Ahmad Arshad – Discourse At Khanqah #13

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The "by the way" story of Adam and Allah's ordered angels and bow is a journey of control, where one is forced to justify themselves. The "by the way" story of Hayva of subhanahu wa'amala is related to the "by the way" story of the Hayva of subhanahu wa'amala, and the importance of naturality in the heart is emphasized. The "taq wa" term is used to describe a person, and the "taq wa" term is used to describe a person. The importance of naturality in the heart and the need to be very natural and organic are emphasized.

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			One of the ayahs that we just read,
		
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			again, goes back to the creation story of
		
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			the Adam
		
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			and how Allah
		
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			ordered
		
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			all the angels
		
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			and
		
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			as well to bow before
		
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			to bow before.
		
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			This time,
		
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			you're told
		
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			that a shaitan questioned or Iblis
		
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			questioned that,
		
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			why should I be required
		
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			or asked to resist that before the mahlooq
		
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			that you have created from?
		
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			And sticky clay.
		
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			That really goes
		
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			back to the understanding
		
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			of
		
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			theness of whether it's in sign or a
		
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			jinn.
		
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			That it really looks for opportunities
		
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			to
		
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			prove itself to be superior to others.
		
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			We know that it is in love with
		
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			itself.
		
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			And so one of the reasons was that
		
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			the couple
		
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			of Shaitan of Iblis,
		
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			that I am a higher
		
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			superior made from fire.
		
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			And he's
		
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			been created for matter.
		
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			And
		
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			it's a thief, right, Allah
		
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			does not negate that rationale because
		
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			if we think about it, that could be
		
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			true. Right? In the sense that one is
		
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			created from energy, one is able to have
		
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			much more
		
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			power and strength.
		
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			Because of that,
		
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			fire is
		
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			all consuming.
		
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			And
		
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			when you talk about dirt, when you talk
		
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			about, you know, it is it's a humble
		
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			beginning.
		
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			It is matter and it is
		
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			very
		
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			because of that.
		
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			So does not negate that rationality.
		
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			What will Allah does not like is
		
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			the to have this rebellious
		
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			nature,
		
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			to challenge Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. And that
		
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			is exactly what he does. It challenges Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			And so
		
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			I think a couple of days back we
		
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			talked about how the of the that it
		
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			inclines towards
		
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			towards evil,
		
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			towards pleasure.
		
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			And so the process of
		
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			rectifying that, of controlling the nafs, this is
		
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			what we really call the of the nafs.
		
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			And all of these halal and
		
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			that we have been or that
		
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			we have been discussing throughout this Ramadan,
		
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			they are halalat and gafiyat and muqamat of
		
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			the heart and the gass.
		
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			So from one angle, we know that, you
		
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			know, some say that, you know, you start
		
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			with this, let's say,
		
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			to to to to to to to to
		
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			to You know, like, so on and so
		
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			forth.
		
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			So this is a journey
		
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			of control,
		
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			of making your nafs
		
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			submit
		
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			willingly to Allah
		
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			because it does not want control. It doesn't
		
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			want anybody's control.
		
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			It likes to control
		
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			and most of our life it has control.
		
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			Us. And so it's
		
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			it's necessary that we
		
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			learn
		
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			what to do. Because, you know, there are
		
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			2 ways of controlling themselves. 1 is through
		
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			the.
		
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			And through is that you justify yourself in
		
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			terms of what is good and bad for
		
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			you.
		
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			Well, if
		
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			I have this desire and if I go
		
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			out and fulfill it, then it's going to
		
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			result
		
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			in me being notorious, etcetera, etcetera. So you
		
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			convince yourself to not do certain things. It
		
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			doesn't mean that the nudge itself
		
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			has been subdued or has submitted. It's just
		
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			that
		
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			you have made or you have forced
		
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			your uncle to kinda take over your other
		
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			faculties. And this is why when their uncle
		
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			is gone, the control of the nafs is
		
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			gone as well.
		
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			And, you know, the biggest example is a
		
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			lot of, like, the western society is based
		
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			on that. It is a very rational based
		
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			society. And anytime,
		
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			you know, they
		
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			are
		
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			Mhmm. Trump or something else where
		
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			the loses control,
		
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			the loses control as well.
		
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			So
		
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			Allah wants us to really
		
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			focus on the and
		
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			and
		
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			really
		
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			subdue it, submit it on a very organic
		
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			way.
		
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			In a very organic and this is the
		
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			part of the disappear that we
		
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			keep on talking about.
		
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			And it's necessary. And so one of the
		
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			things that I remember we spoke about a
		
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			few days back was this concept of hof
		
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			and.
		
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			So hushu is interesting
		
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			because
		
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			that is related to this submissiveness
		
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			of the nafs.
		
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			Hushu is this
		
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			this calmness within the nafs, this subdueness within
		
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			the nafs.
		
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			When it comes to reverence of somebody else.
		
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			Right? So is that reverent. Remember, we're talking
		
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			about the hayva of
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala. Okay. So if you look
		
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			at all these these these they're very similar
		
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			but with nuanced differences. So taqwa is also
		
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			the sphere of Allah
		
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			But Taqwa is more like consciousness of Allah
		
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			Like this, is consciousness of
		
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			is a general gay fear of reverence.
		
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			It's a general gay fear where
		
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			you make your nafs
		
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			subdued docile
		
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			because of somebody's reference.
		
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			So this is, you know, an an eye
		
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			of the Quran.
		
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			Who had the time not come
		
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			that those who believe the believers
		
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			that
		
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			that, you know, their hearts have Khushu
		
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			or they have the submissiveness
		
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			due to the wick of Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala. And what the haqq whatever haqq has
		
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			been revealed to them.
		
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			So it's it's a question. It's a challenge
		
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			from Allah. Has the time not come yet?
		
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			That, you know, you submit your lives?
		
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			And
		
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			Abdullah ibn Mubarak
		
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			you know, it is said about him that
		
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			he fell in love with some some person
		
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			and that woman said that, you know, come
		
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			and meet me at some place and he
		
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			went there.
		
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			And it was nighttime, and he waited all
		
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			night long.
		
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			And, you know, in the morning, he
		
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			heard this,
		
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			and he said the time has come. It's
		
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			like I wasted so much time in running
		
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			after.
		
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			If I had spent this time in.
		
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			You know, when we talk about this, you
		
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			know, obviously, there's an on our character because
		
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			of that. The character itself become a little
		
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			bit docile and because of the reverence of
		
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			Allah
		
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			being,
		
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			you know,
		
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			of the haywah of Allah
		
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			But it has to be very natural,
		
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			you know, because it's a state of the
		
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			heart that has to come first.
		
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			And the other is a result of that,
		
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			not the other way
		
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			Sometimes we act in a manner that is
		
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			that pretends to be and,
		
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			you know, humble and, you know,
		
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			and and those are just words.
		
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			Those are just words. I mean, that it
		
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			it has to reflect the Hatika. If there's
		
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			a Hatika there, fine. You know, it can
		
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			have an an impact impact and outside it
		
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			influence on you. But if there's no hakika,
		
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			don't even
		
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			don't even,
		
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			you know, don't even do it.
		
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			Don't pretend.
		
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			There's nothing worse than pretending.
		
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			You know, like, bowed down,
		
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			you know, like people do in in humbleness.
		
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			And and said, let's straighten your your neck.
		
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			He said
		
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			is is in the heart,
		
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			not in your neck.
		
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			Right? I mean,
		
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			very straight
		
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			straight. So if it's natural,
		
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			if it's a natural effect
		
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			or a fruit of the the the kushu
		
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			that actually exists,
		
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			then you don't have to force it. You
		
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			don't have to use terminology
		
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			that reflects
		
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			it.
		
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			You don't have to do any of that.
		
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			So no.
		
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			None of these.
		
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			You know, art the subwoof, art the skia.
		
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			You know, it should be very organic and
		
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			natural.
		
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			People use this to differentiate themselves a little
		
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			bit.
		
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			They they use these terminologies to differentiate themselves
		
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			from the others.
		
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			I'm not a worried and murad.
		
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			You know, people like it. Again, that's enough
		
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			talking. It's enough talking.
		
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			So it's we have to we have to
		
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			be very careful of that.
		
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			And so is is is a higher. We
		
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			have we have been asked
		
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			to have in our salah. The
		
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			reverence of Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, clears this
		
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			aspect of hayah, the shyness, this,
		
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			you know, the submissiveness. You know? You know,
		
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			when you have habit of something, you're just,
		
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			you know, it has an other. You know,
		
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			if a lion just comes here, a wild
		
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			one,
		
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			there's a habit of the lion.
		
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			And it's going to have an on our
		
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			on our existence.
		
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			Right? Even it's it's just comes natural. You
		
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			don't have to force it. You don't have
		
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			to say at that time. It will be
		
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			very natural reaction. And
		
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			Allah
		
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			so when that
		
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			then the the author of that is very
		
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			natural. That's why. Okay?
		
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			So that's something, you know, that's it's it's
		
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			a
		
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			Mahmood kafit to have.
		
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			You know, it helps a person to,
		
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			you know, really,
		
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			command of Allah because Allah matters. It keep
		
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			it helps keep an eye on our own
		
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			our own and the insignificance
		
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			of that.
		
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			It helps us keep our own in check,
		
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			our own in check. Right?
		
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			And that is a result of this push.
		
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			So
		
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			when we are making this journey
		
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			of our
		
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			nafs and hoping that, inshallah, it realizes a
		
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			little bit of, you know, we're trying to
		
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			submit it to the will of Allah,
		
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			Hushu is going to play a very important
		
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			role in that.
		
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			And this is what is required so we
		
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			don't look down upon other people. You
		
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			know,
		
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			It's
		
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			very interesting.
		
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			You know, Mit Mitra means to annihilate yourself.
		
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			It's like, go for kid. Annihilate yourself. Annihilate
		
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			yourself. Annihilate yourself.
		
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			If you think that you have annihilated yourself,
		
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			then you still haven't annihilated
		
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			yourself. These
		
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			robbers and, you know,
		
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			on the way, they they they have they
		
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			have robbed you by
		
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			praising you and and making you
		
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			they robbed
		
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			you.
		
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			Pretenses,
		
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			And sometimes, you know,
		
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			I was reading somewhere that there was this,
		
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			you know, there was one one shirk, you
		
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			know, who prayed
		
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			with the
		
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			for 40 years of his life. And then
		
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			one day he was late.
		
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			You know, he did not enter the masjid.
		
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			He did not enter the masjid because he's
		
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			like, oh, what will people say?
		
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			And then he said, oh my god. 40
		
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			years of my life, I have been praying
		
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			for
		
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			Mahlud.
		
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			40 years, I wasted it. So he repeated
		
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			those prayers,
		
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			and that is what Nas does.
		
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			That's
		
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			why it's here.
		
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			In this beautiful month of gifts upon gifts
		
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			in Ramadan.
		
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			We ask
		
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			that gives us
		
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			a taste of hope, keeps us on hope,
		
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			and
		
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			help us control the snubs that
		
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			has really controlled us.