Akram Nadwi – Thursday Q&A 04-11-21

			Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh everyone welcome back to our weekly q&a which I cannot
wait. We were on a two week if I'm not mistaken break its handler we're back again 6pm UK time every
Thursday every week inshallah for half an hour just quickly I do want to apologize. The time did
move back one hour in the UK a few days ago. So I did post a q&a posts and the timing was a little
bit a little bit off so I do apologize Inshallah, hopefully next week, we can have that adjusted
inshallah and without any further ado, let's get started. And just one more thing for anyone that
does hear any strange noises. There are a lot of fireworks in my background. I will try to meet
		

			myself. Inshallah, let's take a question from Moin within Sharla. And his question is, in my
culture, it has always been taught or simply practice through generations, a wife should never
address her husband by his name, even amongst themselves. Is there any basis for this in Islam?
		

			Missoula, Manjula
		

			noted a very important question.
		

			The way you know in Arabic culture and Islamic culture, at least part of our culture in that sense
has been that when people are dressed someone who the respect, so they are dressed with Punia
		

			like the Professor Lisa Lumba Scalia, Bella, Cassie orrible Qasim. And when you call someone who is
equal to you, or lower than you, you just mentioned the name but somebody who want to rescue you
have Kenya. So this could be reason that why the people you know, the women call their husbands with
a Cooney or something else. Because out of respect, but otherwise, religion, religion, there is no
basis for that. The women in the past they used to call the husbands with their names. And names
have, you know, some people think if the women named call their husbands with the name,
		

			you know, separation will happen on Sunday that did not nothing like that, you know, absolutely
fine. People can vary some out of respect. Somebody wants to call his wife is calling the wife want
to call her husband with the money or some other title. You know, there's a good there's no harm in
that. But I've seen where people could call each other with the name.
		

			Okay, let's take the next question in sha Allah. And this question is, is a hotbed of Nikka.
compulsory for marriage? If two people in the presence of a witness say that they accept each other
in the NACA, will the marriage be valid? And is the parents permission or awareness important?
		

			You know, what was not compulsory Danica? Nobody said goodbye sooner recommended. There are so many
Hadith about the completeness of married each other without an equitable or you know, if a mindset
Oh man, I married to you and she accepted. The woman said to mine, I am married to you and he
accepted he said yes. And there are people who can witness that's in the mirror will be obligatory.
Even if admission. Mahara will be obligated you don't need to mention if you mentioned that's fine
if you don't emission is still mer will be obligatory. But there's no need for any by Danica.
There's no need for any Alima Molano chef to continue to marry a man who you know, wants to marry
		

			your you know, bride groom or bride. They can initiate the niqab by themselves minor kind of see I
married you or she can say married to you? And he said yes. And there are people who can witness the
marriage absolutely fine. There's no harm in that. But it's better to involve the family by the
Hanafi mother even as a family don't I agree and the people who are marrying there other than the
the don't depend on anybody's concert, you know, the independent economists each other either like?
		

			Okay, just talking. Let's take a question from for him.
		

			And this question is what advice would you give for someone who wants to seek knowledge but is not
currently financially able to?
		

			Yeah, this is a very difficult because knowledge these days is not easy, you know? So people have
to, you know, make effort to order money. If they can't earn money, then they're eligible to receive
the card. So it's truth like that there weren't important you know, people who can receive the path
you know, we pay the car to the poor people.
		

			Ready people but actually the most important thing will be in our time you know there's tools of
knowledge because you know they'll be so beneficial for the whole society to people should help them
and you know and find out this was like that when they spend their car you know to noodle poor
people they should prioritize and give us a path and so the car to the students that everybody had
been saying, you know, in the front the pastor and I really recommend her in a strongly that in
every country like in UK there should be funds available for the students
		

			you know, where people can you know, pay their you know, the college gift, whatever they want, and
then that money is spent on the students
		

			Okay, let's take a question from
		

			Fed 31 and question is quite long, so it may not all come out. It's tried inshallah.
		

			Okay, can we simplistically make delille for women in the spoils of war, to become slaves and have
no marital status being available for their masters? By what Allah mentioned in verse 24, of
certainly set and the part of his verse she's referring to is one of my son I Domina Nisa in lemma
dilemma Malika Amen. Oh come Kitab Allah, he had a call or is it actually an extended point that is
related to the verse before which is talking about the woman who are haram for men to marry
		

			you know, thing if somebody is already in somebody, you know, for animation, the women who are not
allowed to marry so you know, mothers and sisters, daughters, all the, among the women who people
are not allowed allowed to marry or not, those women who already married, you can't marry married
women, except the women who are slave girls, meaning they are married in you know, in their culture,
religion, then after that war happened, and they are captured, and now they become slaves. So they
can't go back to the husbands because people who are taking them their own them now. So, after a
passing, you know, one a month or one a cycle, then the masters are allowed to have relations with
		

			them, oh, these girls can be married to someone else, you know, either people can agree to this
exception for unmarried people, because the marriage in this case is broken. You know, they live in
two different countries and two different systems can't meet her husband wife here cannot meet. So
this separation itself is like divorce or separation. Now they can't meet each other this exception
happened but generally in certainly, you know, this is a in those traditions and cultures when the
war was happening, and when every country used to follow those norms. By our time it is not the
case. So is the war happening between two countries and the women they live on combination they
		

			happen to be in their place in nobody can marry them because they still were under the marriage of
their previous husbands because they know slavery and nothing like that. This is a rule for the
past. And I don't think people can understand so easily you know, one day maybe I explained this a
little bit more detail. To be clear, but anyway, simple matter is this is about married women who
have become slave. Yeah.
		

			Okay, just okay. First, let's take a question from very high.
		

			And the question is, is it mandatory on us to recite the Quran following all the rules attached with
like, all night and the
		

			things that people have to beautify you know, as much as possible, but we can't say all obligatory
you know, people should read like Arabic language that should they may make an effort and what it
means is like Muharraq to maharaj is important, because every language has its own way of to
pronounce words to people should learn Mahara as best as possible, do em other companies also there
have been people who could not you know, express the Maharaj properly, but the man is the father of
the roof. And details are the one nine a mother they have been developing, you know, over the
centuries, you know, improving many of these things, we certainly know the professor did not follow
		

			them, because they know to his has come detail that how he's to
		

			you know, read so many surah in Wirkkala to follow all these rules, he cannot do that.
		

			So they know how to follow these rules by they are not obligatory. You know, I will recommend people
at least they should learn Mahadesh but more than that they do. It is better if they don't do that
no harm.
		

			Just a follow up on this question, Jeff, what would you say to someone who's maybe prioritizing
beautifying their voice and the melody of their voice
		

			over for example, following the codified Tajweed rules or their marriage?
		

			Yo no mahari The more important than just beautifying the voice. And more important than that really
easy, you know, to understand the Quran and reflect upon the verses and ponder the Quran that is the
Kamada philosophical, yearly Quran the message has come with the message that people should focus
more you know, these are reading with the tongue.
		

			That is not obligatory obligation is to understand the Quran to understand the Mercy properly, that
where people fail, most people only think how to learn, you know, reading with the lips, you know,
reading with elicit never has been, you know, in any language really to always be understanding, you
know, so people have to focus on that. If Quran is not understood, their reading with a list will
not benefit people not being the man I know. Trust me Allah subhanaw taala in all the benefits of
the Quran, the only buy because of understanding on following that way you can see when the Quran
Baraka is mentioned, which I mentioned in connection of the book in a pondering the Quran or in
		

			connection of the Ithaca following the Quran just reading with the Lipson has never has come really
the Prophet says and never advise people to leave with lists in all it advice is to understand the
Quran
		

			Okay, let's take another question inshallah. One moment
		

			okay, let's take this question. I understand she is on first refused to prostrate by this point he
was not banished from heaven. He was banished after either nslm from eat from the tree. Do we know
what's happened to shit on in between?
		

			You know, we only know about arrive unseen things, either much or the little hotel had mentioned to
us. He had his own hikma went to burnish a ton from the heaven because a lot of Hatha wanted to
teach other Mali salaam you know what how shaitan is mostly mislead him. So that plus for the lack
of rehearsal for other Malayalam so fully Hello Sara Dunder, the Shelton Mr. He would seem then you
know, he repent to Allah subhanaw taala then after that he sent to the earth he was the metaphor
that the other one some had not met was live in paradise anyway. He Allah created him as a Khalifa
for that to to evolve meant to be here. But before coming here, Allah smarter wanted to teach him
		

			that how shaitan will mislead him, and then how he can depend on his family caliphate. So that why
shaitan and Adam were allowed to stay there until the rehearsal is complete. So when shaitan misled
him, influence him, and then after that Adam and Eve, they reprinted then after the Lhasa Hautala,
sell them to the earth, making very clear the shaitaan will be your enemy, so you have to be
careful.
		

			Okay, Inshallah, let's take the next question from Sister Maria.
		

			Her question, apologies. Oh, it's quite long, so I'll remove it soon.
		

			Her question is for the Hadith Napoli Salam alkaloid, Dean, Chef Solomon and out there mentioned
that Yamashiro Nisa is for a specific group of women. And a number of contemporary scholars such as
Muslim culture, say that this hadith is either Sabian Misa Could it be possible that the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wasallam knew the marital realities of the men who would complain to him and their
wives? No, no, like the questions being cut off a bit so please marry me if you can add more
inshallah. And we can add it afterwards.
		

			Thank you that this is a question I've asked so many times, the best thing really to find out the
Philippi and sent to the people but certainly to not miss our joke or something fun perhaps
ultimately very serious matter. And what it means that we are not COSATU Utley, I have made very
clear you know, in some of my answers to please refer back to the ancestor to help further Why do
you not have to repeat simply again again, I answered this question so many times
		

			sorry, sure. Just from the top of your head, do you know where we can direct anyone that wants to
know this question I answer you know, in the answer as well and I told the course on the women in on
the on the women the full day course about mahadi thought and in all these courses this her this has
come so many times. And
		

			I got it you know when Buhari teaching this or this came in the beginning because they're also
experienced this or this I've learned so many times.
		

			Okay, so for anyone who is interested in watching back this course Shahrukh Khan did hold a two day
course in the desert in back in January. So the beginning of this year for anyone
		

			You just want to access this course if you go on
		

			SLM ondemand.slm.ac.uk We have made our previous short courses available to purchase on demand, see
have access to them and watch it in your in your own time within 90 days. So inshallah I will try
and add this in the comments, but for now if you can help them inshallah Let's take another question
just give me one moment
		

			okay, let's take a question from
		

			Mohammed. And his question is my wife has a couple of ornaments which her grandparents gave her she
has a social special attachment to it, it is no cat as an asset to sell later. She doesn't wear them
daily, she only wears them on special occasions should we be giving the cat for it?
		

			Yeah, I know the ornaments are fun gold or silver. And they are you know, the reach to the amount of
nisab you know, it could be another video savings and altogether nearly four or 5000 pounds if
people have got four or 5000 pounds, you know coloring the ornaments, then they must pay zakat in
100 females you know the cat is obligatory on all the ornaments for the gold or silver whether you
use them or not, not use them emailing Shaeffer Allah Tala you know he says you know there are
things which are kept and rarely people use they should pay zakat for that you know, even the
Cadillac treasure they should anyway the Hanafi mother in as a party obligatory on all the ornaments
		

			or the gold and silver and I think that is a you know, preferred opinion in this battle
		

			Okay, Chava Let's take another question. And this question is if someone suffers from frequent
constipation and it makes him difficult to go to the mall to go to the washroom all the time what is
the ruling with regards to praying Salah with this with this problem
		

			you know, if there are people who are module you know if some people cannot keep their will to the
due for the time of the prayer and and then they can continue the prayer they don't need to do with
all the time like somebody you renewed in to drop the urine keep coming all the time or something
else give kidney so they can carry on the prayer they don't need to go prayer and go all the time.
Because too much Allah subhanaw taala already in
		

			response to people's need and difficulties. So when difficulty comes easiness concept of people will
need to do for the time of the prayer. And within the time if the same thing keep happening, that
not something else happened. It will vary though, but same thing will not break though.
		

			Okay, geez. Okay.
		

			Let's see. Okay, we have a question from Amara. I know he asked this question a few weeks ago, but
it wasn't asked that clearly. He's asking is it halal to earn money by making YouTube videos if my
video content is halal? So he's meant he's talking about it's having ad adverts
		

			that was depending on the amount of people that watch the adverts you can earn money from that that
is permissible or not you know if you have your content the halaal and why not people can not money
any hardware to you to your wedding and I don't know if my detail about you to how it was but if you
say you know your content a lot and people watch it and they benefit it and then the you know you
get money because people use it. You got a lot of money I don't think there's any problem that
		

			Okay, let's take another question. Give me
		

			one moment so we have a nice simple question here. How is
		

			what is the best way to purify one's heart
		

			The best way is to obey the law so Hautala is messenger you know when the time for the prayer comes
you pray you read the Quran, you avoid the Haram you know follow the Khaled don't commit a sin don't
lie don't break by it don't hurt anybody don't harm anybody. You know purity ever since the
sensitivity that the best thing that no other we're really there's not something you know, technical
or mechanical that people follow some techniques. It all obedience. The only way actually right away
to purify your heart to Obeah large messenger. Whenever people see teach you some techniques. It
doesn't work. You know you hard enough prefer you seem to you just feel
		

			Here's your gut feeling. Feelings are not purification. People get some mood to death think you know
they're elevated elevation the mood is not purification. Purification is a very serious matter. It
only happens by obedience, that one of you know your fear Allah and you OBEY HIM avoid the sense
		

			okay, we have a question from Ramiz if I'm not mistaken.
		

			A question regarding tourists Akina the fashion sell of zucchini a bit her saying was that a
hairstyle or a hijab style? There are various references claiming it to be a hairstyle and some to
be a way that the hijab was worn.
		

			You know, most of the teachers really I don't think anybody got proofer Socata been toss and you
know, she the daughter of herself, the loved one is a companion. And so kinda Is it a pious omen?
So, you know, you couldn't be you know, that she did not got an ARB because not obligatory you know,
some people do well, some people not well, but these women are very passive. I don't think they will
show off anything here or oh, you know, in public. Yeah. What's even more known is
		

			she loved
		

			poetry and literature. So in her house, there would be assemblies of the poets. They come and they
read poetry she may be reading Well, you know, normal bear, but we don't think really there were
there any sin or anything which can be haram is something done in nicely with hijab proper covering
so there's no harm in that but you know, don't worry about many details which come about this Okay,
and another women because you don't have any proof really, most of this came from the sources which
are not sound
		

			I never came across this I have written her biography my book
		

			Wafaa base my Nyssa by never come across something like that what you say
		

			okay, just let's take another question which is quite interesting. What what's has more award to
recite the Arabic words of the poor and to read a translation of a certain of a certain Surah or to
read a tafsir of a surah
		

			what actually has a reward is to understand the Quran but that's all that what people need to know
to you Rena, if you know Arabic Irina Arabic, I try to understand if you don't know then see
California from the translation is sometimes hard translation is not clear to you then refer to the
book of the sea. So any effort that you make to understand the Quran, it is really great you get so
much reward for that that what people need to do you know, not reading with ellipsometer that we're
reading music people have got wrong idea people are reading with their lips no reading means to
understand if somebody asked you have you read a book in the grammar, but does not mean you read
		

			with the Lipsy meaning Have you understood it you know, I will not properly to whenever people say
have you read this book or that book in any language meaning understanding be it obligatory on
everybody to make effort to understand the Quran you know, if you cannot understand Arabic try to
understand in the language that you know English or do Persian or Bengali language or body language
any language that you know read in that language is not obligatory for you to notice see, it's gotta
see the human but what Allah says that he needs to understand but sometime Could it be possible that
translation not enough for you? So then you need to go refer to somebody who knows stuffs you or
		

			some teachers they can help you but that's what the obligatory obligatory is to understand the Quran
		

			Okay, let's take a question from Hafsa and her question is if one has neglected neglected pain has
occurred in previous years what is the penalty and how should one correct this
		

			you know, the if people have missed any further for loss or Hautala then they have to do it again
remember and repent. So if somebody has not paid the cost for three, four or five years you have to
count properly and pays the cost of all those years and also repent because you you know you deleted
the watch if you delete your father. Do you have to repent to Allah subhanaw taala to repentance
will be enough and you don't have to pay any penalty just seems a cut to what was the cost to Mr.
Paisa God repent to Allah subhanaw taala
		

			Okay, let's take another question and shall life you just give me one moment
		

			it does seem like we're receiving a lot of questions about mortgage Well, I know chef has discussed
this
		

			extensively so in short if you can have a look at our YouTube channel and look at our previous q&a
is and I'm sure we do have a few videos we've released on this topic Inshallah, now that might be
more helpful. Let's see if we can address another question inshallah.
		

			From rice, his question is, what is what is the Islamic stance on mind reading? How should we look
towards those who claim such actions?
		

			You know, Allah subhanaw, Taala has given actually people writing means to understand things,
		

			but in guessing about something, you know, and then believing in that very dangerous, very, very
dangerous inquiry possible from some sign or from some hints, gestures, you can know really what
you're thinking, but that no proof or that it could be completely opposite of what you think. So
that way, the best thing is, don't make all these efforts. Just be humbled. You know, and slave of
Allah, think about your side don't understand why people have so much worried. What other people you
know, if you are right, Allah will defend you, and nobody can harm you. Simple matter obey Allah,
Allah says, Those who fear me and obey me, I make everything easy for them. I open all the doors for
		

			them, I protect them I save them the door Don't worry, nobody can harm you people can hurt you
little bit. But that's the test for you. You have to do cyber
		

			to Don't worry about reading people's mind and what they're thinking how the backbite and you know,
what they're you know, saying about you and think there's nothing us listing really people who do
all those things, they never can succeed. evildoers never succeed. And Allah Samata admission the
Quran that people who plot unless someone else that plot actually one day will harm them to lie or
he will MACUSA your elaborately evil plotting always harms the people who who plot you know like the
singing in Persian language, cha cha cha cha peche those who give the welfare other people they are
down who go to fall in in the world get in front of them so that no need to waste your time just
		

			think of what is good for you look at your defects YOUR FAULT purify yourself kidding yourself.
There are people you know make effort to find fault in me and defected so I never make any effort to
answer them. I think it really is that loss of Motala you know, he had made me to serve his religion
and then these people are they're just looking after my force and defects what they will get they
will get seen and I'll get reward to some time i feel that i My mind is so much in the elevada and I
do more work to I think I don't do anything good really wireless amatola is helping me so much. To
then it comes to my mind maybe some people are backbiting me, they're hurting me they're harming me.
		

			When people hurt you and harm harm you Oh, you know back bite you you get reward. to Don't worry.
Nobody can harm you. So just a bit think about yourself don't read people's mind did no need for
that. Nothing. You know your need to go to someone else to ask to read your mind. You know who you
are. Unless other one lick ask questions you want easily you can know. It all is useless. Rubbish.
Really? And people who do these things they never succeed. Successful or people who don't who
		

			are right yes. And the Ovilus Motala messenger either the fearless Hautala people who keep looking
after other people's evils they never said never never succeed. To be very careful in this life.
Don't bike a bike don't want to hurt anybody. Don't harm anybody. Just concerned about your own
thing. You will see Allah will help you inshallah.
		

			And I think since 630 Now I think we will enter their challah, exactly how chef for your time and
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