allah. So try to seize it as his haka the embedded felt he
says so, so the 14 the scholar has to occupy all of his times with with that type of pursuit, noble
pursuit, and he will find a lot of pleasure in doing so. Well, hopefully that no qualifier
hydromorphone is It is said that he had said towards the end of his time, shallot nimasa it will
MacArthur be on his deathbed. He had a young, he says, I was distracted by the
		
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			matters or questions about Elmo cat. And mocap is the slave who goes to his owner and he says, I
want to be free, I'm gonna pay you back for it. So his owner tells him go ahead and earn money and
pay me back and you're free. Right? So he pays him back whatever he had paid. So this is a look at
that. So it's like it's an issue. And so he says, I was distracted by that from getting ready for
this day, meaning for the lat for visiting and coming back to Allah xojo, or the day of death. And
he says, What in the macula delicata Waldo, he says, maybe he said that out of humility,
		
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			out of humility. So it's a possibility that I will use it for him a lie, he had that he had said
this out of humility, that, while I, you know, I should have If I had known, I would not have spent
so much time on this. But he says, of course, he benefited a lot of people with whatever he taught,
whatever he had learned. So of course, he was saying this out of humility. So that's a possibility.
Or the other possibility is Abu Yusuf Rahim, Allah has realized is as I spend too much time on these
matters, on too many details related to that matters. Whereas if I spent my time on something else
more significant that would have been even better for my today. So this if you can take from it, the
		
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			lesson would be that whatever you are learning, you want to ask yourself, why
		
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			am I learning it? is sometimes there is this shower, there is this desire, when you want to learn of
learning something new? Just I want to learn, right? I want to just learn something new, especially
if it is as we said before, if it is odd, strange, controversial, you know, nobody had heard about
it before. So there is this this shower that you have, I want to just learn this, and I want to
learn that and that is you know, at least you have a desire to learn that is good. But then you ask
yourself, What am I applying this for? What is this for? So it is of little benefit Yanni it's so
it's such a minute irrelevant matter of little benefit in the era and also little benefit in the
		
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			dunya Why are you learning it and spending time on it? So occupy yourself with what is most
beneficial, most helpful, and that was a smart seeker of knowledge would do. Because the the paths
The roads are plenty and all of them are open, you can study so many different things. And within
each discipline, you can study even you know more and more more things within each discipline. There
are roads within the roads paths within the paths. So which one should I study is is the one that
you need?
		
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			What is it that you need?
		
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			And that's what you need to find out at this moment. I need to learn about sada that's a ministry
about Salah, not about the sons of the Day of Judgment.
		
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			Right?
		
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			You may or may not never see that. Right. I know the interesting and there's a lot of benefits in
them but Salah or
		
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			Signs of de judgment. So now we're at the Jet.
		
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			So now first, then learn about the jet. Make the detail the reward right after you learn about
Salah. I'm going to reward myself by learning about the jelly because it's interesting, but at least
learn about what you're going to apply today. Learn about what your spouse needs, learn about what
your kids need, learn about your Zika the things that you need to do to know at this moment, learn
about how to fix your heart. Learn about Okay, I have a disease, you know what diseases you have.
		
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			I skipped the Salah, I'm not regular with it. I suspect people I'm envious, I'm arrogant, learn
about those things and how to fix them. That is your priority. That's what's going to help you and
then later on, learn about everything else, if it's interesting, but at least you've taken care of
the basics. And keep in mind, keep in mind that
		
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			ask yourself always what's the benefit of what I'm learning?
		
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			No. And then we move on to the next chapter. And he says this is you know, what is the time for
acquiring knowledge? When do the acquisition of knowledge? When does it begin? When does it end?
Okay, and as we said, it has no beginning. There's no beginning time as soon as you can start to
start. And it goes all the way till death till the moment of death. That is it. That's what we say
from the cradle to the grave. Okay, so you keep learning, and you never stop learning. And you'll
never stop learning until you die. So you're always learning something and you never say to
yourself, I know enough about this. Never say that. I know enough about this. Because as we said
		
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			before Hochuli, the element alim there is always one more knowledgeable than you. And a lot as odd
is above everybody else. So you can always learn something about that topic. Even if you consider
yourself to be an expert in it, you'll always find something to learn. So you never say I learned
enough about this, you've never learned enough, if you think that you know enough. And that is a
sign that you
		
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			don't know, know much or don't know anything, right? So when you say to yourself, there's a lot more
to get to learn. And I don't know enough, that is a sign of maturity, a sign of knowledge. So he
says, from the cradle to the grave, and he says he was talking about hazard and nausea. The
following sentence is something kind of seems inaccurate in it or doesn't add up, started to buckle
or he started learning when he was 80. And then he did not
		
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			sleep at night for 40 years. And then he gave photo for 40 years. So if you're just going to add it
up like this is going to be that he lived till 160
		
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			or that is something I need not write about that statement. But what we can take from it is what
even if you are at play if even if you're at you don't say it's too late for me. Right? Why isn't it
late if you're at to seek knowledge?
		
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			Why
		
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			you're still alive? Huh?
		
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			Huh?
		
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			Uh, yeah, you can do something you can do, you can meet a lot as I suppose that you're going to meet
a lot as you're at at this moment, you're going to meet a lot when you're 85 or maybe 90, let's say
		
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			and you can spend those five years right, let's say that you're able to memorize the Quran. Isn't it
better to meet Allah while have memorized the Quran than not?
		
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			Yeah, absolutely. Maybe not memorization, maybe memorization, you know, for me at that age is going
to be difficult, but that's fine. But I've I'm reading the Tafseer of the Quran and I'm
understanding what Allah is saying. And that is helping secure and increase my email. Isn't it
better that I meet Allah like that? Rather than meet him ignorant? Right? Does that not increase my
chances of my sins been forgiven and entering gender and maybe perhaps a lot as though gender it's a
possibility, allow facilitate that I can teach somebody those things. A family member or a neighbor
or somebody I see in the masjid, they're doing something wrong, I corrected, I now have taught
		
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			somebody something. And that becomes something that they keep applying and teaching it to other
people. So there is a lot of barakah in continuing to learn.
		
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			So even if you're 80, it doesn't really matter. Because you don't you don't know as we said, if you
if the thing that is going to help you. It's the thing that's going to benefit you have been learned
or not. So a person never gives up on learning. And he says here, the best times to learn.
		
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			The best time to learn are early adulthood meaning when you're young, or walk to the last part of
the night before dawn will not be in Asia Eenie between Maverick and Asia. Hello, Emily and
yesterday he called me out party says it should you know seeking knowledge should take up most of
your time. Okay, I understand. We're not full
		
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			Time, seekers of knowledge, but a significant amount of your time or be dedicated enough that you're
giving it a good portion of your day. If it's half an hour be dedicated and say half an hour, but at
least it's half an hour. If it's an hour, say, an hour of reading an hour of studying, and it will
add up. But he's talking here about the full timers. So he said it should occupy most of his time.
And he has really a very good advice here for either mela min l min. Yesterday, Lu, the element is
if you get tired, with one tap on one discipline, with one branch of knowledge, you move on to
another discipline and to another branch. He says, can I best examine nominal coulomb bass, if he
		
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			gets tired of talking bored with it, right? Like sitting, let's say teaching and teaching and
teaching. He see what see what happened to the one assura bring the poetry of the poets bring poetry
and let's read poetry. So here what? Here you begin to understand that you are a human being who is
going to get tired. So I'm, I'm reading Hadith, let's say I'm studying.
		
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			And my capacity is some people can do it for hours, let's say. But my capacity is an hour. After an
hour, I get tired and bored. I can't continue. I'm not absorbing anything anymore. I need a rest. So
what am I going to rest doing?
		
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			So he says if you don't plan, then your self is going to take you where
		
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			you wander and you wander into where at least distracting at least other distractions or the hot on
maybe because you don't have a plan. Okay, you know that you're going to get bored, right? You know
yourself. I know myself. I know. I'm gonna get bored. You know, you're gonna get bored after an hour
after half an hour. Okay, what's your plan?
		
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			No, you know, you know that you're gonna get hungry in an hour. You don't have a plan.
		
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			You have a plan, right? I bought I went to the grocery store. I bought stuff, right? I stocked up
the fridge. I know why. Why did why do you stock up the fridge? I know I'm going to work need. I'm
going to eat breakfast lunch or dinner? Maybe not lunch? Breakfast, at least dinner. So something
right? So okay, so what is your plan? Because this is your nourishment? intellectually and
spiritually This is it. Okay, so what? So I'm going to get bored with this, I need something else.
What is the other book, the other discipline that is gonna refresh you is going to energize you
something that is not as serious.
		
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			Something that is not as serious. So this is what I said, After studying Hadith or teaching or on or
doing this after some time, you just that's it the neffs is gets tired. Okay, then now what he says
he likes poetry. He says, Bring poetry and let's read poetry. And there's benefit in it. There's
benefit in it. What's the benefits in poetry, but through understanding Arabic poetry, you'll be
able to understand the Koran better, you'll be understand, understand, the sooner better. You'll
reform your tongue. You learn wisdom, a lot of benefits in it. But then just find for yourself, what
is the thing that interests you even even read Subhana ly and halaal fiction. So that's, that's
		
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			fine. I wrote finished this. I'm going to read something, you know, fiction, but there's some
benefit in that, but at least it's not hard on. And at least I'm learning something and at least you
know, I'm, you know, getting more energy so that in an hour or so I can go back and do something
else. Just find out what is the thing that you need to do and plan ahead right
		
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			now and he says he quotes a Mohammed bin Hassan again, he says he did not use to sleep the nights.
		
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			You don't have to do that. But
		
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			some people used to do this, if they did not use to sleep at night, and he would have put you know
the books right next to him. So if he would get bored with one discipline, he would consider another
discipline. So if you could board with fick, you can move on to Heidi, if you get bored with
headache, you could move on to history, right? If you get bored with history, move on to something
else and so on. So that Yeah, the self remains interested. And he says what can I add on the whole
map he says he used to store some water right next to him. And if he gets sleepy he would just wash
his face with water and he says you know This removes sleep meaning it helps him to stay up. So
		
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			again, I mean, you don't have to necessarily
		
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			believe that this is a must use the need to stay up all night and never sleep. That may not be
		
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			possible or advisable for a lot of us know if you need to sleep sleep, but at least that we were
saying out of the gate as as the you know as a beginning.
		
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			Give yourself the opportunity to study every single day and commit
		
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			Do it and commit to it.
		
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			No. So
		
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			moving on to the next chapter.
		
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			This is for chef hottie one mercy had this is
		
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			caring for others, and giving advice, being advice. He says, that knowledgeable person, this is part
of the law of the knowledgeable person. So we talked before about the fact that when you have
knowledge is not simply information, we're not storing information, right? It's not it's not it's
like studying to get a job studying Islam. It's not like studying to get a job. It's like studying
to do what to improve, to be better. And to go to gender, you're not going to go to gender by just
simply memorizing and you meet allies. It's not like the person who had memorized the Quran. It's
not the person who had you know, memorize the entire Koran, just like a computer and then Allah is
		
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			the gel on the day of judgment will come and say, if the meaning read, recite and be elevated,
simply for the act of memorization. Right? Is it just memorization?
		
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			No, right? Because that doesn't help. It's when you memorize it and you apply it. Because if you
what happens if you memorize and you contradicted
		
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			hmm that's very bad, because now you know, but that thing that you know condemns you, that thing you
recite it, but it's condemning you. And you can't say I didn't know you memorized it.
		
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			have absolutely you have to take it in you have to implement it. So this is called the old Quran.
hoary old Quran is the one who memorized it and he applies it. So the same thing with the Sooners,
not just I'm learning Heidi memorizing headings, then what? What are you going to do with it or this
book? I'm just reading this book, and then what it's telling you this book is telling you you need
to avoid this bad habit and avoid this bad character. And you memorize it and you read it and you
say yes, yes, yes. And it's anyone? Yes, yes. And it's in you. That doesn't work? No, you need to
take it and you need to change it. apply yourself. So apply it. So here when he says you know, MB is
		
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			any akuna mushfiqur, nausea and fire hazard you have to care for people. nasi has given them advice.
I have a hazard not envious fell hazard, Rola. In fact, envy hurts you? And does it benefit you. So
if you have envy in us, and by the way, this is any human, human to be what? envious,
		
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			envious, it's impossible to point to a human being right. And then you stood the prophets of Allah
azza wa jal, but it's, you know, not possible to point to a human being and say, he doesn't know
what envy is. How possible, you always going to envy someone, because you're always going to look at
somebody else who had done something said something. And by the way, envy is something you know,
interesting, because it just depends on what matters to you.
		
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			What matters to you? So what if it matters to you is cars let's see. All right, and not academic
achievement? Let's see, as an example. So yeah, Eonni, I don't know a triple PhD could be sitting
right next to you. And he says, I have triple PhDs.
		
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			Because you don't care about academic achievement. But somebody who's anorexic you say I bought a
new car, is it? What is it? I need to go out and see it because that's what matters. And you're
going to envy him for that. Not for the other thing. So that's what what's interesting about envy,
it's not, it's not the same for everybody, you're going to envy for what matters for you. And
somebody in your own field somebody in your own discipline. So if you hear about somebody else in a
different type of discipline, who achieved something you may not care, but a colleague of yours who
had achieved something you couldn't or did not yet. You're going to envy him. Right? Somebody older
		
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			than you did something or younger man, not younger, older than you did something great. That's okay.
		
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			Somebody, same age, or younger, did something that you couldn't do. What? That's envy. So he says,
this also is in alien, by the way. In Elm, you're going to be envious. You're starting a book,
you're starting a surah. having such a hard time memorizing it, somebody else comes in, you know, in
a day finishes the whole thing. Oh, let's see.
		
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			Absolutely. I mean, because if Why does he say that? envy hurts and does not benefit? Because what
are you doing is you're hurting yourself. You're not hurting the other person. It's sinful to envy.
And now you're looking at them and you're questioning why they have what you do not have and it has
not helped you in any way. But rather if you say, well wait a second is that I'm being envious. He
knows more than I am
		
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			And he's younger and this and that, but he knows more than I am. Rather than, you know being envious
make do out for them be happy for them that allows them to had enabled them to do something, and
that your objective and their objective should be the same, which is what helping, though Mohammed
sallallahu Sallam because why are you learning this? After you saving yourself? Right, we said is
relative Jerry and Neff say that you save yourself from ignorance, but also why are we learning it?
You want to help the omo Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam the people around so this person who is
knowledgeable who had knows more than you? Isn't he also doing the same thing. So if your objective
		
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			is the same, you shouldn't envy him. But if my objective is my own glory, then as different, okay.
And it's it's, it's easy to say no, no, no, I don't want any glory. I don't want any praise. No. All
of us want glory, all of us want praise all of us, and we enjoy it. We feed off it. So you have now
to say what No, I shouldn't care about it. I shouldn't This is how you treat yourself. I shouldn't
care about it. I shouldn't care. I seek Allah's protection from it. I seek Allah's protection from
it, it's not good for me, it is bad for me. And to keep saying this to yourself and educating
yourself on what constitutes envy and how you can rid yourself of it, then, then you'll get rid of
		
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			it. So he is saying here that this is how you're supposed to be caring for others, giving them
advice, taking care of them, not envious of them. This is how are you supposed to elevate you not
demean you. Right. So some people Subhanallah and this is why it's important. They learn meaning
information, but no added with it. No edit. So there are a lot are terrible. And when they discuss a
matter with you, they're terrible. And you want to run away.
		
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			Yeah, yeah, of course. Right. I mean, we start hurting as he said, you start hurting when you when
you talk to them, you want to run away, even though they're talking about religious matters. But
there are terrible, who say, Well, I don't want this, you just want to run away, because that's not
the type of person I want to be and that you're not the type of person I want to talk to. So there's
this this divorce between adults and learning. No, they need to be together. And as we said before,
if you find that your information or your knowledge that you are acquiring is not helping your UCLA
Is something wrong. There's something wrong and what you are learning and how you're learning it
		
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			seen it is take a step back and reconsider. Maybe you shouldn't be focused on this focus on
something else, or whatever you are learning you're really not learning and try it and not applying
it to yourself. So it brings here the example of someone as a teacher, he says Giada Waka subclade
evening, he walked out the hotel Cobra, meaning that he used to teach kids and he had children. So
he used to teach the children of you know other people, and delay teaching his kids, you know, till
close to the whole time. So they would start teaching from after fidget.
		
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			And he'll delay his children till about close to the whole time, the whole Cobra. So they came to
their father and they said, you so our nature, you know, can't wait like our energy, we don't have
energy to wait till that time in Fabiana killua Thermal luvabella kilowatts, we get tired and bored
when you want to teach us close to the heart time that's close to the end. So we have energy in the
beginning, waiting all the way to the end. We don't have energy for it. Why don't you give us the
earlier times. So his father said he says strangers and people coming from distant lands, and Sons
of dignitaries meaning other people, not my children, other people are coming to learn from me from
		
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			distant areas. So I must honor them. And I must honor their journey. So I will teach them first out
and then I'll teach you so he comments and he says, because he cared so much about the children of
other people without neglecting his children, but because he cared so much about others people,
children, he gave them their favorite time, Allah blessed the education of his children. And they
also became scholars. They also became scholars. So he brought this example. Why? So that he says
chef, aka heroes, that you are that you care for other people, you care about them, you care that
enough that you want to teach them and you want to rescue them from ignorance and teach in the book
		
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			of Allah xojo. So that type of care is what is supposed to characterize the teacher, especially the
Islamic teacher, okay, so the image of the Islamic teacher being a disciplinarian and very rough and
you know, with a stick, that's, that's not how it's supposed to be, right? That's just a traditional
or a cultural thing. There has to be shafa in care for the students.
		
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			And he says here, right
		
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			empathy. And these, by the way, we mentioned before, these manners that we're talking about are not
exclusive to seeking knowledge. And even a person is not a seeker of knowledge will find benefit in
them. So like the following here wemberly Allah university, I hadn't what I call Sima who Leanna,
who, you know, you all heard, he says, and he is supposed not to quarrel with people and fight with
them, because this wastes your time.
		
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			So he's saying what, and this applies to everybody, but especially for seekers of knowledge, thought
about it, and it says Your time is precious. So don't waste it, fighting with people
		
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			don't wasted fighting with people. And sometimes, you know, these types of fights.
		
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			Not necessarily physical fights, but quarrels and arguments. They could be I mean, between people
who are learning, they start arguing with each other and then arguing and arguing and the
		
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			jekt or that, you know, the what they want to achieve from it is not the pleasure of Allah is not
something useful, but I want to win. And I don't want him to win, I want to defeat him. So they keep
arguing and arguing and arguing. And these arguments escalate, they start small, and they escalate
and escalate and escalate until the person's the two people are cursing each other. And although it
started as a religious discussion or argument, they start cursing each other. Okay. And that is a
characteristic of people who are arguing not for the sake of learning, not for the sake of teaching,
but for the sake of winning and also without a flock without adapt. But they let their own desire
		
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			their own knifes. control them so I want to win I can't let him win. Rather the person is supposed
to engage in a discussion whatever that discussion is. useful if it's not he moves on. As Lila Alma
synesthesia v. San he was he was attacked v masa, we, he says, The The one who does good, he will be
rewarded for the good that he has done. And the one who has done evil, that evil will be his
recompense and his reward. Right. This clarifies it. The next verse of poetry. He says, that is
insanity Allah. So if you're at the hiseq fee, Hema fee is a fee, my fee, well, mahoba Allah, He
says, Don't punish someone for an evil that he has done. It's enough for him what he has done, and
		
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			what he is doing. And then don't occupy yourself with trying to punish people for the wrong that
they have done.
		
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			Right? Because this is gonna just what wastes a lot of your time and a lot of your energy. Even as a
lay person, you don't even consider yourself a seeker of knowledge. I'm just listening to this.
That's fine. Is this also valuable for everybody says if you just occupy your time, and it's
dominated by I want to punish so and so and this person, and that person is like, the end of your
day says, this person did this bad, bad thing to me and this person said this bad thing to me. Next
day, I'm planning how to punish them and avenge myself. Right. Right. He says, Don't worry about all
of these things. That is in Cernan.
		
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			And so if you really don't worry about it, because the evil that he has done, that's enough of a
punishment for him. And anyway, whatever he has done is going to come back to bite him, gonna come
back to hurt him. So you don't need really to spend energy on him. You don't really need to spend
energy on it. He and he, as they say, he's digging his own hole with his hand, digging his grave
with his hand. Let him let him make do out for him. If you want to let to save him, right? Don't
worry about it. Because Don't worry about punishing him. Don't worry about getting your rights back,
forget about it, because Allah is gonna send something or someone that will take care of him but you
		
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			focus on what is beneficial. And that's why he says here in
		
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			two verses of poetry that follow either sheet and telco I do work around EMA with Dr. O Doctor Who
is a man with the headache ohama. Formula dilla was the admin in the home and his data elements are
the hassle to him. He says if you want to punish your enemy, you really want to punish your enemy
and make him regretful and make him you know, you know and you know like burn him burn him alive and
as a saying out of with distress Burnham with distress, he says Excel,
		
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			Excel, do your best to excel and increase your self of knowledge because when he sees that you have
excelled. He's going to be distressed because of it. Nothing certain is in a sense, he's saying what
if you have an enemy and if you really want to make your enemy sad, be better. be a better person.
Okay, achieve better. Okay. Okay, no, of course. I mean, don't say to yourself, either.
		
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			Want to achieve better just so that I could show everybody else, you know, how they are better? How
better I am, right? I want them to look at me with envy. I want to like you know, you know, put
their noses drag their noses in the mud. Whenever they see I have this degree and I talked to so and
so on. That's not a good intention to write. That's not because what do you want? What's the What's
your goal here? I want them to see and be disappointed, because would themselves see me and envy me.
That's not that's not a good intention. You're still in rivalry with other people. But rather what
you take from it is that don't really bother with them. Don't bother. If you still have that in you
		
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			write that desire to, I want to punish them. He said, okay, you want to punish, okay? The best way
to punish someone is what? An enemy of yours who wants to bring you down? That's what their
attention is, right? Somebody who insults you or somebody who attacks you? What did they want to do
destroy you bring you down. Okay, raise yourself up. You're doing the opposite of what your enemy
wants. And throughout the way you're going to learn not to look at your enemies anymore. is not
really healthy, right to always keep looking.
		
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			Are they? Are they watching? Do they know what I've done? Do they know how great I am? And that's
really not healthy. But rather you start doing for the sake of the thing that you want to doing it
right? Yeah.
		
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			Right, right. You don't don't repay evil with evil. don't repay but rather suppress evil.
		
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			Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. So don't repay evil with evil, but rather neglect that evil, right?
And do what benefits you because when you keep rising, you're going to rise above that foolishness,
right? So he says, that's what he says. Alexander study, levy Masada, heinous. Ziggler. Before
Hardwick, he says you have to occupy yourself, concentrate on what benefits you not about how to
defeat your enemy. Because if you benefit yourself, you really have defeated your enemy. So that's
what it is.
		
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			So that that idea of revenge, that would be about revenge about, I want to see something bad
happening to my enemy. Okay, that's really not healthy. And that's really not something that you
should concentrate on. But rather, somebody did something bad to you try to go beyond it, move
beyond it. And if they still had you have these feelings inside of you say I'm going to better
myself. And when you better yourself, you've definitely have moved beyond whatever that person was
trying to do. So just move beyond it. And he says here also something's been very beneficial. He
says he yakka Wilmore either. Beware of hostilities,
		
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			instigate Niantic, I mean, feeling hostilities, you're not going to start quarrels and arguments and
fights with people you're not. But you may respond.
		
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			So he says, beware of hostility for in the heart of the hookah. I'll explain it, it's going to
disgrace you and waste your time. Well, I like a bit too humble, but be tolerant, especially with
the foolish. So he says why you're going to meet someone. Okay, me going to meet plenty of different
types of people, some of them are going to be foolish. So don't
		
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			nurture any hostility don't allow hostilities. with them. Why? He says for in the heart of the hook,
it's going to disgrace you and waste your time wasting your time is easy. We understand how it's
going to waste your time. What does he mean that is going to disgrace you that if you are talking
with someone who's foolish, okay, and out of anger, you give him an insult? What is he going to do?
		
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			Oh, he's gonna give you 10 insults.
		
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			Exactly. Yeah, you're feeding a monster. So one insult is going to give you 10 insults. You give
them 10 insults. That's it, it takes you outside the masjid outside the home and just you know,
starts slapping competition, right? So, he says, if he's foolish, don't stoop to his level. Because
it's gonna only aggravate the situation, it's going to disgrace you. So if you want to maintain your
dignity, right, so this is the same thing as they say, for instance, if there's a dog was barking at
you, what do you do?
		
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			Okay, you don't bark, right? Nobody barks back at a dog, right? And then you just end it's a barking
competition between you and the dog and who can go faster and louder and you know, until he's gonna
win, right? The dog is gonna win, right? Both barking. So hey, why? Because we're not designed to do
that we can imitate, but that's not what we do. So if you happen not to be foolish, but there's
another person who's foolish and expert at foolishness. don't compete in foolishness with them,
right? Just let them be. So don't be aware of hostilities. So in your mind, in the
		
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			Your heart always your intent is I want to whenever I am suppress evil.
		
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			Yeah, in the grocery store you're going to meet a foolish person while parking you've heard of
people fighting over parking spots. Okay? If somebody wants to park in this park, for God's sake,
just park and go on and find another parking. Why are you fighting over this? That's what feeding
that hostility? You're at that moment. Maybe otherwise those people are smart and intelligent and
wise, but that moment, they're foolish. So you don't want to encounter counter foolishness with
foolishness So no, it is my spot. I'm making a statement right now. All right, that this is mine.
I'm moving here building into something here. I'm just not I mean, just move on. So if you're going
		
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			to engage in a quarrel with a foolish person is just going to be your own downfall and let me just
finish inshallah, then we can have time for questions. So it's just going to be your downfall for
that this especially with the foolish and it's gonna so tolerate, you gotta be tolerant, be
tolerant. So if someone is having a very bad day, or somebody is foolish, and he says something bad
or does something that tolerate
		
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			exactly he mean, I mean, it's just it's a bad time for him, right? Okay, just tolerate it and
suppress evil and move on. And then you've won. And he won, because you've saved him too. And he
says, won't cheat to live out the hymn sheet at all. He said. He says, I've heard poetry for some
people are saying, it says below to NASA carbon, and by the hordenine. Almada. hirakata. In Mohali,
he says I've experienced people, one generation after another. And I've only seen a trickster and a
hater, meaning that he's saying that I've experienced a lot of people. And a lot of people that have
experienced are either hotel, somebody whose choice tries to cheat you and trick you, or party who's
		
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			going to hate you. And he says, What am I going to be Ayesha Khan was saddam in war it originally.
And he says in among all difficulties that I've seen and encountered, I haven't seen anything more
difficult than the hostilities of men would have to Marotta share your Torah. And he says, I've
tasted the bitterness of many things or all things. While my look to Mr. Rahman so early, and I did
not taste something more bitter than asking for a favor. Right? So here are the benefits. And of
course, verses of poetry have some wisdom in them. But not everything that they say is necessarily
true. But what he's saying is that, you know, I experienced all people, and in his experience, what
		
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			people I've seen was either someone who was trying to trick you, or somebody who hates you. So is he
saying that is common, you're going to find that.
		
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			But the more important verses are the ones who follow that one wider region, he says that one of the
most difficult things to experience is the hostilities of men, somebody who hates you, somebody who
wants to harm you. He says that is very hard, especially when that person is an enemy of yours, that
is very hard. So don't let it reach that level where that person really wants to harm you. physical
harm, or even reputation wise, right? They really wants to harm you. So sometimes, if there is that
type of foolishness of you know him, you know, capable of doing something like this try to suppress
evil, as much as you can. Right? And he says, I knew there was nothing more bitter than the
		
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			bitterness of asking for a favor. Because there in a sense, you're begging someone for help. Please
help me with this. Please help me with that. So he's saying and
		
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			as much as you can, write as much as you can try to avoid asking for favors. This is what he's
saying. Sometimes you have to sometimes you have to, but he's saying avoid asking for favors. And he
says what ya can toluna Mini Sua and never suspect a believer.
		
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			And without any reason, suspect or think the worst of a believer for in the home. Insha Allah Allah,
Allah, Allah, Allah Allah, He says, because this is the seed of hostilities. And how does
		
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			hostile How do hostilities begin? Is with bad thoughts and bad suspicion? I'm thinking, thinking the
worst of them, you know, has done this or said that because of bad reasons. This is how hostilities
start. We're in the main show that he came and hope funny, it was who is surreal. It says and this
is the origin of it. Where does it come from when you have these bad thoughts? Hopefully you're
having a bad intention was to study them and a bad interior. So a bad interior here that the heart
okay is moving with hatred is moving with hostility is moving with the evil, any type of evil says
because there's something bad on the inside. You suspect others on the outside. So he's saying and
		
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			there's a piece of poetry here that really is important, because it tells you something but before I
go to it, he says
		
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			You cannot suspect a believer and without any justification, okay.
		
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			Well actually let me let me read that verse of poetry and then go back and explain it. It says in
within a B says either said, he said a Luna who also de matar to whom into homie? Well, Adam will
have behavioral theory that he was baffled at minute shigemoto He says, when a person's actions are
evil, then his thoughts are evil or his suspicions are evil. And he believes what he
		
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			is used to have suspicion. So what does he mean by this? He says that, if what you do is bad, okay,
your suspicions also are going to be bad.
		
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			Your suspicions reflect your actions, right? And you will believe whatever say whatever
imaginations, whatever, you know, whatever you suspect or imagine about somebody else, you will
start believing it as well. Like what, for instance, if a person is a thief, okay? He believes that
everybody is what?
		
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			Thieves, okay, that's like that's proven like if you're, if you're a person who steals because
that's the thing that you do. And you understand that motivation. If you see somebody taking money
out somewhere, they'll say, Oh, he must be stealing it too. Because this is what you do. The first
thing that comes to your mind is what what you do. Okay? If talking to you know, a lady, let's say
right. And you are used to talking to lead is haram. haram way, right?
		
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			If you see that he says what he must be,
		
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			he must be doing something bad. Why? Because that's what you do. That's the natural naturally,
that's what comes. That's what I would be doing.
		
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			Right? So that's what you that's what comes to your mind. So it is a little more of a set of No, no,
no. It says when your actions are evil, your suspicions will follow because this is exactly what you
are doing. That's the first thing that is going to come to your mind. Plus the person who does that
evil, he wants everybody to do it. He believes everybody do it. Does it success. why sometimes
sometimes not all the time, when you hear somebody says, Well, everybody steals? Why? This is what
you believe? Because this is what you do. And this is what you want it to be. Because what you don't
want to say I'm the only person who seems right. It's not a thing. You're the only guilty one. No,
		
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			everybody steals one way or another. Right. So if that way that you remove guilt,
		
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			and you become at least you know, not as bad as you think you are. So he says, if you're if you your
actions are bad, your your suspicions are bad, and you believe whatever you imagine, why then will
he be and he'll turn against his loved ones, because of what his enemies are telling him. So if
there's any gossip, he'll believe that gossip immediately. And he'll break relations with his
friends with his family members with loved ones just simply based on suspicion, I heard so and so he
may have said this about you, he will believe all of that. And he will be in a dark night of
suspicion, and he doesn't know what to believe anymore. So
		
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			a person is not supposed to think the worst of a believer. Okay, whether these suspicions arise
within you.
		
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			Or somebody comes and shares these things with you. If they arise within you, you have to suppress
them and say this is from the shadeland. This is haraam. I'm not allowed to believe these things,
especially when there is no evidence, or whatever you see, can be interpreted in more than one way,
why are you choosing the worst way to interpret and then condemn your brother and sister? As long as
there's another way to interpret it? Right. So as long as there was a way to save the reputation of
your brother within you, that's the path that you take. Because after all, this is what you want
them to think with you. So hey,
		
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			exactly. You don't want anybody to if you're in that situation, would you want them to treat you the
way that you're treating them? Just think about it. Is it fair? Like I think that someone for
instance, someone is praying, and I think he's showing off? Someone is giving zeca showing off? I
don't have no evidence but just comes within me. Sometimes it happens. He's showing off.
		
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			But say, Okay, do I want them to think that when I'm praying
		
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			when I'm giving Zakah when I'm doing do I want them to think that they have no evidence you will say
to yourself, they have no evidence What right do they have to think that about me and I don't have
		
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			it's the same thing with them. What try do you have to think that about them? Oh, there's something
bad about them. This must be from her on money. How do you know? Do you want them to say the same
thing about you?
		
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			So it's hot.
		
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			It's hot. Um, and so this is also a type of knowledge that we are supposed to learn, which is what
not to have evil thoughts about my brother and about my sister.
		
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			Okay? Or if I see them, you know, for instance, you know, have bought something or all must be from
harmony must be what? How?
		
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			Always think the best if you want Allah azzawajal to
		
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			gather around you people who will think the best of you.
		
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			And if you hear unsubstantiated information coming from people, about other people shut that door
immediately. Or you know what happened? You know what he did? You know, to shut that door
completely? If I don't need to know about it? Why am I listening to it?
		
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			Right? Like, what am I going to? What am I going to do with all of this information? Nothing, shut
that door completely. Say what you say why you say because you want that other person to learn that
they can share that information with anybody. You want to teach them that they shouldn't be doing
it. Because you know what? If they are doing that with someone else with you, they're going to be
doing that with that person about you.
		
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			Guaranteed. And you're feeding that that pathology, pathology of Oh, I'm interested in listening to
the trouble that is between him and his wife.
		
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			Well, you're gonna help them.
		
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			No, I just want to know, this, there's no need for that door. I don't need to know this shut that
door. Or you know what happened to their kids. I don't need to know just shut that. And that's what
a what a seeker of knowledge is supposed to be even if you're a part time seeker of knowledge, you
elevate yourself about above that that garbage. And he says I'm not listening to this. Because the
Baraka, whatever I'm learning is going to go away if I'm listening to this type of gossip, the
programs on TV, there's just about gossip. Right? That, you know, publications that are just about
gossip. I mean, I mean, nobody, I don't know if anybody buys them, but whenever you're passing by, I
		
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			don't know how many aliens were spotted on Earth, right? With every publication an alien was spotted
here. The son of this person is an alien. I don't know, people buy these things. Right? Because it's
interesting. But But I mean, it's so outrageous. I don't know who believes it anyway, right? How
many people got divorced and back together, right? Just because you're like, so and so got divorced,
so and so got divorced. So that's interesting. Some people so we live on Gaza, but you need to shut
that door completely. Especially where in the masjid.
		
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			Right, if you really, really, really want to do it now that is highlighted, but at least remove
yourself outside of the message God's sake, not in the house of Allah as a surgeon, you coming to
the masjid house of Allah, and you're gossiping.
		
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			So your sin should increase, because it's happening in what a sacred place, right? This is the house
of Allah and the sacred place. So your sin will increase when you do this. So you need to remove it
out. And this should be a place where it is safe for the believers to come and they worship Allah
and there will be Baraka and serenity in it not the other way around, not a place where exchange
gossip with people. So it's he says, it's not allowed. It's it's hard for a person to suspect
another Muslim, another believer and it's also to spread these, it's hard.
		
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			To more a couple of like about four verses of poetry. To conclude this chapter is just an idea what
a 32 woman old lady who has an unfit who he says remove yourself from any evil, okay, and the evil
act, and don't seek it. And if you've done something good to someone, double that and keep
increasing it. Okay? So look for I mean, I do, we are co located, and he says you're going to be
protected from the plots of your enemy. So if your enemy plots against you don't plot against him.
So he's saying again, rise above foolishness. So what is he saying is that stay away from evil? Stay
away from evil. And if you've done them something good, keep doing it. Keep doing it. As some
		
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			people, you know, Subhanallah No, I mean, we're human.
		
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			They keep giving, they keep giving, they keep giving. And after some time they complain, he says,
I'm not seeing anything back. I'm not seeing anything. I'm not seeing any Thank you. I'm not seeing
any return on it.
		
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			In time insha Allah you need to ask Allah as a surgeon for it. You want to reach a stage where
you're giving for the sake of giving.
		
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			Right not giving for the sake of anything else that you're going to get from that person? Not even a
thank you.
		
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			So there are levels of giving levels of teaching level of companionship, where I'm giving, but I'm
expecting something bad. And yes, we're humans.
		
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			With some humans, you gonna have to expect something back, I understand your spouse, your child
expecting something back. But they're also with other human beings outside, right? That that
intimate circle
		
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			friends or people in the masjid or whatever, right? acquaintances, family members,
		
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			do it for the sake of doing that what what is good doing for Allah xojo whether you receive
something good from them or not, as a lot to make it irrelevant. ask Allah to make it irrelevant.
Because when it is irrelevant, you'll be able to keep giving them good and good and good. The law
for the sake of Allah is just not gonna end, even if they're not repaying you, even if they're not
returning the favor. And what he says here, he says to firm, in other words are co located. And he
says, When you do this, and when you live like that, you're going to be saved from the plots of your
enemy. So you don't need to worry about your enemy, if they plot against you, you don't need to plot
		
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			against them, a lower plot for you, as a law student says with that you can get an early use of so
we have plotted for use of right, so use if you understand what happened to us, if Allah is cinema,
he went through so much with a plus of his brothers, but he did not plot against them. And he did
not want to harm them. That's that's the ideal story of people harming you, but you don't really
want to harm them. You just want them to find out what they've done that was wrong and repent from
it. So that's once they repented from it. He invited them and their families to Egypt and he
welcomed them with open arms and you know, gave them whatever they needed. So they actually
		
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			benefited from us if he never harmed them, but who plotted for use of Allah could that he could
kidnap us. So he didn't have to sit up. How am I going to trick this person and punish this person?
And they're like, 11 of them. 123 You didn't have to do this. It says, this is how we're going to
plot for use. So Allah will plot for you, Allah will save you from your enemies plot. If you are
good, you don't have to worry about it. Somebody hurt me. How do I hurt him? No, no, no, don't hurt.
Somebody hurt me. How What do I do to revenge? No, no, don't worry about that. Be good, be good and
rise above those petty feelings. Those those hurt feelings. A lot is the devil take care of you.
		
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			And the last one, he says good luck. Lina is the woman jarhead and he says the wise person should
never be saved from an ignorant person. You assume a whole man will annata he'll burden him with
injustice and difficulties is you'll never and you will always have someone foolish. Maybe May Allah
save us from that but you always have somebody foolish, who will burden you he says with injustice
and with difficulty. He says fully after his Selma Allah hubiera let them choose peace instead of
conflict with them. Well the ultimate insight okay and let him be quiet inside in if SATA if he
child shouts so if that foolish person starts shouting, it says don't shout back as we said Don't
		
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			shout back, but it really is an insult meaning start just be quiet. So that you would you know
choose peace rather than conflict.
		
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			So like a person knows when to choose in the you know when to choose your battles and what battles
to choose. Right? So not every argument is worth it. Not every discussion is worth it. Not every
person is necessarily worth having a discussion with sometimes is just enough to listen and then
move on. But save your energy for what matters, right. So, inshallah so let's not get into the next
chapter, so I'm thinking long term let's see. Maybe we'll have one one session or two more sessions
inshallah we'll see what this so let's see inshallah, if you have questions
		
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			or if no, you can get ready for Asia.
		
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			Now,
		
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			either Nam will hold or they disagree about him.